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  • @ms.generatorsnatcher9974
    @ms.generatorsnatcher9974 5 місяців тому +22

    Don't waste your energy! Take care of yourself! They are selfish and self centered. Seek Peace!

  • @timothyabraham13
    @timothyabraham13 5 місяців тому +40

    The truth is they never want you or anyone else for that matter...however there are times they need you for a specific task.

  • @rochellebautista4758
    @rochellebautista4758 5 місяців тому +34

    My ex-husband, the narcissist, had the nerve to tell me he missed me. He also said no one does or takes care of him like I did. He must have forgotten about his smear campaign. All the lies he told on me. That backward walking giraffe can stay over there with the supplies he cheated on me with. Getting a divorce from him is the best thing that ever happened to me! 😅

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 5 місяців тому +9

      He was telling the truth for once- 😂he does miss you & no one no one will take care of him like you .
      It took you leaving for him/ THEM to realize this.
      Can you imagine the abuse the new supplies are going through-? since you gone 😂

    • @PrincessCashmonie
      @PrincessCashmonie 4 місяці тому

      @@browneyes9507Good. That’s what they get. 😼

  • @ldm3134
    @ldm3134 5 місяців тому +9

    Never low level fruit. Low level fruit is easy. He wants the thrill of that golden apple that was always at the top of the tree that he tried to make me feel low but did not succeed. Because I am a child of God and he could never break me. Greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world.

  • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
    @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 5 місяців тому +35

    It gives me the hibby jibbys whenever I think about him now. I mean, I was actually married to a demon, and I didn't even know it. It's spiritual. Those demons are assigned to destroy us.

    • @yvonnelee3712
      @yvonnelee3712 5 місяців тому +5

      You just described exactly how I feel! Am so SO grateful God saved me from any more harm 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 He watches over His children and those demons won’t get away with it #divorced
      #nomorenarcissists

    • @ChosenByJehovah
      @ChosenByJehovah 5 місяців тому +6

      That's how my ex fiance wad straight from the gates of hell

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 5 місяців тому +3

      @@yvonnelee3712 God was right there with us, watching over us, and protecting us the whole time. HE is the only reason that we survived those demonic creatures. And, you're right! They will reap what they have sown. They won't get away with it. 🙏❤️🙏

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 5 місяців тому +2

      Me too!! Can’t stand the thought of him

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 5 місяців тому +3

      @@browneyes9507 When the thoughts of him started making me feel disgusted and sick inside, I knew that I was on the road to recovery and deliverance from the evil.
      It's been hard to break the trauma bond and soul tie with that demon, but with God all things are possible. God gets all the Glory, Honor, Praise and Worship... Hallelujah! Praise God! 🙏

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 5 місяців тому +13

    They show no fruits of the spirit.

  • @Nikki_Nicole_
    @Nikki_Nicole_ 5 місяців тому +19

    👏🏾👏🏾 As Tea says, let them stay in the wind over there with that new supply!! I'm maintaining my power and snatching power grids! 🔋🔋

  • @Ranee1866
    @Ranee1866 5 місяців тому +59

    I'm glad we are no longer in a relationship after 4 years of his womanizing behavior, mental torture I endured with him😢 went through his broken promises, I booked off 1 week from work to go on a trip to meet his family only to realise he was planning to go alone, I saw him posting pics with his family on his Facebook page while I sat alone at home, he got on a plane without me !

    • @erickonassis6310
      @erickonassis6310 5 місяців тому +13

      And pointless hour long arguments

    • @JaysonKaufman
      @JaysonKaufman 4 місяці тому

      Ms. Raness yr Too attractive and wonderful Queen to be treated that way. If u was my Woman I will treat u better. Jayson is my name U deserve Much better. Amen🎉🌹🌹

  • @Terri302
    @Terri302 5 місяців тому +58

    They some P Diddy mofos....🤡

  • @blaquecinderella3560
    @blaquecinderella3560 5 місяців тому +3

    Imma stay on top of the tree! After 6months of being a victim post discard, the pain, shock, disbelief & regret is finally gone🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. The dark veil lifted yesterday! I'm now bold, empowered, confident, my prayer altar is on fire & above all I no longer fear my ex narc. WON'T GOD DO IT!! It's surreal, honestly I never thought I would heal or move past the pain & regret. Folks it's possible to completely break free especially if you didn't procreate with the narc 🙏🏾 Actually ex narc hoovered me a few mins ago & instead of anger, I just started laughing as I'm so over him; Now truly & fully 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @magicwompson6870
    @magicwompson6870 5 місяців тому +8

    Child like behavior will destroy your life if naturally you’re growing and headed into the sunset

  • @Bands-qd5lo
    @Bands-qd5lo 5 місяців тому +11

    I love leaving him on "seen"🤭

  • @NK-ek3kt
    @NK-ek3kt 5 місяців тому +9

    My ex got engaged looking to get married
    I moved away with my daughter , he will not leave us alone, still flirting still inappropriate, still wants his family back together , he asks me if I still love him and to move back
    This is so true they never leave you alone

  • @InHisService772
    @InHisService772 5 місяців тому +29

    The Hoover is in and of itself a big game to them. They are attempting to see if they can win at the game of Reed idealizing and rekindling the “” relationship. These people are sick.

  • @blaquecinderella3560
    @blaquecinderella3560 5 місяців тому +5

    Imma stay on trop of the tree! After 6months of being a victim post discard, the pain, shock, disbelief & regret is finally gone🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾. The dark veil lifted yesterday! I'm now bold, empowered, confident, my prayer altar is on fire & above all I no longer fear my ex narc. WON'T GOD DO IT!! It's surreal, honestly I never thought I would heal or move past the pain & regret. Folks it's possible to completely break free especially if you didn't procreate with the narc 🙏🏾 Actually ex narc hoovered me a few mins ago & instead of anger, I just started laughing as I'm so over him; Now truly & fully 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @lifeofaninteriordesigner1305
    @lifeofaninteriordesigner1305 5 місяців тому +18

    They love the face to face! They also feel it's easier to manipulate you! I noticed everytime I went to leave, can we meet. So glad I'm done done! ✔️

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 5 місяців тому +4

      They love to hear your voice , they gotta hear from YOU- so they can feel better - which is why you must remain SILENT.

    • @LoveahmakeyaCrazay
      @LoveahmakeyaCrazay 5 місяців тому +1

      Wow same here.. can we meet turns into a toxic pattern

  • @deenice5255
    @deenice5255 5 місяців тому +27

    Tha Narcisse can get the Heck on after 3 months of them dropping and discarding Me as if I was nothing and/or ment anything to them. With no conversation, ignoring numerous of my phone calls and text messages trying to figure out what's going on or to gain a force closure of some sort on my behalf.
    No thank you ! Last 2 weeks a phone call 📲 follow up with a Happy Birthday 🎂 text last week. Nawl buddy no response you can keep it all. I don't care 🤷 to talk nothing, leave me alone and I can bet you won't hear nothing else from me again, Damnnn Narc 😮

  • @tashie20
    @tashie20 5 місяців тому +11

    This the most “I Love You” and “I Miss You” I’ve had in 20yrs since I left 4 months ago🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️You can’t make it make sense cause they’re SENSELESS 🤣🙄

  • @patriziastella6564
    @patriziastella6564 5 місяців тому +8

    Yes I see this happening now every couple of months I have him messaging me saying "how are you going" I miss you" also sent me an invite into a game we used to play. It's all fake I'm not playing these mind playing games no more. They never ever change cause I gave him multiple chances to change & he never did. Now I say goodbye. 🤣🤣

  • @boywiththeglasses1
    @boywiththeglasses1 5 місяців тому +10

    I’ve been getting weird texts from different numbers every other week like “where are you” or “what are you doing tonight”
    It’s sad.

  • @tamekashelton354
    @tamekashelton354 5 місяців тому +8

    I Received Yesterday Blocked Phone Calls & Spam Numbers I Believe It Was From The Ex Narcissist I’m No longer With..

    • @CrandallWilliams
      @CrandallWilliams 5 місяців тому +2

      Me too

    • @ISABEL_OF42
      @ISABEL_OF42 4 місяці тому

      Same thing happened to me and at first I didn’t think it was him so I downloaded a app that unmasks blocked numbers. It was him the entire time. It sucks because towards the end of our relationship he didn’t call me nor care for my presence as much as he craves it now. 😢

  • @carlenewozniak5225
    @carlenewozniak5225 5 місяців тому +7

    Been going thru hoovering for over a month now..... it's scary! He's being nicer than he has since the beginning. 20 yrs ago. He found I am filing for Divorce

  • @miamiflorida6965
    @miamiflorida6965 5 місяців тому +3

    #truth. They only live for the thrill of the challenge. So sad! They don't live in the moment.

  • @kimberlybarnes799
    @kimberlybarnes799 5 місяців тому +5

    This was PERFECTLY timed. Thank you and thank God!

  • @cynthiaclark9729
    @cynthiaclark9729 5 місяців тому +1

    Calls seem desperate.SAD i'm gone.

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 5 місяців тому +3

    So True ...An Obsession but not interested at all. All Truth exposed.

  • @Raemontanny
    @Raemontanny 5 місяців тому +4

    He keeps stalking me that’s really bold of him like he literally would pop up in my class every morning

  • @aleciamoten6867
    @aleciamoten6867 5 місяців тому +2

    They're Vampires!! 🧛‍♂️

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 5 місяців тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful presence with us today Ms. Telsha, and good day to you. I look forward to seeing your videos daily! I've experienced this unfortunately. I pray for us with good hearts that we are abundantly blessed after all is said and done! And may we be rewarded, since we've endured this level of treachery and we still remain pure in heart as much as possible. 🙏❤💯👑🔥💎🙏

  • @traiigeetv
    @traiigeetv 5 місяців тому +12

    that Thursday night stream was amazing ❤

  • @toniacompton1091
    @toniacompton1091 5 місяців тому +4

    You’re so RIGHT Telsha!!
    Thank you so so much for your information. You are my favorite speaker on this whole topic.
    God bless you Telsha.🙏🙏❤️❤️💕💕

  • @MarciVick-mc1gj
    @MarciVick-mc1gj 5 місяців тому +9

    I discarded before he had a chance this was the first ever discard. After 2 months I'm getting fake friend request. He can't call as I changed my number and the state put a GPS tracker on his stupid ass.. bye boy 👦 bye. I wonder what is going to happen and how's he's going to try to get my attention? Dodge and weave!

  • @lynnh4786
    @lynnh4786 5 місяців тому +2

    I just love ❤your introduction beautiful lady!!! The information is amazing schooling us on narcissistic people out here . I got rid of 2 on my lifetime it was hell. Hit the like button lol 😆 have a awesome weekend miss

  • @MiSSTiquE
    @MiSSTiquE 4 місяці тому

    Now I get why my mother used to tell me:'When you are gone I can't wait to see you, but when you're here I can't wait for you to leave.'
    My therapist was so sad when I told him that. He was almost in tears. That's when I understood how terrible her words were.
    She and my brother are hoovering me again. Gonna fix those words in my mind and stay the hell away from them.

  • @gomab.ing4
    @gomab.ing4 5 місяців тому +3

    Blocked in April no contact since.She brought no value…….To my life.

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 5 місяців тому +6

    This is some great counsel. Thank you 💕
    He will definitely sit in his shame and spin on my silence . Never again !
    Thanks again, Lady T🌺💕🌺

  • @deezsugah
    @deezsugah 5 місяців тому +3

    Yes, these creatures will send messages from all different types of numbers. Crazy! Why did you try to do the right thing when you was hiding your phone every night? 👍🏽

  • @vivalajuicey
    @vivalajuicey 5 місяців тому +3

    This is very true and sad 🤦🏽‍♀

  • @tashemamorris4905
    @tashemamorris4905 5 місяців тому +3

    Mine hoovered once in a blue moon for the first year after the discard hear lately haven’t heard anything and I wanna keep it that way …..The discard was the ultimate betrayal it was brutal the lies the triangulation with the new supply and smearing me to his family….That was the icing on the cake happy that long legged frog with a bow tie and a tu- tu is gone😂

  • @Fullgrace061
    @Fullgrace061 5 місяців тому +4

    They have holler hold brains and I need a men that love himself and God 😊

  • @mickkesee1758
    @mickkesee1758 5 місяців тому +3

    The narcissist's had her sister reach out to me next thing I know I'm talking to the narcissist and we're socializing from a distance am I looking at these videos I learned how to get past the BS

  • @AlfonsoBooker-d4t
    @AlfonsoBooker-d4t 5 місяців тому +4

    Teach my sister

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 5 місяців тому +3

    I don't care if he wants me or not but it's not happening EVER! I'm done I'm doing the Lord's work and following him that Narc doesn't fit in my life. Like he never did before either. I'm good alone. He's not getting this Super Empath.. Heyoka Empath.

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 5 місяців тому +1

    I GOTTA GET UP AND GET IN ON THE LIVE CHAT. .❤❤❤❤. I DIDN'T ANSWER HIS CALLS, NOR RESPOND TO THOSE TEXTS LAST NIGHT. I BE SO GLAD WHEN MY MAIL STOPS COMING THERE. SO, I CAN GO NO CONTACT AGAIN AND STAY THERE. THAT IS CRAZY.

  • @davideburch3708
    @davideburch3708 5 місяців тому +5

    Waiting on my kingdom wife Now 💜🤎📖👑🦁

  • @JanetNewnes
    @JanetNewnes 5 місяців тому +1

    They are disordered!!

  • @CarlaMcmillion
    @CarlaMcmillion 4 місяці тому

    Crip Keepers 😂😂✌🏾, Let them stay in their delusional world, Game Over ✌🏾✌🏾, Bye😃✌🏾, Continue to Stay Narc Free☝🏾💋, BLESS YOU Ms. Telsha ❤️❤️

  • @nele8554
    @nele8554 5 місяців тому +6

    Do not even read the mail

  • @shanellgriffin4262
    @shanellgriffin4262 5 місяців тому +1

    I will see you healed, whole at the 🔝!! Shalom

  • @gomab.ing4
    @gomab.ing4 5 місяців тому +1

    You have taught me a lot. Thank you so so much 🙏🏿.

  • @chocongii
    @chocongii 4 місяці тому

    they're insane

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 5 місяців тому +2

    I discarded him a year ago and he reached out I'm moving had no choice getting to a new address and place and filing my divorce papers the final step asap was gonna do it but these fake J landlords did some mess with me that cause me to halt what I was doing well once I get settled in I'm severing ties forever with the narcissist

  • @marlenescott4718
    @marlenescott4718 5 місяців тому +3

    It’s easy said then done

    • @whiteliner2253
      @whiteliner2253 5 місяців тому +3

      Keep going back… After you have had enough of being dragged by your hair on your face, you will…

    • @sevenseconds8652
      @sevenseconds8652 5 місяців тому +1

      Persevere, pray the Rosary! 💖🙏💖

  • @CrandallWilliams
    @CrandallWilliams 5 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for blessing me with knowledge.💪🏿💯

  • @jerryholbrook13
    @jerryholbrook13 5 місяців тому +3

    My ex wife is a covert narcissist she hates me no longer Hoovers thank God well it's been awhile we will see

  • @katrinaj7
    @katrinaj7 5 місяців тому +2

    My ex narc just got remarried. It should bother me because I know how evil he is. But it does. It looks like he's treating her well too.

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 5 місяців тому +1

      @katrina
      BE HAPPY, that person just took away all your problems so that you could be FREE to live your life without the negativity, the lies and the stress filled days.
      You will be thanking them later in time once you start to see their marriage fall apart and them hate each other.

    • @shamikae9241
      @shamikae9241 5 місяців тому +1

      Trust me narcs are never happy. It's a facade they are serial pretenders. What looks good ain't good. Live , laugh, love. It's gonna get better trust me

  • @olexkaymartin2364
    @olexkaymartin2364 5 місяців тому +3

    Constantly on your phone

  • @kirstiesmith3216
    @kirstiesmith3216 3 місяці тому

    Mines never really hoovered did at the start of the break up but they’ve basically told their family and everyone so many lies they can’t go back on what they have said. It’s been nearly 10 months I’m still broken but a lot better than I was.

  • @HealWithJess32
    @HealWithJess32 4 місяці тому

    My narcissist said we will never be and she doesn’t want me and then she popped up now saying it was a mistake and if she wasn’t drunk she wouldn’t have popped up it wouldn’t have been a thought

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 5 місяців тому

    I am being hoovered right now! I have 3 ex narcissistic boyfriends. This is the second one. I blocked him over 8 months ago. He has tried to FaceTime and leaving voice mails. Blocked! Blocked! Blocked again!! And keep it moving...

  • @lishrheams
    @lishrheams 5 місяців тому +2

    Spot on 👍🏽

  • @kimberly8839
    @kimberly8839 2 місяці тому

    So true!

  • @ClassicFightScenes2100
    @ClassicFightScenes2100 5 місяців тому +1

    ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ One beautiful soul you are.

  • @mattblaircomedy
    @mattblaircomedy 5 місяців тому +4

    They don’t Hoover nearly as much as you tubers tell you they do… there’s 8 billion people. They replace you like old shoes

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 5 місяців тому

      @Matt oHhhhhhh TRUST ME THEY DO Hoover, Stalk and Spy on their Ex’s from Fake pages and through others.
      It’s not about the POPULATION, They don’t care about other supply once they have you as an obsession. it’s about the LEVEL of supply you were to them and if you caused them a Narcissistic injury.
      They never stop obsessing over you and hold a grudge forever if you were a GRADE A supply and you cut them off from what they need to survive.
      You should stop even looking for a Hoover because MATT, IF you didn’t get hoovered that’s a GOOD thing.
      You should never want a DEMON fixated on you 24/7

  • @seameology
    @seameology Місяць тому

    I'm 1600 miles away. He can't see me. 🤣

  • @Goethe2andFro
    @Goethe2andFro 4 місяці тому

    It's even cringy-er when it comes from a deadbeat narc parent. 🤮

  • @loreleisellers9154
    @loreleisellers9154 5 місяців тому +1

    I got two ex's tryna hoover me for being with a looser lol 😆 it's funny I'm loving the karma haha no refunds lol

  • @sevenseconds8652
    @sevenseconds8652 5 місяців тому

    Just blocked the number at the first attempt. I'm ready to call the cops if the ceature won't give up, but I really doubt this will be the case!

  • @rosemondamponsah8243
    @rosemondamponsah8243 5 місяців тому

    God bless you

  • @AlfonsoBooker-d4t
    @AlfonsoBooker-d4t 5 місяців тому +1

    Yes ma'am

  • @ericajohnson4682
    @ericajohnson4682 5 місяців тому

    1 luv ❤️ the truth

  • @Isabella-d5g
    @Isabella-d5g 5 місяців тому

    With these creatures 😅

  • @HealWithJess32
    @HealWithJess32 4 місяці тому

    I’m just hurt because she came to me disturbing my peace and being the nice person I am she can too drunk and I cared about her safety then said I shouldn’t have let her in and it’s my fault

  • @griffinhines7012
    @griffinhines7012 5 місяців тому

    thank you ❤

  • @Balert-z8w
    @Balert-z8w 5 місяців тому

    Shalom✌️

  • @geraldpleasant7733
    @geraldpleasant7733 5 місяців тому

    No way period...

  • @itchyscratchy7167
    @itchyscratchy7167 5 місяців тому +5

    Does this mean because I haven't heard a peep from.him since I left him 3 months ago that he doesn't want me back. I hope so.

    • @whiteliner2253
      @whiteliner2253 5 місяців тому

      Yep..

    • @itchyscratchy7167
      @itchyscratchy7167 5 місяців тому +1

      @@whiteliner2253 I was out of his league entirely. I would've gotten bored soon enough.

    • @sk8taway
      @sk8taway 5 місяців тому

      @@itchyscratchy7167 my BFF just said to me “you were lonely, hadn’t been w anyone for awhile and also you were at rock bottom when you met him, that’s what you find at rock bottom” 😮 truer words had never been spoken …life changing assessment 😅
      Edit: not to brag because he is/was my type (thus why we hooked up) but yes I am extremely out of his league by all accounts

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 5 місяців тому

      If we want a DEMON to come back and Hoover us or talk to us again, then they are not the problem,
      WE ARE 🤷‍♂️…
      Be thankful to God if they leave you alone, because some of us can’t get rid of them.
      Some of them will stalk you until they can finally destroy you or
      UN-Alive you. That’s how insane and obsessed they can become.

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 5 місяців тому +1

    💯💯💯💯

  • @1111spiritualone
    @1111spiritualone 5 місяців тому

    no hoover yet (2 years NC)

    • @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm
      @INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm 5 місяців тому +2

      Don’t look for it… TrusT and believe you don’t want a Hoover
      It’s stalking and disrupts your life having a Demon obsessed with you

  • @DaughterofJudah1874
    @DaughterofJudah1874 5 місяців тому

    I might die next time frfr

  • @ConfusedPots-ir8ql
    @ConfusedPots-ir8ql 5 місяців тому

    Hello world terima kasih ya Allah
    Sudah cukup sudah Lima tahun saya lalui pengalaman
    Saya Di buang seperti sampah Di setiap hari Mereka, gossip rosakkan nama baik saya TIDAK pada kali ini mereka TIDAK akan dapat kan saya kerna saya tidak bersedirian 🫵🫵🚷⛔ saya Di ibaratkan seperti tanah rizab 🚷🚷🚷🚷⛔
    Mereka, lakukan apa pun mereka tidak akan dapat saya,
    Saya, bukan milik mereka lagi
    Saya, bukan suplai mereka, lagi Dan saya tidak berada, Di bawah kawalan mereka lagi
    SELAMAT TINGGAL KARMIC
    saya berkata Di atas, kebenaran

  • @montellhorton748
    @montellhorton748 5 місяців тому

    ❤.... 🍎

  • @Ifyouonlyknew22673
    @Ifyouonlyknew22673 5 місяців тому

    I thinking, going to disappear and make him go to the police on me I know he qamra nothing to do with his son only if I am around and I want to be around because my son is on the spectrum I don't trust him I know he uses our son to get to me

  • @tanzychatman6272
    @tanzychatman6272 5 місяців тому

    Just dog you out not me

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 5 місяців тому

    Nope get emails he use me as story line

  • @deniskolenovic4670
    @deniskolenovic4670 5 місяців тому