one comment I will make as a gay man, people that transition can be very selfish. The whole "I'm the same person" stuff is NOT how everyone views things. It's almost if they try to guilt you into staying with them. People can choice who they want to be with. I've had trans women online get upset but I was not interested in them. Like why are you mad? Find someone that is and leave me alone. If I get with a man, but he transitions into a woman I'm out. If I wanted to be with woman I most definitely could be but that's not what I'm attracted to. I didn't sign up for that. You can't force an attraction that isn't there 🤷🏾♂️
Stop. What you're spreading right now is harmful. It's not THE truth. It's just one nugget of truth in a big old bucket of truths. After this election, the trans community needs support more than ever. And if you think they won't come after the gay community next, you do not understand whats coming down the pike. Be part of the solution. Stop giving haters more unessesary ammo.
I totally agree with you but not everybody that transition into a woman is selfish but don't get me wrong I respect you opinion and I'm saying it because I'm a trans woman myself when I started transitioning I was not selfish at all
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
Biologically he knows he RegardkThat will never change.In his head he wants to be a woman. So he is Transitioning into a woman .Until that phase is complete he will not be a transformation. He knows it's that that is why he is willing to stand in his man ness for the man he loves and cross dress as a woman. Judge Star should leave him alone and let him be what he wants. She is just mad because this man is confirming what some people have been saying . This is also a reason not to allow children to use hormone blockers or transition until they are of age. I am done with Judge Star.
I think it’s selfish to try to guilt or shame someone into being in a relationship with you, when you’ve changed so drastically. You have to own your choices. Other people have feelings too. Respect their choices. Choices have consequences, and everybody deserves to be in a committed romantic relationship with someone they desire and are attracted. That outfit though. 😂 It doesn’t say “that’s my boo.” It says “IDGAF” in a wig. IMO
5mins in and the issues are already abundantly clear.. 1) They moved too quickly 2) Gay bro is a Cisgendered gay man who’s attracted to other Cisgendered gay men. None of the details matter, the relationship was over before it even began.
Elle!!!!!! Oh, Elle. I've seen you on TV before, but won't say which show. Seeing you then and now tells me that you're trying to make it. You're trying to find your footing and find yourself. I don't know your other struggles. But with having to be an escort, I can only imagine(unless it's something you enjoy). I don't think you're a bad person. Nor do I think Jash is a bad person for wanting what he wants. I'm sensing a lot of worry on your end, and I'm hoping that Jash can be a friend to you and help you back on your feet. I really wish I was a house mother and had a house to help people like you. If you can keep your heart pure, I'm sure there are good things that'll come your way. If it's the TV/reality TV show thing, then do it! Bad boys club, RuPaul's Drag Race, etc. Either way, there is something out there for you. Just please, don't change yourself for the sake of being with someone. Love yourself. You deserve someone to love you for you as much as Jash deserves to be with whoever makes him happy. I truly hope the best for both of you. ❤
This is being in your 20s. You think the sky will literally fall if you walk away from what you think is "love". Eesh! This was hard to watch. Judge was right on all advice.
WOW. This was a profound and SAD Case. I wish them both the best. But like the judge said, Ms. ELLE needs to live in her TRUE SELF. And NOT compromise that just to be able to stay with Mr. Jash. She will and needs to be with someone who FULLY ACCEPTS her. And loves and is IN love with HER. The woman she has become.
I think they should be able to annul a marriage. The plaintiff said that she has always wanted to be a woman but got married as a gay man and expected her partner to just “deal with it” basically.
He’s not real a transgendered woman if he willing to flip back on a dime over a relationship. The other dude needs to just leave and just find a gay man
I totally agree what judge star. Work hard individually for a while. Now is not the time. What makes me more sad is she still doesn't understand what the issue is.
He can either want the defendant to go along with his delusions and call him a woman which means that they can’t be together because the defendant is gay or he can live in reality and just be a feminine presenting gay man. Maybe then he and the defendant can try to salvage the relationship.
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Respectfully, this is just another case of proof that some “trans” people should not make the transition if they’re not even emotionally secure within their own selves. This is literally a case where she is playing dress-ups and is so insecure, desperate and obsessed with the partner, that she’s more worried about trying to please and exploit someone for her own gain, rather than living according to who she thinks she is.
They really jumped the gun buying a home before even getting engaged. If Elle can't be herself in this relationship, there's no way its going to last; they'll be miserable
I think if you have feelings of being someone else you should tell that from the beginning period not think someone should accept you and they didn't have a clue this who you was all along please people be open and honest about who you are who you want to be. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF NOT FAIR FOR OTHERS
For the love of God leave each other alone. He should be with someone he’s attracted to and she should do her own thing and be the person she is. I wish both of them the best, especially her. Hope she can understand that she can’t mold into something that she isn’t just because she wants to be loved
Alright, how was your day? Mom's gonna be a good day in kuwai'm cool. I'm gonna make you upset and then I feel like they start raiding around me. I know I still gotta go to court but I feel like they didn't. They could do in Georgetown I really fault if that's what it is. I love you. I'm blessed night.
wow engaged so quickly? THEY made a rod for their own backs. They didn’t really know each other and the situation they find themselves in now proves it. Very sad all round I hope they stay amicable 😐
I literally missed that part and didn’t even see the name elle😂 I saw your comment clicked on the timestamp and bout lost it bc the body structure already threw me off but soon as I heard that that voice my mouth dropped. And that wig ain’t tf it 😂
Cool-video! My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him*
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment!
“I like men “ well he is one dressed like a girl .. well ok Star jones stop it being true to self is also reality men are men women are women 💯💯💯prayers to all ❤️💯
@@MAKINGULAUGH27 i’m pretty sure she knows this lol she just doesn’t want to get canceled. You know, nowadays, if you don’t go along with their delusions, they want to call you all sorts of bigots and phobes smh
I came from his tiktok. And I'm just wondering where the elmo voice is. He deserves nothing. He's not trans he's just a clout chaser. He claims to have pcos, an implanted uterus, a period. None of which he has. He admitted scams doordash ubereats and uses his mother as a bank. This is just insane.
This episode is something I won't put up with as a gay man. If you don't respect yourself no one else will. I like men and men only but I won't tolerate a selfish gay man who wants to be a woman and expect me to accept it. I cannot be with someone who doesn't love themselves.
Sounds like he needs counseling, cause anytime you compromising your self worth for anybody, thats a problem. Youll just be whatever "they" want you to be, needs help.
Aww, sweetie need to learn to lover herself before seeking a relationship with someone else. She has nobself worth. She was ready to get a house and engagement quickly because she is desperate for someone to love her. But her partner likes what he likes. Has owned up to liking men and if that's not what the plantiff feels like inside, they need to break up or at the least couple counseling.
Big L is playing dress up and is very confused about what it wants to be. Dude, get yourself together. What's love got to do with it? Love yourself, your true self. FIRST!
All controversy aside, NEVER beg anyone to love you. IT. NEVER. WORKS!!
Never
Yesssssssssssssss facts 👏👏👏👏👏
Anyone else miss the old divorce court
🙋🏽♀️
I do. But I miss Robert a lot. The lie detector test is a good idea.
Yes I miss star and Robert
I miss Judge Lynn Toler.
No!!!+..
one comment I will make as a gay man, people that transition can be very selfish. The whole "I'm
the same person" stuff is NOT how everyone views things. It's almost if they try to guilt you into staying with them. People can choice who they want to be with. I've had trans women online get upset but I was not interested in them. Like why are you mad? Find someone that is and leave me alone.
If I get with a man, but he transitions into a woman I'm out. If I wanted to be with woman I most definitely could be but that's not what I'm attracted to. I didn't sign up for that. You can't force an attraction that isn't there 🤷🏾♂️
Exactly!
Stop. What you're spreading right now is harmful. It's not THE truth. It's just one nugget of truth in a big old bucket of truths.
After this election, the trans community needs support more than ever. And if you think they won't come after the gay community next, you do not understand whats coming down the pike.
Be part of the solution. Stop giving haters more unessesary ammo.
💯💯💯
I totally agree with you but not everybody that transition into a woman is selfish but don't get me wrong I respect you opinion and I'm saying it because I'm a trans woman myself when I started transitioning I was not selfish at all
Make sense
Always be true to yourself. Don't fake it just to be loved.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.
You should... I promise you will not regret it
Committed is the key word for sure! ❤That’s so awesome you have that.
They moved way too fast...I feel bad for both of them
There is a high level of delusion and desperation here. This relationship is not going to work at all
Exactly!
I'm like why that outfit making your shoulder look so big ma'am. Then I'm like ooohhhh.....😮😮😮
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂
Wearing makeup and upspeaking the last word of sentences doesn’t make someone a woman.
I think everyone's entitled to define what they are for themselves.
It's not that hard of a concept, really.
Why be so rude?
@@matthewhartman7176
And I’m entitled to tell the truth about factually what is and what isn’t.
Biologically he knows he RegardkThat will never change.In his head he wants to be a woman. So he is Transitioning into a woman .Until that phase is complete he will not be a transformation. He knows it's that that is why he is willing to stand in his man ness for the man he loves and cross dress as a woman. Judge Star should leave him alone and let him be what he wants. She is just mad because this man is confirming what some people have been saying . This is also a reason not to allow children to use hormone blockers or transition until they are of age. I am done with Judge Star.
@@kerrie2116
Upside down. Backwards. Dysfunction. The author of confusion.
I did not expect the plaintiff voice to be as such.
I did.
@@latoshamajors5085right like 😂😂😂😂😂
@@melriquajackson8480 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The bigger issue is Lars/Elle does not love herself…
THAT PART as well. You must love SELF FIRST, and Not settle as well.
At the end when they was talking in that hallway i couldn’t contain myself from lmao, So dramatic 😅
😂😂😂😂
I think it’s selfish to try to guilt or shame someone into being in a relationship with you, when you’ve changed so drastically. You have to own your choices. Other people have feelings too. Respect their choices. Choices have consequences, and everybody deserves to be in a committed romantic relationship with someone they desire and are attracted. That outfit though. 😂 It doesn’t say “that’s my boo.” It says “IDGAF” in a wig. IMO
They became a couple too quickly and got engaged too quickly.
5mins in and the issues are already abundantly clear..
1) They moved too quickly
2) Gay bro is a Cisgendered gay man who’s attracted to other Cisgendered gay men.
None of the details matter, the relationship was over before it even began.
anyone else notice the guy behind her that keep looking at the lady next to him like “wtf” 🤧🤧🤧
You know these people are paid actors, right?
@ nope u are the first person to ever tell me that! thanks!
Lmao I was waiting for someone to say something. Made me laugh so hard😂😭
No matter what anyone says or thinks about you, you should always choose to be yourself. No one can love you if you can’t truly love yourself.
i'm sorry but ripping the wig off at the last moment took me out🤭
Still a queen. 😂
I literally could not stop laughing 😆
The dramatics 🤣😩
That walk down the hall broke my heart
this was hard to watch
this is sad on so many levels….
Elle!!!!!! Oh, Elle. I've seen you on TV before, but won't say which show. Seeing you then and now tells me that you're trying to make it. You're trying to find your footing and find yourself. I don't know your other struggles. But with having to be an escort, I can only imagine(unless it's something you enjoy). I don't think you're a bad person. Nor do I think Jash is a bad person for wanting what he wants. I'm sensing a lot of worry on your end, and I'm hoping that Jash can be a friend to you and help you back on your feet. I really wish I was a house mother and had a house to help people like you. If you can keep your heart pure, I'm sure there are good things that'll come your way. If it's the TV/reality TV show thing, then do it! Bad boys club, RuPaul's Drag Race, etc. Either way, there is something out there for you. Just please, don't change yourself for the sake of being with someone. Love yourself. You deserve someone to love you for you as much as Jash deserves to be with whoever makes him happy. I truly hope the best for both of you. ❤
This is being in your 20s. You think the sky will literally fall if you walk away from what you think is "love". Eesh! This was hard to watch. Judge was right on all advice.
WOW. This was a profound and SAD Case. I wish them both the best. But like the judge said, Ms. ELLE needs to live in her TRUE SELF. And NOT compromise that just to be able to stay with Mr. Jash. She will and needs to be with someone who FULLY ACCEPTS her. And loves and is IN love with HER. The woman she has become.
I really miss the first season of Judge Star. This feels so odd.. the set, the bailiff, the whole thing is just off!😢
Sorry But The Ending Was A Bit Dramatic With The Wig Tossing😂
I think they should be able to annul a marriage. The plaintiff said that she has always wanted to be a woman but got married as a gay man and expected her partner to just “deal with it” basically.
He’s not real a transgendered woman if he willing to flip back on a dime over a relationship. The other dude needs to just leave and just find a gay man
The lady crying in the back was so real 😢 my heart breaks for both of them for different reasons 💔
I totally agree what judge star. Work hard individually for a while. Now is not the time. What makes me more sad is she still doesn't understand what the issue is.
Thank you Judge Star for speaking up about the trans community 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
He can either want the defendant to go along with his delusions and call him a woman which means that they can’t be together because the defendant is gay or he can live in reality and just be a feminine presenting gay man. Maybe then he and the defendant can try to salvage the relationship.
Truly a woman? What the hell?
Let us pray 😵💫
Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is Father Akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
I CAN'T DO THIS= SMH 😁💯
Disgusting!
I feel so sorry for him. Transgender people have such a hard time being accepted and finding love
What in the world am I watching???? NO!!!
Respectfully, this is just another case of proof that some “trans” people should not make the transition if they’re not even emotionally secure within their own selves. This is literally a case where she is playing dress-ups and is so insecure, desperate and obsessed with the partner, that she’s more worried about trying to please and exploit someone for her own gain, rather than living according to who she thinks she is.
DNA says different! So do the original "organs."
I'm transitioning to be a pigeon. GO ME! 🤣
Run man Run
Which one
😂😂😂😂😅😅😅
I CAN'T
They really jumped the gun buying a home before even getting engaged. If Elle can't be herself in this relationship, there's no way its going to last; they'll be miserable
Dude was on Dr. Phil talking about how his family is irrelevant bc they don’t have followers. A wig don’t hide that. Such a sham.
I think if you have feelings of being someone else you should tell that from the beginning period not think someone should accept you and they didn't have a clue this who you was all along please people be open and honest about who you are who you want to be. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF NOT FAIR FOR OTHERS
They rushed into a relationship and took things to the next level way too fast
The ending with the crying, big axx shoulders, and wig snatching was comical and ridiculous....its giving a character on a cartoon.
😂😂😂😂😂
I know like what the wig do?
@@Draco-Darkmoon RIGHTTTT
The other guy doesn’t love Lars because if he did he would let them be their true selves and not force her to change and vice versa.
What in the Danny Devito and Arnold Schwarzenegger is going on here?!?!?
For the love of God leave each other alone. He should be with someone he’s attracted to and she should do her own thing and be the person she is. I wish both of them the best, especially her. Hope she can understand that she can’t mold into something that she isn’t just because she wants to be loved
Why are we surprised a gay man wants another man? You made a decision you had every right to make and he’s allowed to move on with his life.
Mama big love
Alright, how was your day? Mom's gonna be a good day in kuwai'm cool. I'm gonna make you upset and then I feel like they start raiding around me. I know I still gotta go to court but I feel like they didn't. They could do in Georgetown I really fault if that's what it is. I love you. I'm blessed night.
wow engaged so quickly? THEY made a rod for their own backs. They didn’t really know each other and the situation they find themselves in now proves it. Very sad all round I hope they stay amicable 😐
Craziness 😮
1:00 Mrs. 😂😂 mmmmm ok
The way I hollered😭😭
I literally missed that part and didn’t even see the name elle😂 I saw your comment clicked on the timestamp and bout lost it bc the body structure already threw me off but soon as I heard that that voice my mouth dropped. And that wig ain’t tf it 😂
Lars have mercy!
This is a new level of divorce court. I hope physical violence doesn’t occur
There's no damn way u didn't know he was a man.
And threw her wig and eyelashes on the studio floors ..yeah typical gay behavior.
That jacket does not fit.
Cool-video! My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him*
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment!
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?
His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...
Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.
Agreed this is over- How about the division of the asset (the house)?
“I like men “
well he is one dressed like a girl .. well ok
Star jones stop it being true to self is also reality men are men women are women 💯💯💯prayers to all ❤️💯
Amen! You're absolutely right.
@@MAKINGULAUGH27 i’m pretty sure she knows this lol she just doesn’t want to get canceled. You know, nowadays, if you don’t go along with their delusions, they want to call you all sorts of bigots and phobes smh
He’s 25 and he won’t be able to live a fake life for long! 😳
Omg y’all 19:21
I came from his tiktok. And I'm just wondering where the elmo voice is. He deserves nothing. He's not trans he's just a clout chaser. He claims to have pcos, an implanted uterus, a period. None of which he has. He admitted scams doordash ubereats and uses his mother as a bank. This is just insane.
Dang that's sad
The ending seemed so fake.
This episode is something I won't put up with as a gay man. If you don't respect yourself no one else will. I like men and men only but I won't tolerate a selfish gay man who wants to be a woman and expect me to accept it. I cannot be with someone who doesn't love themselves.
It doesn't make sense to be gay and then the partner wants to be a woman...he likes men not women....😒😒😒 he's doing too much
I'm doing this today! 😤
I like the verdict
She did say she. Moves fast
Hey tuna
burger
He settled and then tried to do the switcharoo
Mr Gill looks like Prince
Sounds like he needs counseling, cause anytime you compromising your self worth for anybody, thats a problem.
Youll just be whatever "they" want you to be, needs help.
Aww, sweetie need to learn to lover herself before seeking a relationship with someone else. She has nobself worth. She was ready to get a house and engagement quickly because she is desperate for someone to love her. But her partner likes what he likes. Has owned up to liking men and if that's not what the plantiff feels like inside, they need to break up or at the least couple counseling.
Big L is playing dress up and is very confused about what it wants to be. Dude, get yourself together. What's love got to do with it? Love yourself, your true self. FIRST!
It’s not going to work. He’s not going to come around
Who was the best judge?
toler!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Judge Mablean Ephriam, Judge Lynn Toler, Judge Faith Jenkins & Judge Star Jones are ALL the BEST "Divorce Court" judges.
Aint this the dude one that was on Dr.phill? Saying he doesn't like his family because they are irrelevant & they dont have much followers ?
What episode was that?
@wendyhavner not sure which episode,but if you do search on YT, it will come up.
I just saw clips of that episode and I think you could be right. Was an episode from 5 years ago, with dude named Lars who was 20 years old then.
Elle quit lying and being overprotective.
A week?!
I'm 😲
Father God where u at
This is beyond sad
This is an old episode I seen this before
Mental Confusion
I MISS THE OLD JUDGE STAR, THE OLD ROBERT, AND THE OLD SHOW! This stuff is a MESS.
This aired October 24, 2024
This man is crazy. You wear makeup to school.
I swear this guy has been on almost every reality show. Dr Phil he was so annoying and raci$$t 🙄
What did I just watch
Hi💙💜
If she was a guy to begin with. Why didn't he say anything. Why rush to get engaged and get a house
Oh my god so damn dramatic ripping all his stuff off. He said what he wanted just move on to someone who accepts it!
Oh hell nah!
You all are ridiculous.
Nothing about this is right.
That was the most cringey episode I've seen .