That relationship was bad. For her to say she wanted to leave but couldn't, that means the only way was for him to be cornered or dead. She did everything she felt she could and maybe with petty spite too. Abusive partners are scary. In my family, imagine a man going as far as flagging you with the intelligence of your own and neighboring country you escaped to as a wanted person? Would you not try hard to dead that man? It's hard to leave narcissistic abusive men.
The only way to escape a narcissist is to disappear quietly under their nose and move city even or hopefully they get bored of you and find a new victim. Don't underestimate the lengths they will go to control you and the situation. Openly leaving them is a direct attack on their ego which they hold verrry near and dear and will absolutely kill if they feel pushed to it.
@@stephpowell7648 that's really not the case though I no loads of lads that when they was young and stupid cheated till they matured and don't do it no more
I joined the cult around 13k followers. Crazyyy that y'all are approaching 100k so fast but not surprised - BEST PODCAST IN THE GAME! 🥵 You guys deserve all the success! 💕
It's been 7 months since you uploaded this and the Top Boy conversation is sending me! I'm waking up neighbors laughing at this at 2am! "For Sullivan!?" 🤣
Always gets me when Brits talk about driving distances.. 😄 "four and a half hour drive" to the other end of the country. Doesn't even get me half way across the state. (Queensland Aus) Love the work boys. ✊🏻🙌🏻
I can understand how people get manipulated or swindled, but to me if someone said they had an insane amount of money and then are asking to borrow money from me - nah, I'd have serious questions. I don't know if it's because I've been poor or what but I'm cool with each of us just sticking with our own money and not exchanging any.
An insecure narcissist with false confidence is worse than backing a wild animal in a corner. I was married to a narcissist for 13 years.. the gaslighting and mind games he played! It takes A LOT to break free from them.. even then, they continue to try to bring you back!
On the fun fact about octopus and tools… in finding nemo when the baby one at the talks about how one of their tentacles is longer than the others… they’re not talking about tentacles 🤣
I don’t blame the girl for anything she did. A narcissist will do Anything to maintain control. I tried to escape several times before I was successful. The first time, he popped up at the Starbucks I was ordering from - more than 80 km from his house. He must have been following me all day. Another time he became violent. He also threatened to release explicit photos I didn’t know he had taken. The last time, he actually poisoned me and I ended up in the hospital. It’s very hard to prove, so the police do nothing. I had to change my car, phone number, cell carrier, and move to a different town. I wish I had the courage to do what this woman did.
LOVE LOVE LOVE your podcast!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you both are so real and vulnerable. Please keep doing what you're doing. Your podcast is what I play when I'm happy and when I'm feeling down, truly. You lift my spirits EVERY SINGLE TIME. Without fail. Bless you both 🙏🏾🥰
The girl with bleach...living with an abuser is rougher than rough. When I was in high school my dad had a mini heart attack in the living room and I saw it happen, sat in the next room and ignored him asking for an ambulance. The bastard lived anyways.
Swear sometimes I laugh more WITH you two than AT what's actually being said 😅 the saucy santana concert fit killllllllled me the way Fuhad slaps the chair 😂
It would be so fun to have an argument with Fuhad, I love the way he argues. Don't catch me arguing with James though, he would gaslight me so much I'd be fighting for him by the end of it.
That’s relationship though 😩 been there done it - I feel for her so much! And I know that’s just the tip of the ice burg. You can’t leave! You’d rather go pen to get away - your safe there
The argonaught octopi die after mating 😰😂 the male after about 3 months, and the female dies a short while after her eggs have hatched. And no, he doesn’t get his peepee back 😂😂❤️❤️ ilysm!
I had a very good friend that I fell for hard years ago. We would hang out and talk for hours. We enjoyed each other's company immensely and our connection was so deep. We shared so many personal things. I confessed my feelings for him and he said he loved me but he couldn't see himself dating a latina because he only dated white American women. Broke my heart. Then he asked out a friend of mine who turned him down. And he told me he was into her because she is white even though he stated that they don't have the connection we did. Friend zoned.
I’m gonna need you guys to do Netflix reviews. A quick round up on recent releases so I can decide if I wanna watch. Cause the bad vegan review. Made me wanna watch. 😂🤌🏾
Women get swindled like that because we buy into trying to be submissive and follow some dude who isn’t a leader… we try to stand by our man and support their dream… then we get left high, dry, and broke and then are bitter afterwards. But the questions that Fuhad asked.. most don’t ask because it’s seen as being combative and not trusting our man… we can’t win for losing…
Fuhad's face during the Bad Vegan roleplay has me dyingggg 😂😂 "oooohhh, i'm special?"
Yeesss lol. When he said let me get into character I was hollering. He was channeling it.
"Say swear" took me out 😂😂😂😂
When Fuhad said "Let me get into character" I almost fell off my chair!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't know why but I feel like y'all should invite Young Filly. The vibes would be vibing!
I second this👏🏻 would be litttt😂💯
Nah, he's too extra
@@yasminhunt410 Facts
That episode would be wild
@ShxtsnGigs Podcast pleaseee
🤣😭James referring to himself as "Daddy" and "Papa".
I feel like I don't need to watch TV shows anymore as the role play that James is throwing out is just better than the actual show 😂
Agreed
Facts
Faxxxxts💯 loooool
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It feels so strange seeing James play the male role in the Bad Vegan scenario, I’m so used to him being the female😂😂
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Sis was SICK and TIRED of him. She wanted to do everyone a favor and get rid of him 😂😂 Love you guys!!! ❤️
She was just a wicked soul
@@AkinolaWilliamsLmao the serial cheater and violent man wasn’t the wicked soul but she was the one that was a wicked soul?
Facts don’t play, been there is a sad situation, no family no friends to help you out, then yea
That relationship was bad. For her to say she wanted to leave but couldn't, that means the only way was for him to be cornered or dead. She did everything she felt she could and maybe with petty spite too. Abusive partners are scary. In my family, imagine a man going as far as flagging you with the intelligence of your own and neighboring country you escaped to as a wanted person? Would you not try hard to dead that man? It's hard to leave narcissistic abusive men.
If girls want revenge even the devil sits down and takes notes 💀
Facts. A hurt female is the devil
Me in central Texas amazed to hear a 4 1/2 hour drive gets you across the country. A 4 1/2 hour drive in Texas just gets you more Texas 😂
Same in Ontario
California fr 💀
I concur. Signed, a girl from Houston
4 1/2 hours in PA will get you just about all the way there, but that's mostly because we have a ton of highway
lol that’s just a ride from Houston to Dallas could be longer due to traffic.
The only way to escape a narcissist is to disappear quietly under their nose and move city even or hopefully they get bored of you and find a new victim. Don't underestimate the lengths they will go to control you and the situation. Openly leaving them is a direct attack on their ego which they hold verrry near and dear and will absolutely kill if they feel pushed to it.
Well she found another way 😂
so you know how to stroke a man's ego??😊
Flash forward to September 25 2023 Fuhad calling James Daddy *making him blush* 😂😂😂😂❤
Someone said nobody talks about how fine James is, and I’m like, my thought exactly 💁🏼♀️
I've been scared to say. He looks like Drake
He has featured in many of my steamy dreams whew
Yours sis.... did you not hear what he was saying at 20:00 once a cheater always a cheater....ew
@@stephpowell7648 that's really not the case though I no loads of lads that when they was young and stupid cheated till they matured and don't do it no more
Wym that's all y'all talk about in the comments. For that reason, this the only channel on UA-cam where I don't read the comments.
its actually crazy seeing how far you both have come, from sitting back on the sofas in the purple room 2 years ago to now, been here since day one
I joined the cult around 13k followers. Crazyyy that y'all are approaching 100k so fast but not surprised - BEST PODCAST IN THE GAME! 🥵 You guys deserve all the success! 💕
Fuhad wants none of the smoke 💨 😂😂😂😂😂 “take her I have nothing to do with it” 🤷🏾♀️
It's been 7 months since you uploaded this and the Top Boy conversation is sending me! I'm waking up neighbors laughing at this at 2am! "For Sullivan!?" 🤣
Love how y’all have become apart of my Monday routine. Faithfully tuning in like I do with marvel shows 😂
James screaming always cracks me up 😂😂😂
This podcast is the only thing getting me through finals but the relationship story is what gave me life...I'm dyinggggggggggg and lowkey scared 🤣
Gal said she don't date guys younger than me she was 2 years older ... I ended up marrying her .. we just celebrated our 10 year anniversary
Fuhad is the one who normally keeps it together the most but when he dies laughing it is so f***ing funny 😂😂😂
Can only see his teeth 😂
Always gets me when Brits talk about driving distances.. 😄 "four and a half hour drive" to the other end of the country.
Doesn't even get me half way across the state. (Queensland Aus)
Love the work boys. ✊🏻🙌🏻
Same in the states 4 hours is literally still in the same state and not even halfway through (Florida)
@@asyiantv3723 you took the words out my mouth!
I live in Texas. That’s all ima say.🙃
I live in Canada, I can drive 12 hours north and still be in my same province 😆
Agreed, as a British citizen, generally anything over a hour is far for me
Hands down, the best podcast I have come across. Defo going to watch every episode in my free time. Please keep going with this amazing content
Jonas brothers "RELIGIOUSLY" for a whole yeeeear, brutha be moving maaaaad 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can understand how people get manipulated or swindled, but to me if someone said they had an insane amount of money and then are asking to borrow money from me - nah, I'd have serious questions. I don't know if it's because I've been poor or what but I'm cool with each of us just sticking with our own money and not exchanging any.
An insecure narcissist with false confidence is worse than backing a wild animal in a corner. I was married to a narcissist for 13 years.. the gaslighting and mind games he played! It takes A LOT to break free from them.. even then, they continue to try to bring you back!
Mandem , back at it , #1 supporter in South Africa big man , much love, gang gang
Cap, I am
@@ziyandanzimande5699 Nah, I am. 👨🏾🦯
25:20 when I tell you, my head FLEW up to the screen
On the fun fact about octopus and tools… in finding nemo when the baby one at the talks about how one of their tentacles is longer than the others… they’re not talking about tentacles 🤣
The fact that James' cardinal rule is not going through his phone is 1000% residual trauma from his cheating days 😂💀
The one eyebrow lift when James says "excuse me" at the pretend pick up of an ex girlfriend is hilarous!
Yo, James is absolutely hilarious! The way he gets into these scenarios is golden!
Fudad's energy when pebbles was mentioned LOOL
LMAOOO
What show are they talking about? I didn't hear them mention it
@@alexkapparos6878top boy, its a wicked show
@@alexkapparos6878topboy
18:40 James " Daddy used to cheat, Papa used to cheat" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t blame the girl for anything she did. A narcissist will do Anything to maintain control. I tried to escape several times before I was successful. The first time, he popped up at the Starbucks I was ordering from - more than 80 km from his house. He must have been following me all day. Another time he became violent. He also threatened to release explicit photos I didn’t know he had taken. The last time, he actually poisoned me and I ended up in the hospital. It’s very hard to prove, so the police do nothing. I had to change my car, phone number, cell carrier, and move to a different town.
I wish I had the courage to do what this woman did.
🫂 I'm so glad you're alive and that you made it sister ❤ you're no longer there.
James switched from "Daddy" to "Papa"...I'm DONE!!
🤦♀️🤣🤣🤣
Not “take her and leave me out of it” - Fuhad 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOVE LOVE LOVE your podcast!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you both are so real and vulnerable. Please keep doing what you're doing. Your podcast is what I play when I'm happy and when I'm feeling down, truly. You lift my spirits EVERY SINGLE TIME. Without fail. Bless you both 🙏🏾🥰
Seriously some of the best on UA-cam! I watch these on repeat all the dang time 😅 fire 🔥
White Robes ⬜️ & Yeezys 👟
Fuhad: Let me get into character *(giggles)* lol
My favourite part of the week is this podcast!
I needed this video today my morning has been hell. Thanks for your content ❤️
The girl with bleach...living with an abuser is rougher than rough. When I was in high school my dad had a mini heart attack in the living room and I saw it happen, sat in the next room and ignored him asking for an ambulance. The bastard lived anyways.
James: women get swindled on a fairy tale, guys would never fall for that
Crypto: Am I a joke to you? Am I a JOKE?!
Love the banter, keep it up you two will go far 🔥
Friend zone is honestly better than family zone🤣🤣
Right cause you still could have a chance once your in fam ain’t no way
*I CRYYYYY watching their podcast clips on Tiktok I love the content🤣👏🏻💕*
Fuhads laugh at 1:10:10 when he hung up, ENDS ME
I’m crying🤣 James doing Curtis’s accent
I have a question. Wich show are they talking about?
@@sorayavanrenterghem8484I wanna know too
Always hysterical, guys. I know you’ll get that cabin. Without a doubt.
Found you guys on tiktok. Immediately followed. You guys are hilarious 😂
Are we gunna ignore how Fuhad said "bitmoji" ?!😂😂😂
Fro when I heard I’m gona need 50 racks my alarm bells were already ringing 😂
This episode was just class👏🏾
FACTS
Swear sometimes I laugh more WITH you two than AT what's actually being said 😅 the saucy santana concert fit killllllllled me the way Fuhad slaps the chair 😂
You guy’s are awesome and i love listening to your podcast ! Thanks for such good content 😃
I have so much work and studies.. but im hooked its been hours i just CAN'T stop watching....
😂😂 Fuhad saying he would open the door... That relationship must have really been toxic though, that chick went to the extreme
Came from tiktok and never left, well done mandem
Omg I love fuhads laugh in this it’s bloody hilarious
27:03 I'M DYING NAH SAUCY SANTANA LMAOOOO
52:00 BRO SAID "heh listen to me" NAH LMAOOOOO
I recently started watching them and I can't stop😭😭😭😭😭HELP🤣🤣🤣
you a cult baby now
“Excuse me, I’ll remortgage my house to pay for that” omg I love these men so much !!! They really show how ridiculous things can be 🤭
Great way to spend my birthday, listening to this podcast!!
Happy birthday 🎂
Happy Birthday 🎂
Happy Birthday ! 🥳❤️
Happy birthday 🥰
Another amazing podcast
From the Westbank expressway to Ames is far! But, he had to walk threw a tunnel or over the elevated expressway to get there
It would be so fun to have an argument with Fuhad, I love the way he argues. Don't catch me arguing with James though, he would gaslight me so much I'd be fighting for him by the end of it.
One of THE best episodes I’ve seen. I never laughed so hard before. I love starting my week with y’all!
What gets me is the facial reactions 😂😂😂😂
In his DEFENSE…K-Dramas be HEARTBREAKING but GOOD
Watching from South Africa, I LOVE you guys!
you guys lit cured my depression
Always 🔥 Twins with the head tilt got me, then floored by bridesmaid n🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You guys are SO damn funny! and chill, l am so glad I came across your channel 😃 Love from London ❤
James villain origin story 🏋🏻♂️
This episode had me cackling 😂😭 absolutely loved it
The anger when you say why you smashing her 😂😂😂😭
I never liked watching podcasts but I’m addicted to this one wallahi 😂😂😂
That’s relationship though 😩 been there done it - I feel for her so much! And I know that’s just the tip of the ice burg. You can’t leave! You’d rather go pen to get away - your safe there
The argonaught octopi die after mating 😰😂 the male after about 3 months, and the female dies a short while after her eggs have hatched. And no, he doesn’t get his peepee back 😂😂❤️❤️ ilysm!
Lol....Not put baby in a corner 🤣🤣🤣🤣 This took me out!!!!!
I'm deeeead "PEBBLES CLOSE THE DOORS!! CLOSE THE FAWKING DOORS!!"
When Fuhad hehehe hahaha'd at the start of the role play, I lost it 😂💀
I had a very good friend that I fell for hard years ago. We would hang out and talk for hours. We enjoyed each other's company immensely and our connection was so deep. We shared so many personal things. I confessed my feelings for him and he said he loved me but he couldn't see himself dating a latina because he only dated white American women. Broke my heart. Then he asked out a friend of mine who turned him down. And he told me he was into her because she is white even though he stated that they don't have the connection we did. Friend zoned.
So you were good friends with a racist and that didn't turn you off of him? Wow.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m watching this while in the gym and the laugh that just I laughed people probably think I’m deranged 💀😂😂😂
21:47 Fuhad: "Flight or fight" Perfect!
'Twins' absolutely killed me 🤣
Glad your gonna watch the ultimatum. It's a dumpster fire that's so bad it's good.
Watched that trash but couldn’t turn it off 🤯😂😂😂😂
I’m gonna need you guys to do Netflix reviews. A quick round up on recent releases so I can decide if I wanna watch. Cause the bad vegan review. Made me wanna watch. 😂🤌🏾
I second this request.
I third this request
I third this request!
No
“Safe my G, I needed that” 💀💀💀
“I’m opening all the doors” 😂😂😂👹
Women get swindled like that because we buy into trying to be submissive and follow some dude who isn’t a leader… we try to stand by our man and support their dream… then we get left high, dry, and broke and then are bitter afterwards. But the questions that Fuhad asked.. most don’t ask because it’s seen as being combative and not trusting our man… we can’t win for losing…
Their scenarios and role playing are the best!
Fuhad’s reaction to “and then he hung up” was priceless 🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Cant wait to see you boys hit 100k 💪🏼
NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!
Love from JAMAICA 💜
My favourite Monday People 😁😁😁