Keep the name, it acknowledges your past and describes your new future. After all a dressmakers closet always changes, creating new items and keeping familiar designs.
How about keep the name. It's your past and it still will be your future. You could add to it The Dressmakers closet "And clips from my Victorian home renovations. As that's exactly what you will be doing. Grief can cause such unbearable sadness that sometimes you can't see thought the fog. Keep going this is your new beginning.😊
Oh sweety, I understand you so well. My husband died in 2014. He was only 47 years old. I had two older sons from a previous marriage and a 5 year old then. My life was in a haze as well, the first months, just existing and soldiering on, for my little one and of course also for my other boys. Before my husband died we had bought an old house, built in 1903. There was and is still so much to do. But the old house was and is kind of an anker, something that gives me a purpose. The renovation, allthough slow, and my crafts, my children, give me the strength. Some days everything seems overwhelming, but then I just go 1 day at a time. An old house like this needs a lot of patience and love. It is almost like a living thing. Good luck with your new life Jane. It will be awesome. It will be different, but awesome. How about naming your channel: Jane`s Journey - my crafted life. ❤ Huggs from the Schurwald Forest, Germany. 🌲🌲🌲
I think "The Dressmakers Journey" is quite fitting. It still encompasses what you do but is now also including the journey you are taking through the new part of your life. And you're allowing us to share that with you. Thank you so much and God bless. 😊
You don't have to describe it. Trust me many of us have gone through those trials of losing someone that you love and if they haven't they will. You're looking good.
I was so pleased to see you. You have a light in your face, this house has given you a mission and purpose. John is with you because he knew where you needed to be. Enjoy your new space, it will be fun to follow along on this new journey.
Oh Jayne I’m so happy for you, I can’t imagine what you’ve been through and are still going through everyday, but I’m sure in time your heart will start to heal, I know you loved John so much. He would love that you have a home of your own. It’s going to be lovely xxx
I am so proud of you Jane! You've faced so many challenges and look at you! You are a massive inspiration and it's so nice to see you back here on UA-cam xx
Congratulations on the new house. Sorry to be picky but it is Edwardian! Victoria died in 1901 so Edward the 7th was on the throne in 1904. Looking forward to the house tour.
Jane, a very warm heartfelt congratulations on stepping into your new future and made a start in your single life. It certainly is daunting to be alone after so many years, but your life will evolve to be amazing. Very well done. Im staying with you on your journey... keep your channel name i reckon,, it still makes sense. Love your ramblings. Many blessings and all the best x ❤
Ah bless you my lovely. I saw this post very soon after you posted it and thought I'll consider my comment before I send anything. Then all of a sudden a few days have passed! Grief is always hard and I can't comment on your particular loss, as it is so personal to you. We can all make suggestions as to how to cope, because but we can't be there with you. Whisking you out for a coffee or something. All I can do is send you a virtual hug. 🫂 I do know exactly where you are coming from with your Victorian Terrace, as I had one too. Looks as though it was in a similar state. I loved it. It had a tiny little postage stamp garden and I set about making a little paradise for my cats Rosie and Clover, hoping they would stay home. (They did for most of the time). Have you got a cellar? Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Keep posting and hopefully we (your followers) can bolster you up. ❤😊x
Take all the time you need. Happy to see you! A new chapter in your book. Finish well and you will be together again! Death and separation is not the final chapter❤
You're doing better than you think - what you've achieved so far is huge! John will be so proud of you. Keep talking, we're all listening. Suggestion - Beyond the Dressmakers Closet. Sending hugs.
I like The Life of Jayne. I am so excited for you in your own home! You are doing a great job of moving through grief even though it probably feels like you don’t know WHAT you are doing. Be gentle and good to yourself, Jayne. We have your back.
Aww Jayne, I’m delighted to see you back on here and to see you settled in your new home. I’ve been following you from the beginning of your channel. Looking forward to seeing the house tour, I was born in a Victoria terrace and have lived in them in my adult life, love them. I get that this project is to keep you busy and hopefully help with your grief. But what a labour of love hey.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I woke up today from a short nap thinking when am i ever going to buy a house and how will i scrape money for the deposit . Then tonight before bed i decided ill watch something nice… and you gave me the ideea! I have the deposit! Is my car! Plus some little savings. I can’t be grateful enough!
You will find there will be various times when the grief will hit and take you out behind the knees. I wish I could say my journey has been easier but I can’t. Hugs for you. I’m so happy for your new home. Take all the time you need.
I am in exactly the same position, I lost my husband 51 weeks ago, we put our house up for sale the day before he died. I bought a house we had both looked at knowing that he’d been here gave me great comfort. The house is a project loads to do, but just like you I struggle with the loss everyday and hope this will keep me going. I empathise with everything you are feeling and saying I will be watch your journey ❤
Welcome back Jayne. So happy to see that you have a new project to unleash your creativity on :) I think that making a beautiful home to retire with will be crucial to feeling more at home in the world. Looking forward to seeing your cottage and all that you do with it. (I also stopped sewing due to life change and you are inspiring me to connect back in as well as I loved hearing your news).
Ive been in bed since two years ago when brother tragically died suddenly,i already had health issues but now i am trying to figure how to mend,and make home better!
I'm so sorry for your loss! Please take care. Eventually you will be able to find a passion project to occupy your time. That will possibly help you mend. 😊💜
I’m so sorry I can empathise with you ! 🥲😘🙏 I lost my Brother in 2006 He was only 39 - he was a missing person for 5 weeks following a colleague’s retirement night out in Lancaster! He was seen walking down penny street on CCTV with the man who was retiring who offered him a lift as his wife was picking him up , but he declined which was typical of my brother as he wouldn’t want to put anyone out! He went to walk the river path to the next village but never arrived home! Despite a large search he wasn’t found by police and teams/ searching the river and surrounding area , but was found in the river at 5 weeks later by a man out walking! He had just bought a brand new motorbike and was looking forward to our Nieces wedding! We miss him terribly it’s horrible not knowing what happened that night! The inquest said accidental death but were unable to confirm drowning!!! Since then I developed Fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue/ME - it’s been very very difficult we are heartbroken 💔 My heart goes out to you and anyone affected by tragic loss of a loved one! I’m a early retired Nurse so I’ve had a lot of experience dealing with families in Grief! Everyone’s Grief is their own and everyone has to go through the waves in the own way, there is absolutely no time scale! Grief is the price we pay for Love!😘 Hopefully you can find some comfort until you meet again! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏
I’m so sorry I can empathise with you ! 🥲😘🙏 I lost my Brother in 2006 He was only 39 - he was a missing person for 5 weeks following a colleague’s retirement night out in Lancaster! He was seen walking down penny street on CCTV with the man who was retiring who offered him a lift as his wife was picking him up , but he declined which was typical of my brother as he wouldn’t want to put anyone out! He went to walk the river path to the next village but never arrived home! Despite a large search he wasn’t found by police and teams/ searching the river and surrounding area , but was found in the river at 5 weeks later by a man out walking! He had just bought a brand new motorbike and was looking forward to our Nieces wedding! We miss him terribly it’s horrible not knowing what happened that night! The inquest said accidental death but were unable to confirm drowning!!! Since then I developed Fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue/ME - it’s been very very difficult we are heartbroken 💔 My heart goes out to you and anyone affected by tragic loss of a loved one! I’m a early retired Nurse so I’ve had a lot of experience dealing with families in Grief! Everyone’s Grief is their own and everyone has to go through the waves in the own way, there is absolutely no time scale! Grief is the price we pay for Love!😘 Hopefully you can find some comfort and joyful moments He wouldn’t want you suffering and that goes for everyone in shock and grief! until you meet again! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏
I'm sending you so much genuine love and comforting energy, Jayne. May our good Lord wrap you in his loving embrace and wash you with peace, comfort, strength, courage, ambition, motivation, and confidence.
You are a lovely lady, and I am so sorry for your great loss. Thank goodness you found this house, and it found you! It will give you something worthwhile to concentrate on in it's restoration. Your house, that you own, which you are making your home. I have clicked the like button, and subscribed to your channel, as I shall be so interested to see what you do to your lovely home along the way. Where abouts do you live now in this lovely new home? Blessings from Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Yes. Moving to another house was a good move. Now you have new things to keep your mind busy. I have been so worried about you. There have not been any videos from you in a long time. Depression can kill. I have been alone for over 20 years; and, I have gotten used to being alone. My prayers have been answered. You are alive, well, and moving on with your wonderful life. Thank you so much for this video.
Still a dress maker at heart. Now your dressing your home and home is where your heart is …. So if you need the rename to represent your refresh but same you. Might I suggest The Dress Makers Cottage. ❤. So good to hear from you and looking forward to the new journey updates.
Hello dear Jayne How lovely to see you back You absolutely made the right decision buying the house I think that you should keep "dressmaker closet " It's your signature and those who Don't know you may not click on your videos if you are "jaynes journey " they won't know what a wonderful dressmaker and pattern designer you are ,so they will miss out getting a pattern and sewing advice You always shared your garden and home before This is just going to be a little more house for a while Can't wait to see what you will be doing Take care, and God bless you
Awww lovely Jayne it’s going to be so good for you! Perfect! I think you should keep the name! ❤️💜❤️ You can do play lists for home and dressmaker videos! 🙌🙌🤗😘 You’ve been sent a blessing Jayne the universe works in magical ways! hold that thought! The Best Is Yet To Come! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏🌎
Elizabeth is right, my dear Mitchie has been gone 11 years and I still miss him. Congratulations on the house! Looking forward to seeing what you do with it!
Jayne, You're such a beautiful caring person and I am so sorry for your loss. It takes as long as it takes to get through the heartache of losing your soulmate but you are a strong woman and I have Faith in you. I can't wait to see your new home and all the renovations you plan to carry out. Maybe you could call your channel --'Renovating my new Victorian dressmakers closet '. Just a thought. Looking forward to your next video. Take care.
So happy for you, I totally understand as my husband died last September. Everything in our lives changes and unless you have experienced it, you cannot understand. After nearly 50 years, I am trying to find ME again. Good luck and enjoy your lovely new home ❤ Sue
Things will get better. The second year was worse than the first year for me when my husband died. So excited about your new house! Can’t wait to see it all including the street and the village!!
I have been looking forward to your return, I am sorry you have been feeling so blue. I lost my husband at the same time you lost John and for a while I was so busy with sorting all the household stuff over to my name and getting rid of all the things I no longer needed plus I was having some renovations done too. Time marched forward and I was semi ok but then autumn and winter came around and I was lost, I dont have friends or family so I am alone with my cat. Christmas came and went then spring arrived and I thought I would start to feel better but I just felt worse. I have been told the first two years is the worst but I think I will never feel the same again. I can understand how you feel and if you want to take us along on your journey with finishing your new home I will really love it. You could rename your channel Jane the Dressmakers Journey it covers what you do and the journey you are taking in your life, its just a suggestion. Look forward to see more videos and hope you will find a peace that will motivate you forward ❤
I think you should keep your name! Good to see you back and facing life head on as you try to get used to your new normal. You’re doing great! Can’t wait to see what you do to bring your new home back to life.
So happy for you. My husband passed 11 1/2 years ago. It is hard still. Getting your own home & renovating it will be healing. My husband was a John also. ❤❤❤
Jane I'm so happy for you. I just recently looked to see if you had any new videos up. You've taken that first big step toward healing. Look how much support you had from your family. Give yourself some Grace. Looking forward to seeing your new home & what you do with it. I can't imagine you not sewing up some nice things for the house. Enjoy the new journey.
Hello Jayne! So nice hearing from you again and I am happy for you, your SO brave❤️! Good luck with your new house. Hope to see and hear more from you and see your victorian house! Hugs from Portugal 🇵🇹
Amazing. Look at you GO!! I can't wait to see the reno and all your adventures. I will say you don't have to say Widowed you can say Single. I love sewing but I also love a good reno. Hw about A Dressmakers Life that should incorporate your fresh start while also giving a nod to where you came from. I love being able to sit here in the US (currently) and listen to a Northern accent. Makes me think of Doncaster and my youth lol.
Sweetheart I can tell you John is looking down over you from heaven and smiling. You did good and he is proud of you. So happy for you and hope you take your time working on your projects. There will be ups and downs but you must soldier on. And relax in your favorite place. A garden and your sewing room. All the best to you. Congratulations! You did it! Keep the same name. And the last time I sewed as a kid living at home or my first apartment…the kitchen table worked for me. Even an old time card table. Then the whole table shakes when you are sewing. I have to laugh at that.
I’ve been following along on instagram and it’s been very exciting so seeing a UA-cam vid pop up was lovely x I’ve been subscribed for many years and will definitely continue - I initially thought keep the name but I love the suggestions of The Dressmakers Victorian house ❤ So sorry for the grief you’re feeling but sending very best wishes for your future xx
Hi Jane so lovely to see you pop up ❤ the house is wonderful x it all takes time losing someone so special is not a easy take care of yourself ❤look forward to seeing your house tour ❤
I really felt your pain listening to you. You've been through a tough time but you've done the right thing with moving and I'm so looking forward to seeing your home renovation. We used to rent a victorian terrace house we were there for 7 yrs til the landlord sold. I was gutted as love a victorian house too. We bought a 3 bed semi which we've made our own and love it. I have a little sewing room which is my haven ❤. Keep your name as you'll soon be back in your sewing space but I'm the mean time enjoy every minute of your beautiful new home. John would be very proud ❤
So glad to see back. Thank you for the update! Prayers for the grief process. Idea for name: The Dresmakers Home and Closet. Sure have missed your channel.
Jayne…you are amazing. I can only imagine how difficult life has been for you since your Darling John passed away. But wow look at you. He’d be so proud I’m sure. Congratulations 💗 I’ll definitely be following along to see all your progress in your new home. Have you thought of keeping your sewing Channel and starting the new one just for the house renovation. Home and Garden for one and sewing and creating ( such as things you might make for your new home that not just includes sewing, but painting objects. Woodwork, revamping pieces of furniture etc) for the other. Don’t become overwhelmed though. Just take your time and enjoy what you’re doing. Can’t wait for the tour. 🤗
First, I would like to say that I am sorry for your loss. Give yourself grace to do what you need to do for yourself. Also, I am so excited for you getting a new house! I am from the USA. I am looking forward to watching your journey.
You should keep the name because the channel and your business are supported by it. You could open another channel but not sure you have to. There is another channel / Indy pattern designer who switched content to home renovation who did not change the channel name: Pattern Scout. You may want to ask her advice since she is several months in already.
Congratulations on the new house. I would keep the name. I’m sure you may still do some hand sewing here & there as you must miss it. Look forward to see the results of each room. Best of luck ❤
I am a new Subscriber and discovered you from your home reno thumbnails as I do not sew! I love the way you are so honest and open about your situation. I lived in the North East of England (I am now on the west coast of Canada) but I did have a 1930's terraced house as a single female when I lived in England. I really miss the historical details of British houses. Forgive me for being picky, but isn't a house built in 1904 classed as Edwardian seeing as Queen Victoria died in 1901?
So sorry to hear about your loss, I glossed my grandson last year, he lived with us he was 25 the grief is terrible, so you have my comfort as I can imagine what you are going through. So pleased for you on your new house. Something to focus on, I like to knit sew and croquet.
So lovely to see you back on here Jayne, I’ve been keeping up with your house antics on instagram and I’ve been amazed by everything you’ve been doing. The house renovation is looking amazing. I’m so glad you went through with it. Will look forward to the tour video 😊. Xx
Renovation Jayne? Congratulations on taking such a massive step! I cannot wait to see the hour tour video. I lived for a year in England in 1983 and we lived-in a Victorian Terrace house. It was lovely but really cold in winter so I hope you get your central heating sorted soon.
So glad to see your video. Please don’t change the name of your videos. You are so brave. I look forward to seeing your new place and all your planned renovations. Wishing you well and happy!
Hi Jayne Thank you bring brave and making your vlog. I’ve loved following your instagram house journey so far. My heart goes out to you. I found grief follows a path. You are doing so well. Even though you are now moving in a new direction. What about Jayne’s Victorian creative?
I am so happy for you .I also lost my husband also named john in julylast year.I am finding it harder now and can totally relate to what you said.I feel lost and have no purpose but seeing and hearing you had helped greatly.Thank you Jayne and wishing you happiness in your new home xxx
So sorry for your loss ❤. Jayne’s creative cottage? Dressmaker’ cottage? DreaMY dresses? I wish you good days and nights. Exploring, excitement and fulfilling your dreams for how you plan your new home to be. Greetings and hugs from Norway 🇳🇴
You go girl, congratulations on this big step, John has had a word with the big man upstairs to ensure this happened. What about just adding & HOme to your name that we all know and love The Dressmakers Closet and Home, as you will be back sewing and inspiring us all in no time. Karen
It was really heartwarming watching this Jayne 💗💗🥰🥰 People say things get easier, but I think you're right in that you will always feel the loss...but the nature of grief changes over time. The change you've just made is proof of this! Amazing news, I'm wishing you all the love in the world.
Hi Jane, nice to see you again. So sorry you are still feeling so very sad, grief is very different for everyone isn't it we all tackle it in different ways it is very brave of you to go ahead and get yourself a house which looks like a huge project, good luck to you it will certainly keep you occupied. Looking forward to watching your progress with it all. By the way keep the name
Oh my good ness I’m so happy for you I went thru this very same ordeal 11 years ago I did not think I would live through it I still miss my dear husband each day but I have learned by Gods grace to carry on I’ve sold our new house bought a house in my town lived there 6 years and 4 years ago I bought another house in the country I am well but struggle with all the things but every day God gives me strength to move ahead So very excited to see you Jayne looking forward to the days ahead
What a journey and now you are coming through the other end good luck and best wishes to your new beginning. I did wonder what had happened to you so you were missed. What an inspiration to others so thank you for sharing. Love from Portugal x
I’m absolutely made up for you Jayne, you’re incredibly brave and live up to the mantra ‘Feel the fear but do it anyway’. If only you could see yourself in the same light as we all do, you’d see just how amazing you are. I love your Channel name but if you still want to change it, how about ‘The Dressmaker’s Chronicles’ it has a slightly Victorian vibe to it? Anyway wishing you so much luck and sending lots of love. You go girl. 🫶💕🥰
Lovely to see you again. Well done for fighting through your grief. It of coarse always be with you but someone like you needs a project to keep you going. Your dressmaking was always an inspiration to me and many others. Cant wait to see what projects you get up to in your new home ❤
Lovely vlog! You may not feel it but you have come so far since your last video. You have a spring in your step, so this house can only be a good thing for you. Looking forward to following along & I hope you will keep the name as that’s what everyone knows you as 😊
Congratulations on your new adventure. Buying a house is a huge step and you should be proud that you took it. How about "The Dressmaker's Victorian House" as a new name?
Jayne, I'm so glad you popped up again. I can totally identify with you. My husband was full care for 6 yrs before he died 9yrs ago. It's still very difficult 😢. Now that my children are moving on with their lives (which they should) I find the aloneness difficult. Certainly keeping busy is essential. I'm delighted to see your new home and Certainly will follow your progress. You'll do a fab job as always. Be kind to yourself. ❤
I wish you were my neighbor (I'm in North Carolina...so....quite a distance there). But, maybe you should call your channel "My Neighbor, Jane". I love, love, love your new home and I wish you every happiness and all success in your new life. I've followed along with you for years from crochet to sewing to whatever you are up to!
Thoughts and prayers for your new home. Maybe call it the “Dressmaker’s Cottage”.
Keep the name, it acknowledges your past and describes your new future. After all a dressmakers closet always changes, creating new items and keeping familiar designs.
So true!
Agree, please keep the name!
I agree! Keep the name! 🙂
Keep the name!
How about keep the name. It's your past and it still will be your future. You could add to it The Dressmakers closet "And clips from my Victorian home renovations. As that's exactly what you will be doing. Grief can cause such unbearable sadness that sometimes you can't see thought the fog. Keep going this is your new beginning.😊
There is no timetable on grief. Take your time and be good to yourself
Oh sweety, I understand you so well. My husband died in 2014. He was only 47 years old. I had two older sons from a previous marriage and a 5 year old then. My life was in a haze as well, the first months, just existing and soldiering on, for my little one and of course also for my other boys. Before my husband died we had bought an old house, built in 1903. There was and is still so much to do. But the old house was and is kind of an anker, something that gives me a purpose. The renovation, allthough slow, and my crafts, my children, give me the strength. Some days everything seems overwhelming, but then I just go 1 day at a time. An old house like this needs a lot of patience and love. It is almost like a living thing. Good luck with your new life Jane. It will be awesome. It will be different, but awesome.
How about naming your channel: Jane`s Journey - my crafted life. ❤
Huggs from the Schurwald Forest, Germany. 🌲🌲🌲
I‘m hoping you meant to say
Sweety, not Sweaty😂
@@lisajones1036 Well to be fair, following her Hard work on IG recently, she very often was sweaty 😂😂😂
@@lisajones1036 Of course, lol, thanks for pointing it out. I`ll change it. 🙂
So sorry for your loss Christina I too have a similar story .. it’s so tough ..one day at a time is the only way through ❤
I think "The Dressmakers Journey" is quite fitting. It still encompasses what you do but is now also including the journey you are taking through the new part of your life. And you're allowing us to share that with you. Thank you so much and God bless. 😊
Dressmaker’s Cottage is a lovely name but whatever name you choose will be wonderful. ❤
I also think that "The Dressmakers Cottage" or "The Dressmakers House" would be a fitting title. xxx
You don't have to describe it. Trust me many of us have gone through those trials of losing someone that you love and if they haven't they will. You're looking good.
I was so pleased to see you. You have a light in your face, this house has given you a mission and purpose. John is with you because he knew where you needed to be. Enjoy your new space, it will be fun to follow along on this new journey.
Jayne’s Victorian Dream
Oh Jayne I’m so happy for you, I can’t imagine what you’ve been through and are still going through everyday, but I’m sure in time your heart will start to heal, I know you loved John so much. He would love that you have a home of your own. It’s going to be lovely xxx
I am so proud of you Jane! You've faced so many challenges and look at you! You are a massive inspiration and it's so nice to see you back here on UA-cam xx
Congratulations on the new house. Sorry to be picky but it is Edwardian! Victoria died in 1901 so Edward the 7th was on the throne in 1904. Looking forward to the house tour.
You are an amazing woman, Jayne. Not many could take on such a project alone. Keep us posted with your progress, please. We're all with you in spirit.
Jane, a very warm heartfelt congratulations on stepping into your new future and made a start in your single life. It certainly is daunting to be alone after so many years, but your life will evolve to be amazing. Very well done. Im staying with you on your journey... keep your channel name i reckon,, it still makes sense. Love your ramblings. Many blessings and all the best x ❤
Ah bless you my lovely. I saw this post very soon after you posted it and thought I'll consider my comment before I send anything. Then all of a sudden a few days have passed! Grief is always hard and I can't comment on your particular loss, as it is so personal to you. We can all make suggestions as to how to cope, because but we can't be there with you. Whisking you out for a coffee or something. All I can do is send you a virtual hug. 🫂 I do know exactly where you are coming from with your Victorian Terrace, as I had one too. Looks as though it was in a similar state. I loved it. It had a tiny little postage stamp garden and I set about making a little paradise for my cats Rosie and Clover, hoping they would stay home. (They did for most of the time). Have you got a cellar? Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Keep posting and hopefully we (your followers) can bolster you up. ❤😊x
Take all the time you need. Happy to see you! A new chapter in your book. Finish well and you will be together again! Death and separation is not the final chapter❤
Such a vivid account of loss and grief...😔..hope this new home makes you feel you 'belong' again...😊
Love the backdrop..keep the wall..gorgeous.
Lovely to see you again Jayne! I can’t wait to see where this new chapter takes you!
You're doing better than you think - what you've achieved so far is huge! John will be so proud of you. Keep talking, we're all listening. Suggestion - Beyond the Dressmakers Closet. Sending hugs.
The Dressmakers House, would cover it all!
So nice to see you again , take your time , l am sure you will make your new home lovely 👍😘
I like The Life of Jayne. I am so excited for you in your own home! You are doing a great job of moving through grief even though it probably feels like you don’t know WHAT you are doing. Be gentle and good to yourself, Jayne. We have your back.
Aww Jayne, I’m delighted to see you back on here and to see you settled in your new home. I’ve been following you from the beginning of your channel. Looking forward to seeing the house tour, I was born in a Victoria terrace and have lived in them in my adult life, love them.
I get that this project is to keep you busy and hopefully help with your grief. But what a labour of love hey.
I am sorry and I hope for the best. Much Love and Blessings.
Love, Hugs and Strength.
Grief takes us onto many paths.
Take your time to heal as much as you can. X
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
I woke up today from a short nap thinking when am i ever going to buy a house and how will i scrape money for the deposit . Then tonight before bed i decided ill watch something nice… and you gave me the ideea! I have the deposit! Is my car! Plus some little savings. I can’t be grateful enough!
Aw you’re so very welcome …. keep me updated xx
You will find there will be various times when the grief will hit and take you out behind the knees. I wish I could say my journey has been easier but I can’t. Hugs for you. I’m so happy for your new home. Take all the time you need.
Soooooooo happy to see you! I will now watch the rest of it!
I am in exactly the same position, I lost my husband 51 weeks ago, we put our house up for sale the day before he died. I bought a house we had both looked at knowing that he’d been here gave me great comfort. The house is a project loads to do, but just like you I struggle with the loss everyday and hope this will keep me going. I empathise with everything you are feeling and saying I will be watch your journey ❤
Welcome back Jayne. So happy to see that you have a new project to unleash your creativity on :) I think that making a beautiful home to retire with will be crucial to feeling more at home in the world. Looking forward to seeing your cottage and all that you do with it. (I also stopped sewing due to life change and you are inspiring me to connect back in as well as I loved hearing your news).
Ive been in bed since two years ago when brother tragically died suddenly,i already had health issues but now i am trying to figure how to mend,and make home better!
I'm so sorry for your loss! Please take care. Eventually you will be able to find a passion project to occupy your time. That will possibly help you mend. 😊💜
I’m so sorry I can empathise with you ! 🥲😘🙏
I lost my Brother in 2006
He was only 39 - he was a missing person for 5 weeks following a colleague’s retirement night out in Lancaster!
He was seen walking down penny street on CCTV with the man who was retiring who offered him a lift as his wife was picking him up , but he declined which was typical of my brother as he wouldn’t want to put anyone out!
He went to walk the river path to the next village but never arrived home!
Despite a large search he wasn’t found by police and teams/ searching the river and surrounding area , but was found in the river at 5 weeks later by a man out walking!
He had just bought a brand new motorbike and was looking forward to our Nieces wedding!
We miss him terribly it’s horrible not knowing what happened that night!
The inquest said accidental death but were unable to confirm drowning!!!
Since then I developed Fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue/ME - it’s been very very difficult we are heartbroken 💔
My heart goes out to you and anyone affected by tragic loss of a loved one!
I’m a early retired Nurse so I’ve had a lot of experience dealing with families in Grief!
Everyone’s Grief is their own and everyone has to go through the waves in the own way, there is absolutely no time scale!
Grief is the price we pay for Love!😘
Hopefully you can find some comfort until you meet again!
❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏
I’m so sorry I can empathise with you ! 🥲😘🙏
I lost my Brother in 2006
He was only 39 - he was a missing person for 5 weeks following a colleague’s retirement night out in Lancaster!
He was seen walking down penny street on CCTV with the man who was retiring who offered him a lift as his wife was picking him up , but he declined which was typical of my brother as he wouldn’t want to put anyone out!
He went to walk the river path to the next village but never arrived home!
Despite a large search he wasn’t found by police and teams/ searching the river and surrounding area , but was found in the river at 5 weeks later by a man out walking!
He had just bought a brand new motorbike and was looking forward to our Nieces wedding!
We miss him terribly it’s horrible not knowing what happened that night!
The inquest said accidental death but were unable to confirm drowning!!!
Since then I developed Fibromyalgia/chronic fatigue/ME - it’s been very very difficult we are heartbroken 💔
My heart goes out to you and anyone affected by tragic loss of a loved one!
I’m a early retired Nurse so I’ve had a lot of experience dealing with families in Grief!
Everyone’s Grief is their own and everyone has to go through the waves in the own way, there is absolutely no time scale!
Grief is the price we pay for Love!😘
Hopefully you can find some comfort and joyful moments
He wouldn’t want you suffering and that goes for everyone in shock and grief!
until you meet again!
❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏
Lovely video! I can't wait to see the house and the renovation projects ❤
I'm sending you so much genuine love and comforting energy, Jayne. May our good Lord wrap you in his loving embrace and wash you with peace, comfort, strength, courage, ambition, motivation, and confidence.
I understand your pain I lost my husband 4 years ago and like you I have moved a bought a new house. It has helped me to have a project . Hugs ❤
You are a lovely lady, and I am so sorry for your great loss. Thank goodness you found this house, and it found you! It will give you something worthwhile to concentrate on in it's restoration. Your house, that you own, which you are making your home. I have clicked the like button, and subscribed to your channel, as I shall be so interested to see what you do to your lovely home along the way. Where abouts do you live now in this lovely new home? Blessings from Jilly & Madge the rescue greyhound, from West Devon, England. xxx
Thank you so much … I’m in Norton in the North East xx
I found your channel today with your house tour. Your house is beautiful, can't wait to see how you make it yours ☺
Ah so lovely to see you smile again. A massive deal for you emotionally. Well done. I look forward to seeing your future vlogs.
Yes. Moving to another house was a good move. Now you have new things to keep your mind busy. I have been so worried about you. There have not been any videos from you in a long time. Depression can kill. I have been alone for over 20 years; and, I have gotten used to being alone. My prayers have been answered. You are alive, well, and moving on with your wonderful life. Thank you so much for this video.
So happy for you with the new house. Looking forward to all your vlogs. 💕
Thank you!! 😊
Good to see you Jayne looking forward to seeing your new home develop x
Thanks so much! 😊
Well done Jane! God bless you……..❤❤❤
It seem John telling you this is right the house is cuddling you god bless you enjoy it
Still a dress maker at heart. Now your dressing your home and home is where your heart is …. So if you need the rename to represent your refresh but same you. Might I suggest The Dress Makers Cottage. ❤. So good to hear from you and looking forward to the new journey updates.
So glad to see you again. Praying for you.
Hello dear Jayne
How lovely to see you back
You absolutely made the right decision buying the house
I think that you should keep "dressmaker closet "
It's your signature and those who Don't know you may not click on your videos if you are "jaynes journey " they won't know what a wonderful dressmaker and pattern designer you are ,so they will miss out getting a pattern and sewing advice
You always shared your garden and home before
This is just going to be a little more house for a while
Can't wait to see what you will be doing
Take care, and God bless you
Awww lovely Jayne it’s going to be so good for you! Perfect!
I think you should keep the name! ❤️💜❤️
You can do play lists for home and dressmaker videos! 🙌🙌🤗😘
You’ve been sent a blessing Jayne the universe works in magical ways!
hold that thought!
The Best Is Yet To Come! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏🌎
Thank you so much!!
Elizabeth is right, my dear Mitchie has been gone 11 years and I still miss him. Congratulations on the house! Looking forward to seeing what you do with it!
Jayne, You're such a beautiful caring person and I am so sorry for your loss. It takes as long as it takes to get through the heartache of losing your soulmate but you are a strong woman and I have Faith in you. I can't wait to see your new home and all the renovations you plan to carry out. Maybe you could call your channel --'Renovating my new Victorian dressmakers closet '. Just a thought. Looking forward to your next video. Take care.
So happy for you, I totally understand as my husband died last September. Everything in our lives changes and unless you have experienced it, you cannot understand. After nearly 50 years, I am trying to find ME again. Good luck and enjoy your lovely new home ❤ Sue
We understand,you can only do one day at a time ❤️
Things will get better. The second year was worse than the first year for me when my husband died.
So excited about your new house! Can’t wait to see it all including the street and the village!!
I have been looking forward to your return, I am sorry you have been feeling so blue. I lost my husband at the same time you lost John and for a while I was so busy with sorting all the household stuff over to my name and getting rid of all the things I no longer needed plus I was having some renovations done too. Time marched forward and I was semi ok but then autumn and winter came around and I was lost, I dont have friends or family so I am alone with my cat. Christmas came and went then spring arrived and I thought I would start to feel better but I just felt worse. I have been told the first two years is the worst but I think I will never feel the same again. I can understand how you feel and if you want to take us along on your journey with finishing your new home I will really love it. You could rename your channel Jane the Dressmakers Journey it covers what you do and the journey you are taking in your life, its just a suggestion. Look forward to see more videos and hope you will find a peace that will motivate you forward ❤
I think you should keep your name! Good to see you back and facing life head on as you try to get used to your new normal. You’re doing great! Can’t wait to see what you do to bring your new home back to life.
Awwww good luck with your renovations. Cant wait to see the transformation of your gorgeous home ❤️. The Dressmakers Home 🏡
So happy for you. My husband passed 11 1/2 years ago. It is hard still. Getting your own home & renovating it will be healing. My husband was a John also. ❤❤❤
Love the catch up video! What about the “Dress Makers Home”
Jane I'm so happy for you. I just recently looked to see if you had any new videos up. You've taken that first big step toward healing. Look how much support you had from your family. Give yourself some Grace. Looking forward to seeing your new home & what you do with it. I can't imagine you not sewing up some nice things for the house. Enjoy the new journey.
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Hello Jayne! So nice hearing from you again and I am happy for you, your SO brave❤️! Good luck with your new house. Hope to see and hear more from you and see your victorian house! Hugs from Portugal 🇵🇹
Thank you so much!
Amazing. Look at you GO!! I can't wait to see the reno and all your adventures. I will say you don't have to say Widowed you can say Single. I love sewing but I also love a good reno. Hw about A Dressmakers Life that should incorporate your fresh start while also giving a nod to where you came from. I love being able to sit here in the US (currently) and listen to a Northern accent. Makes me think of Doncaster and my youth lol.
It’s lovely to see you. Can’t wait to see around your new home ❤ xx
Congratulations on the new house.
Sweetheart I can tell you John is looking down over you from heaven and smiling. You did good and he is proud of you. So happy for you and hope you take your time working on your projects. There will be ups and downs but you must soldier on. And relax in your favorite place. A garden and your sewing room. All the best to you. Congratulations! You did it! Keep the same name. And the last time I sewed as a kid living at home or my first apartment…the kitchen table worked for me. Even an old time card table. Then the whole table shakes when you are sewing. I have to laugh at that.
I’ve been following along on instagram and it’s been very exciting so seeing a UA-cam vid pop up was lovely x I’ve been subscribed for many years and will definitely continue - I initially thought keep the name but I love the suggestions of The Dressmakers Victorian house ❤
So sorry for the grief you’re feeling but sending very best wishes for your future xx
Hi Jane so lovely to see you pop up ❤ the house is wonderful x it all takes time losing someone so special is not a easy take care of yourself ❤look forward to seeing your house tour ❤
Thank you so much 😊
Happy to see you and your enthusiasm for your exciting new home. I can imagine that it's all been pretty scary, well done.
Thank you so much!
Gosh, you are brave, you are glowing. I'm really looking forward to following along on your journey.
Thank you so much!
I really felt your pain listening to you. You've been through a tough time but you've done the right thing with moving and I'm so looking forward to seeing your home renovation. We used to rent a victorian terrace house we were there for 7 yrs til the landlord sold. I was gutted as love a victorian house too. We bought a 3 bed semi which we've made our own and love it. I have a little sewing room which is my haven ❤. Keep your name as you'll soon be back in your sewing space but I'm the mean time enjoy every minute of your beautiful new home. John would be very proud ❤
So glad to see back. Thank you for the update! Prayers for the grief process.
Idea for name: The Dresmakers Home and Closet.
Sure have missed your channel.
Jayne…you are amazing. I can only imagine how difficult life has been for you since your Darling John passed away. But wow look at you. He’d be so proud I’m sure. Congratulations 💗 I’ll definitely be following along to see all your progress in your new home. Have you thought of keeping your sewing Channel and starting the new one just for the house renovation. Home and Garden for one and sewing and creating ( such as things you might make for your new home that not just includes sewing, but painting objects. Woodwork, revamping pieces of furniture etc) for the other. Don’t become overwhelmed though. Just take your time and enjoy what you’re doing. Can’t wait for the tour. 🤗
First, I would like to say that I am sorry for your loss. Give yourself grace to do what you need to do for yourself.
Also, I am so excited for you getting a new house! I am from the USA. I am looking forward to watching your journey.
You should keep the name because the channel and your business are supported by it. You could open another channel but not sure you have to. There is another channel / Indy pattern designer who switched content to home renovation who did not change the channel name: Pattern Scout. You may want to ask her advice since she is several months in already.
Congratulations on the new house. I would keep the name. I’m sure you may still do some hand sewing here & there as you must miss it. Look forward to see the results of each room. Best of luck ❤
Yes! Thank you!
I am a new Subscriber and discovered you from your home reno thumbnails as I do not sew! I love the way you are so honest and open about your situation. I lived in the North East of England (I am now on the west coast of Canada) but I did have a 1930's terraced house as a single female when I lived in England. I really miss the historical details of British houses. Forgive me for being picky, but isn't a house built in 1904 classed as Edwardian seeing as Queen Victoria died in 1901?
So sorry to hear about your loss, I glossed my grandson last year, he lived with us he was 25 the grief is terrible, so you have my comfort as I can imagine what you are going through. So pleased for you on your new house. Something to focus on, I like to knit sew and croquet.
So lovely to see you back on here Jayne, I’ve been keeping up with your house antics on instagram and I’ve been amazed by everything you’ve been doing. The house renovation is looking amazing. I’m so glad you went through with it. Will look forward to the tour video 😊. Xx
Jane, my life and the dressmakers closet. X
Nice to see you back. How about The Dressmaker’s Journey
Renovation Jayne? Congratulations on taking such a massive step! I cannot wait to see the hour tour video. I lived for a year in England in 1983 and we lived-in a Victorian Terrace house. It was lovely but really cold in winter so I hope you get your central heating sorted soon.
So good to see you back and loving your (Edwardian) house :-) You will make it just how you want it. It's still a dressmaker's closet :-)
Oh thank you!
Best of luck Jane, I’ve been loving your reels, looking forward to the tour
Thanks so much!
So glad to see your video. Please don’t change the name of your videos. You are so brave. I look forward to seeing your new place and all your planned renovations. Wishing you well and happy!
Good for u, and going for it, good luck with the reno xx
Thank you!!
Hi Jayne
Thank you bring brave and making your vlog. I’ve loved following your instagram house journey so far. My heart goes out to you. I found grief follows a path. You are doing so well. Even though you are now moving in a new direction. What about Jayne’s Victorian creative?
I am so happy for you .I also lost my husband also named john in julylast year.I am finding it harder now and can totally relate to what you said.I feel lost and have no purpose but seeing and hearing you had helped greatly.Thank you Jayne and wishing you happiness in your new home xxx
So sorry for your loss ❤.
Jayne’s creative cottage?
Dressmaker’ cottage?
DreaMY dresses?
I wish you good days and nights. Exploring, excitement and fulfilling your dreams for how you plan your new home to be.
Greetings and hugs from Norway 🇳🇴
You go girl, congratulations on this big step, John has had a word with the big man upstairs to ensure this happened. What about just adding & HOme to your name that we all know and love The Dressmakers Closet and Home, as you will be back sewing and inspiring us all in no time. Karen
It was really heartwarming watching this Jayne 💗💗🥰🥰 People say things get easier, but I think you're right in that you will always feel the loss...but the nature of grief changes over time. The change you've just made is proof of this! Amazing news, I'm wishing you all the love in the world.
Oh Jayne, I'm so pleased you have settled in YOUR house. Keep strong and just go with hows the day takes you. Jayne x
Hi Jane, nice to see you again. So sorry you are still feeling so very sad, grief is very different for everyone isn't it we all tackle it in different ways it is very brave of you to go ahead and get yourself a house which looks like a huge project, good luck to you it will certainly keep you occupied. Looking forward to watching your progress with it all. By the way keep the name
Oh my good ness I’m so happy for you I went thru this very same ordeal 11 years ago I did not think I would live through it I still miss my dear husband each day but I have learned by Gods grace to carry on I’ve sold our new house bought a house in my town lived there 6 years and 4 years ago I bought another house in the country I am well but struggle with all the things but every day God gives me strength to move ahead So very excited to see you Jayne looking forward to the days ahead
What a journey and now you are coming through the other end good luck and best wishes to your new beginning. I did wonder what had happened to you so you were missed. What an inspiration to others so thank you for sharing. Love from Portugal x
I’m absolutely made up for you Jayne, you’re incredibly brave and live up to the mantra ‘Feel the fear but do it anyway’. If only you could see yourself in the same light as we all do, you’d see just how amazing you are. I love your Channel name but if you still want to change it, how about ‘The Dressmaker’s Chronicles’ it has a slightly Victorian vibe to it? Anyway wishing you so much luck and sending lots of love. You go girl. 🫶💕🥰
Lovely to see you again. Well done for fighting through your grief. It of coarse always be with you but someone like you needs a project to keep you going. Your dressmaking was always an inspiration to me and many others. Cant wait to see what projects you get up to in your new home ❤
Lovely vlog! You may not feel it but you have come so far since your last video. You have a spring in your step, so this house can only be a good thing for you. Looking forward to following along & I hope you will keep the name as that’s what everyone knows you as 😊
Congratulations on your new adventure. Buying a house is a huge step and you should be proud that you took it. How about "The Dressmaker's Victorian House" as a new name?
Jayne, I'm so glad you popped up again. I can totally identify with you. My husband was full care for 6 yrs before he died 9yrs ago. It's still very difficult 😢. Now that my children are moving on with their lives (which they should) I find the aloneness difficult. Certainly keeping busy is essential. I'm delighted to see your new home and Certainly will follow your progress. You'll do a fab job as always. Be kind to yourself. ❤
I wish you were my neighbor (I'm in North Carolina...so....quite a distance there). But, maybe you should call your channel "My Neighbor, Jane". I love, love, love your new home and I wish you every happiness and all success in your new life. I've followed along with you for years from crochet to sewing to whatever you are up to!