Mandy was being so vulnerable when discussing her hyper sexuality and liquor and even beginning to explore that is commendable. As a society we have infused the two and as a woman who loves all of the above it’s also so beautiful to watch someone navigate that. We can’t advocate for ourselves if we don’t truly know ourselves. Thank you for this! ❤
Im actually so proud of mandii not getting upset at them asking the same questions over and over when she already answered “she doesn’t like making out in the first day” lol and that’s okay! Maybe mandi used to do that back then but she’s changed
I love this rebrand you guys didn’t completely change your podcast topics. I don’t feel like I’m missing out by not listening to whoreible decisions! 😊
Weezy, I’m glad you kept asking Mandii those questions. I didn’t understand her reasoning at first and it help get to the root point! I also don’t kiss on first dates and hate pda so I get you Mandii!
I think there’s an interesting correlation between early hyper sexuality born out of survival and later life conservatism. Without that hyper sexuality we literally would not have the podcast you’re watching and commenting on. Have some discernment. People change. The only reason you feel so comfortable to comment on it is because the change is happening before your eyes which, might I say, is a privilege. But in actuality, Mandii isn’t changing, she’s just rewriting the story about her YOU think you know.
Kissing is more about intimacy than being sexual. Every touch doesn’t have to lead to sex. This is why I believe hyper sexual women really need a hug but they’ll take whatever physical touch they can get from a man. Or maybe they don’t realize they really need a hug.
It makes so much sense to not feel like kissing is normal on a first date if you have had men equate your presence with sex and want a relationship that isn’t sex centered. I feel the same way but I love kissing men but I really hold back because I know once I kiss a man I really like him or it’s going to make me like him even more, like it’s almost a protective way to keep me from liking him too much.
Mandii not kissing on the first date is not mind blowing. If its a first date i don't want any man's lips near mine. I need to be comfortable with you first before we go there. So Mandii's date night to me was a perfect first date. Proud of you girl! 👏🏽
I can see why someone would think Mandii is being weird with the kissing thing, but really what we think about kissing has been taught to us by Hollywood, popular media; I don't think there's a wrong or right, there's just what feels right for you. So it may be new to most of us what Mandii is saying, but it doesn't make it less real.
It’s okay not to kiss on the first date Mandii❤️ Don’t feel like it should’ve happened because everyone else is saying it should’ve. I think it’s cute how he kissed you on the forehead 🫶🏼🥰
This pod made me realise I had some homophobia and as time has gone on I realised I’m open to dating bi-men but before I used to say I couldn’t and it was based in homophobia 🤷🏾♀️ we gotta look deeper into why we feel a way
Yall look so pretty with and without makeup at the very end of the video! I be trolling talking shit sometimes but I respect what yall are doing and your content. Peace and blessings yall
Ok GREEAAAT episode!!!🙌🏾❤let us discuss!!!👀 Homophobia amongst black people has always been a problem but black women especially still to this day have an irrational hatred towards bisexuality in men. And the more religious/Christian she is, the more aggressive the homophobia is. So I completely understand that man’s reasoning and respect black men who feel safer dating women who they feel they can be their fullest self around. Other than myself I have yet to meet a black woman my age (25) who isn’t homophobic towards bisexual men. No exaggeration. 😅
I understand Weezy’s point however I agree with Mandy . We can find what we’re looking for within our own , dating outside is not the answer ! I’d actually prefer to date a bi sexual black man however I’ve ye to run into one . But I’m in Atlanta so yeah lol
Y’all are very pressed about a boundary that Mandi has… like it’s ok that it doesn’t make sense to you but gosh respect her boundary. I’m ngl the kissing thing was not tea at all and I’m glad Mandi stood her ground because why spend 20 minutes asking her the same damn question?!?
CUZ SHE IS LYING. SHE WOULD HAVE KISSED HIM IF HE HAD KISSED HER. HE MIGHT HAVE REJECTED HER. SHE DOESNT HAVE A STRONG STANCE AGAINST KISSING ON THE FIRST DATE. SHE ALSO DOESNT ACTUALLY BELIEVE MAKING OUT IS IOMMATURE AND SHE MIGHT AS WELL HAVE A DICK IN HER MOUTH. THAT IS WHAT SHE HAS DONE ALL HER LIFE AND SHE IS FEELING LIKE SHE HAS TO DISTANCE FROM THAT WHICH IS THIS CELIBATE THING BUT DATING WHILE CELIBATE IS SLIGHTLY STUPID.
I don’t think their goal was to hound her, just to understand her perspective on it. No one said she was wrong for having it, they were just trying to see the thought process behind it.
@@Dgeorges19 they had absolutely no intention of understanding hence why they kept implying she was crazy for thinking that way. They absolutely implied that she was wrong and they were right.
I agree with Mandii on the first date it shouldn’t be any pressure to kiss on the first date I think the forehead kiss was romantic and I thought it was cute especially since we grown asf
Hmm, I have always seen kissing as a sign of chemistry. I get why Mandi didn't kiss him, she trying to draw out real intimacy without it turning into s*x. The forehead is a great beginning for closer intimate feelings.
I agree with Mandi, I’m not kissing someone I’m not fvckin. When you’re a sexual person, sometimes being sexual isn’t that deep alllllll the time, it’s like dang can we just kick it & flirt. Like she said they’ve already expressed physical attraction, they’re grown, if they continue to see each other they will eventually get to that point, no need to rush.
More Eddin screen time everytime he on camera i rewind chile . He so fine😩 no disrespect anyway I feel Mandi with the making out thing. And black society is so hierarchical. I understand homie why he made the comment but dang i hope one day we stop tearing each other down. I have sexual trauma from black people from decades ago but the therapy helped. Anyway love yall
@@anjelanamaste I find it really refreshing that she doesn't just go with the norm. She thinks for herself. It also makes for a much better podcast to have diff perspectives.
It doesn’t have to make sense. If it’s a boundary and also a healthy wait to date. It’s a personal choice. Y’all really over did it pressuring her to give an answer that aligned with what you would do. Also , love how Mandy handled this. Sorry you had to explain yourself 5000 times lol
Fellow Travelers is a really good series with Matt Bomer and Jonathan Bailey that talks about the Lavender Scare! It’s incredible, I highly recommend it.
All bi men don't suck d. Neither do all gay men. There are levels to bisexuality. Every bi person is not 50/50, sadly. It's weird out here. Some bi guys only want to touch on other men but will not have sex or be in a relationship with men. I guess it's similar to the girls that like to be all over girls when they get drinks in their system. Both of you are bi but express it differently as far as relationships. All these spectrums.
I don’t see a problem with mandii boundary at all! I want to have this same boundary going forward in my own dating life. I am hyper sexual myself, I’m still navigating it and kissing for me always leads to more so I’d like to cut it out too.
But I understand Weezy too and think that is sexy. When people are more touchier with you and it’s in a romantic setting or you feel the tension, you take that as a sign to initiate something. It’s hot to play that game of back and forth. I’d like to get to the point where I can just kiss
But you can make out as “friends”, though. Or you can make out & the other person only wants to bed you. I need a clear, distinct conversation before we share that intimate kiss about where we see ourselves in each other’s lives. Bc if we make out, I’m liable to fall in love. 🤷🏾♀️
i appreciate edin and weezy didn't go with mandiii opinion on other races dont do it too. every race talk down on themselves, black women do talk down on black men and vice versa.
Mandy, you got to watch sienfield. That damn George is a true clown. Trust me, when I was younger, I said the same thing, " not watching that shit," but I was missing some funny shit. As to the bill, i do not even look at it. I am not rich, but you can not even fake it if you react to the bill. I grew up poor and can count in my head about what the cost should be. The last thing I wanted to have happen is to be in the grocery store and have to put shit back.
It’s so interesting that you said AS is too much and then you said yall were too much. But you don’t like AS? I don’t think either of you are too much. So should we not either of you? This needs some reflection on your end Weezy.
I’m the same way Mandy. I don’t think it’s weird at all. I honestly don’t rly enjoy a making out session unless I know I’m gonna have sex. U can for sure go on dates w out kissing. I have done it several times. I actually h think guys appreciate it more.
I’ve always loved Mandii but I’m loving this version of Mandii that’s healing even more.
Mandy was being so vulnerable when discussing her hyper sexuality and liquor and even beginning to explore that is commendable. As a society we have infused the two and as a woman who loves all of the above it’s also so beautiful to watch someone navigate that. We can’t advocate for ourselves if we don’t truly know ourselves. Thank you for this! ❤
This ❤! Same thoughts
"you wanna be a mixed thick girl in the 1920s think you about to be out here in a flapper fit" HAHAHAHA Weezy that killed me
i love that ole boy has a camera now!! yess im loving this rebrand ❤❤
Im actually so proud of mandii not getting upset at them asking the same questions over and over when she already answered “she doesn’t like making out in the first day” lol and that’s okay! Maybe mandi used to do that back then but she’s changed
I like how y’all showing Eden now!
I love this rebrand you guys didn’t completely change your podcast topics. I don’t feel like I’m missing out by not listening to whoreible decisions! 😊
Weezy, I’m glad you kept asking Mandii those questions. I didn’t understand her reasoning at first and it help get to the root point! I also don’t kiss on first dates and hate pda so I get you Mandii!
OH YEAH, MANDI IS SO OLD FASHIONED AND CONSERVATIVE. SHE WOULD NEVER KISS AND TELL. WTH?
I think there’s an interesting correlation between early hyper sexuality born out of survival and later life conservatism.
Without that hyper sexuality we literally would not have the podcast you’re watching and commenting on.
Have some discernment. People change. The only reason you feel so comfortable to comment on it is because the change is happening before your eyes which, might I say, is a privilege.
But in actuality, Mandii isn’t changing, she’s just rewriting the story about her YOU think you know.
@@alexispage9785 damn...are u a writer??? This was beautiful 😍
Kissing is more about intimacy than being sexual. Every touch doesn’t have to lead to sex. This is why I believe hyper sexual women really need a hug but they’ll take whatever physical touch they can get from a man. Or maybe they don’t realize they really need a hug.
Im loving Mandiis growth, this was such a beautiful episode 💜
“In the north, wasn’t we free???” LMAOOO MANDII PLEASE
LMFAOOOOOOO THE WAY I SCRUMPT!
The way Weezy looked at Mandii when she said soul train was the 90s 🤣🤣🤣
Eden’s commentary after Mandi’s story 😂😂
Proud of Mandi’s growth!!! & I appreciate the breakdown of the convo with her not kissing
It makes so much sense to not feel like kissing is normal on a first date if you have had men equate your presence with sex and want a relationship that isn’t sex centered. I feel the same way but I love kissing men but I really hold back because I know once I kiss a man I really like him or it’s going to make me like him even more, like it’s almost a protective way to keep me from liking him too much.
Kisses on a first date are mad awkward sometimes 😬😬 I’ve avoided a few 🤷🏾♀️ “pop kiss” sounds hilarious btw
Mandi is affirming she's not a romantic and everybody's shocked and confused- what hell is going on?!🤣🤣🤣
Mandii not kissing on the first date is not mind blowing. If its a first date i don't want any man's lips near mine. I need to be comfortable with you first before we go there. So Mandii's date night to me was a perfect first date. Proud of you girl! 👏🏽
Why go anywhere with someone you're not comfortable with?
Haven't watched yet BUT. I saw the book In the thumbnail and instantly preordered on Amazon . Love yalll cant wait to read it ❤
I can see why someone would think Mandii is being weird with the kissing thing, but really what we think about kissing has been taught to us by Hollywood, popular media; I don't think there's a wrong or right, there's just what feels right for you. So it may be new to most of us what Mandii is saying, but it doesn't make it less real.
Love seeing Edin instead of just hearing his voice! ❤
I'm with Mandi on the making out. It's not necessary. Either you have chemistry or you don't and you know that without being physical
It’s okay not to kiss on the first date Mandii❤️ Don’t feel like it should’ve happened because everyone else is saying it should’ve. I think it’s cute how he kissed you on the forehead 🫶🏼🥰
Love y’all so much!! Can’t wait to read the book!!
This pod made me realise I had some homophobia and as time has gone on I realised I’m open to dating bi-men but before I used to say I couldn’t and it was based in homophobia 🤷🏾♀️ we gotta look deeper into why we feel a way
This is so wild. Mandii is so on point. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I love Edin being a third mic
I have been loving the history episodes ladies it's been so informative and it really makes me think please keep them coming love you guys so much
Y’all look sooo cuuute, I can’t take it!! 😻😻😻😻😻
Ain’t nobody doin it like yall❤❤
Yall look so pretty with and without makeup at the very end of the video! I be trolling talking shit sometimes but I respect what yall are doing and your content. Peace and blessings yall
Ahh! I need to preorder the book! I’ve been waiting!
Favourite episode since the rebrand 😊
I LOVE THE REBRAND ❤❤
Mandi was so real and funny this episode🤣🤣
They be trying to set yall up with the Patreon clips 🤣
Great episode 10 minutes in its fun to môme a mid day Monday joint and decisions
Love you guys 😊
I’m crying Mandi I don’t like senfeild either never watched it 😂😂
Ok GREEAAAT episode!!!🙌🏾❤let us discuss!!!👀
Homophobia amongst black people has always been a problem but black women especially still to this day have an irrational hatred towards bisexuality in men. And the more religious/Christian she is, the more aggressive the homophobia is.
So I completely understand that man’s reasoning and respect black men who feel safer dating women who they feel they can be their fullest self around.
Other than myself I have yet to meet a black woman my age (25) who isn’t homophobic towards bisexual men. No exaggeration. 😅
I understand Weezy’s point however I agree with Mandy . We can find what we’re looking for within our own , dating outside is not the answer ! I’d actually prefer to date a bi sexual black man however I’ve ye to run into one . But I’m in Atlanta so yeah lol
Shiddd I thought Weezy was preggers too 😂😂😂
I’m not goin lie a kiss will make or break everything. If the kiss ain’t hittin we may as well table it.
There is a double standard when it comes to dating a bisexual man and bisexual woman. Which is wrong, and it shouldn't be that way.
I love this version of Mandy!
Already ordered my copy!
WHAT! Happy New Year. And y’all was in LA??? Seeeee. Next time. Shout out a holla!? Geesh.
Edin?! Whatchu doing here lol
Nah I get where Mandi’s coming from on making out on a date. Like, I’m not starting something I can’t finish, I feel her.
I imagine actor bae being Aaron Pierre 👀
With Mandii's fine ass, I wouldn't be surprised
This shit right hereeeeeeee! Who is he?!!!!😂😂😂
And I honestly do think a forehead kiss is romantic and intimate. It shows he likes her but maybe didn’t want to overstep her boundaries.
Mandii let me find out you dating Mufasa! 👀 lemme mind my business, chil’
Y’all are very pressed about a boundary that Mandi has… like it’s ok that it doesn’t make sense to you but gosh respect her boundary. I’m ngl the kissing thing was not tea at all and I’m glad Mandi stood her ground because why spend 20 minutes asking her the same damn question?!?
CUZ SHE IS LYING. SHE WOULD HAVE KISSED HIM IF HE HAD KISSED HER. HE MIGHT HAVE REJECTED HER. SHE DOESNT HAVE A STRONG STANCE AGAINST KISSING ON THE FIRST DATE. SHE ALSO DOESNT ACTUALLY BELIEVE MAKING OUT IS IOMMATURE AND SHE MIGHT AS WELL HAVE A DICK IN HER MOUTH. THAT IS WHAT SHE HAS DONE ALL HER LIFE AND SHE IS FEELING LIKE SHE HAS TO DISTANCE FROM THAT WHICH IS THIS CELIBATE THING BUT DATING WHILE CELIBATE IS SLIGHTLY STUPID.
Thank you because what was the reason they hounded her like that.
I don’t think their goal was to hound her, just to understand her perspective on it. No one said she was wrong for having it, they were just trying to see the thought process behind it.
@@Dgeorges19 they had absolutely no intention of understanding hence why they kept implying she was crazy for thinking that way. They absolutely implied that she was wrong and they were right.
Hey girls. Will I be able to get book in Serbia?
I agree with Mandii on the first date it shouldn’t be any pressure to kiss on the first date I think the forehead kiss was romantic and I thought it was cute especially since we grown asf
Agreed, I think on the first date of forehead kiss is very cute. On a 5th date then yes, I may think maybe you don’t like me like that lol
Good episode for eddin
I hope this rebranded channel is monetized because I'm watching all the ads to support. Lol
Hmm, I have always seen kissing as a sign of chemistry. I get why Mandi didn't kiss him, she trying to draw out real intimacy without it turning into s*x. The forehead is a great beginning for closer intimate feelings.
I agree with Mandi, I’m not kissing someone I’m not fvckin. When you’re a sexual person, sometimes being sexual isn’t that deep alllllll the time, it’s like dang can we just kick it & flirt. Like she said they’ve already expressed physical attraction, they’re grown, if they continue to see each other they will eventually get to that point, no need to rush.
Very weird how you describe it. I hope he rejects her. Let her know he aint fing the first 5 dates
More Eddin screen time everytime he on camera i rewind chile . He so fine😩 no disrespect anyway
I feel Mandi with the making out thing. And black society is so hierarchical. I understand homie why he made the comment but dang i hope one day we stop tearing each other down. I have sexual trauma from black people from decades ago but the therapy helped.
Anyway love yall
Wait wait waaaaiiittttt!!! Rebrand? Ok! Let’s see 😅😊
Mandii is such a contrarian 😂 she just has to disagree . She doesn’t agree with any point of view ever … like girl .
@@anjelanamaste I find it really refreshing that she doesn't just go with the norm. She thinks for herself. It also makes for a much better podcast to have diff perspectives.
Can y’all please update the video title to spell Keke’s name correctly?
💯
This show used to be one of my favorites but I haven’t watched an episode since the “reboot”. That shit really threw me for a loop.
Then don’t?
It doesn’t have to make sense. If it’s a boundary and also a healthy wait to date. It’s a personal choice. Y’all really over did it pressuring her to give an answer that aligned with what you would do. Also , love how Mandy handled this. Sorry you had to explain yourself 5000 times lol
I agree with Mandi. 17:45
AAAAYYYEEE LET’S GO!!!
21:37 Mandy. I love how you grown so much. Wanting to get the know the guy.
Mandii is sooo real lmao 9:25
Fellow Travelers is a really good series with Matt Bomer and Jonathan Bailey that talks about the Lavender Scare! It’s incredible, I highly recommend it.
All bi men don't suck d. Neither do all gay men.
There are levels to bisexuality. Every bi person is not 50/50, sadly. It's weird out here. Some bi guys only want to touch on other men but will not have sex or be in a relationship with men. I guess it's similar to the girls that like to be all over girls when they get drinks in their system.
Both of you are bi but express it differently as far as relationships. All these spectrums.
I don’t see a problem with mandii boundary at all! I want to have this same boundary going forward in my own dating life. I am hyper sexual myself, I’m still navigating it and kissing for me always leads to more so I’d like to cut it out too.
But I understand Weezy too and think that is sexy. When people are more touchier with you and it’s in a romantic setting or you feel the tension, you take that as a sign to initiate something. It’s hot to play that game of back and forth. I’d like to get to the point where I can just kiss
I completely understand not wanting to kiss everyone, but you don’t have to associate kissing with sex
Is it me or did weezy recommend that Mandi not kiss or do anything sexual on a first date on a previous episode?
What’s this got to do with me being shocked she’s never done it?
I’m paying for it imma make whatever face I feel like making.
54:18 Audible pre-ordered
But you can make out as “friends”, though. Or you can make out & the other person only wants to bed you. I need a clear, distinct conversation before we share that intimate kiss about where we see ourselves in each other’s lives. Bc if we make out, I’m liable to fall in love. 🤷🏾♀️
Weezy gets finer and finer ❤
i appreciate edin and weezy didn't go with mandiii opinion on other races dont do it too. every race talk down on themselves, black women do talk down on black men and vice versa.
I’m the same way I don’t just kiss people on dates
Hell no, not kissing on no first date. Dont know if that person has any disease, you dont know their hygiene practices.
39.25 and I agree with Mandi never see anyone says that
Wheezy is trying to change mandiis mind. Everybody don’t make out in public. I’m happily married and it’s a no
Whose the British actor ?!?!👀
I thought they broke up?
I’m with Mandi, when you’re grown who wants to make out for no reason.
Mandy, you got to watch sienfield. That damn George is a true clown. Trust me, when I was younger, I said the same thing, " not watching that shit," but I was missing some funny shit. As to the bill, i do not even look at it. I am not rich, but you can not even fake it if you react to the bill. I grew up poor and can count in my head about what the cost should be. The last thing I wanted to have happen is to be in the grocery store and have to put shit back.
Daaamn Weezy 😝
King Noire is bi😮 and he is married .
It’s so interesting that you said AS is too much and then you said yall were too much. But you don’t like AS? I don’t think either of you are too much. So should we not either of you? This needs some reflection on your end Weezy.
It’s official for me Mandy is weird 😂
I’m the same way Mandy. I don’t think it’s weird at all. I honestly don’t rly enjoy a making out session unless I know I’m gonna have sex. U can for sure go on dates w out kissing. I have done it several times. I actually h think guys appreciate it more.
New tattoo?
How is this different from Whorible lol
Yall gotta be way nastier than before
Wait is mandi a virgin? wtf lmao
Making out is childish? how do you start sex? x____x
Is this the same as whorible decisions?
Why is eddin a co-host now?????🙄
Lol I think it benefitted this convo
HA HA. I GOT TO SEE MICHAEL JACKSON LIVE DURING HIS BAD TOUR. AND DID A MEAN MOONWALK TO BILLIE JEAN!!!!!
It’s Keke🫢 lol