He Left After I Renewed His Green Card,I Filed 4 Him, My Marriage Was The Biggest Mistake Of My Life
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She needed this therapy, to just talk. DJ you did excellent, without interrupting her you’ve given her a much-needed release. Hmmm this life
DJ is a great listener😀
@@Nyamekyeakyere he really is
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Thank God someone sees 👀 the importance of speaking 🔊 out sometimes 😢Its sad when certain people think 🤔 this show is only about defaming people they fell out with 😢
@@abenanyankwabeaasante2956⁹⁹
This lady doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment from a man. She’s too good. Take heart Lady!🙏
Don’t regret every helping him. Kama will go after him trust me.ungrateful people never see good things in life
Yes ooo
Wow I like your comment it is very deep it had to go about it but if u leave it Kama will feel with him
A lady will give him stroke
My heart breaks for what he’s done to this lady. Receive healing and elevation in Jesus Name ❤
I'm in tears 😭😭😭 because I'm also a victim of marital abuse! Dj God bless you for giving her the platform without interruption, that's all she needs.
D j Nyame u are really great u really listened without interrupting. Bravo to you
Her story is very hectic you can see from Dj's face. May God redeem us from ungrateful people
Life abroad is hard already, we dont need partners that bring more frustration. From the story, this guy got it very easy. Free loader, rent free, user- he will see how life abroad really is. Please, ladies, don't tolerate these abusive partners. Prioritize your peace of mind, health and happiness.
Amen to that oooo
I haven't heard of this guy's side of the story. But if what this lady is saying is true then, the man had a FREE RIDE in US. Free rent, car etc.
I agree
I agree.
@@keteninnsroja5753am glad you're not taking sides, cause this is nothing new with Ghanaian women when their relationship don't work, then they start to play am the victim game.
This woman makes tears flow from my face, she's so gorgeous and good from her heart
Same here 😢
Oh, bra! It’s just so sad. She did everything to maintain the marriage despite the red flags. Hopefully our sisters will take notes from this sweet lady. I hope God restores everything she lost because if this guy.
I pray that our sister Theresa finds peace in her life 🙏
Amen
Seems like a genuine and caring woman. May God give her ,her heart desire
Wow. This is a touching story.
I believe the lady was blinded by love and thought it would all work out but it did not. I can sense that she has a very very good heart. I even got emotional watching this. May God bless this beautiful woman. Thanks for fostering
If this woman had been told by her family in the last minute, she wouldn’t have listened or she would probably consult others who’ll tell her that her family envies her.
A woman in love is like a blind bird, they only flutter their wings. Anyways, l can tell she has a good heart. You’ll be alright baby.
My first time witnessing Dj given someone a platform without interacting. Hmmm… this lady needed someone to talk to and by given the platform was amazing. You did a very good job Dj.Keep your head up sis. Everything happens for a reason.
Thank you pls share the link with friends
Sure
I like that after she told us her story and let it all out, her face began to glow and brighten up 🥰
Psychologically, low self esteem drives women to settle for less even when the red flags are there. Let's love these men but at the same time, let's love ourselves first too. Our lives also matter. Listening to things like this gets to me. Kindness should have a limit my fellow women and men. Gone are the days our ancestors took bs in the name of marriage.
This is never true. Some women with high self esteem have been duped my these kind of men as well.
DJ God bless you for allowing the lady to pour her heart out , you are a good listener
Sometimes, the right people marry the wrong ones. Hmm, it's a very sad story. I pray she finds peace with the right man.
Hmmm. Amen
DJ I like the way you paved way for the lady to flow.
Above all we humans should learn to be grateful regardless of what happens.
Aww!
Mum, listen to night bird song, titled ‘’I’m okay’’
Stay safe and continue your journey ❤
He has an amazing interview skill. He doesn’t interrupt and makes his guest flow
It's good to vent out sometimes. Sending you warm hugs sis❤
Yes it's very good to vent sometimes.
If you’re a woman and you’re desperate for a man, that’s how men will treat you. A man supposed to be a provider and a protector. Women please love yourself and don’t let a man take you for granted, especially a man you take care of. We’re our husbands helper not a provider.
Says who? Who made men providers and women the helpers? Both men and women are working these days. It's not like the olden days where women weren't allowed to work. Therefore both the man and woman are providers. It's 50/50.
I always look out for a provider and a protector bcuz my father was an example .
@@ZEEpasswomen and greed, why won’t u look for a provider 😂😂
Girl you are wrong
She is just a good person but met a wrong guy. Don't judge
Watching from UK, Milton Keynes, the lady is very humble but and downhearted.
From day one,the man came to her life with different agenda but not love!
My heart bleeds for you, my sister. I was a victim, too. Verbal and emotional abuse is the worst 😢 you deserve better. He's an opportunist.
It’s not advisable to marry anyone from Ghana. There are so many men and women abroad . People are only desperate to travel and not looking for love. Please stop dating people in Ghana!
We think that all relationship must end in marriage.. I'm glad you sharing this.. A horrible mistake, dont ever marry someone who doesnt love u..
That Crazy man will surely not go unpunished dear. God strengthen you.
But I like the way DJ allowed her to pour all her heart out … hope she heals from it
I am so happy DJ allowed you to flow. Healing starts from there. God bless you and DJ. Hmmmm,this thing called marriage no ankasa😳😔😔
Hmm this thing called marriage sometimes is scary and pity hmmm God have mercy ooo
He’s a user and opportunist
Do not take him back, please! If you cannot be by yourself, sis, get a man! He’s not your soulmate your soulmate is out there looking for you and you can get to him once you let go of him.
Sis, take care of yourself, you’re beautiful and you’ll definitely meet your soulmate at the right time.
Leave him and his ungrateful family’s sorry ass alone.
You’ll be fine without them
Hugs to you
The woman is a fool don't let a man who has shown u before u did his greencard
Hmmm, this woman has been through pain, monetary, emotional, psychological trauma but it’s all good my dear sis. God bless you for taking on the responsibility of fostering these children and your work shall never be in vain. As for your husband, hmmm, please don’t stress out, just focus on the kids and keep trusting God. May the lord strengthen you
My dear sister if what you are saying is exactly how it is then all along you should have known that he was not in the marriage, sorry for what you've been through.
This lady has been through hell and back. Thank God she still is sane. You are a very great woman! May the good Lord continue to shower His blessings on her.
She is the sweetest and selfless woman I know in Los Angeles ❤
I am also in Los Angeles, Tarkwa-Ghana geographical location
😂😂😂😂
I am in Denver, Colorado. Please help me get in touch with her
Ei DJ Nyame the Psychologist...your show is good therapy paa.
Paaaa, I concur, very therapeutic. Keep up the good work DJ!!
Sis, beware of Red Flags in early stages of relationships.
He was a Narcissistic Person. Heal yourself very well before you will enter into a new relationship. You've a beautiful soul.
There is no perfect 💔 relationship but "Redflags" should not be ignored. Women bringing men from GH is scary and should either desist or be careful. Let men do the move.
Good journalism there, God bless you sir, for being so quite for the women to voice out her heart and emotions out. I think it's been of a great therapy to her. Sis trust, you will heal out. Your story is really sad 😥.
A lot of times when some people's get here, they think the law here is like Ghana where the law don't work. responsibility of being a foster parent
This is ungratefulness in the highest order. My 90 year old uncle once told me that there're people who only have human skin as covering but inside, they're beasts. This guy's is one of them.
Well said
Bad people are lucky when it comes to relationships being a man or woman.
When good once come they don’t see them ooo
Hhmm..
Why do people with good hearts, always get treated this way 😌God why .....this is too much
To answer, we always need to pray about the person with fasting or seek directions from holy spirit. In proverbs 3v6... its says we must always show our plans to God before moving forward. Our problem is we don't seek the face of God first. God always show us warning. Humans can be wicked. Finally women don't be the man in the relationship. By giving them money buying the cars. Etc etc etc. Men are supposed to be the bread winners with our support.
Hmmmmmm
You can still complicate his future citizenship petition and immigration benefits petitions by placing disparaging reports on his USCIS records. Get an appointment and give him hell!
Someone did the same thing to my friend in Ohio
😂😂😂😂😂I don't think he will do it unfortunately.
I'm a man but I'll be happy if she does
Please how do I go about that?
@labeaute312 uscis website. Report fraud. Fill form online yourself and submit. It is easy. You can also forgive him and let God, karma, take its course! Good luck!
Sending hugs and love you. As you speak out, may this help heal your heart ❤❤.
May God give this woman long life all the days on this earth 🙏🙏
Maame you enabled his behavior, he didn’t love you from all he did
That’s my thoughts too. Very unfortunate
Indeed this is a woman with a substance. God bless her
If a wrong Man get a right woman this is what always happen 😢😢😢😢
Hmmmmm, I am relieved that you've moved on, that's a very bold decision girl😊
Singleness is actually a blessing. I can attest to that. We are in an Era where people are Self-centered
You need to give someone a chance
Awww, my beautiful sister. Sorry about this awful experience. God is in control ❤
I know it’s not easy to pull out of a marriage but you saw a lot of red flags, his parents were in Boston they couldn’t help him there now that you helped him he knew he can go there for refuge, toxic man our own enemy Ghanafour
DJ Nyame, kudos to you for listening to her. She needed to do that👍🙏
My dear sister, you did very well. You have not done anything wrong. You have a big heart. You are beautiful inside and out. You are the daughter of the most high God. Don’t take any more abuse from that man. He is sick in the head, a typical Narcissist man. He just wants to control you and make your life miserable. It’s not easy but God will continue to see you through. Stay strong, God will take care of you and your children. It’s better to have your peace of mind and live for your children. You deserve better and know your worth. Remember you are not alone. God bless you with much love.
I am proud of you that you are divorcing him. He is a Narcissist man and that is how they play the victimization. He Will blame you for everything. What he is doing, he will rather accuse you for it. They appear to be so charming and will claim to be a marriage counselor but lack communication skills. They are prideful, egotistic and Mr know it all. Don’t tolerate and do not accept that cheating is ok. There are all sorts of sexual transmitted diseases out there. You are better off without his disrespect and control. God bless you 🙏 Take your time, you are very intelligent and hard working. Don’t rush, at the right time, God will give you someone that will love you as you are and value you.
This interview is so emotional my sister sorry for you.May Yahweh strengthen you wai
Very sad story, a very big lesson for us. Why do these things happen to very good people? May God give you inner comfort.
This is my biggest fear for some woman .. never know who you’re marrying these men are wicked that’s so heartbreaking so sorry you had to go through that terrible
DJ I commend you for how you allow your interviewees speak without interactions. You are a great listener and i hope this session with our sister heals her from all the pain and betrayal and May the good Lord give her someone deserving of her love.
Sounds like this marriage was doomed right from the beginning, but listen, life goes on my dear, just pick yourself back up and move on, this is not the end of the world, wishing you all the best, don't forget all the lessons learnt, good luck!
But truly this woman has a genuine heart.
Never ignore the RED FLAGS 🚩… all the best to her. That man never lovers her… He only needed papers
Story of my life
Cool chop and He abused it big time. Ei,hmmmm! I want to be your friend obaa. Please get in touch wai. You have a good heart and I appreciate it. God bless you
The man wasn’t love her and she should know from Ghana, before their marriage and her family did not try not to tell her the truth about him. She should reported him to the police in the place. She made things easy for him that’s why he was treated her anyhow, she should sat down with him and talked to him about everything in the house and helping her paying bills. I feel sorry for her 😮😢
Blazing red flags 🚩 but she ignored it all and ran through the red light. Sometimes you end up paying for costly mistakes .
My American wife took care of me for 3 years and she still respect me and i love her.
God bless her
The way I am looking at you, some of you are too good why, you should be good but not too good. Please don't cry, you are making me cry too.
This is very emotional,see how DJ has been quite all the way through this interview.This is ungratefulness
Some of the people are just opportunists. He just destroy others chances, hmm you're a strong woman i feel your pain. Law Of Karma, i have lean a lot in your story, thank you for sharing
It’s sad but very vivid that he was in for only one thing, it’s all good. Whatever you sow, you definitely reap
This woman allowed this nonsense to go on for far too long to include finalizing his green card. This guy showed who he was from the beginning including sexually assaulting a child in your care. Finalize the divorce in U.S. court and be done with him permanently. He’s definitely a narcissist!
Exactly, CA state koraaa de3 3y3 ntemt3m koraaa
She was soo much inlove
Check in to therapist or counseling session --you need help--that is not marriage -----parents and churches sometimes make us make wrong decisions
Omg I know her, I thought as much. Sorry ooh Sister. I honestly had my doubts about the marriage
My dear ,stand because their evil ways couldnt Destroy you
Let him go,his Evil ways will lead him everywhere he goes.
May he reap more than he sowed.
Amen
U have a heart of gold girl,God bless u
Hi sis, God will bless you for your good heart. This guy is very ungrateful
God will reward you for your kindness.
This woman indeed definitely met what's called "useless man" b3rma w'agyimi sei de3. I wish i have a responsible and helping wife as this but chale American life with bills is not a joke ooo
This woman is depressed and she needed a place to pour her heart out
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Please learn how to use your English words. How is she depressed?
Well she should have left him in Ghana and see how he will buy $200 shoe ,3 square meals is even not attainable.
@@kingshomes8546she went direct into her problems without questions from Dj
Depressed paaa?? Eeii
DJ Nyame, this is the best interview I have watched from your program. The man should be condemned. The parents made a big mistake by approving this marriage. Under no circumstances, should the parents allow their daughters who has been in the country for close to 30 years to go back to Ghana for marriage
Don't ever feel like you wrong him Antie. I can feel your pain and is the reason why i have decided never to marry again and focus on myself and my childeren 😊
I have listen to this women, and u can see how matured and pure hearted person she is, don't worry madam, i pray thee dat u will get a good husband
She caused this all to her self … she saw all the signs that the man never loved her but still had force hope hmmmm…
Very ungrateful family , even his sister is supporting his foolish actions instead of advising him . But woman , don't worry it's better to have your peace. God bless you
This lady has a good heart. May God bless her and comfort her
Desperate woman. All the red flags were there BOLD. Even good men change after marriage how much more a bad man to change after marriage.
I strongly believe she should’ve reported the issue no matter what. Even if it was swept under the carpet, it’ll surely come out because people talk. Take a cue from the ‘Me Too’ protests.
I made a mistake and stayed married to the wrong person for 18years---biggest mistake because of what people would say if I divorced
Learnt my lessons --move on --we all make mistakes
Marriage in abroad keeps hunting me everyday. May God guide and protect us in our quest to get married here. Hhhhmmmm
It’s like part of my story is being told by her. Is quite unfortunate that those with good hearts are sometimes😢treated like badly especially by narcissists.🤬
Awwwww hmmm
It's well with us my dear 🙏
Exactly what I’m going thru right now
My sister your are strong woman keep up and always love yourself ❤❤❤❤
Difficult as it may be, it's always best not to go ahead with a marriage than to go in and have issues.
Wow.. some people are just ungrateful
ungrateful people everywhere...he never wanted the marriage. The way abroad is hard, no one sincerely needs more stress.i cried, aww
I just felt bad for Theresa ooooo..... Big hugs from me to you Theresa ... TK from Paisley, United Kingdom
Please focus on fostering your children cuz that’s more rewarding than this type of relationship.
My sister, you don't need to return any drinks. Once you go to court, it cancels out the traditional marriage, which is also acknowledged by the law of Ghana. Forget about returning the drinks and live your life. If you insist on traditions, just let your Abusuapanin pour libation on the fact that the marriage is over
Every Ghanaian is an opportunist. You have to open your eyes when dealing with them. Both rich and poor are extremely wicked
Dj is a good listener
Sister infact you have a heavy heart May God bless you 🙌 🙏 ❤️ .i wish i have your type of heart because if it were me Anka i will never never never do the green card for him,Sister if he sends you insult audio's again,B) No Dua ..papa nye whea bone nso nye wheee.nkwasiasem
I don’t know why people feel like they have to go back to Ghana to file for divorce because they got married in Ghana. The law states that you can file for divorce wherever both parties are habitually resident so since both of you are habitually resident in USA, you can file it there. The thing with Ghanaian divorce is that it is usually done ex-parte in such circumstances and if you are not fortunate, it can be challenged. I have seen so many cases abroad where divorce papers filed in Ghana ex-parte was an issue.
If you are really certain that your marriage has broken down irretrievably, then please file the divorce in USA and be free because it will be recorded in the law courts. As it is, you may not even be free to marry in USA again yet. Please seek legal advice in USA on this.
This is a good woman. Don't worry this is a lesson for all to learn. God will bring you an amazing husband, but always pray about the person. The child you are taking care off, will be a blessing in your life one day. Some men are just very wicked! DJ you really listened. Well done❤
Its hurt when good people fall into wrong hands.God luvs U and God will punish him very well for u at the right time.
I always say this and I will say it again. whether He / she is good hearted back home. They always have a MOTIVE.
When it comes to Ghanaian in laws don’t entertain them much no matter what they will take their children side so in a marriage put your self and your children first and protect them my their
You're very wise.
This lady’s too good
Very soon he will understand life in USA
Karma will get him
Please don’t even follow them with any traditional divorce just don the court divorce and let him be. He will meet his match some of us will deal with him the right way. 😂😂😂