Answering Your Questions About My Relationship, My Past, Healing, Singleness, and More!

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 51

  • @zurirain
    @zurirain Рік тому +32

    The part about not fully being ready and God still bringing the person because He is just good was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing this! 💜

  • @ata.11
    @ata.11 Рік тому +33

    As a person who was single for about two years and a half, I dedicated my singleness to getting to know myself, growing, investing in me, getting closer to God. At the beginning, it was so difficult, and I cried so much, but I also use that time to pray for my husband for myself, and was healed from traumas. I met my husband when I was finally happy being single I enjoyed my singleness, I started going out with my friends a bit more. Before I even went on the first date with my husband, I prayed about it because I wasn't sure I wanted to be in a relationship. But we took it slow and we got to know each other. I too waited until marriage to be intimate and to move in with him. I just got married in November of last year just a month shy of turning 29. I can honestly say it was all worth it doing things God's way.❤
    Also we need a collab with Sadie🙏🏻💖

  • @miraenadominguez1496
    @miraenadominguez1496 Рік тому +13

    About the speaking part, you not speaking with giant fancy words and stumbling over words is what makes you relatable and comfortable to receive a message from!!💗

  • @Savsav75
    @Savsav75 Рік тому +6

    I felt so convicted when you said you stop trying to create my own love story! Thank you!💕

  • @hopeolivia590
    @hopeolivia590 Рік тому +9

    also ! FACTS on trying to manipulate and force your own situations! it's always best when its God's way. no use trying to force something not in his timing. His way is SO much better!!! lots of love xxx

  • @positivelypurposeful8522
    @positivelypurposeful8522 Рік тому +8

    I love your view on trauma and being healed! I used to be so discouraged because I heard that I had to be “fully healed” to be in a relationship. But now, I know that I may never be fully healed, but that we can work through our wounds together. And you are the first person I’ve ever heard share this view. Thanks for making this podcast episode!

  • @michellekars5200
    @michellekars5200 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this !!!
    I am from South Africa 🇿🇦 My husband and I got married when I was 19 years old , we are now married next week for 11 years!!!! And I can completely agree with your ways God is our first Love and we also waited for marriage and I moved in after the wedding so this is so so true ❤️
    My husband is in New Zealand for a month now and I am flying in 25 days if God was not our centre this would have been so hard but because this is also a God planned move it feels like a new beginning and we have founded a new stonger Love for each other ❤
    Blessed beyond measure
    Keep it up girl 💕

  • @megw5464
    @megw5464 Рік тому +11

    My Tuesday just got waaay better! Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 🥰💗

  • @nashaliecalderon570
    @nashaliecalderon570 Рік тому +2

    Wow Thanks for this💕 I know God call me to speak in this generation and specially in social media and it is so hard for me, to put myself out there, but listening to this has helped me understand why I have to thanks God bless you ❤️

  • @jdchickster
    @jdchickster Рік тому +3

    I think you’re an amazing speaker ; you have a great mind Jeannine . I’ve never once thought that you’re not a perfect speaker. But it’s easy to compare. Don’t be so tough on yourself.

  • @sophiawu4128
    @sophiawu4128 8 місяців тому

    Hey, thanks for sharing! I'm in my early 30s and still single. Checked out your videos, and they really hit home. You've got that divine anointing, no doubt. Totally on board with the idea that only God can write our love story, in His time and way. The wait is never easy. I tried to manipulate things to catch my crush's eye, but it was a bust. God just reminded me to loosen up and let Him steer the ship, which isn't exactly my usual move. Pray for more faith and I'm excited to see my love story unfold one day:)

  • @GirasolVintage
    @GirasolVintage Рік тому +4

    On the subject of speaking, I do feel like God called you to speak, preach, minister. Every skill will naturally evolve with practice but I think you’re doing pretty good for now. 36:56

  • @anikasamuel3945
    @anikasamuel3945 Рік тому +9

    I can't wait to listen this, just a couple seconds in and I know it'll be good😊

  • @KierstenAbernathy
    @KierstenAbernathy Рік тому +7

    YAY TO THE SIGN BEING BACK! :)

  • @karalynnlovison1998
    @karalynnlovison1998 Рік тому +2

    Dope! A Christian speaker I can finally vibe with

  • @melissaalvarez7653
    @melissaalvarez7653 Рік тому +1

    Good morning! Thank you for sharing this with us love ya!

  • @KierstenAbernathy
    @KierstenAbernathy Рік тому +4

    Happy Tuesday to the happy and healthy podcast!! :) excited to dig into this episode!

  • @julianyr1348
    @julianyr1348 Рік тому

    I WATCH THE WHOLE EPISODE AND THANK YOU JEANINE FOR SHARING! 🤍✨

  • @EsiriE
    @EsiriE Рік тому +33

    You mentioned how before you met Kaleb you thought you’d be that person who is 30 and unmarried.
    I just want to say that there’s *nothing* wrong with being 30 and unmarried because everyone’s different and has their own path. There’s a time for everything.
    From little comments you make I still feel you have a slight fear/discomfort surrounding your 30’s. I think we should all pray for peace surrounding this because 30 isn’t old at all. God can/will use you, you’re still valuable and you’re still worthy despite anyones current situation (unmarried/married, children/no children etc) at that point.
    Anyways, I’m enjoying the podcast so far ☺️ I’m listening to the audio but just came to comment.

    • @mco6533
      @mco6533 Рік тому +5

      I’m over 50 & single. And I strongly desire marriage. I am divorced before I was a Christian. But I agree with you. Ladies and men, you can honor God in purity and all ways single at any age. And I pray He brings my husband but, I’m also living an extremely fulfilling life for Him & His Kingdom! Love this episode J!

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE Рік тому +1

      @@mco6533 I pray God grants you your hearts desires. He knows best 🙏🏾❤️

    • @mco6533
      @mco6533 Рік тому +1

      Thank you so very much…you just made my day. One prayer….will hope in the Lord & He can do more than we’d ever think or imagine. My name is Kelly (M.O.. are y dog Marley’s initials that passed last year)…..waiting for my husband is so painful yet, sanctifying. I’ll pray for you too.

    • @HappyandHealthyPodcast
      @HappyandHealthyPodcast  Рік тому +8

      Amen ❤❤ thanks for the reminder!!!

    • @paulmartin5424
      @paulmartin5424 Рік тому

      ​@@HappyandHealthyPodcast I'm also a Christian amen yes I have backslided from time to time hated god but when I gave my life to god it was so impowering going back to church this Sunday amen ✝️✝️✝️👍🙏✝️ keep pressing on Sister in Christ amen

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 Рік тому +1

    I agree with how you said that there not perfect to heal, healing is a journey ❤🙏🏼

  • @oliviadietz3802
    @oliviadietz3802 Рік тому

    So thankful for this podcast

  • @hopeolivia590
    @hopeolivia590 Рік тому +2

    defo love the longer form podcast!! thank you so much! PREACH: you are opening your mouth for the Lord and being obedient that's what he loves and whether you know it or not your gifts in articulating yourself and saying stuff how it really helps and impacts people I'm SURE.

  • @Danimij
    @Danimij Рік тому +2

    Was excited for this one because I love Q&A’s! Your lighting, sweater, and neon sign all go together so well on this vid. - also wanted to say that after you mention Joyce Meyer you, and anyone else reading, should know that she is a false teacher unfortunately. I encourage you to watch videos on why she is and learn more about her teachings and why they actually go against God. I used to watch her everyday and thought she was amazing- but not anymore.

  • @nataliablake9810
    @nataliablake9810 Рік тому

    Ahh love this

  • @arbretree5463
    @arbretree5463 Рік тому

    Stay blessed

  • @yeseniapelico
    @yeseniapelico Рік тому

    Love your videos! Thank you for your advice❤️ also we have the same birthday 😆

  • @lindsayjoan6589
    @lindsayjoan6589 Рік тому +1

    Me, 36 and single, listening to the references of being old, and being “30 and single” 😳 😭

  • @jess-dl4lw
    @jess-dl4lw Рік тому +1

    the sticky braaaaa LOL you’re so funny love ya ❤️

  • @pisicacutecat4869
    @pisicacutecat4869 Рік тому

    I'm 4 1/2 years older than my husband. It's never been a problem for us. My husband and I just celebrated our 17th wedding anniversary on April 3rd. I always knew that I would marry someone younger than me.

  • @plant-basedpuertorican7272
    @plant-basedpuertorican7272 Рік тому +1

    Great advice but how about some rapid fire questions also?

  • @anikasamuel3945
    @anikasamuel3945 Рік тому

    Could you give the name of the app you use to help with understanding scripture please?

  • @Alyseshelby
    @Alyseshelby Рік тому +1

    Not us saying Walmart at the same time hahahaha❤️

  • @stephanietaylor-white9135
    @stephanietaylor-white9135 Рік тому

    Hey Jeanine, im in a tough love triangle i cannot get out. Because i had faced peer pressure in middle school. A boy i had liked he had a crush on me and a few girls set me up with a flirty note they made me write in a flirty way. I did and ended up with detention and had to eat my freaking lunch in the main office like it wasn’t me. Then in Highschool i was inappropriately grabbed, the boy had touched my behind, bit my ladies and forced me to make out. This whole thing is too overwhelming honestly. Is there any advice for me to have this new crush i have on my school bus.

    • @jenny_g23
      @jenny_g23 Рік тому

      You need to be straight-forward with him and explain that you did not consent to any of that. Hopefully he apologizes. If not, there's nothing wrong with reporting him. Who knows how many other women he's done that to.

  • @julianyr1348
    @julianyr1348 Рік тому +1

    P.s. the first thing that I saw when I started the video was the “&” 🤣😝

  • @jalesa7961
    @jalesa7961 Рік тому +1

    Yep def met people who were on birth control for years then were unable to have kids later. Yikes. I believe it’s related.

  • @courtneybell9647
    @courtneybell9647 Рік тому +19

    What’s wrong with being 30 and single? 😢

    • @angieb5704
      @angieb5704 Рік тому +2

      She didn't want to be "that girl" who was 30 and "washed up" by the sounds of it. So rude.

    • @MARIO_Miiii
      @MARIO_Miiii Рік тому +2

      Remember there is NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. idk why ppl act like it’s a bad thing

    • @shady1234shady
      @shady1234shady Рік тому +8

      I don’t think she is saying that it’s bad to be 30 and single. However it can be a gut wrenching pain to be single when you know you want a partner. Also the older you get your choices narrow more

    • @lauraquinton302
      @lauraquinton302 Рік тому +1

      that's what I'm wondering. the delivery in saying "that girl" .......

    • @victoriahamilton2823
      @victoriahamilton2823 Рік тому

      Try36!

  • @kaity6933
    @kaity6933 Рік тому +1

    Are you guys engaged? I thought you were dating but you talk like it's engagement. EXCTING!