Take A Break - Change Your Life
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I am Jamaican my mom lives with us and just me watching your videos she was offended like “you no tired you no know tired” LOL. I was like mom you are 81 you have been tired forever and didn’t do anything about it, but that won’t be me.
I'm watching I'm Jamaican too my Mom is 81 too sooo funny 😁. Jamaican parents will be proud of you if you went to work with Covid🤣😂😆. They are workaholics!!!!! When I sold my business to move overseas they almost lost their minds. But I had to live my life for me.
Jamaican too, but worried about how the parents will survive without me. I feel tethered to work and I hate it.
Leaving work in October 2024 when I turn 60 and I’m not going back. My plan is to do agency work in healthcare for a few weeks at a time and go travelling in between.
I'm losing 700 a month by retiring at 60 vs 63... I just shut those people out that remind me of that LOL
I will make it up some how, my mental health is more important than 3 additional years!
My partner and I bought a small apartment in Portugal. Due to the epidemic, We weren't able to reach anyone by phone. I left to go check on the property taxes with business laptop packed. Stayed over a month and It was the most enjoyable time of my life. Had a wonderful sense of peace. Walked to the beach every day. Hadn't felt this happy in a very very long time. Questioned what am I doing with my life. I've since sold everything and am in the process of moving to Portugal. Told my job my plans And am leaving whether they supported it or not.
Yes!!! I love this. And I really like when people leave regardless of what their job says. It shows such boldness. 💛
EXACTLY What I Did. I Took a Sabbatical, Travelled Around & Ended Up In Portugal. It Was The First Time Since I Was 2 Years Old I Hadn’t Been Studying or Working. I’m a Lawyer. Anyway, I Discovered LIVING!!! Stayed a Month In a Hotel Then Rented a Studio By The Beach For a Few Months. I Was SO HAPPY! I Decided I Was NEVER Going Back To My 24/7 Gruelling Worklife. I Went Back, Made Proper Arrangements & Returned To Portugal. Now, I Half Live There. I LOVE MY LIFE🧚🏼♀️🧚🏼♀️PRAISE BE!
Hi Aimee, so happy to hear that you also share this experience.
this is a word! Leaving the career I built and defined myself by made me deal with my ego. But, pivoting, and leaving corporate America SAVED me/ restored my mental wellbeing
Tosh, you are amazing and inspiring ALWAYS!!!!
awh thxs & appreciate that @@vs0063
I love the way you switch from the nice diplomatic voice to “eff that house.” 😂
It’s hilarious! Eff those student loans (pay the minimum though). 😂
@@melaniesmith1928 Yes! 😆
Gotta pay the minimum 😂
😂😂😂
@@Roshida I’m so close to student loans being my only debt. I cannot wait!
I am 44 and burnout. I would like to retire at age 50 if possible. I am very tired of my 8am to 6pm job. I would love to do something different. I want out of corporate America
I hope you find your way out! Sending love! 💛
My break will be permanent. I’m not practicing law after I make the break. I have other things I want to do in the world of art.
June, just taking a 4 day birthday break away. 💃 I'm saving half my income and paying off last debt, my student loan less thank $8k now, was $21k.
Update: my student loan is now less than $5k, so hopefully that'll be cancelled with the new Biden plan. My next goal, I'd like to quit my current job/sabbatical, me-time, in the Fall/Winter from my WFH sales job, I'm mentally and emotionally exhausted from that hamster wheel.
YASSSSSSS!!!!! You got this!
@@Roshida thanks Rashida!!
July 2023 - Forever
I love all of this. I'm also a lawyer. I took a 3-month break (unintentionally after leaving a job in January) and it was the best thing ever for my mental and physical health. I was very ready to get back to work. I'm paying off my debts so I can have the choice of whether or not to work in the future. I want to slow travel in Europe, but I wouldn't mind working at the same time.
Watching the replay. I have a few departure dates based on debt reduction, last HS graduation and then a year break that may turn into forever. I’ve been watching you and Stephsnie for a while and I’m getting my whole life together 🥰
May 2022-30 days
June 2024-30 days
2028- 1 year sabbatical
Dw has left the building on April 8, 2022 Retiring never going to work 40 hrs for anyone again Mexico here I come and a few other places just travel
Congrats! Excited for you! 💛
Change is uncomfortable yet so important for our growth. I love how you break down the next steps, share your journey and talk about the sunk costs. We can all find JOY as we let go of fears.
My date is May 1st 2022. Planning on taking a three month break 💃🙏. Planning to travel to Europe.
I love hearing your story. As a PhD, a Professor, and a professional, it is heartening to hear you talk.
I have a Jamaican mother in her 70’s that still works. I understand and identify with your story. Love my job but don’t love the people I work with.
Sending lots of love your way. Good luck. 💛
July 2024
I’m on maternity leave atm. I’m being made redundant at the end of June. I’m retraining in an area that is more fulfilling so I can earn some money to make a permanent break and move back to a Kenya. I’m aiming for March 2023 ✈️ 🇰🇪
I found you today, I put my notice in today m. 5-20-21, I don’t plan to go back. I plan to work for myself!
So happy for you I can’t wait to put in my notice next month I’m ready to live my best life now and NOT later
Yassss Tamara! I'm so excited for you! 💛
You've got this @PamperedKoils! 💛
I have been obsessed with your videos! As a lender I love that you said “we don’t want your credit going to shit” lmao SO LOVE THAT YOU KEEP IT 1000%
I am thankful I don’t have the student loan debt phew! I just paid off 2 debts this morning and I am feeling super fly! I’m on a journey to get the car paid off, just sold my casa (closing next month) and I am well on my way! You are amazing for sharing your journey and wisdom! I know I’m not your target audience ha ha but oh well 😜
My dream date is shortly after my birthday (10/30) I am aiming for Nov 2021!
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Mexico is great! I was in Cuernavaca, 1 hour south of CDMX, in 2010 for 6 months during the cartel stuff and "La Barbie" capture. In the beach towns people will solicit drugs to you while on the boardwalk the same as a person selling popcorn on the street. A guy I knew was arrested by an undercover cop for a few hours. My rule I followed and I didn't have any issues the time I was there, "if I wouldn't do it in America, I won't do it in Mexico". Keep away from vice-type of stuff and you'll be fine.
Great advice
I can’t tell you how much this conversation inspired me. I quit “the job” in May and am on somewhat of a planned career break and transition and have NEVER felt better in my LIFE. Thank you for the confirmation and inspiration!
I will be taking a break from working starting January 15th, 2024. During this time, I plan to focus solely on school
4/28/2026. Forever
June 30, 2023 is my departure date
How’s it going?
My date is 10th July 2023 forever. I’m done working. I’m making Antigua (West Indies) my base but I’ll still travel. I’m fed up of living in the (UK).
My freedom date is April 2022
March/April 2024 🎉❤
Working = validation in current society
I,m on one year break to go school and get career job . my 17 years job was killed me physically and emotionally. like you said work place peoples and environment makes peoples job harder than a job.
My date is: Nov 2024 for 3 months! 😁 and I’m on team Bop Around for sure!
My permanent break is planned for November 2023. Can't wait! Enjoying working out all the details leading up to my exit date.
That’s exciting! What part of your plan do you already have in place? 💛
I love the strength that it takes to say, hey you see that thing that I paid the student loans to get? I won't do it again.
Shidaaaa, sorry I missed this live but still a great video and glad I caught it. My planned move is spring 2023 and of course its Ciudad de Mexico!!! I plan on doing 4-6 months at a time there with a week or two here in the states in between. Two of my favorite subjects to hear you talk about are student loans and cartel crime 😆🤣😆🤣 I honestly don't know what to say about the insight and knowledge I've obtained from this channel. THANK YOU
An important lesson you just taught me was not to let ego hold us back from what we truly want. Thank you for sharing this! 🙏🏽💕
July 8, 2024 departure yes its a long ways away but it gives me time to do what I need to do
August 9th, 2022, or 2024
Today 😀 05/28/2021. I gave 7 weeks' notice. I wanted to wait until November 2021 but I literally couldn't wait.
Oh wow! I wish I could comment with a gif of a happy dance. I'm so excited for you. Do you have an idea of how long you want your break to be? 💛
Working hard on it💛
I sooooo agree with you. I will be free to do what makes me happy. I already spoke to the one that matters. Thanks.
December 16TH, 2022!
Congratulations 💛💛💛
We all deserve to take a break once in a while to boost productivity.
My break will be 12/2023 retirement
Take notes from black folk about working hard. We been working all our life a time to rest. Do it for the ancestors.
Girl….I needed to see this video!
Ayyeee! Glad it found it's way to you!
You are awesome
Thanks Anthony! 💛
I want at least 3 months!
Attorney here 🙋🏾♀️ In planning mode. My departure date will be on my birthday in April but I cannot put which year. People are watching 👀
Binge watching your shit. Love your attitude and realness. Wish I could say eff everything in my neck of the woods😱
Thanks for watching! And yes, when the time comes, you'll be ready to sa eff it all!
I've been struggling for a minute. I needed this video. BADLY! In the process of planning.
YESSS! The actual planning is what makes it happen. Good luck! 💛
Great subject! After I retired from the military, I had many opportunities to work in the corporate but choose to work in real estate till it was time to move on... being happy and enjoying what you do is more important. Sorry, not a woman, but enjoyed this video and wish you and all your followers success and happiness in life. Go Travel!
Sep 1 2022 - my work contract ends in August 2022 so it should be a seamless transition.
I will be remote within this month Nov 24. We will begin traveling Sept 25.
Oct 6, 2023
Oct 31, 2022 - retirement
01/31/2022 for 1 year to forever.
My date is Dec 2022. I'm retired from the military and civil service. Looking to move to Playa del Carmen with my 2 fur babies for 3-6 months.🤞😊
January 2022 is my move date!
6 months but I God says longer than longer. I will be retired so length will depend on if I want to work and when I want to come back. Right now i'm training to become a Health and Wellness coach and plan to build my clients as I do that part time then I can turn that to a full time thing or just keep it part time as I travel. Having options is awesome and I thank God everyday forgiving me options!
Happy Early Birthday Sis!🥳 I love your content and I want to start planning my career break. Thank you.
Thanks so much! 💛💛
I would like to travel around to different countries and bop around for a bit. Staying in 1 city per month will be ideal, beginning with Mexico.
It's really a great move. What cities are you thinking about?
New sub here. Love your message. I live in the bay area, left NC at age 30, took sebatical for over 2 years. Now I’m trying to figure out what is next at age 60. I can’t afford to stay in the SF bay area. I am so happy for the message you are bringing to black women.
My date is 21 December 2027. 2 year break. I want year of our joy and another year for another Masters. Will see after that.
After incentive payouts. 3/XX/2022 ✨
I have planned my retirement for April 2022, but my Jamaican cultural mindset is coming up with excuses to push the date back and keep working.....I’m pretty sure I don’t need the extra money.
I’m not Rashida! But My Nigerian cultural mindset is also doing this to me. If you feel like you really need the extra money stay for a little while longer but not too long. I am giving myself another month to work on creating another stream of income for myself. Once that month comes and whether I have started making money or not on my new stream of income I am going (for mental health reasons & focus). I know eventually I will start earning income on my new business. Give yourself a PLAN, a date and daily look things like rashida and stephanie’s videos to encourage you DAILY!(this will help you fight your inner conflict and solidify your decision to leave your job). I hope I could help
Mexico
Dream date: Now…. Reality date: July 2023 for at least 2 years
Try near beach Try Mexico City
yes after listening to you on other shows I decided 1 city every 6 weeks
I'm going to decide after the Exodussummit, but I want it to be in 2022.
Watching the play. Been a lawyer since I 1999 and I’m done. I’m on leave right now because i reached my breaking point. Thinking about going back to work makes me unhappy. Trying to decide my exit plan and where I may want to take a break to. If COVID was not an issue, I would go to Brazil. Looking for other options. Thanks for the ideas.
Hi Erica, if you ever want to talk, you can hit me up here: calendly.com/shidasontheloose/ask-me-anything. I know what its like to feel like you have to work, but know how bad it would be to walk back into the same situation. Sending you a lot of love! 💛
I want to go to Portugal, Spain, Italy and France!
Sept 2021... and if I can help it I will never return to this place. My issue is not working, I love teaching and will probably not stop, but I hate living in the US so I am leaving. I love the corny BTW.
Great conversation as always.
Much appreciated 💛
Thanks!
Thanks for watching! 💛
My set date is July 1, 2022. 6 months atleast.
Congratulations 💛
October 2021
30 days
something new
I so, need this!!!
I accepted early retirement I am planning on taking three months off to start and see where I go from there
Love you!
Really would like a, how to invest in Vanguard for dummies!
I have less than two years and I’m on my way to Mexico!👏🏽
Congrats on your plans for Mexico! 💛
Love this. Thank you for this. Quick question for everyone who has actually done this or is planning: How do you cope when you don't have a support system cheering you on?
Hi JP, You find people who want to do the same thing. They will always support you when your friends and family don't know how. Are you a member of the Exodus Summit FB group? facebook.com/groups/exodussummit
Find a support system yourself. Channels like Shida and Stephanie Perry, and Facebook groups that are doing what you want to do. If people aren't pouring positive energy into your life, find some new people!
In Florida now, would love to bounce my goals and ambitious with you.
April 27, 2022 6-12 months to figure out next steps in my journey to self
YESSSS Erica! You've got this!!!! 💛
I am a new subscriber. I must tell you, your channel is extremely cathartic for me. Thanks for sharing your story and such great advice!
Great video as always! Thanks Roshida 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
oh wow I didn't know you were an online coach! We need to talk I graduate in June and hope to sit for the boards in October this year or May next year
So many questions... 2022 is my year to get out. Here’s the first question: what did you tell them when you resigned (in resignation letter)? One of my bosses already hinted at retaliation if anyone left without a good reason (yes, that is illegal but I believe she will reach out to people in our field to get someone “blacklisted”). I still have faith I can get another job but it will be harder if she follows through- so I’m trying to figure out what to say...
I've taken a break and on top of the Covid period it was an awesome time for self reflection.. My idea of not. living here did not change, just sayin'
January 1st, 2022 🥂💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽👋🏽👋🏽
Each place week or so
I want to go to Europe for 3 months starting in May 2023.
That’s sounds like an amazing experience. What countries are you thinking of.
April 2022
YOU'VE GOT THIS! 💛
December 17, 2021 🙌🏾
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I 💛 it!
I'm scheduled for puerto vallarta 10-12-21 to 11-11-21 after exodus home-going. Plan to visit 5 different cities including Puerta Rico. Ma_be visit you on mexico ci
June 2025---forever
Ayyyyeee!!! I see it!
March 11 - 27, 2022
I LOVE IT!!! 💛💛💛
August 2023 2 years
Congratulations! You've got this! 💛