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  • Опубліковано 19 лип 2023
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  • @jishmajames314
    @jishmajames314 10 місяців тому +139

    15:18 baby planning

  • @Ammuzz245
    @Ammuzz245 11 місяців тому +751

    Iam a nurse...... Age കൂടുതൽ ആയാൽ issues ഇല്ല എന്നു പറയാൻ പറ്റില്ല എങ്കിലും ഒരു 40 above high risk എന്നു പറയാൻ പറ്റുള്ളൂ.....In some patients after 30 to 35 risk കാണാറുണ്ട്.... But very rare..... So don't think about that.....നിങ്ങൾ comfortable ആയാൽ മാത്രം ഒരു baby planning മതി.... Because ഒരു മനുഷ്യനെ വളർത്താൻ ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങൾ ശ്രെദ്ധിക്കണം..... അതിനു parents കൂടെ comfortable ആകണം..... So enjoy your life.....🫶🏻💞

    • @lekshmivishnu1851
      @lekshmivishnu1851 11 місяців тому +33

      Correct…edoke manasilakunnatine munne baby ayi

    • @lakshmis4111
      @lakshmis4111 11 місяців тому +47

      Valare valare sathyam aane ..pakshe vere oru vasham koode unde.. Late ayittanel , kutty valarne valuthavumbolekkum , parents will be too old .. Kuttikalude nallakalathu , kurach adhikam responsibilities aavum ..

    • @dreamcatcher1706
      @dreamcatcher1706 11 місяців тому +36

      ​@@lakshmis4111nammalde nalla kaalath makkale nookki lyf theerem cheyyum

    • @jky1780
      @jky1780 11 місяців тому +17

      ​@@dreamcatcher1706സത്യം. വയസ് ആവുമ്പോൾ പിള്ളേർ നോക്കുക പോലും ഇല്ല

    • @atheerahramesh4668
      @atheerahramesh4668 11 місяців тому +4

      Thanku for the information ❤

  • @ameenama4987
    @ameenama4987 11 місяців тому +67

    loved ur point "Love is not the only important thing,concentrate on ur goals,rest will fall in place".

  • @ourlittleworld9672
    @ourlittleworld9672 11 місяців тому +38

    Someone in my known circle , she is 30 yrs old and having a lot of health issues , but with out considering her health or her mental state, her in laws are forcing her to have a child and she is mentally exhausted . Seriously don’t understand. Yes , have a child when you are mentally , physically and financially ready.

  • @neeravkrishna2210
    @neeravkrishna2210 11 місяців тому +6

    Loved to watch your videos.. I like your character,such an amazing human being.....

  • @riyajacob3798
    @riyajacob3798 10 місяців тому +2

    Enjoyed your video, like the way you conveyed your answers! Great to know you and Vishnu.

  • @vaigaar9309
    @vaigaar9309 11 місяців тому +10

    U r a gooood human being chechi..very much proud of you 👏

  • @Anjuu6969
    @Anjuu6969 11 місяців тому +84

    Aishu , literally you are a motivator for girls ...❤

  • @anupriyav8959
    @anupriyav8959 11 місяців тому +6

    Thanks for answering my questions...❤

  • @neethumadhusudan7257
    @neethumadhusudan7257 11 місяців тому +5

    I started following ur videos may b from 5 to 6 months so this video made me know u more ❤ love ur videos 😊

  • @SarahAr21
    @SarahAr21 11 місяців тому +54

    It’s a good response that you said about baby planning being a private question. We as a family had a daughter after going through treatments after 7 years. We never thought it would be that hard for us.. going through the entire thing is so stressful and painful in itself and I don’t wish it on anyone. But it was so devastating when people especially malloos who I have only met once intentionally wanting to make me uncomfortable raising these questions. This culture should be discouraged. Thank you for bringing that up Aishu

    • @reshminalinan
      @reshminalinan 10 місяців тому

      Same with me.

    • @gs5710
      @gs5710 9 місяців тому

      I'm going through that phase. Planning to take treatment next month

  • @jomoljoseph4233
    @jomoljoseph4233 11 місяців тому +11

    17:25 mts correct 💯💯... facing every day..

  • @joshnijoby167
    @joshnijoby167 11 місяців тому +2

    Aishu your words are correct. Dont try to impress any one. Be yourself and love yourself. I have learned it with my life situations

  • @aswathy.r.d
    @aswathy.r.d 11 місяців тому +49

    17:13 correctly said 👏 just loved your crisp sharp yet polite answer to the last question like crazy dude. Keep this up.. yo ..Proud of you!!

  • @Thamara_996
    @Thamara_996 11 місяців тому +11

    Chechi njan oru motivation vedeo idan parajirunn pattumeghil cheyyume chechi❤

  • @neerajaajith4515
    @neerajaajith4515 10 місяців тому +9

    It was a great video .. Day by day you are influencing me more ❤I really appreciate the crisp and clear opinion and attitude you have towards your life ❤

  • @amruthabs4755
    @amruthabs4755 11 місяців тому +7

    Chechi how you recover from your previous love will you share it it can motivate others too
    I'm also begging for the love

  • @Anakhask28
    @Anakhask28 11 місяців тому +2

    Chechi... I like you so much... You are something special...Your talking always makes me motivated in some kind ❤

  • @sheelaajit
    @sheelaajit 11 місяців тому

    ABSOLUTELY, YOUR LIFE IS MUCH MORE RELEVANT THAN YOUR LOVE LIFE, WHICH YOUR LIFE FITTINGLY SHOWCASED. AS SEEN IN YOUR CASE, THE HARDEST PART ABOUT LOVING SOMEONE PERSISTENTLY IS WHEN IT'S NOT BEING RECIPROCATED, AND STILL WORSE, WATCHING THAT PERSON LOVE ANOTHER PERSON. GREAT GOING

  • @reenatitus56
    @reenatitus56 11 місяців тому +8

    Super adiboli, that was a great Q&A session. Brief, Frank & to the point . Keep going , good job. God bless you both Aishu nd vishnu❤❤❤❤

  • @ammub7441
    @ammub7441 11 місяців тому +27

    Aisu you are really luck to have such an understanding husband...not everyone will get it.. aarudem kannu thattathe irikkate🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Nayana023
    @Nayana023 8 місяців тому +1

    Started watching your channel best part is you are very open ,no faking at all, very sensible talks❤keep rocking

  • @jasnafayis1984
    @jasnafayis1984 11 місяців тому +11

    Big fan of your vlogs❤

  • @riyahusna1395
    @riyahusna1395 10 місяців тому +3

    Past is past.. ennoke parayan eluppanu.. njan ipoyum regret cheythonde irikalanu.. pakshe enthu karyam.. effort edthittayalum ee qna kandapo changes life l venam ennu thonunu. This qna tells me to have a dream is beautiful. Otherwise life is boring.. thankyou aishu.. i hope i can let to go all my past experience and try to achieve my dream destiny.. for me you are a motivator, you are an influencer...

  • @Reema-oq2ed
    @Reema-oq2ed 11 місяців тому +6

    Aishu chechide vlogs okke kanumbo kittunna oru positive energy ✨️✨️✨️aishu chechii samsarikumbol ente oru sis/ frnd okke parayunnapole thonnunn💖💖love you❤️

  • @nehamaryjohn4713
    @nehamaryjohn4713 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi chechi.. it's my first time I'm commenting in ur video... I think this video was the best one u have ever done in ur channel..there is something special in all ur videos... moreover Vishnu chettan ..he was too special for me as a viewer...keep going on chechii.❤

  • @aswathysivaprasad8711
    @aswathysivaprasad8711 11 місяців тому +4

    Aishuchechi really loving ur content.
    Really motivated videos.
    And I really resampling myself in ur thoughts❤️

  • @sanooshasanujs2786
    @sanooshasanujs2786 11 місяців тому +2

    Big fan of you. Ella videos kanarund.. Especially i like your way of talking❤️

  • @namelessnelly
    @namelessnelly 11 місяців тому +24

    Hey Aishu, great video. Loved your matured, well thought out answers to some difficult questions. And yes I love these q/a or casual sit-down chit chat videos. Hoping to see more of these! ✌🏽

  • @Digital-Swami
    @Digital-Swami 10 місяців тому +5

    Wishing u both the best..love your attitude towards life. ..positive people always win.

  • @dainej.7455
    @dainej.7455 8 місяців тому +6

    I think there is no display of "concern" or "care" when people ask others about their baby plans. Like you said, it's a private question and there is absolutely no need for people to be NOSY and ask this question around. Having a baby is something that should be planned and others have no business in going around and enquiring about it, even to vloggers or other people.

  • @beautywithlidhya6928
    @beautywithlidhya6928 11 місяців тому +36

    Lokath oralodum baby ayille vishesham ayille enne chodikaruth enne theeeumanicha orale anu njn. Chechi paranjath valare sheriyanu because nth reason kondanu oru kunju undavathath enne namuk ariyila athe valare personal karyam aanu.
    Ellavarudem vijaram oru baby undavathath namale manapoorvam late akkunath anennanu.
    After my 2 abortions njn ettavum vedanicha question aanu vishesham ayille ennulath..
    Bhoomi pilarnnu thazhek poyalonne chinthich pokum aa question kelkuna nimisham

    • @sona632
      @sona632 11 місяців тому +2

      Njn askiyirunna alanu… ippo enik manasilayi … ini njn orikalm arodm askilla ath…

    • @mahimathampi
      @mahimathampi 5 місяців тому

      കറക്റ്റ്

  • @dhanutherambil1527
    @dhanutherambil1527 11 місяців тому +4

    You are a great healer❤

  • @Secretgirl937
    @Secretgirl937 11 місяців тому +7

    എനിക്ക് ഒരു പാട് ഇഷ്ട്ടമാണ് ചേച്ചിയെ ഈ തിരക്കിനിടയിലും ഞങ്ങൾക്ക് വേണ്ടി സമയം കണ്ടെത്തുന്നുണ്ടല്ലോ

  • @athira8164
    @athira8164 9 місяців тому +4

    You are such an amazing lady❤️👀

  • @travellingbeauty7630
    @travellingbeauty7630 11 місяців тому +10

    Aishu, വേറെയും കുറെ questions ഉണ്ടല്ലോ. ഇതിന്റെ 2nd part ഇടണേ. Waiting❤️

  • @poojalalu2636
    @poojalalu2636 11 місяців тому +3

    You are such an amazing human.... ❣️❣️

  • @J_1960
    @J_1960 11 місяців тому +4

    Spot on about "rewrite/regret".....past, maybe could guide the future but never carry that "load". Too many stuff to look forward in the short span of life....!!! You guys are terrific.....keep up the great sense of humour going....!!!

  • @sneha3166
    @sneha3166 11 місяців тому +18

    It’s important that we need to be comfortable n ready to have a baby.. but age is definitely a factor..above the age of 35 the health of uterus and quality of eggs will decrease.. due to current life style it can even be earlier... so earlier u conceive it’s safe.. else u have options to preserve eggs and use them when u r ready.. don’t take it negative.. am someone going through this difficulty

  • @nidha.marakkar
    @nidha.marakkar 10 місяців тому +13

    ചില കാര്യംങ്ങൾ work out ആവാത്തത് നല്ലതിനാണ്
    Yess❤
    never beg for love, don't regret past 🖤🌝 i like you're being self confident✨

  • @raveenak2896
    @raveenak2896 11 місяців тому +3

    Hai chechi hair style adipowli ayittnd ❤

  • @blissofsoul3679
    @blissofsoul3679 11 місяців тому +9

    Ee look nannayi cherunnind 🤩❤️

  • @aj-px7ut
    @aj-px7ut 10 місяців тому +4

    You are so inspiring...

  • @Chocolate_lover94
    @Chocolate_lover94 11 місяців тому +3

    Njn etha manasilakiye enu public ayi paryil
    But one day everything will alright
    Don’t
    God bless you ma
    Once again pls don’t suffer ❤️❤️❤️❤️
    One day
    Manushyar manasilakum ningalude value
    Reality ellqm
    ☺️🙂

  • @shahanairfanshahanairfan5199
    @shahanairfanshahanairfan5199 10 місяців тому +2

    Vdos full kandu ella answersm ishtapettu😊bt ningaloke oru public platform aanu use aakunne passion& earning ellam und Ningalude personal vdos oke ningalidunnund travel cheynnadhum vera karyangalm ellam apol ningalde ella karyangalm ariyanm enn swabavikaytm chechiye ishtapedunna njangal choichu povum☺️pinne baby planing nammala vjarikumbol daivam kutiye thannilleggil nammal idhoke archive cheydhitum earn cheydhitum enthkaryanu ulladh🙂

  • @njlifestreaming4832
    @njlifestreaming4832 11 місяців тому +2

    Chechii looking so cute hair um ellam innendho oru cutnes kooduthal

  • @ashworldz4219
    @ashworldz4219 11 місяців тому +3

    Perfect answers 🥰❤️

  • @HOPE-dl8gz
    @HOPE-dl8gz 11 місяців тому +14

    Hello ma'am, I am from North India (Delhi) and not able to understand whatever you speak. So it's my humble request to you please add subtitles so that we can also understand. I want to listen you, i want to know about you, your struggle and everything about you so please add substitle.
    I love hard working people bcz I'm of them. And you are so sweet 😇

  • @_fedora_a_
    @_fedora_a_ 11 місяців тому +3

    Enik epolum enthelum tnsn undenkil njn aishu chechide videos ahnu kanunne..njn okay avum pettann❤❤

  • @quickpick9725
    @quickpick9725 10 місяців тому

    Really inspiring chechi ....luv you so much ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @akhilashabu8404
    @akhilashabu8404 3 місяці тому

    Adipoli q&a aayirunnu Aishu...just loved the way you answered all the difficult questions with a lot of maturity...would love to see more of such q&a from you❤

  • @ardrakm7782
    @ardrakm7782 11 місяців тому +2

    This is one of the best q&a I have ever seen

  • @LidiyaAbith
    @LidiyaAbith 10 місяців тому +8

    Ethrayo friends including me have a baby without having a job.....but surely regret later....aishu paraja pole first vendath financial and emotional stability then babies....good decision dear.....enik oke ethrem bhodam undarnenkil i will not struggle now.....kochina ettond internship cheyyalum project submission um aftr that job nokkalum sathyam paranja vattu pidikum 😂

  • @aneeshasujithlal7133
    @aneeshasujithlal7133 11 місяців тому +2

    Super duper proud of you❤❤❤

  • @remyaraj4125
    @remyaraj4125 11 місяців тому +2

    God bless you dear

  • @saniatheresa3531
    @saniatheresa3531 11 місяців тому +2

    Hey chechi it was so soothing to listen to you. Can u make a video on how u record and edit your videos, app, thumbnail etc....

  • @pravithabinu7794
    @pravithabinu7794 11 місяців тому +17

    Nowadays I watched almost your vedios. Pure souls.. very happy to see your vedios. Keep going guys..with lots of love n prayers.❤❤

  • @sheri9615
    @sheri9615 11 місяців тому +1

    Heloo!! A new subscriber from calicut.. near Chalappuram,.You are simply awesome !!

  • @harithasarath5339
    @harithasarath5339 11 місяців тому +5

    ചേച്ചിയുടെ ആ പഴയ മാല എവിടെ പോയി എനിക്ക് ഒത്തിരി ഇഷ്ടം ആയിരുന്നു അത് ഇട്ട് കാണാൻ

  • @lovelights_
    @lovelights_ 11 місяців тому +6

    Hey ayshu chechi …. Chechi Dubai vannappoo Ann perfume ellam vangiyirunnille? Avrde sthiram customer an Njangl . Ippo aduth njanum husum avde pooyappo aaa shopile owner parnju njn youtubil okke und njan famous an enn okke paranj aa video kanich thannin❤😍

  • @lathikaramachandran4615
    @lathikaramachandran4615 11 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful vlog aishu.. God bless u.. Nice conversation.. Dear

  • @lovelythomas8645
    @lovelythomas8645 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey Aishu gr8 vid..loved ur polite and cool answers. Yeah true girlee its good to be ourself rather than to impress others.God Bless u both.

  • @hanimaprakash5573
    @hanimaprakash5573 11 місяців тому

    Sprr...Good motivator...keep it up...love u aishu

  • @shananasreen8343
    @shananasreen8343 5 місяців тому +1

    9.00 to 9.47 vare paranja kaaryam valare important aan .... actually enikathin pattunnilla but agine aaavaan njaan aagrahikunu sramikunnu...☺️..orupad ytbrs undegilum ..enik nigalee entho baygarytt ishtaa..onnamathe kaaranm ee oru personality aan..☺️🤗🤗 I wish you the best and all goodness in your life 💞

  • @sreejamg
    @sreejamg 10 місяців тому +5

    My frnd 40 ayapozha delivery kazhinjath.first baby.normal delivery arunnu.kunju arogyathode erikunnu.ammakum oru kozhapom ella

  • @rinurinu9859
    @rinurinu9859 10 місяців тому

    Wow nice vedio.......with favorite person love u ayisuuuu

  • @cheyyasaida-vp6jq
    @cheyyasaida-vp6jq 11 місяців тому +9

    Chechi home tour cheyyo full aayit kanichit🥹 garden kand maduthu🥲

  • @Pooja-ih2ny
    @Pooja-ih2ny 11 місяців тому +1

    Chechi Iam big fan of you entho chechiyude samsaramkelkumbol oru big sister ine pole thonund

  • @alfaofficial840
    @alfaofficial840 10 місяців тому +18

    Enikk First baby 19 th ageilum second baby 22 ageilum aayirunnu...... Ippo 24 age 😂 eniitt chechiyude video kandirikkuvanuu.... Apoyanu njan orthathu njan ethra cheru prayathil aanu mom ayathu eenu❤

  • @rumz1693
    @rumz1693 11 місяців тому +6

    I have always been asked this question of "when will we have a baby" now we do have a lil boy who is 3 years!! What i would say is...let ppl be y sud one ask another when or why aren't u guys planning for a baby!! Societal pressure is too much though that person asked out of love or whatsoever we never know what is going in one's life !! That's their personal n private thing i really dnt know y are ppl so bothered about them hvng a kid its not easy like before u just randomly get pregnant n hv a baby nooo now that we women understand how physically emotionally n financially should we be rdy to bring a kid to this world!! I have seen creators talking nntaking care of babies with so much of ease thats the brighter side we see but very few ppl are coming out telling how emotionally exhausted they are and we know how a Herculean task its to look after a kid its not easy at all! There are days where i love staying all alone getting some me time, im craving for it!! So what i wud tell is emotionally n physically okke ready aanenkil maathre baby planning chyyavu n dn think im just tllng the other side of it but positoves ellarkum parayan undavum negatives aarum parayilla!! And Im such a person who wouldn't want to dump my kid to someone to look after even if its my parents or in laws we made the kid we sud look after athaanu ente policy may be for some me time avrde kayyil kodukka ennalland, what u told is right actually!!! Emotionally stable allnkil baby kazhnjit athinte double low aavum nammal cuz its tiring but yes at the end avrde mughath oru chiri kandal nammal veezhum 🤩 and especially European countries il (not only europe US aanelum canada aanelum) evde aanelum looking after babies help indavila and thats y njan Indiayil ninnu thanne avnte ellam my husband n i do it equally athond we nvr felt a burden though 🤩 we are in Germany n ivde its the same like NL!! 🤩

  • @yoursaviour104
    @yoursaviour104 11 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for uploading videos regularly 🥺

  • @jyothyraveendran2322
    @jyothyraveendran2322 3 місяці тому

    I like the way u spoke or interact with the people... Lots of luv❤

  • @GallivanterGirl
    @GallivanterGirl 10 місяців тому

    Sending lots of love ❤

  • @saphire7693
    @saphire7693 11 місяців тому +1

    Oru free standing umbrella undel sunny days il outdoor vlogs cheyyam ..Ayurvedic cleansing cheythal periods okke onnu regular aavan helpful aavarundu chilarku..Age avumpo delivery ku issue varaam..atharinju careful aayi monitor cheythal mathiyavum..ettavum important happiness thanneyanu..Vishnu lucky aanu..oru arranged marriage il right partner ne kitty

  • @amina...c7281
    @amina...c7281 11 місяців тому +11

    Aishoo &Vishnu chetta
    Both are very loving ❤

  • @Lalalessa
    @Lalalessa 11 місяців тому +1

    How about the opportunities in health sector in netherlands?

  • @sushmas92
    @sushmas92 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm ur new subscriber... I'm kannadiga , I don't understand ur language but love to watch ur videos ...try to speak english as well in ur videos..

  • @shaimakk4940
    @shaimakk4940 11 місяців тому

    Super standard video❤️

  • @sree_parusree_paru60
    @sree_parusree_paru60 7 місяців тому

    Last question te answer Adipoli 😍

  • @Greeeeeen77
    @Greeeeeen77 11 місяців тому

    Chechi u r so superrr😍

  • @chippypaulose4554
    @chippypaulose4554 11 місяців тому +2

    My fav utuber❤some aspects of urs really resembles me . Want to meet u one day😊😊😊

  • @meenum6417
    @meenum6417 11 місяців тому +6

    Unniyettan first😅

  • @irineldhose4835
    @irineldhose4835 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤

  • @fathimathsuhra2039
    @fathimathsuhra2039 10 місяців тому +1

    😮😮padachone ente naatilo😵valancheryilano padichath.. Arinjillyaa.. Aarum paranjillya... 😍Chechide naadu evadeyaanu... Enthu parayuaanelum genuine ayit smile cheythu eppozhum samsarikkunnath orikkalum stop aakaruth😍kepp smiling......

  • @samarshasai3341
    @samarshasai3341 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @inaibrahim99
    @inaibrahim99 11 місяців тому +2

    Chechii....Home tour kanikke

  • @ZarahFalahh
    @ZarahFalahh 10 місяців тому

    Njn delhi schoolil ndayrnn cheriya classl chechi head girl okke aaya tyml..i remembr how popular u was🤌🏻i do rembr your sports talent..i used to admire your running skills..hope u have a good future❤

  • @jaya3478
    @jaya3478 10 місяців тому

    Asin,asif ali,manju warrier,sunny Wayne,nikhila vimal,rani Mukherjee

  • @nishanahaniya3926
    @nishanahaniya3926 11 місяців тому +2

    Yuor super duper aishu❤❤

  • @sneha5835
    @sneha5835 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi, I am from Ireland. Could u please tell online shopping sites for both indian and Western outfits. Thank you.

  • @faseelaprashid4298
    @faseelaprashid4298 7 місяців тому

    Very well said sister🥰🥰

  • @josephchristeena5118
    @josephchristeena5118 11 місяців тому

    Best wishes dea💜🤗🤗🤗

  • @Rr_rR_R
    @Rr_rR_R 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤️

  • @nishanishanth1797
    @nishanishanth1797 6 місяців тому

    Hi aishu.....I never agree with vishnuz cmnt that u have to get matured after your birthday...your answers to these questions are just amazing..I just loved the way of ur response....

  • @stefiniasas1424
    @stefiniasas1424 11 місяців тому

    😂😂😂marupadi okkk enik ishtam ayii❤

  • @loveyourselfeveryday782
    @loveyourselfeveryday782 11 місяців тому +1

    Chechi❤❤

  • @raymashanu1893
    @raymashanu1893 11 місяців тому +4

    Njan ithu kaanmbo think aakknnath Aishu prgnt aayal vdeos ittittilleggilo ennu alojich verde oru tension aaknn.. anyway athrakk ishtann aishunte vlgs kaanan.. athu parayan pattatha athra aanu. Entho oru postv vibe kittum❤

  • @navyageorge1956
    @navyageorge1956 11 місяців тому

    Love love love ❤

  • @suryasu672
    @suryasu672 11 місяців тому +1

    Aishu chechi ♥️

  • @aswathycm5269
    @aswathycm5269 11 місяців тому

    Aishhuuu❤