Finding beauty in the unfinished garden 🌿

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  • Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
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  • @TheImpatientGardener
    @TheImpatientGardener  Рік тому +10

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  • @eliagutierrez1145
    @eliagutierrez1145 Рік тому +106

    Thanks Erin for reminding us that this is not a race but a beautiful hobby while we ourselves are just passing through 😊

  • @erikadelgadohernandez6777
    @erikadelgadohernandez6777 Рік тому +57

    1000 times yes! I am so overwhelmed and frustrated about all that is left to do. Thank you for the invitation to shift to gratefulness and appreciation ❤

  • @QueenAnnesLace13
    @QueenAnnesLace13 Рік тому +52

    Thank you Erin, not only was this a good reminder to pause and enjoy the garden, but it was wonderful to see you take the time to do so. Yes, more lazy strolls around the garden please.

  • @maryannharding6235
    @maryannharding6235 Рік тому +26

    Sometimes I think gardeners are the worst at slowing down to smell the roses. All we can see is the black spot on the roses and that weed next to the rose and "oh crap, that thing needs water!" Thanks for the reminder to enjoy our gardens! My goal this year is to spend at least one day a week enjoying the garden and admiring how far we've come without constantly thinking of how far we have to go.

  • @katieschubel5350
    @katieschubel5350 Рік тому +34

    This is exactly what so many of us tired, discouraged gardeners needed to hear. THANK YOU! I went out and made a bouquet and it was absolutely gorgeous. It was just what I needed.

  • @chrismarchetti-olson6632
    @chrismarchetti-olson6632 Рік тому +29

    “Sure! Sleeping and gardens go together!!!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you for the encouragement today Erin 🌸

  • @WM_Partners
    @WM_Partners Рік тому

    I take exception with the title of this video! A garden is NEVER finished. It is ALWAYS a work in progress. 😊

  • @carollewinson1555
    @carollewinson1555 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for the reminder to slow down and enjoy what’s in front of us. It was needed!

  • @annwoleben5439
    @annwoleben5439 Рік тому +11

    In this hurried and harried world, your idea to slow down and appreciate the beauty is a much needed activity. I'm going outside now to stroll and look for the beauty!

  • @Patricia-lg8vg
    @Patricia-lg8vg Рік тому +16

    I needed this. I broke my ankle, again, the day before yesterday and I had been in the middle of major garden projects. I was overwhelmed before because I was trying to get everything done in all my project areas and with weeding. Now I have to figure out how to garden in the place I am in right now. I just need to appreciate the garden.

    • @wdfamily_027
      @wdfamily_027 Рік тому +2

      Oh boy, I’m sorry! I hope you can get some help to you this summer😊

    • @cindym6065
      @cindym6065 Рік тому +1

      I hope your ankle heals quickly.

    • @BobbieJeanM
      @BobbieJeanM Рік тому +3

      I feel your pain, mental and physical! Several years ago I bought a T-shirt from HortTube with Jim Putnam that says “gardening isn’t a race it’s a journey”. This year after badly hurting my knee,I remembered that on most journeys there are many occasions to stop…scenery overlooks, getting gas, meals and potty breaks, and overnight stays. Some necessary, some rejuvenating and some strictly for pleasure. I hope this isn’t too long of a stop from gardening for you and that you’re able to enjoy what you can while healing. 💕😉

    • @j.m.7056
      @j.m.7056 Рік тому

      So sorry! Do take care and heal quickly.

    • @SMElder-iy6fl
      @SMElder-iy6fl 2 місяці тому

      I hope you heal well. Take this time to enjoy, not fret.

  • @jayneteal-jeffery6283
    @jayneteal-jeffery6283 Рік тому +1

    So true!!!!! When the weather doesn’t cooperate and you can’t get anything done and you decided you need a puppy in your life. Feeling it!

  • @Edu_Kate
    @Edu_Kate Рік тому +1

    I've been saying often this season, "I just want to get to the point where I can sit down and appreciate my gardens."
    I sit on my back deck, morning coffee in hand, overlooking my beautiful hydrangea/roses/peony/sage/lady's mantle/blue spruce/grasses garden that I've dubbed "My Sisters' Garden." Named for my sisters, my mom and her sisters and all my girlfriend sisters.
    But I can't sit long because I see the weeds to pull or the path that needs defining.
    I see the light at the end of my front garden makeover vision so maybe soon I can stop to smell the flowers.
    The other day, sitting on a mound of dirt to pull many weeds so I could plant dichondra silver falls as a ground cover (as seen on Jim Putnam's channel) when a couple little girls rollerskated past. The second one stopped to say, "I like your flowers." Aw, ❤️ melted.
    That spurred me on to push ahead on the project. I'm about to get the long-held plants in the ground!

  • @brendabraun5522
    @brendabraun5522 Рік тому +1

    I think we can all say, "You/we are not alone." It's an ongoing process and that's what makes it fun. 😊❤

  • @kimolsen1328
    @kimolsen1328 Рік тому +3

    After 2 yrs of planning and wishing, I got to plant up my rain garden yesterday, while it was raining…what a Pleasure!❤

  • @juliannetaylor9989
    @juliannetaylor9989 Рік тому +1

    I don't think the garden is ever done!
    But there's beauty to be enjoyed if we stand still long enough💚

  • @amandagoodlett5185
    @amandagoodlett5185 Рік тому +6

    My 4 yr old and I have been running around all morning in the heat and we just stopped cause we were both getting cranky and needing a break. I literally felt calmer after watching this! Perfect timing, Thank you!!! I love your space

  • @Melanietucker
    @Melanietucker Рік тому +1

    You are one of my favorite gardeners to watch because your not over the top. You feel like a gardeners gardener.

  • @amyhoff1501
    @amyhoff1501 Рік тому +1

    Your gardens? Absolutely splendid. I’m one of those gardeners that sees mostly the negative and I have to remind myself to look at each plant and appreciate how amazing and beautiful it is

  • @letsgotravel7724
    @letsgotravel7724 Рік тому +4

    I so needed to hear this video today! Thank you! I was feeling just like you. So I am reassessing what I’m doing, and why in the garden. I ultimately will make made some changes that will make it easier on me. Force me to slow down, realize what I’ve accomplished and enjoy it. The only time I ever sit down and enjoy my is if I have company.

  • @korriekearns4584
    @korriekearns4584 Рік тому +4

    This, Erin, is why I love you!!! You are always exactly where I am and you manage to bring me back to the reason why I garden. Thank YOU!!!!!!

  • @cynthia3157
    @cynthia3157 Рік тому +1

    So true. I try to find something beautiful from the moment I walk out the door to my car because we'll I have to go to work. The beautiful things are what I look forward to seeing more of on the weekend.

  • @pamspencer9542
    @pamspencer9542 11 місяців тому

    I am so glad I found your site Erin and appreciate your down to earth approach to gardening. As an over 70 year old gardener of multiple spaces (I've just added another area with a small pond!), I do become overwhelmed with the effort it takes to keep up these beautiful areas because I can't do as much as easily as I did even 5 years ago! That being said, I do take time to slow down and sit and really appreciate what my husband and I have accomplished in over 40 years in our home. Yes, smell those roses and peek inside their petals, feel the softness of lambs ears, the colorful kaleidoscope your "babies" gift you. Follow the lovely butterflies, bees, and dragonflies that dance about with grace, and enjoy and appreciate your efforts as they certainly do!

  • @sweetpeanmolly
    @sweetpeanmolly Рік тому +1

    I have a rule for myself. I don’t buy any new plants until I have already planted the plants still in their pots! Who am I kidding? Today I bought the most gorgeous green echinacea! So I ran down to my garden bed gloves on with an apron, and planted them. What you don’t know is that I had a flat of the annuals that needed to be planted as well. I got through about five of those. I will never learn!

  • @jodylancaster8706
    @jodylancaster8706 Рік тому

    Truer words never spoken. I get so wrapped up in tending to my garden and fretting over it that I forget to slow down, stop and appreciate what I have.

  • @francesgraves4550
    @francesgraves4550 Рік тому +9

    I can totally relate Erin! You feel overwhelmed sometimes by the work, but not really work, as we know, but sometimes you want everything to look perfect and it possibly can’t!! I did exactly what you did in this video yesterday, appreciated all the plants blooming and coming in to bloom, how the light hit them at various times of the day. I had cataract surgery this week and have another 10 days to go before bending over very much, and the not weeding is driving me nuts! You sure can appreciate so much in our gardens under construction! Thanks for a great video. Your place looks awesome 👍👍👍

    • @jeannettejohnson2572
      @jeannettejohnson2572 Рік тому +2

      After your cataract surgery, the colors in your garden will be so much brighter and even more beautiful than before…enjoy!

  • @melinalambuth589
    @melinalambuth589 Рік тому +1

    You always read my mind. Thank you for validating that feeling we all have at this time of year, and reminding us not to look past the moment.

  • @blccombs
    @blccombs Рік тому +1

    This is exactly how I feel. Thank you for sharing this.
    And it’s exactly why I take so many pictures from every angle. Even when things are dying. It’s part of the beautiful process of life…

  • @SamSam-kq6qb
    @SamSam-kq6qb Рік тому +1

    I feel your pain, Erin Just spent 5 hours dead heading, fertilizing, spraying BT on my many petunia's, mulching, watering and on and on. But now it's 5 pm and I'm out for a walk in my garden
    with a glass of wine and feeling very accomplished. Tomorrow is a new day and I will start the chores again, but right now I am at peace knowing I did my share of maintenance for one day.

  • @darcygillan3098
    @darcygillan3098 Рік тому

    Thanks for this timely reminder, Erin! I retired a year ago, and it has been so nice to be able to slow down with the gardening chores. I'm in central Illinois, Zone 5b, and we are in the midst of a drought. But as I water my gardens in the morning, I now have more time to appreciate the plants that I love in all of their stages. Happy gardening!

  • @heidihumbert184
    @heidihumbert184 Рік тому +6

    Gardens are never done-that’s the fun part, looking, assessing and as you pointed out, appreciating them every day:)!

  • @cwiemers5037
    @cwiemers5037 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for the reminder to take the time to enjoy what IS done for a minute. ❤
    It's so easy to only see what needs done and forget to see the beauty of what has been done.

  • @amandavhb1630
    @amandavhb1630 Рік тому +1

    I feel this every time this time of year! I had neighbors who don't keep up their yard infect mine with a million dandelions, my irrigation went down several times, and I need to deadhead like crazy! But today I just sat outside and enjoyed the garden for what it is!

  • @danakenoyer106
    @danakenoyer106 Рік тому

    Thank you Erin,
    I so needed this message today. I live in zone 5b at 7300 ' in Colorado. Our spring has been so cool many of my seedling transplants are still hanging out in my portable cold frame 😢. We have had a drought for 5-6 years and now El Nino has arrived! We have had 12 inches of rain and frequent hail storms since June 1. So my new perennial flower bed just looking great last week and full of buds is destroyed by hail. I started most of the perennials from seeds last year. Today I started the clean up and fertilizing hoping the perennials will bounce back. You have encouraged me to go out and find some.plants that survived the storm and will give me pleasure to enjoy. Fortunately, I covered the containers and annuals so if it warms up they should be gorgeous.
    So thank you for this reminder to take time to enjoy my hobby.

  • @rhondaschenk5727
    @rhondaschenk5727 Рік тому

    Thank you, Erin, for reminding us to take some moments to enjoy our garden! It’s so true, we work and work and work and seem to never stop to smell the roses! Thank you!

  • @dwohio8283
    @dwohio8283 Рік тому

    I agree, we need to stop and smell the flowers. I often take pictures and post them so they pop up and remind me to do it again. 😊

  • @cathybranly1839
    @cathybranly1839 Рік тому

    I am always complaining about what is wrong in the garden and my husband (he is also more patient!) always says "Look at all the things that are doing well and are beautiful." Thank you for the calming video. The mattress looked very comfy.

  • @adrisutherland837
    @adrisutherland837 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this, I will definitely remind myself to turn my overwhelmed days into a Garden Appreciation Day ❤ Happy gardening from Durban, South Africa 🙋🏽‍♀️👩🏽‍🌾

  • @jilladcock5648
    @jilladcock5648 Рік тому

    I’ve come a long way in knowing to stop and enjoy my garden despite the weeds and uneven brick paths that need attention. I’m also going to make a point of having fresh flowers inside every day this summer. Thanks for the reminder-there is always beauty to be found and it makes the work of the garden worth every moment!

  • @bettyboop1524
    @bettyboop1524 Рік тому +4

    You are not alone in these feelings. I'm in Kentucky and at 11:00 it's already 84, I gave up on my planting day way too humid and hot. I had big plans to work in garden but it's going to wait. Not too much we can do about the weather.

    • @SMElder-iy6fl
      @SMElder-iy6fl 2 місяці тому

      I try to get whatever I need to get done (leaving the watering for later) before the sun comes up.

  • @kdwhineygirl5551
    @kdwhineygirl5551 Рік тому +4

    This is the best video I’ve watched this season. You make a strong point - it’s SO easy to get overwhelmed each year. I’m going to make a point to enjoy my accomplishments in the garden, rather than focus solely on “To-Dos.”

  • @slomo1716
    @slomo1716 Рік тому +1

    You're a funny gal!!! Love your sense of humour! I recently purchased a rolled up mattress, weighed a ton, and this old gal of 70 was able to tug and push and pull it up my stairs to the bedroom it was destined for. I'll NEVER forget the popping sounds that came from it after I unwrapped the multitude layers of plastic, to form its current shape. My son indicates it's a good mattress and enjoys his new room when he comes for a visit. I can't recall the brand name of the mattress but for a queen size the price was RIGHT.
    Indeed, I plant FLOWERS to cut and enjoy in my home, as I adore flowers, starting with the daffodils, tulips, peonies, alliums, irises, glads and finally dahlias.

  • @daritxlin
    @daritxlin Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video!!! It speaks so much truth, honest truth. Many of us feel like this! We all needed a reset....❤

  • @hottiegurl16c
    @hottiegurl16c Рік тому +1

    I feel like I really needed this. I get so wrapped up in projects and trying to make it perfect that I don’t take a moment and just enjoy it.

  • @oneblockwonderwoman6833
    @oneblockwonderwoman6833 Рік тому +1

    Your garden looks beautiful!
    One way that I make myself appreciate the beauty of my garden no matter the state it's in is I challenge myself every morning to find something beautiful to take a photo of and post on my social media with the caption of, "It's a beautiful day in the neighborhood" and sometimes a little blurb about what's in the photo. I started this practice in 2020 when there was so much negativity out there and I was in the midst of recovering from surgery having my hamstring tendon reattached, which was brutal. It lifted my spirits and still does.
    Everyone tells me they look forward to my daily posts and I do too because I am always looking at my garden with an eye towards beauty for the next photo I want to take and appreciating all God has blessed me with.

  • @pattystrecker1867
    @pattystrecker1867 Рік тому

    Thanks for reminding me that there are still some pretty things in my yard that the deer haven't eaten.

  • @5262janna
    @5262janna Рік тому +1

    You spoke to my heart in your intro. The list of things to do is long and when I look at my garden I see what it is missing which is silly as it is very abundant. Thanks for the reminder

  • @ladikmk
    @ladikmk Рік тому

    We all need to stop, smell and touch our roses, peonies, whatever, because some of those beauties only bloom for a very short window of time and then poof - you have to wait until next year for another show. Making bouquets from my flowers is one of my favorite things to do after spending so many hours in the garden nurturing those beauties to thrive and grow. Enjoy the things you love today, because tomorrow is promised to no one.

  • @ga-girl9867
    @ga-girl9867 Рік тому

    I'll give you an Amen! I've been thinking too how I feel so behind in the garden only to miss the magic there is! Lesson number 1. Focus on what I have. Instead of what isn't. 🎉

  • @zoreslavazinczenko1060
    @zoreslavazinczenko1060 Рік тому

    So, so true. Enjoying the beauty in things (plants) we take for granted. I most enjoy the stillness of the morning, with the dewiness, the birds chattering, my cup of coffee...

  • @kfaulknerstudio
    @kfaulknerstudio Рік тому

    This weekend, I’m just appreciating that we’re finally getting rain here in southeastern PA. Yesterday I made a bouquet with Canterbury bells, larkspur, and snapdragons 💕

  • @jucjuc314
    @jucjuc314 Рік тому

    I think you can repeat this type of video and those wise words every year from now! We all needed to hear and see this 😊Greetings, Judit

  • @susans1679
    @susans1679 Рік тому +1

    You expressed so eloquently what most of us feel! I am retired (allegedly!) and still feel overwhelmed by what I haven’t done in the garden. My list seems to increase rather than decrease! But I do treat myself to a stroll through the garden at the beginning and end of each day no matter my schedule. Now you have inspired me to do it more mindfully to appreciate the beauty and what I have accomplished. A second stroll can always be done to take notes. I bet it will be shorter than had I made it first time through.

    • @susans1679
      @susans1679 Рік тому

      I’ve just scrolled through the comments and read many of them. Man, did you strike a chord with so many of us! Thank you, Erin!!

  • @colleenwhiteford8430
    @colleenwhiteford8430 Рік тому +7

    I really needed this video! Been feeling a little overwhelmed with my garden this season for a number of reasons and have even thought at times, why am I even bothering when it's stressing me out more than bringing joy? And then I watch some of the other garden channels and they have constant stock of plants on hand and help. I've been gardening since I was little, so it's in my blood. But anyway, thank you for this video. It's refreshing to know that there's other gardeners out there that deal with this same thing. Your property is beautiful! Good job!

    • @sunitashastry5270
      @sunitashastry5270 Рік тому +1

      Yes we all get overwhelmed esp as we get older and have health issues popping up, caregiving responsibilities that never en etc. I try to take a few minutes - really late when it has cooled off - to check ou what looks good in the garden. I put a star and the name of the flowering plant or tree in my journal. I also take pictures.

  • @TheChristineLindsay
    @TheChristineLindsay Рік тому +1

    I thought it was just me. Feeling this way exactly this past week. Thanks so much.

  • @tinasalerno51
    @tinasalerno51 Рік тому

    Sometimes we just need to slow down and smell the roses. The garden looks great!!🌸

  • @DalhiaSun
    @DalhiaSun Рік тому +1

    I loved this video because at this moment my weeds have gotten so far ahead of me they are up to my hips! Erin I have to tell you, I planted Lamium years ago and I regret that I could ever have liked it! This year it has suddenly taken over . You can’t just pull it out!!! It’s got these roots super-glued to the soil and it’s a tug of war for sure. Seems like there is NO getting rid of it. Buyer beware.

  • @dc0145a
    @dc0145a Рік тому

    Headlamps are my friends.... thank you for sharing this video. I feel like I work day and night in the garden on the weekends.

  • @deannewilliams3321
    @deannewilliams3321 Рік тому +1

    I agree. I just like having a project going. I’ve been clearing some overgrowth and cutting down small trees, dead limbs from bigger trees etc. But instead of burning them, I’m building little raised beds with natural trellises. It’s fun and I can get all creative with it. Then I compost in it. One day I’ll get it planted. Have a nice day! 🧤

  • @SunshineKK99
    @SunshineKK99 Рік тому +1

    It is truly beauty & chaos in our gardens! I think I am addicted to projects, and I need to appreciate what is already there. Thank you Erin! 😊

  • @carolayers2687
    @carolayers2687 Рік тому +1

    Your "unfinished" garden is just stunning. Thank you for sharing and making us stop just for a little while❤🌹♥️

  • @mariemcgrath8681
    @mariemcgrath8681 Рік тому

    Just love you. Yes, always take time to smell the Roses (or whatever). Every morning I walk
    around my garden, perhaps dead head something, a little watering, just admire, nature at
    it's best, or grab a snail!

  • @LitlPoot
    @LitlPoot Рік тому +1

    love this "pause" in the garden ... I'm always amazed, when I walk my garden, at what is blooming today that wasn't there yesterday ... always expect the unexpected ... sometimes I find things I forgot I planted !!! thanks for the stroll thru your beautiful landscape - you have created a garden of wonder for sure 😄

  • @truthtalker4038
    @truthtalker4038 Рік тому

    Wow the first minute and a half is exactly the conversation I had with my mom the last few days! So funny! Yes I believe we all feel that way from time to time!

  • @ticouna
    @ticouna Рік тому +1

    I feell the same as you. After starting one month later excavating the house to put a new french drain, let me tell you that this terrain massacre has left me speechless. the whole winter I have been growing plans in my basement thinking I would start a flower farm, 2500 cells plugs and dahlias etc... wanted to get out of my basement ended up in my garage for more than a month and now the guy to install the sidewalks bricks keep puponig truck problems, trailer problems the wether alouette!!! and my plugs waiting desperately to be planted also left me speechless. the flower farm will not happen the owner of the property did not want me to do my project. So all these plants have now to be planted at home in these conditions. i don't think I will see the summer and enjoy my garden this year but I promise next year I will sit in my hamac with a margarita all summer long!

  • @toadstool5591
    @toadstool5591 Рік тому

    Lady's Mantle is at it's best here in zone 6, too. I have so much I decided to share the flowers with several local florists so others could enjoy the lovely color. It just makes all the other flowers look great! All the roses are looking beautiful here and the fragrance of the elderberry flowers is just heavenly. I just love your garden setting, Erin.

  • @charleneskalmusky5509
    @charleneskalmusky5509 Рік тому

    I love this! At least once a week I drag my husband to take a garden walk with me.😜 I think he enjoys it as much as I do! You are right we need to slow down and enjoy the gardens.

  • @catherine5465
    @catherine5465 Рік тому +2

    Erin, this was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you. I don't appreciate what I've accomplished so far nearly often enough.

  • @judymckerrow6720
    @judymckerrow6720 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Erin. I think we all should take time to smell the roses. 🌸💚🙃

  • @fleurjardin1012
    @fleurjardin1012 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the reminder that most of us feel overwhelmed this time of year but there is still time to "smell the roses." Your garden is looking great. I really like the nice blend of textures, sizes and colors you have in your beds. It can be a hard balance to find.

  • @sandyh.1393
    @sandyh.1393 Рік тому

    I am SOOOOO glad and relieved to hear a pro gardener like you express EXACTLY how I feel right now about my garden and all the work that needs to be done!! I thought it was just me and i was incompetwnt and disorganized! ! I feel so much better now that I know so many other gardeners feel the same. And I just happened to decide today that I needed to grab a glass of wine, sit at the patio table, look around me and enjoy the view I've created for myself! Your video was absolutely perfect timing for me! Thanks ever so much, Erin! (Ladies mantle is also one of my very favorites for making flowers arrangements! 🙂)

  • @dawnelleodom8829
    @dawnelleodom8829 Рік тому +1

    I feel insane about my garden too. I question why I do this to myself every year. It is just so hot.🌻🌻 Even if it was to a point I would enjoy it, the bugs and heat keep me away. But I have my whole life and I don't have to do it all today.

  • @shellisspace
    @shellisspace Рік тому +1

    I needed this reminder right now. I had a tough day yesterday, laying 1300 feet of sod.

    • @TheImpatientGardener
      @TheImpatientGardener  Рік тому +1

      Oh my gosh that’s so much! You need a day or three off after that!

    • @shellisspace
      @shellisspace Рік тому +1

      @TheImpatientGardener We had new walkways put in and thr grass got destroyed. I know! It was way too much for one day. I told my husband next time only one skid at a time!

  • @pattiohare4280
    @pattiohare4280 Рік тому

    Perfect timing! I've been in such a garden funk the last few days. We were in desperate need of rain here in Maryland but it has flattened so many of my plants. I created a little cutting garden area and I went out (between the rain drops) and just about cried looking at everything laying on the ground. I also had deer come into the garden about 2 weeks ago and they had themselves a delicious dinner. I'm going to look at the positive though. We were in a drought and needed these days of rain so badly and we all know pinching and cutting back flowers usually helps create new growth. Thanks for the encouragement. Glad I'm not alone in feeling the garden blues these days.

  • @deborahgosse1186
    @deborahgosse1186 Рік тому

    Wow Erin,
    I never really thought about my garden that way. I get wrapped up trying to make it perfect and not taking the time out to see the beauty of what I created, I really need to stop and smell the roses and stop worrying about what other people think of my garden.

  • @gretw8394
    @gretw8394 Рік тому +1

    I am always amazed at how much gardening you cram into your life Erin. It's amazing and addicting to watch and learn with you in your videos. I am excited to see how you adapt what you have to something lower maintenance. I think it was in your conversation with Roy Diblik that you spoke of how exciting it is when you get to the tweaking stage of a garden. I am barely there but can see how much fun that process is. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and expertise.

  • @shanamatteucci3980
    @shanamatteucci3980 Рік тому

    The pink in the garden looks terrific with your pink shirt! Enjoy watching as you walk thru.

  • @kathy8832
    @kathy8832 Рік тому +1

    I love this! So true, we always want things done ASAP instead of enjoying each step.

  • @gaillepak234
    @gaillepak234 Рік тому

    Every word you spoke in the intro rang so true for me! I am at the same point of neglecting to look at what I have built over the years. Yes it was alot of work but at this age I am now (65) it needs to be enjoyed also. Thank you for speaking so truthfully about how you feel, YES I am not alone!!

  • @kshields273
    @kshields273 Рік тому +2

    I have picked numerous sweet peas, which I have enjoyed indoors all because of your encouragement! The scent is divine, and it’s such a pick me up to see their sweet blooms when I’m inside. Thank you!!!

  • @christinahaftmann4065
    @christinahaftmann4065 Рік тому

    A beautiful, calm oasis! Thanks for the quick feast for the eyes - it's much appreciated. 💐 💐

  • @lustraveller717
    @lustraveller717 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! You definitely lowered my anxiety. I'm going out now to just enjoy my garden instead of making myself feel guilty about all the chores that I should do.

  • @heatheryarbrough5255
    @heatheryarbrough5255 Рік тому

    Absolutely gorgeous. Thanks for the reminder to appreciate our gardens in every one of it’s glorious phases

  • @marymathis9299
    @marymathis9299 11 місяців тому

    Oh my!!! Did you say "...it's under construction."??? Wow, it looks sooo pretty just as it is to me!
    I love the hosta choices and the alum!!! Faves for sure!!!
    I am re-working the yard in a home that was built and occupied since 1945, a cute craftsman! It was unfortunately left for 10 years just before it was purchased and flipped, so the vines had a field day going everywhere,..we have honeysuckle, Virginia creeper, old crepe myrtle trees that have tried to grow a forest all on their own and then there is the ever infamous poison ivy - vines going up big oaks that are bigger than my wrist!!! We cut them about a foot or so above ground so now they are really popping up everywhere from the roots! Oh, let me add, we both are allergic to them, so we have kept a nice fresh crop of PI rashes all summer! Yikes!!! So, keep up the good work and thank the Lord you have such a beautiful, well tended place to play!!! We love it!!! Thanks a ton!!! ❤🌷🌼🌻🦋

  • @dianeasberry7928
    @dianeasberry7928 Рік тому

    My great is all the butterflies all over my Gregg's Mistflower. Magical walking past with the butterflies flying all around.

  • @hilarysharpe5687
    @hilarysharpe5687 11 місяців тому +1

    :) I have those same pots and plate from WH, a Christmas gift from my husband. Thank you for introducing me to Peter's work. Love your channel and Insta page.
    Gardening In VA.

  • @goowoomoo
    @goowoomoo Рік тому

    Oh my how I needed to hear this!!! All I seem to think is “ I need to do this first, so I can do this, but what about that?!” My health has been crap for the past 5 years, so just the bare minimum done during that time. Jumped in with both feet this spring to whip it into shape. It’s now summer and I’m STILL whipping it, but obsessing over it is whipping me mentally & physically. Not what I wanted to happen. “Stop and enjoy playing in the dirt without worrying about what I need to do next!” THAT is what I need to be saying to myself!

  • @Rougebasque
    @Rougebasque Рік тому +1

    Beautiful species. Each spring I feel overwhelded and each autumn I plant! Go figure!

  • @mitzi605
    @mitzi605 Рік тому

    So true. I catch myself in the same furry of work. Sometimes I remember to take a moment and enjoy the beauty.

  • @lisagorman2480
    @lisagorman2480 Рік тому +1

    Oh, my, did I need this!! I was just this morning wondering when I would "finish" everything that needs to be done!

  • @barbarasidel9012
    @barbarasidel9012 Рік тому

    Oh Erin do I ever hear you. I too “suffer” that feeling of ….oh my it’s sooo much what am I doing!! 🥴. I’m 66 yrs old now with a prosthetic hip and it’s harder now, the getting up and down. But.. but I have gardened with love and passion my whole life. I’m not going to stop now! 💚😊. I push myself and once my bare hands are pulling weeds and moving around plants I’m truly at peace.

  • @pamelavalente3731
    @pamelavalente3731 Рік тому +1

    What a great way to "see" our gardens. Take a break, give ourselves a little breathing room. After all, isn't the saying, "stop and smell the roses" (and everything else while we're at it)? Thanks, Erin, for reminding us that we need a reprieve every now and then, so we can recharge our gardening batteries. 💚😊💚

  • @christymclain9912
    @christymclain9912 Рік тому

    You’re garden is beautiful and only you can see the negative parts of it.

  • @juliafiore120
    @juliafiore120 Рік тому +1

    Hello, Erin 👋 Bless you for keeping it real and reminding us to stop and smell the roses. Our gardens are ever evolving and it does take work and, sometimes, a lot of it.

  • @averysmith5932
    @averysmith5932 Рік тому

    Yes! The garden is ever changing and never “done” and that’s the beauty of it! What beautiful gardens you have, I’m Wisconsin zone 4b right on the Mississippi River, so I enjoy your videos ❤️

  • @theresaodwyer2026
    @theresaodwyer2026 Рік тому

    Wisdom from a kindred soul! Love your inspiration to cut some flowers to make a bouquet for the house. I try to have coffee in the garden in the mornings and spend a few moments on a daily devotional. So thankful for the moments to just sit and watch nature.

  • @susanwingblade1799
    @susanwingblade1799 Рік тому

    Oh my gosh! I'm feeling the same way. With the heat, weeds and unplanted things I'm totally overwhelmed with my garden. I worked out there today in 88degree heat and felt really sick. I do appreciate your pointing out the beauty of what's there, doing well and looking really beautiful! Thanks Erin!!!!!

  • @skl5017
    @skl5017 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for this video. This summer I am starting from scratch with a blank rectangle of lawn and a new-to-me home. Exciting, right?! But all the “building from scratch” work is easier dreamt than done! One little project at a time. 😊 And that’s the way it should be - just hard to remember sometimes.

  • @traceykenning1744
    @traceykenning1744 Рік тому

    Glad to hear I'm not the only one who feels overwhelmed as times, when you consistantly hear that the garden brings a sense of calm I think what am I doing wrong, I'm not calm, I have a to do list as long as my arm and start stressing out 😲😲.thanks for reminding us to take a step back and enjoy all the hard work...I now try to keep one day a week to look and enjoy as I walk around my garden but I still pull the odd weed as I walk 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jitkadevaux3958
    @jitkadevaux3958 10 місяців тому

    I know how you are feeling, you are not the only one to feel like that!