"Don’t Call Us Ladies BIGOT!!" Reacting To They/Them Lesbians Kicked Out Of Bar
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“Men do x”…”men do y”…don’t call us women though.
What?
GOOD POINT!
Exactly
if I say to someone trans "you will never be a woman/man" am i a transphobe?
don't call us women, but it's cool for you to call BOTH of us wives, ( someone dosent know the definition ) men suck (sums it up) but i'm trying to look like one.
@@divaducksAnd when they don't like the definition they change it.
Lesbian is a term for women who like other women, and wife is the term for a female spouse. Why is this person getting upset with being called a lady, when the person is perfectly fine with using lesbian and wife?
And also "gal".
dont you remember that the definition of lesbian is "a non-man attracted to other non-men" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Because they want to change the definitions of "lesbians" and "wife".
They’re so woke and so toxically feminist theyd rather be “ non men” than women which is laughably sad and depressing.
@@katet_33yup. They already forcibly changed the definition of woman. So now when’s. Lesbian says she only likes women, they call her a bigot because “trans women are women 🤪”
"It's a queer bar but it was just a bunch of gay white guys"
"they're just looking for straight people's validation"
How incredibly gross and judgemental can someone be while crying about being unfairly judged?
These people don’t realize how homophobic and racist they really are inside. the persons race has zero to do with it yet she’s trying to use him being white as a negative when it isn’t. Then claiming they just want straight peoples validation is so homophobic as well 😭 it hurts my head
I mean...if they're in a gay bar it seems unlikely that they're after validation from straight people doesn't it xD
It's not enough to be gay these days. If they were black men, would their race be worth mentioning? Why is it when they're gay? Why is it when they're straight even? Blaming their problems on someone's immutable characteristics is actually bigoted.
@@annafirth6738 ...ooooook?
These are two people with severe mental issues. They need therapy.
”Pronoun _gal_ "
"My _wife_ "
"We're _lesbians_ "
But getting called _lady_ is going too far?
They got mad because they didn't succeed manipulating/gaslighting the gay men in that bar. Poor thing... 🤷♂
still dont understand being a he/him lesbian like you cant have it both ways
❌ SYSTEM FAILURE - You are trying to apply logic ❌
I doubt it's the "ladies" that sent her into a tailspin. She probably (both of them actually) tried to say something about it out of their self-aggrandizing perception of themselves and need to control how people address them, yeah.
But imho she didn't expect any resistance, let alone backlash, and got her nose out of joint by the gay guy who just didn't have the patience for this shit and they can't handle
1) anyone who resist them and, worse, those who bite back and
2) being scolded by someone probably older and with no tolerance for fragile and entitled kids (plus as a bartender, he's most likely dealt with many WTFs).
This screams authority issues (well, on top of their major egos, mental stuff that clearly needs to be addressed and overall Gen Z Tiktoker & Kweer entitlement, obviously)
@StarLuna787 I wish they would just use entirely different lables for sexuality for none binary people. I saw I think trixic being used, but it didnt seem to take off. I would be happy if they used trixic, or any soecial little lable they wnated to use. It would make sense and help seperate them from the regular binary people.
@@selfidolization what is that?
As a gay white man, I have come across people like this and I can confirm that I am sick of it. I'm loosing my patience with the They/thems.
As a straight guy with gay friends, I agree with you. It is annoying that all this Pride Woke b.s. is everywhere in public, in the news, on tv, on ads, etc. Everyone knows about it now.
(Real) trans people are also sick of these freaks.
As a real trans black man, I have come across people like this and I can confirm that I am sick of the bs too . I'm really loosing my patience with the They/thems and xe/xers.
@drCrypticChronicles Based Trans Man. Like Marcus. Tired of these custom made pronouns people... And wtf is a non-binary?! I still don't get it... And I get called bigoted for not going with it... Also, F these Pride Flags!
@@User700-tm7xx I undestand the concept of Non-Binary, but..only crazy people that use them lol. How are you a they LMAO. are you 2 person, 3 person ? delulu is what that is LOL
I’m autistic (officially diagnosed) and I wouldn’t film a meltdown. I’m often too frazzled and distraught to do anything other than try to calm myself down.
Same 💜
My boyfriend of seven years has autism he's low level and can function fine socially but when a meltdown happens it's Not pretty his family tried to turn a meltdown into a selfish tantrum and I who looked after him when it happened was like no it's not his fault you're his family you should know why and how meltdowns happen irony being all of his family are all into the autism is a fun experience crowed
100%
That's because you're a real human being trying to deal with the complexities of life and doing your very best to navigate your way through life. 💯🥰 Whereas a lot of these people we're seeing nowadays I think enjoy posting their unrealistic, over the top demands about gender.
Autistic woman here....I agree with you 💯
Calls herself 'pronoun gal' then complains about being referred to as a female... Also, not winning any awards for those 'dramatics.'
Yup.... last I checked *"a gal"* is a female... what an ass
She should be dancing the fandango lmao, she technically got what she wanted.
They just like telling everyone how to behave and how to treat them. Like if they were royalty or something
I thought she was a candle.
I just can't keep up with the nonsence.
@@lennieblake3444 Not candle, but a Rat
How are they okay with being called wives if they aren't "ladies"?! ....Please be consistent at the very least 🤦♀️😂🤣😂🤣
Another inconsistency is them thinking that using “they/them” pronouns makes one trans 😂😭 like miss girl how can you be trans if you claim to not have a gender or whatever? Trans means transition, so if you have no gender as you claim to be a they/them, wtf are you gonna “transition” to 🙄😂
Exactly. I said the same thing lol
Some people have too much free time
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@@anyasidorovthe abyss lmao
My thought was if 'wife' is just a word they use, isn't lady just a word also? 🤔
Can we all agree that their sense of entitlement and their massive egos are beyond reproach?
I don’t know what I hate more…. The profound narcissist entitlement, or how we have a generation filled with a growing population of female adults who hate being perceived as women, while allowing men to trample all over the REAL “safe spaces” women have worked so hard to reserve for them, so they can have opportunities their grandmothers were robbed of.. They have no idea who they are or how to respond to actual life problems.
That phrase 'beyond reproach;' it means the opposite of how you are using it. Beyond reproach means that no one would criticize them. But the whole video criticizes them. Still giving you a thumbs up, cause I know what you meant.
I'm convinced it's satire. It has to be satire. Please tell me it is satire.
@mick776gold they meant it correctly please learn grammar
"beyond reproach
phrase of reproach
such that no criticism can be made; perfect.
"his integrity is beyond reproach""
@@MikanVTuber If davidp2625 used the phrase correctly, then he were being ironic. And he gave no indication of being Ironic. Maybe davidp2625 was saying they BELIEVEd they were beyond reproach, but they is not what was written. Are you just assuming davidp2625 was being ironic?
I’m disabled. Can you imagine if we started doing this every time someone said run/walk/see/hear etc instead of wheel/touch/sign, etc? Lord have mercy 😂
What an excellent point!
how the comparison is illogical and completely different@@MagentaBell
Thank you for sharing this I didn’t know that is how to be inclusive to disabled folks and now I have learnt and will work on using that.
I'm blind, I use see all the time, I, of course, didn't see the show, or watch the movie, blah blah blah, but these are just words and honestly, I'd feel really weird saying i'm going to listen to the movie.
Everyone yes, even us blindies, has a camra these days and people love to film themselves for points that mean nothing. They want validation because they probably could do with a good theropist and governments that actually, ya no, care about people?
@@NonieMaingi -- If you mean that you'll start saying wheel, touch, sign, etc., you're missing the point that @ScoobyDoozy was making. Being inclusive to a disabled person doesn't mean singling them out by the way you talk.
The fact that she called it an autistic meltdown absolutely disgusts me as an actual autistic person with a medical diagnosis.
Yes made me mad too
i am mad too.
My daughter is autistic and she would never, never film her having a “meltdown”. I would not have thought they were autistic. Most people who are on the spectrum do not call attention to themselves, they are trying more to fit in.
@@doriloyd8587 exactly!
I'm autistic, too.
Y’all notice that the “trans” people that’s always offended never look like the gender they identify as💀.
Fact!
Hey, in their defense, some of them do try...as much as getting a horrible haircut, thick glasses, and dressing vaguely like an 80's cartoon character can pass.
I guess it would seem insensitive of me to bring up the starving children of the world right now.
Fr this “person” is with the most feminine little French curly bob, winged eyeliner, and RED LIPSTICK. 😭 anyone would call you a lady
@@wendypatton1932 That's not half as important as people pretending to be something they aren't. Come on, put your priorities in order.
Every time I see a “they/them” shirt pin or pronouns on a dating profile I immediately go out of my way to avoid them and swipe left because I can tell they are insufferable from the whole persona NOOO THANK U. I don’t like being around ppl who complain 24/7
I do the same 😂😂 I just ignore them too I just don't want to be around them... They? Fair... Fairy? Who cares 😅😅
Absolutely 😂
Yes! I'm sorry but you wanting to be referred to as they/them. That tells me ALL I need to know.
Same, its been a while since i've seen a good ol' butch lesbian :( I miss those lol
Amen. It's a huge red flag.
The Freudian slip where she describes the gay bartender as a "Straight White Male". 🙄
ignoring the fact that she herself is white 😂
@@megsley And in a gay bar! 😂😂🤦♀🤦♀
It just goes to show that she’s used to saying it as a slur
She said it with so much disdain, too!
"I felt like he was yelling at me like a dad." And there it is... to quote Blaire White: "Talk to your dad. Repair that relationship. You won't be non-binary anymore."
Yes! I did notice that too and had the same thought. It was a trauma response
As an autistic adult it sucks because so many people misappropriate the vocabulary that allowed me to communicate needs and boundaries (for both myself and others towards me). And that's if they take my professional diagnosis seriously at all. The abuse of therapy talk is one of the worst developments on social media.
I know that times are tough and a lot of people do not have access to adequate mental health care, but that doesn't change the fact that those words MEAN something and abusing them only hurt marginalized people. Self-centeredness is a hell of a thing.
Wow she said her wife was having an Autistic meltdown, CLEARLY NOT! I’ve seen many autistic meltdowns and NEVER saw the ppl experiencing them run and grab their camera set it up and then decide to “meltdown” for views…Thank you for calling these people out and kudos to the bartender
It might very well be an autistic meltdown ... but the focus of the video isn't "Life with Autism". So in a way it's like they're just pulling the "autism" card to increase the victim factor.
no i agree with you. i have autism myself and i would be horrified if anyone saw me meltdown like that. it pisses me off when words like that that are supposed to be used for a MEDICAL condition are then used for "justifying" spoiled and entitled behavior. it makes us look immature like this crybaby here.
Now that you mention it... My ex had aspergers and I think filming herself having the breakdown would be amingst the most unlikely things for her ever to do. Actually, I can't imagine why anyone would record a breakdown. Also you can't really film yourself properly during loss of control. I think the word we're looking for here is 'rant' and it can happen during a psychotic episode or before or after a breakdown... But how would you film having a break down? Even it the camera is mounted, why would you remain in the frame through the entire breakdown? This is actually one of the most stupid fake excuses i have heard in my life 😂
@@freyja802 mhm. you'd have to be in some type of control of yourself in order to even think to record it.
This. I am autistic, and it is the last thing I would want to do. It's demoralising and overwhelming. These people are just ridiculous, and she's possibly self diagnosed, so isn't truly autistic. The bartender did the right thing, and I absolutely love Marcus's and Clarkson's takes on the situation.
How doesn’t she see the irony that “wife is just a word” but if you are called a lady (which is also a word) then your wife is allowed to have a meltdown ??
Seriously, all this stuff makes my head spin. However, one thing is for sure… Wait till she’s in her 40s or 50s and she becomes invisible as most women in this country do. She’ll be wishing somebody referred to her as “ladies” at that point.
Words bad, wah.
@@latsnojokelee6434Bullshit. I'm in my 40's and I'm not invisible as you say. Drop this misogyny.
Double standard lmao
Well, they showed them, by not acting like ladies.
It's scary how many of these "adults" seem to have the emotional maturity of a toddler.
How do they ever expect to function in the real world having meltdowns like this?
I dunno, most toddlers I know have a legit reason to FAKE tears, if they ever do something like that.
This is an insult to toddlers. My toddler was upset because she wasn't aloud to change her name to Pikachu. I explained it to her. And she Literally cried for less than a minute. And then was over it.
@BriMcPherson86 good point, a toddler does have more reasoning capacity than these people
These people are autistic and unfortunately, emotional immaturity and being prone to melt downs are both common in many autistics.
Also, there is no chance that this is an actual meltdown. A meltdown is an involuntary response and you don't just think "hmm... you know what would be neat? Let's film this!" in the middle of one. She's just throwing a tantrumn (as you said, like a toddler)
Everyone's the hero in their story. To hear her tell it, she politely told the bartender that "some people don't refer to themselves as ladies but it's okay" but you know she blew up at him. You can hear just how much contempt and resentment she holds in the way she says "straight white man".
Pronoun gal: Hi I'm LESBIAN snow white, otherwise known as the pronoun GAL and this is my WIFE .....
Also pronoun gal: DON'T call us ladies you transphobe!!!!! 😂😂😂😂 Thank you Marcus! ❤ you are awesome and inspiring.
As a woman, i’m offended at “ladies” being considered offensive. It’s never offensive, you just choose to take it that way.
It's sexism. Pure and simple. Being disgusted by any gender is sexism. Including all the "feminists" who screech about sTrAiGhT CiS MeN 🤦🏻♀️
That person is perfectly fine with using “gal”, “wife” and “lesbian”.
Why they made a fuss about someone using “lady”?
mental issues
@@SWilde-ws9qg I think it is narcissism
Because she’s the opposite of a lady? She’s a ladette.
It's probably "too white" in her vocabulary world.
Watch how she goes from crying hysterically to then being completely fine.
Just like a narcissist.
IF SHE WAS MY DAOUGHTER BEHAVEING LIKE A 2 YEAR OLD HAVEING A TEMPER TANTERUM WELL SHE WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO SIT DOWN FOR A WEEK ACT LIKE A BABY BE TREATED LIKE ONE
I can't get past her going back and forth they theming and he himing the bar tender in her story. Eff her and everyone like her. I refuse to play the game she won't even play herself.
Seems fake. Not that it makes it any better.
Completely psychotic
If "wife" is just a word, by that logic, "lady" is also just a word, so why are they getting offended by words?
All I am hearing from them is "I am a victim. Validate our victimhood. Victim. Victim. Victim" and it irritates me.
This whole generation are victims 🥴
How can you be a lesbian and nonbinary?
Exactly
As a lesbian, I'd never ever date a nonbinary 'lesbian'
They recognize their anatomy but reject their real identity so they want biology to only be considered through technicalities and run around logic.
ppl see it like "gender doesn't equal sexuality" so u can have random prns, or be nonbinary/ genderfluid while still being the sexuality u r, its confusing tbh
its mentally ill is what it si@@plac3m
@@plac3mso manbians are valid too
This is the same lady that actually, seriously, wholeheartedly, tries to convince people that they can identify as clippity/cloppity and lemon/lemons
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol so funny!
One of her video also tell us Rat pronouns.
She's not They/Them like she told us she's more like Rat/Ratself because she's a Rat
@@I_Dont_Believe_In_Salad I can't stop laughing with all these comments 🤣🤣🤣
🤦♀️
Unlike y’all…..I don’t need to be “celebrated” for who I want to have sex with, what’s between my legs or what I “identify” as or “think” is between my legs. I’m a gay 26 year old woman. I don’t need to be celebrated for something i can’t control. I want to be celebrated for things I actually worked for and accomplished.
I don't know why anyone would want to be celebrated, but OK.
“I will give myself a confusing title so that i not only am unique, i am the easiest to trigger. That is how i view my forced respect onto others like they made me respect them for years!”
Seems like these people mistake pronouns with actual personality and actual individuality. PATHETIC.
I like how not once did a tear actually fall from her eyes.
@@WemelyTigry Nope. It's called crocodile tears. It's fake.
" men" don't cry. She is the " man" of the couple. 😂😂😂😂😂
@@WemelyTigrylook up the definition of crocodile tears.
@@WemelyTigry Well, because if you're gonna play the victim (when you're not), at least do it correctly. It will just give her a worse reputation than she already has
That's so interesting. I'm blind and noticed something too, there's no sniffling. I wonder if she's actually crying or just putting on a show.
How can she be a "wife" and a "they/them"? If you hate being a "lady" so much, how can you be a wife? It's like no sentence they say has to correlate with anything else they say.
There is no way she was as "nice" to the bartender as she is pretending she was when retelling the story.
Nope. I hope the bartender comes forward and tells his side of the story.
Yeah, we've definitely got a case of unreliable narrator.
@@manichannah not a bad idea but as he will be branded as a "straight white male" before he even opens his mouth. nothing he can say will really make anything better, esp given how many of her supporters already entirely believe her/rat side of the story and her/rat wife is making this a trans/identity/society/freedom issue. Wrapping themselves in flags of freedom and resistance and standing up to straight white men in a gay bar (umm..what).....there is no winning.
nothing short of video will make a difference, and if there is video evidence, then he will be accused of doxxing and trying to "destroy" her for no good reason in releasing it as she's just a sweet little youtubers who isn't hurting anyone.....
I imagine that she probably approached him how she is in her videos like all grossly overly “hiiiii I am so sickly sweet & nice” and it probably came across as extremely passive aggressive if that makes sense. And it was probably infuriating to experience.
Right??? I seriously doubt she was this bubbly, innocent and positive ray of sunshine. There are no doubts in mind that she was a pest, rude and condescending, but conveniently left all of that out.
"This is the first time I felt brave enough..." while fake crying for attention. So stunning, so brave
"I didn't think that was gonna happen." I never expected anyone would call me out on my condescending bulls***.
So theyre not ladies but she calls her significant other her wife??
Make it make sense.
Exactly. Just goes to show how much control they want over others and their speech. Even she herself uses female specific language for herself yet wants everyone else to not refer to her as a woman… I hope she wakes up sooner rather than later, how embarrassing for her and her family 🤢
Referring to Azuls response:
I am someone who has worked in two gay bars. And because of that have met many gay, lesbian, and trans people who will be friends of mine for life. But I DONT love them BECAUSE they are gay. The thing is - I don’t think people should be judged or “celebrated” for their sexuality. I think it should be about them as a person. Their character. Laughing and joking and caring for eachother. Celebrating our happiness and achievements, helping eachother through hard times. NOT celebrating or reducing anyone to their sexuality. Like…what the hell? The whole “celebrate queer people and stay in our bubble away from the horrible straight people” mentality is just surprising. It’s limiting. I am loved by many people and I love many people. Thank god it has nothing to do with their race or sexuality. Otherwise we would miss out on amazing experiences with one another.
This comment was so beautiful and true!!
I'm autistic and have experienced meltdowns throughout my life, while people present in different ways during one I'm pretty sure she is not in the process of having one. What that looks like instead is narcissistic injury. Unfortunately it seems a lot of people in that 'activist space' like to self-diagnose themselves as being on the spectrum because it lets them get away with even more bad self-centered behaviour, and another thing to shout about for attention. It really irritates me as it spreads a false notion of what it is to be autistic and contributes to social stigma that we've spent years trying to remove.
I completely agree.
100% agree, and I'm tired of people throwing around the term "autitic meltdown", which is actually a serious neurological event, when what they mean is "temper tantrum". This was definitely a narcissistic injury.
I so agree with you. I suffer from real, severe, clinical depression and anxiety, and I am sick of people faking it online for attention.
I agree 100%
@@dinosaurwoman Having anxiety with autism sucks.
Thanks Marcus. You really are the voice of reason
Thank you Joey! Sending you so much love
@@marcusdib you are very welcome. Back at you 💙
Oh that wink when you called her ignorant. You really brought the sass there. Love it.
Omg! She was that crazy chick that comes up with a thousand different pronouns!!??
Rat/ratself 😂 I can't omg
Lol yep.
Bug/bugself was the one thst made me laugh out loud 😂
(I hate having to edit for a mistype)
I wondered why the person looked familiar, but I couldn't place it.
I love seeing the fantasies shatter when reality comes knocking.
I recognized clown as soon as I saw clown throwing a fake crying fit.
The homophobia she spills is so ironic. People like her don’t see the hypocrisy in their words or actions, it’s just me me me.
I'm a woman who shaves her head, and I can't tell you how many times I've been mistaken for a man. I myself don't think I look like a man, but I can understand why some might think I am one. Still, I don't get upset about it.
I'm a guy with relatively long hair.
As recently as just a couple of months ago, a waitress in the restaurant my wife and I were at referred to the two of us as female - as my back was turned towards her as she approached.
Granted, I was seated - but my physique as in shoulder width and musculature does not resemble a woman's at all.
In any event, the waitress made a mistake was embarrassed and apologized - and I smiled and said something like "That's ok."
Simple as that.
I shaved my head a couple years ago and right afterwards I caught a glimpse of myself in the window and legit thought, "Who the hell is that overweight, middle-aged bald man?" Before I realized it was me, and I started to laugh (am female, BTW).
I don't have that manly of a voice, and I get why sometimes during phone calls regarding services and what have you, they call me ma'am. It's annoying, but I'm fully aware they are trying to be nice and they don't have me in front of them. I never go into meltdown mode, like ever... like I want to be taken seriously as an adult.
I am also a woman who shaves my head, I used to find it kinda funny and nice when someone called me a guy on accident, now when it happens people are trying to act like I must be trans and tripping all over themselves to be “polite”. It’s cringe. I’m a woman and I dgaf what pronouns you use. Makes me want to present more femme just to avoid being grouped in with the pronoun people. Yuck
I like shaving my hair and my husband has long hair 😂😂 he loves it
Bro thank you for speaking the truth that most of the LGB community feels. Who even knows what the bartender’s side of the story was, all we see is this whiney “Barbie” and that person’s viewpoint of events. I’m so over these “woke” people thinking they are doing anything other than dragging the entire community into the dumpster. Thank you Marcus for speaking for the rational people in the community 💕
2 things absolutely strike me here. One, Marcus being so young and so wonderfully in touch with logic, sanity & reason. Bless you. ❤️
Two-ANY F*CKING ONE who would post loony crying videos..??!?😱🤨 What in actual fook is that about??! Especially over being addressed respectfully. I’m just lost on that whole thing.
Marcus, keep fighting the good fight. You are a gift, young man. And thank you for giving this 50 year old straight woman true insights to what makes true trans folks. I’ve never been “bigoted” against anyone, but these crazy activists confuse and inflame the real issues so badly. Real activism is supposed to be aid. These people are hatemongers. Why...
I'm a woman and she looks way more feminine than me. And what type of privileged life have you had if being called a lady makes you feel not "safe"? They always use that word and it's ridiculous.
I just can’t with this! This woman is MENTAL and she needs help to control her emotional issues..
I made a shirt, it’s also my FB bio text, that says “A community that demands diversity but punishes diversity of thought is not a diverse community. It’s a cult.” And it triggers people like them every time I wear it to the bar. Marcus, if you sell merch, fee free to steal that phrase and sell the hell out of it.
Love it
I like that them getting triggered by it immediately proves your point.
If I saw you in person wearings such a shirt, I'd give you a high-five and ask if you wanna be friends. 😂
It's corny but i agree
100% the truth
I'll never get used to people having a breakdown, deciding to open TikTok or IG mid-breakdown, recording themselves crying, pausing the recording in between to say different things and cut out silences, re-recording parts that didn't come out right, editing the video, adding captions, watching it back and STILL being like "yeah, this is good, imma post it"
I honestly can’t believe this is the reality I live in anymore. How is that girl crying even real?! I’m so glad that gay bartender called those LADIES out on their BS.
I love how she's "crying" as she rests on her head on her hand. That's not the body language of someone who is genuinely distressed but someone who is relaxed, entitled and knows she gets validation by putting on the victim show. So fake.
Totall narcissistic behavior!
When it comes to autism, it's usually the same people who claim to be trans without actually being trans who also like to say they're self-diagnosed with autism. This was their major trend at one time and some of them were very aggressive and condescending towards people diagnosed with ASD, calling us “privileged” in online social groups.
They have been very harmful to the autistic communities and they are now doing the same with trans people. I'm really sorry for that.
I hate how people are self diagnosing themselves as “autistic,” to excuse their behavior. As someone who was professionally diagnosed three decades ago and have worked on making my disability less noticeable, infuriates me.
While I know that there is people usually older females that weren’t able to get diagnosed as children and have either been diagnosed as adults or have self diagnosed themselves seeing how they fit the criteria, meanwhile, it doesn’t give every teenager on tic tok the right to do so.
@@melissamurray8307 What really bothered me was the way these people dictated how we could define ourselves according to what they perceived as offensive.
It became impossible to describe some of our symptoms, if they didn't fit in with their vision of autism, or rather their appropriation of it to fit in with their own problems. We couldn't even quote the DSM, because they felt it discriminated against "self-diagnosed autistic people" who didn't have the symptoms listed. They often talk about autism as a simple personality trait, but don't hesitate to call anyone who disagrees with them a validist.
I'm not talking, of course, about people who have questions and have not yet been diagnosed, for whatever reason. Most of these people are perfectly correct and open to dialogue.
Rather, I'm talking about those people who appropriate all the disorders, handicaps and characteristics they can on social networks and show themselves to be aggressive and harmful towards the people actually concerned. They're easy to recognize because they often display all the disorders they think they have alongside their pseudonyms and talk about them at the slightest opportunity, especially to use them as an argument of authority and make people who disagree seem intolerant.
@@aureliechan722 I totally agree. It’s one thing to be born in the sixties when there wasn’t a lot of diagnoses at that time or females who spent decades masking. That is understandable. But using it as a “quirk,” is a different thing altogether.
@@melissamurray8307I didn't get diagnosed until I was 31
Blaire White made a great quote a few weeks ago "Show me an asexual person who has been discriminated against for choosing to not get laid" cut the cord I'm sick of them
Ironically lefty insults include incel and virgin.
Well, they are personal experiences and I don’t make them public, but yes I have gotten in sticky situations because hetero people think I am giving signals that I am most definitely not. Blaire says some dumb sh1t sometimes. (Regardless of the popular “definition,” i use non+binary and ngc interchangeably, and most of the reflection on my identity was done pre-internet days, before all these terms were around)
I do get what you’re saying, just that it’s maybe weird to assume that things that get trendy due to the results of internet exposure automatically mean those things are all silly and made-up. Like a lot of things on the internet, they have often been appropriated from the real and complex human experiences of other people.
I really do have two asexual friends. They don't make big stink about it. It's harder for them to have romantic relationships because of it but if someone hits on them in terms that they want to get sexual. They turn them down, just like anyone who is sexually active would. Rarely they would bring up their sexuality and even if they did. They didn't go on social media and start crying that, omg some person hit on me and wouldn't believe or accept that I'm asexual. Cause they know it's a rare type of thing and they both have common sense. XD
I really don't think aces are being problematic like these idiots they're certainly not attention seeking or narcissistic like them
I think I’m one idk. I just consider it as a very low s3x drive. I like romantic stuff of course but with the other stuff…not really a fit in my department 🤦🏽♀️wish it was tbh
I remember I used to get meltdown every other week before I got a mental grasp on reality and my "identity," I think a lot of people just need to take a few weeks or months away from social media and find a hobby
I laughed when i was watching this i was like shes forcing her tears so hard while holding a phone up to her face and then placing the phone at different angels so show her wife rubbing her back🤣
She’s obviously faking these emotions for attention.
Yeah, especially since she can "cry" without a single tear.
@@darnunt Yeah, there's a massive phenomena now of women fake-crying for social attention on social media. I came across a video of a woman who was genuinely crying as she told a story about something done by her abusive spouse, and the difference was clear---by which I mean she was ugly crying, swollen and red. The women who are fake crying make sure to be pretty while doing it.
Yup!!!
my IDENTITY!!!!!!
Of course. I wouldn’t expect anything else from some chick who was educating people on the non existent “pronoun” of rat/rats. 🙄🤦🏻♀️
I'm a lesbian woman, who is with a lesbian woman. Seeing videos like these makes me sick, makes me scared to adopt children and try to raise them in a world where women can cry about being called women when that's what they are 🤷
I'll never follow along with the they/them stuff, the trans masc stuff, where everybody can be trans and you don't have to have gender dysphoria! It's honestly stupid, and I'm glad I wasn't brainwashed by the heavily involved gay people I used to be friends with.
only women are lesbians so you dont need to say lesbian woman. just say lesbian
Well I think partially it has something to do with their upbringing. Pay attention to what your kids watch, hang out, their education. Talk to them, keep them away from some nonsense and they'll probably end up with a good head on their shoulders.
Good for you for being a sane person. Don’t worry, I know these people don’t represent you or your partner.
You can raise your children with common sense, love and acceptance.. and through that make the world a little bit better. Make them the antidote for this craziness.
I'm a lesbian who has raised 2 son's. Tbh I'm glad they're adults now, and not onboard with this ridiculousness because I expect it is harder now with so many young people vulnerable and the schools really not helping at all.
But you should definitely have kids if you want them. I love having kids❤❤❤
Literally calls herself “lesbian” and “gal” and her partner a “wife” - last time i checked those are all ladies
9:30 the way she said “all the afabs in the comments” sounds exactly when men refer to women as females. it sounds like we are objects and we are not objects. same energy girlie same energy
Im glad more creator's are calling out the craziness and lets people know that they don't represent everyone. Thank you!
The spouse of the TikTok person is also a hypocrite.
“Don’t hate on your own community!”
*Doesnt say anything when the partner says, “gay white men” with disdain*
the lgb should be separate from the tq+ regardless
It's amazing to me how everyone now claims to be autistic to justify their absurd, over the top reactions.
Yeah its nuts.
Either something in the water has made 50% of the under 30s autistic or its just another excuse to act kike a spoilt child.
Nothing in how she reacts in this video appears Autistic. Histrionic Personality Disorder is my guess.
I’m autistic and I agree with you wholeheartedly. I’ve had my fair share of meltdowns but I would absolutely never record myself having one then post it on social media for the entire world to see. This woman is so starved for attention, it’s baffling.
And I don't know any autistic people who act this outlandish. I know they are not monolithic but this is a "look at me" approach which usually goes against what most autistic people are.
and because of people like this "lesbian snow white" I accually feel bad about being autistic... and because of people like this I often got comments "being autistic is a bull*hit" when I try to explain to someone my behavior (that is not even really controversial, like "I'm getting headache in bright environment" or "I just have to do things in a certain order or I'm getting stressed out and feel lost")
She has a problem with the word “ladies” but still uses the word “wife”?
So i am going to level with you. I used to be pretty transphobic because i thought pretty much most people acted like this way. But thanks to you and Blair it made me understand it better and feel better. I didnt like the trans community for a very long time because of what i have seen. But my mind has been educated better by you for your understanding of reality.
Thank you from a lesbian for actually being one of the few people who are actually willing to vocally stand up against this bs. I used to have tik tok but when I saw all of these “activists” trying to water down or completely change the meaning of lesbianism and adding things that in no way could ever be a part of the lesbian experience or “identity” I was so upset and deleted the app entirely. Especially when all of the comments were supporting their delusions. I’ve seen these people try and say that the definition of lesbian is now “non man loving non man” and that “you can be a they/them, he/him lesbian and call your partner your boyfriend but still be a lesbian” and it bothered me. What’s so wrong with being a woman who loves other women and why do we have to change the meaning to coddle and baby everyone else??? And these two right here in this video are a perfect example of spreading and truly believing in this nonsense. It’s ridiculous and I’m so tired of it.
Did anyone else notice that there wasn't a single tear coming down her face at all during her dramatic pity party.
Yup.
I highly doubt that her response was "some people don't refer to themselves as ladies and it's okay that you didn't know". For them to react by getting angry enough to kick her out of the bar.. she definitely wasn't so nice in her response to being Properly gendered
Absolutely agree.
She reminds me of a kid that was caught using slurs and tried to blame everyone but themselves.
As a trans man, I find it to be an interesting challenge for myself getting misgendered (by strangers). Yes, the dysphoria is immediate. But why by how others see me? I still feel like myself, nothing has changed. I'll continue being me and we'll move on with our day.
I see it as an opportunity to man the fuck up.
Face reality. No one knows you but you. People aren't running around trying to hurt your feelings, they're working, shopping, etc. Let it go and stop focusing on your identity because it's all EGO. You are creating a reality in which you are suffering.
The more I know myself, stand tall and face reality... those are little things, don't let it ruin your perception or relationships.
The more I grow, the more I see people are generally good and care for others- even if they don't fully understand. I have opened myself up to conversation with everyone because I'm not focused on how they perceive me, just the interaction itself.
YOU are tasked with patience and understanding, my friend. And that is a blessing in disguise.
Just some thoughts I don't typically have a reason to share. Stay strong!
Ex: Someone calls me ma'am and seeing it as a polite gesture between humans even though I identify as sir.
Right on brother that shit sounds well-adjusted as hell, god bless and good luck.
Thank you! I'm a straight woman who has a ton of gay and some trans friends ever since the 80s. My son is one of the semi woke ones. Ugh. I do not accept his partial transition. I just don't believe it. I do not berate him in any way but I do not call him a HER/SHE. He says things like he understands what it is to be a woman. "No honey, you do not" I'd respect him more if he wasn't trying to claim my identity and just dealt in truth. I told him 6 years ago that I support him no matter what path he chooses,...accept if he chooses one that wipes out my identity or one that forces me to lie to him. I took him in off the streets 8 months ago and because I speak the truth to him he told me he felt unsafe. I told him he had two weeks to leave. Breaks my heart. I've respected the chosen gender identities of strangers because I don't know them any other way but I've known him since the moment I felt my hormones go crazy, since the moment I saw that nature made him male. I'm chronically I'll now and I'm in survival mode. He doesn't do anything to help and I don't have the energy to change the English language I've been speaking for 54 years for a disrespectful person.
I'm a gay man who HATES being placed under the alphabet umbrella. These people are absolute crazies. Marcus I refer to you as HIM with FULL respect as you are the true representation of a trans person. In all honesty when watching the first few videos of yours I came across I believed 💯% that you were a gay male. I see you as male and respect you as such. Keep speaking out for the true communities. Much love Marcus ..
People posting videos of themselves crying and having breakdowns is the WORST trait of our society. It's SO ridiculous.
FOR REALLLL and people get mad at YOU for calling it out... no you're just being an attention whore
well it's their way to call for help so why not
@@orrling911 is help to them. And therapy. Not tiktok.
If they can't emotionally handle that "trauma" at the bar, what would happen if they had a real problem such as rebuilding after a natural disaster, or a real hate crime?? Wow...
Ironically I went through trauma and felt dissociated from being a female/woman and felt uncomfortable being called a lady (I wouldn't bring it up though) but knew that was my issue.
@doid4354 not intentionally anyway. I wasn't the easiest to deal with when having mh issues but it'd something I'm working on
I can't. Anyone who crys/ bawls on TikTok I can't take you seriously. You're upset and decide to pull out your phone to bawl your eyes out. I can't. Its not normal.
Conservative here. Love you! Logical and not mental is all we are looking for. This girl is mental.
Calls herself lesbian...calls herself GAL ...*has total meltdown that someone called her "lady"*
I am so done with today's society. I can't wait to move as far away as I can from this bs.
What I don’t understand is: do these people really believe the whole world revolves around them? Like honestly, I’m mentally ill, several diagnoses, and I still don’t expect people to watch out and take care of me all the time. I’m the person who is responsible for myself, means I have to deal with my illnesses in social situations. Of course, my close friends know how they can help me and even some of my Uni-tutors know, but I never expect them to circle around me and make sure I‘m okay. I‘m also a lesbian and I don’t want people to feel like they have to be super sensitive around me to not offend me. I can speak for myself if I feel uncomfortable with something. I have to protect myself and I have to deal with my problems. NOT OTHER PEOPLE. My life is just not their responsibility.
She is trying to manipulate the community when she tells this gay man straight people won't ever care about him. But she's actually wrong bc I, a straight person love LGBT people who are not insane and I would absolutely fight for them to have their rights. I will not be fighting for the insane people who demand victimization for themselves in the name of trans when they're not trans. 🙃
That Azul person saying “oh, wife is just a word” but her partner got triggered by guess what? Another WORD! A simple and harmless word!
Make it make sense 🤦🏻♀️
Fr! What kind of mental gymnastics are they doing lol
@@liv8288The olympic kind 🤦♀️
Whats crazy to me is that it wasnt that long ago where, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me," was a thing. Now someone accidentally using a wrong word will send people into full meltdown.
I'm a female. Your correct definition of female. I experience gender dysphoria as a part of my borderline personality disorder. For me, its episodic sort of like a mania. What I'm sick of is people "disagreeing" that gender dysphoria is a mental illness. I get called a trasphobe and a bigot any time I speak of my lived experience. I often tell people (I have a school aged child and the epidemic of young children confused about gender identity is heartbreaking) that their 12 year old experiencing dysphoria needs mental health care. They act like I am suggesting conversion therapy. How dare I imply there is something wrong when I am living proof that episodic gender dysphoria exists.
I watched her video where she was recounting the incident, and I’ll just say this: if I drank a shot every time she said the word “transphobia” in that video alone, I’d be dead from alcohol poisoning.
I have autism, and meltdowns do not look like that at all. Also they are usually triggered by sensory overwhelm. They typically do not involve hysterics, and this might just be me, but I tend to go mute during a meltdown. And it’s difficult to articulate the trigger. This seems too scripted and convenient.
i don't go mute but i do become incoherent at most only able to repeat a brief statemant.
Also during those melt downs strangers are the LAST thing i need.
Oh I start crying in meltdown. But yeah, it's sensory overwhelm or emotional overwhelm. They're just using autism as one more "victim" identity. Bleh.
you and me both. :/ i honestly feel gaslit by people who pretend to have autism telling us what is ableist to say or not. but seeing comments like these make me feel better about myself.
Imagine not being able to politely ask "Hey, would prefer if you called me X" and instead throwing a tantrum and having an existential crisis.
They call each other wives, and she calls herself"the pronoun gal" in front of millions of followers on TikTok... And dresses as stereotypically girly as possible... But she has a meltdown because someone called her "lady".... I can only sigh lol
It’s been days, and what bothers me the most about all of this is that they say they’re non-binary, but they refer to each other as ‘wife’-which is, last I checked, the FEMALE spouse.
I have a friend whose pronouns are she/they. WE know she’s a girl, but absolute strangers are always like, “Uh…” THAT makes sense to me. She’s not even doing it on purpose. She’s just really tomboyish. We both are, but my features are more feminine. This though? Nah… This makes no sense.
Also, she’s the pronoun GAL?! Come now.
I don’t think she’s ever actually had a conversation with gay men. ..,MY GURLS, MY LADIES!
Jennifer, as a Gay drag bartender in the 80’s, I remembered what everybody drank and who they had an eye on, but never their names. So to this 6’9” Drag bartender EVERYONE was Sweetie or Hon.
I’d be crucified today.
@@scotthix2297my local bar how become VERY popular and is used to be a small and quiet place so I know the owner and bartenders that change quite well but I know for a fact they’d say the exact same thing! When there’s so many people coming and going, you ask the order, make the drink and get the payment. If you’re a regular like me, they know your usual and just ask with or without ice so I agree with you lol. Over here they call women “love”, I often wonder what American woke ladies would think of that haha 😂
@@scotthix2297 I'm gay and I feel like straight person nowadays - socially because I'm JUST white gay male. So I'm no longer trendy, I guess.
@@EJ-io5te you may be straight laced, in some ways, but we’re gay nonetheless…and comfortable in our real traditions. Keep your head up, we aren’t a dying breed.
Just wait awhile. This whole gender/woke thing will lose it’s faddish luster and, though there will always be a few die hards, this too will fade into the woodwork…
Just like Hippies.
In the 60s I tried low rise bell bottoms but they just weren’t my blue jeans.
So I owned my “denimness” and stayed “Just Gay” it’s who I am…and I’ve been doing this for 70 years.
-Stella Zafella
Old (re)tired Drag Chanteuse 💋😎
Yeah I’m a Gay Man and a Drag Queen
The amount of stupidity and hypocrisy in their actions is astounding
For me the funnier part is that I've been banned for pointing out there are toxic people in the community which is why o don't respect them, was told to respect them and permanently block from the lbgtq+ subreddit
There is so much wrong with the story.
"We politely corrected him and then he got mad, hit the bar and said "I see you as ladies and that's all I will see you as!"
"He said we were doing the same thing to him" (meaning they assumed his pronouns and also misgendered him, yet she leaves out the part of the story that refers to them using his pronouns)
"Then he took our drinks" (bartenders do not take drinks from people they don't like, they are legally able to remove them when they believe a customer has had too many to drink. Judging from all that crying she is doing I'm assuming she did)
"We called over another worker who then, after hearing the story, also agreed we needed to be kicked out."
I would LOVE for them to drop the name of the bar because we need to hear the bartender's side.
Imagine being so broken and hurt, yet have an ample amount of time and will to go live and record.
Nailed it when u said "crazy as hell!" I took the kids to the pantomime yesterday and millions of people walked out when they werent gendering a character who's always been male in the story. Even my kids turned to me looking shocked at a lot of the show. I'm actually so glad for you, Blaire, Buck and every other trans person making these videos because all of this agenda had turned me against the trans community (mostly since they are trying to brainwash my kids) who I had no issue with before. You guys have taken all the hate away from my heart, taught me new things and I'm very thankful for this because I can now do the same for every1 else around me. I can also use you as an example to the kids that in this world you will always find people that are just bat sh1t crazy so not to judge every1. I feel a lot lighter and I find myself prioritising ur vids so keep doing what ur doing because ur making a difference
I still wouldn’t even act like that if someone called me “sir” as an insult or accidentally and I’m a very obvious woman. 😂 it’s not THAT serious. Life will go on honey!
Right!! I think about that too. If someone called me sir or he, I would just assume they are clearly delusional or trying to insult me in a way that would insult them🤷🏻♀️. I would not be offended in the slightest. I’d laugh and move on with my girly self!
Narcisstic people, indeed! Emotional blackmail, not owning up to their mistakes, the disgusting gaslighting and the mind blowing double standards delivered in sentences standing in very close proximity from each other...
The Emperor is naked! Ignore these buffoons
You go, Marcus!
Crying without tears is the real accomplishment here. Reminds me of a toddler when they fall and then look for validation that they’ll get comforted
I have to admit watching your videos and hearing your perspective is so refreshing 😊
As someone with autism, I have been through melt downs that are either over something stupid or something dumb, but that doesn’t mean I cursed out at people and disrespected them. What usually happens in a state where autistic people have melt downs are from triggers specified from them or an experience in their past that traumatised them. Furthermore, usually in a melt down, it’s an internal struggle rather than an external factor. At least that’s what it is for me.
Exactly. And the LAST thing I’d be doing is filming it for TikTok!
I stopped with putting “he/him” in my bios (even for the comms channel at work) because it has taken me long enough to accept what my manhood and sexuality is without having the additional noise from the “queer community” or anyone else telling me I am not how I appear to myself. If I saw her too, I’d assume she was a she. Just as I fought with myself for being effeminate at times to tell myself I’m just a gay man. Such a privilege for her to go about changing her pronouns like she’s changing her underwear, when it’s been arduous in its individual way to accept my total genetic makeup. Nice of her to spend her days in la-la land, and let her I spose. Marcus this was a great reaction to this tripe
Thank you! We have gone from " behaviours and likes are not feminine or masculine, women can be loud and men can gighle without that making them less male or female" to whatever twisted gender esentialism this is
We have to stop confusing mental illness and emotional issues with GID before it's too late, this movement is harming people by providing a powerful support group that tells you that you're more special than everyone outside the group - this girl seems genuinely crushed for literally no reason and that SHOULD be setting off alarm bells 😢
“Congratulations, you’re ignorant.” 🤣🤣🤣
Hey Marcus, you're one of my favourite commentators of all time. I think of something while I'm watching, and you say it out loud 😂 You're super intelligent and articulate and it's so refreshing to have a point of view like yours. Thanks for being ACTUALLY brave, unlike these non-binary they/thems who claim just existing is being brave.
Ohh it's an "autistic meltdown". So WHY isn't someone helping those with Autism??? Why doesn't she get some mental counseling??
I was called transphobic and bigoted for not understanding transgenderism, I said I'm autistic and didn't understand certain things and cited an example of The Good Doctor where the MC is autistic and also didn't grasp the concept of transgenderism as well.
I was told that I was using autism as an excuse to hide my bigotry and "not understanding" was bigoted as well.