Of course. It's funny how we have not changed much but have changed our messaging to the community based on a lot of feedback. Hubby says he doesn't think i'm a monster but his early videos has me as a bit strict... Ok, so i'm very strict...but you should know there is a lot of love here ;)
@@WifeyLed Hubby sometimes focused too much on the punishments without the surrounding love, results, benefits, and what came later the same day. I may be overstating, this is my recollection at the moment. I do recall that his business meeting went very well even though he could barely sit. This being an exception to what I said here. Didn't realize how late and tired!. Good night.
@@WifeyLedDid I mention that my late wife tried this with me. With my approval! However, when she realized that I became sexually aroused from the spanking, she refused to ever punish me again!
Hubby here: She told me directly in a way that I understood. She directed me during every step to show me exactly what she wanted me to do and how. She was very clear. I am adjusting to a new level of strictness under her eyes.
Thank you for sharing about your rule changes. It all sounds fair. I do have a question though, what would you do if he became so good at his duties, that you could not find anything wrong? I know that would be a big if, but was curious.😊
Wifey here: this is actually why we have maintenance Saturdays. He can always improve. If he's so good at everything for an extended period of time,.... I think that would be a good problem to have and to solve. I don't think I will have to worry about it, though
Wow that is some list, it must be challenging for both of you to actually remember everything. This is not something I would be happy with but if you and Hubby are happy with things, that is great.
This is wifey. The list was difficult for hubby and it's still mostly followed. I need to do a follow-up on this for the new rules. The beauty of the relationship, like everything... It's still negotiable and i don't want to set him up for failure
@@WifeyLed The bathing without looking is impossible! And well worth being punished for looking! What hetero male could possibly not look at you naked in the bathtub?
Thank you wifey for your information about your precious time together I’d absolutely love to be in your husband’s shoes definitely 💯 enjoy your fantastic time together 🌹
I loved ❤ the story. I love being punished. My girlfriend really let's me have it when I disobey her. She paddles me and sends me up stairs, to be dellt with later.
Wifey here: i don't typically choose his clothes but we are thinking about incorporating that. I don't want a sissy hubby but sometimes he needs to know his place, right?
@@WifeyLed I mean to ask if he is allowed ANY clothing at home. I imagine that he is completely naked during any punishment. He should be imo. Even with corner time.
@@kenrupple9085 Wifey here: We found that nude punishments are too 's*xual' so we incorporated the preparation and act of baring his bottom as part of the punishment ritual. cornertime is, again, bottom bare or bottomless if i have him kneeling on rice or an uncomfy rug or sitting on the sisal mat on a hard chair.
My Wifey yesterday gave me a book called Don't For Husbands by Blanche Ebbutt written in 1913. It is so out of date and definitely needs a 21st century version, maybe written by you.
@@WifeyLed Don'ts for Husbands is a facsimile of the original 1913 edition, containing hundreds of snippets of entertaining advice for a happy marriage. While some are quirkily of their time, and rich with fascinating insights into the history of relations between the sexes, many contain wisdom that rings true more than 100 years after they were written. Inside you can find advice on topics such as habits, jealousy, household management, hobbies and even hints on finance. There is much wisdom to be taken from this little book to ensure matrimonial bliss: 'Don't forget to be your wife's best friend as well as her husband. True friendship in marriage does away with all sorts of trouble.' 'Don't insist upon having the last word. If you know when to drop an argument, you are a wise man.' 'No doubt you are a very clever fellow, and it is an education for her to listen to you, but she also may have some views worth mentioning.'
@@WifeyLed Don'ts for Husbands is a facsimile of the original 1913 edition, containing hundreds of snippets of entertaining advice for a happy marriage. While some are quirkily of their time, and rich with fascinating insights into the history of relations between the sexes, many contain wisdom that rings true more than 100 years after they were written. Inside you can find advice on topics such as habits, jealousy, household management, hobbies and even hints on finance. There is much wisdom to be taken from this little book to ensure matrimonial bliss: 'Don't forget to be your wife's best friend as well as her husband. True friendship in marriage does away with all sorts of trouble.' 'Don't insist upon having the last word. If you know when to drop an argument, you are a wise man.'
One day, hubby may share how we came to be married. It was a tough road, to be honest, but i thought he had lost his mind when he told me what he wanted. It is probably not first date material unless you are at a Munch or something.
@@WifeyLed I've always wanted to do this but both previous wife's would have no part in this. Everything you do to your hubby I'm very interested in I could have a few ideas of myself what to do with hubby
Are you really as strict and strong as he has described you to be because I would challenge some of these things and as you call Bratty Behavior until I was proven differently
Wifey here: typically a few small punishments throughout the week and a maintenance session on Saturdays to clear any lingering issues. Since our new rules have gone into effect, he's been far better behaved. I think he enjoys paying homage to my feet.
very nice video; i have only seen this video; it is not explained if you are sleeping together on the same bed or it is necesary that he must sleep on the roof or near the the bed. Congratulations anyway
Wifey also and I asked him this question? Are you trying to make him a sissy since you say you have been training him doesn’t sound like he has much choice or what you might call brainwashing like honey you know you need my correction to make your life complete because what if you weren’t in the picture anymore would he seek someone else to follow on this same path or just be alone. Some paths we take in life only have one way through and once you go through that door and it closes you can’t go back from where you came from.
I think he's regretting that this month.... 30 minutes a day... He's out for reasons other than hygiene... But I think he would rather stay in considering the amount of sensation I give it..... I fully expect him to fail one day before the end of the month
Wifey here: my voice is AI as is the avatar. Unfortunately, in my line of work, i have to keep a modicum of privacy. This was the compromise that the community has lived with. Otherwise, hubby narrates. So, you can make this up :) the stories are real, though, so that's where we are. If we become independently wealthy in the future and I can leave my current career, then that would likely change. As it is, we had to make compromises. It would be FAR easier for all of us if we could just model the other channels that do see through try-on hauls, but alas, we cannot.
I'm so glad you included the part about attending to the needs and wants of each other, especially that love is forever.❤❤❤
Of course. It's funny how we have not changed much but have changed our messaging to the community based on a lot of feedback. Hubby says he doesn't think i'm a monster but his early videos has me as a bit strict... Ok, so i'm very strict...but you should know there is a lot of love here ;)
@@WifeyLed Hubby sometimes focused too much on the punishments without the surrounding love, results, benefits, and what came later the same day. I may be overstating, this is my recollection at the moment. I do recall that his business meeting went very well even though he could barely sit. This being an exception to what I said here.
Didn't realize how late and tired!. Good night.
Awesome. She’s a great trainer
@@HansScott2979 i like to think so
I'm really enjoying following along with your lives. Thanks for sharing!😂
Thank you for coming
@@WifeyLedDid I mention that my late wife tried this with me. With my approval! However, when she realized that I became sexually aroused from the spanking, she refused to ever punish me again!
He has to do a confession wow and ask for his punishment
Your presentation is so clear and eloquent here. I wonder how (in what manner) did you present this rules to him and what was his reaction throughout?
Hubby here: She told me directly in a way that I understood. She directed me during every step to show me exactly what she wanted me to do and how. She was very clear. I am adjusting to a new level of strictness under her eyes.
Thank you for sharing about your rule changes. It all sounds fair. I do have a question though, what would you do if he became so good at his duties, that you could not find anything wrong? I know that would be a big if, but was curious.😊
Wifey here: this is actually why we have maintenance Saturdays. He can always improve. If he's so good at everything for an extended period of time,.... I think that would be a good problem to have and to solve. I don't think I will have to worry about it, though
Wow that is some list, it must be challenging for both of you to actually remember everything. This is not something I would be happy with but if you and Hubby are happy with things, that is great.
This is wifey. The list was difficult for hubby and it's still mostly followed. I need to do a follow-up on this for the new rules. The beauty of the relationship, like everything... It's still negotiable and i don't want to set him up for failure
Appreciation and compliments for hubby are very rare in far too mamy marriages.
Wifey here: truth be known, Hubby is my everything. I show my love and appreciation for him by guiding him into the best person he can be
Wifey, Great additional rules, and routines!
Oh my gosh
Mistress Wifey you are so beautiful and Strict
Wifey here: Why thank you, i have to be.
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ love this video . The rules sound fair and easy to follow
Wifey here: I tried to make them realistic... I don't want him to fail but I also want them to be challenging
@@WifeyLed Challenging! Absolutely MISS!
@@raycord9265 ok so i did make the bathing one kind of impossible since i'm..well, ya know..at least i am to him :)
@@WifeyLed The bathing without looking is impossible! And well worth being punished for looking! What hetero male could possibly not look at you naked in the bathtub?
Thank you wifey for your information about your precious time together I’d absolutely love to be in your husband’s shoes definitely 💯 enjoy your fantastic time together 🌹
Wifey here: Silly, Do you think I allow him to have shoes in the house?
@@WifeyLed sorry that was silly of me thank you for your lovely reply sorry I don’t know how to address you only as wifey ……
@@Mel1175 Wifey and Hubby are fine. He will be off restriction soon and will be able to get back online.
@@WifeyLed aaaawww Iiked you being online wifey 🌹
Wifey here. We are going to start sharing roles on this channel
Love hearing from the wife
We men shouldnt be talking much and just obey
Wifey here: He knows when to stop talking... it took some training but he's got that under control most of the time.
I loved ❤ the story. I love being punished. My girlfriend really let's me have it when I disobey her. She paddles me and sends me up stairs, to be dellt with later.
Fun stuff, yes
I love serving women as a sissy maid💃👠💕
Wifey here: I don't know how I feel about a sissy maid or making him a sissy, But I do wonder how he would look in a thong...
@@WifeyLed i love my thongs
yeah doing the house work as a sissy and wait on my knees by the door when she comes back🥰
What, if any, clothes, things does he wear when at home?
Wifey here: i don't typically choose his clothes but we are thinking about incorporating that. I don't want a sissy hubby but sometimes he needs to know his place, right?
@@WifeyLed i wear sexy women's panties only around the house. They cover my cage. I won't go anywhere further in regards to sissy stuff.
@@WifeyLed I mean to ask if he is allowed ANY clothing at home. I imagine that he is completely naked during any punishment. He should be imo. Even with corner time.
@@kenrupple9085 Wifey here: We found that nude punishments are too 's*xual' so we incorporated the preparation and act of baring his bottom as part of the punishment ritual. cornertime is, again, bottom bare or bottomless if i have him kneeling on rice or an uncomfy rug or sitting on the sisal mat on a hard chair.
Does it mean i should be bottemles wen you give me cornertime ?@@WifeyLed
My Wifey yesterday gave me a book called Don't For Husbands by Blanche Ebbutt written in 1913. It is so out of date and definitely needs a 21st century version, maybe written by you.
Is there a short synopsis? Should I add this to my Amazon wish list
@@WifeyLed Don'ts for Husbands is a facsimile of the original 1913 edition, containing hundreds of snippets of entertaining advice for a happy marriage. While some are quirkily of their time, and rich with fascinating insights into the history of relations between the sexes, many contain wisdom that rings true more than 100 years after they were written.
Inside you can find advice on topics such as habits, jealousy, household management, hobbies and even hints on finance. There is much wisdom to be taken from this little book to ensure matrimonial bliss:
'Don't forget to be your wife's best friend as well as her husband. True friendship in marriage does away with all sorts of trouble.'
'Don't insist upon having the last word. If you know when to drop an argument, you are a wise man.'
'No doubt you are a very clever fellow, and it is an education for her to listen to you, but she also may have some views worth mentioning.'
@@WifeyLed Don'ts for Husbands is a facsimile of the original 1913 edition, containing hundreds of snippets of entertaining advice for a happy marriage. While some are quirkily of their time, and rich with fascinating insights into the history of relations between the sexes, many contain wisdom that rings true more than 100 years after they were written.
Inside you can find advice on topics such as habits, jealousy, household management, hobbies and even hints on finance. There is much wisdom to be taken from this little book to ensure matrimonial bliss:
'Don't forget to be your wife's best friend as well as her husband. True friendship in marriage does away with all sorts of trouble.'
'Don't insist upon having the last word. If you know when to drop an argument, you are a wise man.'
Wish I could find something like this where I live at
You would be surprised. Be yourself, attract a lady, tell her what you need. Voila
@@WifeyLed how do you go about looking without someone thinking that you totally lost your mind 💔
One day, hubby may share how we came to be married. It was a tough road, to be honest, but i thought he had lost his mind when he told me what he wanted. It is probably not first date material unless you are at a Munch or something.
@@WifeyLed I've always wanted to do this but both previous wife's would have no part in this. Everything you do to your hubby I'm very interested in I could have a few ideas of myself what to do with hubby
Are you really as strict and strong as he has described you to be because I would challenge some of these things and as you call Bratty Behavior until I was proven differently
How often do you usually have to punish him throughout the week Maam?
Wifey here: typically a few small punishments throughout the week and a maintenance session on Saturdays to clear any lingering issues. Since our new rules have gone into effect, he's been far better behaved. I think he enjoys paying homage to my feet.
You are a definite serious dominant woman
Possibly doubling his punishment
Wifey did he actually agree to this or did you make him agree to this 😂
Where could I find a wife like this?
Step 1: Be a good person
@@WifeyLed I am. I am.
very nice video; i have only seen this video; it is not explained if you are sleeping together on the same bed or it is necesary that he must sleep on the roof or near the the bed. Congratulations anyway
Happy sleeps on the bed... I have to have him close when I have needs
Happy birthday beautiful redhead
Love your rules
Wifey here...he's trying but gosh darnit, he's got to try harder or he's gonna find out.
Wifey also and I asked him this question? Are you trying to make him a sissy since you say you have been training him doesn’t sound like he has much choice or what you might call brainwashing like honey you know you need my correction to make your life complete because what if you weren’t in the picture anymore would he seek someone else to follow on this same path or just be alone. Some paths we take in life only have one way through and once you go through that door and it closes you can’t go back from where you came from.
I think I love you he's a very lucky man
There are plenty better than me.
wow....@3:50 onwards...so different
Wifey here: Hubby deadpanned that. I'll be dealing with him about it
Always C time
I think he's regretting that this month.... 30 minutes a day... He's out for reasons other than hygiene... But I think he would rather stay in considering the amount of sensation I give it..... I fully expect him to fail one day before the end of the month
Voice of a black female with a caucasion female A.I. generated visuals.
You can't make this up.😅😅
Wifey here: my voice is AI as is the avatar. Unfortunately, in my line of work, i have to keep a modicum of privacy. This was the compromise that the community has lived with. Otherwise, hubby narrates. So, you can make this up :) the stories are real, though, so that's where we are. If we become independently wealthy in the future and I can leave my current career, then that would likely change. As it is, we had to make compromises. It would be FAR easier for all of us if we could just model the other channels that do see through try-on hauls, but alas, we cannot.
Clean your feet at the front door when you come home.....How?🤔
Very carefully.
@@WifeyLed what I meant was; with a wash rag, or his mouth? Because thats how my mistress likes her feet cleaned..
He will take off my shoes, rub my toes, rub my feet, caress and give little kisses until i let him move to the next.