The way Selena went SO HARD for Sunjai Star & Sky on Bring It, you could never tell me she was an absent parent or inadequate. That’s why I loved her on there…she was NOT playin💕💕
Selena sometimes you have to remove people to find your peace. I do mean everyone associated with said people no matter who. Protect your peace sista.❤
I have been a fan of yours since you first graced my tv screen. I don’t know you personally but I knew you were being painted in a bad light. Triple S showed her first red flag early on. I understand why you let Latrice find out on her own. People will eventually show their true colors. Hats off to you for showing grace this long to people who are so undeserving. ❤
I had met Selena through my sister, who was a judge on Bring It for the last 2 seasons of the show(Judge Christie). For the ones who haven't met this woman, I can honestly say that she's one of the sweetest people I've ever met in my life so far. This isn't a comment for attention. This woman is a sincere person and she speaks to you as if she's known you for years. And the day I met her, I was going through some hardships. Selena's kindness brightened my day, and that has stayed with me since. When God shines through you, others will see it. While some may love it, others will hate it because of the darkness within themselves. All you have to do is keep believing and doing what you're doing. ❤
No when I was younger watching Bring It, I used to think his hair was looney for a grown ass man. His energy was off, I knew it at 15 and I still see it at 22
Right. My first glance at JJ on Bring It I thought he was one of many Mississippi's Pimps from the 90's retired twice over after going to prison a few times!!! 🤣🤣
Listen I know all too well about abusive narcissistic men. The fear, the anxiety, the frustration STILL in her voice just by simply trying to tell what she's experienced and endured during and after that relationship I felt in my gut and in my heart that she was being truthful. It's not easy being in a toxic relationship/marriage let alone having the courage to leave. And to have the person that put you and your children through all of that just to downplay his actions and blame you bcuz you chose to leave is very disappointing. I hate when other women that have never experienced any type of abuse or maybe have they try to make the victims liars or they pick. Those type of women are the devil spawn
i had no idea that JJ was in a relationship with that lady while Bring It was on air, the way he was all up on you. for them to attack your character as a mother is disgusting! and then get mad at your children for standing up for you? crazy! selena you’re too good for them.
He married her in 2018 I think that was the last year that Bring It was on. I feel like Shaunte was jealous of the healthy co parenting relationship they had
I lost all respect for JJ when he started talking up under your dress and talking about you was an absent mother. We saw you standing out in the cold on Bring it for seasons after season supporting your daughters. We saw you get sick when you was on Bring It. I pray that you and your three daughters get a chance to come on this show and tell you’ll reality. Selena don’t cry you and your daughters are superstars. So Gucci and JJ are old funny looking and boring. JJ and So Gucci bring absolutely nothing to the show. Carlos King we want Selena to be a full time Bell and her three daughters. Let’s add some beauty, youth, and fun on this show.
@@adriennedeontesmith2020ME too that's the only reason why I look at that show because I saw the trailer of the girls as well I said the same thing about JJ when did he get married because on bring it was him the girls and Selena
As a black woman, we are always expected to protect our black men and their image plus our dysfunctional family dynamics… but when the tables turn and we require their support, that same effort, grace and energy rarely happens for black women. Selena! You are a phenomenal mother and a great person. You raised 3 great daughters and we know you loved your late son. (Still Sorry for your loss 😢) You are doing the right thing by speaking up and speaking your truth!!! It is necessary!!!!! We need more of this. Those who know you, support you wholeheartedly. Keep spreading your positivity and love to us!!!! Thanks for sharing!!! ❤
Yasssss Selena we been waiting!!!!! Love you. You don’t need a moment you ARE THE MOMENT and that’s why that other woman is threatened by your mere existence
YES I Can SEE The Jealousy......THEY Don't Have What They Have MENTALLY n Physically I Found That OUT AFTER A LOT Of Unnecessary Mental Attacks. I Know IT Wasn't ME So IT Has To Mean.....I'm THAT ONE! So Learning To Appreciate SELF IS VERY Important 💯✔️💅👌
Man sunjai was so sweet in school. We always help each other especially when she was gone a lot. You were sweet too when I met u on our choir trip in 9th grade. Had a blast!
Girl they should leave this lady alone…. She has always been so freaking nice! She turns a negative situation into a positive situation EVERY TIME! I invited her to my baby shower and bridal shower… she actually showed up to support 🙌🏾🙌🏾
The way you’ve been quiet for months impressed me. After watching this video, I’m convinced more than ever you’re telling the truth. Sending ❤ to you and the girls.
@@TheRealDeal31 she’s not a cast member so contractual would not apply. Plus, JJ has been talking about Selena for two seasons and she’s just now speaking about it.
I have never heard Selena speak negatively about that man regardless of whatever happened even just watching Bring It even then she wasn't even funny acting towards him. Even on the show I think Selena was the sweetest mother and she stood 10 toes down for all three of them girls. I'm with my girl Selena all the way through
Selena it's okay to not always have to be strong.It's okay to cry and allow yourself to go through the emotions, but the most important part was that you did not stay in that dark place that the devil wanted you to stay in. God brought you through and had you and your daughters covered. Your supporters love you. You deserve happiness. May Jesus continue to bless you.
We love you Selena! Thank you for speaking your truth. Some men who are outgoing and "public figures" always have the upper hand when they're on TV. I'm glad you're using your platform to talk about this 💯
So Beautiful! Your Daughters did amazing on the Reunion. They have your grace, poise , brains and Beauty. I can tel JJ is abusive narcissist.He will never get over losing you.Don’t be afraid of him coming . GOD has you Dear.
Lawd ...JJ and Martell are two narcissist that will do anything to try to destroy the mother of their children!!!! It's just sad!! And u can tell JJ still hurt because every chance he gets on the show..he always throws Selena name up in Cliff face!!! I believe everything u are saying Selena!!
I have a family member who works in the same world Carlos does and she too says he’s messy !! She had a chance to work alongside him and turned it down because of that
@@SelenaJohnson4 hey selena you and your girls are beautiful.u did an beautiful job raising them and doing the best u can as an mother. U and your girls were my favorite on bring it.❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was a day 1 fan of yours and Bring it, and never knew that lady existed, because JJ showed an enormous amount of love and flirtatious behavior towards you Selena. God surely knows how to frustrate us into our purpose, your life story is your greatest testimony and I pray you’re back on TV because you are a star!🙏🏽🥰🌟
I agree. Not one time did we ever see Gucci or whatever her name is. Even in Bring it she gave this man his props yet he has been this disrespectful person. Now that Gucci has been able to show her face now she’s showing who she really is.
@@SelenaJohnson4I have rocked with you and your girls since Bring it on All I see is jealousy with so Gucci she knows that no matter what she does her beauty will never match yours inside and out okay sis!! Not only that jj gave you 3 babies says a lot💦💦 lol that's one reason she mad and on the reunion jj kept trying to make her look good like she did so much for you and jj children but all I kept hearing both of them say was she did their hair fed them and helped with homework that's the basic a baby sitter will do that lol she was trying to get I where she fit in and once she got jj where she wants him she let her true colors show if she was so good to the girls there would be nothing you could do or say to make the girls not like her yet the girls just tolerate her on the strength of jj but as they said on the reunion seeing as though they are grown and can see for themselves he does not like that because he fears they will see the real him the jj you been trying to protect them from for years and he can't stand that because they now have a Choice if they want to deal with him or not stay strong beautiful and happy Selena jj wish you was still on his arm with ya fineAs* sis.
as a dv survivor, I believe you, the one thing he couldn't deny is when your daughters said you never said anything about him and he had to admit you have to be pushed to come out of character, thank you for sharing your side of the story
The way your girls stood up for you is the way my son has unfortunately had to stand up for me to the other parent. I have been through this exact same situation. I pray that you all can work it out but also I'm glad you spoke the truth. God bless you and your family!
Don’t worry, the haters will attack. Just like they treated you on the Dolls show. Or is so had watching them call you names and even go so far as hitting you on that show. Mimi attacked you , another pushed you . And called you dumb, and crazy. I watched every second of it. And I do believe JJ is EXACTLY what you say he is, but sooooo many people was willing to believe him because they hated her. All darkness HAS to come to light, we love you so much Selena , AND your girls❤
Selena we believe you girl! You were on tv before those other ppl. We have gotten to see your real personality. You are so cool, bubbly, friendly & out going. Your girls were never apart of the drama on the show they were on. They are humble friendly kind girls too. You have held your tongue long enough. We see who the real antagonists are & it’s not you or your daughters. ❤❤❤
Props to you, Selena! The fact that you are their storyline and the way your girls have your back told me all I needed to know. I didn't even know JJ was married until Belle Collective. His wife is clearly jealous of you. It's unfortunate you have to address this, but it seems like this is the year of having to deal with these narcissists.
Selena I am so proud of you and thank you for telling us the truth. Let’s be real, forget any materialistic things he has done for the girls, but the fact that you carried them and gave birth and supported them in thier dream, you’re a strong woman baby. To discredit a mother under any circumstance is bazar.
I watched the reunion of the girls and I was really sad about the girls and their dad. I have been watching you guys since dancing dolls. JJ is hilarious. Watching the reunion I was shocked and couldn’t believe JJ was like that. Now that I have seen this I believe you and the girls because everything you are saying I have been thru it also. Thank you for sharing this. Praying for you guys.
I stopped watching because it very disheartening to that. It was a bully in that moment and it seemed that he was forcing his dislike for Selena on those girls. It was very sad.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You seem like a genuinely nice person and it’s always been obvious how much you love your kids. I pray you find peace in every area of your life. Much love Selena. I’m rooting for you. ❤
I believe Sogucci is jealous of Selena..Selena is a beautiful woman and not insecure.. I also believe SoGucci likes that JJ is in to it with his children I believe she wants him all to herself.. I think JJ still loves Selena and can't believe she left him... that's where the hate comes from.
Selena we all seen what happened! I’m so confused why Carlos didn’t bring it up at the reunion! That girl CLEARLY threatened you then took her glasses off and began to lunge at you! Before you even popped her behind! That’s like someone bringing a g u n to show it to someone in a threatening manner and that OTHER person gets them before their even able to use theres! She brought it on herself! And we all know you love your kids in the beginning of the video you started off by talking about YOUR KIDS and their FEELINGS! You didn’t start off talking about yourself! That right their shows ALOT!!
Selena, I'm happy you're telling your truth (the truth). Their reunion segment was about you. When JJ said I want the whole world to know. I saw his dark side. Be encouraged, Your girls are awesome young women. You've the victory already.
I enjoyed Selena on Bring it!! She is a beautiful woman who stood 10 toes down for her girls. Jealousy is the bottom line. May God bless Selena and her children, and I pray that God gives them peace.
I’m so glad you told your truth! I see Gucci and JJ as the same person, they love attention🤦🏽♀️. I can’t believe people believe JJ. I have always seen right through him and his mess! He always seemed like a good Dad and that’s it! I’m so sorry for all the loss you have suffered 🙏🏾❣️
Thank you for being so vulnerable and it’s sad that your character is being questioned when the love your children have for you proves that you’re a great mother an amazing woman!
Love you and the girls Selena, the one thing you said in all of that is, "Kids, see, hear, and know more than we think. You don't have to say anything negative about the other parents, let them see for themselves!" and for that, I am proud of you, God bless.
My kid’s father’s ex-wife treated me the same way. I understand EVERYTHING you have experienced! One thing for certain, you don't have to say a thing. I never did. Kids always grow up and see everyone for who they are! Now he begs to be in their lives and they don't want anything to do with him. Even with me encouraging them to forgive him.
Well Selena stood there and said they don't speak so why would she expect her to speak and I don't feel she was wrong at all Selena is the one that was wrong .... had she just let Gucci kept walking (cause she's not obligated to speak) then none of that would have happened...cause y'all like one and don't like the other ....just keep it real....I luv Selena always been a fan since bring it ..but i feel ahe was wrong
I’m so glad you’re sharing your story!! We believe you! Stay strong! Your girls know that you’re a great mom! I hope you and the girls get your own show!!
Selena, I have always told people you are one of the sweetest people I have ever met. You and Diamond treated me like a real sister when we worked production for JMA. Truly a sweet soul. I'm GLAD you are defending yourself.
Wow...I appreciate you for sharing your experience. I'm so sorry you went through so much...I'm praying for you and your daughters! I can tell that you are a honest and genuine person! ❤❤
I’ve loved you and the girls since Bring It! I’m so sorry you had to go through this! I also want to say I love the sound effects, you betta give us a soundtrack for the epic read! Speak your truth!❤️✊🏾
Friend I’m sooooooooooooo exceedingly happy that you FINALLY FINALLY are speaking YOUR TRUTH, THE TRUTH!! I know all of what you have been through over the years and I also know that editing this video was even That much Harder because babyyyyyyyy you are STILL SPARING JJ to the fullest! Boy oh boy if only the world REALLY knew how the REAL JJ is it would make Diddy and plethora of others situation look GORGEOUS ‼️ I love you so much for your bravery boo, I’m crying typing this because I know it was difficult but TIME! 🙏🏽😘👏🏽
Your strength is amazing and god won’t let them dim your light! Narcissist can’t stand not having access… keep your boundaries and don’t engage if it isn’t needed. Enjoy your beautiful family.
All I know is, her ex is a Leo as am I who once dated my same sign and there were definitely two sides to him. Though I don’t know them personally, I believe this woman. Hopefully, Selena has found her peace 🙏🏾
Yall gotta learn to love people from a distance. I stopped talking to people who don’t really eff with me in my 20s and life got a lot easier. Glad you are telling your side, but don’t give them a story line unless they cut a check.
I knew something in the milk wasn’t clean. So happy you spoke out. Hopefully we see you more on next season so your side can be told. I feel bad for the girls too
When Selena’s kids were on Bring it she went hard for all her kids. As a mother she was always there and doing things for them. She’s a good strong mamma. There ain’t nobody that can tell me Selena wasn’t there for her children.
This is exactly what I say about my coparenting situation. I let it play out and let God. Do for my son and mind my business. Let kids be kids and be their biggest supporter regardless of any situation
Stand strong Ma. You remind me so much of myself, no matter what we sometimes go through we want to keep the peace for our children. I feel you and it’s quite obvious that something is off when you’re trying to bring peace in the mist of chaos that is NOT well received.
The way Selena went SO HARD for Sunjai Star & Sky on Bring It, you could never tell me she was an absent parent or inadequate. That’s why I loved her on there…she was NOT playin💕💕
Right
She was absent, those girls were raised by JJ. She only showed up when the cameras came.
one of my favorite Selena moments was when one of the DDp's told Selena, you don't know the rules and Selena said teach Em to me
@@gardenview75mj7 no JJ came for the cameras to get in his 4 eight count
Right
Selena sometimes you have to remove people to find your peace. I do mean everyone associated with said people no matter who. Protect your peace sista.❤
True sis, thanks 🙌🏽
I Totally AGREE 👍💯 Peace OVER Everything!
The fact you allowed/had the new woman's child coming to your house says a lot about your character.❤
Thank you for seeing that 🙌🏽
Hey boo lookin like beyonce gurl
I have been a fan of yours since you first graced my tv screen. I don’t know you personally but I knew you were being painted in a bad light. Triple S showed her first red flag early on. I understand why you let Latrice find out on her own. People will eventually show their true colors. Hats off to you for showing grace this long to people who are so undeserving. ❤
I haven't heard of the show, but I saw your and your baby girl's picture on another UA-cam channel. I had to see what was going on.
Thats actually normal
I had met Selena through my sister, who was a judge on Bring It for the last 2 seasons of the show(Judge Christie). For the ones who haven't met this woman, I can honestly say that she's one of the sweetest people I've ever met in my life so far. This isn't a comment for attention. This woman is a sincere person and she speaks to you as if she's known you for years. And the day I met her, I was going through some hardships. Selena's kindness brightened my day, and that has stayed with me since.
When God shines through you, others will see it. While some may love it, others will hate it because of the darkness within themselves. All you have to do is keep believing and doing what you're doing. ❤
I knew JJ had a mean side when he sat on that stage and said he hasn’t talked to his daughters in months then proceeded to argue with them.
While saying its not his fault they not talking😂😂😂😂 Just SAD
I was disgusted with him arguing at the girls on that stage.
Yup I picked up on it too
Agreed. He was contradicting himself during that part. Shaunte isn't innocent and he needs to check her
He doesn’t listen to them. It’s noticeable!
Chile, his hair told me all I needed to know over the years lol. You have my support Selena.
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No when I was younger watching Bring It, I used to think his hair was looney for a grown ass man. His energy was off, I knew it at 15 and I still see it at 22
Right. My first glance at JJ on Bring It I thought he was one of many Mississippi's Pimps from the 90's retired twice over after going to prison a few times!!! 🤣🤣
Listen I know all too well about abusive narcissistic men. The fear, the anxiety, the frustration STILL in her voice just by simply trying to tell what she's experienced and endured during and after that relationship I felt in my gut and in my heart that she was being truthful. It's not easy being in a toxic relationship/marriage let alone having the courage to leave. And to have the person that put you and your children through all of that just to downplay his actions and blame you bcuz you chose to leave is very disappointing. I hate when other women that have never experienced any type of abuse or maybe have they try to make the victims liars or they pick. Those type of women are the devil spawn
i had no idea that JJ was in a relationship with that lady while Bring It was on air, the way he was all up on you. for them to attack your character as a mother is disgusting! and then get mad at your children for standing up for you? crazy! selena you’re too good for them.
He married her in 2018 I think that was the last year that Bring It was on. I feel like Shaunte was jealous of the healthy co parenting relationship they had
It’s extremely crazy, thanks for listening babe
Exactly, why the hell he never mentioned Gucci with Dancing Dolls. They shouldn’t be defaming her on the show, because Selena didn’t do it to them.
exactly, Selena shouldn't have to deal with that.
Selena keep speaking how you feel
Narcissist are jealous of their children too
Exactly!
yes! very sad but true
Yep
Yes mam💯💯
Whoever said that they wanted Star and her son dead, is seriously fucked up! You and your children are amazing!
I promise you if you're the one telling somebody that you're the one that needs to go💯
Team Selena!!!!! In real life, they need to be thankful. Because if it wasn’t for you, Selena and your girls WE WOULDN’T know any one of them!
I lost all respect for JJ when he started talking up under your dress and talking about you was an absent mother.
We saw you standing out in the cold on Bring it for seasons after season supporting your daughters. We saw you get sick when you was on Bring It. I pray that you and your three daughters get a chance to come on this show and tell you’ll reality. Selena don’t cry you and your daughters are superstars. So Gucci and JJ are old funny looking and boring. JJ and So Gucci bring absolutely nothing to the show. Carlos King we want Selena to be a full time Bell and her three daughters. Let’s add some beauty, youth, and fun on this show.
Don’t you mean “NoGucci”
No, she should cry and just let go of the negative emotions. It can really help.
To be fair the only reason I tuned in is because I recognized the girls in the trailer.
@@adriennedeontesmith2020me too
@@adriennedeontesmith2020ME too that's the only reason why I look at that show because I saw the trailer of the girls as well I said the same thing about JJ when did he get married because on bring it was him the girls and Selena
As a black woman, we are always expected to protect our black men and their image plus our dysfunctional family dynamics… but when the tables turn and we require their support, that same effort, grace and energy rarely happens for black women.
Selena! You are a phenomenal mother and a great person. You raised 3 great daughters and we know you loved your late son. (Still Sorry for your loss 😢)
You are doing the right thing by speaking up and speaking your truth!!! It is necessary!!!!! We need more of this. Those who know you, support you wholeheartedly. Keep spreading your positivity and love to us!!!!
Thanks for sharing!!!
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Thank you greatly ❤
As a black man this how I see it is okay to have your mate's back but it's also important to correct your mate when he or she is wrong
Yasssss Selena we been waiting!!!!! Love you. You don’t need a moment you ARE THE MOMENT and that’s why that other woman is threatened by your mere existence
Thank you for your support ❤
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Agreed!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
YES I Can SEE The Jealousy......THEY Don't Have What They Have MENTALLY n Physically I Found That OUT AFTER A LOT Of Unnecessary Mental Attacks. I Know IT Wasn't ME So IT Has To Mean.....I'm THAT ONE! So Learning To Appreciate SELF IS VERY Important 💯✔️💅👌
Man sunjai was so sweet in school. We always help each other especially when she was gone a lot. You were sweet too when I met u on our choir trip in 9th grade. Had a blast!
Girl they should leave this lady alone…. She has always been so freaking nice! She turns a negative situation into a positive situation EVERY TIME! I invited her to my baby shower and bridal shower… she actually showed up to support 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you ❤
@@SelenaJohnson4God bless you and your daughter and grandchildren. I had a ex similar to what you are saying about your ex. Lord help us 🙏🏾
Selena you and the girls should pitch a show, all of you are beauties
Yup i would love that the girls vlog on here sometimes showing they life reviewing things going places
TOTALLY AGREE!!!! I will watch it!!! So Gucci is annoying!!
That's a good idea we need to flood Carlos inbox with this the best revenge is more success for real ❤️💯
I would definitely watch it
Yes we would so watch
The crickets took me out😂😂😂😂 cuz ain’t nobody checking for So Gucci 😂😂
lol...me too
The way you’ve been quiet for months impressed me. After watching this video, I’m convinced more than ever you’re telling the truth. Sending ❤ to you and the girls.
Contractual
@@TheRealDeal31 she’s not a cast member so contractual would not apply. Plus, JJ has been talking about Selena for two seasons and she’s just now speaking about it.
She is so right on
I have never heard Selena speak negatively about that man regardless of whatever happened even just watching Bring It even then she wasn't even funny acting towards him. Even on the show I think Selena was the sweetest mother and she stood 10 toes down for all three of them girls. I'm with my girl Selena all the way through
I’m so glad that you spoke up Selena.
As a mother… it pisses me off that you even have to defend yourself. JJ is a POS. Period
What show is this please
@@KendiKane31Belle collective
I hope she's moved from Mississippi because JJ doesn't sound stable and I fear for her life after she made this video.
Selena it's okay to not always have to be strong.It's okay to cry and allow yourself to go through the emotions, but the most important part was that you did not stay in that dark place that the devil wanted you to stay in. God brought you through and had you and your daughters covered. Your supporters love you. You deserve happiness. May Jesus continue to bless you.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Poor Selena 😢😢😢She's So Pretty and definitely don't deserve all the pain she has been through..
We love you Selena! Thank you for speaking your truth. Some men who are outgoing and "public figures" always have the upper hand when they're on TV. I'm glad you're using your platform to talk about this 💯
Love you more sweetheart 💕💕
So Beautiful! Your Daughters did amazing on the Reunion. They have your grace, poise , brains and Beauty. I can tel JJ is abusive narcissist.He will never get over losing you.Don’t be afraid of him coming . GOD has you Dear.
Lawd ...JJ and Martell are two narcissist that will do anything to try to destroy the mother of their children!!!! It's just sad!! And u can tell JJ still hurt because every chance he gets on the show..he always throws Selena name up in Cliff face!!! I believe everything u are saying Selena!!
Carlos King sure knows how to pick them!
@@SamsP.O.V-hd7rb Exactly 💯
That cause he is messy too
Carlos is only interested in money and hearing his name.
I have a family member who works in the same world Carlos does and she too says he’s messy !! She had a chance to work alongside him and turned it down because of that
We rooting for you Selena! Keep your head up! Don’t let the devil distract you on your mission to win!
Thank you sweetheart
@@SelenaJohnson4 hey selena you and your girls are beautiful.u did an beautiful job raising them and doing the best u can as an mother. U and your girls were my favorite on bring it.❤❤❤❤❤❤
I was a day 1 fan of yours and Bring it, and never knew that lady existed, because JJ showed an enormous amount of love and flirtatious behavior towards you Selena. God surely knows how to frustrate us into our purpose, your life story is your greatest testimony and I pray you’re back on TV because you are a star!🙏🏽🥰🌟
I agree. Not one time did we ever see Gucci or whatever her name is. Even in Bring it she gave this man his props yet he has been this disrespectful person. Now that Gucci has been able to show her face now she’s showing who she really is.
I appreciate it love
@@SelenaJohnson4I have rocked with you and your girls since Bring it on All I see is jealousy with so Gucci she knows that no matter what she does her beauty will never match yours inside and out okay sis!! Not only that jj gave you 3 babies says a lot💦💦 lol that's one reason she mad and on the reunion jj kept trying to make her look good like she did so much for you and jj children but all I kept hearing both of them say was she did their hair fed them and helped with homework that's the basic a baby sitter will do that lol she was trying to get I where she fit in and once she got jj where she wants him she let her true colors show if she was so good to the girls there would be nothing you could do or say to make the girls not like her yet the girls just tolerate her on the strength of jj but as they said on the reunion seeing as though they are grown and can see for themselves he does not like that because he fears they will see the real him the jj you been trying to protect them from for years and he can't stand that because they now have a Choice if they want to deal with him or not stay strong beautiful and happy Selena jj wish you was still on his arm with ya fineAs* sis.
Me too
Me three...
as a dv survivor, I believe you, the one thing he couldn't deny is when your daughters said you never said anything about him and he had to admit you have to be pushed to come out of character, thank you for sharing your side of the story
Praying for you Selena!!! You got this 🙏🏾 We love you Selena!
Thank you and love you more ❤️
The fact that you was protecting him and she’s disrespecting your girls I’m happy you speaking out
The way your girls stood up for you is the way my son has unfortunately had to stand up for me to the other parent. I have been through this exact same situation. I pray that you all can work it out but also I'm glad you spoke the truth. God bless you and your family!
Carlos, we need Selena on the show
LOL
Selena and Melody should do a road trip. They would bring it.
Mmmmm we REALLY DO 😂😅. 🗣️ For yourself 😉 ❤ you too 😅@@keshaanderson6155
So Gucci is extremely fake… it’s very obvious. She seems to be insecure & threatened by you.
Extremely
Selena looks 1000% better than So Gucci
Don’t worry, the haters will attack.
Just like they treated you on the Dolls show.
Or is so had watching them call you names and even go so far as hitting you on that show.
Mimi attacked you , another pushed you .
And called you dumb, and crazy.
I watched every second of it.
And I do believe JJ is EXACTLY what you say he is, but sooooo many people was willing to believe him because they hated her.
All darkness HAS to come to light, we love you so much Selena , AND your girls❤
Selena we believe you girl! You were on tv before those other ppl. We have gotten to see your real personality. You are so cool, bubbly, friendly & out going. Your girls were never apart of the drama on the show they were on. They are humble friendly kind girls too. You have held your tongue long enough. We see who the real antagonists are & it’s not you or your daughters. ❤❤❤
I appreciate your comment love 🙌🏽❤️
You are a amazing mother you taught your daughters the right way. I applaud you as a mother and woman.
Props to you, Selena! The fact that you are their storyline and the way your girls have your back told me all I needed to know. I didn't even know JJ was married until Belle Collective. His wife is clearly jealous of you. It's unfortunate you have to address this, but it seems like this is the year of having to deal with these narcissists.
Selena I am so proud of you and thank you for telling us the truth. Let’s be real, forget any materialistic things he has done for the girls, but the fact that you carried them and gave birth and supported them in thier dream, you’re a strong woman baby. To discredit a mother under any circumstance is bazar.
Thank you so much for this, I appreciate it babe
Girl we see it! No real man will talk about the mother of his kids on t.v.!!! We support you! The dark side has been shown! We love you! ❤️
Selena never said anything bad about JJ on TV, but it seemed like he was taking negative pot shots at Selena every chance he got
He might make it as an actor. You guys were seemed so close on the show, I wondered if you two were getting back together. You have much love!!!❤
ANEN !
We’re waiting on Part 2 Selena. Your quiet strength has been inspiring for years!
I watched the reunion of the girls and I was really sad about the girls and their dad. I have been watching you guys since dancing dolls. JJ is hilarious. Watching the reunion I was shocked and couldn’t believe JJ was like that. Now that I have seen this I believe you and the girls because everything you are saying I have been thru it also. Thank you for sharing this. Praying for you guys.
Facts
I stopped watching because it very disheartening to that. It was a bully in that moment and it seemed that he was forcing his dislike for Selena on those girls. It was very sad.
Selena is honestly the real STAR HERE ! i love you so much. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You seem like a genuinely nice person and it’s always been obvious how much you love your kids. I pray you find peace in every area of your life. Much love Selena. I’m rooting for you. ❤
Thank you for your support ❤
I believe Sogucci is jealous of Selena..Selena is a beautiful woman and not insecure.. I also believe SoGucci likes that JJ is in to it with his children I believe she wants him all to herself.. I think JJ still loves Selena and can't believe she left him... that's where the hate comes from.
Selena we all seen what happened! I’m so confused why Carlos didn’t bring it up at the reunion! That girl CLEARLY threatened you then took her glasses off and began to lunge at you! Before you even popped her behind! That’s like someone bringing a g u n to show it to someone in a threatening manner and that OTHER person gets them before their even able to use theres! She brought it on herself! And we all know you love your kids in the beginning of the video you started off by talking about YOUR KIDS and their FEELINGS! You didn’t start off talking about yourself! That right their shows ALOT!!
Facts!!!! She was the aggressor
I’ve lost respect for Carlos. He’s biased & seems to have personal friendships with the cast mates. IMO, he shouldn’t host the reunion.
Carlos did bring it up. He even replayed the clip . The other woman was looking stupid when she was caught in a lie.
It’s clear you’re an amazing mother ❤
Selena we believe you and keep standing 10 toes down for you and yours!!
We love you girl, from day 1, u don't owe nobody nothing, not even a explanation, everybody can see...
Selena, I'm happy you're telling your truth (the truth). Their reunion segment was about you. When JJ said I want the whole world to know. I saw his dark side. Be encouraged, Your girls are awesome young women. You've the victory already.
Is she talking about a new show
@@tayafoster2533 OWN!
I enjoyed Selena on Bring it!! She is a beautiful woman who stood 10 toes down for her girls. Jealousy is the bottom line. May God bless Selena and her children, and I pray that God gives them peace.
BRAVO Selena!!! I applaud your courage!! You and I have VERY similar stories my sister: Keep your head up, GOD’S GOT YOU 🙏🏽💕🫶🏽🌸
I’m so glad you told your truth! I see Gucci and JJ as the same person, they love attention🤦🏽♀️. I can’t believe people believe JJ. I have always seen right through him and his mess! He always seemed like a good Dad and that’s it! I’m so sorry for all the loss you have suffered 🙏🏾❣️
Thank you for being so vulnerable and it’s sad that your character is being questioned when the love your children have for you proves that you’re a great mother an amazing woman!
We love u Selena ❤ sometimes u gotta pop out and show em like Kendrick Lamar said thats what u gotta do best for u and your girls crazy as they is
Love you and the girls Selena, the one thing you said in all of that is, "Kids, see, hear, and know more than we think. You don't have to say anything negative about the other parents, let them see for themselves!" and for that, I am proud of you, God bless.
You made me cry while watching this ❤ I love how strong you are for your girls
Appreciate it hun
I’m sooo sorry you and your girls are going through this. Praying for you and your family
Satin will do anything to harm you
This lady is speaking from the heart. Just look at her eyes. Dude took her through hell man. But honey what don’t brake you makes you stronger.❤❤❤
Girl take them to court so they can stop mentioning your name
Facts, they don’t have a storyline without Selena.
Yep!!!
Same thing i just wrote!! She needs to get a gag order in them. The girls should also do the same thing! It’s clear he’s using them for a storyline!
Gag order please. These Narc men are disgusting.
Exactly... defamation of character
Selena, I believe everything you're saying because I've been through something very similar with my son's dad. Stay strong sis. ❤
Ms Selena !!! I am with you 100% and I will always support you , you are the sweetest lady !!!
Your story sounds so familiar. My ex is the same exact way. I’m glad you got away from him. He’s someone else’s problem now.
My kid’s father’s ex-wife treated me the same way. I understand EVERYTHING you have experienced! One thing for certain, you don't have to say a thing. I never did. Kids always grow up and see everyone for who they are! Now he begs to be in their lives and they don't want anything to do with him. Even with me encouraging them to forgive him.
I love the edits. I dyed with the keyboard sounds 😂
SoGucci was WRONG!!! If she wanted to speak to Tam and not to Selena she should have waited for Tam to be by herself or away from Selena...BOTTOM LINE
Well Selena stood there and said they don't speak so why would she expect her to speak and I don't feel she was wrong at all Selena is the one that was wrong .... had she just let Gucci kept walking (cause she's not obligated to speak) then none of that would have happened...cause y'all like one and don't like the other ....just keep it real....I luv Selena always been a fan since bring it ..but i feel ahe was wrong
@sheffonpeterson4132 Well it's safe to say from reading your comment that they were both wrong
@@MelvaFrazier .....I respect that...and yes that's what I should have said...cause truthfully they were both wrong
Gods got u, your girls r beautiful. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m so glad you’re sharing your story!! We believe you! Stay strong! Your girls know that you’re a great mom! I hope you and the girls get your own show!!
Selina seems like you raised 3 beautiful young ladies❤Let go
and let GOD deal with JJ !
Selena, I have always told people you are one of the sweetest people I have ever met. You and Diamond treated me like a real sister when we worked production for JMA. Truly a sweet soul. I'm GLAD you are defending yourself.
So basically he’s like Cliff and Glen but he hides it well.
Yep! I live in the area and I heard that Cliff is like Ike Turner when he drinks 😮😮
Wow, I never looked at it like that. So true!
Selena, you & the girls continue to live your best lives and stay Blessed ❤.
DD4L
i always did like you and I want to say what people does in the dark comes to light! You were one on the nicest doll moms.
Wow...I appreciate you for sharing your experience. I'm so sorry you went through so much...I'm praying for you and your daughters! I can tell that you are a honest and genuine person! ❤❤
I know you were there for your girls Selena, because i see how you all get along. They got your back.
I’m glad you finally speaking up. I’m glad you’re speaking your truth. You’ve been quiet for a long time.💜💜💜
Ain’t making no noise! That part didn’t hear about this show until I seen the clip with u on UA-cam 🤣
I’ve loved you and the girls since Bring It! I’m so sorry you had to go through this! I also want to say I love the sound effects, you betta give us a soundtrack for the epic read! Speak your truth!❤️✊🏾
“Who was interviewing you before this incident?” *cricket noises* Clock it, Selena!
She wants a moment real bad
Friend I’m sooooooooooooo exceedingly happy that you FINALLY FINALLY are speaking YOUR TRUTH, THE TRUTH!! I know all of what you have been through over the years and I also know that editing this video was even That much Harder because babyyyyyyyy you are STILL SPARING JJ to the fullest! Boy oh boy if only the world REALLY knew how the REAL JJ is it would make Diddy and plethora of others situation look GORGEOUS ‼️
I love you so much for your bravery boo, I’m crying typing this because I know it was difficult but TIME! 🙏🏽😘👏🏽
Praying for you Selena he got his day coming..I believe every word because I experienced the same🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜💜
Yesssss! We were waiting and we believed you the whole time
I commend you Selena you are a very strong Woman and Mother, I can relate to everything you said as I experienced some of the same
We LOVE YOU SELENA. STAND ON BUSINESS. It's Time 😘💋❤
Your strength is amazing and god won’t let them dim your light! Narcissist can’t stand not having access… keep your boundaries and don’t engage if it isn’t needed. Enjoy your beautiful family.
Facts, and he no longer has any connections to her.
All I know is, her ex is a Leo as am I who once dated my same sign and there were definitely two sides to him. Though I don’t know them personally, I believe this woman. Hopefully, Selena has found her peace 🙏🏾
Sunjai was not playing at that reunion about her mom and I stand with her because you can not hurt or disrespect my mother in my presence period.
Damn Right
Yall gotta learn to love people from a distance. I stopped talking to people who don’t really eff with me in my 20s and life got a lot easier. Glad you are telling your side, but don’t give them a story line unless they cut a check.
I knew something in the milk wasn’t clean. So happy you spoke out. Hopefully we see you more on next season so your side can be told. I feel bad for the girls too
Blessings to you and your family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
When Selena’s kids were on Bring it she went hard for all her kids. As a mother she was always there and doing things for them. She’s a good strong mamma. There ain’t nobody that can tell me Selena wasn’t there for her children.
Yesss waiting on you to tell your side love.
This is exactly what I say about my coparenting situation. I let it play out and let God. Do for my son and mind my business. Let kids be kids and be their biggest supporter regardless of any situation
I love selena and her beautiful daughters. Tell it like it is
Stand strong Ma. You remind me so much of myself, no matter what we sometimes go through we want to keep the peace for our children. I feel you and it’s quite obvious that something is off when you’re trying to bring peace in the mist of chaos that is NOT well received.
I’m sorry you’re going through all this 🙏🏾
These abusive men really poison people against you on top of the abuse they put you through. This video and women speaking on it helps others.
You and all your young ladies are lovely sweet respectful women, don’t let the devil steal your joy ❤❤❤❤
Prayers for you and your girls. I love your relationship.
We love you Selena and nobody can change that. 💜 Keep shining bright beautiful, God got you.
I’m so glad you spoke up… what is done in the dark will always come to light!!! Believe that.
Keep being you