For all trans content creators, a right of passage is being in a Ben Shapiro video. Ben told me himself, after I locked him in my basement and forced him to read gay fanfiction.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437lmao source? i would be happy to read it if you gave me a well-informed, credible sources that is backed up by multiple other well-informed, credible sources. im serious. if you can give me something credible [including wikipedia, btw] about trans people all being child groomers, please let me know. i am begging you.
It's so funny how people think all we do is "be trans" when most of the time I'm ignoring myself and pretending my body just doesn't exist 💀 the dysphoria do be strong sometimes
Right like they are the ones who are harping on transness even if she’s 100% post transition and had bottom surgery like the gorgeous Samantha Lux I’m scared not only for me as a trans girl but my trans brothers and sisters likes Sam Collins and Samantha LuX
My worse dysphoria is body hair and receding hair line and haven’t started hormones yet so at best I’m like AAA-AA cup I hope on hormones I can get to a C (maybe a D but definitely not higher than a DD and not anything smaller than a B or C). I would love to do electrolysis and permanently remove my hair. Of course just my luck as soon as I do it an ice age will come out of nowhere lol.
“Trans people will harass you in the bathroom!” Cis girls looked over the top of the bathroom stall at me, lower half exposed, for seemingly no reason. I have multiple first hand experiences being harassed by cis people. I’ve NEVER met another trans person that’s done that to me.
Peeking in the bathroom stall thing is primarily a US thing. In Europe, you cannot peek over the wall of a stall, because you would probably have to plant your face through a solid concrete wall.
I’ve had transphobes on tiktok delete their comments or just block me when I respond to them saying I’m a man with “that’s not what your mom said last night.” They’re such cowards lol. They think their transphobia makes them look tough, but it’s so easy to get under their skin and make them cry
Because all of their transphobia is based on feelings. "Facts over feelings" and "it's science" is them deflecting that they are the ones who are uneducated, intolerant and scared of what they don't know or understand.
@@30000beesinatrenchcoat Fr. Like I feel like the rest of us have moved on to grown up insults, but they’re so immature that they’re too dumb to understand how they were just insulted lol, so they’re so stupid they end up winning online fights. But once you understand that, it makes it rlly easy to make them run away crying bc you just use the stupidest insult you can think of that would roll off your back like water off a duck
@@loreleimonn3220And they call us the snowflakes… I would consider myself slightly more mature then others my age because of my high analytical intelligence. I’ve tried to stop using those kinds of insults because I feel like it wouldn’t fit my personality, so the fact that people probably 3 or 4 times my age get triggered by them is funny to me.
And another funny thing is, they claim they can "always tell" when someone is trans. And most of the time they try to misgender someone they end up using the correct pronouns. For example if someone is FTM but has already transitioned and looks like a guy, the transphobes will see "trans" in the bio and think it's the other way around say "YOU'LL NEVER BE A WOMAN". And when they realize they used the correct pronouns, they try to take it all back and switch it up and they look stupid.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 trans people aren’t a new thing sir they’ve been around for centuries so for the past few centuries there’s been people that feel this way
@@dorkchops millenia even. There's signs from Ancient Egypt & Rome of trans people. They may have called it something different, or ey might not have even considered it something worth noting, but yeah, there were definitely people thousands of years ago living life. These idiots who think it's something new invented by Gen Z or Millenials are idiots who are usually still stuck on "basic" biology & can't understand history has been straight washed for the most part.
and remembering there is a whole community of us all sharing our experiences, I really think it’s beautiful with how we connect with eachother and that we’re not alone
"Aces who primarily read graphic novels" in that video near the end shook me. I didn't even know I was a stereotype! Kinda feels good. I don't usually belong. 😅
One of the best compliments someone has given me was….so I was at prom, and I had to wear a dress and stuff cause my parents aren’t supportive so I was super dysphoric, and I walked up to my friend, and the first thing she said was “well don’t you look handsome tonight”. Just her calling me handsome instead of pretty made me so happy
@@Joseph-pz5bo no, it’s not necessarily that you can’t. It’s more that for me my father calls me “pretty and beautiful” in order to convince me and himself that I’m a girl, and this friend know that. It’s not that I’d get offended if someone calls me pretty, it just felt nice being called handsome :)
@@rhymerlegend2717 375 comments on this channel is crazy. how do you devote so much of your life to hating trans people in the comment section of one particular person
I've been using that for almost a decade 😂😂 Just the other day I got on a good roll of using "balls" as a describing word for everything and my mom eventually stopped me like "Where did that come from? You've said it like 12 times" HAHA
People who use the bathroom argument are people who had nasty thoughts themselves and are projecting, I refuse to believe otherwise. I'm a lesbian who used to swim 2x a week and literally not once in my life felt like peeping on other women in a locker room. I'm way more concerned by hiding my own fat ass from their sight and y'kno... Changing clothes. No interest in seeing girls shitting in a public bathroom either, actually. 💀
@@NotVille name a single scenario in which a pre-op transwoman has exposed herself in a public restroom and/or locker room willfully. republican fearmongering doesn't count.
@@NotVilleare you aware that bathroom stalls can be locked? I highly doubt anyone wether they are cis or trans is having their genitals on display for everyone to see in a public bathroom
Yeah, as a young trans man in middle school who liked girls I was mostly just trying to simultaneously stare at the ceiling or floor or wall or whatever and trying to change as fast as possible. Never even crossed my mind to peep at my classmates, that's just weird
That one that was like "the only thing trans people ever have time for is being trans" is exactly how my mother treats it and basically any time I mention something related to me being trans she's like "yeah I know you're trans but you need to stop making it your entire personality"
Oh yeah, transitioning is so easy, I mean it only took me four docs, seven years, and two traumatic experiences resulting in PTSD for me to get a hysterectomy for my cramps that made me PASS OUT!!! 🙄 Good thing it's not easier 🤬
“You can’t come over. My parents are transphobic.” If you’re scared that fine-ass woman is gonna break up your parents marriage, just say that. Note: I do understand that serious harm can be caused when a trans person is put in a position where someone of perceived authority expresses hateful and offensive beliefs. If that is genuinely the case, depending on the situation, staying away from a potentially harmful or even dangerous situation could be your best option. Stay safe, and please remember that you are loved, worthy, and valid. No one should never make you feel otherwise.🖤
Yep. And when you counter with proof that this isn't happening you just get accused of lying. I had someone tell me that eight year old girls were just walking into hospitals to get hysterectomies. I said that I'd been trying for five years, all as an adult, to get a hysterectomy for a serious medical problem and was so far unsuccessful and got called a liar because "Every doc just hands out surgery to everyone". Yeah, actually my first doc told me to stop being dramatic in the same tone of voice you tell a toddler they can't eat dog shit. The second doc told me I had no reproductive health issues less than one minute after meeting me. Finally got it from doc #4 after ending up with fucking PTSD from two of the docs. Yeah, they really just hand this shit out. 🙄
Ikr, I noticed transphobes always get the facts wrong. They make it look like 5-year-olds are getting gender reassignment surgeries and that trans people can get hormones instantly upon request. You have to be a legal adult for a surgery and even then it can take years to get approved for one. Hormones and puberty blockers are available to those in their teens (in a few states that is) and the blockers are completely reversable, and hormones can also take a long time to get approved for.
@@candlecord thanks. Pain wise surgical recovery was a joke. The worst it got was almost as bad as my average period. Mentally was a gut punch, but my best friend was at my side through the whole thing which helped a lot.
Something I get irritated with in the “don’t tell them I’m trans for me” is I get pushback of “but you use they/them pronouns” okay I also live in fucking Kentucky. 1. half the time people don’t even realize you’re using they/them pronouns … how do I know? I’ve been having conversations where I exclusively use they to refer to everyone just to see if people pick up on it… and have asked them afterwards and then they’re like “oh. I guess you were.” 2. for the people that are like “they?! Why are you using they?!” on the occasion that does happen yeah fine you can say “because that’s their pronouns”… but don’t anticipate that reaction and out me when there’s a very good chance they’re in the group listed under #1.
People fear and hate what they don't understand. Us trans people challenge social norms and to them that's scary, because something so normalized as "girls are this, boys are that" is a massive foundation to society. If gender is fake, what else is? What parts of the world do we take for immutable are actually flexible? It's scary, so these people just clap their hands over their ears and hope that if they scream loud enough they won't have to grapple with a society that's changing without them.
8:12 Im not trans, but I unexpectedly teared up out of nowhere. This was so powerful, we should aspire to make our young selves safe and proud for where we’ve come for us 😌
Oh my gosh! Yesterday my coworker was being transphobic not realizing I am trans and I was just watching him and listening and gave a quick jab to shut him down, not outing myself though, and he quit because I think he could tell it wouldn't be a good option to keep it up.
Conversation with my little cousin (although I saw his mom a lot I hadn’t seen him since he was little so he didn’t remember much). “Hey before we get ice cream I want you to know I’m a boy” “…. But you’re wearing a skirt?” “Well yeah, I look amazing in a skirt, I look pretty, don’t I look pretty?” “Mhm!” “Well I really like looking pretty, and I look pretty in a skirt” “Oh okay, can we get ice cream now?” He’s never misgendered me, he doesn’t care, little kids don’t care, it’s a simple “I wear a skirt cause I look pretty in it, and I like looking pretty” and they get it. I wish adults would understand the same way
Yeah I recently got a short haircut, mostly out of convenience bc I was close to getting my top surgery and didn't want to have to bother with brushing my hair, and so many people told me "wow, you look so masculine now" It just felt really backhanded, as if I wasn't trying hard enough when I had long hair. I grew up with a dad who had long hair for most of my childhood, and he did not get any comments like that when he cut his hair .. Also, not everything I do is related to my gender, I'm mostly just a human doing human things, and I happen to be a trans man.
I have a top surgery consultation with a surgeon in less than a week!!!! Wish me luck! I’m ftm by the way edit: thank you for all the congratulations and well wishes. and to the people who are coming here to be rude and spread negativity, all i have is sympathy and confusion as to why you care so much about my breasts
I have basically adopted my much younger 17 year old trans stepbrother at this point, he lives with me because our mother doesn't accept or understand him, even though she is a lesbian and married to a woman herself! You would expect her to be more understanding, but it isn't the case. I have read so many books and done so much research in order to be able to understand him better, and I don't think I ever really will know exactly what it's like 100%. I often feel guilty because I am basically all he has and I cannot understand what he is going through on a personal level, although I certainly sympathise and try my best! We are also having a hard time at the moment, because my brother came out as trans over two years ago to me, and yet we are currently struggling to find any doctors who are willing to help or refer him to a specialist about it. I'm hoping when he reaches 18 next April it will become easier! I am in the UK and I don't really know where to go for support with him at the moment, but we have binged your videos together tonight, and they have certainly put a smile on both of our faces, so thank you 😄💖
2:53 First of all, I loved the TikTok and second of all, it was such a nightmare in school because I was considered the freak for not being a gender conformist. All the negativity really ruined me from the inside out later on.
I cannot imagine what it is like to be trans and come across people who transphobic. I have an issue with it as a good friend I had was trans. He was murdered at Club Q. I coukd brush off the hate I hear before, but it fills me with rage now, knowing my friend I had known since 3rd grade was killed over something like that. Daniel was the most kind and happy person I have ever met.
I cannot stress how much I do not care about other people in a bathroom or about children. Why do they think this is our sole focus in life? I just wanna play video games and not be sad lol Oh and seeing Sam's reaction to the person's bf fixing their binder made me tear up lol That was sweet. Having a supportive loving partner is everything.
im over 4 months on T living with my parents and they don't know and I somehow have to figure out a way to tell them by july cause I need labs done 😭😭 on a low dose so its easier to just not tell but I m honestly shocked I made it this far like. what now how long can I go EDIT: so. my therapist helped me tell my parents and it went way better than expected. doing it on my own is apparently what my mom wanted me to do all along but she understands why I didn't want to tell her or my dad (she's been very difficult in the past). so wow! really glad and grateful cause this isn't the case for everyone and I got extremely lucky. its a huge relief lol
@@NotVille Yes because not having having a father is sooo incredibly horrible even when you only say this shit because you believe that father figures are only there to beat their children up and make them feel small.
if i feel safe enough to do so, my go-to reaction to people being transphobic/homophobic to me when they don't know that IM THAT SHIT is i'll just be like "omg you're so funny i hate people who say that dumbass shit your impression of a bigot/asshole is spot on, i got actually creeped out for a sec you really had me" etc etc and i'll say it so genuinely like i really was complementing and admiring their humor against homophobia and they're always like "wait- uh- umm..." and eventually just shut up and play nice bc they're so embarrassed to be homophobic & would have to come out and say it to make it clear to me that they MEANT to be a bigot. like what are they gonna say? "no i meant to hate speech your ass sorry lol" as if they'd admit that to themselves let alone me. mwah chefs kiss
I think I knew I was nb ever since I was a kid and the thought of 5 year old me and 16 year old me being happy and comfortable with my gender identity makes me so happy I could cry
i came out to my friend/classmate the other day and he would just not shut up to everyone that i have a girlfriend- dont get me wrong, i *think* he's supportive, he hasn't been transphobic, all he's done he ask a lot of questions so i just answer them. He's already told his entire tablemates and kinda made me explain it to them even though i didnt want to. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THEY'RE NAMES!
i love your humor. i'm a 63 yr old pan cis female who's partner is a non operative trans man (non operative due to epilepsy issues). We basically roll with whatever pronouns he wants to use in any given situation. i wish he would just roll with the private pronouns but he's 62 yrs old and it's been difficult on him. His behavior is always exactly the same whether he is in pants or was in a dress (luckily, we're at an age where we can wear what we wish now and no one questions it). His family would not be open to him stating he was trans (or gay) and he's living with his mother and brother right now to take care of his mother who has Alzheimer's. They also don't know we are a couple because it's just always been easier for him to deal with them that way, they just think we've been really close roommates and they include me in everything; so really, if it makes his life easier, i don't care. Funny thing is that they're pretty accepting generally of gay and trans people, but my partner has just always gotten a really bad feeling about it whenever he's come close to talking about his personal situation with them. It's hard to say, especially with his brother, whether he'd be ok or flip his lid. i think mom would be ok (yes, told me to call her mom as my mom died some 30 years ago) with it and Dad died a few years back, however, at this point in his life, my partner just doesn't want any stress about it. We used to have some push-pulls about it, as they only time i've ever been in the closet is when i was having anxiety attack and i needed to be in an enclosed space - so for me closets are physical not metaphorical things. My parents and family know and are fine with everything, but my partner still uses his birth pronouns with them because they really will honestly forget to change them around his parents. Basically, i'm flexible and haven't been caught out using his pronouns in a way that is uncomfortable for him. So really, i feel that it's a great deal about what the individual wants, not about what i want. My godson is trans and has completely transitioned, as have friends, and it has always been about whatever works for them. i don't quite understand, and i probably never will, why people have a problem with that. i think on some level, it might call into question what they think about themselves, but i could be wrong. Anyway, keep up the good work. i have only just found your channel, and i must say that it is a pleasure. i look forward to watching many more of your videos.
The beauty of being on the normal side . Is that you know there is only man and women. It takes all the unnecessary complexities. Which is different from saying there is a never ending see of pronouns. With each made up gender there is a made up pronouns and made up sexuality. And these pronouns are changing depending on the mood. this is why I never like gender ideology. It's so complicated. It feels like you have to do your tax report before doing any normal conversions. with that being said. You sound like a very nice person. I hope you have a good life.
@@WoogoYuogo Just because something is simple doesn't mean it's true. That's like saying that because quantum physics is so complex, you can just stick to 8th grade level science and deny it even exists. Nothing in this life is simple, every scientific field has complexities. By just going with the easy version and ignoring countless studies and personal experiences you are essentially proudly admitting to being ignorant. The world does not cater to your personal level of intelligence, it is your job to either educate yourself properly or mind your business when people who actually know what they're talking about are talking. In general it is really not that hard to call people what they want to be called, you don't need a phd in gender studies to do that.
7:28 there's a group of regulars at my pub, two of them are so vehemently transphobic and they don't know I'm trans. Nerve wracking but also I feel like a mastermind whenever I get a tip from them.
"All i wanted was to be a boy and be a youtuber, those were my two aspirations..." I am so proud of you man. That's amazing. You reached your dreams. :,)
That one Tiktok mentioning the lesbians obsessed with a male celebrity reminded me of when I saw this one famous guy get rizzed up by lesbians on Twitter. I can’t help but feel like they got called out.
this vid made me cry. i don’t think a single vid has ever evoked so much of a strong empathetic reaction from me. i love all my trans sisters and brothers! you matter 🏳️⚧️
@@NotVille i feel like im talking to a wall, so i’m just going to stop replying. i pray that you find it in your heart to do some real research and also be kind because you will be much happier when you’re not regurgitating the same old stuff that’s been fed to you by the right.
Late reply... But it's not even that I just find the things I do is funny I apologize and want to be friends I don't mean the things I say I'm being honest
@@NotVille if you’re being genuine, i won’t hold it against you bc it just seems like ignorance, but just know that transphobia jokes (or jokes at the expense of a community) are not funny
8:32 made me cry dude Ever since I was 7 I've always wanted to be a boy. I always thought I was weird bc of it since I was raised in a highly trans phobic environment. I'm still a minor living here, but I'm planning on when I move out to actually become myself ^^
I have a new take on the bathroom theory. Maybe transgender people didn't transition so that they could spy on the opposite gender, but in fact for the entire opposite reason. Rather than a desire to invade the bathrooms of another gender, maybe they actually just wish to escape the bathrooms of their assigned gender. Maybe transwomen have an innate fear of pee puddles and old man balls, and transmen have an intense phobia of mentstrual pads shoved down the toliet and little kids getting potty training from their mothers. Therefore, in order to flee this horrible existence, they've decided to transition to the opposite gender and use different bathrooms so they no longer experience these fears. Ergo, if we wish to solve the problem of transgenderism, we simply must allocate a great deal of resources towards bathroom cleaning and maintenance, so that each bathroom is a sterile paradise of completely private stalls. Upon reaching this ultimate bathroom standard, it follows, logically, that all binary trans people will immediately detransition, casting away sachels of hormones and abandoning two year waiting lists for surgeries. They will become cis people and no more binary trans people will exist. The only remaining issue is that of non binary people, who clearly must have an intense phobia of all bathrooms. For them, accommodations will have to be made in the form of surgeries to cease needing to use the bathroom, after which they may also feel safe enough to detransition back to the binary. Viola. This is the REAL reason some people are trans, and also the only way to solve the problem. Or maybe trans people are just human beings trying to live their lives. I don't man. That shit's too much for me
I'm trans masc and post social transition I admit I did once go into the ladies cos I walked into the mens and it was a literal inch of water/pee over the entire floor and I just had to nepe out of there, dysphoria be damned The solution is obviously gender neutral bathrooms, like literally everyone already has in their own homes In the gay village in my city all the bars have gender neutral bathrooms, with a big bathroom for stalls, and a smaller bathroom which is just urinals no stalls and explicitly labelled as gender neutral urinals too
But I seriously love the irony of bills saying you have to use the bathroom for your ASAB (not in nhis country, UK) cos you get fully transitioned trans people going into the actual wrong bathroom You want men in the ladies? Cos that's what you get It's meant to be a catch-22 too, to try sneaky ban being trans/gender nonconforming
@Den Of Wolves Gender neutral bathrooms? Heresy! No, but for real, gender neutral bathrooms have been the standard in many European countries for years. They work there because the stalls actually give people the appropriate privacy. I have no idea why American bathrooms have such a distinct lack of privacy, or why people seem to think gender neutral bathrooms would allow for violence or rape. It's demonstrably untrue, but at the end of the day, trans people are different, so it's easier to just be afraid of us
You know when someone tells me they're trans, I'm usually just like "Oh? Didn't know that." And move on with my life, because that's about the extent that it matters to my interactions with them going forward. Hearing how other people say "you don't look trans" makes me understand why so many would come away from our chat with a mixture of surprise, confusion and glee on their faces though.
In the state of Florida, no doctor can have a pharmacy in their office. I’ve never thought anybody was forcing their children to take puberty Blockers, I know they allow their children too. I’ve never heard or thought somebody was forcing their child. How I’m not really a Republican I am a conservative though, and I would consider myself independent because I can’t stand behind all the ideas of either party. So sad people automatically assume things based on one’s political beliefs used to people didn’t even tell it was a private thing what your political beliefs were. I think it was better that way.
4:53 My boyfriend does stuff like this. He loves to help make sure I'm comfortable in my binder and will help me get out of it, too. He's even said he's planning to take the days off for my top surgery and pre-op/post-op appointments. I'm so lucky to have him. 🥰💖🖤 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
Thank you so much for making such amazing content. I’m a trans man living in a transphobic household and I get deadnamed and listen to my parents bullshit every day but these videos make me feel at peace in my own body.
A lot of guys in my friend group, especially my best friend, used to be kinda transphobic. I tried to rationalize with him that trans people really just be out here living, but he would brush me off. Until one of the guys’ partner came out as trans. And then someone in the group came out as trans a year later. After the most recent person came out, I was astonished to see everyone’s reaction. My best friend DM’d me and said “Hey, just letting you know, (deadname) is going by Maria now. She’s a girl.” And we left it at that. I’m proud of the growth that I’ve seen!!
Reminder that your gender isn’t tied to your genitals. People always say it as in ‘If you haven’t been able to get the surgery it’s okay’ which is true, but it’s so rare that I see people address that men can be okay with having vs and women can be okay with having ps, and people anywhere outside or between can also have whatever they want. Like personally (transmasc) I want top surgery but I don’t mind having female anatomy ‘down there’. The genitals you want or are just okay with having have nothing to do with your gender. Be who you are and do what you want, make as many or as little changes as you’re comfortable with, you are you. Even cis people get surgeries sometimes (most common example is women getting top surgery to be flat). Don’t feel like you’re faking it if you don’t fit the common experience, don’t feel pressured into doing the common things, be trans your way, because what else are we fighting against the gender binary for?
hi sam i’m here in the first 30 mins i think slay i just wanna say thank you for being you, i always look forward to your videos, i appreciate you so much and i’m sending love your way always
For all trans content creators, a right of passage is being in a Ben Shapiro video. Ben told me himself, after I locked him in my basement and forced him to read gay fanfiction.
Did you get him to do it in his debate voice?
and you released him? :(
@@juniisdead1321 you know how he has a huge mouth to store the shit that comes out? He actually dug his way out by eating away at my floor
hypothetically
how could I possibly get mentioned by ben shapiro in any capacity lmfao he would be running dry on content
To do list:
1. Be transgender
2. Your mom
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 more like politicians and priests
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 Norway is trans-Sweden
@@WolfgangDoW nah, trans activists are the real problem.
@@mikeyfisher4256 ok?
@@thewerewolfofnorway437lmao source? i would be happy to read it if you gave me a well-informed, credible sources that is backed up by multiple other well-informed, credible sources. im serious. if you can give me something credible [including wikipedia, btw] about trans people all being child groomers, please let me know. i am begging you.
It's so funny how people think all we do is "be trans" when most of the time I'm ignoring myself and pretending my body just doesn't exist 💀 the dysphoria do be strong sometimes
Me everyday
Right like they are the ones who are harping on transness even if she’s 100% post transition and had bottom surgery like the gorgeous Samantha Lux I’m scared not only for me as a trans girl but my trans brothers and sisters likes Sam Collins and Samantha LuX
My worse dysphoria is body hair and receding hair line and haven’t started hormones yet so at best I’m like AAA-AA cup I hope on hormones I can get to a C (maybe a D but definitely not higher than a DD and not anything smaller than a B or C). I would love to do electrolysis and permanently remove my hair. Of course just my luck as soon as I do it an ice age will come out of nowhere lol.
No but I can snap my fingers and my t!ts magically disappear.
@@stefansnellgrove i swearrrrr. It's like oh, I'm in a good place to transition* looks around* all seems goo- boom , rammed by a rhinoceros
“Trans people will harass you in the bathroom!”
Cis girls looked over the top of the bathroom stall at me, lower half exposed, for seemingly no reason. I have multiple first hand experiences being harassed by cis people. I’ve NEVER met another trans person that’s done that to me.
No. Because trans people understand just how invasive that is. Something cis people sometimes can't wrap their heads around.
Peeking in the bathroom stall thing is primarily a US thing. In Europe, you cannot peek over the wall of a stall, because you would probably have to plant your face through a solid concrete wall.
@@jeffafa3096 yeah, in the US large companies put ease of cleaning above privacy in their restrooms.
Liar!
THIS
Why are you letting everyone know that we transition just to get into the bathrooms? That was supposed to be a secret.
He let the agenda out they on to us (sarcasm) 😂😂😂
Bro is trying to get hate crimed 💀
sshhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...
Yeah it was our “secret” mission
@@bonkkus those cookies kinda goated though so I can’t blame ya
Hey just a bit of trans joy: I got top surgery 16 days ago!!! They're finally gone!!!!!
Hey, congrats!
Congratulations, friend :)
thats a load off ur chest lol !
Doctor i need to get some things off my chest
Congrats! I'm happy for you
I’ve had transphobes on tiktok delete their comments or just block me when I respond to them saying I’m a man with “that’s not what your mom said last night.” They’re such cowards lol. They think their transphobia makes them look tough, but it’s so easy to get under their skin and make them cry
kind of ironic how the single most childish insult makes some of them cry considering they're basically children themselves
Because all of their transphobia is based on feelings. "Facts over feelings" and "it's science" is them deflecting that they are the ones who are uneducated, intolerant and scared of what they don't know or understand.
@@30000beesinatrenchcoat Fr. Like I feel like the rest of us have moved on to grown up insults, but they’re so immature that they’re too dumb to understand how they were just insulted lol, so they’re so stupid they end up winning online fights. But once you understand that, it makes it rlly easy to make them run away crying bc you just use the stupidest insult you can think of that would roll off your back like water off a duck
@@loreleimonn3220And they call us the snowflakes… I would consider myself slightly more mature then others my age because of my high analytical intelligence. I’ve tried to stop using those kinds of insults because I feel like it wouldn’t fit my personality, so the fact that people probably 3 or 4 times my age get triggered by them is funny to me.
And another funny thing is, they claim they can "always tell" when someone is trans. And most of the time they try to misgender someone they end up using the correct pronouns. For example if someone is FTM but has already transitioned and looks like a guy, the transphobes will see "trans" in the bio and think it's the other way around say "YOU'LL NEVER BE A WOMAN". And when they realize they used the correct pronouns, they try to take it all back and switch it up and they look stupid.
i watch so many trans tiktok compilations, seeing sam react to them is so great
hahah hell yeah
@dontreadmyprofilepicture4804 i think im good then, thanks for the warning :)
@Don’t read my profile picture pipebomb sent. enjoy the next few weeks.
@Puppygirl385 i was able to tell but i like to play along lmao
I love watching trans tiktoks and suddenly remembering "WOAH! not everyone is cis?! WOAH! other people share the same feelings as me?! WoAH!!!"
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 not as few as you think.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 trans people aren’t a new thing sir
they’ve been around for centuries
so for the past few centuries there’s been people that feel this way
This is me with neurodivergency and being fruity 💀💀
@@dorkchops millenia even. There's signs from Ancient Egypt & Rome of trans people. They may have called it something different, or ey might not have even considered it something worth noting, but yeah, there were definitely people thousands of years ago living life. These idiots who think it's something new invented by Gen Z or Millenials are idiots who are usually still stuck on "basic" biology & can't understand history has been straight washed for the most part.
and remembering there is a whole community of us all sharing our experiences, I really think it’s beautiful with how we connect with eachother and that we’re not alone
"Aces who primarily read graphic novels" in that video near the end shook me. I didn't even know I was a stereotype! Kinda feels good. I don't usually belong. 😅
caught me off guard lol cus we're usually not included; now there is a stereotype that i had no idea existed lmboo
@@1hinita Here, have some garlic bread.
Seriously, it caught me so off guard 😭
Aye, same here, glad there are other aces who also have good taste in art and literature 😌💅💅
lmao same, good to know im a stereotype i guess
One of the best compliments someone has given me was….so I was at prom, and I had to wear a dress and stuff cause my parents aren’t supportive so I was super dysphoric, and I walked up to my friend, and the first thing she said was “well don’t you look handsome tonight”. Just her calling me handsome instead of pretty made me so happy
W friend, W you, L parents
@@TheBiggestBruh facts. She’s the best
I didn't know you couldn't call someone who is male pretty well that's good to know so I don't offend anyone
@@Joseph-pz5bo what does this mean😭 Edit: Never mind I just understood
@@Joseph-pz5bo no, it’s not necessarily that you can’t. It’s more that for me my father calls me “pretty and beautiful” in order to convince me and himself that I’m a girl, and this friend know that. It’s not that I’d get offended if someone calls me pretty, it just felt nice being called handsome :)
This video solidifies how attractive trans people are.
"no one will be attracted to you" suuuuuuuuuure...
It's solidifies my preference to trans/enbies and is leading me further away from being attracted to cissies.
@@NoxBVansyn "cissies" lmao
fr trans people are so hot, i think the transphobes are just jealous
@@ineffablake LITERALLY like their all so ethereal and gorgeous like how 😭😭🫡🫡🫡
As a trans/nonbinary person who's probably in love with another trans person...
...yeah.
Just wanna share that I'm literally lying in hospital bed atm recovering from finally getting chest surgery!!!
I'm so happy already
Who cares
@@NotVille me
That’s sad
@@rhymerlegend2717 375 comments on this channel is crazy. how do you devote so much of your life to hating trans people in the comment section of one particular person
@@NotVille its a public commenr section aint nobody gotta care for someone to comment ☠
3:20 Normalise using ‘Fat Dangly Hairy Balls’ in daily conversation.
Looking forward to getting rid of my fat dangly hairy balls!
I've been using that for almost a decade 😂😂 Just the other day I got on a good roll of using "balls" as a describing word for everything and my mom eventually stopped me like "Where did that come from? You've said it like 12 times" HAHA
People who use the bathroom argument are people who had nasty thoughts themselves and are projecting, I refuse to believe otherwise. I'm a lesbian who used to swim 2x a week and literally not once in my life felt like peeping on other women in a locker room. I'm way more concerned by hiding my own fat ass from their sight and y'kno... Changing clothes. No interest in seeing girls shitting in a public bathroom either, actually. 💀
Trans Women will have their stuff out for others to see though
@@NotVille name a single scenario in which a pre-op transwoman has exposed herself in a public restroom and/or locker room willfully. republican fearmongering doesn't count.
@@NotVilleare you aware that bathroom stalls can be locked?
I highly doubt anyone wether they are cis or trans is having their genitals on display for everyone to see in a public bathroom
Yeah, as a young trans man in middle school who liked girls I was mostly just trying to simultaneously stare at the ceiling or floor or wall or whatever and trying to change as fast as possible. Never even crossed my mind to peep at my classmates, that's just weird
Sam, I gotta say. The red background and red shirt is very slay sir
awh thank u
That one that was like "the only thing trans people ever have time for is being trans" is exactly how my mother treats it and basically any time I mention something related to me being trans she's like "yeah I know you're trans but you need to stop making it your entire personality"
Oh yeah, transitioning is so easy, I mean it only took me four docs, seven years, and two traumatic experiences resulting in PTSD for me to get a hysterectomy for my cramps that made me PASS OUT!!! 🙄 Good thing it's not easier 🤬
“You can’t come over. My parents are transphobic.” If you’re scared that fine-ass woman is gonna break up your parents marriage, just say that.
Note: I do understand that serious harm can be caused when a trans person is put in a position where someone of perceived authority expresses hateful and offensive beliefs. If that is genuinely the case, depending on the situation, staying away from a potentially harmful or even dangerous situation could be your best option. Stay safe, and please remember that you are loved, worthy, and valid. No one should never make you feel otherwise.🖤
Fine plastic ass maybe. But a fine vag 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 definitely not.
How is it gonna break their marriage tho?
7:01 I remember someone on Twitter talked about their precious child leaving them to join the “Trans cult”.
4:16 OMG yes. Not the “Now anyone can get access to hormones and be whatever they think they are”.
Yep. And when you counter with proof that this isn't happening you just get accused of lying. I had someone tell me that eight year old girls were just walking into hospitals to get hysterectomies. I said that I'd been trying for five years, all as an adult, to get a hysterectomy for a serious medical problem and was so far unsuccessful and got called a liar because "Every doc just hands out surgery to everyone". Yeah, actually my first doc told me to stop being dramatic in the same tone of voice you tell a toddler they can't eat dog shit. The second doc told me I had no reproductive health issues less than one minute after meeting me. Finally got it from doc #4 after ending up with fucking PTSD from two of the docs. Yeah, they really just hand this shit out. 🙄
Ikr, I noticed transphobes always get the facts wrong. They make it look like 5-year-olds are getting gender reassignment surgeries and that trans people can get hormones instantly upon request. You have to be a legal adult for a surgery and even then it can take years to get approved for one. Hormones and puberty blockers are available to those in their teens (in a few states that is) and the blockers are completely reversable, and hormones can also take a long time to get approved for.
@@waffles3629 I'm so sorry that happened, I hope the surgery went well after all that, and that you're feeling better mentally ❤
@@candlecord thanks. Pain wise surgical recovery was a joke. The worst it got was almost as bad as my average period. Mentally was a gut punch, but my best friend was at my side through the whole thing which helped a lot.
I WISH!!!!
Something I get irritated with in the “don’t tell them I’m trans for me” is I get pushback of “but you use they/them pronouns” okay I also live in fucking Kentucky.
1. half the time people don’t even realize you’re using they/them pronouns … how do I know? I’ve been having conversations where I exclusively use they to refer to everyone just to see if people pick up on it… and have asked them afterwards and then they’re like “oh. I guess you were.”
2. for the people that are like “they?! Why are you using they?!” on the occasion that does happen yeah fine you can say “because that’s their pronouns”… but don’t anticipate that reaction and out me when there’s a very good chance they’re in the group listed under #1.
Ive been watching your channel for years and i still get excited when i get a notification that you posted
thank u sm aw
Same I love her channels too😊
@@NotVille Her! 👍
@@NotVille *his
@@NotVille his * 😑
Do they ever think maybe trans kids are cutting out family because their family treats them like shit for being trans 😭
I don’t underestand why people hate Trans people? They’re just people.
People fear and hate what they don't understand. Us trans people challenge social norms and to them that's scary, because something so normalized as "girls are this, boys are that" is a massive foundation to society. If gender is fake, what else is? What parts of the world do we take for immutable are actually flexible? It's scary, so these people just clap their hands over their ears and hope that if they scream loud enough they won't have to grapple with a society that's changing without them.
Because trans people are too hot and sexy so they get jealous.
8:12 Im not trans, but I unexpectedly teared up out of nowhere. This was so powerful, we should aspire to make our young selves safe and proud for where we’ve come for us 😌
I subbed when I was questioning and now I’m 99% sure I’m cis but I still love your content. Keep it up king 👑
You've unlocked Cis+
It’s nice to see some wholesome content once in a while. Embrace it, it’ll come in handy.
P.S. Hello! Hope you’re well.
@@NotVille*he
@@lukelol3 dont bother replying to them, theyve been doing this shit for years lol
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 bro why are you so obsessed with Sam
Let it go this isn't healthy you're obsessive
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 no, being stupid
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 are we going to the same pride events? The adult shit is in a tent in the corner with warnings before you enter
i came back to ur channel after YEARS. i watched u back when i still thought i was cis :') thank u for helping me explore my gender teehee
Same. Took me too long to come to terms with myself.
Oh my gosh! Yesterday my coworker was being transphobic not realizing I am trans and I was just watching him and listening and gave a quick jab to shut him down, not outing myself though, and he quit because I think he could tell it wouldn't be a good option to keep it up.
Good to see some positivity in my feed. Thank you, Sam!❤
Conversation with my little cousin (although I saw his mom a lot I hadn’t seen him since he was little so he didn’t remember much).
“Hey before we get ice cream I want you to know I’m a boy”
“…. But you’re wearing a skirt?”
“Well yeah, I look amazing in a skirt, I look pretty, don’t I look pretty?”
“Mhm!”
“Well I really like looking pretty, and I look pretty in a skirt”
“Oh okay, can we get ice cream now?”
He’s never misgendered me, he doesn’t care, little kids don’t care, it’s a simple “I wear a skirt cause I look pretty in it, and I like looking pretty” and they get it. I wish adults would understand the same way
Am I the only one who hates people pointing out my passing traits, like saying "wow look at your beard look how it's growing"
Or like when people falsely hype you up and it's just like "Please stop, I know what I look like, it's just making me feel worse".
Yeah I recently got a short haircut, mostly out of convenience bc I was close to getting my top surgery and didn't want to have to bother with brushing my hair, and so many people told me "wow, you look so masculine now"
It just felt really backhanded, as if I wasn't trying hard enough when I had long hair. I grew up with a dad who had long hair for most of my childhood, and he did not get any comments like that when he cut his hair ..
Also, not everything I do is related to my gender, I'm mostly just a human doing human things, and I happen to be a trans man.
Men don't gt periods
@@NotVille bro just singlehandedly stopped all trans men from getting periods. He's truly a hero 🥹🥹
@@NotVille watching trans videos to comment shite like that is kinda sus
I have a top surgery consultation with a surgeon in less than a week!!!! Wish me luck! I’m ftm by the way
edit: thank you for all the congratulations and well wishes. and to the people who are coming here to be rude and spread negativity, all i have is sympathy and confusion as to why you care so much about my breasts
Good luck! I hope everything goes well! ❤
Good luck!!
Hell yeah dude!!
Good luck and remember to breathe!
All the luck dude!
I'm currently lying in hospital recovering from my chest surgery today, you will get there too
8:42 that “i did it” gave me so much hope for my future as a trans kid
So cool you made 8yo Sam proud 🙏🏼💙 Keep going!
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 more like The werewolf of Nooneasked (for your bigotry, pal)
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 cishet men should stay away from anything
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 I 100% agree, eight year olds SHOULD stay away from kids. Flawless opinion 🙏
@Puppygirl385 everywhere? I'm not that clever.
@@thewerewolfofnorway437 almost like you're not clever at all.
I have basically adopted my much younger 17 year old trans stepbrother at this point, he lives with me because our mother doesn't accept or understand him, even though she is a lesbian and married to a woman herself! You would expect her to be more understanding, but it isn't the case. I have read so many books and done so much research in order to be able to understand him better, and I don't think I ever really will know exactly what it's like 100%. I often feel guilty because I am basically all he has and I cannot understand what he is going through on a personal level, although I certainly sympathise and try my best! We are also having a hard time at the moment, because my brother came out as trans over two years ago to me, and yet we are currently struggling to find any doctors who are willing to help or refer him to a specialist about it. I'm hoping when he reaches 18 next April it will become easier! I am in the UK and I don't really know where to go for support with him at the moment, but we have binged your videos together tonight, and they have certainly put a smile on both of our faces, so thank you 😄💖
2:53 First of all, I loved the TikTok and second of all, it was such a nightmare in school because I was considered the freak for not being a gender conformist. All the negativity really ruined me from the inside out later on.
I support trans people 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
I want Ben Shapiro to make a video about me and then for my transphobic ex friend to see it and discover that I’m trans through that
Ultimate galaxy brain way to come out lmao
I cannot imagine what it is like to be trans and come across people who transphobic. I have an issue with it as a good friend I had was trans. He was murdered at Club Q. I coukd brush off the hate I hear before, but it fills me with rage now, knowing my friend I had known since 3rd grade was killed over something like that. Daniel was the most kind and happy person I have ever met.
I cannot stress how much I do not care about other people in a bathroom or about children. Why do they think this is our sole focus in life? I just wanna play video games and not be sad lol
Oh and seeing Sam's reaction to the person's bf fixing their binder made me tear up lol That was sweet. Having a supportive loving partner is everything.
Trans Women will have their stuff out for others to see though in the women's room
@@NotVille How often do you see women pissing outside the stalls? There’s nothing for them to see in a bathroom. Let people pee.
@@NotVille you do realize women's bathrooms have stalls right 😭😭
@@sayoreality have you been in the mens??
@@NotVille yes lmao
im over 4 months on T living with my parents and they don't know and I somehow have to figure out a way to tell them by july cause I need labs done 😭😭 on a low dose so its easier to just not tell but I m honestly shocked I made it this far like. what now how long can I go
EDIT: so. my therapist helped me tell my parents and it went way better than expected. doing it on my own is apparently what my mom wanted me to do all along but she understands why I didn't want to tell her or my dad (she's been very difficult in the past). so wow! really glad and grateful cause this isn't the case for everyone and I got extremely lucky. its a huge relief lol
POV:Fatherless
Good luck! It sucks to stay in the closet but make sure you're safe above all else
@@NotVille POV: waste of oxygen and deserving of being ducttaped to a urinal
Do you have a license and an access to a car?
@@NotVille Yes because not having having a father is sooo incredibly horrible even when you only say this shit because you believe that father figures are only there to beat their children up and make them feel small.
My endocrinologist basically started our first conversation with “I want to give you hormones but let’s see what’s best for you
5:07 sam is so dang cute 😭😭 the smile
if i feel safe enough to do so, my go-to reaction to people being transphobic/homophobic to me when they don't know that IM THAT SHIT is i'll just be like "omg you're so funny i hate people who say that dumbass shit your impression of a bigot/asshole is spot on, i got actually creeped out for a sec you really had me" etc etc and i'll say it so genuinely like i really was complementing and admiring their humor against homophobia and they're always like "wait- uh- umm..." and eventually just shut up and play nice bc they're so embarrassed to be homophobic & would have to come out and say it to make it clear to me that they MEANT to be a bigot. like what are they gonna say? "no i meant to hate speech your ass sorry lol" as if they'd admit that to themselves let alone me. mwah chefs kiss
I think I knew I was nb ever since I was a kid and the thought of 5 year old me and 16 year old me being happy and comfortable with my gender identity makes me so happy I could cry
i came out to my friend/classmate the other day and he would just not shut up to everyone that i have a girlfriend- dont get me wrong, i *think* he's supportive, he hasn't been transphobic, all he's done he ask a lot of questions so i just answer them. He's already told his entire tablemates and kinda made me explain it to them even though i didnt want to. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THEY'RE NAMES!
As a bisexual who has been listening to boygenius nonstop since the new album came out I felt very called out
5:00 is so heartwarming. True love ❤
As a trans girl Sam is 🔥🔥🔥🔥 love watching him and Samantha Lux y’all should collab more often.
I've been binging trans tiktok compilations the past few days so this is like a bonus 😁
@@NotVille clearly not you, so go on somewhere 😂
My sister walked in my room while I was watching you and I told her your a trans guy I look up to and she said “he doesn’t look…. well, you know”
i love your humor. i'm a 63 yr old pan cis female who's partner is a non operative trans man (non operative due to epilepsy issues). We basically roll with whatever pronouns he wants to use in any given situation. i wish he would just roll with the private pronouns but he's 62 yrs old and it's been difficult on him. His behavior is always exactly the same whether he is in pants or was in a dress (luckily, we're at an age where we can wear what we wish now and no one questions it). His family would not be open to him stating he was trans (or gay) and he's living with his mother and brother right now to take care of his mother who has Alzheimer's. They also don't know we are a couple because it's just always been easier for him to deal with them that way, they just think we've been really close roommates and they include me in everything; so really, if it makes his life easier, i don't care. Funny thing is that they're pretty accepting generally of gay and trans people, but my partner has just always gotten a really bad feeling about it whenever he's come close to talking about his personal situation with them. It's hard to say, especially with his brother, whether he'd be ok or flip his lid. i think mom would be ok (yes, told me to call her mom as my mom died some 30 years ago) with it and Dad died a few years back, however, at this point in his life, my partner just doesn't want any stress about it. We used to have some push-pulls about it, as they only time i've ever been in the closet is when i was having anxiety attack and i needed to be in an enclosed space - so for me closets are physical not metaphorical things. My parents and family know and are fine with everything, but my partner still uses his birth pronouns with them because they really will honestly forget to change them around his parents. Basically, i'm flexible and haven't been caught out using his pronouns in a way that is uncomfortable for him. So really, i feel that it's a great deal about what the individual wants, not about what i want. My godson is trans and has completely transitioned, as have friends, and it has always been about whatever works for them. i don't quite understand, and i probably never will, why people have a problem with that. i think on some level, it might call into question what they think about themselves, but i could be wrong.
Anyway, keep up the good work. i have only just found your channel, and i must say that it is a pleasure. i look forward to watching many more of your videos.
The beauty of being on the normal side . Is that you know there is only man and women. It takes all the unnecessary complexities.
Which is different from saying there is a never ending see of pronouns. With each made up gender there is a made up pronouns and made up sexuality. And these pronouns are changing depending on the mood.
this is why I never like gender ideology. It's so complicated. It feels like you have to do your tax report before doing any normal conversions.
with that being said. You sound like a very nice person. I hope you have a good life.
@@WoogoYuogo Just because something is simple doesn't mean it's true. That's like saying that because quantum physics is so complex, you can just stick to 8th grade level science and deny it even exists.
Nothing in this life is simple, every scientific field has complexities. By just going with the easy version and ignoring countless studies and personal experiences you are essentially proudly admitting to being ignorant.
The world does not cater to your personal level of intelligence, it is your job to either educate yourself properly or mind your business when people who actually know what they're talking about are talking. In general it is really not that hard to call people what they want to be called, you don't need a phd in gender studies to do that.
7:28 there's a group of regulars at my pub, two of them are so vehemently transphobic and they don't know I'm trans. Nerve wracking but also I feel like a mastermind whenever I get a tip from them.
wait a minute, I'm an ace who reads graphic novels
Me too! I didn't even know that was a "thing" 😂. We learn everyday
me, an nd enby with several squishmallows:👁️👄👁️
Who cares
@@NotVille you apparently.
4:00 was literally thinking about this tiktok before you showed it lmfao
9:45 “Paint me like one of your many targets, Ben Femboy loving Shapiro.”
"testosterone doesn't add an inch"
Well not in height XD
After a long day of transphobic shit, this is making my day a little bit better. Thanks sam :) and hope everyone here is doing well!
Tomorrow is 9mo on T without my parents knowing 🤭
slayyyy
Way to go 🎉
"All i wanted was to be a boy and be a youtuber, those were my two aspirations..." I am so proud of you man. That's amazing. You reached your dreams. :,)
That one Tiktok mentioning the lesbians obsessed with a male celebrity reminded me of when I saw this one famous guy get rizzed up by lesbians on Twitter. I can’t help but feel like they got called out.
ayo man I hope you’re doing alright, wish you the best. you make great content btw
"aces who primarily read graphic novels"
bold of you to assume i can read.
as a pre transitioned trans man, your channel makes me so happy:) you’re what i want to be when i get out of my transphobic parents grasp:)
this vid made me cry. i don’t think a single vid has ever evoked so much of a strong empathetic reaction from me. i love all my trans sisters and brothers! you matter 🏳️⚧️
This shouldn't happen
@@NotVille i’m sorry you lack empathy. sad life man
@@NotVille i feel like im talking to a wall, so i’m just going to stop replying. i pray that you find it in your heart to do some real research and also be kind because you will be much happier when you’re not regurgitating the same old stuff that’s been fed to you by the right.
Late reply... But it's not even that I just find the things I do is funny I apologize and want to be friends I don't mean the things I say I'm being honest
@@NotVille if you’re being genuine, i won’t hold it against you bc it just seems like ignorance, but just know that transphobia jokes (or jokes at the expense of a community) are not funny
He's straight and I'm heartbroken.
8:36 i know the video is a couple of months old but I'm so happy for you dude, truly wholesome
that tiktok with the black trans person made me so damn happy, i nearly cried (i am a black transmasc)
8:32 made me cry dude
Ever since I was 7 I've always wanted to be a boy. I always thought I was weird bc of it since I was raised in a highly trans phobic environment.
I'm still a minor living here, but I'm planning on when I move out to actually become myself ^^
I have a new take on the bathroom theory.
Maybe transgender people didn't transition so that they could spy on the opposite gender, but in fact for the entire opposite reason.
Rather than a desire to invade the bathrooms of another gender, maybe they actually just wish to escape the bathrooms of their assigned gender. Maybe transwomen have an innate fear of pee puddles and old man balls, and transmen have an intense phobia of mentstrual pads shoved down the toliet and little kids getting potty training from their mothers.
Therefore, in order to flee this horrible existence, they've decided to transition to the opposite gender and use different bathrooms so they no longer experience these fears.
Ergo, if we wish to solve the problem of transgenderism, we simply must allocate a great deal of resources towards bathroom cleaning and maintenance, so that each bathroom is a sterile paradise of completely private stalls.
Upon reaching this ultimate bathroom standard, it follows, logically, that all binary trans people will immediately detransition, casting away sachels of hormones and abandoning two year waiting lists for surgeries. They will become cis people and no more binary trans people will exist.
The only remaining issue is that of non binary people, who clearly must have an intense phobia of all bathrooms. For them, accommodations will have to be made in the form of surgeries to cease needing to use the bathroom, after which they may also feel safe enough to detransition back to the binary.
Viola. This is the REAL reason some people are trans, and also the only way to solve the problem.
Or maybe trans people are just human beings trying to live their lives. I don't man. That shit's too much for me
I'm trans masc and post social transition I admit I did once go into the ladies cos I walked into the mens and it was a literal inch of water/pee over the entire floor and I just had to nepe out of there, dysphoria be damned
The solution is obviously gender neutral bathrooms, like literally everyone already has in their own homes
In the gay village in my city all the bars have gender neutral bathrooms, with a big bathroom for stalls, and a smaller bathroom which is just urinals no stalls and explicitly labelled as gender neutral urinals too
Everyone knows enbies are gods really though. And godn neither bleed or poop lol
But I seriously love the irony of bills saying you have to use the bathroom for your ASAB (not in nhis country, UK) cos you get fully transitioned trans people going into the actual wrong bathroom
You want men in the ladies? Cos that's what you get
It's meant to be a catch-22 too, to try sneaky ban being trans/gender nonconforming
@Den Of Wolves Gender neutral bathrooms? Heresy!
No, but for real, gender neutral bathrooms have been the standard in many European countries for years. They work there because the stalls actually give people the appropriate privacy. I have no idea why American bathrooms have such a distinct lack of privacy, or why people seem to think gender neutral bathrooms would allow for violence or rape. It's demonstrably untrue, but at the end of the day, trans people are different, so it's easier to just be afraid of us
i love u sam thank u 4 standing up 4 our community
" If adults could have the comprehension of a child" frfr
Ok so I used to write some awful comments on this channel. I'm sorry. I've changed.
Trans Women shouldn't be in women's room because they will show their stuff out
You know when someone tells me they're trans, I'm usually just like "Oh? Didn't know that." And move on with my life, because that's about the extent that it matters to my interactions with them going forward. Hearing how other people say "you don't look trans" makes me understand why so many would come away from our chat with a mixture of surprise, confusion and glee on their faces though.
8:40 this almost made me cry - I am so happy for current you and 6 year old you 🥺🥰❤
it’s like your goal was to make me cry stoppp😭😭 that lil kid one was so heartwarming
Trans Women shouldn't be in women's room
@@NotVille Awesome bug fact: nobody cares about your awful opinion!
@@NotVille trans women are women
1:03 is literally me in my highschool biology class watching my friend out me to a transphobic classmate just without even asking or stopping to think
Hey Sam! Thanks for the positive content! I don't remember if I said it here yet... My 19 year old is a recently-out trans girl! 🤗 💃💙💗🤍💗💙
I'm so glad you posted this, these were golden!
In the state of Florida, no doctor can have a pharmacy in their office. I’ve never thought anybody was forcing their children to take puberty Blockers, I know they allow their children too. I’ve never heard or thought somebody was forcing their child. How I’m not really a Republican I am a conservative though, and I would consider myself independent because I can’t stand behind all the ideas of either party. So sad people automatically assume things based on one’s political beliefs used to people didn’t even tell it was a private thing what your political beliefs were. I think it was better that way.
4:53 My boyfriend does stuff like this. He loves to help make sure I'm comfortable in my binder and will help me get out of it, too. He's even said he's planning to take the days off for my top surgery and pre-op/post-op appointments. I'm so lucky to have him. 🥰💖🖤
🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
7:45 im way too argumentative for that💀
Same lmao😂
"non binary people with obsessive compulsive disorer"
I actually squealed out loud "hey thats me!!"
Thank you so much for making such amazing content. I’m a trans man living in a transphobic household and I get deadnamed and listen to my parents bullshit every day but these videos make me feel at peace in my own body.
Ok but the look on her face when she peeks over the bathroom wall absolutely killed me 😂💀
10:37 Welp, I've been called out.
I NEED A MAN THAT WILL ADJUST MY BINDER IF IM UNCOMFORTABLE SHOWING IT PLEASEEE 😭💞💞
babe wake up sam uploaded
A lot of guys in my friend group, especially my best friend, used to be kinda transphobic. I tried to rationalize with him that trans people really just be out here living, but he would brush me off. Until one of the guys’ partner came out as trans. And then someone in the group came out as trans a year later. After the most recent person came out, I was astonished to see everyone’s reaction. My best friend DM’d me and said “Hey, just letting you know, (deadname) is going by Maria now. She’s a girl.” And we left it at that. I’m proud of the growth that I’ve seen!!
10:48
I was called out multiple times :(
I can't DJ, I am obsessed with squishmallows and I always take my hormones late
I'm enby/agender with OCD, and am obsessed with squishmallows, get gender envy from frat/femboys, and a few others they listed off lol
12:04 We Stan this surprise guest radiating hot alpha energy.😊
Reminder that your gender isn’t tied to your genitals. People always say it as in ‘If you haven’t been able to get the surgery it’s okay’ which is true, but it’s so rare that I see people address that men can be okay with having vs and women can be okay with having ps, and people anywhere outside or between can also have whatever they want. Like personally (transmasc) I want top surgery but I don’t mind having female anatomy ‘down there’. The genitals you want or are just okay with having have nothing to do with your gender. Be who you are and do what you want, make as many or as little changes as you’re comfortable with, you are you. Even cis people get surgeries sometimes (most common example is women getting top surgery to be flat). Don’t feel like you’re faking it if you don’t fit the common experience, don’t feel pressured into doing the common things, be trans your way, because what else are we fighting against the gender binary for?
As an ace who reads too many graphic novels,
*whYyyYyYyyyYy?*
hi sam i’m here in the first 30 mins i think slay
i just wanna say thank you for being you, i always look forward to your videos, i appreciate you so much and i’m sending love your way always
10:50 N-nooo I'm totally a switch and not a bottom 😭 Its just a coincidence that I'm only bottoming...leave me in peace 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
The trans girl at the beginning of the video with the brown hair and sky blue sweater was really pretty 🤍💙
He started early. They look convincing when they start early.
Of course until you take his pants and see the horror show down there 🤮🤮🤮
@@RadioactiveYogurt that can definitely be a downer if your straight for sure.
@@RadioactiveYogurtyou’re denying science
@@RadioactiveYogurt God are you a disgusting person.
crying over the binder moment 🖤
I started watching Sam as a strong ally... Now I'm a proud pan trans guy