The Reality of Having Sex for the First Time
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Welcome to another episode of At The Backdoor! I'm your host, Reese, joined by our guest Aries, as we delve into an honest and open conversation about losing virginity. Today, we are exploring personal experiences, expectations, and the journey of sexual discovery.
🔸 Key Discussion Points:
- Personal Story: Aries shares her experience of losing virginity through a dating app encounter
- The Importance of Consent and Safe Sex Practices
- Navigating the Awkwardness and Expectations of First-Time Sex
- The Role of Pornography vs. Reality in Shaping Sex Expectations
- Understanding and Embracing Sexual Pleasure and Preferences
- Creating a Comfortable and Trusting Environment for Sexual Exploration
🔸 Why This Episode is Important:
- Destigmatizes conversations around virginity and first-time sex experiences
- Highlights the significance of consent and safe sex
- Provides a platform for open and relatable discussions on sexual health and education
🔸 Additional Highlights:
- Insights into sexual compatibility and communication with partners
- The significance of personal readiness and pacing in sexual experiences
- Aries's journey from uncertainty to understanding her sexual preferences
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As a guy, I love the fact that there are men out there that respect women this much, especially in our culture in the Philippines. Having men like the guy she came across gives me hope that we are progressing as a community in terms of women's rights and respecting womens choices.
yes! all relationship should come with respect. It is not bad to take our time before engaging to such things.
Absolute truth
So brave for sharing! We should start talking about these things more openly. Does anyone agree with me? Ang refreshing ng ganitong content
It depends. some people may become sensitive about this kind of topic.
Our society still deems sex as a very taboo topic. Thank you for sharing your experience :) this was truly eye-opening and very informative.
yeah, would like to thank ATB for this episode! This is worth watching and sharing. An eye opener , yeah! Very informative, I agree. This will make the viewers learn more.
This generation is so bold about the things they want. They are explorers and they are exposed to different media platforms that influence them more than what parents and people around them. That's why it's very important to educate our children about sex and also about their body. it's reality and we cannot control it so guidance from parents/ guardians is really important. We all have our experiences having sex for the first time. Some may had it at a very young age, some may had it at the right age. But guys, do you think youngsters nowadays care about what age are they going to it?
I Agree, everyone should be educated about sex Ed since younger generation seems to engage this activity like it's nothing.
I think more youngsters are more sexually liberated nowadays and it its not something bad naman. What is bad is still the lack of proper sex ed in the country.
@@notsomj6218 I agree, we need to tackle proper sex ed in the PH since it is very sensitive especially older people handle our education system.
I don't think youngsters nowadays would not care about when are they going to do it, but we shouldn't focus on what should be the ideal age to do it, the government should put a lot of effort and focus on Sex Education. I worked in the healthcare industry here in Phil, we sometimes conduct medical missions to squatter's areas, and there you can see an 11 years old getting pregnant that early, and I realized that if only this kid was properly taught about sex then this wouldn't happen.
Brave and Informative, the discussion gives the youth critical thinking decisions about the reality of sex itself.
We need more people making sex not as taboo topic as the older generation thinks.
@@AJ_The_Reader hahahha so true! They tend to shy away from talking about sex like its such a negative conversational piece.
Wow! This topic is a sensitive one! BUT this is a must watch specially for our teens, I guest so they'll know and understand why this not YET the time to do this thing. I believe there is a proper time to doing this.
I hope that younger one's will be able to watch this video to have proper knowledge of this particular topic.
Such an interesting topic. I can imagine the scene. Haha. But kidding aside, I appreciate ATB for discussing this topic. Sex is still a sensitive topic here in PH but I think it's about time to discuss this publicly.
The reality of have sex for the first time can vary for each indiv. With emotions, expectations, and experiences differing greatly.
A very informative video. Nobody should ever feel pressured into doing something they find difficult or unappealing. It is perfectly fine to say "No" or stop at any time if you don't want to continue because even if you gave your agreement to the thing that doesn't mean you gave it to something else.
Based on my experience, parang wala akong nafeel sa sobrang kaba at blangko ng utak ko. hahaha.
It's a very interesting video to watch
This video gives a lot of info where youngsters could learn how important it is to have background knowledge about everything especially how to take value of themselves and love their selves.
I agree with you. This content should be viewed by the youngsters today as they need to be emotionally and mentally prepared for a first-sex experience.
I agree with you, the discussion also helps to eliminate the boundary learning of talking about sex exclusivity. Naikuwento nya ng mabuti yung realidad ng nangyayari as youngster na kanyang personal na experinece.
Yes I agree they need more pay attention with their study or with their family instead of going out, for me it's better to help first your family.
Definitely AGREE! Always love and value yourself.
Agree. They can learn from this. Youngsters should watch this.
Every time we engage in an act of sex, we should always see to it that we are doing it safely. And it is good to have a partner that who can respect your decision and physical appearance. Go, girl!! You're so brave to share your experience.
Totoo ang tapang at honest niya!
It's refreshing to watch an honest and informative topic about such an important topic. the topic provides valuable insights and tips for those who are about to experience this momentous occasion. I appreciate the emphasis on communication and consent, as these are crucial elements of a positive sexual experience.
Yes! Especially in the Ph where intimacy/sex is a very taboo topic. We need more people like this that are not afraid to tackle sensitive topics like the first time "doing the deed"
Thank your for the courage in sharing your story. This is a message to every women that you have the right to your body.
Everyone has their rights to do the things they wanted to do as long as they don't trample on others. As normal human beings it is our duty to respect their decisions.
I love it when I see and heard that men respect the choice of women. I feel safe and confident at the same time.
We need more men like this these days!!!
Everyone has their own perspective and beliefs regarding the act of sex. No matter what it is everyone should respect that. Respect begets respect that's what I say. Respect other people's decisions and the way you respect your own. It's their own life and we have our own. We are not in the position to say what is right or what is wrong if the people involved have given their consent to one another.
Sex is normal for us humans. But the issue that needs addressing is the safe sex. Safe sex sex should be taught as early as 13y/o because at that age, most are exploring their sexuality.
Yes, I hope there would be more videos like this. More videos that would discuss this issue deeper
It's better parents will always guide them with their journey and the trust will always there so they will not forget the advise of their parent because now a day you can see the influence of social media because sometimes they can't see if it's appropriate with them to imitate.
Safe sex is very important. Young people right now engage in sex at in early age. And they really need the right education.
Agree, you can't stop the inevitable so might as well equip the youth with the right knowledge diba
We really need to address proper sex education since the younger generation is very sexually active.
Thanks for discussing this topic. It would be an eye-opener for others.
Yes specially to those teen and still studying at the very young age it's big help for them.
Yes I agree. This can be an eye opener for the people who are exploring their sexuality and being discriminated for being a virgin.
Definitely!
Agree and to add po, this discussion about her personal experience eliminates the stigma of talking about sex as a topic.
Yes specially to who are growing up, It's better use protection that is one thing that you will never forget or else in the end you will regret because your not aware.