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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Ross Tweddell sits down with Tom to talk openly about the reasons behind his hiatus from Cultaholic Wrestling, his struggles with mental health and his plans on the channel going forward.
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  • @mattdayphoto
    @mattdayphoto 3 роки тому +671

    I love that you guys have made this.

  • @WhenTheBoys69
    @WhenTheBoys69 3 роки тому +497

    Huge respect to the Cultaholic boys for posting this. And even bigger respect to Ross Tweddell for speaking up about it, its seriously heroic as most men would put it aside. You are, in every aspect of the word, a hero!
    We love you Ross

    • @ChristopherJames1993
      @ChristopherJames1993 3 роки тому +2

      As Rambo famously said,
      "The problem with the word hero, is that it's usually reserved for the ones who dies for their country rather than survived."
      However I agree with you here, survivors are as much heroes.

    • @persona1822
      @persona1822 3 роки тому

      @@ChristopherJames1993 x. X x x

  • @coryconnor5593
    @coryconnor5593 3 роки тому +391

    Cultaholic doing it right, bringing out a small podcast about mental health, will help a lot of people that suffer in silence. From the content you put out and the stuff you do day in day out, from on screen personalities to the off screen editors and writers a very grateful thank you! I think I speak for all of the cultaholic fan base and say we are very grateful and thankful to just be able to switch off and listen or read something you've put out. ♥️

  • @chrisfrazier5506
    @chrisfrazier5506 3 роки тому +362

    When Tom asked "what stopped you?" I couldn't have had more empathy or respect for Ross. That's one of the toughest questions to have to face.

    • @peggytheveteran4968
      @peggytheveteran4968 3 роки тому +3

      Time stamp?

    • @chrisfrazier5506
      @chrisfrazier5506 3 роки тому +12

      12:14

    • @Kylo_Sim
      @Kylo_Sim 3 роки тому +19

      Love that. I remember Jake Roberts’ hall of fame speech that summed my experience up. “I couldnt do it because I was too much of a coward to end my own life.”

    • @smvanderlouw
      @smvanderlouw 3 роки тому +9

      Tom is class af

    • @datblackminotaur8101
      @datblackminotaur8101 3 роки тому +14

      Thankful for how open Ross is with this, and wanting to share. Tom is also one of the best interviewers around. Phenomenal at what he does

  • @stevenmcd4741
    @stevenmcd4741 3 роки тому +100

    Yesterday: Sitting in a stinky room, watching old Borat clips and playing bingo.
    Today: A frank and honest discussion about mental health.
    Thank you Cultaholic.

  • @tomhull430
    @tomhull430 3 роки тому +134

    I’m not ashamed to say, and I’m sure I’m not the only one, but I got teary watching this video ❤️ Ross Twedell. Legend.

    • @xIllMadeKnightx
      @xIllMadeKnightx 3 роки тому +6

      You're not. I've been teary-eyed since Tom asked "what stopped you?"

  • @mikedavies9702
    @mikedavies9702 3 роки тому +103

    This video is class. Tom is a fantastic interviewer. Kind, patient, great listener and thought-provoking in a positive way. Ross is a brave man to open up in this way. I hope you win your battle with depression Ross. You are great at what you do and you deserve the best.

  • @CheeseSammich
    @CheeseSammich 3 роки тому +113

    Only 15 minutes in but just want to say what a fantastic job Ross and Tom have done on this. Can't overstate how much respect I have for Ross for opening up so much on camera and as ever, Tom is phenomenal at directing these podcasts/interviews.

  • @Smithlord
    @Smithlord 3 роки тому +170

    Just want to extend more love support to Ross and all the team. You do this for us so we are here for you.

  • @deadmansshoes82
    @deadmansshoes82 3 роки тому +119

    This is why Cultaholic means so much to everyone, we know you care about each other and you care about your community. You knew this discussion might help people and it needed to happen. Much love to you all.

  • @IlsonBoy69
    @IlsonBoy69 3 роки тому +169

    Grief and guilt feel so much like fear. I lost my wife of 17 years just over 2 and a half years ago and have been battling severe depression for the last 2 years. People ask how you are doing and you just tell them you're getting by or getting through it because you know there is going to be a look of horror or at least discomfort if you tell them how you are really feeling.
    I am lucky in that I have one really good friend who doesn't accept that answer and pushes me to be honest with them.
    People that don't know me well or prior to my loss have no clue what the real me is because if you do let them know how you really feel, they disappear. Most of my "friends" haven't been in touch in months.
    Keep up the fight Ross. Tom thank you for tackling a subject most people run from.

    • @JaimeD.
      @JaimeD. 3 роки тому +8

      If this means anything, sorry for you're going through. You friend is a good person for sticking with you through thick and thin. God bless you.

    • @benmaguire9720
      @benmaguire9720 3 роки тому +6

      Amen pal amen

    • @4XRyan
      @4XRyan 3 роки тому +7

      You’re so strong mate, you’ve got this! I’m really sorry to hear of your loss. Take care!

    • @oscardaslouch
      @oscardaslouch 3 роки тому +6

      I lost my wife just over two years ago and I completely understand what you’re going through. The pressure to “put on a happy face” is overwhelming at times but at the same time, you don’t want to talk to people because you don’t feel like worrying them. My heart goes out to you and your family for your loss. 😔

    • @VillaFanDan92
      @VillaFanDan92 3 роки тому +2

      @@oscardaslouch @Craig H From a stranger on the internet, I can just say that you're both strong men for going what you're going through, but I'm sorry that you have had to. Look after yourselves - and don't ever feel pressured to be OK or to put on a brave facade. Easier said than done, I know - but I know your loved ones will be happy for you to lean on them if you need to.

  • @kaylaann3366
    @kaylaann3366 3 роки тому +113

    I’m so unbelievably proud of you and how far you’ve come these last few months. ❤️

    • @tdsm99
      @tdsm99 3 роки тому +17

      Thank you for helping Ross, he means a lot to so many, and he is lucky to have you as a supporter❤

  • @Mpritchard1995
    @Mpritchard1995 3 роки тому +253

    You all are honestly the kindest sweetest and just most caring group of individuals and if anyone is struggling with mental health it’s okay to talk to someone I speak from experience who isn’t really social with people and is very awkward around people I struggle with anxiety and depression so just remember you are not alone and it does get better ❤️❤️

  • @gnbgffgcd3902
    @gnbgffgcd3902 3 роки тому +73

    Mental health is a conversation that needs to happen. There have been so many things that I haven’t been able to do because of my anxiety and depression. I’m glad people are becoming more comfortable with talking about it. Love you guys. Sending my love.

    • @killianmccluff36
      @killianmccluff36 3 роки тому +1

      Even if they conversation were to happen surely you still wouldn’t be able to do things because of anxiety and depression. My perspective is other people won’t be able to fix it you have to take it upon yourself to get better.

  • @BrynHarding
    @BrynHarding 3 роки тому +76

    I love that we're challenging mental health stigma, especially amongst men and its so positive to see that two poignant figures in the YT Wrestling Community discussing this so openly to a community that can be so cruel at times.
    Thank you guys, for everything you do and being so open ❤

    • @ChristopherJames1993
      @ChristopherJames1993 3 роки тому +1

      Don't use the word poignant here mate. It's not the right word for this. Poignant is a bad thing. These are two highly respected members of the UA-cam community. Not being a dick just trying to help you out. Everything else in your point is perfect just one wrong word. Stay safe brother.

    • @BrynHarding
      @BrynHarding 3 роки тому +1

      @@ChristopherJames1993 well damn. Looks like I've been misusing that word my whole life! Thanks for pointing it chris :)

    • @ChristopherJames1993
      @ChristopherJames1993 3 роки тому

      @@BrynHarding yeah a lot of people do. Poignant is a word usually reserved for funerals and stuff like that. Sad things are poignant, such as Eddie Guerrero dying.

  • @JBOBloedsinn
    @JBOBloedsinn 3 роки тому +47

    Ross just hearing you say that this has been an ongoing situation for you since 2013 was enough to help me a lot. My own issues hit me around the same time and it took a literal suicide attempt two years ago to make me start clawing my way back out of that hole. Ironically I just today got a call that after half a year of covid overbooking there is a free slot with my new therapist so I hope things will keep moving. All you guys are a tremendous inspiration to me in seeking to live of my creativity and not let my stupid brain get me down. Thanks for all you do.

  • @StevenScodes
    @StevenScodes 3 роки тому +52

    This was incredible. Hearing Ross open up about mental health was eye opening in a good way. For me personally, I connected with this on so many levels having gone through some similar moments in my life. There's so much negative mentality about mental health and it's important to talk to someone about it and get the help you need. Thank you Ross and Tom for letting us hear this conversation. Definitely taking so much from this. Love you guys!

    • @kdxtreme7479
      @kdxtreme7479 3 роки тому

      Incredible message, tho im curoius, how did you get the cultaholic logo after your name?

  • @iDrkTV
    @iDrkTV 3 роки тому +32

    Who would even downvote this video? Was amazing from start to finish, and these things need more attention and need to be addressed more often. Mental health is hugely important in life - everyone's life. Love to Ross, Tom, and everyone who sees this comment. Stay safe, stay healthy. ❤️

  • @davidmoore4958
    @davidmoore4958 3 роки тому +48

    Videos like this are so powerful, being open about mental health is a part of the fight to beat the stigma. I love this channel and all it does for this community, mental health is a massive part of life’s across the world. Thank you for being you Ross, Tom, Sam, Adam, jack and Maffew ❤️

  • @naheemquattlebaum2267
    @naheemquattlebaum2267 3 роки тому +56

    Seeing how this was uploaded on the same day as Kylie Rae's retirement, I feel like this was fate in a way. Things have been crazy for the industry in 2020 on all fronts and maybe we all need to sit back and take care of ourselves. Good to see you well, Ross and I wish Kylie the best.

  • @nevillehd6080
    @nevillehd6080 3 роки тому +40

    Love that Ross is back hope your better and, and continue to be better always nice to see video you make

  • @Will-h7h
    @Will-h7h 3 роки тому +22

    Mad props to Ross for his honesty, i'm sure he did alot more for other people without realising it at first struggling with mental health particularly in this awful year, firstly with his entertaining videos and then by being honest about his own struggles. Alot of people have had mental health issues before this year and in lockdown, the cultaholic videos gave people same great entertainment in these times and Ross being honest about his own struggles make him even more relatable and a legend. His WTF moments are a high point of any week and what he does for alot of people should never go unnoticed.

  • @camalott
    @camalott 3 роки тому +28

    This has already made me so emotional and I’m only about a quarter through. I feel like I’ve been dealing with similar issues and it’s so refreshing to hear them said aloud and be understood and accepted by someone else. Bless you Ross. Bless you Tom. Bless you all.

  • @TheRivieraKid
    @TheRivieraKid 3 роки тому +13

    Tom is a great interviewer, very articulate and understanding.

  • @KingKait077
    @KingKait077 3 роки тому +20

    Much love to Ross and Tom and everyone in Cultaholic. You guys mean so much to everyone here.

  • @ecwfanatic
    @ecwfanatic 3 роки тому +2

    I'm a geordie lad who grew up without a dad (and a poet who didn't know it), raised by my gran who never let strokes or cancer kill her off so this all rings very close to home for me.
    Ross is spot on that it's all about being a lad, enjoying footy and never talking about your feelings. I had a mental breakdown in 2016 as a result of never dealing with my past and I'm still recovering from it now. Don't ever feel ashamed to talk to someone because when it's too late it's too late whether that's a breakdown or something far worse.
    Good job raising more awareness with this video guys and thanks Ross for opening up about your struggles.

  • @petetriplow4674
    @petetriplow4674 3 роки тому +14

    Brilliant sensitive questioning style Tom and Ross, just massive kudos for doing this. This is exactly what someone out there needs. You're doing an amazing thing here.

  • @salvadoracosta4510
    @salvadoracosta4510 3 роки тому +11

    I too have struggled with depression since around 2013. I’ve gone through therapy and I’ve been feeling better but about a month ago my mom passed away. Since discovering them at Whatculture, these group of guys have saved me loads of times. Thanks Cultaholic for all you do. You guys have helped people go through so much 🙏🏽

  • @TyFtI34
    @TyFtI34 3 роки тому +6

    Not sure why people are disliking this video. Stupid trolls, this was so needed. Thank you Ross. Stay strong man, glad you are here and present .

  • @MaggieMoo22
    @MaggieMoo22 3 роки тому +19

    The stuff that Ross has been through is heart breaking and I have so much respect for him with how he is able to talk about this to bring attention to men’s mental health. I’ve Ben though the same with the depression, stress eating, thinking people are judging you. It’s not easy. Well done for getting through this Ross, mad respect

  • @conman167
    @conman167 3 роки тому +78

    Thank you for sharing this with us. This really helped.

  • @benf2307
    @benf2307 3 роки тому +12

    I’m so damn proud of you Ross! This would’ve been incredibly hard... for Tom too.
    You boys will never truly understand how important you are to the people who watch you. All the love in the world to you both!

  • @wingedparagon4448
    @wingedparagon4448 3 роки тому +25

    I lost my fiancee and child five years ago, drunk crashed into her when she was coming back from getting a check up, she was 5 months pregnant. I had already been dealing with depression but managing it after failing university, but that, then losing my father... I can really understand where Ross is coming from, feeling so.... detatched (?), you're just going along with the flow, not really thinking about it or dealing with it, then something happens, it becomes too much and you just have to step back. I've not gotten there yet, I'm trying to manage it, I've finally got a goal to work towards again, I feel some self-worth in myself again that had been missing for a long time. Thank you guys for talking about this, making it feel more normal to have this kind of talk and discussion.

    • @shanecanavan1876
      @shanecanavan1876 3 роки тому +2

    • @MzAki0
      @MzAki0 2 роки тому +1

      @WingedParagon, I know it's an old post but heres to hoping you're continuing your journey and getting better and taking those mental health days/breaks 👍👍

  • @chrishowell6469
    @chrishowell6469 3 роки тому +6

    Words cannot express how grateful and how honoured I am to have heard you talk about this. You are incredibly brave and a wonderful person.
    I myself have been struggling with mental health and death has been a huge part of that. I lost a friend last year to a stroke, and it really shook me. He was 28. Two weeks older than me. On top of the other chaotic stuff in my life, that was a huge blow. 2019/20 has been a difficult time.
    In September this year I moved flats and it didn't turn out the way I had hoped, and everything blew up. My partner and I were getting angry at each other, I lost hope in ever achieving anything and was so ready to die young a no one that I had a moment like you did on the track. I had it on a bridge. A split second but my god I was scared I went there.
    I eventually told my partner during a row of all things, but I think it changed a lot for us. I am currently going through therapy and it has been incredible. My partner and I are closer than ever, we're getting through the tough stuff, and I have hope.
    Thank you, Ross thank you, Tom, and thank you, Cultaholic. Everyday I watch you guys I realise you're not just wrestling fans, but you're amazing and caring people. When this shit is over,I hope I get to meet you gents and share a drink with you.
    Ross, you will get through this. Because you're an awesome human. Thank you again. ❤

  • @ZeldaRoseSongbook
    @ZeldaRoseSongbook 3 роки тому +16

    Gentlemen, I want to thank you so much for bringing light to such a serious, stigmatized issue. As a longtime fan of your work, seeing people I look up to discuss mental health issues and the struggles they entail is moving. I send you all good energy and hope for the best.

  • @julianhellmich4925
    @julianhellmich4925 3 роки тому +2

    As a person that deals with mental health issues on a daily basis thank you guys. Any time the issue is raised and discussed properly like you guys have is potentially another life saved. Much love and stay strong everyone xxx

  • @fdb672
    @fdb672 3 роки тому +12

    What a unexpected but welcome video, I’ve been struggling with mental health for a while and Ross being open about his struggles really inspired me to get the help I needed, I have my 3rd Counselling session on Thursday

  • @drc9374
    @drc9374 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you, Ross, for having the Strength to be able to talk about this. So many people will appreciate that you did this. We all love and appreciate you and the Cultaholic crew. Bless you, my good man. 🤟🤟👊

  • @IAmRiffee
    @IAmRiffee 3 роки тому +8

    I can’t stop crying watching this. My depression has been hitting me very hard, and watching this makes me feel Ross is telling my story also. Thank you for this. ♥️

  • @simonprescott9652
    @simonprescott9652 3 роки тому +1

    Great to see so many men speaking about mental health so openly in the comments. This is exactly what's needed to remove the stigma. Ross, thank you for sharing your story. I hope you're mending pal. Tom, hats off to you sir. Great channel run by top people 👏 👏 👏

  • @melishee
    @melishee 3 роки тому +4

    Ross is one of my fave creators of content on Cultaholic. His WTF moments are always my fave videos. As a Shane O Mac fan, I LOVE his Colonel McSweatyBullocks comments and commentary!
    I have my own mental health struggles and the WTF Moments and podcasts are always a slight escape for me to enjoy some time and get my mind off of things.
    Thank you guys for sharing this. So many people need to realize that mental health is something we need to talk about and respect anyone who does.
    Love you guys!

  • @merissaspradling5233
    @merissaspradling5233 3 роки тому +2

    Oh Ross, so much love for you. Thank you so much for your vulnerability as someone who's always struggled (especially this year) it's comforting to know I'm not alone. We're all one big family.

  • @llamalad147
    @llamalad147 3 роки тому +4

    This is what differentiates Cultaholic from other UA-cam channels. The ability to be human in a UA-cam landscape where that is sadly disappearing. I’m grateful for the hilarious content you guys provide and having the capability to have important conversations like these. Glad to have you back Ross!

  • @92stu
    @92stu 3 роки тому +2

    You've got no idea how much this video has helped. Thank you guys so much for everything you have done!

  • @MrRightmire
    @MrRightmire 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you, Ross, as someone who also struggles with depression it helps to hear someone speak so openly about it. It really helps.

  • @jordylont1879
    @jordylont1879 3 роки тому +7

    I finally had the time to finish up this video and I’m so proud of Ross and Tom. Thankful for Adam too, for giving Ross the time and some of the help that he needed. You guys are the best.
    You are not just some company. You are great people, doing a lot of good things whether you realize it or not.

  • @euryn
    @euryn 3 роки тому +3

    Huge respect to Ross for being so open about this. I have a similar mind set. Just goes to show you can never asume someone who makes jokes, smiles and is a "lad" is ok within himself. All the best Ross!! We love you!

  • @persephoneoliver2500
    @persephoneoliver2500 3 роки тому +2

    I was struggling being home tonight. Came home to this. Felt myself spiraling mentally. This has really helped and encouraged me to message my partner to create this discussion. Thank you all so much. I love this channel before but my whole new level of respect and love. I can’t get over how much I love this.

  • @cookie1157
    @cookie1157 3 роки тому +5

    This hits way too close to home for me. It’s so difficult for me to watch this.
    I’m so glad you made this guys, thank you for bringing awareness to these issues.

  • @Elkott
    @Elkott 3 роки тому +14

    I'm deeply unhappy and lone!y, you guys bring some enjoyment and company into my life every day so thank you

    • @catarina8036
      @catarina8036 3 роки тому +3

      we’re all here for you 💓

  • @ConnorCross
    @ConnorCross 3 роки тому +6

    Ross we are all with you man so much respect for this. Tom brilliant as always such a good man.

  • @geeksheek89
    @geeksheek89 3 роки тому +17

    As someone who's struggled with mental health for years this is a fantastic watch. Thank you for bringing this to us x

  • @adershvarshnei5198
    @adershvarshnei5198 3 роки тому +11

    All the love to Ross and the rest of the team from me. You all are incredible at your jobs.
    Please release this on the podcast feed. This will be amazing there.

  • @graemeelms4338
    @graemeelms4338 3 роки тому +1

    This has been a tremendous watch. Two guys opening up and showing that mental health is something that you can talk about, and that you can get past the bad stuff and move on. Well done Tom and Ross. Much love.

  • @TheJaker27
    @TheJaker27 3 роки тому +10

    So glad you guys can do this for each other, even happier Ross is back and I hope you can stay strong! This is the best wrestling UA-cam channel easily and it’s bc of how amazing you guys are and how awesome the community is💪🏽🔥

  • @sohamtakalikar
    @sohamtakalikar 3 роки тому +2

    Cannot stress enough how much I appreciate you guys for sharing this. Thank you so much.

  • @runtothemoon8389
    @runtothemoon8389 3 роки тому +6

    I haven't watched this yet, but thanks for making this video.
    As someone who does a lot of work raising awareness and money for Mental Health, it's great to see people using their platform for good

  • @MegaNomad27
    @MegaNomad27 3 роки тому +5

    Honestly you guys are amazing for doing this because there are so many people who often feel like this and use you guys having a laugh at wrestling to help them through it and to be able to relate to you guys on such a personal level is fantastic. I can't even give you guys enough praise for doing this. Thank you guys so much

  • @BigBatty
    @BigBatty 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for being there for us during dark times, glad to see you healthy, and grateful to hear your honesty about what's been going on. It really helps, and is appreciate by the lot of us.

  • @Immykhan1986
    @Immykhan1986 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Ross, Tom, and Cultaholic for producing this video. As someone who has suffered very similar issues over the past 18 years and even more so having to work from home during lockdown, it’s refreshing to see people who have become part of my day to day life albeit through listening to your podcasts and watching videos, talking about about their issues so openly and candidly. So much respect for you Ross and glad you’re on the way up !

  • @damonsantore2345
    @damonsantore2345 3 роки тому +12

    I have been on medicine for depression for almost 8 years now... everyone’s path is different we are here for you!

  • @thefrankster875
    @thefrankster875 3 роки тому +2

    My father passed away after I turned 5 Ross, I understood what u meant when u said growing up without a dad felt normal and I 100% know how u feel when it comes to that, but u r one of the strongest people Ik and I can only encourage u to keep doing what you’re doing and don’t be so hard on urselfI’ve been subbed to Cultiholic for awhile now and u r one of the highlights of my day and I along with others idolize u, we love u so much and you encourage us all to keep pushing on and being nicer and kinder

  • @chrisfrazier5506
    @chrisfrazier5506 2 роки тому +4

    A year on now, and I still love this conversation. It's like it helps me process my own life. I feel everything Ross says about the weight and the world watching me and nothing working. Thanks so much for making this. It feels so vulnerable and unique and raw in the youtube universe . I'm crying as I write this, and knowing Ross is looking better- and hopefulyl feeling better- gives me so much hope. Thank you Ross and Tom and Adam and Kayla and everyone who made this happen in some form or another.

  • @xIllMadeKnightx
    @xIllMadeKnightx 3 роки тому +2

    As someone who is, right now, really struggling with my mental health, and often comes to Cultaholic for little moments of relief, thank you for speaking up, Ross. I'm a teacher, and when I'm in the classroom, no one would guess I'm only barely hanging on when I'm alone in my apartment that night. Likewise, we see Ross and the guys, full of energy and banter and making us smile, and you can forget there can be much, much more going on behind the scenes.
    Power to you, Ross, and all the Cultaholic guys. I've got tears welling, listening to Ross talk about his mum and how the thought of her stopped him. I've been there so many times of late. Thank you for making this video and reminding us that even the Gary UA-cams of the world are people with their struggles, just like the rest of us.
    And dammit if Tom isn't one of the most sensitive and stand-up guys in media, too.

  • @garrett1433
    @garrett1433 3 роки тому +9

    I've nearly committed suicide cause of my first break up, I never experienced with such emotions and it caused me to drop out of senior year of high school, and battle with depression for awhile, thankfully I'm doing alot better and I'm now done with college, but all I gotta say is going gotta keep pushing foward :) never give up!

  • @matiasfromchile1431
    @matiasfromchile1431 3 роки тому +1

    This whole year has been a mess. Thanks for giving others the opportunity to know they're not alone. Dealing with depression is something I don't know in person, but surely somebody can actually feel identified listening to this hour long talking
    💜💜💜

  • @Kruedel84
    @Kruedel84 3 роки тому +5

    Damn I was watching like 'Ross is me." I deal with anxiety myself, and a lot of what you were talking about I'm dealing with, so once again thank you for this. Hopefully it helps more people like me, and brings a light to mental health. I have a new level of respect for you guys... Ross for being so open, and Tom for asking such great questions.

  • @matty9671
    @matty9671 3 роки тому +2

    I can relate to so much of this, particularly the being awkward in social situations and waking up some days and not wanting to walk out of the front door because you feel like you don’t want to be seen by anybody, friends or random passers by.
    This video will help so many people. Thank you so much guys.

  • @michaelgilks2065
    @michaelgilks2065 3 роки тому +9

    Ross, incredible you've gone and done this video. Massive props to you man.

  • @JamboSteven89
    @JamboSteven89 3 роки тому +1

    This hits home so much for me. What Ross is saying is exactly like me. I take a while to open up to people, I worry what people think of me, only a select few know the real me. It is a real struggle.

  • @nickfoster6205
    @nickfoster6205 3 роки тому +4

    This is brave and brilliant, great work lads. Glad to have you back Ross and special mention to Tom; nobody else could have lead this discussion with as much candour.

  • @chaz2705
    @chaz2705 3 роки тому +2

    So much respect for this I suffer depression anxiety and agoraphobia and feel that there still a stigma over mental health but men in particular so top respect Ross and cultaholic

  • @diabeetus_9837
    @diabeetus_9837 3 роки тому +12

    Welcome back Ross! Glad to see you looking happier and healthier

  • @Joescardtricks
    @Joescardtricks 3 роки тому +1

    Ross you're an absolute legend. Thanks for speaking about this. Many people, myself included, deal with very similar problems in our own lives. It's a breath of fresh air to see someone in your position talk openly about mental health. We've seen over the years celebrities and perhaps more high profile 'influencers' talk about mental health and in my personal experience I have found it difficult to believe they are being genuine. No one could ever mistake that what you have said here is completely genuine. Nothing but respect for your bravery talking about such a difficult subject and the perspective that you have given to me and I'm sure to many others.

  • @Lee1978R
    @Lee1978R 3 роки тому +5

    ❤️ everything Ross said totally registers with me, it’s so strange to hear someone else describing how I feel. Thank you Ross for sharing ❤️

  • @michaelcastiglia2145
    @michaelcastiglia2145 3 роки тому +1

    Ross, I can relate to this so much. Married for 18+ years, three kids 18, 15, 14, and I can't tell you how many times I've canceled with my friends because of depression, and made up excuses, or didn't do something with my wife or my family because I didn't feel up to it with some lame excuse about having a headache or something. I don't go to the gym because I don't like going by myself and it's hard to get somebody to go to, had started to course correct until COVID came along. Being home these last months I've struggled quite a bit with depression that has at times been very bad. I'm trying to work through it, and I'm so glad to hear you able to talk openly about this, and to hear that you are on a road to improvement too. Best wishes from way across the pond.

  • @robawesome2010
    @robawesome2010 3 роки тому +5

    ROSS! WE LOVE YOU!
    This here is the most important video on your channel. It's about time people are more open and willing to talk about their struggles with mental health and well being. We need to erase the stigma about depression and start an honest discussion, and this is as honest as they come. This video is a step in the right direction for all of us who suffer. Thank you. We love you.
    We love you.

  • @MJMilz14
    @MJMilz14 Рік тому +1

    I remember watching this 2 years ago and being so pleased to see Ross doing better. For whatever reason it appeared in my recommend tonight and Jesus Christ I needed it. Thankyou again. It's a hard time at the moment but being reminded that there's someone just like me that has survived the same sort of problem's really helps. Thankyou

  • @BrianHiggins316
    @BrianHiggins316 3 роки тому +5

    This video is the most amazing and important thing cultaholic has ever uploaded. Cant be underestimated. Fair play to Tom and especially Ross. 👏👍

  • @johnnykeane9633
    @johnnykeane9633 3 роки тому +1

    What a legend Ross is and thank you Tom. There is a huge issue with mental health for young people especially young males. It's a very difficult world to make your way in now and talking and bringing awareness to it really helps 🙏🙏

  • @OrganicProcessBand
    @OrganicProcessBand 3 роки тому +7

    Love the boys at cultaholic! Thanks for the hours of entertainment x

  • @mattd832
    @mattd832 3 роки тому +1

    Talking about mental health is inconvenient and scary at first, but by the time you've really gotten going it's so much a cathartic experience. Thank you both for adding to the conversation and sharing your experiences.

  • @BoG_City
    @BoG_City 3 роки тому +3

    Welcome back Ross! Missed you. Cultaholic is a lovely bunch of people, thank you for doing everything you do ♥️

  • @dvsmufc81
    @dvsmufc81 3 роки тому +1

    I have bipolar and went through misdiagnosis and all sorts of bollocks, so I felt a lot of what you guys were talking about. Ross mate, your videos help me more than you know, all the best, I'm glad you took the time you needed and wish you all the love and happiness in the world.

  • @lukethompson5475
    @lukethompson5475 3 роки тому +6

    We all love you ross. Keep your head up and we’ll all always be behind you. Lots of love, All the Cultoholic Family❤️

  • @markjuan3912
    @markjuan3912 3 роки тому +1

    When my grandma passed away last year, I haven't been able to really focus on work. Idk why, but I feel like I've been in a rut where everything doesn't work out. Ty for sharing Ross. This helped me feel more okay.

  • @cainward2616
    @cainward2616 3 роки тому +8

    Tom was perfect person for Ross to do this with

  • @barronrickert3279
    @barronrickert3279 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 33, and I'm here in America as everything seems to be collapsing like the fall of Rome. I would just like to say, I appreciate the hell out of all you guys.
    In the last 6 months: my ex left me, my grandfather and his wife died of cancer and medical complications, my grandmother died of Covid, a childhood friend died from an infection, and my step mother's brother died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
    I know exactly where Ross is coming from when he talks about finding it hard to find the strength to keep getting up.
    You have been there for me and many others, even if you don't realize it. Thank you. It means more than you know.

  • @thefenrisianssweatshop
    @thefenrisianssweatshop 3 роки тому +8

    A simply monstrous amount of respect and love to ross. Keep on plugging mate. I Guarantee we will still be here for ya.

  • @Bakusz72
    @Bakusz72 3 роки тому +1

    Dear Ross, first of all, I want to tell you have a MASSIVE Respect from my side, it was really brave, courageous to open in such a degree to us in this video. Even though, I follow you guys since Whatculture, since the early days of King Ross, it felt that I got to know you more in this one hour than during all those years altogether. It was mentioned at the end, but really, the unconditional love, friendship and happiness in Tom's eyes and voice towards you was something you should always take with you and recall if you find yourself back to a place of doubt. I'm almost sure the majority of us, viewers, had the same reaction. As for I could relate to you - as this year brought me a lot in terms of self-development, releasing personal demons, etc. it was great to hear you, sharing your stories.
    Secondly, the first bit, when you talked about passed relatives, it hit me hard, as it was yesterday that my parents called me that my grandma passed away. I was just staring in front of me, didn't know what to do, clicking on youtube randomly, when I saw the new "Straigth to Hell" video, which I needed the most there. Its upbeat, positive vibe brought me a much needed 'distraction' and helped me back to reality, to calm my mind.
    In conclusion, I would like to truly THANK ALL OF YOU for all your work, for everything.

  • @mattfoxx0962
    @mattfoxx0962 3 роки тому +4

    I'm really struggling Right now so watching this to take my mind off it. Big love to the cultaholic lads and the walrus clan for always being there ❤️

  • @ATKL2k12
    @ATKL2k12 3 роки тому

    Thanks each and everyone one of you for putting this up. Tom is fantastic as interviewer & so much respect for Ross for opening up so much on a public video. Incredibly brave & inspiring. Thank you all so much - we love you guys

  • @bangboom1625
    @bangboom1625 3 роки тому +3

    I am so greatful you are okay and doing this, I am going to watch 15mins at a time iv got past first 15 I just can't watch such a personal thing right through cause I also have my own issues that I struggle with daily and can't admit tbh thank you both for this

  • @priscillahernandez9723
    @priscillahernandez9723 3 роки тому +2

    As a mental health therapist; it’s so important to see more and more people discussing mental health, especially during this time period. Great video guys and I thank you Ross for speaking out.

  • @BlueRainSoda12
    @BlueRainSoda12 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this, guys. Much love to Ross. Take care of yourselves.

  • @ethangarnica1478
    @ethangarnica1478 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve watched my mother and sister battle mental health this year harder than ever. One thing I love about Cultaholic is the diversity in content. You guys never cease to put a smile on my face, proud of you Ross for being able to open up about things others tend to hide. Thank you

  • @_kyle5
    @_kyle5 3 роки тому +8

    41:20 wow so you was in Ipswich my home Town just the fact that I was in the same place as one of my favourite UA-camrs is mind blowing.

  • @Tompah
    @Tompah 3 роки тому +1

    How do I leave more than one 'Like'? Ross is a hero for being so open and honest and Tom is a fantastic interviewer and very empathetic. I bet this video will help numerous people out there.

  • @justintestaero
    @justintestaero 3 роки тому +3

    So I've been dealing with depression "since 2003" aka since I was 13, I didn't expect to listen to this whole thing. I knew you from what culture, I love this though because there's so much going on. I relate way too much to this but I'm so happy that you are where you are and I am hoping to to the same

  • @nickturner1137
    @nickturner1137 3 роки тому +1

    Love that you two sat down and had a chat. I'm sure you'll hear a lot of this but I too struggle with the same stuff Ross was and is going through. But I love that you are doing your part and trusting us and helping remove the stigma of mental health. Ive been here since the begining and this community does feel like family. We love you Ross. We are so happy you're back and in a better mental state.