Wife Killer Unmasked: The Family Man Who Almost Got Away WIth Murder | Real Crime
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- Опубліковано 25 тра 2019
- An insight into the mind of Mitchell Quy, convicted and sentenced to life imprisonment in January 2001 for the murder of his wife, Lynsey, who had disappeared in December 1998. The prime suspect at the time, Mitchell Quy had always protested his innocence, claiming his wife had left him. Quy even made televised appeals for the return of his wife.
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What a sociopath, no remorse but a constant smirk on his face.
When he was smirking listening to that phone message, you just know but he did something to her.
Alena has has no o mom I I I I I I I o
There's a name for that, it's called dupers delight.
You mean psychopath
Is he an actor or the real killer?
Being a wife, a mother, a daughter, a grandaughter, a sister, a friend and no one, NO ONE but a worried social worker reported her missing after 53 days! 😯😦
It's unbelievable. Everyone seems to care a lot about her....after it was to late. Poor girl.🥺
I know! It’s unbelievable!! So sad!!! 😪
I do wonder why the Mother and Dad didn’t say anything earlier too
they isolate you, abusers make sure you have no one but them
Someone needs to understand this boy probably put her in a situation so that if her family came saw her or contacted her or she contacted them she suffered greatly for it. Do not condemn. These type of people are unreal. Unless you have been in that situation you have no clue.
If a guy beats on you RUN.. no second chances.. he will NEVER stop .. RIP Lynsey
A abused women is threatened when she trys to run
Or they run, and go back like 10x, and get beat every time, and then get murdered and it’s like “they didn’t see it coming”. It’s frustrating to watch/hear.
@@diaryofarealmom3264 Yes very few times will they stay away from their abuser..
What is it? Do they need love so bad? Do they not want to be alone?
Self respect is nothing that is for sure
Not that simple trust me from first hand experience and witnessing it first hand
@@diaryofarealmom3264 they are far more likely to be killed when they leave or when they try to leave
He’s so smug and smiley. His guilt is so obvious when he talks. You know the cops saw right through it, they just needed evidence.
It was too obvious it was so obvious it was like he was smacking people in the face cuz he was such a liar he was so narcissistic he just wanted attention and wanted to be in the camera
He remind me of Chris Watts trifling self
This smirk on his face *THE ENTIRE INTERVIEW* is pissing me off!
creepiest thing I've seen in a while, and I regularly watch true crime videos.
@@jayw9353 EXACTLY!!! I watch all the time too & this got to me *BADDD*
@Sonny’s big sister Beeski right!!!
@Robert Gardea *WTF* are you talking about dude, you sound stupid honestly ....
it's definitely a face you want to smack
When your friend gives u a note saying "please help me" and you dont...you failed her. They all did. Awful. Disgusting.
And then she goes missing for over fifty days! Come on!
They all should’ve helped when she verbally asked for it. Instead they were just aggravated that she got back with him and said you’re on your own. All because they didn’t get to talk for a few months the last time she tried. If she was scared or aggravated there should’ve been a family intervention. Women like that are damaged and can’t think straight after going through stuff like that. They shouldn’t have placed so much blame on her at the time. Have empathy!
I think I won’t blame them because she took him back over and over they reached the boiling point last time she went back with him and they get pushed away no one will come near if u stood up with u but u let them down by taking him back over and over also no one knew that’s her death is coming
@@alexredeemed I agree with you. They didn't murder her. They helped her get out multiple times and then were treated like sh.t when she'd get back with him, because she and he threw them wanting her to leave back in their faces as not supporting of her choice to go back to him. They all had a responsibility for those innocent children though. They knew those kids were in an abusive household. Experiencing abuse on your mother is abuse and they would have seen it all there and these people did nothing to get them out. They weren't adults. Lynsey let her kids down too.
We don't know the full story. There could have been a logical explanation. Could have.
"Your conscience will destroy you"
That's the thing. He hasn't got any.
Yeah he would have been laughing on the inside at them thinking he cared and would feel guilty. He loves himself too much to see anyone else.
Exactly what I thought as well.
These murderers don't have a conscience...nothing bothers them at all..nothing.
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why not just get a divorce
SAD FACT: The younger brother 'Peter Wilson Jr', who was said to be most devastated by loss of sister, is said to have committed suicide by hanging himself a few months after case was closed, in 2001, he was found by his father and then pregnant fiancè was in the house too. He had hinted the following words to his father, "Life is not worth living without my sister, might as well join Lyndsey". Wow! What a sad, sad story.
Police need to keep a close eye on Mitchell Quy's brother, as he helped move her body parts which makes him a dangerous psychopath too.
I am a bit late 🙂 but i Totally agree especially as it seems as though he was the only one in his family he got on with. "Birds of a feather"
He was convicted and put in jail, too. It was told in the video.
Where's the parents who raised them?
his brother was a butcher and he helped his brother dismember her
@@anitacraighead7038 yea, but only for 7 years.... Sick!
11:45 The way he said he wouldn't "piss on her of she was on fire" proves his distain for her in that moment I can tell he is cold blooded killer and I can't imagine how scared she must have been
She knew he was going to kill her
Agreed! And when he said, "No one knows what happened that day but me." Umm, guilty!
He really said"fucking, me having to do this, her leaving me with the kids and all this, I wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire" and smirked. And then sent just for men to the lead detective on his case. Fucking sicko
That's exactly what I thought too
That monster should be arrested right there when he said that statement because he hated her... I wish he rots in prison and his brother too. Linsey rests in the Kingdom and Glory of God beautiful Angel... :(
Dam,,,, he chopped her up !! his brother only got 7 years for helping he will be out in maybe 4 or 5 years his brother should have gotten more time
The sister said oh one day hes gonna kill you after he smashed up the door and the family is fine not seeing her or the kids for 53 days..nobody cared about her enough
She kept making the decision to return to him. They tried to help her numerous times over the years. You can’t blame everyone else for her decisions.
@@wintersantiago2274 please stop victim blaming ... she was already death ... It was all the killer fault not her ... She done nothing wrong ... Even if she make a stupid decision that doesn't mean the killer should murder her or her family should stop caring about her after she gone missing for 53 days ...
@@jirou6228 I’m not victim blaming.
@@jirou6228 Its not victim blaming to say the family isn't at fault. The family did as much as they could for a while but eventually it got to draining for them to continue. Sometimes you have to step back from someone that is in a toxic and abusive relationship because 1. There's nothing you can do and 2. It's having to much of an impact on you or others. Sometimes you have to cut the line and hope they make it out ok.
Right! It’s a horrible tragedy for them now that she’s gone, but they could have stepped in and done something to intervene!!
'She's left me with the kids and made me do this, I wouldn't pass on her if she was on fire' as he steams a shirt for committing fraud.
What an absolutely disgusting human being.
Lol I thought he said “ I wouldn’t piss on her shoes if they were on fire” LOL
@@wishgodgirl1903 sorry typo he definitely said piss!
Jessica Holden that comment is so sickening, but also it’s like, yeah no shit you wouldn’t, you killed her you fuck wit. Just shows how much he hated her really, like your wife’s missing and you’re going around saying you wouldn’t even try to save her if she was on fire in front of you. That’s not normal sicko.
Jess Holden You have a very poor command of the English language.
@@gracefullikeagazelle why, because she mistyped 1 letter? u do realize,anyhow, that many people who are on youtube dont have english as their 1st language?? do you feel better and think your shit doesnt stink, to write such a bitchy comment to @Jess Holden? you arent that special love. get down off of that high horse before you hurt your precious self. douche bag.
God... he's so bloody arrogant; it's sickening
See how arrogant he is in prison. I hope his cell mate is gay and mean.
Duper's delight. Awful character.
@@babytaz4u21963 LMAO aaahh that made me laugh so hard. I agree
Susie C 😂😂😂
@@babytaz4u21963
Men like that sort of thing, that's a pleasure to many. They want their girlfriends and wives to do it too. It's no longer a punishment, it what they like. So stop saying it's a punishment.
Never seen such a detailed taping of events of a murderer
as soon as he opened his mouth multiple alarm bells started ringing in my head
I don't understand how the family and friends went 53 days without hearing from her and it was the social worker who filed a missing persons report. Did I miss something?
@Cathy L You're probably right just strange. I would think mom would call or come.
what a society?
simone hardy I don’t understand that, either...especially at Christmas.
@@sandygrogg1203 Yes, especially at Xmas.
I was abt 11 years in her situation. He made me abandoned my family thinking it must be ashamed someone knew how bad my life was. I'd rather do suicidal attempts than seek a help. Plz don't blame wrong people before you're in their shoes. Their life will never be the same any more
"Do you have any idea what _I've_ gone through, do you have any idea how _I_ felt"
Ffs this guy is an absolute monster.
The phone call message sounds like Mitchell. I wouldn’t put it past him to leave himself a message and get a kick out of it.
From experience, unfortunately, I completely understand why the family kept a distance from the situation. Her sister even said it, the one time she intervened, they had a falling out for months. Not only does the person being abused, seem to take the abuser’s side, but they continuously ask for help and shelter, putting you and others in harms way to save them, just for them to go back to said abuser. To avoid the stress, feeling used and seeing them put the abuser first, even before their children/family, you just fall back and separate yourself from a situation. You cannot do anything to save someone who for themselves and their children doesn’t seem to want to save themselves.
@@valerierodger7700 true that👍
It is obviously very difficult to watch someone you love remain in a difficult and horrible pattern but to say they don’t want to leave the situation isn’t always fair or understanding of their situation. Someone being abused is often deeply manipulated, controlled and so broken emotionally by the abuser such that they can’t even think of what they want. They are living each day , each minute just trying to keep their heads above water. No one wants to be abused but being in that situation often causes emotional paralysis such that the person being abused has an extremely difficult time amassing the confidence to figure a way out
Kids at the end singing like that is truly a joy but my heart inside is crying. Unbelievable sickining tragedy.
he can even kill his own children!!! they should be placed with their grandparents!!!...He feels NOTHING!!!
Thank goodness for the CARING social worker!
That's the problem of marrying a man after barely know him in weeks.
No reference of his character from his family to his friends who knew him for years
Oh my God I was just saying this like why do women get any situations like this you don't even know the person.
He’s a psychopath, he can do no wrong, seeing his wife’s picture everyday is t going to help, cause he doesn’t care,
he has no conscience
They ALL FAILED HER!!!!
They sure did Rusty.
😢
Such a common story. Family members failing each other.
Rubbish. She failed herself. And her kids. The buck stops with YOU and the choices YOU make.
Nope. Not her family, her family isn't responsible to help her every time she needs it especially when they know she's just going to return to her abuser. I'm not saying it's the victims fault but its also not the fault of the family. People like the victim might be cut off from their family members and that's ok. The family members are looking out for themselves and deciding not to get involved in a situation that drains them constantly. Those family members have their own lives and eventually it gets to a point where there is nothing you can really do. The pattern continues and its draining in every way that you just cant continue without destroying yourself in the process.
He just can't keep that smile off his face at all.
Duper's delight
Yes because he’s sure he’s fooling everyone....
A narcissistic sociopath....
...he's a happy lil' fella, til he finally hits the slammer !😑
Duping delight
It is sickening
It's so obvious, he smiles while talking about Lindsay. He's even trying to hold from grinning ear to ear.
What family does that, I have to talk to my parents and siblings if not every day, every couple of days.
Don't cry when they're dead, treasure the time whilst still alive
Sometimes you have to cut ties despite not wanting to because its affecting you and everyone around you. The family should not be shamed for realizing they arent going to be able to help the victim and backing off.
Hes so arrogant. He loves all the attention. He smiles and laughs everytime the attention goes his way. Hes still angry about the abortion...not because of the baby, but because she made a decision against him. He got even later. He got her pregnant again, made sure she had the baby..then killed her. All his plan from the very beginning. Her family is gonna pay for their decision too. Noone tried to help her one more time!! Noone acted like it was serious when they knew it was.
I agree. A typical malignant narcissist. Red flags no significent family members at his wedding. I tried to think of a positive comment to make but all I could think of was how much I'd like to smash his face in. Poor little children but at least beautiful Lyndsey had a loving family they can go to. May her dear soul R.I.P. 🌸
he killed her because she wanted a divorce and he strangled her
@@charliecharlton9782 5
I think Scott Peck would say this ia an example of 'malignant narcissism'.
In other words, a cold, self-centred, and arrogant bastard - willing to use or destroy everyone he touched.
And Lynsey, out of loneliness, got trapped - and killed. So very sad.
Yes he did, an innocent person wouldn't act like him smiling, gloating, etc... and not much of a law letting him be near children. Have a Psycologist check him out. Even if they weren't getting along, he shows no emotion at all for the mother of his children. Those poor kids.
@Candi Lease What about the oldest child. She’s not even his, so why did her parents not take that one, at least?
Even the family shows there love when you are gone...😢53days and no one called her to check up on her? What a damn shame
Especially after she'd already asked them for help.
She was alone and vulnerable, he knew it, that's why he targeted her in the first place.
I can’t even lie to my husband when I spend an extra $100 while shopping. How on earth does one chop up another human being and continuously lie about it? He makes me want to vomit!
You have a conscious. He does not.
why would your husband care what you spend?
but agree
@@pinkpugginz A lot of couples share a bank account and finances for bills and spending money.
The mother & sister are not much better, to get a note, PLEASE HELP ME & do nothing, sickening! Also they failed to report her missing & left it up to a social worker.
-You make it sound simple. Putting them in the same category as that scumbag is callous. It's blindingly obvious that they have regrets but at the end of the day we all have free will. -The only one to blame is Mitchell.
Maybe don’t be so quick to blame them. When someone is a toxic relationship it inevitably pushes people who do love them away. To paraphrase the victim’s sister, “I can’t interfere because the last time I did, it came back on me”. What’s not said is implied, because they both knew it, but it’s this: “And you’re back with him anyway, aren’t you? So what good would it do anyway?” Of course they regret not intervening now, but at the time it’s sadly all too easy to understand why that didn’t.
@@CornbreadOracle Domestic violence is a viscous cycle!!!
My cousin has a man that beats her she has asked for help we help her and she goes right back one time we helped her when she didn't ask us to because he had threw a BBQ grill at her and her face was so messed up so my cousin beat his ass we put him out and she called the police on us and sent her own cousin to jail I said all that to say this you can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved we tried and she is still with him it's not always the families fault
Cathy L 👏👏👏
I was appalled to learn that neither family nor friends reported her missing. But then when I learned that it was during the Christmas season, I was gobsmacked! Shame on them all. God help us all.
Especially when the last communication with her was her asking for help
@@valerierodger7700 they helped many times and she kept going back. I’m sure they feel guilty but how were they to know...
Not their fault. It's the familys job to constantly be helping her when she chooses to go back despite the families warnings. It takes a lot of effort to help someone in such a situation that eventually if you know in the end the cycle will just continuously repeat itself, you have to leave. Continue on with your life.
Its crazy after her giving them a note that said "help me" that they hadn't reported her missing and let 53 days go by?
They can cry now
I can’t believe they Ignored the crying out for help it’s petty clear they like the attention from social media
The flowers are as dead as Lindsey is. Seems like he takes a sick delight in leaving them there as a joyful reminder....
I noticed that too yea
".....a week later we're engaged. A week later after that a wedding was set."
*ALL RED FLAGS!!!!*
Too fast....
No family at the wedding? *ANOTHER* big red flag.
Two words for all of you:
Background. Check.
That all depends on the people involved... I have personal experience with a quick engagement, quick wedding with no family, had a baby all within the first 13 months. We will be celebrating our eighth anniversary November 7. What works for some doesn’t work for all.
@@nonamesjustopinions6984 happy early anniversary
It would be nice if we would have those background checks like the US have. In europe its all about privacy rights and thats really hard to get any chance to see if someone has dirt under his rugs
I agree but background checks don’t show everything it happened to me I actually drove to his old town and talked to victim advocate she couldn’t tell me anything but she very strongly verbally told me thank goodness you got away. These overt and covert narcissists are awful to deal with including getting them out of your life, exhausting.
It is easy to let the devil into your life but hard to get rid of him/her!
My Gawd! The saddest story ever. 😢😢Unfortunately DOMESTIC VIOLENCE is real and often the violent partner is UNDERESTIMATED. Never put off tomorrow, what you MUST do today. Call the police, and leave with them immediately. Never look back because it only gets worse. 🙏's for anyone that is going through this.
Even his daughter calling her mom Lindsey shows how he brainwashed them to think that’s Lindsey but not their mom. So sad 😞
My heart sank when I heard it. I'm sure he had alot to do with it.
Your daughter and sister gives you a note that says please help me!!! And you tell her to handle it herself....i mean come on...😥
It's probably just a fabricated part of the story they say to make him sound guilty. Even though he obviously is.
@@travismiller1491 dude 😑 the ignorance is strong with you
@@pinkpugginz okeh
@@travismiller1491 you are crazy
They were probably sick and tired of her asking for help. Then going back to him.
His children will resent him SO MUCH when they grow up and learn about the Truth. He may think it’s all a big joke now but he will be all by himself and his lies then...
DISPICABLE MAN
Wow! What a fine example of what the real Britain is like. No one helped that poor girl. She was just 21yo with 2 kids and an abusive partner. No one gave a damn about her wellbeing. She had two parents and other family and friends but she was still left to fend for herself. It's heartbreaking.
No one Helped the Baby she Killed either
If you are in a violent, and/or controlling relationship, you never tell that you are leaving!
You walk away and never, ever look back!
You don't agree to"one last meeting"!
If my sister ask for help i help her no mattes what Im glad i have no sister like her,s. POOR FAMILY NOW THEY CRY.RIP BEAUTYFULL LINDSEY.
Heidrun Knoedler If my sister had handed me a note like thst...I woukd have moved heaven snd earth to help her...
Thats great..i dnt have sisters...2 brothers who couldnt call my husband when I miscarried and ws in hospital.Refused to pick me from work at 1.am,refused to drop me to airport at dawn hrs.😄 Refused to come visit.Refused to come see me when I was goin through depression amd divorce😆
If someone hands you a note saying please help me, immediately call 999 or your country’s equivalent.
Edit: Silence is violence. . . agreed. If you even suspect someone you love is being abused hang on for dear life. Abusers step one is isolation.
A Snowflake:THANK YOU!You hit the nail on the head!Simple & succinct.
A Snowflake You can bet Thst my husband would have seen to it Thst whoever hurt his precious daughter paid..and he woukd have gotten her to safety.
You can’t make them leave the person. I know someone who was killed along with the infant. She stayed.
When an abused victim goes back to an abuser many times again, friends and family start ignoring her, it’s like “a boy who cried wolf” effect, unfortunately and so tragically
@@valerierodger7700 why didn't she contact the police herself instead of putting it on her sister? Her and her sister had just been out shopping, she could have easily and safely contacted the police during that outing but she didn't. If you're not willing to help yourself then don't expect others to help you.
“Silence is violence” I love this!
What's so amazing to me is he is doing these home movies professing his innocence all the while the viewers are not believing a word of it. That takes a real sociopath.
This man called a t.v. station to have an interview. Just like Chris Watts.
Chris Watts didn't call for an interview, he just accepted the offer of doing the interviews when asked. Shanann's Mom told him not to do the interviews bc he was the #1 suspect and it didn't look good for him. And like she said, "thank god he didn't listen." Chris Watt's ability to lie pales in comparison to this guy. Both pieces of shit.
And Scott Peterson.
This guy didn't kill his babies, what he did is terrible but CW is next level evil compared to this dude
@@FM-jo1jh yess i mean i can understand you hate your partner hate can make u do stupid thing but at least he didn't kill his children
Gtg married after 5weeks of knowing each other. Crazy. Madness
34:42. The interviewer asks if he did kill her. Now watch how he pokes his tongue out at the question, but worse, actually nods his head YES!
Nikki D They body never lies.
Yes absolutely major give away a clear nod an animal
Plus he said, wait and find out😐and he said it twice
What a shame that so many people knew she was suffering and she even ASKED FOR HELP. And not one single person, not one single ‘friend’ nor family member helped her. What an absolute shame. Idk how they sleep at night but I hope it isn’t restful. RIP precious girl. I pray they have a beautiful reunion in Heaven one day.
A man who smokes cigarettes like he does, thinks he’s hot stuff. Watch out for those ones.
@Joshua Sheldon Men like that think they are hot and THE MAN. They are immature, narcissistic and mean. Every woman knows at least one man like that.
@Joshua Sheldon this is literally majority of immature men. I wouldn't even date a person who smokes. Also their skin start to smell and look awefull after certain years. I am not even talking about their mouth ughh it's disgusting
Such a heartbreaking story.
Those poor children will grow up knowing that everyone failed their mother when she needed them the most.
May she R.I.P.
😂🙄
She asked for help and she was ignored.
There’s no way I could walk away from anyone that asked for my help!
As many times as it takes!
I would never give up on my family!
I’m guessing YOU would!
How pathetic!
@@tammypetruzzi9367
Calm down and look. You will see they did respond and support her. She kept choosing to go back, to return, to stay. Her choice.
Friends and family responded with support when she left him, but they backed off when she returned to him each time.
Maybe one day she would have been able to choose to leave him permanently..... but sadly he killed her before she was able to decide to leave for good.
Ok Karen 🙄
It is pretty amazing how convincing these psychos can be. It is usually that finality that causes these abusers to flip. It’s best to keep any plans that don’t include them very secret. The priority needs to be getting away, and building up those walls to prevent a return. It’s so important for friends, and family to stick by too. As frustrating as it is to watch them go back time, and time again...that is the nature of the beast. Support them, and don’t turn your back. That is what saved me. He tried so hard to isolate me from my family, and friends. They didn’t let him.
Hoi ik kan het niet lezen de Engelse berichtje, s zou u jij dit in Nederlandse kunnen Vertalen
@@saritabron2472 I only see your Dutch translated 😢
To be asked to help, and deny it; to be handed a note pleading for help, and ignore it. Then acting all concerned once a near total stranger reports her missing fifty three days after those things happened! No, this family should be completely ashamed of themselves.
So agree, unbelievable and unthinkable when no help arrived. He father saying we just let them get on with it - why sure wasn’t contacted or seen during Christmas. 🤦🏽♀️
I hope her family does better with her kids than they did with her.
Wow this guy is just vomit inducing ... so obvious that even his talking about his kids is complete bs..I'd bet the only reason he ever cared about the kids was because he wanted benefits or something...so quick to say that he'd better be compensated for being bothered by the police ..ugghh...disgusting to say the least
Some ppl shouldn’t procreate that’s for sure....
Rapunzal N1: I Couldn't have said it better myself,it is really sickening! as you said," to say the least "
well he did get compensated he got a 3by8 cell hopefully with bubba.
This is unbelievably sad. It's good that he was eventually held accountable. I can't imagine how afraid and trapped she must have felt.
Listen @35:30 ......
Father: "We shouldn't have done what we did. We shoulda gon' around and seen what was happening. And he wouldn't have been able to get away with what he's gotten away with...."
Mother: "It's not just us that stopped going...all her other friends stopped going as well".
He's trying to take responsibility for his neglect and she's trying to shift the blame off herself to save her image. YOU are the parent and YOU failed your daughter *TERRIBLY*. Accept it.
Very common in DV cases. The perpetrator is so horrible to friends and family they gradually drift away.
“I didn’t do that” 😅😀 This heartless man literally smiled the entire interviews. What a piece of work. Not one tear shed.
I dont understand how the police here worked. Didnt they use luminol when they searched his place , they would have found some old blood stains in or near the bathtub where he dismembered that poor girl . I dont think dismemberment is clean , there would have been blood all over . Even after 53 days , i think it would have been possible to find traces of blood. Very sad 😢
ed4 all They really did not do a good job...
The police did such a terrible job that by letting this guy run loose, he gained confidence that he was going to get away with it, rubbing it in the faces of the family.
They could have used luminol, but it would probably have been compromised. Most cleaning products will destroy/contaminate blood. Perhaps laws are different in the UK too. Without a body, it's impossible to definitively prove she was killed and not strictly "just" missing. Maybe probable cause laws are different in the UK?
@@steppy3736 bleach nor any other cleaning product doesn't remove blood completely. You wouldn't be able to gleen DNA from the area but luminol would highlight the old blood. Most killers miss all traces of blood, too. But if there were evidence of massive blood loss, they might be able to determine no one could survive that.
@@TheTrishalyn I agree with you. But I don't know the evidentiary requirements in the UK. Is seeing cleaning up marks from luminol enough to get him arrested? He could argue that all the luminol showed was evidence that some blood had been cleaned up in that tub - anything from a cut shaving to menstrual blood. This is the first I've heard of this case, and I don't really know the laws in the UK. Here in the US, different states have different evidentiary requirements. Here in the States, the cops would be able to look around the home of a missing person, but without just cause they can't just walk in and spray luminol.
I was married to a narcissist for 20 years I praise the Lord I didn't end up as Lindsey did only because of Jesus Christ my heart goes out to this family that has lost their daughter May the grace of God in the love of God be with you
on 9/11/99.. 2 yrs before *the* 9/11.. newly married without provocation my hb threw me to floor and with his boot kicked me repeatedly in head. I went to hospital, and he to jail. Thus began a cycle of abuse & abandonment~behind closed doors but never in front of my 3 children from first marriage Until in the third year, during one of 'honeymoon' phase of reconciliation my youngest was born. But i could not bear to subject her to the same endless cycle so when she was just 6 mos old i fled with nothing but my children, moved 3000 mis away.. got a restraining order, started over and never looked back. It took a toll on my health~but my "baby" is now almost 18, a senior in HS & still shines like a diamond on that heap of ashes:) If you are reading or can relate to this, value the peace in your life! Neither you nor your child should have to live in fear~you all deserve a safe, stable home and your children need the consistent focused attn of at least one parent
@Jack Shite awww the smear campaign. My ex narc husband told everyone he could that I was sleeping with a boys our sons age, sleeping with my daughters best friends MOM, used all our money on POT. Told our adult children that I’d been cheating on him since 6 months into our 25+ marriage. I was 6 months pregnant the first 6 months of our marriage!
Pathetic people. I did not react at all. Even while telling everyone what a horrible wife, mother, I was, he was trying to get me back home & stop divorce proceedings.
You dodged a bullet!
@Jack Shite thank you so much!
I'm so sorry jack 😞 may the Lord be with you always
God did protect you by the power of His name!
*When they said the little girl asked her grandmother to find her mommy, it broke my heart.*
Who needs enemies when you have a family like that
This guy is unreal. So smug and laughing as he talks about his ‘missing’ wife. He reminds me of juran van der sloot in the Natalie Holloway case. Guilty to the core.
And then did it again to another girl.
@Sonny’s big sister Beeski ~ No. Juren van der Sloot. Natalie Holloway case.
Apparently she wasn't as well loved by her family as their tearful portraits would like use to believe.
They knew she was back with a man, who in the past, had been violent and abusive.
Almost two months without contact!
Give me a break.
How much effort is it to place a call or visit her home?
Agreed! She hands her sister a note that says help me and they dont do a thing???? I'd gone back in there and threatened his life! I promise!!
Again...do not judge. These type of manipulative abusive people have their ways. Unless you have been in that situation you have no way of understanding. Do not blame the family...she probably had told them not to contact her due to the abuse she recieved when they did. I'm telling you folks...please don't judge.
@@sarahstrickland744 he probably threatened to kill someone!! That's how they work! They will threaten to kill your mom, your dad, your kids if you do not do what they say. They will threaten to burn their homes down.
@@candycorn9976 yes!!! 😘
Give me a break. She passed her sister a note and her sister did nothing. Period. Get out of your feelings and think reasonably. Her sister could have sent the police. She obviously wanted help! She GAVE A NOTE ASKING FOR HELP!! I'm glad you're not my sister! You would prob do nothing too!
U can tell he's guilty can't keep still. Painting, ironing, cleaning, ect. Can't keep still.... IF he does his mind would start to dwell on what he did..
I’m like that, I can never keep still. What am I guilty of?
e slipped up at the end when he said im the only who knows i was there ..i was here..
I know the minute I saw that arrogant smiling through the whole interview so glad he did not get away with that rest in peace
Another sad case of family turning their heads so they don’t have to get involved. I lived through much the same thing. Living hell. My bad choices nearly cost me my life. Thank you Lord.
Same here ...I had to let my genetic/birth "family" go for a bit because they thought he was such a " nice" guy 🙄.
Sending you prayers and thank you for posting your thoughts. Reminds me that I was never alone and that I have had and will always have another family who understands. 💕. God is good.
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@@ledhead164 thank you for sharing that and thanks lindajackson618. We are not alone now- we have eachother 🙂
Some families really try, but in reality, these men often target women with an already unfortunate background, and a poor support system. It is shitty.
I am so, truly sorry for you. I am glad you survived. I was in a similar situation too. Living HELL. He isolated me from my fam too. But my family NEVER give up, never. Especially my mom. She came straight to see me when she did not hear from me or got a hold of me for 4 days. She made sure he knew that if something was to happen to me police would be there in the sec. She came to get me as soon as I called, she lived in different city hours away. She saved me. I am foverever thankful for that 🙏🏻 as her love helped me to cope and survive. You are loved too, you are special and important. ❤️ Just remember that, please. We breathe, we survived and now we know better, we can protect ourselves.
You can't ask for help then go back to your abuser. People get tired. Don't blame others for your choices.
The ending when her best friends son sang that song, I was holding back tears. Oh my gosh. Poor Lynsey. What an absolutely GORGEOUS girl, I pray for her sweet babies.
I'm in tears as a mother and a wife. That she lived through that and her poor babies. Watching that man lie was so disgusting.
She didn’t deserve that. May her soul Rest In Peace. ♥️
Her unborn child didn't deserve to be murdered either
When death comes calling that smile will turn to fear
Watching this gave me the creeps . He’s got evil in his eyes and I can only imagine how scary it was to be in the same room with him. R.I.P. sweetie 🔥💜🔥
It must be so difficult for the family. I myself had a daughter who was involved with a Phyco who emotionally abused her. I had no contact with her for 12 months after trying to get her & their daughter away from him. He had successfully separated & isolated her from all family & friends. Luckily my Daughter finally broke away from him & we are as close as ever. It is so difficult for family & friends to watch someone they love being abused & powerless to do anything. Family & friends had staged many interventions & finally she saw the light! These narcissistic creeps have such a hold over them. Even now 5 years later my Daughter still struggles with PTSD.
That song at the end made me cry my eyes out. Those poor kids missing their mom so much that they would say ' I wish I could die so I could go to heaven w/ my mom'... thats the most heartbreaking 💔 thing I think I've ever heard a child say...
Also I think of my sister who has dealt w/ domestic violence. I worry so much that this same thing could happen to her if she goes back to the pos that beat her. I actually sent her the link & asked her to watch this all the way thru. I cant bare the thought of that.
I hope she listens to you. ❤️🙏
Please tell your sister that she is important and she should put herself first and should not let anyone abuse her! I hope she gets out safely 🙏🏻
My cousin is in the same situation and always takes him back they have two tiny kids one toddler one still a baby and I'm so scared he's gonna kill her but she will not leave for more than a few days before going back and she stopped talking to most of the family this last time it breaks my heart I just want to steal her away and keep her safe but I can't 😭
I feel so sad for Lynsey's family and children. When I heard that woman say "Violence is Silence" I thought that is so true. RIP Lynsey.
Her little girl says "whose Lynsey" when he was reading that news paper article... Heartbreaking... And I'm sorry but her sister & mom should've done something when she gave her that note saying "please help me". I could never live with myself if my sister was killed and she had asked me for help before she died. I don't care how many times she goes back to an abusive man... I would do anything to get her away from him... We are a very close family tho...
yeah im so shocked that the kid doesn’t know their mum. if i am the dad, i will constantly remind them how their mum look like and share stories to em. it’s painful to watch.
They probably just know her as “mum” because when they were looking at baby pictures, she knew it was her mum in those pictures. She just doesn’t know her name bad use everyone refers to her as “your mum” when they are around the kids
What some people don't seem to understand is that there are so many reasons women don't leave their abusers, or leave and come back multiple times. For starters, from day 1, they will already start manipulating her and tearing down her entire self-worth. He will turn her against her family and friends, telling her lies like they don't really care about her, they are out to get him, etc. She will start believing him cuz he will tell her so many times she will become brainwashed. When they do actually leave and come back, its usually because he has somehow convinced her that she is damaged goods and nobody will ever want her and she's terrified of being alone. These are just examples of what their abusers do to them. They don't think rationally because their brains have been warped. So, we can't sit here and say that we know for sure we wouldn't make the same mistakes if we've never been in her shoes...
In cases like this I can only hope he gets it in prison. Poor girl! Poor kids! Very sad! RIP precious girl
These kids are lucky to be alive. 😥
He needed them as his narcissistic supply… to show him as the grieving victim of ‘abandonment’ by the actual victim, Lynsey….. you can bet though, behind closed doors he was abusive and neglectful to those children
Him having to iron his own clothes, he said he could have pissed on her..... Mitchell is a monster !!! Them kids need to go to another 🙏 stable home.
Justice Jannie he said if she was on fire he wouldn't piss on her.
Pissed to this guy!! Soooo irritated of his face smiling as he didn't kill her wife!
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That smirk on his face...
He is pure evil.
This is probably the fifth crime story I've seen where a psychic said the missing person is near water or surrounded by water. Is that in a psychic playbook or something?
Psychics are fake.
This callous, grinning apology for a human being deserves solitary for the duration.
She was so dang cute. What did she EVER see in that little puke.
little puke... lol..lmao...
She was a good person who was pregnant at 17 years old, she should have cancel the wedding when she had second thoughts, poor woman.
Yeah he looks like a God damn neanderthal. She deserved so much better.
I'm sure he's somebody's boyfriend now.
Ya in jail
This is an absolutely brilliant documentary, and what's best, no stupid gossiping parrots (psychologists). Just plain facts, no hyping, no drama, no bad sensationalising narrator's. This is how it should be done, BBC, ITV, Discovery etc
Yes! I love documentaries like this one.
I agree
Yes psychologist are useless.
The children at the end singing is the most adorable thing in this omniverse. The little boy has the sweetest voice!!! *squeeling*
It's always I and me. He's so pleased with himself...always smiling. .
I believe her sisters said that the fear that Lindsey felt was really bad. When I made the final action to leave my abusive partner I made a horrible mistake to leave my two oldest boys behind but took the baby with me. I have been safe for 25 years but my oldest son has never forgiven me. I feel the fear that Lindsey would have felt and the pain that her family has to live with forever. My heart goes to the family and the children.
He was even asking for a compensation 😡. This man is so arrogant and a blatant sociopath.
Love the song at the end❤️ God bless you all 🙏
Her family have waited for him to kill her and now they show concern?
that is one smirking buzzard
Hows jail going Mitchell? 🧨👌
His face reflects a lot of anger, sicko . He enjoyed all the suffer caused to her family. Hope he'll never gets out of jail.
That little boy singing at the very end tore my heart apart!!💔💔 THAT LITTLE ANGEL!! REST NOW LINSEY!!🙏💞🙏❤