+joesuhfeen lol I saw that too...that's basically my reaction when I'm eating out with friends too cause I'm always the slowest at eating but also the one who has the most to say about stuff
Great topic choice guys! It is really comforting to watch this vid and be reminded that it's something everyone kinda goes through and that we're not alone. Went through a little quarter life crisis a few weeks ago and am rebounding out of it now. So thanks for the vid! Keep em coming!
I'm about the same age as these guys....so this was actually a really great lunch break to watch. Goes to show you aren't the only one thinking/worrying about these things...it would be great to see Wes, Phil, and Christine's view on this as well...to see if they've gotten past that 1/4 life crisis or not. And I absolutely love that tidbit that Chris put in about the Chinese character for crisis. I think it really helps to just breath, step back and look at what you're doing.
I am certainly going through quarter life crisis right now. I am 22, senior in college, and just like what you guys have said, I'm dying trying to figure out what I want to do with life. I'm not sure if I really know myself so that doesn't help either. I was telling my friends the other day that I wish my fam is rich so I'd have all the time in the world to figure things out. But you guys have calmed me down, knowing that I'll probably never figure everything out. Maybe I'll end up some where nice that I have never considered before.
Being 20 yrs old and still far from graduating college I can relate to this. Most of my friends are graduating in a year or two, some have jobs, some are getting married or have started a family, and others have started their own business. All of these things I see my fellow peers do makes me feel like I am lacking in life, but I have recently accepted that. Sure I'll graduate a year or two after the rest of my peers, sure I do not have a job right now but there is always the possibility in the future. Everything that are to come, will come in due time. Nothing will happen until I put in the effort. WongFu you guys have always inspired me, growing up as an Asian-American I always wanted to be like you guys. I am currently pursuing a degree in graphic design, while also learning photography and film. Besides my art teachers and others in my life, you guys were also part of the encouragement. It is all thanks to you guys at WongFu! Hopefully one day I will have a chance to work with you!
I needed this video. I'm 24 years old and a recent college graduate that can't find work in my field so I'm taking manual labor jobs to fill the void at the time. It's tough and sometimes I wanna quit but I like the idea of "danger" and "opportunity" in the meaning of crisis. I like to describe my quarter-life crisis as extremely scary yet incredibly exciting all at the same time. Thanks Wong Fu B team!
This is so relevant for me right now. A huge quarter-life crisis after just graduating university, worrying about making the right start in your career. Literally went through all of these thoughts that you guys covered in the video. I've just started my first job this week, having decided to commit to finding a real passion in life rather than find a job just for the starting salary. And I'm really enjoying my new work so far! The quarter-life crisis is really just a motion of deciding what type of person you want to be and the lifestyle you want to have- it's pretty much step 1 of "who am I?". Ultimately, do what makes you happy!
Saw this advise on Pinterest lol Find a hobby that makes you money. Find a hobby that keeps you healthy. Find a hobby that keeps you creative. Sounds like a good plan to me!
This lunch break has seriously lowered my stress a little bit for me. I'm only in my 2nd year of college and I'm already stressing out since I lacked and procrastinated this whole school year; plus I'm also thinking about changing my major from accounting to IDEK so I hope to figure that out soon
+XxsuzieannexX I'm in my 2nd year too and I also procrastinated the whole school year. Idk if I like my major right now cuz I haven't been taking college seriously. I'm taking this summer to really explore my interests and other majors my school offers. I believe it's important to be in a major that you're interested in/passionate about. One advice I have for you if you're thinking about switching majors: is the reason you slacked this whole school year because of the major you're in, yourself, or both? Sometimes people want to blame the major, but it's really themselves that need work.
Hahaha. It was so different hearing Lunch Break with more of a bass sound. So used to hearing Christine and Phil. But I loved this Lunch Break vid and seeing Taylor take the lead :')
25 and still going through my quarter life crisis. I went on a less conventional path in hopes of reaching my goal. What i didn't know was how hard this path would be and how long it would take...Can only keep going forward. Thanks for the video you guys!
wow actually being in that age group, and hearing about it today for the first time, I realize that I am going through it. It sucks and not really enjoying it, but seeing it as an opportunity to grow really hits home.
I’ve been going through a crisis for a year/a year and a half now and have definitely made some drastic changes. While there are still those moments when I’m panic-stricken and completely lost about where I want to go, the thought that pulls me out of that endless cycle of self-doubt is the realization that I don’t regret any of the decisions I’ve made since graduation. I quit my job at a physical therapy office doing what I studied to do in school and am now bartending. I don’t know if it’s something I plan to pursue long-term. At the moment, all I know is that I’ve made some sound decisions and that my judgement has guided me well thus far. As long as I stay on the path of whole-heartedly following my passions (in a time-efficient way), I trust that I’ll find my way.
I'm 22yo. I'm finishing my first year of dental school now (about to be 2nd year dental student). During my high school years, my college years, and even now, sometimes I get the feelings that I don't belong and that this might not be the path for me since all I could see were my failures. Also a lot of times, I just don't know how to do all these things that people expect me to do. A lot of times I was scared of uncertainty, growing up, etc. But you guys are right. Life is full of struggle. I don't have to have everything figured out. As long as I don't give up and let failures get to me, I will be winning in the end. Good luck to all of us! :)
+greyangel14 You got the right attitude! Just keep moving through life not giving up and taking care of yourself and you'll figure out things along the way!
Taylor was oddly wise on this video... not saying he isn't wise but he rarely shows that sentementally wise side of him and I really enjoy those moments.... As well the other 79% of the time where he is cracking punny jokes!!~ ☺☺
I think what I'm going through isn't the worst of what is yet to come, and I'm overcoming my current obstacles bit by bit. The pressure of having to do well in school with 2 amazingly smart older brothers to be compared to, the pressure of deciding the right course to take in uni whilst satisfying both myself and my parents, the pressure of doing what's right instead of what's convenient, the pressure of getting the motivation and self esteem to do whatever that I want to do. It's definitely something that I realise everyone faces, and it's something that even if you think you've overcome, you still have to face it again And again. I don't know how life is going to be like, I think it's scary to even think about growing up and having to face so many more obstacles, but I guess that's life right? I may not know much, I'm 18 this year, but I know for sure that when I grow up, I want to help people. Just like how this episode has helped me. I want to let people know that no one goes through these difficulties alone, that everyone knows how it feels. And it may take some time, but that's my main goal in life. To help people. I know no one would probably read this, but this comment was just so I could get everything out. Get my thoughts straight. But this episode really helped me. Thanks :)
You know guys? You did it. I was subscribed to the main channel, but after the college lunch breaks and this one, I'm subscribing. I hope you post videos that'll help us in LIFE.
I love this lunch break so much! Thanks for sharing your experience and the great definition of crisis meaning in Chinese. Thats a wonderful point of view! You guys always giving me such a great time
I think I just realized that I enjoy watching wongfu videos. Is it alright if you guys have a lunch break talks about what was the biggest regret you have but the optimistic side to it is what made a great impact in your life?
damn WongFu back at it again with real talk XD ha-ha! but seriously, thank you for all this talk, last video was about college acceptance. thank you for spreading positivity!
Ashley, hit the nail on the head. THIS IS MY LIFE RIGHT NOW. Half my friends are getting married, having kids, starting the cliche life. The other half are all too drunk every weekend. Then there's me, who's usually looking into the fridge trying to figure out what to eat. >.< I definitely had that this past year, plus unfortunate family health issues. I'm starting to deal with it now, to make myself happy. The struggle is willing to be happy but knowing that the path that I'm going to choose is not going to make my parents happy, and that I need to just do it for myself. Regardless of anyone's opinions. I think's that's a big struggle for a lot of us, especially first generation born asians/indian kids.
i had a major breakdown over a year ago (during my sophomore yr of college) because i was so scared of the future. i wasn't doing well in my classes; even though it was a very solid major choice (compsci), i wasn't happy. i had seriously considered transferring schools to change my major but my family helped me realize that undergrad is really not a big deal. no matter what you major in, you can always change your direction in life. so i changed my major, but without transferring, and although i'm not planning on using my new major for anything, i think the constant pursuit of knowledge in all areas of life is really important for a well-adjusted mind, so i don't regret being here and now take the time to really enjoy the entire experience instead of worrying about the future.
I'm 25 and feeling like I'm already stuck at a company that I don't see myself excelling in... which sucks thinking about the future. But if I worked for Wong Fu things might be different. I meeeean..... lol Are you in need a social media specialist/ photographer/ emotional supporter?
+titus well i have 28 and i still stuck. Don't know what to do in my life. This real peace me off. I'm working in a oil factory they pay very good salary. But actually don't feel happy there. I never cold go to college. Sorry for my english basic (i'm from argentina).
+Criollo No worries! I got you. Knowing you're making adequate or good money is fine but seeing yourself in the same boring spot for over 8 hours a day for the rest of your life really stinks. Being able to create, bring out emotion and inspire others is worth 8 hours of the rest of my life.
Lunch break videos like these are my favorites! These videos are simple, just four people speaking their minds about a certain topic. But it's soooo helpful! Thank you for this! ❤
7:47 I like how in Chinese the word for "crisis" means opportunity and danger. In Greek, it's closer to judgment or decision. You have to make a choice about what will happen. It's not just coming to terms with what happens to you. You can do it!
I'd like to hear Phil, Wes and Christine's point of view on quarter life crisis. I'm their age and I definitely went through it after university and it lasted untiI I was 27! I'm happy that I'm now out of it and have a better sense of who I am and who I want to be. If there is any tip I can give those who don't really know what they want to pursue as a career just yet, keep trying out the things that interest you whilst working in a job that'll pay the bills. Do it on the side and during your free time. Also, talk to people who are in the field/s you're interested in and get a feel of what their life is like. It'll help you gauge if it's something you'd want for yourself long term.
This is why Wong Fu are so great at connecting with their audience. I had finished a degree and didn't know what to do. Few years later, I went back to study having realised what I actually wanted to do-- 1 year til graduation now.
Hey, WFP! Just wanted to say that I really needed this. I hope you guys know that in little ways like these, you help people get over their slumps. Much love, more power! :)
I went through this a while back...in a job I didn't love but not sure what to do...one helpful thing I was told to try and figure out what I wanted to pursue was think about your 80th birthday and what you'd want people to say about you and your life, what you've achieved...once I did that, I worked backwards and started doing some study part time to achieve those goals...early 30's now and finished my second degree! not too late guys
I'm a freshman in college, and deciding on what major to dedicate my career path towards to is so stressful. It's at the point where I'm currently trying to discover what I want to dedicate my life towards to, as in my major, yet I'm expected to make these sudden decisions at that moment instead of giving me time to breathe and whatnot.
Right now I'm a third year undergrad. I know what I want, but am realizing that it is far more difficult to achieve my goal than what I had realized. Guess I gotta just keep pushing through. Thanks for the amazing video WongFu!!! #WongFubabiesarethecutest
i think my quarter life crisis is not having things figured out or planned out like my friends. i don't feel the pressure, but i constantly feel like i'm doing life at a different pace compared to a lot of my friends. due to Malaysia's education system, i took on Form6 (1.5 years) and will be finishing my degree ( 3.5 years) by the end of this year. i'm turning 24 and honestly, age isn't scaring me as much as it does to everyone else. what i do worry about is whether or not if i'll be able to give my parents the life they deserve after raising me and my brother up to both finish university and find jobs. as someone who identifies very strongly as an artist, i also almost consistently feel that difference in life quality or enjoyment compared to the people around me, even if we're from the same supporting community (i.e. church). but i'm glad to say that i've met a lot more creatives along the way than i ever expected, and it's definitely helped to hear from them (whether they're younger or older) about how they deal with their lives. it keeps me motivated, and well, i guess i really need to make solid plans for my life soon.
I'm so glad I watched this video because right now at 22, and I'm less than a month away from graduating architecture school, and I've been thinking about the dilemma between having fun and explore the world while I'm young, or join the workforce immediately till my 30s. The thing is, after college graduation, I'm planning to work for 1 year in the industry as an architectural assistant (because this is the typical path for archi students after getting their bachelor degrees and it's rather compulsory to have 1 year working experience) and usually after that, we go to archi grad school to finish 2 years of masters degree till we can become a registered architect. But now at this stage of my life, I really really want to go travel and see the world and understand cultures and just find some time to understand myself and my interests (cuz archi school was so intense that there are times I lost my passion in things that I love and could do well prior to college). I just want to take time to rest and figure things out while learning new things. I guess my point is, after my mandatory 1 year of working in an archi firm, should I take a few months to go explore the world (but I may not have enough money), or should I just work super hard to get my masters degrees and work a few more years till I earn enough to travel? If anyone here could relate, please do leave some opinions to help untangle my thoughts, I'd be so grateful!
Well I am turning 25 this year, I am right into my quarter life crisis, I don't really like my job, I don't hate it either but I don't see myself doing that for years to come, family pressure to get settled down, high expectations from my "young" self that haven't been reached as of today, a lot of my friends are struggling too and it is "nice" to see that I am not alone, well we'll just have to wait and see! Also I wanted to say that I really enjoy watching lunch break, it is nice to hear your opinions on different topics!
This video literally could not have come at a better time, thank you guys!!! I feel like I'm going through one, but I don't want to admit it. I'm graduating in a few months and the industry I've been working so hard to get into has taken a turn for the worse :( No one's hiring and things don't look great in the next few years and I'm wondering what on earth to do with my life and all I want is a job! Watching you guys was so comforting and you're all so lovely!
I've also wanted to know exactly what I want to do from a very young age, but I think that honestly it doesn't make things any easier! Life can be scary whether you know what to do or not, so I agree it's about enjoying it and taking the opportunities that you can. Don't feel bad if it doesn't seem to be going right, but don't think that just because you have it "figured out" you can sit back and relax! Learn and grow and have fun! :)
Great session! Love your lunch break talks! Being a single parent at 24 I'm still trying to get my life together. I feel like I have more pressure to know where I should be in my life compared to my peers.
Going through my quater life crisis a little sooner than 25, which is not the worst thing. I agree with Chris, you never have life figured out and you shouldn't want to. Being happy isn't a matter of achieving set goals but learning to enjoy and learn from each and every day
This episode hit close to home for me cuz I'm definitely having those moments right now kinda doubting where i am and where i will be in life. :( Some of us watching are 25 Taylor, we're still young!... Is what I'd like to believe 😅
Thanks guys for talking about this! I've been reflecting on the choices I've made regarding future career paths and this video gave me another perspective to think about (crisis as a danger and an opportunity)
My quarter life crisis started during the end of my junior year in college as a film major. I'm 25 now and am still experiencing it T_T Currently, I working as a marketer for a company but I feel like it's more of a job as oppose to a career. It sucks that I have all of these "adult" responsibilities, which is why I chose the "stable" route, but at the end of the day, film is still my passion.
I had a little bit of a 1/3 life crisis in 2015. I had just turned 30, and finally felt like my career was in the right place. My fiancé and I were planning to go overseas for our wedding (which would have been this year). And then my company downsized and I was let go (amongst other people). And so I was unemployed and we were no longer saving to to go overseas. So I really had to look at where I wanted to be, because I didn't want to just jump into a full-time job in order to pay the bills and get married (and then hate the job). I'm actually still in a little bit of a limbo a year later, but I've been working for myself, and have a better idea of the direction I want to go.
Wong Fu, I really want to know if these lunch break topics are scripted or they just happen. And after it was pointed out, I can't help but see how many times Benson clips are cut! But on the topic of a quarter life crisis, currently in college right now and having the most nerve-racking time applying for internships and co-ops for this summer to see what kind of field I want to go into. I'm definitely feeling the pressure of trying to do something with my life, being 20 it seems to come from everywhere, parents, peers, professors, friends. Thanks for doing these lunch-breaks, it really helps a lot of people and gives everyone else a lot to think about. Keep it up B-Team + Taylor. WF4E
Great LB topic, guys! I'm definitely approaching a quarter-life crisis I think... next year is my last year of uni and although I do have plans, I don't know if it'll actually be something I see myself doing for the rest of my life... although I guess you have the rest of your 20s to figure that out.
As a fellow Asian and in my last year of college I cant even begin to explain how much I can relate to this and how much this has made me feel so much better about myself.
Thanks Chris for the Chinese word. It's so meaningful to me. My quarter life crisis has been grad school lol. But now I know that crisis equals opportunities and it just saved my day. Thanks u guys again
Im 23, definitely in quester-life crisis. Foster child since age 3 on my own at 18 and completely independent with bills to pay. Took student loans and graduated university. The struggle to keep up living in a suburban neighbourhood where everyone has parents who have paid for everything their whole lives and fitting in. Making hardships invisible to passer-by, I have an idea where I want to be and am on a road to get there though. Marketing intern for the summer with L'Oreal. Although if I don't get a full time offer, I go back to a life where one wrong move has my whole life crumble.
I really enjoyed listening to this lunch break. It was encouraging for what I think is my mid quarter crisis right now. I'm graduated and technically in a job that I imagine will be my life career, but the circumstances of this job and the communication/organization of the company is awful. I don't look forward to going to work, but I know that this is only the beginning and I'll have more chances to grow. Plus, I'm learning a lot right now anyways. So... Thanks, guys! :)
I'm 17 and I feel like I'm going through a crisis.. I plan on going to uni in the next couple of years but I don't know what I would like to study, I have interests such as product design.. but I'm scared because I feel like I just like the idea of it rather than being good at the subjectt and I'm going to be 18 this year which scares me even more.. I'm not ready to grow up yet.. obviously, time will be the answer to my questions, I just wanted to complain somewhere..
+JI2118 I get you, I experienced that too during my senior year in hs. I didn't even know what a major meant... I ended up choosing chem eng just because my cousin talked me into it. Then after my first year I realized it wasn't my thing but I still didn't know what I wanted to study. I then changed to Chem major thinking I wanted to become a pharmacist until last month when I decided to go to grad school instead. You just gotta go with the flow sometimes when plans don't work. Good luck!
Wow, this is amazing! I went to high school with Ashley and now here she is, on UA-cam! I don't know if you remember me, Ashley, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm glad to see that an Aiea High School grad is doing well! I wish you the best in your future endeavors! - Sydnie Sivongxay
Ashley Matsunami I'm doing great! About to get my master's in Elementary Ed. Anyway, best of luck and God bless! I'm sure that you will be super successful, working with Wong Fu. XD
Quarter life crisis is probably the most stressful. Finishing up undergrad and trying to make sure your marks, involvement and everything are good enough to get you into grad school. I'm approaching it but I'm sure many other people are too. Thanks for the advice! :)
Yeah im kind of going through a quarterlife crisis and im a senior in college so im kind of going through what taylor went through and my goodness the struggle is quite real.
So been there!! Now to the Next. But these days My attitude has now become more towards I exist therefore I am and This is just how it is and excepting it. Although I do still occasionally reflect and ponder the past present and future.
I'm currently 15, 16 this year, and I'd say I'm having a lil quarter life crisis or something like that.. I want to be an actress, successful one that is, but I dunno how to start in the right direction towards that dream.. Like who and where do I go to? But since having a successful acting career is risky aswell, I also need a sustainable job later to keep me on top of things in my daily life later after like college for when I choose to move out and have to pay things such as bills, tax etc.. Those " adult " things you got to pay for 😂
I'm in my last quarter as an undergrad right now with a major in bio and minor in computer science, and no clue what to do with my life in a few months bc med school doesn't sound appealing to me, and neither does lab/research work. I've no idea where my passion truly lies, too late to try other majors right now, so yeah... I'm definitely facing my quarter life crisis
Me at 12: My sister was applying to college and she made us (her family) very involved in that process, and I realised that there are so many ways to go into life, but a lot of the time you can only pick one way to go, and in seventh grade I was worried about my future obsessively
This Youngins lunch break crew is what every spin off tv series TRIES to be. Love you guys.
+MikeBowShow except Fuller House. That's my shizz
+bensonq 😪✋🏼 #benDAD
+bensonq wanna go to a fuller house season 2 taping?! I know a guy!
You know John Stamos?!
I wanna met John Stamos. He's a really funny guy.
Chris breaking it all down with "crisis" in mandarin and all the characters involved, impressive! #lunchandlearn
5:21 HAHAH Ashley realizes that everyone's already done with their food and hers is barely touched..she's so cute :')
+joesuhfeen lol I saw that too...that's basically my reaction when I'm eating out with friends too cause I'm always the slowest at eating but also the one who has the most to say about stuff
+speechless05 Same! And she has so much left omg
+speechless05 hahaha i love how your username has the word "speechless" in it which makes your comment ironic, but i totally empathize! ^_^
Great topic choice guys! It is really comforting to watch this vid and be reminded that it's something everyone kinda goes through and that we're not alone. Went through a little quarter life crisis a few weeks ago and am rebounding out of it now. So thanks for the vid! Keep em coming!
I'm about the same age as these guys....so this was actually a really great lunch break to watch. Goes to show you aren't the only one thinking/worrying about these things...it would be great to see Wes, Phil, and Christine's view on this as well...to see if they've gotten past that 1/4 life crisis or not.
And I absolutely love that tidbit that Chris put in about the Chinese character for crisis. I think it really helps to just breath, step back and look at what you're doing.
I am certainly going through quarter life crisis right now. I am 22, senior in college, and just like what you guys have said, I'm dying trying to figure out what I want to do with life. I'm not sure if I really know myself so that doesn't help either. I was telling my friends the other day that I wish my fam is rich so I'd have all the time in the world to figure things out. But you guys have calmed me down, knowing that I'll probably never figure everything out. Maybe I'll end up some where nice that I have never considered before.
Being 20 yrs old and still far from graduating college I can relate to this. Most of my friends are graduating in a year or two, some have jobs, some are getting married or have started a family, and others have started their own business. All of these things I see my fellow peers do makes me feel like I am lacking in life, but I have recently accepted that. Sure I'll graduate a year or two after the rest of my peers, sure I do not have a job right now but there is always the possibility in the future. Everything that are to come, will come in due time. Nothing will happen until I put in the effort. WongFu you guys have always inspired me, growing up as an Asian-American I always wanted to be like you guys. I am currently pursuing a degree in graphic design, while also learning photography and film. Besides my art teachers and others in my life, you guys were also part of the encouragement. It is all thanks to you guys at WongFu! Hopefully one day I will have a chance to work with you!
I needed this video. I'm 24 years old and a recent college graduate that can't find work in my field so I'm taking manual labor jobs to fill the void at the time. It's tough and sometimes I wanna quit but I like the idea of "danger" and "opportunity" in the meaning of crisis. I like to describe my quarter-life crisis as extremely scary yet incredibly exciting all at the same time. Thanks Wong Fu B team!
This is so relevant for me right now.
A huge quarter-life crisis after just graduating university, worrying about making the right start in your career. Literally went through all of these thoughts that you guys covered in the video. I've just started my first job this week, having decided to commit to finding a real passion in life rather than find a job just for the starting salary. And I'm really enjoying my new work so far! The quarter-life crisis is really just a motion of deciding what type of person you want to be and the lifestyle you want to have- it's pretty much step 1 of "who am I?". Ultimately, do what makes you happy!
Saw this advise on Pinterest lol
Find a hobby that makes you money.
Find a hobby that keeps you healthy.
Find a hobby that keeps you creative.
Sounds like a good plan to me!
This lunch break has seriously lowered my stress a little bit for me. I'm only in my 2nd year of college and I'm already stressing out since I lacked and procrastinated this whole school year; plus I'm also thinking about changing my major from accounting to IDEK so I hope to figure that out soon
+XxsuzieannexX I'm in my 2nd year too and I also procrastinated the whole school year. Idk if I like my major right now cuz I haven't been taking college seriously. I'm taking this summer to really explore my interests and other majors my school offers. I believe it's important to be in a major that you're interested in/passionate about. One advice I have for you if you're thinking about switching majors: is the reason you slacked this whole school year because of the major you're in, yourself, or both? Sometimes people want to blame the major, but it's really themselves that need work.
Michelly Belly Thank you for the advice!! :)
XxsuzieannexX Same. I'm on the accounting path but am having second thoughts.
XxsuzieannexX I just found out your comment was posted over a year ago. Did you ever figure it out?
Love this episode I am currently going through my quarter life crisis lol T.T thanks for hitting this topic! Makes me feel a lot better! :D
Hahaha. It was so different hearing Lunch Break with more of a bass sound. So used to hearing Christine and Phil. But I loved this Lunch Break vid and seeing Taylor take the lead :')
25 and still going through my quarter life crisis. I went on a less conventional path in hopes of reaching my goal. What i didn't know was how hard this path would be and how long it would take...Can only keep going forward.
Thanks for the video you guys!
That's me rn
I love ashley's shirt! she's so pretty
Isn't she always?
wow actually being in that age group, and hearing about it today for the first time, I realize that I am going through it. It sucks and not really enjoying it, but seeing it as an opportunity to grow really hits home.
I’ve been going through a crisis for a year/a year and a half now and have definitely made some drastic changes. While there are still those moments when I’m panic-stricken and completely lost about where I want to go, the thought that pulls me out of that endless cycle of self-doubt is the realization that I don’t regret any of the decisions I’ve made since graduation.
I quit my job at a physical therapy office doing what I studied to do in school and am now bartending. I don’t know if it’s something I plan to pursue long-term. At the moment, all I know is that I’ve made some sound decisions and that my judgement has guided me well thus far. As long as I stay on the path of whole-heartedly following my passions (in a time-efficient way), I trust that I’ll find my way.
I'm 22yo. I'm finishing my first year of dental school now (about to be 2nd year dental student). During my high school years, my college years, and even now, sometimes I get the feelings that I don't belong and that this might not be the path for me since all I could see were my failures. Also a lot of times, I just don't know how to do all these things that people expect me to do. A lot of times I was scared of uncertainty, growing up, etc.
But you guys are right.
Life is full of struggle. I don't have to have everything figured out. As long as I don't give up and let failures get to me, I will be winning in the end.
Good luck to all of us! :)
+greyangel14 You got the right attitude! Just keep moving through life not giving up and taking care of yourself and you'll figure out things along the way!
+greyangel14 I'm a dentist and it's the best career to go into!
Taylor was oddly wise on this video... not saying he isn't wise but he rarely shows that sentementally wise side of him and I really enjoy those moments.... As well the other 79% of the time where he is cracking punny jokes!!~ ☺☺
I think what I'm going through isn't the worst of what is yet to come, and I'm overcoming my current obstacles bit by bit.
The pressure of having to do well in school with 2 amazingly smart older brothers to be compared to, the pressure of deciding the right course to take in uni whilst satisfying both myself and my parents, the pressure of doing what's right instead of what's convenient, the pressure of getting the motivation and self esteem to do whatever that I want to do.
It's definitely something that I realise everyone faces, and it's something that even if you think you've overcome, you still have to face it again And again.
I don't know how life is going to be like, I think it's scary to even think about growing up and having to face so many more obstacles, but I guess that's life right?
I may not know much, I'm 18 this year, but I know for sure that when I grow up, I want to help people. Just like how this episode has helped me. I want to let people know that no one goes through these difficulties alone, that everyone knows how it feels. And it may take some time, but that's my main goal in life. To help people.
I know no one would probably read this, but this comment was just so I could get everything out. Get my thoughts straight. But this episode really helped me. Thanks :)
I love the usual group, but I would like to see more of this group too(: great video haha here's to the 20s everyone!
You guys are just the best ❤ thanks for the advice and for providing a different perspective! :)
You know guys? You did it. I was subscribed to the main channel, but after the college lunch breaks and this one, I'm subscribing. I hope you post videos that'll help us in LIFE.
I love this lunch break so much! Thanks for sharing your experience and the great definition of crisis meaning in Chinese. Thats a wonderful point of view! You guys always giving me such a great time
I think I just realized that I enjoy watching wongfu videos. Is it alright if you guys have a lunch break talks about what was the biggest regret you have but the optimistic side to it is what made a great impact in your life?
damn WongFu back at it again with real talk XD ha-ha! but seriously, thank you for all this talk, last video was about college acceptance. thank you for spreading positivity!
all the guys finished their lunch lol
Ashley, hit the nail on the head. THIS IS MY LIFE RIGHT NOW. Half my friends are getting married, having kids, starting the cliche life. The other half are all too drunk every weekend. Then there's me, who's usually looking into the fridge trying to figure out what to eat. >.<
I definitely had that this past year, plus unfortunate family health issues. I'm starting to deal with it now, to make myself happy. The struggle is willing to be happy but knowing that the path that I'm going to choose is not going to make my parents happy, and that I need to just do it for myself. Regardless of anyone's opinions. I think's that's a big struggle for a lot of us, especially first generation born asians/indian kids.
this has got to me one of my favorite episodes. They were all so real and open about their crisis.
i had a major breakdown over a year ago (during my sophomore yr of college) because i was so scared of the future. i wasn't doing well in my classes; even though it was a very solid major choice (compsci), i wasn't happy. i had seriously considered transferring schools to change my major but my family helped me realize that undergrad is really not a big deal. no matter what you major in, you can always change your direction in life. so i changed my major, but without transferring, and although i'm not planning on using my new major for anything, i think the constant pursuit of knowledge in all areas of life is really important for a well-adjusted mind, so i don't regret being here and now take the time to really enjoy the entire experience instead of worrying about the future.
I'm 25 and feeling like I'm already stuck at a company that I don't see myself excelling in... which sucks thinking about the future. But if I worked for Wong Fu things might be different. I meeeean..... lol Are you in need a social media specialist/ photographer/ emotional supporter?
Wong fu give him a chance! ☝🏾️
+titus well i have 28 and i still stuck. Don't know what to do in my life. This real peace me off. I'm working in a oil factory they pay very good salary. But actually don't feel happy there. I never cold go to college. Sorry for my english basic (i'm from argentina).
+Criollo No worries! I got you. Knowing you're making adequate or good money is fine but seeing yourself in the same boring spot for over 8 hours a day for the rest of your life really stinks. Being able to create, bring out emotion and inspire others is worth 8 hours of the rest of my life.
+Terrance Wade Thanks for the support brotha!
Lunch break videos like these are my favorites! These videos are simple, just four people speaking their minds about a certain topic. But it's soooo helpful! Thank you for this! ❤
7:47 I like how in Chinese the word for "crisis" means opportunity and danger. In Greek, it's closer to judgment or decision. You have to make a choice about what will happen. It's not just coming to terms with what happens to you. You can do it!
I'd like to hear Phil, Wes and Christine's point of view on quarter life crisis. I'm their age and I definitely went through it after university and it lasted untiI I was 27! I'm happy that I'm now out of it and have a better sense of who I am and who I want to be. If there is any tip I can give those who don't really know what they want to pursue as a career just yet, keep trying out the things that interest you whilst working in a job that'll pay the bills. Do it on the side and during your free time. Also, talk to people who are in the field/s you're interested in and get a feel of what their life is like. It'll help you gauge if it's something you'd want for yourself long term.
lol I cried ... this ep helped me realize that it's okay that I don't have it figured out. Thank you !
This is why Wong Fu are so great at connecting with their audience.
I had finished a degree and didn't know what to do. Few years later, I went back to study having realised what I actually wanted to do-- 1 year til graduation now.
Hey, WFP!
Just wanted to say that I really needed this. I hope you guys know that in little ways like these, you help people get over their slumps. Much love, more power! :)
make more lunch breaks! they're so great omg.. it's like a mini podcast, not too long not too short. keep them coming! :D
Love this so much. Esp Taylor saying that learning happens past college and throughout your career.
super relatable, thank you friends for the insight!
I went through this a while back...in a job I didn't love but not sure what to do...one helpful thing I was told to try and figure out what I wanted to pursue was think about your 80th birthday and what you'd want people to say about you and your life, what you've achieved...once I did that, I worked backwards and started doing some study part time to achieve those goals...early 30's now and finished my second degree! not too late guys
That last part brings tears to my eyes :') wise youngins on lunch break. Best episode ever!
At 26, I sometimes feel like I'm learning things that I should have known at 18
I'm a freshman in college, and deciding on what major to dedicate my career path towards to is so stressful. It's at the point where I'm currently trying to discover what I want to dedicate my life towards to, as in my major, yet I'm expected to make these sudden decisions at that moment instead of giving me time to breathe and whatnot.
I feel you, sometimes I think of not going to university for some time to figure stuff out...
Just graduated from undergrad... currently going through this quarter-life crisis. Thanks Wong Fu, I really needed this talk!
Right now I'm a third year undergrad. I know what I want, but am realizing that it is far more difficult to achieve my goal than what I had realized. Guess I gotta just keep pushing through. Thanks for the amazing video WongFu!!! #WongFubabiesarethecutest
Wong fu team B, what's up!!!??! Squad
Ashley needs to be in every lunch break or I stop watching!
I swear this was the most powerful "Luunnncchhh Break!" that you guys have had so far. xD
i think my quarter life crisis is not having things figured out or planned out like my friends. i don't feel the pressure, but i constantly feel like i'm doing life at a different pace compared to a lot of my friends. due to Malaysia's education system, i took on Form6 (1.5 years) and will be finishing my degree ( 3.5 years) by the end of this year. i'm turning 24 and honestly, age isn't scaring me as much as it does to everyone else. what i do worry about is whether or not if i'll be able to give my parents the life they deserve after raising me and my brother up to both finish university and find jobs.
as someone who identifies very strongly as an artist, i also almost consistently feel that difference in life quality or enjoyment compared to the people around me, even if we're from the same supporting community (i.e. church). but i'm glad to say that i've met a lot more creatives along the way than i ever expected, and it's definitely helped to hear from them (whether they're younger or older) about how they deal with their lives. it keeps me motivated, and well, i guess i really need to make solid plans for my life soon.
I'm so glad I watched this video because right now at 22, and I'm less than a month away from graduating architecture school, and I've been thinking about the dilemma between having fun and explore the world while I'm young, or join the workforce immediately till my 30s. The thing is, after college graduation, I'm planning to work for 1 year in the industry as an architectural assistant (because this is the typical path for archi students after getting their bachelor degrees and it's rather compulsory to have 1 year working experience) and usually after that, we go to archi grad school to finish 2 years of masters degree till we can become a registered architect. But now at this stage of my life, I really really want to go travel and see the world and understand cultures and just find some time to understand myself and my interests (cuz archi school was so intense that there are times I lost my passion in things that I love and could do well prior to college). I just want to take time to rest and figure things out while learning new things. I guess my point is, after my mandatory 1 year of working in an archi firm, should I take a few months to go explore the world (but I may not have enough money), or should I just work super hard to get my masters degrees and work a few more years till I earn enough to travel?
If anyone here could relate, please do leave some opinions to help untangle my thoughts, I'd be so grateful!
I want to see this combo more OFTEN!!!!!!!! They are GREAT!!!!!!!
Can the next topic be like... high school or college life? I'm about to go to college and I'm so nervous as ever!!
Well I am turning 25 this year, I am right into my quarter life crisis, I don't really like my job, I don't hate it either but I don't see myself doing that for years to come, family pressure to get settled down, high expectations from my "young" self that haven't been reached as of today, a lot of my friends are struggling too and it is "nice" to see that I am not alone, well we'll just have to wait and see! Also I wanted to say that I really enjoy watching lunch break, it is nice to hear your opinions on different topics!
I'll def think about your advice in the next couple of years :)
+Emily Nguyen What's up Inspirit!!
Ashely never eats her food....
This video literally could not have come at a better time, thank you guys!!! I feel like I'm going through one, but I don't want to admit it. I'm graduating in a few months and the industry I've been working so hard to get into has taken a turn for the worse :( No one's hiring and things don't look great in the next few years and I'm wondering what on earth to do with my life and all I want is a job! Watching you guys was so comforting and you're all so lovely!
I've also wanted to know exactly what I want to do from a very young age, but I think that honestly it doesn't make things any easier! Life can be scary whether you know what to do or not, so I agree it's about enjoying it and taking the opportunities that you can. Don't feel bad if it doesn't seem to be going right, but don't think that just because you have it "figured out" you can sit back and relax! Learn and grow and have fun! :)
Great session! Love your lunch break talks! Being a single parent at 24 I'm still trying to get my life together. I feel like I have more pressure to know where I should be in my life compared to my peers.
Thank you! Need to hear this :)
Going through my quater life crisis a little sooner than 25, which is not the worst thing. I agree with Chris, you never have life figured out and you shouldn't want to. Being happy isn't a matter of achieving set goals but learning to enjoy and learn from each and every day
This episode hit close to home for me cuz I'm definitely having those moments right now kinda doubting where i am and where i will be in life. :( Some of us watching are 25 Taylor, we're still young!... Is what I'd like to believe 😅
second that
I don't care who is on lunch break, but every time they talk it clears things up for me. It's hard to put into words.
Thanks guys for talking about this! I've been reflecting on the choices I've made regarding future career paths and this video gave me another perspective to think about (crisis as a danger and an opportunity)
Youngins are so wise~
My quarter life crisis started during the end of my junior year in college as a film major. I'm 25 now and am still experiencing it T_T Currently, I working as a marketer for a company but I feel like it's more of a job as oppose to a career. It sucks that I have all of these "adult" responsibilities, which is why I chose the "stable" route, but at the end of the day, film is still my passion.
I had a little bit of a 1/3 life crisis in 2015. I had just turned 30, and finally felt like my career was in the right place. My fiancé and I were planning to go overseas for our wedding (which would have been this year). And then my company downsized and I was let go (amongst other people). And so I was unemployed and we were no longer saving to to go overseas. So I really had to look at where I wanted to be, because I didn't want to just jump into a full-time job in order to pay the bills and get married (and then hate the job). I'm actually still in a little bit of a limbo a year later, but I've been working for myself, and have a better idea of the direction I want to go.
I love how all the guys finished their food but then Ashley's plate is still full😂
Wong Fu, I really want to know if these lunch break topics are scripted or they just happen. And after it was pointed out, I can't help but see how many times Benson clips are cut! But on the topic of a quarter life crisis, currently in college right now and having the most nerve-racking time applying for internships and co-ops for this summer to see what kind of field I want to go into. I'm definitely feeling the pressure of trying to do something with my life, being 20 it seems to come from everywhere, parents, peers, professors, friends. Thanks for doing these lunch-breaks, it really helps a lot of people and gives everyone else a lot to think about. Keep it up B-Team + Taylor. WF4E
I didn't even know Quarter life crisis is a thing until you guys mentioned it but I think I'm sort of in one right now...
Great LB topic, guys! I'm definitely approaching a quarter-life crisis I think... next year is my last year of uni and although I do have plans, I don't know if it'll actually be something I see myself doing for the rest of my life... although I guess you have the rest of your 20s to figure that out.
This was a really good video :)
Youngin crew was great! Def appreciate the switch up but you need to have Ted come back for just 1 episode!! OG Wong fu viewers would love that!
These lunch breaks have been very philosophical lately
so true
I really like this video. The background music is great. Thanks for sharing these "quarter" life crisis!
As a fellow Asian and in my last year of college I cant even begin to explain how much I can relate to this and how much this has made me feel so much better about myself.
Thanks for making this video! Knowing that I am not alone on this helps a lot
Thanks Chris for the Chinese word. It's so meaningful to me. My quarter life crisis has been grad school lol. But now I know that crisis equals opportunities and it just saved my day. Thanks u guys again
Well, Phil is wrong, because I remember ages 4-10...
Im 23, definitely in quester-life crisis. Foster child since age 3 on my own at 18 and completely independent with bills to pay. Took student loans and graduated university. The struggle to keep up living in a suburban neighbourhood where everyone has parents who have paid for everything their whole lives and fitting in. Making hardships invisible to passer-by,
I have an idea where I want to be and am on a road to get there though.
Marketing intern for the summer with L'Oreal. Although if I don't get a full time offer, I go back to a life where one wrong move has my whole life crumble.
I really enjoyed listening to this lunch break. It was encouraging for what I think is my mid quarter crisis right now. I'm graduated and technically in a job that I imagine will be my life career, but the circumstances of this job and the communication/organization of the company is awful. I don't look forward to going to work, but I know that this is only the beginning and I'll have more chances to grow. Plus, I'm learning a lot right now anyways. So... Thanks, guys! :)
this was so deep. you guys are so wise. im so glad im not the only one going through quarter life crisis! thank you for all the wise words, Shifu.
love that u guys talk more about the reality of life... i feel that I'm not alone when I watch you guys talking about it..
thanks Wong Fu... 😊😘
Chris is so wise!!!!
love u guys so much t-t such a good video
I'm 17 and I feel like I'm going through a crisis.. I plan on going to uni in the next couple of years but I don't know what I would like to study, I have interests such as product design.. but I'm scared because I feel like I just like the idea of it rather than being good at the subjectt and I'm going to be 18 this year which scares me even more.. I'm not ready to grow up yet..
obviously, time will be the answer to my questions, I just wanted to complain somewhere..
+JI2118 I felt that too when I was planning on going to university.
+JI2118 I get you, I experienced that too during my senior year in hs. I didn't even know what a major meant... I ended up choosing chem eng just because my cousin talked me into it. Then after my first year I realized it wasn't my thing but I still didn't know what I wanted to study. I then changed to Chem major thinking I wanted to become a pharmacist until last month when I decided to go to grad school instead. You just gotta go with the flow sometimes when plans don't work. Good luck!
thank you!, its nice to know other people are experiencing the same emotions as i am :)
Kathrynii, i like your profile picture taeyeon
U know what crisis you're going through? High school
Thanks guys. This video is what i need right now. :)
@ 1:54 chris is almost done with his food, then @ 2:31 the food reappears! haha
Wow, this is amazing! I went to high school with Ashley and now here she is, on UA-cam! I don't know if you remember me, Ashley, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm glad to see that an Aiea High School grad is doing well! I wish you the best in your future endeavors! - Sydnie Sivongxay
+Sydnie Sivongxay Gah! Of COURSE I remember you, Sydnie 😁 Thanks for watching our channel 💕 Hope you're doing well(:
Ashley Matsunami I'm doing great! About to get my master's in Elementary Ed. Anyway, best of luck and God bless! I'm sure that you will be super successful, working with Wong Fu. XD
Quarter life crisis is probably the most stressful. Finishing up undergrad and trying to make sure your marks, involvement and everything are good enough to get you into grad school. I'm approaching it but I'm sure many other people are too. Thanks for the advice! :)
Yeah im kind of going through a quarterlife crisis and im a senior in college so im kind of going through what taylor went through and my goodness the struggle is quite real.
OMG! This was the exact topic at my dinner table today.
How old is everyone at Wongfu?
Wisdom from the youngins! So self aware. :) Also, love what Chris said about the written expression of "crisis" in Chinese. That is so interesting!
MORE OF THIS PLEASE.
So been there!! Now to the Next. But these days My attitude has now become more towards I exist therefore I am and This is just how it is and excepting it. Although I do still occasionally reflect and ponder the past present and future.
I'm currently 15, 16 this year, and I'd say I'm having a lil quarter life crisis or something like that.. I want to be an actress, successful one that is, but I dunno how to start in the right direction towards that dream.. Like who and where do I go to? But since having a successful acting career is risky aswell, I also need a sustainable job later to keep me on top of things in my daily life later after like college for when I choose to move out and have to pay things such as bills, tax etc.. Those " adult " things you got to pay for 😂
I'm in my last quarter as an undergrad right now with a major in bio and minor in computer science, and no clue what to do with my life in a few months bc med school doesn't sound appealing to me, and neither does lab/research work. I've no idea where my passion truly lies, too late to try other majors right now, so yeah... I'm definitely facing my quarter life crisis
Me at 12:
My sister was applying to college and she made us (her family) very involved in that process, and I realised that there are so many ways to go into life, but a lot of the time you can only pick one way to go, and in seventh grade I was worried about my future obsessively
I never thought about 危機 like that. Chris you definitely have me impressed.