Txhob Cia Soiab Rau Lwm Tus Hlub Koj. 1/5/2023
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No dude siblings can still love and support each other after marriage it’s just that the outsiders is not open minded and loving and the insiders aren’t man enough to put their feet down that’s all.
This is one of the reasons why you need to pay for your own wedding. If you can't afford it, go work and save up for it. Your debt should not be other's debt. Your wife, your life, your debt.
AND ALSO PREPARE AND HAVE MONEY FOR YOUR OWN FUNERAL. YOUR FUNERAL SHOULD NOT BE A BURDEN ON YOUR KIDS.
Mloog es kawm nawb sawv daws. Saib taus tej Tij uas hlub yus nawb. Niam txiv tam lub ntuj tij viv tam niam txiv ov, nco ntsoov nawb teb me yau.
Because of stories as these, I won't be that nice Niamtij! If you're old enough to get married, you're old enough to pay for own wedding & place to live! The End!!!
Wow spend $105k that is so much! I bet all the food must be more in the trash then into all the visitors stomachs..
No good deed go unpunished! Very true, this story!!! If I were the wife, I would have done the same thing to punish the ungreatfull brothers .
Hmong parents giving their oldest this responsibility but you have to understand even your blood siblings will not respect you. This is a burden parents place on the oldest and there needs to be boundary, if not, then just cut it off. It doesn't matter who judges you for your decision because in the end it's your life. You do what is best for your mental and physical health.
Tu Siab kawg kiag li Vim koj 2 tug kwv 2 tug poj niam thiaj li muaj ncuav xwb es rhuav tshem nej kev sib hlub....Thiaj li Npam nkawv
Wow this is a very true situation goes most people
The minute your brothers are married, advise them to move out because two women cannot live under the same roof nowadays. Just because you ask them to move out doesn't mean you don't love them. You love them and trying to avoid all the drama you know will take place in the future. This action will prolong your relationship with your brothers.
Agree. I don’t understand why people get married and expect to live off of others. If you can’t be independent, you are not ready for marriage, period!
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Couldn’t agree more to this. But some people just don’t understand
Tiam no leej twg sib yuav ces nyias nta nyia lub neej xwb. Niam txiv, kwv tij mam pab txhawb thiab phij cuam xwb thiaj tsis mob hlwb.
Neeg phem li ob tus kwv ntawm tes niam qhuav ntxim xwb os.
It’s true what they say, “sometimes blood isn’t thicker than water”. People grow up and grow apart. It’s better to be apart than to be together and hate.
Hmong men got to understand. " If you can't afford the Bride price and money for the wedding don't get married". Simple, we no longer in Laos. USA, have jobs and opportunities to earn money. Step up a be Men's not man child.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes , agreed . 👏🏼 also everyone should live on their own when married especially with kids .
I don’t know why Hmong people still want to live together and no room to sleep or no peace at home due to too many peoples . 🤦🏻♀️
Zoo kawg os tus txiv tsev koj tus poj niam ua yog kawg lawm os. Ib txhuav kwv thiab niam ntxawm Los yeej phem dhau lawm os. Kuv Los kuv yeej yuav ua li koj tus poj niam thiab os.
Tu neeg hais lu phem phem li ko mas hu lub ntuj kom lub ntuj tsa qhov muag saib pab txiav txim xwb tiag...kom nws thiaj li paub kev npam
You are a forgiving brother. If a sibling turns their back on me and is at fault (even if only through their spouse), there is no coming back from that. They will be on their own, no help coming from me. Life is too short to take on other people's problems---especially people who stab you in the back. Your two younger brothers have zero spines---it's one thing to support your wife if she's in the right, but if she's in the wrong, then you need to step up and make things right; you don't just go along with your lying, rotten wife just so you have a warm body to f*ck.
Agree! 👏🏼
Agreed 💯
Koj tseem txim hlub kawg thb sav tseem zoo noj kawg thb
Yog kawg li os
Mloog tsis yog tim koj tus niam ntxawm os tim koj tus kwv xwb xwb os kkj tud kwv siab phem lim hiam rau koj vim koj yog niam tij koj tam niam tam txiv nws yog tus tsa vim rau koj ob tug kwv yeej tsis muaj hnub zoo os
111k for a funeral? That's definitely more than a King's funeral.
Agree. Muab ua loj dhau lawm os. Tsis need Npaum no os.
Seriously! Why the freak do Hmong have such expensive funerals?!!! More than the President!!!
Hmong people won’t do big party when their parents still alive it’s not important but once the parents die they will do the best ever to show off to people why don’t people do that fancy when the parents still alive the parents would appreciate the children more
That's 2 years of salary for a middle income family after tax. You don't need to go with what relatives are pressuring you to do and go broke
@@monicaxyooj905 sometimes some people like to show off hahaha 🤣 maybe the president of USA don’t spend that much for his funeral 😂
This is what happens when one person think she/he is smarter than the others just because they have a degree 📜
Koj poj niam yeej zoo kawg lawm os, kuv twb pab koj poj niam mob siab thiab.
Cov niam tij niam ntsawm xib tseeb tais diav kuv hnov ntau lawm cas yuav tsaj muag ua luaj twb qhuas tias nyob lub teb chaws vam meem no ob peb lub nyuag tais diav ntawv xwb tseem tsiav kev kwv tij tag thiab npab tsaj muag dhau li os
Tu neeg phem phem li ko mas kuv foom kom phem phem nws zaum laub kiag yog tiag kuv yeej dawb hu mas kuv tsis ntshai lub ntuj os
That's why i don't want to live with nobody n i don't want nobody living with me. This sounds mean but always give people a time line to move out when they live with you. I only allow relatives to live with me for 3 months or less no more than 3 months.
This is why I listen to May Vang everyday. Love her story telling. It's a lesson for all of us to learn from. She has such a good way of deep hmong wording that hits the core. So much truth to the ending. Looove it.
Her story is depressed. Every single one
Pab koj tus poj niam mob siab kawg vim Yus hlub luag los luag tsis hlub yus ces yuav tau tso rau lub ntuj dam av txiav txim lawm xwb ad
Zoo nkauj ntxim hlub tiag li nkauj hmoob vaj ntxim hlub
Tus mi brother txoj hauj lwm koj tham no kuv yeej paub zoo mas.
Muab ua zoo xav mas tu siab ho,. Qhov tseeb tiag yog sib to taub koj saib kuv yog tij kuv saib koj yog kwv tiag tiag tej no yeej tsis muaj
Tab sis kuv saib koj yog kwv los koj tsis saib kuv yog koj tij ces thiaj muaj tej no xwb
tiam sis txhob tu tu siab thiab os.
If my spouse can’t get along with my family, then no one is going to b close to their family. We’re gonna move far away from both sides of the family.
In your dreams. She will want to be close to her family but not yours. If you insist, it's to the curb you go.
Please stop with these ridiculously expensive Hmong funerals smh. The dead is dead. Don’t break the ones still living. Cultural or not. So stupid.
Hmoob os hmoob aw, sau nyiaj du lug los pam txiv pam niam muaj plhus ntxiag tag tsis muaj chaw nyob ces yog nej ntag lau.
Ntiajteb no txoj kev ruam ces sau tagnrho rau pojniam Hmoob.
Tham neej neeg ntau ziam hlwb nawj vim ib ntsis kwv tij ib ntsis ho tias peb cov nus muag
Nej tus niam ntxawm kawm tau daim Npav Sawb Lawj thiaj muab nej Sawb Lawj
Cov niag kwv tij hu dab qaij es pheej yuav tuaj quab yuam yus tsev neeg tau kev txom nyem kom poob nyiaj xwb txhob khes kwv tij zoo dua
Let go of the responsibilities of a Hmong man. Saib neeg hlub…it’s manipulation when people tell you to love others but not yourself.
Do not live with each other once married! Whether it is siblings like sisters or brothers because it won’t work! Especially 2 housewife cannot shared a house! Living together will break the bond and destroy the family! Speaking from experience here!!
WTH! What kind of funeral is this? And crying over cups!!! What a story to start off with!
You shouldn't have let them leave their khoom phij cuam at your home. Should have them take to her parents' place. Cov niam ntxawm siab mes2 lis no tsis nrog nyob los ok. Cias nyias nyob nyias zoo duas.
Cov niag khob xwb es niam yuav uas cuag lis, pawv lawm ces kav liam xwb.
Txawm kuv yog koj tu poj niam lo kuv yeej ua li nw thiab yus hlub luag luag tom yus xwb ua tau tub qaug neeg tag npaum li no
Koj tus kheej lub siab tsis tawv txaus thiaj li zoo li no xwb. Thiab tseem tsawg tswv yim me me nawb.
Being the eldest sucks. You know what’s worse than being the eldest in your family? Marrying the eldest in your husband’s family. Lol. Too much responsibility and “keeping the peace” as the eldest but I hope not with us new generation. Everyone should just live their own life no one needs family if it’s this difficult. Whoever loves you, love those. The ones that don’t just forget about them.
The wise man says “always respect your elders and you should receive blessings”. But spent over 200k to bury your parents were over killed. Hmong yeej ua neej roj qab…if you and brothers just spent half of the burial money for both your parents, you guys shouldn’t have any problems pay for their wives…I also agree what your wife did to your brothers and their wives…
It’s tiam 22 , everyone should pay for their own wife and wedding because at the end of the day everyone for themselves. Plus these B can’t love no one anymore but them . Sadly, too many selfish and ungrateful people now and is not worth helping anyone anymore but yourself .
Peb hmoob txog kev sib hlub ces zaj neej neeg twg zoo in Yam siab phem siab dub siab lis hiam yog peb hmoob txog kev poj ua tseg yawm ua cia niam khaws tseg txiv muaj qhiab kuv ces Xav au lub ncaws xwb tíag nej hmoob na .
Poj niam yog txiv neej tus tav. Yog tsis muaj nkawm niam txiv yeej tsis muaj neej nyob qab ntuj khwb. Yog no qhov tseeb tiag ntuj puab thiab tsim neeg kom muaj lub cev, muaj txoj sia, muaj siab muaj ntsws, muaj tes muaj taw, muaj pob ntseg qhov muag thiab muaj lub hlwb tsav yus tus kheej kom xyaum ua neeg zoo kom txawj hlub lwm tus. Qhov tseeb mas xav kom yus yuav tau kawm thiab xyaum hlub lwm tus, xyaum zam txim, xyaum ua siab loj siab ntev. Yog koj coj tus yam ntxwv li kuv hais no xwb ces lwm tus los yeej yuav hlub taus yus mus kom kawg keeb yom puas yog ne? Yog koj paub pib hlub thiab yoog tau koj tus niam tsev ces koj yeej paub hlub taus lwm tus thiab. Txawm muaj thiab txom nyem los yeej sib pab sib yoog taus ces yeej muaj lub neej kaj siab lug xwb xwb. Tiam sis hais txog txoj kev sib yua tag lawm mas tsim nyog nyias mus nyob nyias thiaj muaj kev kaj siab (privates') kom tsis muaj kev sib paub siab los cov nyom tej yam mog. Nyias mus nyob nyias los yeej sib hlub tshaj nyob ua ib tse nawb?
Zoo kawg yus yog ib leej Txiv es yog yus twb hais tsis tau yus ob tug kwv lawm ces yeej zoo kawg lawm nawb. Cov poj Niam zoo li no xwb ces yeej zoo kawg nawb.
Tug tuab neeg phem yeej nrhav txhua txuj hauv kev uaphem le ua sab phem yeej tsi zoo nawb
over 100k for funeral..imo is so stupid..people don't even spend 10k for ur parent to fly first class on vacation when they are alive and now they dead and u willing to spend that kind of money....Hmong people I tell you....Smh
Me kwv tij aw....! Nco ntsoov tias ua neeg nyob ces txiv neej feem coob (99.99%)ces noj leej twg mis ces yuav mloog leej twg lus.
Spent over $100,000 for each of the funerals was ridiculous. Ua rau luag qhuas yus tabsis yus pluag tag for fighting over dishes and cups...hmmm?
Why not spend 111k on your dad when your dad is still alive??? 🙄
It's hmong people's stupid way of thinking. The grandpa's, uncles, etc are always there pressuring the deceased's children to do a grand funeral for face but they don't care if that family has the $ or not to do it. But they themselves don't help out with much $ if any but still wants a big funeral. That pisses me off. Also, I'm shocked why this family even spent over 100k for a funeral. I understand if it was GVP but not anyone else.
Omg! Siv tas 111k n 105k for 3,4 days funeral. Thats over spending. Sib hlub thaum tseem muaj sia thiaj li muaj nqis.
Can’t trust anyone.
Wow! Over $100k for both parents funeral? Dang, that’s a lot and never go beyond what you can not afford. Don’t feel sorry for your brother, let them have their own expenses.
Hmong funeral are over rated!!! We should spend money for our parent while they still living. Just imagine if you spent $100k for your parent. How happy would they be.
I can’t stand super glue sister in law like her. Number advice for everyone is go live on your own. When you get married if you can’t afford to live on your own don’t get married
Wuag, nej nyob mes kas teb nej ua ntees koj thiab Kim tiag tiag lis os. Tsis need ua Npaum Nov os. Nkim nyiaj xwb os.
Txawm kuv yog koj tus pojniam los kuv yeej yuav hlawv xyhab hlawv ntawv foom cov neeg uas kuv pab, kuv cawm, kuv yuav pim rau cov kwv tsoob, es tseem tab meem saib tsis taus kuv, muab kuv xyhav koob xyhav npe tsis zoo rau ub rau no thiab nawb. Kuv yog koj pojniam, kuv muab koj lawb tib yam, vim koj yog tus tiv thaiv cov neeg lim hiam ntawd.
Omg decorations for $25K. That’s too much. You can do a decent funeral for around $50K. You guys spent over $200K on your parents funeral. That’s insane. I just think that funerals these days do not need to be so extravagant.
Imagine how nice of a family vacation the parents could have enjoyed for that amount while they were still alive. Make memories while they are still alive!
Agreed. Ridiculous 🙈
Show off na has
@@ThePrincessWorrior still ridiculous tho. They only went broke that's why the siblings had to sell their houses.
I agree. Funerals these days are too over the top some are better than a wedding. Hmong people live backwards.
Some young Nyab these days, they think they so smart. 😝 karma got them but I think karma should of been harsher lol 😂
Their karma was too easy! They end up cheating on the brother… That’s only karma for the brothers not their wife! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
In life, I have learned to love and help without strings attatched. I do good out of my heart for my inlaws without expecting anything in return. Yus ua zoo ces txawm neeg tsis pom los ntuj yeej pom, yus yeej yuav tau zoo vim ntuj ua tus pov thawj rau yus txoj kev ua zoo.
105k for a funeral. No thanks. Thats rediculous
yog lawm yog kuv ces kuv zeej ua li thiab ........
Yog lawm Niam thiab Txiv thiaj li pub tau zam txim tau xwb kwv tij nkauj muam los zoo nyia mus Nyob nyia xwb los mog cov me nkauj muam ntsib nug nawb tu siab kawg li os mog
Kuv ntseeg thiab pom 100% yeej yog li nej hais. Tsis hais leej twg kiag li . 99% thaum tseem zoo li ib pab minyuam qaib tseem nyob nrog niam thiab txiv ces yeej muaj qhov bond sib hlub tabsis thaum cov minyuam qaib no Nyias Mus nrhiav tau Nyias noj Nyias es tawm ntawm niam thiab txiv Mus muaj Nyias Tus khub lawm ces yeej txawv hlo lawm yeej muaj tseeb os mov.
A household can not hold two queens.
Tus kwvtij koj puas nco qab hmoob lo lus haistias, xav luaj nyuj xu luaj ntuj, xav luaj zeb ces xu luaj lub ntiajteb, raws li mloog nej zaj neej neeg no yeej yog tim koj tus ua tij koj ua tsis taus txiv koj cov kwv thiaj li tsis ntshai koj, thaum lawv tsis ntshai koj lawm ces lawv tsis muaj qhov hwm koj, hmoob ib txwm piv txojlus haistias, tij viv tam niam tam txiv, niam txiv tam lub ntuj lub teb.
koj yog ib tug neeg qaug qib noj taus hias tsis taus, hais tau ua tsis tau cov yau thiaj li tsis hwm saib tsis taus koj lub npe tij, koj twb txiav kwv txiav tij tas lawm cas thaum nkawd poob rau txojkev khaum kev npam koj tseem ho ntsia tsis taus nkawd koj tseem npo nkawd ua tus dabtsi ? koj xav haistias tibneeg txojkev sib foom yuav yooj yim li koj xav es tua qaib tua npua rov khuj thov ces txawm yuav keb tau lub khuj ntawd no poj ? ntshe yog koj ua npau suav nruab hnub lawm xwb. Tshob dej yog koj muab laub nchuav rau hauv av lawm koj puas rov qab yawm tau los lawm ma ? lo lus phem foom neeg koj hais mus lawm ces ib ciaj ob tuag nkaus xwb lub ntuj tsis dig muag tsis lag ntseg thiab tsis zoo li peb tibneeg es yuav hloov lus mus hloov los, hais li cas ces tau li ntawd xwb.
Nyob zoo os niam laus me vaj kuv mloog koj cov dab neeg txhua txoj thaum 2017 18 lo lawm es koj kuv thiab os mog
Wow, all this happened over 10 pho bowls and 30 plates going missing??? LOL! Seriously..... don't go live with ppl and bring all your shit to someone's house thinking none of your shit will go missing 😂
The dead is gone. The livings are going to live and eat! The $100,000 plus was mostly for food as if there is no tomorrow. Hmong people need to review their funeral spendings.
Sib xws
Niam hlob + Niam ntxawn - meow meow meow 🐱🐱🐔🐔hmoob lifestyle traditional !!
Ho my god cov nyiag khob hau dej xwb es tseem UA cuag Lis ntawv. Nyiag niam ntxawm mas tsab ntse dhau lawm kab ! Siab phem xwb os. Muab veg tsuag tsuag xwb os. Cov nyiag lauj kaub tais diav xwb ua cas UA cuag lis. Leej twg Kom nws tsis thiaj nws mus txawm nyob tsev tis Npaum cas los kav liam nws xwb yog nws teeb meem xwb. Tsam no tuaj Liam ub liam no mas ntxim ntxub tshaj lis os.
Tus niam ntxawm no she is stupid lady. Luag yog tij yus tsi txhob khwv siab phem tsam yuav khaws tau kev khaum nawb kuv yog niam ntxawm tib yam os. Tsi ntab ntxiv lawm mog yuav tuag los nws tuag nws xwb who care don't care anymore lawm.
Two women can never live in one household ever, even sisters. You have a big heart for taking back your brother. Most people wouldn’t have. I respect that you supported your brother’s decision to go back to his wife because it’s his life and no one else should ever make that decision for him. I absolutely hate it when men, especially Hmong men, tell a husband to not go back to his “cheating wife”. If he wants to let him and if he doesn’t then so be it.
Yog kuv cov me nyuam kuv yuav tsis kom koj hlub! Koj cov me nyuam los kuv tsis hlub thiab! Nyias hlub nyias cov!
This is why it's important to pick a good spouse. If you pick a dumb partner then you choose the your own karma lol.
Yup. Sadly!
Yog tshaj tsis hais kwv tij los yog tub nyab os lub siab lim hiam ces tsis hwm niam txiv los yog tij ces pab tsis tau xwb mas
Kwvtij aws, ua siab loj thiab mas, twb tsis yog leeg twg es nim twb yog yus tsev neeg xwb es yuav tsum muaj txoj kev sib zam txim sawdaws thiaj yuav nyob tau uake
This story is like mine that I met with my own life. I was very sad about my children that I and my husband loved you very much, but he did it to the two of us very bad.
Unhealthy lack of boundaries. All these situations could’ve been avoided if clear boundaries were made from the beginning.
Ungrateful siblings and SNL karma got them good!!
Wow. This lady must’ve gotten bachelor’s in cheapness. Sad…
2 brothers wear the skirt, their wives wearing pants that's why everything turns upside down hahaha
Why celebrate death at 200k when yall could of done it with the living at 200k so they can enjoy it as well. Hmoob mind runs backward wen it comes to celebrating for their parents! 👎🏻👎🏻
Cov qhov PIM!!!!….Pweeeeeeeee
Cov niag neeg uas yus pab tag es nws vwj yus txheej ces cia ntuj mam qhia xwb thiaj li tsis txhaum os.hos tab txawm yus pab npaum ntawv los yus yeej tsis pluag li os .
No siblings can ever live under one roof once married, even Niam pog txiv yawg. Everyone has there own differences & life style.
I hate men who wears the dress in the relationship and women who makes a big deal about dishes dishes haha common dishes , who's family is this haha
Koj tus kwv uas nws pojniam khiav mus raws hluas nraug ib ntus ntawd, nws xam maj tua tau koj nawb yog hais tias nws pojniam ntswj nws pob ntseg kom nws tua koj. Koj tus kwv tsis care koj, tsis care leej twg tsuas nws tau pim tsoob xwb. Nws ua txhua yam nws tus pojniam kom nws ua. Cov txiv neej zoo li koj tus kwv no danger heev li nawb.
Side note : Prince William and Prince Henry. Get Prince Harry book The Spare!
Hmong funerals doesn’t sense to me. The costs caused the living a bankrupt.
may pua yog koj xiam hlwb lawm naj ua ca koj pheej hai tia peb cov nu muag no naj yog muam thiab nu ma thiaj yog nu muag puab yog kwv tij xwb es koj pheej hai tia peb cov nu muag no nw tsi yog lawm os, tu kwv aw txawm yog kuv lo kuv yeej yuav ua ib yam li koj tu poj niam ua ko thiab nawb, koj ob niag kwv ko siab phem tshaj plaw li siab phem li ntawd txawm yog leej twg lo yeej zam txim tsi tau li os koj tu poj niam ce twb yog nw zoo kawg lawm nawb
Nej cov Hmoob no cas yuav xav nrov koob yuav ntsej muag ua luaj li os. Ntaus nthab ntau tsev ua nej niam nej txiv lub ntees pluag tag, los yog nej hlwb tsawg es cov kwv tij txhob txwm muab nej ntaim noj ntaim hau lub caij nej tau kev ti ne.
You lucky your wife still takes you. Treat her well
Zoo li neb tsis yog neeg zoo thiab os peb xav hnov koj ob tug kwv sab thiab thaub
Kuv tsis to taub tias koj cov niag kwv tij yog neeg dab tsi na, cas yuav kom nej cov me nyuam siv nyiaj ntau ua luaj los ua nej txiv lub ntees?
Cov niag kwv tij es hais kom muab nyiaj npaum ub npaum no los tha yus niam yus txiv, tsis yog tias lawv hlub nej os, lawv tsis hlub nej luaj ib rau tes li nawb. Lawv ua kom nej pluag txom nyem xwb na. Siv txog puas txhiab nyiaj es ua tag niam txiv sawv los ces ua tiag.