My Experience of Sertraline & Emotional Blunting

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  • Soon after I began taking the antidepressant sertraline, I noticed that I was unable to cry. Emotional blunting can be a common side effect of sertraline and other antidepressant medication. In this video, I talk about why I stopped taking sertraline and the withdrawal symptoms I experienced as well as what I wished I had done differently in withdrawing from sertraline.
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  • @rachelleanimals1367
    @rachelleanimals1367 5 років тому +103

    When you go from crying all the time to not being able to cry is wonderful! I found that I don't get as dramatic about the dumb things. If something big does happen I still can get mad or sad

    • @rachelleanimals1367
      @rachelleanimals1367 5 років тому +5

      I’m re reading this old comment I posted on this video.. sad to say but don’t take Zoloft. I stepped on a scale after being on Zoloft for awhile and man that’s depressing. 😥I wish I never went on it 😥

    • @reynalove999
      @reynalove999 4 роки тому +1

      Rachelle Animals did you have an increase appetite?

    • @preston6408
      @preston6408 2 роки тому

      @@rachelleanimals1367 you didn’t miss out on anything Zoloft is just a crutch

    • @carsonwilkins2971
      @carsonwilkins2971 2 роки тому

      I feel nothing, I barely cried before I started but know I never do

  • @iGNiTETheKiD
    @iGNiTETheKiD 5 років тому +141

    This is a reason I wanted to stop antidepressants. Total emotional blunting and inability to FEEL emotions and the numbess was something I didn’t like. I would rather experience the full spectrum of emotions rather than feel like a walking zombie

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +16

      I agree my friend. Whilst we often need some help to lift our mood or lower anxiety , for myself, l need to retain the ability to feel otherwise l cannot manage myself. Also, to be able to feel the good times too!

    • @l21n18
      @l21n18 5 років тому +17

      Purely anecdotal, but I think a lack of positive emotions can be just as bad for some as an excess of negative emotions. It’s hard to be motivated and get out and do things when you don’t get any emotional reward from doing them.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +13

      @@l21n18 Yes l completely agree with you. Not feeling anything, even positive or happy, is not helpful!

    • @jimmy9282
      @jimmy9282 3 роки тому +3

      did you recover? ive been off zoloft for a few months and i still feel awful from time to time

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому +1

      Are your emotions back now?

  • @aaeeshahendricks6359
    @aaeeshahendricks6359 4 роки тому +6

    Hi Finn 😊 my deepest sympathy for the passing of your mother, and thanks for this video. Everything you said about how medication helps you to be able to get to a point of working on your mental health! I'm currently on sertraline and it's been about 10 months that I've been on it. I've also noticed the emotional numbing, which caused additional anxiety for me, because I felt completely disconnected from my family who I've always loved very deeply. As an artist, I haven't been able to write or dance or FEEL. And it's SUPER FRUSTRATING!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words, it's been a rollercoaster year!
      Yes, I can relate a lot to this, the additional anxiety at loosing all emotional connection. I personally cannot work on my inner world if l cant feel it! Like you it also dulled my creativity. It's been almost a year since I stopped it, and l feel so much better. I'm on a different medication now but it doesnt numb me. I can cry again, laugh again and my creativity it back. Do chat with your doctor,find something that works for you!

    • @aaeeshahendricks6359
      @aaeeshahendricks6359 4 роки тому +1

      @@FinnTheInfinncible That's such good news. I'm glad you're doing a lot better - you deserve it, being the bright soul that you are 🌻
      If I may ask, which medication are you on now that doesn't numb you?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      I am on mirtazipine, 30mg. I started it about a month after coming off sertraline because the grief was too much to handle and I was all over the place. Its not perfect, it does make me rather tired, which considering I also have tirdness issues with a low thyroid, isnt helpful....but, it stabalised my mood quickly and I havent experienced any numbing whatsoever.

  • @lewisberry4641
    @lewisberry4641 2 роки тому +4

    hi , i’m coming off sertraline i’ve been on it since i was 17 and for five years. i’m also sober now. i just wanted to say this video really made me feel like i wasn’t alone. i’m sat here in tears. thankyou

  • @laurenjadelebloas3756
    @laurenjadelebloas3756 3 роки тому +24

    This has made me feel like I'm not alone with withdrawal
    I'm an emotional wreck at the moment and coming off Sertraline is probably the hardest thing I've had to do but feeling numb was dehumanising
    Thank you for this video🧡
    Hope you're doing ok

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      Are you better?

    • @Maverick-xs6ui
      @Maverick-xs6ui 2 роки тому

      Same here

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      @@Maverick-xs6uiHello did you recover your feelings ?

    • @Maverick-xs6ui
      @Maverick-xs6ui 10 місяців тому

      @josefdez8258 yes when i started reducing the amount. Im still reducing slowly.

  • @yela46
    @yela46 2 роки тому +6

    I am currently taking sertraline and I don't want to pursue my dreams anymore. I don't feel anything. I am not sad or happy. I just want to rest forever.

    • @simp3194
      @simp3194 2 роки тому +2

      Hey idk you and you don’t know me but I have recently started taking sertraline too. And It’s possible that the first few weeks will be a struggle till you feel better. But you might also need to try something different if it doesn’t improve for you. I hope it gets better for you buddy, sending lots of love 💗 :)

  • @Mommyofdragons70
    @Mommyofdragons70 5 років тому +14

    I was on Sertraline for less than a week. Even on the lowest dose...I was a zombie. I couldn’t function. Meds hit me hard anyways. I tried Zoloft, Effexor, Lexapro, Paxil without success. My depression is manageable despite two brain tumors however, the anxiety is a killer. My doc even tried combinations of different meds together...which my neuro doc said no to because of the tumors. Definitely not worth the risks.
    You are so awesome....I saw one of your videos as a suggestion and was hooked. You are like Grey’s Anatomy...you give all the feels...laughs, tears, happiness...Kudos to you for being so transparent and helping people with addiction, depression, anxiety, and LGBTQ. You and Cody are such beacons of hope and so inspiring.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      What a blooming lovely comment! I love the analogy too, thank you!

  • @kaiaaron9246
    @kaiaaron9246 5 років тому +4

    I went from lexapro to sertraline, I feel the emotional numbing but I’ll take that over the alternative tbh. I’m in a constant state of numbness, but it’s a different feeling than self harming, which was giving me a euphoric feeling. I know I need to start dropping soon, I’m in 150mg, but with my T levels being all out of whack it’s just such a difficult task. Thank you for posting this video.
    I’m glad you made the moves that you did, for you, and that you’re feeling so much better,

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      It's all about working out what's right for you. Numbing can help people, it's just not helpful to me is all, at least not to the extent that sertraline did!

  • @annabella1122
    @annabella1122 4 роки тому +9

    I experienced this with mirtazapine, I’m so glad you talked about this I didn’t think it was a real thing! It was horrible. Sometimes you need the release of being able to cry. It’s healthy. When you can’t it feels like a tension you can’t shift, like when you’re about to sneeze and then you can’t.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +4

      Oh yes it is exactly that! Just like a sneeze! Great analogy. I too had no idea that blunting existed, it was only after many failed attempts to cry, where I felt the emotion halted, that I searched online and found many similar experiences. It isnt just one type of medication that does it, although sertraline does often seem to be the biggest cause of it, people experience blunting on different meds. Its interesting how these things differ between people. I swapped to mirtazapine and it hasnt blunted me at all. We need GP's to be discussing this with patients more and helping people to find the right meds for them. I agree with you, that feeling is important. Yes I need the low mood addresses but not at the expense of feeling!

    • @annabella1122
      @annabella1122 4 роки тому

      FinnTheInfinncible I hope mirtazapine works better for you and you can continue to heal a little more every day ♥️

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому +1

      @@annabella1122 It all boils down to the mind. Reduce negative thoughts to have a healthier life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @kerrygierak4755
    @kerrygierak4755 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Finn. I'm on sertraline and feel not bad. And I'm taking underactive thyroid meds and it to is working. I'm sorry for the loss of both your parents. Hope you are feeling better soon. Love and blessings

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Thank you for your kind words. And yes, antidepressants are funny things, they work in different ways! Glad they are working!

  • @reynavazquez7159
    @reynavazquez7159 4 роки тому +33

    I think going from crying every single day to not being able to cry at all was a huge change for me, not one that I liked whatsoever. I would love to get help for my depression and anxiety but I would also love to be able to feel emotions and connect to people. I literally feel like I’m floating and less motivated on antidepressants than I was without them.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Bless you my friend, managing depression and anxiety is hard. Each of us need to work out if we need medications, and if so which ones work for us. Its a delicate balance and it is so important to research and to have a doctor who you can talk openly with.

  • @lr3521
    @lr3521 5 років тому +1

    You are such an inspiration, I watch your vlogs whenever I feel down and they instantly life me up

  • @luigidude3175
    @luigidude3175 3 роки тому +2

    im so sorry for your loss, im on sertraline again and am experiencing emotional blunting as well, im gonna talk to my gp to get on something that makes me feel again. i hope you and your fiancé are doing well. sending love from canada- chloe

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much. The grief is so much easier now. I'm on different meds too, and these do not cause blunting. It's so important that we find what works for us isnt it!

    • @luigidude3175
      @luigidude3175 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible

    • @HackZiLLaQ8
      @HackZiLLaQ8 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible what med are u taking currently?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      @@HackZiLLaQ8 Im taking venlafaxine 150mg now. Much better med for me!

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      How are you now?

  • @PeaceboneGotFound
    @PeaceboneGotFound 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this honest video!

  • @jasminlinford6464
    @jasminlinford6464 5 років тому +4

    Hi Finn!
    I have been off these meds for 5 days now and I can cry but I just cannot laugh! The sound comes out but I feel nothing?! Sucks! Just hoping this will improve soon. Thankyou for making this video! ❤️❤️

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +2

      Oh my! I hadnt considered that this could happen. I hope it improves soon! Thanks for watching my freind!

    • @debbietaylor20
      @debbietaylor20 3 роки тому

      Did you taper off , I'm struggling with this 😢

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      Did you get better?

    • @znarkz
      @znarkz Рік тому

      Hi Jasmin, read your comment and i have the same expierience, on the medicine I could laugh much and didn’t reflect whether i felt it or not. Now and every other time i have tried going off, the experience of not feeling anything when I laugh is constantly there! Did this get better for you?

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      I have the same side effects. Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I still feel like that 20 days after I quit sertraline!!

  • @TheCoolOwen
    @TheCoolOwen 3 роки тому +10

    I did nothing BUT cry when I was on Sertraline. I switched to Wellbutrin and I feel like my normal, emotionally vacant self!!!

    • @riotwrrrwolf4590
      @riotwrrrwolf4590 Рік тому

      I was feeling pretty good on wellbutrin, but omg the side effects! I had just no appetite, to the point eating was becoming a pain and I wasn't able to eat enough, or only junk food and even then I'd had to force myself. Just started sertraline, I hope this time it will be right. I was also on citalopram for 7 years and it just didn't do much much anymore so I had to switch (and very annoying side effects too)

  • @kaylablackburn8332
    @kaylablackburn8332 3 роки тому +27

    OMG, I was Zoloft for years... I’ve been off for a few weeks and I’ve cried so much which I didn’t cry for years because of it. The emotions are overwhelming after having NONE for years.

    • @00calimon
      @00calimon 3 роки тому

      Wow. Do you think it will eventually (soon) get better?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +5

      Bless you, yes it took a few months for my tears to come back and to settle after I came off it. Be gentle with yourself

    • @sangeetalambh6389
      @sangeetalambh6389 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible I quit sertailine 100 mmg and zolfidem10 mg 131 days sober now my sym broken sleep 7 hours muscle spasm depersonalization when I heal any idea I use these drugs only 2 months.please answer

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I feel like that!!

  • @anishj8935
    @anishj8935 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Finn - thanks for sharing this. I've been on Sertraline since about July 2020 and have been taking 50mg daily which has helped with my anxiety. A close family member is very unwell with Covid right now and sadly eteriorating but I'm also struggling to "feel" and get upset/cry about it...like I'm also numb. Reassuring that I'm not alone in experiencing this side effect. I'll speak to my GP and see how they can help :)

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Bless you l am so sorry to hear about your friend. I hope they are ok? And yes lm the same, having neds to help is good, but not if they take my feelings away completely. Good luck chatting with your gp. I'm glad this helped and thank you for your lovely comment.

  • @claire0626
    @claire0626 2 роки тому +1

    Great video Finn thank you 🙏🏻🌸

  • @jblack5323
    @jblack5323 4 роки тому +5

    I was on these for a year. They helped with my depression to start with, but other side effects were terrible. The spaced out feelings were bad for me they highlighted my tinnitus even more, I was also questioning what life was all about every day along with a clouded sense of space and time. I went cold turkey a few weeks back, as I had ran out. Pretty bad brain zaps as mentioned but they seem to be getting better. Was getting some anger/anxiety spikes, but the obtrusive thoughts have gone, as is that tunnel like perception. I can feel the serotonin coming back to me as I feel great sometimes. I won’t be going near these things again, as I felt like a prisoner mentally. My lockdown had been going on since I started taking sertraline, and while I’m never going to be perfect I do feel that I’m free again.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      It does seem common on sertraline. Those brain zaps are awful too! Im glad you managed to get off them and that you feel better!

    • @jblack5323
      @jblack5323 4 роки тому

      FinnTheInfinncible thank you! The best of luck with you also.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому

      @@jblack5323 Reduce negative thoughts to have a healthier life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @jennisunshine
    @jennisunshine 3 роки тому +6

    Not crying was a plus on sertraline because I cried way too much when not taking it. I liked the numb feeling. It gave me ground to think and not be lead by my being sad. I was sleeping most of the day though which it only does to a small percentage of people.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Exactly this, it all depencds on what we need from a medication doesnt it? If it works for you, then that is fantastic!

  • @stephanieosadchuk5689
    @stephanieosadchuk5689 5 років тому +20

    I was on sertraline (Zoloft) for a bit. The emotional numbing was the reason I discontinued it, as well. Happy to see that you have a new plan. 😊

  • @reginene
    @reginene 2 роки тому +1

    im so sorry to hear about your mom. my condolences :( im on the same pill and i cant cry either. my anxiety is still very high i just feel completely numb so i think im gonna quit it too.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words. Do please talk to your GP, I would have had a far easier time had I tapered off/swapped to another med sooner!

  • @SammeeJane
    @SammeeJane 5 років тому +3

    Thank you for touching base on this. I deal with the same thing with Sertraline as well, even though I take the lowest dose.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      It's awful isn't it! I've never had it on any other anti depressants. I'm on mirtazapine now and so far so good. Will update on that soon!

    • @BrendaHall1
      @BrendaHall1 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible I was wondering why i felt sad but couldnt cry. Thanks for sharing this

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      I have the same side effects. Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I still feel like that 20 days after I quit sertraline!!

  • @angelmaria3334
    @angelmaria3334 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience

  • @LNRansom
    @LNRansom 5 років тому +3

    A few months after I was put on sertraline I ended up getting mad cravings for alcohol. It was very strange since I had no history of alcohol addiction prior to this.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +1

      That is very strange indeed, have you stopped taking it now?

  • @Laura-xk8or
    @Laura-xk8or 4 роки тому +11

    Thank you for posting this video, I've been on Sertraline 100mg for just over twelve months and in that time I have cried three times, not big sobbing cries just a couple of seconds of tears. I miss being able to cry and sob my heart out, I lost my grandfather in July and never shed a tear, I feel like I should have shown some kind of emotion but no its just not there. I have a psychiatrist appointment next month, hopefully I can talk about this with him.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      Yes thats exactly how it was for me. Good you have an appointment, it might be worth you asking to swap to something else as I have. Good luck!

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      Are you better?

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      Hello, did you reccover your emmotiongs back ? Are you ok now ?

  • @shaynacardoza2051
    @shaynacardoza2051 3 роки тому

    I need this. this is what I have been needing all my life

  • @IONT781
    @IONT781 2 роки тому +1

    My partner is on zoloft and is indeed feeling this numbing of emotions. We are having a lot of problems. How long did it take you to recover your emotions after withdrawing the medication?

  • @rab-cnesbit4181
    @rab-cnesbit4181 2 роки тому

    My mum died I was on paroxetine and I did not cry when she died , I felt so guilty , but when my daughter arrived she cried hysterically over her gran passing which did make me cry . I'm now on sertraline and cant cry , I dont know if this is a good or bad thing but I need them for severe confessional contamination OCD.

  • @mollymalone1610
    @mollymalone1610 5 років тому +38

    I’ve been on sertraline for a year I’m now on 200mg I feel thousand times better no I can’t cry but that’s a good thing

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +7

      Glad it works for you! Meds work differently for different folk. It's all about finding out what's right for you!

    • @ricardoestrada1176
      @ricardoestrada1176 4 роки тому +3

      Neurobin go to Mexico and try getting this medication I called my doctor about neurobin and he came out giving me setraline I got the bottle in my hand he also gave me gabapenntin let's see what happens

    • @ricardoestrada1176
      @ricardoestrada1176 3 роки тому +1

      hello I got the Dolo Neurobion Forte there's 30 pills in the Box I paid $30 I was offering with a lot of pain I am diabetic I took 5 pills one a day I'm living my days without pain

    • @choice12ozborne
      @choice12ozborne 3 роки тому

      I am prescribed this same dosage and medication that you mentioned. I do a lot better and I don't get depressed for you often and it also helps with a bit of anxiety..... I like to be creative and I love to write and to top it off I started school taking psychology as the major. I feel numb and I don't like that all the time. I am very freaking happy that I don't feel depressed as much and then xiii level has gone down but in return I gave up my persona or my emotions. Am I some wack but once in a while if you're a creative person like I was but am not now since I started taking this medication...... If you're creative person or if you just want to feel emotions once in awhile better deep it would be great for me. So when you say you feel a 1000 times better but you can't cry then that is the trade off any V that's cool for you and is add she sort of OK for me personally or I wouldn't still be taking it .. That's OK.... I think about this would be I don't feel emotions deeply which is the idea from this drug...... so it works lol... I can't write anymore. I don't feel a motions the way I once did of which was the way I was creative.. So I can't write anything anymore unless it's non fiction when I try. My imagination has practically disappeared. My emotions such as sadness and Yup you guessed also depression that was making me and giving me the feelings are needed to have compassion and somehow sympathize member thighs were other people through writing characters. I've never been a big crier but I Cannae Room member of last time I shed a tear. Basically in a nutshell my personality is not my personality anymore if that makes any sense to you. People than I haven't seen for 2 or 3 years ask me where was wrong you're very quieter you're not you know this or that and I really don't have a legitimate answer for the guy or girl because I don't want to give them my entire medical record and diagnosis lol... So I know it sounds weird to you probably but it feels like it stole my persona. Vessel word to look up because it does not mean personality necessarily it's a very different thing it's these naturally motions that we have she is for one example so good check that went out. Do you feel like it is a good trade off that you can't cry or don't cry any longer and you don't feel emotions deeply because I personally was feeling deep emotions at extreme levels of being sad happy or whatever. That definitely does not take place any longer since I started this drug. So most people in my situation crew will write to create from their deepest emotions would say to hell with this or at least for a month or 2 because I need to fill emotions again even at those emotions hurt me is important that I feel like a human again and that can actually shed a tear or is not some half ass laugh that I give to people for show. I'm sorry this is so long but you are getting with a therapist would normally get since I won't be able to see M until after Christmas Hahaha. To tell you the truth I am on a break from a job and I'm using speech to text instead of typing because I can get a lot more out there if I just speak since I am on that break. So that would explain all the run on sentences and grammatical errors and those long long comment but please forgive me I normally don't do this and it may some crazy by the way but when you're using speech to text it's not nearly as long as typing regard us of how fast we are. English is my 2nd language thou learned it to so that's another reason you might see some messed up errors. Do you ever miss the emotions that are extreme? I'm pretty sure there might be a moment in your mind at times where you wonder why can't I fill certain things any longer? But also feel like at the end of the day you feel like it's a good trade off. You don't have to pression or in ciety or whatever else you retaking it for any longer but at the same time you said you can't cry and then means that you're like me you're a motional persona has disappeared but that's pretty much what the drug and drugs in his family were designed . Do you ever miss not feeling emotional? I realize is a crazy question but would you be willing to trade 3 days every month of filling total emotions good And the Negative? I would honestly say that I definitely miss not feeling things so strongly but like you I am definitely not having deep depression like I once did. So I'm going to end this the West started it and that would be had you feel about the fact of the matter which is you trade it off as I did your emotions that are human emotions when you started taking this drug? I'm not bashing you I might bimbaschi myself but what I am saying is do you ever feel like you would like to cry or you would light to fill a certain something just for an hour? A better question which is be straight to the point would you be willing to fill all your emotions for hours every day and then the rest of the time you're like you are now? You know it makes me depressed a little but only blue really when I just think about not feeling emotions so I'm gonna continue taking mine or plan to like you and we take the same amount of dosage but at the end of the day do you ever miss the lack of the ability to share a tear or have emotions that are extreme and yes that does include the negatives like anxiety and depression but do you ever miss not being able to fill the same empathy or sympathy when of thren is telling you a story fit back in the day you would have been crying over or are you were a been getting angry about to paying on the story? I say SSR I's absolutely steal Our very persona. Again look that word up even if you think you know the definitions for persona. It does not mean personality but is something much deeper and Finn you understand a little bit more what I'm saying is it's a trade off to are one of Phil lousy and depressed and nervous most of the time or if someone gives me a magic pill I don't feel that way any longer but I traded off all my emotions the majority of any kind of sympathy or empathy and I could probly West to satish freakin movie or the saddest song and feel like crying or shed a tear but it doesn't happen.

    • @AT-hy9cq
      @AT-hy9cq 3 роки тому +1

      @Molly Malone, Same for me. I’m happy that I stopped cry, I fell more better then before sertraline. I been too tired of emotional swings, and now it’s like a new life.

  • @PaulaMMH
    @PaulaMMH 4 роки тому +1

    i was on Sertraline (100) along with Risperidone, Clonazepam and Topiramate in 2016 i dropped everything after like one year, i never felt ANY change, the ONLY thing that helped me was Risperidone with my Insomnia. I got back to therapy two months ago bcause i cant stand my tics anymore so i told my psychiatrist i only want to treat that problem and that i give up on the rest, she prescribed SERTRALINE (50) again, i have been on it for two weeks, i told her i feel no changes, and she said its NOT POSSIBLE NOT TO FEEL ANY CHANGE, she said that its the best medication and that everyone around the world take it and feel something, good or bad so i cant be the only one who doesnt notice any change, and now that i see your video i realized i dont cry at the things i always cry over anymore, NOTHING, not even one tear ?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +2

      Hi my friend, two weeks is a very short time, it can take a while for new medication to settle in. However, your doctor should also be listening to you, about what works best for you. Perhaps give the new meds a couple more weeks and if you dont feel right, then ask to change to something else. It is completely OK to advocate for what you need. We know ourselves better than anyone

    • @PaulaMMH
      @PaulaMMH 4 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible Yes thats what i thought but she made me go 15 days after i started taking it, and asked if i felt something and once i said no, nothing she said its impossible cause i should feel something (i didnt feel any change when i took it in 2016 either), she was about to prescribe clonazepam again too and i said no, and that i prefer waiting til i finish the first box of sertaline and see what happens. Thanks for the reply!!

  • @Snowy-hj6vi
    @Snowy-hj6vi 3 роки тому

    I was emotional blunt before I took antidepressants. So I don't know if it really change something

  • @janettehutton8634
    @janettehutton8634 5 років тому +8

    I’m coming off venlafaxine for the same reasons. I couldn’t have cared less about things and you do need “some” emotions.

    • @shiftedperception9368
      @shiftedperception9368 2 роки тому

      Did you get off the effexor? I'm in the process of doing so. Been on it for 13 or 14 years. Tried several times to get off it.

  • @Honeydollarbill
    @Honeydollarbill 2 роки тому +1

    The worst thing is, I've learned to cry on 100mg of antidepressants and to be very warrant of my feeling. I forgot taking a dose one day and I got so incredibly sad, it just felt like falling down a bottomless pit, I literally cried for two days in a row, until the levels of the drug was normal again. Now I cry all the time, even on 100mg, and I'm literally scared to stop taking the med cause I can't imagine what a wreck i'm gonna be witout it,... The worst part is i'm not even happy! I'm either numb/neutral or sad...

  • @josefdez8258
    @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I feel like that!!

  • @user-wb2yv7ll9d
    @user-wb2yv7ll9d 11 місяців тому

    Thanks for the video Finn. So did the emotional blunting go away with the mirtazapine?

  • @kodak5300
    @kodak5300 5 років тому +3

    I am on mirtazpine too. May the 14th is the day my Mom died, that was back in 2002.

  • @elle6497
    @elle6497 4 роки тому +3

    I have anxiety. But I'm afraid of nothing matters to me, and I'll take the most important exam of my life this year. What if I don't try hard enough after sertraline? I don't know what to do. :(

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Hi my friend, it is a difficult balance, we may need the medication to help our mental health, but then that medication can then have unhelpful effects for thins like study. I would talk to your school/college/university because they may be able to put measures in place to help you with exams.

  • @anastasiavaitsi3417
    @anastasiavaitsi3417 4 роки тому +4

    I am on 200 mg for almost a year. I cannot cry, but I did cry when something happened and I felt so many things that they did come out with tears.
    But if I went to the past I would have done it again and sooner. I was living a nightmare and sleeping with nightmares. My emotional pain was always with me whatever I was doing. Even with friends I always felt like I was about to cry (I would blame it to allergies).
    I am healing but I feel already relieved. At first you will feel frustrated that you cannot cry, but day by day it takes the pain away until you will not feel the need to express sadness. You will actually be everyday mentally stable and your emotions won't be in your way to do the things that you want or be the person that you want to portray. I feel like my body accepts my soul now. Happy and sad events are felt but you will be emotional stable. The benefits for my case are more and more important for the quality of my life. Hope I helped

  • @Katyavolkova86
    @Katyavolkova86 3 роки тому

    I can cry and I don’t feel anything sexual while I’m on it.. I stopped recently but then I start taking it when I start getting very emotional

  • @facioergosum2445
    @facioergosum2445 4 роки тому +3

    its really weird for me. Sertraline sometimes gives me emotional blunting and decreased empathy. other times it makes me feel like my emotions are bubbling over. it started to work for a bit, but now I am not so sure.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      That's really odd. Perhaps you need your dose changed? It's so important to talk with your doctor and make your meds work.properly for you

    • @facioergosum2445
      @facioergosum2445 4 роки тому +1

      @@FinnTheInfinncible I have only been on it for 5 weeks. I have a doctor's appointment in a couple of weeks, so I'm gonna let her know what's going on. Therapy waiting lists are so long aswell, so meds is just for the meantime. Thanks for the response!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      @@facioergosum2445 ah that's only a short time. It's good to give a new med 6 to 8 weeks to see if it works for you. And yes, waiting for therapy is hard. Are you in the UK? If so, ask about books on prescription, there are so many wonderful self help books that can help support you in the meantime. I recently wrote a blog sharing the books that have helped me the most. Perhaps it will help you? finlaygames.com/6-self-development-books-that-changed-my-life

    • @facioergosum2445
      @facioergosum2445 4 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible thankyou, yes I am in the UK. Do I just ask my GP about the prescription books? I'll be sure to check out your blog!

  • @janettehutton8634
    @janettehutton8634 5 років тому +4

    Discontinuation syndrome, is that what it’s called? Horrible horrible horrible. Thankfully I’ve not had it much and only for a short time when I drop down a dose. Pain is healing, you’re right you have to feel the pain in order to get better and then you’ll just be left with the good memories. I’m grieving for my nephew who died recently from alcohol abuse. And I’m now also able to grieve for my Dad who died eleven years ago. Its so good to hear that other people go through the same things. (Not that I want you to feel pain obviously). Loads of love ❤️

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      I know exactly what you mean! I'm so sorry for your loss too. Yes, feeling it is important, as difficult as it is! And the discontinuation syndrome.....thankfully passes after a month or so!

  • @astropgn
    @astropgn Рік тому +1

    It is so weird the first time you notice this symptom. I started with something similar to sertraline (fluoxetine, in my case) and I didn't think it was having an effect. I was still a little bit lethargic, unmotivated etc. But right on my 3rd day I was watching a movie and it had this very powerful and emotional scene. At that moment I noticed something was wrong. The "normal" me would be sobbing. I wasn't. I was rationally aware that the scene is sad, but I didn't felt it.
    After that I start experimenting. I opened movies that I knew it would make me cry normally. There is one in particular which I think I cried 100% of the time. Now? Totally dry.
    It is so weird. I can laugh, I know when something is sad... But I am not feeling it.

    • @Margen67
      @Margen67 Рік тому

      Penguins need HUGS

  • @tulipe1962
    @tulipe1962 3 роки тому +2

    I noticed an emotional numbness after i took my levothyrox for my hypothyroidism im not sure if its really the levothyrox or its only my brain

  • @paulhorn27
    @paulhorn27 3 роки тому

    Thank you for this video. I'm having the emotional blunting and lack of libido. I'm living a much healthier lifestyle than when I first went on medication, so I'm ready to stop. While I'm tempted to stop cold-turkey, I'm going to work with my doctor to taper to try to minimize discontinuation effects.

    • @shyaaammeneen63
      @shyaaammeneen63 2 роки тому

      Paulhorn. Reduce medication to the lowest dose and then take alternate days and then taper off. Reduce negative thoughts to have a healthier life. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing negative thoughts-anxiety. For a relaxed life sit on a chair, back erect, eyes closed, be as still as possible and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for around 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight with your thoughts. Slowly the mind will relax. No deep inhalation-exhalation needed. Anytime of the day or night before sleep sit or lie down on your back and observe your breath. Stillness brings internal peace. Make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Best wishes Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.

  • @elijahdewar1584
    @elijahdewar1584 2 роки тому

    im wondering if anyone who takes this feels like when there moving around it doesnt feel like there doing it themselves or it it makes yoo feel numb to anything you touch or if it makes you feel like your floating

  • @jpn_119
    @jpn_119 3 роки тому +6

    this happened to me too, but its hard to decide which is better, too much emotion or none....i dont wanna take medication but my depression can be so bad...

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +1

      I hear you on that. It's a difficult balance indeed!

    • @durschfalltv7505
      @durschfalltv7505 3 роки тому

      Take psychedelics. The Higher the Dose the greater the help. Psychedelics are weird and i haveng tripped yet being afraid of psychosis. But i heared psychosis can be even treated with psychedelics. Unfortunatly No doctor in the US Helps you Like that. But there are ayahuaska Rituals you can Take Part in in south america. Unfortunatly i live in Europe But there is Something simelar in the Netherlands which i am going to try probably after covid.

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому +1

      Hello, did you reccover your emmotiongs back ? Are you ok now after a year ?

    • @jpn_119
      @jpn_119 10 місяців тому

      @@josefdez8258 I quit medication and turned to natural coping mechanisms like meditation, cbd oil etc.

  • @gwentait8349
    @gwentait8349 5 років тому +1

    I been on citalpram for many yearsvrheybwant to change it but I hurd loads about others that frighten me ..

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      Not everyone has side effects and different meds work differently for different people. With the help of a good gp, you can find out the best one for you

  • @kingkongdude1234
    @kingkongdude1234 5 років тому +5

    The emotion blunting is what you need your brain is repairing itself by taking sertraline, anti depressants are a miracle drug! Please if you suffer from depression anti depressants are gods gift to man do not listen to the negativity surrounding them they will help you! Also everyone has a different brain people will react different to the medication and will have there own symptoms please I say this from the bottom of my heart if you have depression please consider taking medication and seeking therapy! It really helps and you will get better on god! Hope this message of positivity helps those who are considering helping themselves and reviving there mental health! God bless, god speed.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      Anti depressants can and do help many people, however, for some people, some of these drugs have undesirable side effects. This was the case for me as I explain in this video, and with the support of my GP I have swapped to a different anti depressant. I stress in this vlog, that there is nothing wrong with taking medication, but I also stress that you need not put up with side effects, if the bad effects outweigh the good, then a doctor can help you to find a better medication

    • @silvesterutd9369
      @silvesterutd9369 3 роки тому +2

      Emotional numbness could be permanent!!
      Search "PSSD" on Google!!!!!!

    • @valdechenko565
      @valdechenko565 3 роки тому +2

      "The emotional blunting is what you need your brain is repairing itself by taking sertraline" AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

  • @rubychampness27
    @rubychampness27 2 роки тому

    hi, I’m on setraline and I’ve been so frustrated bc I CANNOT cry and I cry to let out how I feel, I feel like I’m on the verge of crying but I CANT at all

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      Hello, did you reccover your emmotiongs back ? Are you ok now after a year ?

  • @thomashart4188
    @thomashart4188 2 роки тому

    did you put on on when on them, and if so, did you lose it after stopping?

  • @applecat8934
    @applecat8934 2 роки тому

    I’m a 25 year old woman. I used to cry a lot especially during the pandemic and over things like being rejected by a love interest. I noticed after only three months while I do feel sad, I lay in bed or skip a workout, sleep.. I dont cry. I cry much. Much less. I am less likely to get pissed off at my family members and I’m usually more agreeable about everyday common things that used to annoy me.
    EDIT: I am also more social. I like to talk to family members more. I take a low dose 25mg as I don’t have severe depression or anxiety

  • @hap6782
    @hap6782 Рік тому +1

    I don't have the same base experience as you do, no alcohol for me because i destroyed my liver with medication, and i never took antidepressants.
    But i relate to your symptoms so much, it's been a long while since i last cried of sadness, and i tried many things.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  Рік тому +1

      Its really hard isnt it? Im currently working with a therapist as I miss crying!

    • @hap6782
      @hap6782 Рік тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible i do so too, at least mental Healthcare is free in my country so i don't have to worry about paying the expensive bills. Wish you to succeed in your emotional recovery.

  • @dianebeilen3884
    @dianebeilen3884 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks you really helped me

  • @alondraacosta-mora6504
    @alondraacosta-mora6504 3 роки тому

    I am taking 3 meds sertraline, limbik and alprazolam! I also dont feel emotions but also i did not feel emotions even before in my major depression. So i feel now at least i wanna do things and i can function in life. However i just hope one day i can stop taking meds and fee my emotions to the full as i once did. Also my memory is very bad. it sucks.

  • @0Darkentity
    @0Darkentity 3 роки тому

    I don't know if I should continue talking my sertraline I know that when I don't take my pills I have extreme depression, stress, and anxiety but I think I shouldn't take it because I'm extremely emotionless almost completely most of the time and when I take sertraline I feel completely emotionless I can't understand other people's emotions even more than I used to it makes me feel extreme anger towards others when they bother me which is not that great because I'm already a very angry person. Should I stop?

  • @HuxleyWasRight
    @HuxleyWasRight 4 роки тому +2

    do you think it was the booze that caused your anxiety/depression ? i'm beginning to think that for many depression and anxiety is all linked to liver function, obviously drinking alcohol is going to effect this. Anecdotal but whenever i drink for a period of months (not all the time, but a few times a week) my depression and anxiety goes through the roof, not saying mental health issues are linked to liver function for everyone, but i reckon it accounts for a lot.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      Its a good question, I have had anxiety for as long as I can remember, I started drinking because it helped, at least initially, to numb me to it, though of course eventually it made things far worse. When I got sober, my anxiety did lower, and Ive learned to manage it better now, But it is still there

    • @AlenzHSV8
      @AlenzHSV8 3 роки тому

      Alcohol is a depressant, the more you drink and the longer you drink eventually it's going to make mild anxiety and depression far worse. Drinking to help lift your mood sounds great at the start.. but it will definitely spiral out of control and years down the road you will be much worse of mentally than what you were pre drinking days.

    • @mikej7652
      @mikej7652 Рік тому

      I do think it’s linked for me. I was binge drinking every weekend for years. Never had anxiety when I was a kid but now battle daily with it since about 24.
      Smoking weed actually gave me my first panic attack

  • @chrisshelswell3222
    @chrisshelswell3222 3 роки тому

    The brain freezes are very real. If you’ve ever been on Effexor just missing a dose can make them really bad. Coming off it was even harder!
    I too was sick of not being able to feel so I, stupidly, just stopped taking sertraline (100mg) rather than tapering.
    Though emotions are coming back (i stopped taking it a week ago as I wrote this). They’re very hard to deal with. The crying, almost being out of control of my emotions which isn’t great. I just can’t seem to find a balance.

  • @Nel164
    @Nel164 Місяць тому

    I was prescribed mirtazapine years ago for an unrelated issue (sleep) and I gained a ridiculous amount of weight while on it. It was terrible. I just recently started taking setraline. While I can admit that I felt the numbness and was kinda weirded out by it at first, I actually kind of like it, at least for my anxiety. It’s really been helping me

  • @ruben4338
    @ruben4338 4 роки тому +1

    Thankyou Finn x

  • @stephaniepollart2515
    @stephaniepollart2515 4 роки тому +1

    World health organization: 3 SSRI's are among the 30 highest ranking drugs in the list of drugs for which drug dependence ever have been reported to the Uppsala Monitoring center database. Sertraline ,fluoxetine, paroxetine.

  • @pandekuri
    @pandekuri 5 років тому +3

    I suggest taking a GeneSight test for medication. A lot of genetic factors play a part in side effects and metabolism certain medication. I found out I had a cyp2d6 poor metabolized phenotype, making a lot of antidepressants really harmful for me. For me Sertraline is the only SSRI on the market I can safely take lol. Genetics are wild.

  • @debbietaylor20
    @debbietaylor20 3 роки тому

    I had Prozac years ago an didn't have side effects , do you think I could have.swapped.to them then taper off ? Would it make no difference to my.body changing them ? Did you get a lot of sweating withdrawing ?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      I had an awful withdrawal from sertraline. You should always taper off these things very slowly and always consult with your doctor first

  • @omarthearab81
    @omarthearab81 Рік тому

    I feel like crying for 11 days on sertraline, anxiety from hell, and low mood. Does this medication get any better?

  • @JDavis810
    @JDavis810 4 роки тому +11

    My girlfriend had so bad emotional blunting in three weeks she went from getting ready to marry me to saying she doesn’t love me or anyone in her life and left me , forever hurt and confused

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      Im so sorry tohear that. It sounds like there may have been going on that just medication, hope you are doing OK now?

    • @capes5441
      @capes5441 3 роки тому +1

      That's pretty much what's happening to me right now. I started the full dose of sertraline about 3 weeks ago, and I went from excited to see my boyfriend and wanting to talk to him all the time to not really caring if I saw him and feeling like I was wasting time when calling him. Realized about a week ago but waited to see if it was a period thing (my birth control interacts with my GAD). Supposed to discuss new options for my anti anxiety with my doc tomorrow.

    • @astrid-3
      @astrid-3 Рік тому

      @@capes5441 oh my god literally same. Broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years after almost a year of feeling that way since taking sertraline. Didn’t even cross my mind until now that I could have been influenced by the medication. Genuinely thought at the time it was the right decision. I didn’t even cry or feel sad about it either afterwards, I just cried once right when it happened, and then afterwards just felt this weird emotionally distanced and relieved feeling. So weird

  • @DarylSkinner
    @DarylSkinner 4 роки тому

    I think this is the reason why my girlfriend didn’t give a shit when she dumped me because we were together for eight years & She was on 100 mg of sertraline and then her family told her that she shouldn’t be with me and when we split up she didn’t seem upset

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      Who knows my friend, people can often hide the truth of whats going on. I hope you are doing ok now

  • @markie1232
    @markie1232 2 роки тому +3

    I've been taking it for about three days I feel like spewing up!!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  2 роки тому

      Oh no! It can sometimes have that effect. Do contact your doctor if it doesnt improve

  • @Mcguinnxss
    @Mcguinnxss 2 роки тому

    I went to the doctor about feeling emotionally numb and feeling low and feeling like ive got no emotions, my doctor just gave me citalopram and apparently they make you more emotionally numb

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  2 роки тому

      Everyone reacts different to medicaions, its important to get the right one for you, to balance side effects with results. Chat to your doctor about experiementing with which one s best for you

  • @Spealing
    @Spealing Рік тому

    i was taking 25MG for about a week. Couldn't tell if anything was happening other than I was very sleepy. Taking it at a night made that work for me. But suddenly I realized I hadn't had a sexual thought since i started. Then found out in trying to engage i couldn't climax. Stuck with it though because I was trying to get a handle on my PTSD. Going to the full 50 i immediately found myself in and outta the bathroom and stopped taking it. It's been about 2 days so far. I just wanna know for anyone who experienced this did it go away by staying on it.

  • @samdavies4715
    @samdavies4715 Рік тому

    How are you doing now? After 3 years I am intrigued if it gets better? I hope so. 🥺

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  Рік тому

      It improved about 3 months after coming off them. I'm on other anti depressants now and although not as numb as sertraline I do still have issues crying. I think some of this is that I already struggle and then the antidepressant on top just stops it. Still trying to work out best option!

  • @volt8684
    @volt8684 Рік тому

    My Gp hasn’t tested my thyroid even though had half mine removed through a tumour. She refuses to test me says it’s grief.

  • @FirstLast-ej2cy
    @FirstLast-ej2cy 8 місяців тому

    When my grandpa passed away I couldn’t cry no matter what.. i tried so hard to cry I forced it and I just couldn’t and I felt so selfish for not being able to grief.. I decided to change medicine but other antidepressant didn’t help with my depression at all so I decided to go back to sertraline it’s a risk I rather take than to be like shit everyday

  • @PhnxMcCracken
    @PhnxMcCracken 3 роки тому

    I been taking sertaline for years taking 100mg a day it works for me right now thankfully

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      That is great news! Proof that different meds work for different folks!

  • @ranoldolezama4875
    @ranoldolezama4875 2 роки тому

    I've been taking it for about 5 months and it's true, I feel like I just cant cry so I have to do or think of something that has hurt me before to be able to cry because I just feel the need to.

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      I have the same side effects. Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I still feel like that 20 days after I quit sertraline!!

    • @desh21000
      @desh21000 Місяць тому

      @@josefdez8258 DID YOU RECOVER?

  • @karolina131192
    @karolina131192 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for that video. I was on sertraline too, I took sertraline only 5 weeks and that emotional blunting is horrible. Now I have not been taking sertraline for a month and my emotion still doesnt't work good. I'm very scared that is permanent... i have amazing boyfriend and i don't feel love for him, i don't know is the drug doing that or i don't love him anymore..

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Bless you, that is really tough to deal with. I found that it took a few months for my feelings to come back. By 6 months I could cry again. Just take it a day at a time, chat with your boyfriend, and it will all soon start to become clear. Please stay in touch

    • @HackZiLLaQ8
      @HackZiLLaQ8 3 роки тому +1

      Dear Karolina, plz update us, how do u feel now, did ur love feelings come back?

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому +1

      Are you better?

  • @simonclark2521
    @simonclark2521 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I've just read ur story online, now I'm listening to it 😬 what are the chances 😬

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Well hello! Welcome to the FinnFam! More info on my website if you'd like to know even more! finlaygames.com

  • @itsreallyimportantman
    @itsreallyimportantman 5 років тому +1

    Hi Finn - oh yuck i know the feeling expect i'm coming off of a strong pain killer just know that i use for my fibro and back pain. Given all the drugs ive been on for my own mental health ive never been on Serterline - I did try martazapine for a short while there but the bad side effects out weighed the good for me. Oh well back to the drawing board as they say. It drives me nuts when I hear folks say that medication is for woman and feelings are for woman, I didn't realise us men had to be unfeeling robots!! Love you Finn gaint hugs to you all!

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +1

      Oh that drives me nuts when l hear that! Feeling is a human emotion it isn't gender specific! And yes, side effects ...working out the best meds for us....can be a mine field!

    • @itsreallyimportantman
      @itsreallyimportantman 5 років тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible - Oh I couldnt agree more on both you're points! Hope your both enjoying the hoildays!

  • @epicmage82
    @epicmage82 3 роки тому +3

    I had the great idea of just stopping mine after 2 years. No tapering. Its been horrible of course, but its been around 2 weeks. I almost forgot how strong my emotions were. 😫 Not gonna lie though the depression is really bad. Even before getting numbed by my medication, I was raised not to express negative emotions. So thats been bottled for 30 years. Even though it's been hell, I've had a clear enough head to examine things in my head. I've come to learn new things about myself. Some good. Some bad. Some that scare the hell out me. I really don't want to be numb anymore. Music, movies, and books are things I actually enjoy, but I never understood was I enjoyed the emotional connection with those things. When I'm numb I don't get the same thing from them. I don't know. Being numb kind of makes me feel like I'm not really alive. Ok I'm gonna stop typing now. I just saw how long this is lol.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +1

      Its OK! I am grateful for your honest sharing. I feel the exact same way, whilst being depressed and anxious is awful, I do not want to completely numb myself to everything, especially joy and pleasure! I would love to be med free again at some point, but for now I have swapped to a different medication, that doesnt cause numbing in the same way. I hope things ease soon for you my friend, coming off meds is hard!

    • @sangeetalambh6389
      @sangeetalambh6389 3 роки тому

      Jesse did u feel depersonalization in ur withdrawal

    • @epicmage82
      @epicmage82 3 роки тому +1

      @@sangeetalambh6389 To be honest I feel like that most of the time. Both before and after I stopped taking it. It may have gotten a little worse the first 2 weeks. I'm not sure. The hard part has been trying to mange the feelings when they came back. I don't know if they just seem stronger because I'm not use to dealing with them, or if repressing intense feelings with medication made them stronger. They've been kind of ruling me. It's getting a tiny bit easier, but it's been months. I don't really recommend it unless you have some kind of face to face support though. It can be rough and intense when you start to feel again. Online support groups really helped me not kill myself. If I had someone to give face to face support, it would have gone a lot better I think.

    • @sangeetalambh6389
      @sangeetalambh6389 3 роки тому

      @@epicmage82 u have now sleep problems

    • @epicmage82
      @epicmage82 3 роки тому

      @@sangeetalambh6389 I've always had problems sleeping. The first two weeks, going through withdrawal from the medication, there were times my mind was racing and I couldn't sleep. Other times I was too mentally exhausted to stay awake. It settled down into my normal crappy sleep though lol. Like I said before, if you have real world support, you will be fine. Otherwise, if you do it alone, you kind of need a strong will to get through it. Personally, I had online support, but I can be very hard headed. Stubbornness got me through it by myself. There are definitely pros and cons. My head has some pretty dark thoughts all the time. Before it would just put me in a bad mood. Now it comes with a lot of negative emotions. My life sucks though lol. Just in general. Which is why the feelings I get from music are so important to me. Getting those feelings back are worth the negatives for me to be able to cry at the beauty of a lot of music. I cry about bad things too now, but I guess you can't have light without the dark. Definitely learn techniques to handle any panic attacks, and negative thoughts. It's hard, but I feel it's better than just being numb. I don't know what you are passionate about, but getting absorbed in it helps. I went pretty deep 8nto music. Learned some music theory, and the basics of some instruments. I could never perform in front of people. That's never really been the point for me though. I hope some of my rambling is helping in some way.

  • @jameshampton5659
    @jameshampton5659 3 роки тому

    How long did it take to get your emotions back? I thought I was depressed before but now I cannot cry, laugh, feel anything..... awful

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Im sorry this is happening to you too. It took a few months for feeling to come back and be able to cry again but now Im on a different anti depressant and do not have any issues with numbing at all

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      Are you better?

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible was feeling back 100% without additional meds?

  • @c2819fnf
    @c2819fnf 3 роки тому

    I’m an artist. I was on lexapro since December… now I’m off. I’ve never felt more numb in my entire life. How long did it take you to start feeling again?
    Thank you

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +1

      Im so sorry this has happened to you too. It took a good 6 months and then all feeling returned

    • @c2819fnf
      @c2819fnf 3 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible good to know. At least I can put a mark on the calendar. Did your doctor or psychiatrist have an explanation as to why it takes so long for the “emotional spectrum” to come back?

    • @desteufelsm1504
      @desteufelsm1504 3 роки тому

      @@c2819fnf Do you have PSSD ??

    • @c2819fnf
      @c2819fnf 3 роки тому

      @@desteufelsm1504not anymore. Nothing on lexapro. But after a month everything was fine.

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      @@c2819fnf are you fine now?

  • @jamesc6691
    @jamesc6691 4 роки тому

    Hi, did you find that you experienced less emotional numbing off citalopram? I have just started sertraline and I am afraid this may be happening to me.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Hi James, no , citalopram never caused any emotional blunting, even when I was on high doses of it. If you find that the sertraline isnt helping, do talk to your doctor. It is so importnat to get the right meds for us

    • @jamesc6691
      @jamesc6691 4 роки тому +2

      @@FinnTheInfinncible Thanks for the reply finn. The doctor changed me to citalopram but this is the second day of me taking it and my anxiety is through the roof unbearable. I didnt have this after the second day with sertraline. Did you experience this?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      @@jamesc6691 Hey James, glad your doctor is being helpful, its not uncommon to notice a worsening of symptoms when you start new meds. Give it a couple of weeks and see if it lowers, if not, you might need to swap meds again. I know its annoying, but in the end, we do find one that works for us!

  • @1978niknok
    @1978niknok 5 місяців тому

    Hi I know this video was made a long time ago but I was wandering if you emotions eventually came back?
    Thank you

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 місяців тому

      I really should update this video! Yes! It took about 4 months an then I started to find myself getting emotional again. I went to a festival and suddenly found myself in floods of tears! This was very much a relief!

    • @dazome
      @dazome 5 місяців тому

      These drugs caused me permanent emotional numbness

  • @mohammadkhadra2604
    @mohammadkhadra2604 2 роки тому +1

    Zoloft was the most commonly prescribed antidepressant in the USA in 2018 with over 38 million prescriptions.

    • @vinpavon9209
      @vinpavon9209 2 роки тому

      Ahahahahahaha

    • @hfud11
      @hfud11 Рік тому

      Zoloft destroyed many lives

  • @Katyavolkova86
    @Katyavolkova86 3 роки тому +1

    Basically I become Spock ( from Star Trek) on sertraline ...my emotions are so suppressed everything I think is logical and not emotional AT ALL !

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому

      Oh that made me chuckle! I can relate, it made me like that too. For some reason, some people are really affected by this emotional blunting. And yes, I too had sexual issues on it I couldt orgasm at all! My advice would be to chat to your doctor, and wean off it onto something else. It can be trial and error to find the right thing but it is worth the effort. Good luck!

  • @DarylSkinner
    @DarylSkinner 4 роки тому +1

    Sertraline for me has been a good medication for me however I don't take it all the time, due to the fact it gives me a really bad Hunger pain, no matter how much I eat the feeling doesn't go away when I take 50 my sertraline. but I can see where you’re coming from because I’ve been on it before I’m like to myself I don’t have any emotions like what happens to my emotions. it’s almost like you’re a robot because it gets rid of the depression but on the other side, you don’t seem to have any emotions. I’ve been told that benzodiazepines work better. they are more stronger and carry more risks but they have fewer side effects

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      It's all about working out what's right for you. First me, l needed something to stop my mood from plummeting, but without numbing me . Sertraline numbed me too much. I'm on mirtazapine now and it's much better

    • @DarylSkinner
      @DarylSkinner 4 роки тому +1

      FinnTheInfinncible I'm happy that your doing well thank you for a lovely video

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      @@DarylSkinner Very glad ot was helpful my friend!

  • @Drona_e30_m50
    @Drona_e30_m50 3 роки тому

    I tried halving from 50mg to 25mg a couple of days ago
    GOD THE PANIC ATTACKS AND ANXIETY :(

    • @boris9331
      @boris9331 11 місяців тому

      hope you're better bud, by the way nice e30 got an S50 in mine :P

  • @SkyeID
    @SkyeID 5 років тому +6

    I have been on Sertraline for a few years, and I can still cry.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +1

      It affects people in different ways. Not all people get the same side effects.

  • @ShadowKiller571
    @ShadowKiller571 4 роки тому +1

    How long did it take to regain your emotions? I'm a month and a half off and my qualifity of life has not returned completely yet

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      Its taken a while, its now been 6 months and Im starting to feel like Im back in touch with my feelings again

    • @kitsunesora4169
      @kitsunesora4169 4 роки тому +1

      It varies from person to person. It took me 3 years to feel like myself again. It can either take a shorter or longer period of time.

    • @valdechenko565
      @valdechenko565 3 роки тому +3

      My emotions never came back

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      Are you better?

    • @commonercoffeeaddict
      @commonercoffeeaddict 3 роки тому

      @@kitsunesora4169 no feelings for 3 years :o ?

  • @Lena-uh3ky
    @Lena-uh3ky 5 років тому +3

    Happened to me too I didn't cry for years.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому +2

      It's so very common!

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      Hello, did you reccover your emmotiongs back ? Are you ok now after a year ?

  • @tylerroyle8963
    @tylerroyle8963 4 роки тому

    I hate my sertraline on top of my psychosis tablets. Sertraline has made me feel nothing. I literally care about nothing - its the worst feeling. I asked to stop they said no im too much of a risk so have taken matters into my own hands - update in two weeks

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому

      I'm so sorry your doctor isnt being helpful. We need meds that work for us not against us. I understand, l took matters into my own hands too, but in retrospect I should have swapped to a different anti depressant rather than going cold Turkey. Just be careful! Let me know how you get on.

    • @karlarivera5696
      @karlarivera5696 4 роки тому

      How do you feel, I a cry, I laugh, I feel fear, angry, but not happiness.

  • @zornicabojinova2651
    @zornicabojinova2651 2 роки тому +1

    This is happening to me also.i am trying to taper my meds becauseof that.am i ever going to be able to feel again.so scared

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  2 роки тому

      Do speak to your doctor, not all meds do this and different meds suit different people, it can take time to find the right one, but dont give up!

    • @dazome
      @dazome 5 місяців тому

      ​@@FinnTheInfinnciblethese drugs are not safe

  • @zoedobson7277
    @zoedobson7277 5 років тому +4

    This is so relatable! And why I suffered so long! I have just been switched from sertraline to citalopram. I ended up feeling no love for anyone, spit from my partner of 7 years and got so frustrated when I couldnt cry. Luckily my partner forgave and is now sticking by my side. How did u find citalopram?

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      That sounds just like my experience. I was fine on citalopram, l had been on them for years without any problems. I did consider going back on them but chose mirtazapine instead, purely to see if they would help me with sleep.

    • @adamj517
      @adamj517 5 років тому

      Zoe Dobson Hey Zoe I’m currently going through the same thing for about 1 month after stopping I wanted to know how long it lasted

    • @zoedobson7277
      @zoedobson7277 5 років тому

      @@adamj517 I'd say it took a good 6 months to feel like I was feeling propper feelings again. Unfortunately citalopram didn't work for me and increased my suicidal ideation. Just transferring to venlaflaxine. 🤞 it works x

  • @generichuman2044
    @generichuman2044 Рік тому +4

    I've been taking this for 10 days after being off meds for years. I never understood what emotional blunting was until I started taking sertraline. Yesterday my friend shared some awful news with me and I felt nothing. I'm usually very empathetic, often to my detriment, but I was just numb. Have an appointment with my doctor next week and I am definitely going to bring it up

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  Рік тому +1

      Hi my friend, yes ufortunately it can be a side effect for some people from some antidepressant medications. For some people its a welcome side effect, for others not so. Its important to chat with your doctor and work out what is right for you, good luck!

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      Hello, did you reccover your emmotiongs back ? Are you ok now after a year ?

    • @generichuman2044
      @generichuman2044 10 місяців тому

      @@josefdez8258 hey. After talking with my doctor, I moved to a new medication after 2 months. The emotional blunting got slowly better but I was suffering other side effects as well. It took me 3 tries but I've now found the perfect meds for me and have been on them for 6 months

  • @debbietaylor20
    @debbietaylor20 3 роки тому

    I was put on it for panic attacks 50 mg . I had six weeks of increased anxiety . Decided to come off them so started tapering off . Got to 20 then halved that then really bad sweating anxiety so have gone back to 20 then taper again. I never believed the site that is called Zoloft should be illegal and how slow you have to taper.off . I mean really slow . My GP said I wouldn't have withdrawal ! Omg they are wrong . She just wanted to put me.on another one. I wish I'd never started them. I have had a under active thyroid for thirty years. I should have stuck with natural things like kratom , ashwagandha b vitamins.

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  3 роки тому +1

      Sorry to hear of your experience, medication is a tricky thing, what works for one person, often doesnt work for another! Thankfully, I have found something that works for me now. I hope you do to!

  • @tresheppard8942
    @tresheppard8942 3 роки тому +3

    I have a question. After I stopped taking the sertraline pills after I accidentally took sertraline pills in one time every day like for four days, how long sertraline wears off after I'll be cured from diarrhea and stomach pain and vomiting and headache so I could have my appetite back, and get my philosophical emotional like physical laughing, giggle, yelling, screaming and crying back? How long it'll take sertraline will wears me off to back to normal?
    I just stopped taking the sertraline pills in two weeks ago.
    A weak? A month? A year?

    • @josefdez8258
      @josefdez8258 10 місяців тому

      I have the same side effects. Hello , Did you recover your feelings and physical emotions? How long does it last? I just took 25 mg for just 4 days, and I still feel like that 20 days after I quit sertraline!!

  • @stephaniehamilton6217
    @stephaniehamilton6217 5 років тому +2

    I don't know why they took you of Citalopram, it's the only thing that has helped me in any way.
    I've been on everything else with no effect!
    I too have an underactive thyroid and the depression that accompanies it is horrendous.
    I hope they can sort you out and find something that works for you, you are such a lovely person😘

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  5 років тому

      You are so lovely. The logic at the time was, that my citalopram was no longer working, another switched it to sertraline. But, it was the thyroid that was causing the return of depression. God knows what lm doing from here but it will be lovely when this black cloud lifts! In the meantime, thankbgoodness for lovely people like you!!

  • @mangosouljah
    @mangosouljah 4 роки тому +1

    I couldn't agree more with using these meds when you are at a very low point where you need a bit of a boost to even be able to work on yourself and your problems, but once your head is above water again I suggest reducing or eliminating these meds as they can definitely cause emotion blunting (I experienced it first hand, not a fun time) and ultimately they shouldn't be relied on if you can avoid it anyway, go out of your way top find natural ways to lift your mood such as exercise and healthy eating as well as cutting out any unhealthy external things in your life such as toxic people. We all control our own well being for the most part so go out there and be happy guys

    • @FinnTheInfinncible
      @FinnTheInfinncible  4 роки тому +1

      I agree that we should all look to improve our mood and wellbeing with other factors than medication, but medication can inturn, give us the strength we need, to be able to do the other stuff. When we are really low, its impossible to do the simple stuff like getting out of bed, let alone gettting some exercise. Its about balance ultimately and self awareness, and there should never be any shame in using medication, its just important to find the right medication when you choose it

    • @mangosouljah
      @mangosouljah 4 роки тому

      @@FinnTheInfinncible 100% agree

    • @karlarivera5696
      @karlarivera5696 4 роки тому

      do you feel happy again, what do you do. I quit my antidepressants 11 eleven days agoa and and feel sad sometime, cry sometimes, laugh sometimes, but when I am laughing I dont feel this emotions. help me please

    • @mangosouljah
      @mangosouljah 4 роки тому

      @@karlarivera5696 why did you quit? were you starting to feel better? I quit because i started to feel numb and that was almost a year ago, I did get back on them early this year but only temporarily because i was going through a rough patch and they helped me push through. Give yourself some time for your body to adapt to not depending on the medication because when i quite the first time it hit me hard i had bad depression but it passes with time and making sure you do other things to boost yourself such as exercise and a clean diet ect. good luck!

    • @karlarivera5696
      @karlarivera5696 4 роки тому

      I quit because I have tinnitus and other symptoms, also my feelings for my husband gone, I only think negative thoughts.

  • @malourdesblancomaciel1155
    @malourdesblancomaciel1155 5 років тому

    Did you felt emotinal blunting on Citalopram?

    • @Renae12234
      @Renae12234 4 роки тому

      I'm on that I do feel that but everyone is different

  • @JadeDRail
    @JadeDRail 3 роки тому +1

    I don't recognize the name but it's quite possible I have tried that one and just don't remember. "I told you something wasn't right." Yeh, docs should listen more when people say how they feel.
    I couldn't cry for a long time too. I have relentlessly harassed in school my entire childhood and whenever I cried, it would just get worse, so I internalised that crying makes things worse. I think once I only cried once in like a 3 year period.