I just came across your channel and I am so addicted to the way you both look at each other and the truly beautiful, loving and incredible relationship you have as a couple and as a team!!! I can"t wait to see your new beautiful baby! I'm keeping you in my prayers and asking God to wrap his arms around you both, the baby and all your loved ones there with you!!! Gosh you all are truly incredible people!!!! Wishing you the best in the whole world!!! Love you guys already!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Kaylee and Jordan, I remember when my son was born years ago, the surge of intense love that I felt as soon as he was placed on my chest. It's a love I never knew was possible and it never leaves. It makes me tear up just typing this. Your love for each other is so beautiful. Also, I was a flight attendant for 25 years you would be in good hands. Just press that call light! LOL
I had my baby 5 weeks ago. I wanted to do a at home water birth with a midwife. I ended up going into labor and going through it at home in the pool. My baby ended up falling into the wrong position to the side and Sunnyside up when she broke my water so I pushed for like 6 hours with no progress. Ended up transferring to the hospital and getting a c section. I remember telling my son in my tummy before he was born that I was okay with how ever he wanted to come even if it needed to be a c section. It really helped me gain a lot of peace with what happened. Sending lots of love to you guys during this exciting time💖
I'm from the Netherlands and homebirth with a midwife is a pretty normal thing here. I had both of my sons in the comfort of my one home and that was an awesome experience.However its very inportant to have access to a hospital when things are not going according to plan.
I read a book that my doula gave me to read before having my 2nd at home and it opened my eyes to the fact that America is leading (out of industrialized, 1st world countries) in mother and infant deaths due to the Westernized hospital 'service' that they receive! I think most Americans would be SHOCKED to find out just how barbaric our 'system' treats a natural, beautiful process such as pregnancy and birth like it's a disease, instead of how most of Europe and the like are more natural in their approach. The humanity of birthing has been removed by our modern, Western methods. (Nice name BTW, I'm an "Ingrid" as well!)
Yep, not unusual in the UK too. And midwives are always involved in the birth wherever it is. In my case I had the most intervention you can get without a C-section as I got to 16 days overdue and had to be induced on a drip, so I had a "Consultant led" birth. But even then I met him for 5 minutes and it was otherwise midwife led. You are young, fit and healthy so why not try it ( I was 38 and not so healthy)? You can still access hospital if need be. I had no choice but really didn't enjoy my hospital experience. Also intrigues me that people are wondering why you don't marry first, that's up to you!
Exactly! I could’ve posted this. Two kids, home births, Netherlands. Americans can really make a birth into a scary thing. It’s a natural beautiful thing and yes there could be complications, but they’re less likely than a natural process. A hospital not too far away is good enough. You can do it if that’s what you want Kaylee.
Likewise, 2 beautiful Dutch homebirths here. It's not roulette, there's a strict protocol. There are many checks in advance to make sure it's completely safe and there is a strict protocol to follow when progress at home is not as expected. Remember that Hospitals are not always the safest place for different reasons (infections, medical error, swapping). Birth is a natural, not a medical thing. For sure it's required to have knowledge around, hence the midwives. Beautiful people. Can only recommend.
thank you for sharing this. the KIDS need to hear this that it is MUCH more common and safe than people think. (of course they have very strict safety protocols in place too, as they said over and over) 60+ years ago, going back in history, EVERYONE was born at home.
Your love and commitment to eachother sparkles through and through. Your energy together is beautiful. Sadie has chosen two beautiful people for her parents. No matter how anxious you may feel at times weather it's prior or after the birthing process, just remind yourself of the intentions for your baby. If I can feel the love that you guys exude simply by watching this video then the level of it in your presence is limitless and immeasurable. Two beautiful souls. Thank you for making our world a little bit brighter.
I love you guys and so excited for your journey! I had my daughter at home 25 years ago, in Maine, in a cabin that I built in the woods with no running water or electricity. I had a midwife and a Doula. My mother and my best friend were also there with me for a very long labor. It was a warm sunny June day, it was a beautiful experience I wouldn't have had it any other way! I wish you all the best!!
Loved this video, you're both just such sweet humans. I imagine that home birth is a big deal for your families but I love that you went out of your way to explain it to them and help them get used to the idea. Praying everything goes smoothly for you both.
I was talked out of a natural birth and have always felt sad I didn't do things on my terms. So I wish you the absolute best. Sending lots of love your way
You two are already married in spirit. Looks like you are planning a beautiful birth. I would recommend touring your local hospital maternity ward. They are usually beautiful with private birthing rooms that is like a small hotel room with a place for dad to stay as well. That way if you have to go there you will know what to expect and your anxiety level will be less. Hopefully your home birth will be successful, it's a beautiful way to bring new life into the world.
That is a lie from the pit of Hell! Marriage is covenant vows taken in the presence of the Lord, between one man and one woman. 1 Corinthians 6:9 tells us the fornicators and adulterers will not inherit the Kingdom of God(they will go to Hell). In the end your opinion or mine will matter not it is the opinion of a Holy God who can not have sin in His presence!
@@TheTuttleCrew You should delete your statement. It is passing judgment, it's mean and hateful. We have a strict no cyberbullying rule here. I'm good with God. My teachings tell me to be loving, supportive, giving and kind. You sir are already in hell. Go away.
My baby was huge and got stuck and his heart rate dropped. I was grateful for an emergency c section. Just make sure you do lots of research. Make sure u are 5-10 mins from a hospital and be flexible. It’s a very intense experience and it’s hard to keep track of time and make decisions when it’s all happening. I wish u the best of this experience ❤️
Exactly, any mishap and get to the hospital , midwifes often delay too long ( professional pride) ask any Obs and Gyne doctor. Kayleigh won’t be able to make decisions, Jordan, you have to call it.
Exactly. Stay away from hospital. Some doctors intentionally make complicated delivery and unnecessary procedures like circumcision or removal of spinal fluids to the babies to sale it and charge more money to the insurance.
@@neliosamch3195 unnecessary procedures is a USA thing, no such incentive in UK. It’s the father that needs to be clued up, and advocate woman/child’s interest. Mother is likely not in a state to do that, it’s likely her most dangerous and emotional day of her life
I had my third baby at home. It was my biggest baby (8 pounds) and my easiest delivery and also my shortest recovery time! Don’t let anyone scare you into a hospital birth! Being comfortable at home with less anxiety makes everything go so much easier( so many hospita complications are from the anxiety of being in a strange place) . Don’t let anyone else’s story scare you from your home birth.
Go for it ! I got my first child almost 30 years ago in Bali at home ( I was living tere at the time) with a Indonesian midfife, I'm french. And it was the most powerfull experience I had in my life
I am so proud of you both for figuring out what you want and what works for you. I had babies almost 30 years ago, without much thought of how any of it would go. The first two were in a hospital and awful births. With my third I had a midwife but also in the hospital. While it was much better… It was certainly not a homebirth. That would’ve been much more peaceful! I am in your cheering section all the way!!! You keep doing you. You are both smart and wise. Love you both💕
Hey you guys, my family has followed your channel here in the UK since finding you on Trent & Allie & we all want to thank you for this latest beautiful video, being so honest as always & of course, never following tradition but your heart. I have even subscribed personally ( I am 65 & never normally sub, I just watch with my Grandkids ) but everyone is so overjoyed at your situation that after financial easing from the pandemic, we will join your patreon community as well. We love how you both work so hard & Kaylee is so at home with no makeup, welding, farming etc but still looking gorgeous, & my girls think the same of Jordan, but my how you both scrub up, Kaylee has absolutely blossomed during her pregnancy, & the moments of meeting everyone brought us all to tears. We will continue our support there or back in the States because you are so inspirational. Good luck with everything & God Bless.
Here in The Netherlands, most woman have their child at home. I had our two daughters at home and indeed it was such a great experience. No drugs, all natural. So peaceful and at your own pace. I wish for you a magical birth.
I and most of my friends have done homebirths (living in Amsterdam this is relatively normal). Both went perfect! First one in the bath, with a midwife, next one was too quick for that, but she was also born at home. And it is so great to be in your own environment !😘
The more I watch your channel the more I love you both and Lola,your friends. I pray the very best in your delivery. That baby will be so loved and so beautiful just like her mommy and daddy.
My friends always call “Whole Foods” “Whole Paycheck!” Very exciting for you to see family and to make decisions for the birth of your child! Coming home is always a good feeling!! You two are strong in your convictions and will be successful at anything you put your minds and hearts to!
Hey Jordan and Kaylee, I think it's great you are going back to the U.S. to have your first baby. I know both of your families will be happy about it. Hopefully when the time comes to have the next one you can do it in Panama. It will be great for the child in the future if they live in America to say they were born in another country. I know people here in Thailand that have like 5 kids and every one of them was born in a different country and their names reflect the country they were born in. I think that's kind of neat. Jordan, don't worry about not having pants on, I'm watching you guys and I don't have pants on either. Lol
I being the first American citizen born in my family on American soil. Would advise that you have all your children on American soil. My brother was born in the Canal Zone in Panama a U.S. Territory at the time (1969) and has run into problems at times proving his US citizenship. For government jobs passports etc. Me never an issue. Just my my 2 cents.
My mom was a midwife, but unfortunately passed away (cancer) before I had my first baby. The midwife who trained her and who had my mom deliver her baby, offered to be my midwife, so I had a homebirth with my son, 17 years ago. I ended up having a homebirth at my dad's house because my ex and I had separated, and it was magical and also the hardest thing I've ever done. I was in labour for 80+ hours, but there were no complications, and I'm sure if I'd been in a hospital it would have ended in a c-section due to the length of labouring and how slowly it progressed, so no regrets. Listen to your body, listen to your heart. You've got this.
Best wishes for a happy, healthy baby! In my humble opinion, you two have been married for a long time. I will watch your videos no matter what you're doing! Love it all!
Your opinion will not matter! It is the opinion of a Holy God whose opinion is the only one that matters and He has a lot to say about sin expecially sexually sin! See 1 Corinthians 6: 9 to read how they will not inherit the Kingdom of God (unless you turn from sin that is repenting and make Jesus the Lord of your life you are going to Hell for your sins.
So happy for you and the changes taking place. Don't worry we will all be here watching it doesn't matter where you guys are we will be here to support you! How exciting!
I’m really happy for you both, PLEASE say you are taking Lola with you. She has travelled everywhere-with you as a support dog, please don’t leave her behind. She will miss you so much. Good luck making your plans!so exciting xxx
Awesome!!! ❤️❤️❤️ I had 2 at hospital and 2 at home, wish I could of had all 4 at home. So much more flexibility, such as laboring how you want, water births, delayed umbilical cord clamping, etc. Having a professional doula just shows how well thought out and researched you are. ❤️❤️ Y’all got this!! ❤️❤️
We watched the sunrise under our mulberry tree after I home birthed my firstborn at 4:30 am in central California foothills. Birds singing, fresh air and the piece of home welcomed our son.
Your hearts shine through these videos AND they are very beautiful hearts….You two are creating an awesome family… the home you are creating in Panama for you, your children, friends and furry family is AWESOME! Much love coming straight at ya! 🌀❤️🌀
Love watching you guys, cannot wait to see the baby. I genuinely laugh out loud so often, I am 82 yrs young live in Florida, what you kids are doing is really great!!
Yes they have been given birth for well before the human race really. Except Died in childbirth was written on a lot of death certificates especially first time mothers.
@@BPDBRETT I agree though childbirth at home is relatively safe there is no doubt that a hospital is safer for both the mother and child. Plus I wonder if this full and frank discussion discussed the level of pain and other fun titbits like pooping herself vaginal tears etc I mean as a bonding experience it rates up there with front line combat With my last wife they wanted to deliver on the ward not the delivery rooms this at the time was inexplicable to me since the Delivery rooms were empty and their reasoning was what if a pregnant woman came in for an emergency well there was a pregnant woman upstairs in Labour. I actually forced them to do so as I told them that then I would discharge the wife them wheel her down to the delivery room as an emergency where they would have no choice as cant admit a woman in active labour to a ward. Plus the other woman would be spooked having to listen to my wife give birth. Later I worked it out in that my wife had told them that she wasn't sure of the paternity and I may kick off and a ward was safer for the staff. She was not aware that I knew she did not know who the dad was and if it was literally her other "Husband" due to skin colour it would be evident the second the baby was born. However even with the questionable paternity I made sure she got a proper delivery room with all the equipment there and in privacy because this gave her and the baby the best possible chance. BTW I found out many years later she had arranged a place to stay if it had come out the wrong colour. I also say husband because they were married in a religious and not legal ceremony and she was even sending him money. Also at the time a Pre natal paternity test carried a small but significant chance of hurting the baby and I also did not want to stress out a pregnant woman.
You two are amazing! The positive attitude you two have going through your journey in life is what everyone seeks to have. It’s so refreshing to follow you two, which I have since before the “Just Belizin” times! Much love and health to you always. ♥️
the mother of my childes are have done two homebirth. my mindset was tatally for hospital. but there was 1 sentence of the midwife that changed my mind. she said beeing pregnant is not being ill. so what for a hospital when all signes showing ok for that. it was a wonderfull experience and iam so glad that this was the way we got our two kids. go for it. if every thing is ok. have fun
yep. typical. women got PUSHED OUT of this realm by MEN who thought/think they know better. also up til about 60 years ago ALL births were home births. hospitals are NOT safer. usa is 33 in infant mortality. BAM.
Adorable, you two!! I am not one for the status-quo either. 5 of my six sons were born at home. I love being in on this exciting journey you are on! Thank you for sharing your beautiful lives with us!
Jordan already has the 'parent hearing' abilities. Right in the middle of the conversation with his back turned he stops turns around, "Lola!", because she was doing something she wasn't supposed to be doing, and then he resumes talking to the camera. Hilarious.
@@barrypeterson5482 Commitment to each other or devotion to a child doesn't come from a piece of paper. This is their life and it is definitely not bogus. Get over yourself.
@@williamhudson4938 We’re agreeing with @Barry Peterson. Marriage is not just a trivial piece of paper nor bringing a child into a harsh enough World deserves both Father and Mother. In no way attacking your comment William. More stability anymore, the better. Kids these days have it hard enough. Why not have the loving support of both parents.. Just my opinion.
So very exciting! Having the two of you back in Massachusetts and close to family and so close to amazing health care is very cool. It's ridiculous how important the two, three, four, all of you are to my wife and I. Have fun and good luck! You two have started something so very special and worked so hard to do it.
usa is 33 in infant mortality. the home birth is actually SIGNIFICANTLY safer than a US HOSPITAL.with DR's catering more to their T time and scheduling MASS unnecessary c-sections. you are brainwashed.
You guys are so funny and so believable but believable but I don't know why other people other people have thumbs down on your post. I hope to see you guys back and better and stronger than ever!
My oldest daughter got pregnant last year in the spring. She was 37 at the time, and planned everything just the way you have, with a dula and midwife, except she was going to birth at a birthing center. When she went into labor everything went south quickly and she couldn’t do any of the things she planned, and had an emergency c-section on Christmas Eve. My deepest wish and hope for you is that all your plans work perfectly for you and your little one!
oh man its not about comfort, its about how quickly you can get into surgery in case you need a caesarian (we just went through this and were VERY glad to be into the OR in less than 10 min)...
For that reason, birthing centers are often right next to hospitals. Personally, I would like to see them in a birthing center or hospital. Hospital birthing rooms are very different from the regular hospital rooms. Much nicer, and often like hotel rooms.
The way you guys talk to us and include us just so authentic and so heartfelt. Sending you all the very positive blessings a vibrations for a safe birth🥳🌻☀️ what a happy child they are going to be! ❤️
OMG how grounded, smart you are such a young age, how selfless, and all around you two are the perfect humans I have ever got to know. THANK YOU, THANK YOU for letting us share in your life's journey.
All four of my siblings and I were born at home. My son was breech and it was awful at the hospital. My sisters had 5 of their kids at home and it was so much nicer. Totally do it and enjoy!
You need to watch " Call the Midwife" Seriously....having hospital births is only been popular the last 50-60 years! Mankind sure has been around much longer....you guys have this in the bag!!!!!
@@dougiewugs They get paid a normal monthly wage here in UK. They are nurses who have extra training in childbirth, babies and pre & post natal care. Usually you meet your midwife/childbirth team months before delivery date & pre-natal classes are available for both parents...your preferred delivery plan is also set up.
...my sister and I planned for my neices birth for MONTHS! Yet in the end my neice wanted to come early, and I delivered her in the mountain cabin. It was PERFECT! Because that was how it was supposed to be... Your child is very special! A star seed child. Namaste my beauty filled friends💖👁✌✨🙌
Even though there may be a multitude of vids of other couples discussing their birthing plans, yours is VERY special. I have followed your lives in Panama since the beginning and this offering of explaining your plans at length is perfect and so much appreciated. Thank you, THANK YOU!!!!
We had all three of our sons at home. And the first one had the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck so we had to wait for everything to come at once. He was as black as a piece of coal when he came out but came through it just fine. Our midwife was the best we could have asked for. She knew exactly what to do!
Love to see you following what's right for both of you! Continue on your chosen path as each person's journey and decisions are a gift to be cherished.
This is a beautiful plan and what a treat for the family to be there. The hospital is in the background just in case but I know this is going to be a beautiful home experience ❣️
The water situation happened to me when I Went to El Salvador, I had to throw away everything. Oh man Lola and the pups will miss you guys! 🤭 I hope all the plans come along well
@@NomadicMovement awesome!!! Can’t wait for the upcoming videos with news and updates! And seeing y’all go back to Panama with baby! Another journey! Yayyy
Your works of art creating a masterpiece thank you if more people were like you what a wonderful world this would be PRICELESS thank you back to the ways it used to be
The water reduces pain immensely. I greatly advise the same method...although my darn water heating element broke the day of the event, so my child's pool full of water wasn't quite as warm as I'd hoped! LOL!
My grand ma gave birth in that way, they Live in the countryside and she delivered 21 kids, y es! 21 times , women were stronger and healthier than now.....my grandma is still Alive 96 y.o. and i feel so proud of her, she is in great shape, no sick, keep walking no need of someone around to help her, when i ask her what is her secret , she said she is healthy cos several pregnencies and gave birth in the natural way,
The Commitment has already been made. The commitment is the most important part of a relationship. Know that the marriage is more about family and friends and making it legal.
But they're going to have a cold wakening if they split up in Panama. With everything in his name and not being married she has nothing. Even custody will be an uphill battle for her.
@@gufredd9675 if you look at life always thinking about what might go wrong you will miss out on the joy. Even biblical teaching the marriage is about joining and has nothing to do with the legal side.
Not sure I feel like you're my kids or my brother and sister but SO happy you share your life with us. All good things in the coming months and can't wait for the newest member of your farm family!
@@kimberlyearly8918 I missed it too but I was wondering if she was tagging along for the ride. Either way, the beautiful community they've created in Panama, Lola is loved by all and would be taken care of very well either way.
I had a mid wife an loved her I was suffering from depression beforenI got pregnant and a ED so my mid wife was such a Blessing her name was Beth my middle name is Beth so I was like its a sign bc I am very spiritual. I was 20 when I had my daughter having a Eating Disorder and getting pregnant at 20 with depression my mid wife made sure I was in the right mental state before, durning, and after having my daughter! Such a beautiful woman!
This is very true. In the middle of my home birth, I hit a moment of panic when the head was having issues coming through fully. I looked at her in a mild panic and she just smiled reassuringly and told me that I was doing great. No barking of orders, no condemnation, no telling me to remove people from the room...just a quiet, calm professional cheerleader, only stepping in and telling me what to do when it was necessary. Her psychological support was more than I expected, which ALSO freed up my husband to just experience it with me, instead of having to be responsible for my mental health...which also made the process more wonderful for the father-to-be! :-)
Thank you for being smart and caring enough to seek medical assistance for this special time. I used to follow and watch a raw foodist family that lived in Ecuador chasing after the same dreams. Their first child was a total home birth without any medical anything. They did it themselves and it went fine. But the second pregnancy was not so lucky and they lost twin babies in the third trimester. I have to catch up on what you guys are doing, missed about a year of updates. Love to you all. It is a pleasure to join in on your life adventures. Thank you for sharing. THIS is the true reality tv!!!
I had all 3 of my kids with a midwife and it was amazing. Two were born at home and one was a planned home birth but I had to go to the hospital due to a mild complication. Still all natural and with the amazing midwife. Your body knows exactly what to do. Trust it’s inner knowing. This is going to be a beautiful moment for both of you.
I live in Vermont and I think it's so underrated! If you come back to the states some day this is a perfect place for a similar lifestyle you're leading (except winter).
Oh how I adore you two! You don't owe us any explanation for the personal choices you make about your lives. But, it is really fun to be included on why you decided to do what your doing. Keep up the beautiful work and thank you for sharing your lives with us!💚💚💚
Love to you both! I was a midwife for 25 years. I caught over 1,000 babies, most of them in a water bath. You`ll do great!
I just came across your channel and I am so addicted to the way you both look at each other and the truly beautiful, loving and incredible relationship you have as a couple and as a team!!! I can"t wait to see your new beautiful baby! I'm keeping you in my prayers and asking God to wrap his arms around you both, the baby and all your loved ones there with you!!! Gosh you all are truly incredible people!!!! Wishing you the best in the whole world!!! Love you guys already!!!! ❤❤❤❤
I love the innocence of first time parents♥️ y’all do what your hearts and intuition tell you to and it’ll all work out the way it’s supposed to.
You are such a special couple
The love between you two shines
Kaylee and Jordan, I remember when my son was born years ago, the surge of intense love that I felt as soon as he was placed on my chest. It's a love I never knew was possible and it never leaves. It makes me tear up just typing this. Your love for each other is so beautiful. Also, I was a flight attendant for 25 years you would be in good hands. Just press that call light! LOL
I had my baby 5 weeks ago. I wanted to do a at home water birth with a midwife. I ended up going into labor and going through it at home in the pool. My baby ended up falling into the wrong position to the side and Sunnyside up when she broke my water so I pushed for like 6 hours with no progress. Ended up transferring to the hospital and getting a c section. I remember telling my son in my tummy before he was born that I was okay with how ever he wanted to come even if it needed to be a c section. It really helped me gain a lot of peace with what happened. Sending lots of love to you guys during this exciting time💖
I'm from the Netherlands and homebirth with a midwife is a pretty normal thing here. I had both of my sons in the comfort of my one home and that was an awesome experience.However its very inportant to have access to a hospital when things are not going according to plan.
I read a book that my doula gave me to read before having my 2nd at home and it opened my eyes to the fact that America is leading (out of industrialized, 1st world countries) in mother and infant deaths due to the Westernized hospital 'service' that they receive! I think most Americans would be SHOCKED to find out just how barbaric our 'system' treats a natural, beautiful process such as pregnancy and birth like it's a disease, instead of how most of Europe and the like are more natural in their approach. The humanity of birthing has been removed by our modern, Western methods. (Nice name BTW, I'm an "Ingrid" as well!)
Yep, not unusual in the UK too. And midwives are always involved in the birth wherever it is. In my case I had the most intervention you can get without a C-section as I got to 16 days overdue and had to be induced on a drip, so I had a "Consultant led" birth. But even then I met him for 5 minutes and it was otherwise midwife led. You are young, fit and healthy so why not try it ( I was 38 and not so healthy)? You can still access hospital if need be. I had no choice but really didn't enjoy my hospital experience. Also intrigues me that people are wondering why you don't marry first, that's up to you!
Exactly! I could’ve posted this. Two kids, home births, Netherlands. Americans can really make a birth into a scary thing. It’s a natural beautiful thing and yes there could be complications, but they’re less likely than a natural process. A hospital not too far away is good enough. You can do it if that’s what you want Kaylee.
Likewise, 2 beautiful Dutch homebirths here. It's not roulette, there's a strict protocol. There are many checks in advance to make sure it's completely safe and there is a strict protocol to follow when progress at home is not as expected.
Remember that Hospitals are not always the safest place for different reasons (infections, medical error, swapping). Birth is a natural, not a medical thing. For sure it's required to have knowledge around, hence the midwives. Beautiful people. Can only recommend.
Yes, also 3 homebirths in NL
Im so happy for you guys to be having a homebirth. My daughter is a new doula and is with her first baby and the parents right now. God bless 🙏🏾
thank you for sharing this. the KIDS need to hear this that it is MUCH more common and safe than people think. (of course they have very strict safety protocols in place too, as they said over and over)
60+ years ago, going back in history, EVERYONE was born at home.
Your love and commitment to eachother sparkles through and through. Your energy together is beautiful. Sadie has chosen two beautiful people for her parents. No matter how anxious you may feel at times weather it's prior or after the birthing process, just remind yourself of the intentions for your baby. If I can feel the love that you guys exude simply by watching this video then the level of it in your presence is limitless and immeasurable. Two beautiful souls. Thank you for making our world a little bit brighter.
Amen Roberta !!
I love you guys and so excited for your journey! I had my daughter at home 25 years ago, in Maine, in a cabin that I built in the woods with no running water or electricity. I had a midwife and a Doula. My mother and my best friend were also there with me for a very long labor. It was a warm sunny June day, it was a beautiful experience I wouldn't have had it any other way! I wish you all the best!!
Loved this video, you're both just such sweet humans. I imagine that home birth is a big deal for your families but I love that you went out of your way to explain it to them and help them get used to the idea. Praying everything goes smoothly for you both.
My daughter was born at 25 weeks. Egg plant is about right. 😆 You are looking healthy and radiant. Thank you so much for taking us on your journey.
I love how Kaylee stares at Jordan when he’s speaking. So much love! 🌞
I was talked out of a natural birth and have always felt sad I didn't do things on my terms. So I wish you the absolute best. Sending lots of love your way
You two are already married in spirit. Looks like you are planning a beautiful birth. I would recommend touring your local hospital maternity ward. They are usually beautiful with private birthing rooms that is like a small hotel room with a place for dad to stay as well. That way if you have to go there you will know what to expect and your anxiety level will be less. Hopefully your home birth will be successful, it's a beautiful way to bring new life into the world.
Well written and some wise words! Well done!
That is a lie from the pit of Hell! Marriage is covenant vows taken in the presence of the Lord, between one man and one woman. 1 Corinthians 6:9 tells us the fornicators and adulterers will not inherit the Kingdom of God(they will go to Hell). In the end your opinion or mine will matter not it is the opinion of a Holy God who can not have sin in His presence!
@@TheTuttleCrew You should delete your statement. It is passing judgment, it's mean and hateful. We have a strict no cyberbullying rule here. I'm good with God. My teachings tell me to be loving, supportive, giving and kind. You sir are already in hell. Go away.
@@TheTuttleCrew You have been reported as a cyberbully.
@@tamara8908 not my opinion but Gods take it up with HIM. “Some day every knee will bow and every tong will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord.”
This video made me cry tears of joy. Thank you for sharing this exciting and special moment in your lives.
My baby was huge and got stuck and his heart rate dropped. I was grateful for an emergency c section. Just make sure you do lots of research. Make sure u are 5-10 mins from a hospital and be flexible. It’s a very intense experience and it’s hard to keep track of time and make decisions when it’s all happening. I wish u the best of this experience ❤️
Exactly, any mishap and get to the hospital , midwifes often delay too long ( professional pride) ask any Obs and Gyne doctor. Kayleigh won’t be able to make decisions, Jordan, you have to call it.
@@Lilrom2003 Completely agree. Hospital is the safest option for a whole host of reasons.
Exactly. Stay away from hospital. Some doctors intentionally make complicated delivery and unnecessary procedures like circumcision or removal of spinal fluids to the babies to sale it and charge more money to the insurance.
Same thing happened to me Penny. I was glad I was in the hospital here in Ontario.
@@neliosamch3195 unnecessary procedures is a USA thing, no such incentive in UK. It’s the father that needs to be clued up, and advocate woman/child’s interest. Mother is likely not in a state to do that, it’s likely her most dangerous and emotional day of her life
I had my third baby at home. It was my biggest baby (8 pounds) and my easiest delivery and also my shortest recovery time! Don’t let anyone scare you into a hospital birth! Being comfortable at home with less anxiety makes everything go so much easier( so many hospita complications are from the anxiety of being in a strange place) . Don’t let anyone else’s story scare you from your home birth.
I wish my dad was still here to hug. This brings tears to my eyes. you guys are amazing 💕💕💕💕
Agreed. I wish my dad was still here as well♥💛♥
You guys are doing brilliant....congratulations.
Two beautiful people who have a great relationship. The next few months will be a roller coaster of emotions . We're with you 100 percent.
Go for it ! I got my first child almost 30 years ago in Bali at home ( I was living tere at the time) with a Indonesian midfife, I'm french. And it was the most powerfull experience I had in my life
I am so proud of you both for figuring out what you want and what works for you. I had babies almost 30 years ago, without much thought of how any of it would go. The first two were in a hospital and awful births. With my third I had a midwife but also in the hospital. While it was much better… It was certainly not a homebirth. That would’ve been much more peaceful! I am in your cheering section all the way!!! You keep doing you. You are both smart and wise. Love you both💕
Hey you guys, my family has followed your channel here in the UK since finding you on Trent & Allie & we all want to thank you for this latest beautiful video, being so honest as always & of course, never following tradition but your heart. I have even subscribed personally ( I am 65 & never normally sub, I just watch with my Grandkids ) but everyone is so overjoyed at your situation that after financial easing from the pandemic, we will join your patreon community as well. We love how you both work so hard & Kaylee is so at home with no makeup, welding, farming etc but still looking gorgeous, & my girls think the same of Jordan, but my how you both scrub up, Kaylee has absolutely blossomed during her pregnancy, & the moments of meeting everyone brought us all to tears. We will continue our support there or back in the States because you are so inspirational. Good luck with everything & God Bless.
Here in The Netherlands, most woman have their child at home. I had our two daughters at home and indeed it was such a great experience. No drugs, all natural. So peaceful and at your own pace. I wish for you a magical birth.
You guys are such clear and concise communicators with the right amount of humor. I’m excited for you guys and am along for the journey. Cheers! 🍻
I and most of my friends have done homebirths (living in Amsterdam this is relatively normal). Both went perfect! First one in the bath, with a midwife, next one was too quick for that, but she was also born at home. And it is so great to be in your own environment !😘
YESSSSSSSSSSS
I love my epideral!! Druggggggs
The more I watch your channel the more I love you both and Lola,your friends.
I pray the very best in your delivery. That baby will be so loved and so beautiful just like her mommy and daddy.
My friends always call “Whole Foods” “Whole Paycheck!” Very exciting for you to see family and to make decisions for the birth of your child! Coming home is always a good feeling!! You two are strong in your convictions and will be successful at anything you put your minds and hearts to!
NOT whole paycheck. just WHOLE CHECK. ugh.
I had a home waterbirtth and it was litterally the best dicision I have ever made. So beautiful! So impowering! Congratulations!!
Hey Jordan and Kaylee, I think it's great you are going back to the U.S. to have your first baby. I know both of your families will be happy about it. Hopefully when the time comes to have the next one you can do it in Panama. It will be great for the child in the future if they live in America to say they were born in another country.
I know people here in Thailand that have like 5 kids and every one of them was born in a different country and their names reflect the country they were born in. I think that's kind of neat.
Jordan, don't worry about not having pants on, I'm watching you guys and I don't have pants on either.
Lol
I being the first American citizen born in my family on American soil. Would advise that you have all your children on American soil. My brother was born in the Canal Zone in Panama a U.S. Territory at the time (1969) and has run into problems at times proving his US citizenship. For government jobs passports etc. Me never an issue. Just my my 2 cents.
My mom was a midwife, but unfortunately passed away (cancer) before I had my first baby. The midwife who trained her and who had my mom deliver her baby, offered to be my midwife, so I had a homebirth with my son, 17 years ago. I ended up having a homebirth at my dad's house because my ex and I had separated, and it was magical and also the hardest thing I've ever done. I was in labour for 80+ hours, but there were no complications, and I'm sure if I'd been in a hospital it would have ended in a c-section due to the length of labouring and how slowly it progressed, so no regrets. Listen to your body, listen to your heart. You've got this.
Best wishes for a happy, healthy baby! In my humble opinion, you two have been married for a long time. I will watch your videos no matter what you're doing! Love it all!
Your opinion will not matter! It is the opinion of a Holy God whose opinion is the only one that matters and He has a lot to say about sin expecially sexually sin! See 1 Corinthians 6:
9 to read how they will not inherit the Kingdom of God (unless you turn from sin that is repenting and make Jesus the Lord of your life you are going to Hell for your sins.
So happy for you and the changes taking place. Don't worry we will all be here watching it doesn't matter where you guys are we will be here to support you! How exciting!
Vermont is beautiful but that clip of the sunset over the clouds is pretty darned impressive.
I’m really happy for you both, PLEASE say you are taking Lola with you. She has travelled everywhere-with you as a support dog, please don’t leave her behind. She will miss you so much.
Good luck making your plans!so exciting xxx
I MISS UR BEAUTIFUL SINGING.. Congratulations on your beautiful daughter..
Awesome!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I had 2 at hospital and 2 at home, wish I could of had all 4 at home. So much more flexibility, such as laboring how you want, water births, delayed umbilical cord clamping, etc. Having a professional doula just shows how well thought out and researched you are. ❤️❤️ Y’all got this!! ❤️❤️
I miss Kaylee singing voice. I was watching y'all older videos and realized that we haven't heard her fabulous voice in song.
I miss her angelic voice too. Hopefully she'll start singing lullabies to Sadie soon and we'll get to listen!
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I love this video…. I’ve missed the life chats! I do love watching the farm come together but I’ve really missed this type of video
We watched the sunrise under our mulberry tree after I home birthed my firstborn at 4:30 am in central California foothills. Birds singing, fresh air and the piece of home welcomed our son.
Your hearts shine through these videos AND they are very beautiful hearts….You two are creating an awesome family… the home you are creating in Panama for you, your children, friends and furry family is AWESOME! Much love coming straight at ya! 🌀❤️🌀
Just think about how amazing it’s going to be when you guys and your new baby get to come home to Panama ‼️❤️
We can’t wait!!!
Love watching you guys, cannot wait to see the baby. I genuinely laugh out loud so often, I am 82 yrs young live in Florida, what you kids are doing is really great!!
Trust your body, you can do this, women have been having babies at home for hundreds of years.
Tens of thousands 💁🏼♀️
Yes they have been given birth for well before the human race really. Except Died in childbirth was written on a lot of death certificates especially first time mothers.
Mothers also died in childbirth in a somewhat regular manner. Why would you want to take that risk while you live in a modern world?
@@BPDBRETT I agree though childbirth at home is relatively safe there is no doubt that a hospital is safer for both the mother and child. Plus I wonder if this full and frank discussion discussed the level of pain and other fun titbits like pooping herself vaginal tears etc I mean as a bonding experience it rates up there with front line combat
With my last wife they wanted to deliver on the ward not the delivery rooms this at the time was inexplicable to me since the Delivery rooms were empty and their reasoning was what if a pregnant woman came in for an emergency well there was a pregnant woman upstairs in Labour. I actually forced them to do so as I told them that then I would discharge the wife them wheel her down to the delivery room as an emergency where they would have no choice as cant admit a woman in active labour to a ward. Plus the other woman would be spooked having to listen to my wife give birth.
Later I worked it out in that my wife had told them that she wasn't sure of the paternity and I may kick off and a ward was safer for the staff. She was not aware that I knew she did not know who the dad was and if it was literally her other "Husband" due to skin colour it would be evident the second the baby was born. However even with the questionable paternity I made sure she got a proper delivery room with all the equipment there and in privacy because this gave her and the baby the best possible chance. BTW I found out many years later she had arranged a place to stay if it had come out the wrong colour. I also say husband because they were married in a religious and not legal ceremony and she was even sending him money. Also at the time a Pre natal paternity test carried a small but significant chance of hurting the baby and I also did not want to stress out a pregnant woman.
You two are amazing! The positive attitude you two have going through your journey in life is what everyone seeks to have. It’s so refreshing to follow you two, which I have since before the “Just Belizin” times! Much love and health to you always. ♥️
the mother of my childes are have done two homebirth. my mindset was tatally for hospital. but there was 1 sentence of the midwife that changed my mind. she said beeing pregnant is not being ill. so what for a hospital when all signes showing ok for that. it was a wonderfull experience and iam so glad that this was the way we got our two kids. go for it. if every thing is ok. have fun
Congratulations on your baby! I have been watching your friend “ Trent & Allie” since last year and started watching your channel!🦋🌹
Just to remind everyone , The midwife is not an alternative method , it's the ancient and normal way .
yep. typical. women got PUSHED OUT of this realm by MEN who thought/think they know better.
also up til about 60 years ago ALL births were home births. hospitals are NOT safer. usa is 33 in infant mortality. BAM.
Normal way in New Zealand... I ‘caught’ both of my children...
Unless things go sideways, then it's a rush to the ER.
YESSSS!!
just to remind every one midwife is an alternative choice meaning just what Kaylee said every one has there own opinion and definaition
Adorable, you two!! I am not one for the status-quo either. 5 of my six sons were born at home. I love being in on this exciting journey you are on! Thank you for sharing your beautiful lives with us!
Never miss a chance to yell; "I'm not wearing any pants!"
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He always has such a wonderful sense of humor
Such a beautiful plan, dream, goal 🥰
I’m so excited an honored your sharing this adventure with all of us 💞
Jordan already has the 'parent hearing' abilities. Right in the middle of the conversation with his back turned he stops turns around, "Lola!", because she was doing something she wasn't supposed to be doing, and then he resumes talking to the camera. Hilarious.
Bogus guys. Give the kid a mom & dad. Get married now.
@@barrypeterson5482 Commitment to each other or devotion to a child doesn't come from a piece of paper. This is their life and it is definitely not bogus. Get over yourself.
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@@williamhudson4938 We’re agreeing with @Barry Peterson. Marriage is not just a trivial piece of paper nor bringing a child into a harsh enough World deserves both Father and Mother. In no way attacking your comment William. More stability anymore, the better. Kids these days have it hard enough. Why not have the loving support of both parents..
Just my opinion.
The baby already has a father and mother. Jorden and Kaylee are committed to each other and to their baby.
All the very best on this next chapter. I am pulling for you and your Panama dream!
So very exciting! Having the two of you back in Massachusetts and close to family and so close to amazing health care is very cool. It's ridiculous how important the two, three, four, all of you are to my wife and I. Have fun and good luck! You two have started something so very special and worked so hard to do it.
usa is 33 in infant mortality. the home birth is actually SIGNIFICANTLY safer than a US HOSPITAL.with DR's catering more to their T time and scheduling MASS unnecessary c-sections.
you are brainwashed.
You guys are so funny and so believable but believable but I don't know why other people other people have thumbs down on your post. I hope to see you guys back and better and stronger than ever!
This is so weird in England its completely standard procedure to have a midwife! Xxx
We are doing a home birth this fall, we had our first in a hospital with a midwife. But we are excited to be in the home this time.
My oldest daughter got pregnant last year in the spring. She was 37 at the time, and planned everything just the way you have, with a dula and midwife, except she was going to birth at a birthing center. When she went into labor everything went south quickly and she couldn’t do any of the things she planned, and had an emergency c-section on Christmas Eve. My deepest wish and hope for you is that all your plans work perfectly for you and your little one!
oh man its not about comfort, its about how quickly you can get into surgery in case you need a caesarian (we just went through this and were VERY glad to be into the OR in less than 10 min)...
For that reason, birthing centers are often right next to hospitals. Personally, I would like to see them in a birthing center or hospital. Hospital birthing rooms are very different from the regular hospital rooms. Much nicer, and often like hotel rooms.
@@divekatdreaming yes, we were in a birthing center, attached to a hospital
The way you guys talk to us and include us just so authentic and so heartfelt. Sending you all the very positive blessings a vibrations for a safe birth🥳🌻☀️ what a happy child they are going to be! ❤️
OMG how grounded, smart you are such a young age, how selfless, and all around you two are the perfect humans I have ever got to know. THANK YOU, THANK YOU for letting us share in your life's journey.
Im so happy for you both . What a blessing. Love you all . Glad your going home for your first birth . You kids a awesome . Thanks for sharing.♥
All four of my siblings and I were born at home. My son was breech and it was awful at the hospital. My sisters had 5 of their kids at home and it was so much nicer.
Totally do it and enjoy!
You need to watch " Call the Midwife" Seriously....having hospital births is only been popular the last 50-60 years! Mankind sure has been around much longer....you guys have this in the bag!!!!!
You guys are so smart. You got this amazing journey and are sharing it with us.
Midwives are common place in UK. After delivery you get Mom & baby care from a Health Visitor for a few months through home or clinic visits.
Does a midwife get paid per successful delivery?
@@dougiewugs They get paid a normal monthly wage here in UK. They are nurses who have extra training in childbirth, babies and pre & post natal care. Usually you meet your midwife/childbirth team months before delivery date & pre-natal classes are available for both parents...your preferred delivery plan is also set up.
You both are lovely and truly blessed. Excited for your
baby to arrive!!!
...my sister and I planned for my neices birth for MONTHS! Yet in the end my neice wanted to come early, and I delivered her in the mountain cabin. It was PERFECT! Because that was how it was supposed to be... Your child is very special! A star seed child. Namaste my beauty filled friends💖👁✌✨🙌
I agree!!❤🦋🌈🌈
Even though there may be a multitude of vids of other couples discussing their birthing plans, yours is VERY special. I have followed your lives in Panama since the beginning and this offering of explaining your plans at length is perfect and so much appreciated. Thank you, THANK YOU!!!!
We had all three of our sons at home. And the first one had the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck so we had to wait for everything to come at once. He was as black as a piece of coal when he came out but came through it just fine. Our midwife was the best we could have asked for. She knew exactly what to do!
Love to see you following what's right for both of you! Continue on your chosen path as each person's journey and decisions are a gift to be cherished.
Wishing you both all the best!! Really love watching your adventures! :)
This is a beautiful plan and what a treat for the family to be there. The hospital is in the background just in case but I know this is going to be a beautiful home experience ❣️
My daughter had three home births, they were amazing to experience at home. Wishing you the best!
CONGRATULATIONS!!
Great news all around.
The water situation happened to me when I Went to El Salvador, I had to throw away everything. Oh man Lola and the pups will miss you guys! 🤭 I hope all the plans come along well
Lola is coming with :)
Lola is coming with :)
@@NomadicMovement awesome!!! Can’t wait for the upcoming videos with news and updates! And seeing y’all go back to Panama with baby! Another journey! Yayyy
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@@NomadicMovement I'm so glad!! I was worried about her!
Your works of art creating a masterpiece thank you if more people were like you what a wonderful world this would be PRICELESS thank you back to the ways it used to be
We had 3 homebirths. Midwife, no meds. I suggest a water birth. ❤️
The water reduces pain immensely. I greatly advise the same method...although my darn water heating element broke the day of the event, so my child's pool full of water wasn't quite as warm as I'd hoped! LOL!
You two look so happy and nice to each other.
I had 2 successful planned home births. You go girl!!
My grand ma gave birth in that way, they Live in the countryside and she delivered 21 kids, y es! 21 times , women were stronger and healthier than now.....my grandma is still Alive 96 y.o. and i feel so proud of her, she is in great shape, no sick, keep walking no need of someone around to help her, when i ask her what is her secret , she said she is healthy cos several pregnencies and gave birth in the natural way,
So Happy for u both! And lol on Jordan's mom impersonation 🤣 God Bless🙏🥰
Such an exciting time🙌🏻🥰 we’re behind you guys 💯 %!!
The Commitment has already been made. The commitment is the most important part of a relationship. Know that the marriage is more about family and friends and making it legal.
But they're going to have a cold wakening if they split up in Panama. With everything in his name and not being married she has nothing. Even custody will be an uphill battle for her.
@@gufredd9675 if you look at life always thinking about what might go wrong you will miss out on the joy. Even biblical teaching the marriage is about joining and has nothing to do with the legal side.
Not sure I feel like you're my kids or my brother and sister but SO happy you share your life with us. All good things in the coming months and can't wait for the newest member of your farm family!
So glad Lola is coming to the birth.she will be a great comfort and second mommy!!.
I was wondering if they would be taking her. They didn't say in the video unless I completely zoned out for a second and missed it.
@@kimberlyearly8918 I missed it too but I was wondering if she was tagging along for the ride. Either way, the beautiful community they've created in Panama, Lola is loved by all and would be taken care of very well either way.
You guys are so organized! Thanks for sharing.
I had a mid wife an loved her I was suffering from depression beforenI got pregnant and a ED so my mid wife was such a Blessing her name was Beth my middle name is Beth so I was like its a sign bc I am very spiritual. I was 20 when I had my daughter having a Eating Disorder and getting pregnant at 20 with depression my mid wife made sure I was in the right mental state before, durning, and after having my daughter! Such a beautiful woman!
This is very true. In the middle of my home birth, I hit a moment of panic when the head was having issues coming through fully. I looked at her in a mild panic and she just smiled reassuringly and told me that I was doing great. No barking of orders, no condemnation, no telling me to remove people from the room...just a quiet, calm professional cheerleader, only stepping in and telling me what to do when it was necessary. Her psychological support was more than I expected, which ALSO freed up my husband to just experience it with me, instead of having to be responsible for my mental health...which also made the process more wonderful for the father-to-be! :-)
@@ifinicle that such a beautiful experience! ❤
That is exciting that y'all are going to do this y'all way. And not any other way.
Prayers for a safe journey.
I hope everything goes well for y'all.
Omgosh! Im so excited for you! I just know this birth is going to go so well! Kaylee you are beautiful pregnant! 🤰❤🤰❤
Thank you for being smart and caring enough to seek medical assistance for this special time. I used to follow and watch a raw foodist family that lived in Ecuador chasing after the same dreams. Their first child was a total home birth without any medical anything. They did it themselves and it went fine. But the second pregnancy was not so lucky and they lost twin babies in the third trimester. I have to catch up on what you guys are doing, missed about a year of updates. Love to you all. It is a pleasure to join in on your life adventures. Thank you for sharing. THIS is the true reality tv!!!
I had all 3 of my kids with a midwife and it was amazing. Two were born at home and one was a planned home birth but I had to go to the hospital due to a mild complication. Still all natural and with the amazing midwife. Your body knows exactly what to do. Trust it’s inner knowing. This is going to be a beautiful moment for both of you.
You are glowing! Been watching you guys since your very first video. Love yall.
May the Gods watch over yall and that precious baby.
I live in Vermont and I think it's so underrated! If you come back to the states some day this is a perfect place for a similar lifestyle you're leading (except winter).
Also, I was born at home. We occasionally drive by that house. ☺️
Oh how I adore you two! You don't owe us any explanation for the personal choices you make about your lives. But, it is really fun to be included on why you decided to do what your doing. Keep up the beautiful work and thank you for sharing your lives with us!💚💚💚
I had a wonderful home birth in fiji and my husband help with the delivery, it was the best
I had 4 homebirths and it was so amazing. So happy you are making this choice❤