Oh, bra! It’s just so sad. She did everything to maintain the marriage despite the red flags. Hopefully our sisters will take notes from this sweet lady. I hope God restores everything she lost because if this guy.
Wow. This is a touching story. I believe the lady was blinded by love and thought it would all work out but it did not. I can sense that she has a very very good heart. I even got emotional watching this. May God bless this beautiful woman. Thanks for fostering
My first time witnessing Dj given someone a platform without interacting. Hmmm… this lady needed someone to talk to and by given the platform was amazing. You did a very good job Dj.Keep your head up sis. Everything happens for a reason.
Thank God someone sees 👀 the importance of speaking 🔊 out sometimes 😢Its sad when certain people think 🤔 this show is only about defaming people they fell out with 😢
Life abroad is hard already, we dont need partners that bring more frustration. From the story, this guy got it very easy. Free loader, rent free, user- he will see how life abroad really is. Please, ladies, don't tolerate these abusive partners. Prioritize your peace of mind, health and happiness.
@@keteninnsroja5753am glad you're not taking sides, cause this is nothing new with Ghanaian women when their relationship don't work, then they start to play am the victim game.
Watching from UK, Milton Keynes, the lady is very humble but and downhearted. From day one,the man came to her life with different agenda but not love!
If you’re a woman and you’re desperate for a man, that’s how men will treat you. A man supposed to be a provider and a protector. Women please love yourself and don’t let a man take you for granted, especially a man you take care of. We’re our husbands helper not a provider.
Says who? Who made men providers and women the helpers? Both men and women are working these days. It's not like the olden days where women weren't allowed to work. Therefore both the man and woman are providers. It's 50/50.
Psychologically, low self esteem drives women to settle for less even when the red flags are there. Let's love these men but at the same time, let's love ourselves first too. Our lives also matter. Listening to things like this gets to me. Kindness should have a limit my fellow women and men. Gone are the days our ancestors took bs in the name of marriage.
This lady has been through hell and back. Thank God she still is sane. You are a very great woman! May the good Lord continue to shower His blessings on her.
If this woman had been told by her family in the last minute, she wouldn’t have listened or she would probably consult others who’ll tell her that her family envies her. A woman in love is like a blind bird, they only flutter their wings. Anyways, l can tell she has a good heart. You’ll be alright baby.
It’s not advisable to marry anyone from Ghana. There are so many men and women abroad . People are only desperate to travel and not looking for love. Please stop dating people in Ghana!
Sis, beware of Red Flags in early stages of relationships. He was a Narcissistic Person. Heal yourself very well before you will enter into a new relationship. You've a beautiful soul.
Hmmm, this woman has been through pain, monetary, emotional, psychological trauma but it’s all good my dear sis. God bless you for taking on the responsibility of fostering these children and your work shall never be in vain. As for your husband, hmmm, please don’t stress out, just focus on the kids and keep trusting God. May the lord strengthen you
Good journalism there, God bless you sir, for being so quite for the women to voice out her heart and emotions out. I think it's been of a great therapy to her. Sis trust, you will heal out. Your story is really sad 😥.
My dear sister if what you are saying is exactly how it is then all along you should have known that he was not in the marriage, sorry for what you've been through.
You can still complicate his future citizenship petition and immigration benefits petitions by placing disparaging reports on his USCIS records. Get an appointment and give him hell!
@labeaute312 uscis website. Report fraud. Fill form online yourself and submit. It is easy. You can also forgive him and let God, karma, take its course! Good luck!
There is no perfect 💔 relationship but "Redflags" should not be ignored. Women bringing men from GH is scary and should either desist or be careful. Let men do the move.
To answer, we always need to pray about the person with fasting or seek directions from holy spirit. In proverbs 3v6... its says we must always show our plans to God before moving forward. Our problem is we don't seek the face of God first. God always show us warning. Humans can be wicked. Finally women don't be the man in the relationship. By giving them money buying the cars. Etc etc etc. Men are supposed to be the bread winners with our support.
This is ungratefulness in the highest order. My 90 year old uncle once told me that there're people who only have human skin as covering but inside, they're beasts. This guy's is one of them.
This woman allowed this nonsense to go on for far too long to include finalizing his green card. This guy showed who he was from the beginning including sexually assaulting a child in your care. Finalize the divorce in U.S. court and be done with him permanently. He’s definitely a narcissist!
He’s a user and opportunist Do not take him back, please! If you cannot be by yourself, sis, get a man! He’s not your soulmate your soulmate is out there looking for you and you can get to him once you let go of him. Sis, take care of yourself, you’re beautiful and you’ll definitely meet your soulmate at the right time. Leave him and his ungrateful family’s sorry ass alone. You’ll be fine without them Hugs to you
DJ I commend you for how you allow your interviewees speak without interactions. You are a great listener and i hope this session with our sister heals her from all the pain and betrayal and May the good Lord give her someone deserving of her love.
Cool chop and He abused it big time. Ei,hmmmm! I want to be your friend obaa. Please get in touch wai. You have a good heart and I appreciate it. God bless you
Sister infact you have a heavy heart May God bless you 🙌 🙏 ❤️ .i wish i have your type of heart because if it were me Anka i will never never never do the green card for him,Sister if he sends you insult audio's again,B) No Dua ..papa nye whea bone nso nye wheee.nkwasiasem
I know it’s not easy to pull out of a marriage but you saw a lot of red flags, his parents were in Boston they couldn’t help him there now that you helped him he knew he can go there for refuge, toxic man our own enemy Ghanafour
My dear sister, you did very well. You have not done anything wrong. You have a big heart. You are beautiful inside and out. You are the daughter of the most high God. Don’t take any more abuse from that man. He is sick in the head, a typical Narcissist man. He just wants to control you and make your life miserable. It’s not easy but God will continue to see you through. Stay strong, God will take care of you and your children. It’s better to have your peace of mind and live for your children. You deserve better and know your worth. Remember you are not alone. God bless you with much love.
I am proud of you that you are divorcing him. He is a Narcissist man and that is how they play the victimization. He Will blame you for everything. What he is doing, he will rather accuse you for it. They appear to be so charming and will claim to be a marriage counselor but lack communication skills. They are prideful, egotistic and Mr know it all. Don’t tolerate and do not accept that cheating is ok. There are all sorts of sexual transmitted diseases out there. You are better off without his disrespect and control. God bless you 🙏 Take your time, you are very intelligent and hard working. Don’t rush, at the right time, God will give you someone that will love you as you are and value you.
Sounds like this marriage was doomed right from the beginning, but listen, life goes on my dear, just pick yourself back up and move on, this is not the end of the world, wishing you all the best, don't forget all the lessons learnt, good luck!
Don't ever feel like you wrong him Antie. I can feel your pain and is the reason why i have decided never to marry again and focus on myself and my childeren 😊
The man wasn’t love her and she should know from Ghana, before their marriage and her family did not try not to tell her the truth about him. She should reported him to the police in the place. She made things easy for him that’s why he was treated her anyhow, she should sat down with him and talked to him about everything in the house and helping her paying bills. I feel sorry for her 😮😢
Hmmmm, a lesson to all single women abroad. Never go to Ghana to marry. Find a man who matches your level of exposure abroad. Once you live outside Ghana for a long time, you develop a different culture, different the the typical Ghana culture. Marrying a man who has no exposure to your level of exposure will always create problems. Their insecurities or ego will cause them to find problems with you. And also, to our Ghanaian family who like saying "Nyame b3 y3" in tough situations like this need to stop..when a lady notices a man is not good or safe for her, please beleive her and leave her alone. Don't push a husband on them because at the end of the day, they will be the ones dealing with the hostile relationship.
Very ungrateful family , even his sister is supporting his foolish actions instead of advising him . But woman , don't worry it's better to have your peace. God bless you
This is my biggest fear for some woman .. never know who you’re marrying these men are wicked that’s so heartbreaking so sorry you had to go through that terrible
This woman indeed definitely met what's called "useless man" b3rma w'agyimi sei de3. I wish i have a responsible and helping wife as this but chale American life with bills is not a joke ooo
This lady doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment from a man. She’s too good. Take heart Lady!🙏
I'm in tears 😭😭😭 because I'm also a victim of marital abuse! Dj God bless you for giving her the platform without interruption, that's all she needs.
D j Nyame u are really great u really listened without interrupting. Bravo to you
Her story is very hectic you can see from Dj's face. May God redeem us from ungrateful people
Don’t regret every helping him. Kama will go after him trust me.ungrateful people never see good things in life
Yes ooo
Wow I like your comment it is very deep it had to go about it but if u leave it Kama will feel with him
A lady will give him stroke
This woman makes tears flow from my face, she's so gorgeous and good from her heart
Same here 😢
Oh, bra! It’s just so sad. She did everything to maintain the marriage despite the red flags. Hopefully our sisters will take notes from this sweet lady. I hope God restores everything she lost because if this guy.
I pray that our sister Theresa finds peace in her life 🙏
Amen
My heart breaks for what he’s done to this lady. Receive healing and elevation in Jesus Name ❤
Wow. This is a touching story.
I believe the lady was blinded by love and thought it would all work out but it did not. I can sense that she has a very very good heart. I even got emotional watching this. May God bless this beautiful woman. Thanks for fostering
Seems like a genuine and caring woman. May God give her ,her heart desire
My first time witnessing Dj given someone a platform without interacting. Hmmm… this lady needed someone to talk to and by given the platform was amazing. You did a very good job Dj.Keep your head up sis. Everything happens for a reason.
Thank you pls share the link with friends
Sure
He is a very good listener. Bless him
DJ God bless you for allowing the lady to pour her heart out , you are a good listener
She needed this therapy, to just talk. DJ you did excellent, without interrupting her you’ve given her a much-needed release. Hmmm this life
DJ is a great listener😀
@@Nyamekyeakyere he really is
❤❤❤❤
Thank God someone sees 👀 the importance of speaking 🔊 out sometimes 😢Its sad when certain people think 🤔 this show is only about defaming people they fell out with 😢
@@abenanyankwabeaasante2956⁹⁹
I like that after she told us her story and let it all out, her face began to glow and brighten up 🥰
Life abroad is hard already, we dont need partners that bring more frustration. From the story, this guy got it very easy. Free loader, rent free, user- he will see how life abroad really is. Please, ladies, don't tolerate these abusive partners. Prioritize your peace of mind, health and happiness.
Amen to that oooo
I haven't heard of this guy's side of the story. But if what this lady is saying is true then, the man had a FREE RIDE in US. Free rent, car etc.
I agree
I agree.
@@keteninnsroja5753am glad you're not taking sides, cause this is nothing new with Ghanaian women when their relationship don't work, then they start to play am the victim game.
But I like the way DJ allowed her to pour all her heart out … hope she heals from it
Ei DJ Nyame the Psychologist...your show is good therapy paa.
Paaaa, I concur, very therapeutic. Keep up the good work DJ!!
My heart bleeds for you, my sister. I was a victim, too. Verbal and emotional abuse is the worst 😢 you deserve better. He's an opportunist.
Watching from UK, Milton Keynes, the lady is very humble but and downhearted.
From day one,the man came to her life with different agenda but not love!
If you’re a woman and you’re desperate for a man, that’s how men will treat you. A man supposed to be a provider and a protector. Women please love yourself and don’t let a man take you for granted, especially a man you take care of. We’re our husbands helper not a provider.
Says who? Who made men providers and women the helpers? Both men and women are working these days. It's not like the olden days where women weren't allowed to work. Therefore both the man and woman are providers. It's 50/50.
I always look out for a provider and a protector bcuz my father was an example .
@@ZEEpasswomen and greed, why won’t u look for a provider 😂😂
Girl you are wrong
She is just a good person but met a wrong guy. Don't judge
Psychologically, low self esteem drives women to settle for less even when the red flags are there. Let's love these men but at the same time, let's love ourselves first too. Our lives also matter. Listening to things like this gets to me. Kindness should have a limit my fellow women and men. Gone are the days our ancestors took bs in the name of marriage.
This is never true. Some women with high self esteem have been duped my these kind of men as well.
It's good to vent out sometimes. Sending you warm hugs sis❤
Yes it's very good to vent sometimes.
This lady has been through hell and back. Thank God she still is sane. You are a very great woman! May the good Lord continue to shower His blessings on her.
If this woman had been told by her family in the last minute, she wouldn’t have listened or she would probably consult others who’ll tell her that her family envies her.
A woman in love is like a blind bird, they only flutter their wings. Anyways, l can tell she has a good heart. You’ll be alright baby.
She is the sweetest and selfless woman I know in Los Angeles ❤
I am also in Los Angeles, Tarkwa-Ghana geographical location
😂😂😂😂
I am in Denver, Colorado. Please help me get in touch with her
It’s not advisable to marry anyone from Ghana. There are so many men and women abroad . People are only desperate to travel and not looking for love. Please stop dating people in Ghana!
DJ I like the way you paved way for the lady to flow.
Above all we humans should learn to be grateful regardless of what happens.
Aww!
Mum, listen to night bird song, titled ‘’I’m okay’’
Stay safe and continue your journey ❤
He has an amazing interview skill. He doesn’t interrupt and makes his guest flow
Sis, beware of Red Flags in early stages of relationships.
He was a Narcissistic Person. Heal yourself very well before you will enter into a new relationship. You've a beautiful soul.
May God give this woman long life all the days on this earth 🙏🙏
Sending hugs and love you. As you speak out, may this help heal your heart ❤❤.
We think that all relationship must end in marriage.. I'm glad you sharing this.. A horrible mistake, dont ever marry someone who doesnt love u..
Indeed this is a woman with a substance. God bless her
Hmmm, this woman has been through pain, monetary, emotional, psychological trauma but it’s all good my dear sis. God bless you for taking on the responsibility of fostering these children and your work shall never be in vain. As for your husband, hmmm, please don’t stress out, just focus on the kids and keep trusting God. May the lord strengthen you
Good journalism there, God bless you sir, for being so quite for the women to voice out her heart and emotions out. I think it's been of a great therapy to her. Sis trust, you will heal out. Your story is really sad 😥.
That Crazy man will surely not go unpunished dear. God strengthen you.
Maame you enabled his behavior, he didn’t love you from all he did
That’s my thoughts too. Very unfortunate
Exactly. He never loved her. I’m not sure why it took her so long to notice it. She’s a matured person.
My dear sister if what you are saying is exactly how it is then all along you should have known that he was not in the marriage, sorry for what you've been through.
Blazing red flags 🚩 but she ignored it all and ran through the red light. Sometimes you end up paying for costly mistakes .
You can still complicate his future citizenship petition and immigration benefits petitions by placing disparaging reports on his USCIS records. Get an appointment and give him hell!
Someone did the same thing to my friend in Ohio
😂😂😂😂😂I don't think he will do it unfortunately.
I'm a man but I'll be happy if she does
Please how do I go about that?
@labeaute312 uscis website. Report fraud. Fill form online yourself and submit. It is easy. You can also forgive him and let God, karma, take its course! Good luck!
I am so happy DJ allowed you to flow. Healing starts from there. God bless you and DJ. Hmmmm,this thing called marriage no ankasa😳😔😔
Hmm this thing called marriage sometimes is scary and pity hmmm God have mercy ooo
There is no perfect 💔 relationship but "Redflags" should not be ignored. Women bringing men from GH is scary and should either desist or be careful. Let men do the move.
A lot of times when some people's get here, they think the law here is like Ghana where the law don't work. responsibility of being a foster parent
But truly this woman has a genuine heart.
Dj is a good listener
Hmmmmm, I am relieved that you've moved on, that's a very bold decision girl😊
Sometimes, the right people marry the wrong ones. Hmm, it's a very sad story. I pray she finds peace with the right man.
Hmmm. Amen
If a wrong Man get a right woman this is what always happen 😢😢😢😢
Bad people are lucky when it comes to relationships being a man or woman.
When good once come they don’t see them ooo
Hhmm..
This interview is so emotional my sister sorry for you.May Yahweh strengthen you wai
Why do people with good hearts, always get treated this way 😌God why .....this is too much
To answer, we always need to pray about the person with fasting or seek directions from holy spirit. In proverbs 3v6... its says we must always show our plans to God before moving forward. Our problem is we don't seek the face of God first. God always show us warning. Humans can be wicked. Finally women don't be the man in the relationship. By giving them money buying the cars. Etc etc etc. Men are supposed to be the bread winners with our support.
Hmmmmmm
This is ungratefulness in the highest order. My 90 year old uncle once told me that there're people who only have human skin as covering but inside, they're beasts. This guy's is one of them.
Well said
This woman allowed this nonsense to go on for far too long to include finalizing his green card. This guy showed who he was from the beginning including sexually assaulting a child in your care. Finalize the divorce in U.S. court and be done with him permanently. He’s definitely a narcissist!
Exactly, CA state koraaa de3 3y3 ntemt3m koraaa
She was soo much inlove
DJ Nyame, kudos to you for listening to her. She needed to do that👍🙏
He’s a user and opportunist
Do not take him back, please! If you cannot be by yourself, sis, get a man! He’s not your soulmate your soulmate is out there looking for you and you can get to him once you let go of him.
Sis, take care of yourself, you’re beautiful and you’ll definitely meet your soulmate at the right time.
Leave him and his ungrateful family’s sorry ass alone.
You’ll be fine without them
Hugs to you
The woman is a fool don't let a man who has shown u before u did his greencard
DJ I commend you for how you allow your interviewees speak without interactions. You are a great listener and i hope this session with our sister heals her from all the pain and betrayal and May the good Lord give her someone deserving of her love.
Cool chop and He abused it big time. Ei,hmmmm! I want to be your friend obaa. Please get in touch wai. You have a good heart and I appreciate it. God bless you
Am very sorry for you went through
My sister your are strong woman keep up and always love yourself ❤❤❤❤
Awww, my beautiful sister. Sorry about this awful experience. God is in control ❤
This is very emotional,see how DJ has been quite all the way through this interview.This is ungratefulness
Sister infact you have a heavy heart May God bless you 🙌 🙏 ❤️ .i wish i have your type of heart because if it were me Anka i will never never never do the green card for him,Sister if he sends you insult audio's again,B) No Dua ..papa nye whea bone nso nye wheee.nkwasiasem
Wow.. some people are just ungrateful
I know it’s not easy to pull out of a marriage but you saw a lot of red flags, his parents were in Boston they couldn’t help him there now that you helped him he knew he can go there for refuge, toxic man our own enemy Ghanafour
U have a heart of gold girl,God bless u
Never ignore the RED FLAGS 🚩… all the best to her. That man never lovers her… He only needed papers
Story of my life
I just felt bad for Theresa ooooo..... Big hugs from me to you Theresa ... TK from Paisley, United Kingdom
My dear sister, you did very well. You have not done anything wrong. You have a big heart. You are beautiful inside and out. You are the daughter of the most high God. Don’t take any more abuse from that man. He is sick in the head, a typical Narcissist man. He just wants to control you and make your life miserable. It’s not easy but God will continue to see you through. Stay strong, God will take care of you and your children. It’s better to have your peace of mind and live for your children. You deserve better and know your worth. Remember you are not alone. God bless you with much love.
I am proud of you that you are divorcing him. He is a Narcissist man and that is how they play the victimization. He Will blame you for everything. What he is doing, he will rather accuse you for it. They appear to be so charming and will claim to be a marriage counselor but lack communication skills. They are prideful, egotistic and Mr know it all. Don’t tolerate and do not accept that cheating is ok. There are all sorts of sexual transmitted diseases out there. You are better off without his disrespect and control. God bless you 🙏 Take your time, you are very intelligent and hard working. Don’t rush, at the right time, God will give you someone that will love you as you are and value you.
Very sad story, a very big lesson for us. Why do these things happen to very good people? May God give you inner comfort.
Sounds like this marriage was doomed right from the beginning, but listen, life goes on my dear, just pick yourself back up and move on, this is not the end of the world, wishing you all the best, don't forget all the lessons learnt, good luck!
I have listen to this women, and u can see how matured and pure hearted person she is, don't worry madam, i pray thee dat u will get a good husband
Omg I know her, I thought as much. Sorry ooh Sister. I honestly had my doubts about the marriage
Check in to therapist or counseling session --you need help--that is not marriage -----parents and churches sometimes make us make wrong decisions
Singleness is actually a blessing. I can attest to that. We are in an Era where people are Self-centered
You need to give someone a chance
Hi sis, God will bless you for your good heart. This guy is very ungrateful
God will reward you for your kindness.
The woman has a good heart..one in a million❤
Don't ever feel like you wrong him Antie. I can feel your pain and is the reason why i have decided never to marry again and focus on myself and my childeren 😊
That’s why I’ll never file for anyone da…apuuu t)))🤣🤣
My dear ,stand because their evil ways couldnt Destroy you
Let him go,his Evil ways will lead him everywhere he goes.
May he reap more than he sowed.
Amen
This lady has a good heart. May God bless her and comfort her
Hello Chief.
I am here in the USA 🇺🇸. Please help me get in touch with this woman.
It's important
Thank you
ungrateful people everywhere...he never wanted the marriage. The way abroad is hard, no one sincerely needs more stress.i cried, aww
Hmmmm!!
It is well, my dear.
May God reward your good heart.
The man wasn’t love her and she should know from Ghana, before their marriage and her family did not try not to tell her the truth about him. She should reported him to the police in the place. She made things easy for him that’s why he was treated her anyhow, she should sat down with him and talked to him about everything in the house and helping her paying bills. I feel sorry for her 😮😢
Marriage in abroad keeps hunting me everyday. May God guide and protect us in our quest to get married here. Hhhhmmmm
Let me use my American accent and say damn this is a whole lot.😂keep pushing sister the best is yet to come
😂😂are serious
This woman is depressed and she needed a place to pour her heart out
🤔🤔🤔
Please learn how to use your English words. How is she depressed?
Well she should have left him in Ghana and see how he will buy $200 shoe ,3 square meals is even not attainable.
@@kingshomes8546she went direct into her problems without questions from Dj
Depressed paaa?? Eeii
My American wife took care of me for 3 years and she still respect me and i love her.
God bless her
Please focus on fostering your children cuz that’s more rewarding than this type of relationship.
Hmmmm, a lesson to all single women abroad. Never go to Ghana to marry. Find a man who matches your level of exposure abroad. Once you live outside Ghana for a long time, you develop a different culture, different the the typical Ghana culture. Marrying a man who has no exposure to your level of exposure will always create problems. Their insecurities or ego will cause them to find problems with you.
And also, to our Ghanaian family who like saying "Nyame b3 y3" in tough situations like this need to stop..when a lady notices a man is not good or safe for her, please beleive her and leave her alone. Don't push a husband on them because at the end of the day, they will be the ones dealing with the hostile relationship.
She caused this all to her self … she saw all the signs that the man never loved her but still had force hope hmmmm…
This is Ungrateful. Aah, hmmm,
God bless you Sister Akos.
Mighty God will see you through , don't worry yourself. 🙏
My dear stay bless 😢😢😢😢😢😢
DJ pls try to bring the man on board and let’s hear his side of the story, too !
The same thing happened to me. Mines abandoned the home 3 months before I deliver our baby.
God bless you dear u are very good woman God bless you with good man 🙏☺️
Very ungrateful family , even his sister is supporting his foolish actions instead of advising him . But woman , don't worry it's better to have your peace. God bless you
Difficult as it may be, it's always best not to go ahead with a marriage than to go in and have issues.
My dear may God strength you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
❤may the Almighty God bless you🙏🏾
This is my biggest fear for some woman .. never know who you’re marrying these men are wicked that’s so heartbreaking so sorry you had to go through that terrible
This woman indeed definitely met what's called "useless man" b3rma w'agyimi sei de3. I wish i have a responsible and helping wife as this but chale American life with bills is not a joke ooo
D.J i commend how you allowed her to tell it all without interruptions