Why does Meghan Markle lie?
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- Almost a year since the Oprah sit-down with Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, the biggest lie that Meghan told about their wedding has me thinking about just why narcissists lie and why they get away with it.
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I think what makes a narcissist so believable is that the majority of them believe their own lies, so they deliver them with absolute conviction, making it difficult to doubt them.
yup, they pretty much convince themselves that they’re telling the truth no matter what others say or think
Kelly, that's a neat observation.
Megan Markle is a PERFECT EXAMPLE to learn from.
Yes, my mother told lies to lift her out of her childhood so she could feel better about herself.
@@deanerdean58 I couldn’t agree more, she’s a perfect, living, real-time case study of a malignant, Messiah-complex Narcissist 😣
Did anyone notice how at the beginning when Meghan lies about their pre-wedding, Harry looks away amd don’t want to meet Oprah’s stare? He knows shes lying and look away. That speaks volume.
Yes! A couple times in the interview he’d reach out to her or try to interrupt. She wouldn’t let him stop her and just kept going. I think he knew it was going to be debunked and I think that he knew she was lying. So my question is- why does he stay knowing that? I can only think it’s because he’s the same?
@@deejames1st I think it's because with all that's been going on, he's in a position where he's trapped within Meghan's grasp and his only chance of freedom was when he went to unveil the statue of Diana with his brother. I could tell from the footage that he was glad to be there and with his brother.
I just hope someday Harry can break free from Meghan and is able to make it up to his family.
@@deejames1st He stays because he has two children with her. That's the main reason. Another is probably that he doesn't want to confess to the world he was wrong and critics of his wife (like William) were right.
MissFrenetique, that's what makes Doprah a creep. She knew right away, from Harry's face that he was squirming under her lies. Doprah is intelligent enough to also recognize a charlatan. And she knew Megamouth was contradicting herself. But she had her own agenda. So never posed the right questions. Just acted badly and said whaaat🤪
The rich will eat themselves.. 🤬 them we are mere useless eaters globally
"this spectacle was for the world". How nice of her to let us plebs have a few moments of joy.
Exactly!! Could you imagine if the Royal Family said “ no big wedding…..MM is 40 year old divorcee, no need for a white wedding gown with a long train and a virginal lengthy veil” !
She likes to think that she's the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Yes very kind considering we paid for it 😂😂
@@joycemarie9702 she would of cried Racism if she'd had a small wedding no doubt.
What did she mean this spectable is for the world and yet wanted a wedding like the one she got, not even her first wedding was like the one she got from the Royals. Why then was she dressed in white with veil, and wanted a tiara if she was married before and a divorcee, wasnt that a spectable? Nothing but lie after lie. Even in her engagement interview from what we saw it included lies. We even noticed the look on her face when Harry said an added member of the family. She gave him a look as if saying he wishes. She already had it figured out that she was never going to live in the UK.
I have to wonder what Harry really thinks when she lies. He was looking at the ground, not even making eye contact with a chicken as his wife blatantly lied. He HAD to be thinking, how in the heck are we going to explain this!? It must be exhausting! And sickening.
He is actually a covert narcissist.
Can you imagine dealing with the deceit of the pregnancies/children? H has to know in his heart that something(s) were/are way wrong.
@@charmaccents6278 He is a covert narcissist but people don't believe it.
@@pkc3168 who is Je
@@marileearsenault3587 Sorry "he"
I have a relative who is a narcissist. She is terrifying. She can lie so well because she truely believes her own lies.
i have one to, and I agree with you.
@@garythornbury9793 Because this is public,I can't go into details as to why the lies have brought such fear but they have to do with the safety of someone very close to me and unable to defend (pronoun excluded for security reasons.) I'm sure, from the wording of your response, that you understand. And please don't say involve the police. I've seen this person manipulate the police in a shockingly blatant manner. The potential for harm is too real.
My ex is exactly the same. He told so many lies he actually believes them himself now..
@@s.v.2796 I will pray for you, and unfortunatly I understand.
Me too. The narcissists in my family are some scary folks….
If they did get married three days before their actual wedding and if I were a British citizen, I’d be pretty upset
As a British citizen paying toward their very expensive wedding, I felt gut wrenched when she fobbed it off as a spectacular nothing. The thing that hurt me most was the horrible, nasty way she treated and is treating her father. That I find unforgivable.
@@Plumplum888 what’s the point of having a big party if you’re going to have a private event a few day’s earlier? It feels like a waste of money
We paid for the most expensive royal wedding in British history all for them to bugger off within a couple of years
@@PennyWenny224 I live in America, but I understand why you feel upset
They should be giving back all the money
My sister is a narcissist and her ability to lie and play the victim is unbelievable. What is worse, is that she is so convincing when she tells me a tale, that I know is a lie, I will completely fall for it in the moment. It is only when I walk off and have time to process, that it starts to go through my mental filter and I wake up and realise I was 'had'.
I know exactly what you are talking about. It is so crazy, isn't it? It's like there is a fog that clears once you are away from them.
Can you give an example for one of her stories? One common trick to test out narcissim and pride in general is to make the person the butt of a joke. Men do it all the time with their friends. They make nasty jokes about each other and test reactions. Can he/she take a joke? Does he laughes it of or fire back in a healthy way? Or does he act upset, because his self imagie got threaten by simple joke.
There’s some kind of enthrall that happens with charming, passionate people. I’ve experienced this too. How you get lost in their truth until you’re no longer around them and can think critically again.
@@nostalji75 Having lived with a Narcissist I m can give you an accurate and simple test for a Narc! Simply tell him or her "No"!! You never tell a Narc " No" unless you are ready to experience a full blown Narcissistic Rage!! What happened when The Queen told MadMeg "no" to the tiara she wanted? There is your example!
@@lindahaggard6416 sadly I dont get that reference. Well idk narcissism is a spektrum. Neither is every narcissist fully delusional of the world around them. So I am not sure if a refusal would proof anything.
First and foremost I must Echo everyone else's comments and say how happy I am to see that your back posting. Your content is just amazing and always well researched and so appreciated by your viewers. Having lived with a narcissist for 30 years I can tell you that there's almost no way to figure out their motives and why they do what they do but at the root of it it's all about themselves and how they can get admiration, adulation and attention.
Since they are emotionally immature. No inner reflection. See it like a child. But with the power and ratio of an adult.
I say con artist
If you lived with a narcissist for 30 years, what does that make you?
@@BerryNiceToMeetYou TOLERANT, EMPATHETIC.
I agree with everything you said, I just wanted to add that one of their main motives for doing what they do is...control. They want to control how others view them and others. Even though it means lying or manipulating, gaslighting blame shifting, devaluing, love bombing, it's all for control. I was married to a female narcissist for 5 years and it was hell but I'm narc free now and I have learned so much from this negative experience.
I got who she was the second I saw her. The phoniness is palpable. How anyone doesn't see it, really confuses me.
I spotted her the first time I saw her way before the engagement probably cos I've known and been played by narcs in the past. I think they do give themselves away with the fake charm and beaming joy in the early days. It was all so look at me were in love it seemed fake. But she was in love ....with the chance of catapulting herself into importance! Lol
Once you catch a person in a single lie they lose ALL credibility. The interview when she said she didn't know anything about Harry but she hoped he was 'nice' is what killed her credibility for me.
@@BarkusMuhl yeah, that was total BS lol.
Yes, she's a phony. There's no authenticity about her. She's insincere and self-serving.
So did I I turned to my daughter and said she's trouble of course she thought she was wonderful she agrees with me now
Harry looks disturbed - he looks down - in the Chicken Coop when Markle said they were married 3 days earlier by the Archbishop.
Do you notice how unhappy Harry looks in these clips? I can count the number of times he smiled with one hand. He definitely shows signs common of those in relationships with narcissists.
Meghan is one of those people who lie for no discernible reason. Saying she didn’t know much about Harry during the Engagement interview made many of us who loved Meghan shake our heads and say “Whaaaat?”
PRINCE HARRY IS AS FAMOUS AS THE QUEEN BACK UNDER UR ROCK MM
You know what the craziest part is. Do you know what her college degree is in? (wait for it, pause for effect......"Theater and International Relations". I'm not making this up. she has master's degree.....but she can't google. She has a master's in International relations.....but she doesn't know enough to look up beforehand people's traditions and cultures. She is just too much
@@borninmassteaparty3132 There was that account who said Meghan went to her first date with Harry wearing Diana's signature perfume. Take it with a grain of salt but seeing other things she's done and the way she's actually copied Diana's wardrobe on many occasions, I wouldn't put that above her. There's also the account of her father who said they talked at some point shortly after she met Harry and told him "I met a prince, dad. A *real* prince". I can't help but think that from the moment she knew she had a common link with Harry that could get her to him, everything from then on was carefully calculated on her part. "What Meghan wants, Meghan gets", as the Prince himself has said it.
She took a tour of Buckingham Palace as a teenager.
@@borninmassteaparty3132 Actually her degree is in Communications...at least that's what the University Program wrote
Also, the most taboo topic is how narcissists will tell you they want to take their own life as the ulitmate way of controlling you. The love-bombing creates the dream, the narcissist will slowly reveal the reality about themselves but you hold on to the initial person you met as a way of keeping the lie/dream alive. It is quite sad and I have been there. It can go on for decades because a good narcissist will make you feel dependent on them in some way, be it emotionally, financially, etc. They will also try to make you feel afraid of losing everything if you leave, like access to children, etc.
That’s exactly right. I listened to Tina/Michelle from the Sussex Squad Podcast go on an angry unhinged rant blaming Taz, Murky, Yankee as well as the entire Royal Family incl HMTQ for pushing “Rachel Meghan Markle to sui**** ideation” and she was so angry and boiling over I swear she’d have physically assaulted on of those ppl she accused. Meanwhile that story has no basis in fact. Piers Morgan called it out. That was her ace in the hole. She played that card to push Harry’s past a point in his mind where he turned his back on everything to “protect her”. That is a sick cruel woman.
Lies!
@@blacksling9 Yep lies are as common as breathing to narcs.
@@ninjacat4929 the irony is you are the narcissist, calling her a narcissist. Hahaha, Meghan hasn’t lie, not because you and your stupid friends said so!
Oh my. That's what me ex would do, he wanted to kill himself but he wasn't strong enough, sob sob. It got on my nerves so much I just stopped listening g to him
I think I speak for everyone when I say, please post a lot more, I miss your content so much🥺
Yes please 😁
Seconded.
Yes, please! 💗
Indeed you do , more please !
What do you do when your spouse tells a bold faced lie? Expose the lie? Disagree with the liar? Or just stare at the ground and hope no one notices you?
I found in the phone of my wife, countless photos of other guys and with other guys, her messages to them, etc... It was just mindblowing. When I confronted her, insisting I had seen it all, well she just denied everything anyway!
Or feed the chickens...
@@joefriday8607 leave her. Runnnnn save yourself lol its a sign
Ah, of course. Stare at the ground and look invisible. After all, it's not like you're a responsible adult and ppl will watch that interview, duh... and if you stare hard enough, little fairies might even appear and bring you new crayons!
Gosh, such a shame, he was a prince and could have done good things with his life, instead he's literally hiding behind a chicken...
@Bestfriendgang ... Ófcourse ... ÉXPOSE THE BOLD FACE LIE ... ☝️& LÉAVE ASAP !!! (been there)
As they were married 3 days prior to the 2nd wedding, I think the British public should ask the money for their fancy wedding back and donate it to a charity.
It is very possible that she thought she could lie and get away with it. Meghan believes she is a genius and that she is always right.
Did anyone else notice how H looked away the moment M lied about their false marriage? He never looked back up until that part of the interview was done.
Meghan feigning humility is hard to watch. I remember hearing that she said she barely knew who Princess Diana was her whole life and I was like, "Does Meghan actually think that this makes her look authentic and sincere?" It's beyond obvious she's creating a persona that's not true.
Dr.Robert Glover says - getting into a toxic relationship is part of the process. You don't know the person until you spend time but getting out at the right time makes all the difference
Even if we try to criticise Megan, others attack you. They call you racist.
Every single time.
Because they choose to believe her lies.
This was her meticulously built plan all along. First, she attached the race card to everything in her life, pratically making it revolve around her skin colour (just in the wedding alone, the black priest, the black choir, the song sang by them that was written by a black musician). Then when she thought she'd planted the seeds well enough, she started turning the whole thing against herself, claiming to be the victim of racism. Maybe she honestly believes that and this is why it's so easy for her to play her role? While she wanted to become popular purely based on her race, trying to use black people because they stand up for each other, she started believing that she was oppressed and hurt too...
@Laurel Bozman There is also the possibility that they might have been PAID to defend The Duchess of Deceit!! Almost always these defenders have poor grammar, spelling, and sentence structure. What they lack in grammar is always made up for in the viciousness and hatred in their attacks!
@@lindahaggard6416 Harry once said that 70% of the hate against her could be attributed to 83 Twitter accounts. There are 400 million Twitter accounts and 83 fuel the hate directed at her? I have often thought, *she is tied to those accounts*.
Harry looked away from her, to the ground, when she said that didn’t look at her and smile. Yep! Obvious lie.
He was ashamed.
I wish someone would unpack OPRAH’S role in all this. Let’s list the questions she did not ask - that any one of us would have. Let’s talk about if she was complicit. Let’s note what lies they told that SHOULD have made Oprah throw back her head and laugh because they were too, too identifiable as horseshit. Like that Harry’s first wife never googled anything. Like that a Church of England marriage has protocols. Like that she considered her wedding a spectacle. Why didn’t she just elope? Etc., we all know. People endlessly dissect the two grifters, but the world famous “interviewer“ needs to be figured out as well. As well, I’d love to know what the backlash really was and where she stands now.
Let me remind everybody what Oprah did to that author of “A Million Little Pieces” when it came out that he had lied to her. She dragged that guy through the parking lot on the back of her limousine. Why didn’t she do the same with these two?
You are 1000% on the ball with this!!! I’ll NEVER FORGET how AWFUL she was to that author!!!!! It was like 2003? 2004? And it changed my view of Oprah on the spot.
@@the.real.camille It was so painful to see Oprah’s ego rear up at that guy. She threw her considerable weight at him. I remember wondering if she should campaign to have all “memoirs” fact- checked. Oprah is NOT a good person.
@@drummerlovesbookworm9738 Nail. On. Head. She’s nothing even remotely resembling a good person. But for real, your entire first comment was EXACTLY what someone needs to unpack! I got excited when I read it lol
@@the.real.camille SueMe could research this for starters. She’s a digger-of-facts and seems like an objective, clear-minded thinker.
i think we should accept that Orpah was complicit anything else is lying to ourselves.. She connected the racist issue that they attack the royal family with tabloid that they edited to look like all negative media was only coming from uk. When Meghan was talking about her suicide she started selling her show with harry who does like she knew it was not true.What i dont like is people like Oprah trying to sell mental health which should not be sold .She attached herself to weight watcher because of diet industry now she is selling mental health. She is an enabler and narcissist's persist in this world because of enabler.
Look at their wedding vows, she is completely faking her reactions and he looks like he is under a spell. My father, like my sister, is also a narcissist and many people tell me how wonderful he is. They would not recognise the man who tried to punch the windows in when my mother said no to him. I remember watching a true-crime documentary about John Cooper (who was a serial killer). He tried to blame it on his son and when interviewed about it, his son commented that he never thought people would know the truth about his father as he was the favourite down the pub, the one who always got a friendly slap on the back, how could he tell anyone that he was a monster.
Why has she never been confronted about the wedding lie?
Neither have them have been confronted because they design it that way. Can you imagine a proper journalist questioning them? They’d crumble
This is the lie that grinds my gears too. I've lost count of the number of people I've sparred with who try to insist she was talking about an unofficial, private thing between just the two of them. If you push back they say, she was confused and as an American, she THOUGHT she was getting married. They actually think you are as stupid as they are. Maggot is absolutely unequivocal in stating how she basically has the Bish on speed dial, was able to call him at a moment's notice to drop everything to perform an illegal wedding, in an unlicensed 'back yard' because the upcoming £30 million pound UK taxpayer funded wedding was an unwanted 'spectacle' that meant nothing to them. Harry's face says everything you need to know about the truthfulness - and sheer ludicrousness - of what was spilling out of her mouth. He is visibly cringing with shame.
"Maggot" is good!
@@carlinetorweihe4246 No, it's a dreadful depersonalisation of another human being, however much we dislike her. Anyone who calls Markle 'Maggot', 'It' or 'Thing' should be ashamed of themselves. They're as bad as the Sussex Squad.
STOP your comment made me laugh so hard
@@boudicca9807 If this upsets you then you should be listening to a handful of men(young ) having a long discussion about MM after the O interview was aired.
@@boudicca9807 bwahaha my original response has been removed. Despite self- censorship. Suffice to say the gist of it was along the lines of my original word for her - see you next Tuesday - was actually replaced with something far more family friendly. If I thought the cow had a human soul, I’d find kinder words. As you were.
My husband has NPD and he is a male 60+ year old Meghan Markle. I was one of the people who was calling her out before the tiara incident. If you look up narcissist in Websters, MM’s picture should be there.
Thanks for making the "narcissist" series........you really saved me from a lot of upcoming torture
That would be great if you could do more in the future on narcissistic behaviour, especially on how her husband has changed and become more like her. Is this a survival tactic or is he a narcissist too? Thank you for this very interesting video.
That would be a great topic! My uncle married a narcissist too and I think he’s become more like her for survival.
Watch HG Tudor's videos on Meghan n Harry dynamic.very eye opening.
@@roadrunner3232 Brilliant videos from BLG and HG Tudor. Believing Bruce is another good one.
@@roadrunner3232 I've watched HG - very entertaining, too! At the start I thought MM was impulsive because what she said on Monday would become the opposite by Friday -e.g. "I let praise and criticism go down the same drain", followed by "I'm the most trolled person on earth. It's almost unsurvivable" (or words to that effect). So which is it, because those are two opposite statements. At the time I could only put it down to impulsivity based on how she felt emotionally on that day. However, I think HG says that it's her need to control on a moment-by-moment basis doesn't he?
It's still hard to understand why someone like MM, up there on the global stage, keeps lying about things that are so easy to refute. The only answer that made some sense to me came from a mental health professional of my acquaintance who reminded me of the Oprah interview and of OW saying that MM was telling "her truth". He said that if she has a personality disorder, what she says may indeed by "her truth" because she just doesn't construe the world as we do.
He was always an easy target he was the wild child of the family.
Missed you baggage claim!! Hope you had a wonderful wedding & the well deserved time off! Great to see you back!
Personally, I don't believe Meg is a good or skillful liar because a lot of the things she says are ridiculous...like "I knew nothing of my husband's family before I met him," acting like she never heard of her husband's famous mother, "the most photographed woman in the world." She may come across as charming, and there are people who wanted to like her because she is the first person of color to be a member of the royal family, so people wanted to embrace as a symbol of change and progressiveness. And if you have any biases or concerns about her, then you are considered racist. Meg is taking advantage of the "fragile political climate" we live in now to "voice" her concerns about racial injustice to make herself look like a social justice warrior. I guess people want to believe her because she uses phrases like, "I want to use my voice" and "I want to tell my truth," to get people to relate to her, because she speaks to those who feel voiceless and misunderstood. She wants to come across as the "underdog" battling this powerful world-renowned institution (the monarchy), so we want to root for her because represents "the little guy." Unfortunately for her, playing the victim will not get her too far, as her mask comes off and her lies are getting debunked.
She may be dressed down to Earth but Harry is wearing the most expensive pair of boots to a chicken coop. They're like $250 and are only purchased by guys who's jobs require them to stand shin deep in human waste.
Excellent analysis on all points. Especially love the chicken coop conversation where Meghan is literally “down to earth”. I knew her story was complete BS but had never really appreciated the overt symbolism until now. MM is so calculating in crafting her narrative.
Harry looks straight down to the ground when Oprah looks at him as his wife lies to her.
Glad to see you and your content back! Some of the best analysis I've seen
No matter how strong the conviction is in the voice of the narcissist, most are not good at lying with their facial expressions. Regardless of what lies come out of Meg-a-liar's mouth, her fake expressions always give it away for me. She hasn't mastered the genuine expressions to match the lies yet.
She's always over the top with the hand gestures, forced body language, calculated expressions. It must be because the bigger part of human communication is non-verbal and others around her can easily realize how phony she is. So she needs the massive gestures and manipulated body language to distract attention from her fake facial expressions. She's clearly not a great actress because she could never control those entirely.
@@fanni24 thank you for putting into words what I've thought about her since first seeing her in the engagement interview. A real phony, fake person. I think she has low self-esteem.
@@fanni24 agree
After so Long Mam....
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Thank you, for your in depth study into Narcissism, it is badly needed.
Its in her eyes. That little doe-eyed, puppy eye looks she gave Harry at the wedding ceremony and the one she gave in the interview thats the thumbnail. It makes her look innocent, authentically in love, or inwardly sad. She knows when the cameras are watching and even when she doesn't speak her eyes are doing the lying for her.
When I look at her eyes I see a psychopath 😳😱
It's chilling how she can do that so simply, out of the blue. If no one pointed it out, many of us wouldn't even notice it. Harry is damaged since childhood due to his mother's death and I believe he's quite gullible if he feels he can get love and attention from certain people. He's always been the second-born, the child that his father wanted to be a girl instead of a boy, a spare to the throne, etc. And he got used to special treatment from his grandmother, great grandmother and up until her death, her mother. Meghan found his soft spot and wormed her way into his trust. It's the most evident when she acts like the snow-white lamb born yesterday in front of Harry, doe-eyed and naive but she can also turn into a controlling, manipulative persona in a second, tossing him on her side, clinging on his hand, patting him on the back, etc.
@@dragonflywings4669 agree
you're 100% correct. Funny thing: it's exactly her eyes that made it instantly obvious to me (and probably many other people that are highly sensitive) that she is a manipulator. I have this "gift" too (being able to manipulate) but I hardly ever use it and if so, only to calm down an angry client or similar "good" actions. The difference between her and I is that I'm not a narcissist. But I instantly spot someone else using that tactic. Some people may say a "gut feeling" isn't enough and only facts count, but this gut feeling helped us to survive thousands of years and yes, it can be stronger in some people than it is in others. I've instantly felt a specific vibe coming off her. I've tried to ignore it because I don't wanna judge people I don't know, but when it comes to Meghan, it's been SO obvious from the start how much she's manipulating, it almost hurts.
All the red flags were there already in the cringeworthy engagement interview. Once you've had the misfortune to live with a narc , you spot them a mile off.
This has made me reflect on myself more than I think it should. It made me think of lies I told to make an image for myself and how I abused that to my benefit. Thank you...
Thanks for sharing very though to do that
When you have grown up with s Narcissistic mother as I did, you lose faith and believe NOTHING they say and you spot them from miles away.
It’s so true that narcissists take advantage of your good nature and natural desire to believe what they say. We make the mistake of assuming that they feel and think the way we do - which they don’t.
Harry put his head down, he seemed embarrassed and wanted no part of her lie.
I’m so glad your back , your videos are so important and they touch on subjects I believe in so deeply. You say exactly everything that i wish I had the courage to say . Thank you
You're glad that her back and her videos are so impirtant?
Liked before I even watched because I know this is gonna be soooo good. Glad you’re back!
Me too 😊
Great to see you back, you always have amazing content. Could you do a video on how the Palace bent over backwards to accommodate Meghan? How they let her do things way before Catherine was allowed to do, how many times Meghan went deliberately against royal protocol, how uninterested she was during her royal engagements, leaving after 10mins etc. I think this is a very important aspect as people do not realise what special treatment she received, which makes it even more shocking how she stabbed them in the back later on and claimed that she was the victim. As a palace source said "right from the start, she courted rejection." Thank you
I'd be really interested in that analysis! Glad to se you got a BC like :D This would be so interesting especially since some say the palace did a lot behind the scenes as well to protect H and MM's negative press (to the extent they could) and the fact that the palace did not react or protect their staff when they filed concerns/complints (by Jason Knauf) against M. Some are also suggesting that the fact that nothing has come out of the bullying investigation is the Palace protecting them as well. Also the amount of help she got by having senior palace aid Samantha Cohen and more.
Have you also covered the lie she told the judge, claiming she never worked with the authors of Finding Freedom? Also getting the authors to lie as well. When found out, she claimed she forgot but that doesn't cover the fact that the authors also somehow forgot working with her staff and sitting and talking with her staff for hours, on a book they were writing about her. It is so blatantly another lie, used to coverup the first lie.
And she got away with it.
She’s back!!
It’s more than ‘significant’ it was a turning point for many people in the UK. We PAID millions, and no it didn’t pay for itself 🙄, for that. People camped out, people stood and cheered yet she did it, waved 🙄🙄 and endured it for everyone else. What a liberty. No one asked for this. 😡😡😡 especially as she has never acknowledged the lie nor apologise. They even tried to protect her at first ‘ohhh it was the rehearsal, maybe she become confused’. No. Just no.
Can I just say I LOVE your videos! The amount of detail you put into each one is greatly appreciated. Might binge watch the previous ones while I’m here :))
So glad you are back posting content. 😊My recent session with my therapist really opened my eyes on narcissism. He said most of the time people with personality disorders usually exhibit traits from more than one PD under their cluster. Narcissism is under cluster B along with antisocial, histrionic and borderline PD. I do know someone who is both narcissistic and histrionic, and this person is completely unaware of how they hurt those around them. It is as if they are a totally different person in their head than what they truly are
Oh man I have never seen some of the clips and footage use in this video before. The one where she walks into the room and immediately poses for photos before greeting the hosts like she forgot why she was there is utterly embarrassing as a public servant.
Baggage you are my fav youtuber. Please please please post regularly. You ARE BRILLIANT
Narcissists cannot help but lie. They have a false self & lying is part of their facade. They literally become the factious character they’ve worked so hard to build. They take ideas from others and build a super persona who they feel is the best at whatever they value. For example, if they’re a blues musician, they learn everything they can about their favorite blues artists and transform into a version of that. Most narcissists I know have a platform & are excellent at leveraging it be it music, art, personal training, modeling, acting, ect. Their fake modesty makes normal people think they’re genuine and people believe them.
It's great to hear from you again. Keep up your good work😉. Take your time🤗
No you're right it was like explosive diarrhea
It was never about the lie itself. Meghan wants important people talking about her, dragged down to her level, because if she's ever going down she's taking everybody with her.
Which is why it irks her so much the royals don't always respond to her attacks. A narcissist thrives on these reactions.
Love your work. I would like to add this. Narcissists lie because their brain is stuck in a developmental stage where the social/emotional part of the brain is underdeveloped. A child around the age of 2.5 begins to 'fantasize'. This is when 'imaginary friends' show up. The brain is creating a person/situation where the brain is getting whatbit needs to develop through a healthy diadic (2 way) relationship, even though it is pretend. A Narcissist is where the brain is still stuck in this place of development. The brain was better served by the imaginary world than the real world. It continues. As they grow, other parts of the brain are compensating/adding to the situation, Ie. the part that mimics. That's then part of the brain that takes on external characteristics in order to 'fit in' with society. Narcissist behaviour, essentially, is the result of a brain simulating what it needs for growth and development. We get sucked in, because it creates/reads the senario that our brain is craving for its development. That's why we suffer through so much pain instead of juat leaving. Our brain wants them the change to give us what we bought into, the lie. They are not aware, because its all the brain trying to survive, its survival driven. Thats why they don't remember what they say, that's why they deny your reality
This comes after much research into the neuroscience behind all of this. It's newer, and gonna change the way we look at, and understand the behaviours.
Yep, they are stuck in the toddler stage, both with trying to get their own way, thinking the world revolves around their wants and in terms of emotional development.
So… instead of building an imaginary friend, narcissists build imaginary selves? And longterm-victims of narcissists depend on this imaginary version for their own needs?
But… I don’t buy that narcissists don’t remember what they say. I think they may bury the facts, but I don’t think it’s always completely forgotten. For instance, a narcissist in my life denied and denied something they had said, only to eventually admit to lying about it. Oh, but this was okay since (in their twisted logic) “everybody lies.” 🤢
The most awful version of narcissism, is the kind that hurts other people to support & defend this false reality, and that is very much what Harry & Meghan have tried to do to the RF & her poor father, Thomas Markle. I will never forget them heartlessly accusing the RF of using Philip’s last illness against them, while going ahead with the Oprah interview.
Harry & Meghan had a choice to be as cruel as they have been. Imho, this was not all mis-wired brain structure. Rewatching Meghan lie about her marriage like that with the chickens makes her look CERTIFIABLE. Without therapy, I think Meghan in particular should be kept as distant from the RF as possible!
This is a superb comment
"They are not aware, because its all the brain trying to survive, its survival driven. Thats why they don't remember what they say, that's why they deny your reality"
Wow. I know two narcissists and this statement here sums them up so well. Especially with one of them, he has made me feel like I'm crazy sometimes, as if my clear memories are false or exaggerated when they paint him in a bad light, even though I *know* I'm right. Thank you for this.
@@Cali_Flowers The admittance is less based on memory and more based on the realization that if he does not 'admit' things will get worse for him (you leave). So he admits to it, but not really, just whatever it takes to make you believe his is trying to do what you want. That's the survival piece. He relies on you to live, so he will say what you want to hear.
Nice to see your back
Thank you lovely for opening people's eyes. The uk public saw the ways she behaved when here. She's an appalling woman and we've now seen Harry's dreadful behaviour! x
Great video, wonderful content, great delivery! I got the feeling that Oprah in this case was in on the lies, not that she knew all the answers were wrong but that she wanted to gloss over them because she was keen to do the interview for her own profit.
Love your videos and I’d like to see more videos on this topic in the future!
So excited to see you back! Great video :) could you do one on which members of the RF saw through Meghan first and why?
I can tell you now. Philip, Charles, William, Edward and Anne saw through her schemes but most of all it was the Queen who agreed with William. HMTQ questioned why Malarky was wearing virginal white and in particular the white veil. The question posed was "why is she wearing a white virginal veil when she isn't really fit to wear it?"
The carpet covering the aisle is blue but she wanted a red one. Really? Did she think she was going to the Oscars? So what did HM do? She had the carpet lifted and Malarky had to walk on bare flagstones.
Did you know that Givenchy had their label removed from the dress?
We should apologise to the Markle family (except for Malarky) for not believing them when they were trying to warn us. The RF had checked her out which is why William begged him to slow down but H was sex-bombed by a 42 year old ex-mattress actress, who is now 45, and wearing his mother's perfume. That last one makes me want to gag. Creepy. I will ask again. Why is Archie a redhead in the Christmas card and last week's photo shows him with dark curly hair. DNA DNA DNA
I heard it was Princess Anne. She is one tough cookie.
Return of the queen
Really excellent video! Narcissistic personality disorder has really started to be discussed in the mainstream so having a very public narcissist to use as a case study is important. MM is certainly a textbook example of what narcissism looks like. I think that even those people who don't recognize her behavior as narcissistic have an innate understanding that there's something very 'off' about her and her behavior. Keep the videos about narcissism coming! I think you're going to have a wealth of information about MM at your disposal since fame is her oxygen and she won't be going away any time soon.
Thank you for posting again! We missed you!
Great to see you back with another amazing video!
Narcissist have amazing conviction and passion for their lies that they can fool almost anyone (you hit the nail on the head with Holmes) including themselves. But once people discover who they are and break away from them they tend to avoid any interaction with them whatsoever, subsequent lies do not get called out as narcs surround themselves only with those they can 'control' and they ignore any negative 'rumours', by which I mean fact based evidence!
So glad to see you back baggage claim. Just wanted to leave a comment there but comment was restricted.
Keep up the work. Your much needed hiatus is understood 👍 by all of us.
My ex mother in law was a narcissist ..I seen her lie straight to people's face with such obvious lies. No shame, no self-awarness, no nothing. It is like experiencing someone with a learning disability. These people are insane.
You have been on my mind , a little worried .... soooo relieved and happy to hear from you again 🙋💕
Excellent vid. It seems only people that have been in very close contact with a narcissist or sociopath can see how they operate. Hard to explain but you do it incredibly well!
Thanks so much for finding time to create and post this analysis. It is a lot of work to do quality work.
Distraction techniques 100% of her past think a lot of her past is soon to come out
Tom Bauer's book will uncover everything. He is a top investigative journalist and researches everything meticulously. He said he has been approached by so many people wanting to dish the dirt, that he will have to write two books.
You explain it very simply and well. It is such a complex subject. Harry has made such a mess of his life. Is he aware of this yet or is hs totally caught up in the web of deceit?
So excited to see a new video!!! Hope there’s more coming 🤩
Love your videos! So good you are back. Excellent commentary, research and educational information.
You just described my ex-husband! Yes to all of what you said!!!🌞
Meghan thought of her wedding as a spectical, that's very unappreciated but Meghan don't appreciate anything.
I have personal reasons to thank you for this very short but clear representation of (part of) the narcissism personality disorder. Mankind is suffering from these people. The system we have created, with how we reward people in jobs for example, is a perfect collector for these types of people. Organizations and their people suffer greatly.
The thing is, I don't think Oprah believes Megan. I think she not only knows she's lying but is willing to help her reinforce the lies (hence going to a chicken coop and not questioning the more unbelievable things she says like a real interviewer should). I've heard some pretty sketchy things about Oprah lately too so I don't think her facade of being so kind and honest is any different from Megan.
In the beginning, I loved Meghan and Harry together. I thought she was the fresh air the British royal house lacked. I certainly do not feel that way today.
Her narcissism keeps her own self from, knowing what she truly is. She crafted the acting arts growing up, was enabled and taught by bad parenting, like her Father's behavior. Harry has no boundary recognition and feels Her Power and loves it. Empathy must have left, after Diana passed on, if that wasn't His Persona as well.
I was missing you, Baggage💕. I binged your entire for the 3rd after this video
Yay!!! Welcome back! Happy 2022!!!
Absolutely brilliant. You articulate this so well. Thank you!!
Glad to have you back!!
What is so phenomenal is that this narcissist has struck it rich and has all the narcissistic supply any narcissist could ever dream of. However this has made her the poster girl for narcissism and shown all the world how they operate.
Wonderful job You are spot on and talked through the topic so well.
It’s honestly mind blowing when you’re finally be able to see & understand that a Person is narcissistic. So much of their behavior and actions are consistently predictable once you understand what you’re dealing with. Still so very hard
So glad to see you post again! You are truly one of my favorites UA-cam posters. Thanks for all your info.
I've been waiting for more videos on this dangerous, anti freedom twosome. I love this channel because of this awareness & calling these Dangerous people out, they are openly anti freedom and anti freedom of speech and thought, and they bully, abuse and harrass everyone from their own family, staff and even strangers online that they pay people to stalk and harass. It's scary. It's authoritative. It's repressive. They are vile people.
I just found your channel and I AM IN LOVE with your analysis style!!! So well rounded. Broken down so we can see the big picture! Hun you've got to start putting out videos on a regular basis!!! I have a feeling I'm about to watch every single video on your channel. LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!
Clicked so fast. Been waiting for your next video! 😊
OMG bless you sweetheart, I was waiting for this. I’ve been rewatching your videos waiting for u to upload.
I've missed you! Thanks for another brilliant video. Love your research, editing, and narration. xxx
Wow this video was so informative and really dove into the motives of narcissists. Great analysis. Keep doing more of these videos please!
Welcome back 😁
Happy new year
These essays of yours are astoundingly good. Thank you.
Thank you for the upload! So glad to see you back x