Gipsy the sassy strong lady you needed to become confident, Gallop the calm anker you needed in a whirlwind of change and Bennix the pure light you needed in the dark. Thank you for sharing this very tough and rough part of the journey with us❤
I remember you struggling so much with retiring gallop, I feel like Bennix came out of the shadows and taught you that you can open your heart to love again as you did with him. You're not replacing, you're only expanding your heart to love more, something Ben taught you so well ♥
So very true. I have had sex guide dogs, and each one is never a replacement of the others. They are successors. I keep telling each of them that they aren't allowed to get old and begging them never to retire, but darn it, they just don't listen!
He is so beautiful. Did he go to a foster? So young. I trained a black lab for GDB but he didn't pass the physical. They said he tested positive for hip dysplasia at 18 months. They gave us the option to have him back as our pet. The other option was them putting him down. Unger gave us 12 more years of walks runs, play, jumping in the air for peaches from the tree ! He didn't slow down until year 10 or11.
Molly: Will he even recognise me? Bennix: Hold my waterbowl What a special connection with a very special dog. Nobody will ever be able to take this experience away from you. The Ben chapter may have been short, but it was beautiful, and it was what you both needed. Ben will be missed, but knowing he gets to live the rest of his life with his puppy raisers warms my heart. What an amazing guide school Mira is! Thank you so much for showing us a world most of us would never have known about otherwise.
Ben definitely told all the other dogs about you and told them to take care of you whoever got placed with you and I think that you guys are going to be closer than you think
I knew I was gonna cry. I didn’t expect to cry so much. I think Bennix definitely knew. Goodbye Bennix! I can’t wait to learn about and meet your new guide dog.
@@lucygooseyhikes Because his human is crying and he can feel all the different emotions but has no clue why. That's why I always say no matter what you need to be strong for your animal Because when they see and feel all of those emotions they have no clue why and it freaks them out which is probably why he jumped the fence and ran back to her. He freaked out that she was so upset. Not a good way to end things.
Bennix seemed more like a guiding angel than a guide dog. He helped you in so many unexpected ways and brought you through this chapter of your life. He was such a good boy and will be deeply missed. But I’m content knowing that you both were able to have such a life changing relationship and that he’s ultimately going to a good family that love him so so much. I hope he gets to spend the rest of his life playing, eating grass and being silly. Thank you for showing us that sometimes the biggest deepest relationships can also be the shortest. Onto your next chapter Bennix ❤️
God I just broke down in tears the moment he was so excited to see her It's not only that she does not get to keep him, he does not get to keep her either and it's so unfair... But it's good that he at least gets to live with good people he knows and who love him
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 he had a medical issue and was unable to continue being a guide dog so she had to give him back. His old foster family ended up taking him.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 she made a video explaining everything but essentially he had a behavioral/ medical problem that prevents him from guiding so he had to be retired early. He is going to live with the foster family that helped raise him and they told Molly she can visit as much as she needs to. Highly recommend watching her video about it though, she goes into far more details.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 she never said the specifics but something happened where he’s unable to work anymore. He’s going to go live with the foster family that originally had him so he’ll be somewhere familiar. She kind of goes more in depth in her video she put out about a week or so ago. It’s the one of her sitting in her apartment as the thumbnail if I remember right
I lost it when you said, "If you're going through this I just want to remind you that you're going to get through this." I recently lost my Service Dog of 5 years due to her having to retire early after suddenly bring diagnosed with cancer. My heart aches for you and what you've been going through with Ben. Seeing you process this all has helped me in my journey. It's shown me that the emotions and feelings I'm experiencing are very normal within the community. I constantly feel that no one around me really understands what I'm going through as they just don't understand the Service Dog/Handler bond. So thank you for sharing so openly and honestly. I appreciate it more than you could know.
I would personally think losing your service dog would be harder than losing a pet. Not only do you gain the bond that comes from having a dog but that bond is stronger since your dog has a job to give you independence and can even save your life. I can't even imagine that kind of bond. I have 2 cats who are esas and who I love while heartily but I'm sure even that doesn't compare to the relationship between handler and service dog. I hope you can be laid with another dog who's not only able to give you the independence you deserve but who can also help fill the hole left by your previous dog
Mira did an incredible job when they paired you with Ben. There was this instant strong connection between you two. Sad to say goodbye to Ben. He is truly an amazing and talented dog all around.
Bless Mira for taking Ben in and doing all the tests he needed and ultimately Ben the best possible home. And even more so for caring about Molly so much and being so understanding and letting her have that last day with him. It's obvious that they truly care about the dogs and people who come through their school like they're family. Thank you for all you do Mira, you are amazing
@@msprincesss115 just like gallop couldn't live with her because it would be hard for him to see another dog working and wanting to work. Plus it's a lot of work training a dog and Molly has said she can't manage two dogs like that
@@tarynriver because maybe she can't take on another dog, especially a younger one. Gallop is an older man who won't need as much working as a younger dog
The love between a person and their animal is so pure. The way that Ben lit up as soon as he saw you was precious. They were holding him back but he was ready to tackle you to the floor lol. A dog like that doesn’t just get replaced. We don’t have a limited amount of love to give out sparingly. Ben will always be with you!
@@ZairaBandy It's not really for us to speculate. There are dozens of things that can cause a service dog to have to retire that would not have any effect on a normal dog's life.
@@codyjeanvictoria1680 he always surprised me with how high strung he was for a guide dog. however i wish i knew what happened to him and his health just to be aware of it for my own dogs health but it may be hard to talk about for her
bennix coming in should be show to people who moan about how dogs shouldn't be assistants dogs because he so clearly loves doing it, loves you, and loves that he can do it for you.
So true! Dogs were designed to work alongside humans, and that’s a beautiful thing that should be celebrated and cherished. Just the fact that oftentimes, common behavioral problems in dogs can be helped or resolved by making the dog feel like they have a job to do, should be more than enough to convince ignorant people that working in some capacity is in a dog’s innate instinct. This video is most definitely a perfect example of just how much a dog values their job and how much working for their human means to them; just as much, if not more, than their human loves working alongside them.
@@christyturpyn5769 no he had lost condition due to a reason that we don't know so it wasn't right to keep him in service even though he loved guiding.
I love Bennix’s reaction! We’re going to miss him so much, but He’ll be remembered for what a great guide dog He was for You, Molly! I can’t wait to meet your new dog friend! I love all your dogs!
I certainly want to respect yours and Bens privacy and let you grieve but as a veterinary professional who has been following you for years and is always in awe at all the amazing things canines can do in our lives, I’d like to learn from your experience about what behavior caused his early retirement. I hope with time and healing you’ll be willing to share 🖤
Despite your warning I didn't think I would cry, let alone bawl my eyes out. That was extremely touching and cathartic. Continue to heal, Molly. You've got this.
You know, a dog or cat is always more than just a pet and more of a family member but I cannot imagine how much more difficult it is to have to say goodbye to a service animal that is such a serious, close, important family member like that. I truly feel for you and am sorry this happened like this.
I was just thinking this myself. I lost my cat on Christmas Eve last year (found out 3 days later cuz of the holiday) and even though it’s been almost 8 months it still devastates me because she was so young. She was the most empathetic, loving little baby, but she had many digestive health problems that eventually caught up to her. I know how I feel about losing her, but I genuinely don’t think I could even come close to knowing how deep the hurt is for Molly being Ben was so much more than a pet or family, he was her eyes, mobility, and freedom in the outside world. They loved each other so much more deeply than most of us and the loss cuts deeper. I highly commend Molly for being able to post these vulnerable videos and keep pushing forward despite how she feels. I’m glad she has the community to support her as well ❤️❤️
I don't even watch your channel so I know nothing about your history with Ben, but I burst into tears when he saw you and came running to you and were reunited. What a sweet bond you had with him. I am so sorry for your loss but I am happy that you were able to have him for as long as you were and I wish you well with your new dog :)
This video was heartbreaking to watch. As a viewer you can clearly see the love and connection between Molly and Bennix. I can’t imagine hard it is for guide dog users to have to retire there furry friend and find a new guide. Thank you Molly for sharing Ben with all of us. Good luck on your healing journey, you got this girl👍
I remember how impatient I was watching Ben's series last year, I just wanted to meet him, so much that I joined your patreon for a few months. And near the end of the video when you look down and your dog behind the camera said "that's my new dog, I know you're not ready" the tears I had been holding back until then just hit me. Because even though I don't know you and Ben personally, I feel like I do in some ways and I'm not ready to say bye to Ben and meet a new dog so soon either.
The healing has already started… 😌 When you laugh at your new dog's loud sigh at 15:40 - the way forward has begun. Life can be so brutal as is just goes on and on, when sometimes you just want it to go a bit slower so you have time to breathe… So sorry for your loss! It will get easier day by day, week by week, and the new furry friend will find a place in your heart - just around a big Ben-shaped hole… 😘
Bennix came into your life and you gave him a great job and home! I can’t imagine the pain you are going through Molly! Stay strong. I can see your dogs are not only your eyes but your family
Remember, souls come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Ben and his connection with you was what you needed at the time, he was the dog that God chose for you personally to get you through the last year of your life. One of the toughest you have ever faced but, you got through it because of Ben. He accomplished his mission, he is such a strong amazing pupper that he was able to accomplish his mission in such a short amount of time. Now, he’s off to his next mission, enjoying whatever retirement or job he has, he’s definitely earned it.
Oh my gosh, this was almost brutal to watch how happy he was to see you and the love between you guys. I am so sorry that your story cannot continue together. All the best to Bennix!
The moment I saw Ben for the first time, when Molly was trying new dogs at Mira, I said (well... more like yelled to the screen)"this is the dog, choose him he is perfect". And he was. Goodbye Benny, I know you will have a wonderful life. You are a good boy.
Having recently had to give up my emotional support dog due to behavioural changes this spoke to me in so many ways, I cried not only for the loss I suffered but for the connection I felt with you knowing I’m not alone in what I went through and that it does happen. Grieving a dog that is still alive is heart wrenching - so thank you for helping me see it’s ok to have the grieving mindset. Bennix and Maddie (my dog) were only meant to heal us briefly during our hardest times and now they lead different lives and go on to heal others. Molly thank you for sharing your journey ❤️
@@FukaiKokoro it sounded potentially medical in the previous video (the newest time wise) as she said he would live a full life but didn't disclose what had happened or what was wrong with him
When you asked Ben if he wanted a treat, my cat Cooper, who was sleeping on the couch next to me woke up and looked at the TV. I'm so sorry you and Ben are going through this. Sending love ❤️
Thought I'd be able to get through this video without tissues, boy was I wrong, we'll all miss Ben a lot. He was definitely meant to be with you even just for this short amount of time, he'll always be here ❤️❤️
This is gut wrenching. When I get very emotional my throat will hurt and during this video my throat hurts a lot. I'm glad you and Ben knew each other. You will always have a soul connection. XO
Oh Bennix didn't forget you. He was so happy to see you. I know he was your favorite, and I feel your new dog will be loved by you and work out. It's so hard to be attached to a guide dog that doesn't work out as a guide dog who you lose so quickly. Bless you.
Believe me, I get how when it rains in life, it pours. I’m really sorry you had to give up Bennix so soon after getting him, but I’m so proud of you, and I’m so happy that you’re sharing this journey. I hope you nothing but peace 💜
I honestly feel like Ben wasn’t just your guide dog and soulmate, but also your therapy dog. It’s strange how even my dog at home doesn’t leave my side when I’m not feeling well. But seeing Ben being silly at that last moment on the grass and trying to make you laugh, it’s so bittersweet. At the same time it’s heartwarming to see how great of an impact he had on your mood. You could tell you were at peace whenever you were with him
you got to see him again, and he was clearly so happy to see you. He's a good boy and he has served with distinction. A friend once told me, "do not grieve that it is over. Rejoice that it happened"
Oh Molly 😭😭 The way he was so happy to see you just broke my heart. Thank you for letting us say goodbye too. I've never cried so much. We love you Ben. Wishing you so much happiness on this new chapter. ❤
Hi Molly, I'm blind and a guide dog handler myself. Watching your videos makes me really emotional, but also makes me realize that something can obviously happen to your guide dog, no matter how old they are. I've had mine for almost two years now, and even though he does really well and we're a great team, I know that at some point we'll have to go our separate ways. I feel reallt sad for you, but am greateful that you're able to share this with us, your followers. I wish you all the best with your new guide dog and am looking forward to the rest of the series.
I’m so heart broken for you both. You it’s hard to be devastated that it’s over, but try to feel your feelings and eventually when you’re ready to be grateful that your beautiful relationship with Ben happened.
Precious Molly, thank you for having such a generous heart and sharing these last moments with us. I can only imagine the pain you’re feeling. I’m so glad that your mom is with you. I’m sure she’s grieving too. Give yourself a lot of room to feel. As part of the grieving process, you may even feel some resentment towards your new guide, or a resistance towards getting close emotionally. It’s ok. It’s normal. You will overcome! As I’ve listened to and prayed for you and Ben, the word “bridge” always comes to mind. Unlike the treacherous bridge you crossed a while ago, I feel that God wanted you to have exactly the dog you needed to safely walk through this traumatic season.
My heart aches for you Molly, I’ve followed you since your early days with gallop and Ben was special, you could tell the bond you have was unlike any other. We love Ben and we will love this new baby that you have with you now. Thank you Ben for being the goodest boy and taking care of Molly.
The moment Ben entered your room I just started crying. We grieve in different ways whether it is for loved ones or our pets. "Molly, you will always have the memories of Ben with you." Take care of yourself.
Molly I cannot even imagine all the emotions you’re going through. As a service dog handler myself, this is always my biggest fear. My heart aches for you and everything you’re going through. It’s never a goodbye because you will always have a piece of him with you. He knows how much you love him. No one can take that away from you. Take your time to work through everything. You are loved by so many and Ben is loved by so many. Try to keep your head held high. I know it’s easy to say and harder to do.
I just cried so hard when I saw how happy he was to see you. My service pup is here panicking trying to figure out why I'm bawling. He truly loves you. I know my pup would be the same exact way. I'm so glad you had that Night together. But god,, it was so hard to not see myself and my pup in your places.
I was sobbing way more than expected. Much love to you, Ben, and your new puppy. I hope someday you feel ok to share why he retired so we know he’ll still live a long happy life
You warned us but holy cow I’m sobbing. Thank you for allowing us to see him one more time. I hate you have to go through this. We love you Molly! Sending all the hugs
This video makes me so sad. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you continued healing during this time and I wish you luck on your journey to find your next guide dog. Ben seemed like such a sweet boy. I’ll be tuned in to watch
I knew I’d be sad but I didn’t expect to start bawling the second Ben saw you; how special and needed your time together was, I’m so glad you got to have a final night with him 😭💛
@@ZairaBandy Why are you asking this question several times as comments to different people? She told us what information she felt comfortable sharing.
@@ZairaBandy most likely he has some sort of genetic disorder that is affecting his life. Molly doesn’t feel comfortable sharing the details so that is just a guess but let’s respect her boundries
Bennix is Molly's heart dog. The idea of a heart animal is that connection to a pet/service animal that is more than any other, you still love the others too but there is an unexplainable bond on another level with that heart dog.
Oh this is lovely. The sound of his nails on the floor. I’m a sd trainer and had a reunion like this after the first dog I trained owner died. She was placed again. I feel this so deeply. Thank you for sharing it with us.
He was placed in your path to love you during a time you needed him. That little boy will hold your love with him forever the bond was felt thought videos. He probably told all of his kennel friends who you are how amazing of a mama you are. My heart melted for you Molly 😮💨 dogs have a amazing way of beaming their love and you can feel it
I cried as soon as Ben saw you. My own service dog actually woke up to do her crying response. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment in your life. I truly believe God only wants good for all of our lives and hope that your new dog will bring you the good you need moving forward. This is definitely preparing me for my own dog’s retirement in a few years. Which I can’t think about without tearing up so I never want to think about it. 😭
I loved getting to see Bennix' reaction, he really missed you. It's hard to imagine being in that position and saying goodbye to someone who has helped you so much. I knew that Bennix was your dog from the moment you started describing him to us. Hopefully your new dog is just as wonderful as he was. When you said they had a special connection, I started wondering if you got another member of the family since Bennix and Gallop are related. This was a bittersweet video because it's a thank you and goodbye to Ben and hello to the journey with your new dog. I loved seeing your journey with Bennix even though it came to an end much earlier than anyone thought. I look forward to meeting your new dog!!
I've been a dog lover my entire sixteen years on this earth, and I don't think I've ever seen a dog so thrilled to see someone they know. You and Ben were so incredibly blessed to have met each other! I'm so grateful to have seen those interactions, even through a screen.
I have cried non stop through this video, he was/is an amazing dog. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We could all see the incredible bond you both shared together and how amazing he was as a guide dog. Thank you for sharing your journey with him with us. Remember it’s okay to grieve and there is no time limit for grief, take all the time you need and please don’t feel pressured into having to share/post everything, look after you. You come first. Sending love and peace to you 💜
Such generosity and compassion to share this moment with so many of us that will never actually meet Molly Burke. This quotation is almost too "on the nose", but it came to my mind as this video ended. "May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face; the rains fall soft upon your fields...." Love to all.
I was so set on not crying.. what was I thinking. I lost it when Molly was thanking Bennix. It reminded me of the last goodbye when my service dog passed, and from there I was crying like mad.
As someone who recently lost a pet, I can’t imagine the pain that losing not only a pet, but your mobility aid would bring, especially so unexpectedly. This situation is so emotional and as much as I’ll allow myself to be sad, I’m grateful that Ben was able to bring you happiness through such a tough time. Even though all of us love Ben, none of us had the relationship with him that you did, Molly. I hope you can take your time to grieve your loss of working with Ben, and to build a new relationship with your new dog. I can’t wait to be along with you for the ride, and remember, you are so loved by all the dogs you work with and all of us.
oh my god, ben just lit up when he saw you!!! that instant recognition, the excitement.... that dog loves you molly burke! what a blessing!!! how wonderful!!!! it's so so sad to see ben retire, but at least you got a proper goodbye with him -- I'm actually writing this comment after having paused the video to try and compose myself a bit, haha. back to the watery eyes!!!
I lost my childhood cat last February and seeing Ben's reaction to your reunion made tears stream down my face. I'd love to think that if I see my cat again in some afterlife, this would be his reaction. We also shared water (usually not my idea) so I fully broke down when you let him share a final glass with you. I can't put into words how strong you are for documenting this, Molly. Sending all my love and care ❤
Our four-legged friends aren't always with us to the end. And sometimes it's the ones that are with us for the shortest periods of time that make the biggest positive impacts. Ben always had this bright, goofy, bouncy light in videos that I know must have been present off the screen too. Although we may not see him again, I'm glad he was able to share his joy and energy with us and with you. I know he made me smile and I'm certain he'll bring smiles wherever he goes next. I wish him the best in his next chapter and I wish you the best in yours.
my childhood dog got pts in april after he turned 18 and we'd had him over 17 years. my mum couldnt bare it so i was the only one in the room. that goodbye was the hardest goodbye in my life and i didn't get long because he was in pain. i thought i'd never be able to accept another dog and here i am in bed with my puppy and i'm so incredibly grateful for him for existing. we don't deserve dogs, they really help in ways they'll never understand
Wow! I just discovered your channel and I heard you mention this dog a few times. I saw you train with your newest dog. So I had to go back and see what happened with Ben. Boy have I felt your emotions and cried through this video! I can’t seem to find out why Ben didn’t work out though. Is it something you can’t share because of the place you got him? 💗 Boy do I feel for you! Glad you’re adjusting to your current dog!
I sobbed through this entire vlog. I’m just so sorry. 💔 I totally understand how you feel when you say Ben was special. I have had over 20 dogs and I currently have a dog that I have a bond with like I’ve never had with another living creature. She feels like an extension of myself. I couldn’t imagine us both being alive and not being together. I wouldn’t feel whole. I hope your new pup can give you some closure and knowing Ben will be loved is comforting. Why does life put us through these terrible times? I will never understand.
Well it has been years and years since I have ugly snot cried but WOW that was kinda emotional Molly. Service dogs are our earth bound angels and I am simply in awe of them. We have a companion dog, Lochie, that comes to visit our patients in the ICU and every time he melts my heart. I can only imagine your pain at having to let him go, my heart has broken for you .. sending love and strength from NZ for your next journey with your new dog. X
@@beth1188 on Patreon? On Reddit they said he had a problem with peeing and she did say that the vet said that he lost a lot of weight. Both could be signs of stress. If he wasn't able to handle being a guide dog that is a reason they would retire him. She needs a dog she can depend on. Her life depends on it. Because she refuses to say why they retired him makes me think it was definitely psychological and not physical. It's heartbreaking
@@AA-mz3ig I wonder why her parents can't take the dog then. Since it seems like he can't be a service dog for anyone. Then she'd be able to see him, with his other one.
@@sarahobeebopo It might be some condition with Mira because she had him less than a year or the parents can't handle Gallup and Ben. Ben is going to his puppy family supposedly. If so, he'll be fine.
The moment you reunited with Ben and he started going wild with excitement, my eyes never welled up with tears so quickly. A happy moment but an emotional one. What a very very special love you two share. ❤And now I write this with my face completely wet with tears... Thanks for letting us say bye to him too.
Molly, it was just a half step! He’ll never forget you, not ever. I lost my 13 year old Golden mix on July 26 and it’s been so very difficult. She saw me through many surgeries and emotional difficulties, caring for me and loving without end. Many days I’d wake on the couch from a migraine fog with her on the floor below me and her favorite stuffed toys placed carefully around my head. Just a month before a stray puppy came to our house during a storm, no chip or tag, no luck finding owners, so even though we’d decided no more dogs we now have a 8 month old Collie/Sheltie mix to train. She is funny, loves our cat, and wants to be with me all the time, just like Miss B. Apparently I needed a new, energetic caregiver. God sends us the right animal at the right time for a reason. You will eventually know, but your heart will always have tenderness for those no longer with you.
This is the saddest video I have ever seen. Bennix clearly loves you unconditionally. My heart goes out to you, Molly, and to Ben. Prayers he has as good of a life with his new family as he would've had with you. Hugs!
Thank you for sharing this, it is an important story and really makes me understand how important service dogs are and what a unique and special connection there is between you and the dog.
Oh honey this is heart breaking! *hugs* Thank you for sharing this moment with us. Also that anecdote of Gallup crashing a birthday party is such a mood!
Awww molly im so sorry you had to retire Ben so soon but i know you made the best choice for him to live his best life… i hope your new dog brings you as much joy as Ben did!
The way Ben reacted when he saw Molly. I burst into tears lol.
Same, fully sobbed! 😭
Me too 😞
I come back here to cry 😭
Gipsy the sassy strong lady you needed to become confident, Gallop the calm anker you needed in a whirlwind of change and Bennix the pure light you needed in the dark. Thank you for sharing this very tough and rough part of the journey with us❤
Couldn't agree more 💖
that was so beautifully put
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Well said! You hit that right on the head!
Amazingly said 👏 ❤
I remember you struggling so much with retiring gallop, I feel like Bennix came out of the shadows and taught you that you can open your heart to love again as you did with him. You're not replacing, you're only expanding your heart to love more, something Ben taught you so well ♥
This is such a beautiful comment, I'm going to cry all over again! Wise words 💙
So very true. I have had sex guide dogs, and each one is never a replacement of the others. They are successors. I keep telling each of them that they aren't allowed to get old and begging them never to retire, but darn it, they just don't listen!
This is so perfectly said!!
Beautiful comment ❤️
He is so beautiful. Did he go to a foster? So young. I trained a black lab for GDB but he didn't pass the physical. They said he tested positive for hip dysplasia at 18 months. They gave us the option to have him back as our pet. The other option was them putting him down. Unger gave us 12 more years of walks runs, play, jumping in the air for peaches from the tree ! He didn't slow down until year 10 or11.
Molly: Will he even recognise me?
Bennix: Hold my waterbowl
What a special connection with a very special dog. Nobody will ever be able to take this experience away from you. The Ben chapter may have been short, but it was beautiful, and it was what you both needed.
Ben will be missed, but knowing he gets to live the rest of his life with his puppy raisers warms my heart. What an amazing guide school Mira is! Thank you so much for showing us a world most of us would never have known about otherwise.
Ben definitely told all the other dogs about you and told them to take care of you whoever got placed with you and I think that you guys are going to be closer than you think
I agree!
Well I was holding it together until this comment. 🥺
I love this so much.that sounds very ben
I also think Ben is sending you the best dog for you molly he knows your having a hard ❤️
I feel like Ben's job was to hold space and take care of you until the right one was ready for you. The universe works in mysterious ways.
The way he was completely hysterical when he saw Molly just proves she will always be his human.
And that he's a Labrador
I knew I was gonna cry. I didn’t expect to cry so much. I think Bennix definitely knew. Goodbye Bennix! I can’t wait to learn about and meet your new guide dog.
I have the same. I though I would cry a little.. but it ware waterfalls :(
That’s exactly how I imagine I’d be with this video too. Should have grabbed those tissues. What a beautiful connection they had.
Me too
Yes, the scene when they are sitting on the grass, Bennix looked so sad :(
@@lucygooseyhikes Because his human is crying and he can feel all the different emotions but has no clue why. That's why I always say no matter what you need to be strong for your animal Because when they see and feel all of those emotions they have no clue why and it freaks them out which is probably why he jumped the fence and ran back to her. He freaked out that she was so upset. Not a good way to end things.
Bennix seemed more like a guiding angel than a guide dog. He helped you in so many unexpected ways and brought you through this chapter of your life. He was such a good boy and will be deeply missed. But I’m content knowing that you both were able to have such a life changing relationship and that he’s ultimately going to a good family that love him so so much. I hope he gets to spend the rest of his life playing, eating grass and being silly. Thank you for showing us that sometimes the biggest deepest relationships can also be the shortest. Onto your next chapter Bennix ❤️
The moment when Ben entered the room.. I started crying. He's such a sweet, sweet boy who will always remember you!
sameeeee😭
Same 🥺
Same 😥
Same
Same. Had to go back and watch it again. Such an emotional scene.
MIRA is truly spectacular. How they and Molly made sure Ben got to where he needed to be and to do the best for both.
God I just broke down in tears the moment he was so excited to see her
It's not only that she does not get to keep him, he does not get to keep her either and it's so unfair...
But it's good that he at least gets to live with good people he knows and who love him
And the family said she can visit anytime 🥰
@@emz33 hi! Can you fill me in on what happened with Bennix?
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 he had a medical issue and was unable to continue being a guide dog so she had to give him back. His old foster family ended up taking him.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 she made a video explaining everything but essentially he had a behavioral/ medical problem that prevents him from guiding so he had to be retired early. He is going to live with the foster family that helped raise him and they told Molly she can visit as much as she needs to. Highly recommend watching her video about it though, she goes into far more details.
@@LoveOnTheInsidex3 she never said the specifics but something happened where he’s unable to work anymore. He’s going to go live with the foster family that originally had him so he’ll be somewhere familiar.
She kind of goes more in depth in her video she put out about a week or so ago. It’s the one of her sitting in her apartment as the thumbnail if I remember right
I lost it when you said, "If you're going through this I just want to remind you that you're going to get through this." I recently lost my Service Dog of 5 years due to her having to retire early after suddenly bring diagnosed with cancer. My heart aches for you and what you've been going through with Ben. Seeing you process this all has helped me in my journey. It's shown me that the emotions and feelings I'm experiencing are very normal within the community. I constantly feel that no one around me really understands what I'm going through as they just don't understand the Service Dog/Handler bond. So thank you for sharing so openly and honestly. I appreciate it more than you could know.
I would personally think losing your service dog would be harder than losing a pet. Not only do you gain the bond that comes from having a dog but that bond is stronger since your dog has a job to give you independence and can even save your life. I can't even imagine that kind of bond. I have 2 cats who are esas and who I love while heartily but I'm sure even that doesn't compare to the relationship between handler and service dog. I hope you can be laid with another dog who's not only able to give you the independence you deserve but who can also help fill the hole left by your previous dog
Went into this video being like "i'm not going to cry", and then the tears started as soon as I saw how happy Ben was to see you
fully sobbing 😭
I feel terrible. most difficult video to watch 😥😭😭
Seriously I SOBBED!!! 😭😭😭
Well, I came here with my box of tissue. Knew I wouls cry and maaaan did I cry
Mira did an incredible job when they paired you with Ben. There was this instant strong connection between you two. Sad to say goodbye to Ben. He is truly an amazing and talented dog all around.
Bless Mira for taking Ben in and doing all the tests he needed and ultimately Ben the best possible home. And even more so for caring about Molly so much and being so understanding and letting her have that last day with him. It's obvious that they truly care about the dogs and people who come through their school like they're family. Thank you for all you do Mira, you are amazing
I’m so in awe with how they’ve been so supportive of her! Such an incredible foundation!
I live really close to them and always go to their events: there is not a single doubt about how much they care for these dogs.
Not only is Molly loosing Ben, Ben is loosing his Molly... I wish there was a way they could stay together///
looks like if ben HAS to retire.. then it shouldn't matter where eh..
@@msprincesss115 just like gallop couldn't live with her because it would be hard for him to see another dog working and wanting to work. Plus it's a lot of work training a dog and Molly has said she can't manage two dogs like that
@@kelsiemcveety999 I wonder why her mom didn’t take him tho he was bonded with gallop so it would’ve been an easy transition plus Molly could see him
@@tarynriver because maybe she can't take on another dog, especially a younger one. Gallop is an older man who won't need as much working as a younger dog
He’s happy with his puppy raisers for sure
Ben was there to light your path & pass the torch on. Truly an unforgettable, amazing dog.
The love between a person and their animal is so pure. The way that Ben lit up as soon as he saw you was precious. They were holding him back but he was ready to tackle you to the floor lol. A dog like that doesn’t just get replaced. We don’t have a limited amount of love to give out sparingly. Ben will always be with you!
Ben is purely the light you needed Molly 💛🫶🏻 & he is going to ALWAYS remember you, that is a sure thing. Continue healing Molly, day by day 🙏🏻
why you think he is going to get retire?? doesn't he looks super healthy???
@@ZairaBandy she said it was medical and some behavioral issues. I’m assuming when it’s behavioral they probably can’t continue to guide.
@@ZairaBandy It's not really for us to speculate. There are dozens of things that can cause a service dog to have to retire that would not have any effect on a normal dog's life.
@@codyjeanvictoria1680 he always surprised me with how high strung he was for a guide dog. however i wish i knew what happened to him and his health just to be aware of it for my own dogs health but it may be hard to talk about for her
bennix coming in should be show to people who moan about how dogs shouldn't be assistants dogs because he so clearly loves doing it, loves you, and loves that he can do it for you.
So true! Dogs were designed to work alongside humans, and that’s a beautiful thing that should be celebrated and cherished. Just the fact that oftentimes, common behavioral problems in dogs can be helped or resolved by making the dog feel like they have a job to do, should be more than enough to convince ignorant people that working in some capacity is in a dog’s innate instinct. This video is most definitely a perfect example of just how much a dog values their job and how much working for their human means to them; just as much, if not more, than their human loves working alongside them.
Wtf?! There are people who think dogs shouldn't be service animals? WHY?! What do they expect disabled people to do then?!
But didn’t he wash out as a service dog because he didn’t want to do it?
@@christyturpyn5769 no he had lost condition due to a reason that we don't know so it wasn't right to keep him in service even though he loved guiding.
Literally dogs were created to serve humans, service dogs are doing what their entire point was to, since the beginning of time
I love Bennix’s reaction! We’re going to miss him so much, but He’ll be remembered for what a great guide dog He was for You, Molly! I can’t wait to meet your new dog friend! I love all your dogs!
The way I went "oh, I can make it without crying..." and then I absolutely SOBBED
Saaaaaame
Same dude
Molly, get a tattoo of him!!! you will have him in your body for forever. Sorry this happened to you. :( we are all here for you.
Zaira Bandy I agree she should get a tattoo in honor of Ben.
I certainly want to respect yours and Bens privacy and let you grieve but as a veterinary professional who has been following you for years and is always in awe at all the amazing things canines can do in our lives, I’d like to learn from your experience about what behavior caused his early retirement. I hope with time and healing you’ll be willing to share 🖤
his happy tippy-taps brought tears to my eyes! My service dog acts the same way after i've had a long hospital stay
The second Ben walked in and went crazy when he saw you brought instant tears to my eyes. ❤️
Despite your warning I didn't think I would cry, let alone bawl my eyes out. That was extremely touching and cathartic. Continue to heal, Molly. You've got this.
I lasted all of about 5 minutes... The second he saw you and exploded with happiness, my heart goes out to you, Molly.
You know, a dog or cat is always more than just a pet and more of a family member but I cannot imagine how much more difficult it is to have to say goodbye to a service animal that is such a serious, close, important family member like that. I truly feel for you and am sorry this happened like this.
I was just thinking this myself. I lost my cat on Christmas Eve last year (found out 3 days later cuz of the holiday) and even though it’s been almost 8 months it still devastates me because she was so young. She was the most empathetic, loving little baby, but she had many digestive health problems that eventually caught up to her. I know how I feel about losing her, but I genuinely don’t think I could even come close to knowing how deep the hurt is for Molly being Ben was so much more than a pet or family, he was her eyes, mobility, and freedom in the outside world. They loved each other so much more deeply than most of us and the loss cuts deeper. I highly commend Molly for being able to post these vulnerable videos and keep pushing forward despite how she feels. I’m glad she has the community to support her as well ❤️❤️
A pet is family. I lost my cat of 21 and a half years on August 13th, 2022
@@monika4148 I'm very sorry for your loss. It is so hard.
I don't even watch your channel so I know nothing about your history with Ben, but I burst into tears when he saw you and came running to you and were reunited. What a sweet bond you had with him. I am so sorry for your loss but I am happy that you were able to have him for as long as you were and I wish you well with your new dog :)
Oh my god, Ben's reaction on seeing Molly broke me. He was SO excited to see her and pulling so hard to get to her. Many tears over that moment.
This video was heartbreaking to watch. As a viewer you can clearly see the love and connection between Molly and Bennix. I can’t imagine hard it is for guide dog users to have to retire there furry friend and find a new guide. Thank you Molly for sharing Ben with all of us. Good luck on your healing journey, you got this girl👍
I remember how impatient I was watching Ben's series last year, I just wanted to meet him, so much that I joined your patreon for a few months. And near the end of the video when you look down and your dog behind the camera said "that's my new dog, I know you're not ready" the tears I had been holding back until then just hit me. Because even though I don't know you and Ben personally, I feel like I do in some ways and I'm not ready to say bye to Ben and meet a new dog so soon either.
Reading this reopened the floor gates 😭❤️
I feel the same. I wish the best to Molly and her new dog. I'm just... not ready to say goodbye
The healing has already started… 😌
When you laugh at your new dog's loud sigh at 15:40 - the way forward has begun. Life can be so brutal as is just goes on and on, when sometimes you just want it to go a bit slower so you have time to breathe… So sorry for your loss! It will get easier day by day, week by week, and the new furry friend will find a place in your heart - just around a big Ben-shaped hole… 😘
Bennix came into your life and you gave him a great job and home! I can’t imagine the pain you are going through Molly! Stay strong. I can see your dogs are not only your eyes but your family
Remember, souls come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Ben and his connection with you was what you needed at the time, he was the dog that God chose for you personally to get you through the last year of your life. One of the toughest you have ever faced but, you got through it because of Ben. He accomplished his mission, he is such a strong amazing pupper that he was able to accomplish his mission in such a short amount of time. Now, he’s off to his next mission, enjoying whatever retirement or job he has, he’s definitely earned it.
I had this same thought: a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Well I sobbed my heart out. I’m so sorry, Molly. It’s such a loss. Thank you for sharing him with us.
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It's awful that Ben can no longer guide but it special to see you smile at your new dog - you have much love to give and it's inspiring
Oh my gosh, this was almost brutal to watch how happy he was to see you and the love between you guys. I am so sorry that your story cannot continue together. All the best to Bennix!
The moment I saw Ben for the first time, when Molly was trying new dogs at Mira, I said (well... more like yelled to the screen)"this is the dog, choose him he is perfect". And he was. Goodbye Benny, I know you will have a wonderful life. You are a good boy.
Having recently had to give up my emotional support dog due to behavioural changes this spoke to me in so many ways, I cried not only for the loss I suffered but for the connection I felt with you knowing I’m not alone in what I went through and that it does happen. Grieving a dog that is still alive is heart wrenching - so thank you for helping me see it’s ok to have the grieving mindset.
Bennix and Maddie (my dog) were only meant to heal us briefly during our hardest times and now they lead different lives and go on to heal others.
Molly thank you for sharing your journey ❤️
So did she say it was behavioral changes? I haven't been keeping up. I'm so sorry for your loss as well.
If you watch the video at 1:29 She said maybe. They don’t know for sure.
@@FukaiKokoro it sounded potentially medical in the previous video (the newest time wise) as she said he would live a full life but didn't disclose what had happened or what was wrong with him
When you asked Ben if he wanted a treat, my cat Cooper, who was sleeping on the couch next to me woke up and looked at the TV. I'm so sorry you and Ben are going through this. Sending love ❤️
Thought I'd be able to get through this video without tissues, boy was I wrong, we'll all miss Ben a lot. He was definitely meant to be with you even just for this short amount of time, he'll always be here ❤️❤️
When Ben walked in, I burst into tears. What a beautiful soul he is. ✨
Same. It’s so sad that he can’t stay with Molly. 😭😭
Ah darn, I started crying when he saw her for the first time. I thought i would last longer than 5 minutes. hes SUCH a special boy.
This is gut wrenching. When I get very emotional my throat will hurt and during this video my throat hurts a lot. I'm glad you and Ben knew each other. You will always have a soul connection. XO
Oh Bennix didn't forget you. He was so happy to see you. I know he was your favorite, and I feel your new dog will be loved by you and work out. It's so hard to be attached to a guide dog that doesn't work out as a guide dog who you lose so quickly. Bless you.
Believe me, I get how when it rains in life, it pours. I’m really sorry you had to give up Bennix so soon after getting him, but I’m so proud of you, and I’m so happy that you’re sharing this journey. I hope you nothing but peace 💜
I honestly feel like Ben wasn’t just your guide dog and soulmate, but also your therapy dog. It’s strange how even my dog at home doesn’t leave my side when I’m not feeling well.
But seeing Ben being silly at that last moment on the grass and trying to make you laugh, it’s so bittersweet. At the same time it’s heartwarming to see how great of an impact he had on your mood. You could tell you were at peace whenever you were with him
you got to see him again, and he was clearly so happy to see you. He's a good boy and he has served with distinction. A friend once told me, "do not grieve that it is over. Rejoice that it happened"
Oh Molly 😭😭 The way he was so happy to see you just broke my heart. Thank you for letting us say goodbye too. I've never cried so much. We love you Ben. Wishing you so much happiness on this new chapter. ❤
I’m watching this in bed and ugly sobbing. Ben is such an amazing dog and he’s the pinnacle of showing a dogs loyalty. He loves you so much
Hi Molly, I'm blind and a guide dog handler myself. Watching your videos makes me really emotional, but also makes me realize that something can obviously happen to your guide dog, no matter how old they are. I've had mine for almost two years now, and even though he does really well and we're a great team, I know that at some point we'll have to go our separate ways. I feel reallt sad for you, but am greateful that you're able to share this with us, your followers. I wish you all the best with your new guide dog and am looking forward to the rest of the series.
I’m so heart broken for you both. You it’s hard to be devastated that it’s over, but try to feel your feelings and eventually when you’re ready to be grateful that your beautiful relationship with Ben happened.
Precious Molly, thank you for having such a generous heart and sharing these last moments with us. I can only imagine the pain you’re feeling. I’m so glad that your mom is with you. I’m sure she’s grieving too. Give yourself a lot of room to feel. As part of the grieving process, you may even feel some resentment towards your new guide, or a resistance towards getting close emotionally. It’s ok. It’s normal. You will overcome!
As I’ve listened to and prayed for you and Ben, the word “bridge” always comes to mind. Unlike the treacherous bridge you crossed a while ago, I feel that God wanted you to have exactly the dog you needed to safely walk through this traumatic season.
Oh my heart the minute I saw this pop up! Grabbing the tissues and sending you so much love!
My heart aches for you Molly, I’ve followed you since your early days with gallop and Ben was special, you could tell the bond you have was unlike any other. We love Ben and we will love this new baby that you have with you now.
Thank you Ben for being the goodest boy and taking care of Molly.
The moment Ben entered your room I just started crying. We grieve in different ways whether it is for loved ones or our pets. "Molly, you will always have the memories of Ben with you." Take care of yourself.
Molly I cannot even imagine all the emotions you’re going through. As a service dog handler myself, this is always my biggest fear. My heart aches for you and everything you’re going through. It’s never a goodbye because you will always have a piece of him with you. He knows how much you love him. No one can take that away from you. Take your time to work through everything. You are loved by so many and Ben is loved by so many. Try to keep your head held high. I know it’s easy to say and harder to do.
I just cried so hard when I saw how happy he was to see you. My service pup is here panicking trying to figure out why I'm bawling. He truly loves you. I know my pup would be the same exact way. I'm so glad you had that Night together. But god,, it was so hard to not see myself and my pup in your places.
I was sobbing way more than expected. Much love to you, Ben, and your new puppy. I hope someday you feel ok to share why he retired so we know he’ll still live a long happy life
You warned us but holy cow I’m sobbing. Thank you for allowing us to see him one more time. I hate you have to go through this. We love you Molly! Sending all the hugs
This video makes me so sad. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you continued healing during this time and I wish you luck on your journey to find your next guide dog. Ben seemed like such a sweet boy. I’ll be tuned in to watch
I knew I’d be sad but I didn’t expect to start bawling the second Ben saw you; how special and needed your time together was, I’m so glad you got to have a final night with him 😭💛
I’m so sorry Molly , he will definitely be missed . Hugs and love being sent to you, thank you for sharing him with us and this video
🖤 A loss after an unexpectedly short time is so painful. I'm grateful every day for my dog.
I bet your next dog heard all about you from Ben. 🖤
why you think Ben is getting retire?? what would be your guess? he seriously looks very healthy and happy dog.
@@ZairaBandy Why are you asking this question several times as comments to different people? She told us what information she felt comfortable sharing.
@@ZairaBandy most likely he has some sort of genetic disorder that is affecting his life. Molly doesn’t feel comfortable sharing the details so that is just a guess but let’s respect her boundries
Bennix is Molly's heart dog. The idea of a heart animal is that connection to a pet/service animal that is more than any other, you still love the others too but there is an unexplainable bond on another level with that heart dog.
I’m not ready!! The way you make us feel like we know your dogs 😭
I can't imagine how difficult that was for you. Thank you for sharing it with us and letting us in. Big hugs.
Oh this is lovely. The sound of his nails on the floor. I’m a sd trainer and had a reunion like this after the first dog I trained owner died. She was placed again. I feel this so deeply. Thank you for sharing it with us.
He was placed in your path to love you during a time you needed him. That little boy will hold your love with him forever the bond was felt thought videos. He probably told all of his kennel friends who you are how amazing of a mama you are. My heart melted for you Molly 😮💨 dogs have a amazing way of beaming their love and you can feel it
Ben was so absolutely sweet on this video. So adorable, such a lovely boy. I'm sure he was the light you needed to make you happy.
I cried as soon as Ben saw you. My own service dog actually woke up to do her crying response. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment in your life. I truly believe God only wants good for all of our lives and hope that your new dog will bring you the good you need moving forward.
This is definitely preparing me for my own dog’s retirement in a few years. Which I can’t think about without tearing up so I never want to think about it. 😭
I loved getting to see Bennix' reaction, he really missed you. It's hard to imagine being in that position and saying goodbye to someone who has helped you so much. I knew that Bennix was your dog from the moment you started describing him to us. Hopefully your new dog is just as wonderful as he was. When you said they had a special connection, I started wondering if you got another member of the family since Bennix and Gallop are related. This was a bittersweet video because it's a thank you and goodbye to Ben and hello to the journey with your new dog. I loved seeing your journey with Bennix even though it came to an end much earlier than anyone thought. I look forward to meeting your new dog!!
I've been a dog lover my entire sixteen years on this earth, and I don't think I've ever seen a dog so thrilled to see someone they know. You and Ben were so incredibly blessed to have met each other! I'm so grateful to have seen those interactions, even through a screen.
I have cried non stop through this video, he was/is an amazing dog. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We could all see the incredible bond you both shared together and how amazing he was as a guide dog. Thank you for sharing your journey with him with us. Remember it’s okay to grieve and there is no time limit for grief, take all the time you need and please don’t feel pressured into having to share/post everything, look after you. You come first. Sending love and peace to you 💜
The sound of his feet tapping on the floor as soon as he saw you 😭❤️ he definitely loves you just as much as you love him
Such generosity and compassion to share this moment with so many of us that will never actually meet Molly Burke. This quotation is almost too "on the nose", but it came to my mind as this video ended. "May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face; the rains fall soft upon your fields...." Love to all.
I was so set on not crying.. what was I thinking. I lost it when Molly was thanking Bennix. It reminded me of the last goodbye when my service dog passed, and from there I was crying like mad.
thank you Bennix for a wonderful 10 months. thank you molly, for the last goodbye. I hope he has the best life.
I busted out in tears when I saw how excited Ben was to see you. He definitely loves you just as much as you love him. ❤️
As someone who recently lost a pet, I can’t imagine the pain that losing not only a pet, but your mobility aid would bring, especially so unexpectedly. This situation is so emotional and as much as I’ll allow myself to be sad, I’m grateful that Ben was able to bring you happiness through such a tough time. Even though all of us love Ben, none of us had the relationship with him that you did, Molly. I hope you can take your time to grieve your loss of working with Ben, and to build a new relationship with your new dog. I can’t wait to be along with you for the ride, and remember, you are so loved by all the dogs you work with and all of us.
We also just lost our family dog... i think this video was cathartic for a lot of us. Feeling all the feels for everyone who has lost.
oh my god, ben just lit up when he saw you!!! that instant recognition, the excitement.... that dog loves you molly burke! what a blessing!!! how wonderful!!!!
it's so so sad to see ben retire, but at least you got a proper goodbye with him -- I'm actually writing this comment after having paused the video to try and compose myself a bit, haha. back to the watery eyes!!!
damn, it's like ripping a part of my heart through the throat. can't imagine giving up my pet dog. the pain must be heavy. hope you can heal soon
I lost my childhood cat last February and seeing Ben's reaction to your reunion made tears stream down my face. I'd love to think that if I see my cat again in some afterlife, this would be his reaction. We also shared water (usually not my idea) so I fully broke down when you let him share a final glass with you. I can't put into words how strong you are for documenting this, Molly. Sending all my love and care ❤
Our four-legged friends aren't always with us to the end. And sometimes it's the ones that are with us for the shortest periods of time that make the biggest positive impacts. Ben always had this bright, goofy, bouncy light in videos that I know must have been present off the screen too. Although we may not see him again, I'm glad he was able to share his joy and energy with us and with you. I know he made me smile and I'm certain he'll bring smiles wherever he goes next.
I wish him the best in his next chapter and I wish you the best in yours.
my childhood dog got pts in april after he turned 18 and we'd had him over 17 years. my mum couldnt bare it so i was the only one in the room. that goodbye was the hardest goodbye in my life and i didn't get long because he was in pain. i thought i'd never be able to accept another dog and here i am in bed with my puppy and i'm so incredibly grateful for him for existing. we don't deserve dogs, they really help in ways they'll never understand
I'm sorry for your loss. I'm glad you were able to stay with him while he passed. He was with his person ❤️
So emotional to say goodbye to Bennix 🥺tissues are at the ready! Love you Molly and hope the new set of fluffy eyes are settling in well 💜🌌
Wow! I just discovered your channel and I heard you mention this dog a few times. I saw you train with your newest dog. So I had to go back and see what happened with Ben. Boy have I felt your emotions and cried through this video! I can’t seem to find out why Ben didn’t work out though. Is it something you can’t share because of the place you got him? 💗 Boy do I feel for you! Glad you’re adjusting to your current dog!
I sobbed through this entire vlog. I’m just so sorry. 💔 I totally understand how you feel when you say Ben was special. I have had over 20 dogs and I currently have a dog that I have a bond with like I’ve never had with another living creature. She feels like an extension of myself. I couldn’t imagine us both being alive and not being together. I wouldn’t feel whole. I hope your new pup can give you some closure and knowing Ben will be loved is comforting. Why does life put us through these terrible times? I will never understand.
Well it has been years and years since I have ugly snot cried but WOW that was kinda emotional Molly. Service dogs are our earth bound angels and I am simply in awe of them. We have a companion dog, Lochie, that comes to visit our patients in the ICU and every time he melts my heart. I can only imagine your pain at having to let him go, my heart has broken for you .. sending love and strength from NZ for your next journey with your new dog. X
I cried the entire video. He is so wonderful and I'm glad he's in a safe home with people that love him, but I'm definitely going to miss him. ❤💙
why you think Ben is getting retire?? what would be your guess? he seriously looks very healthy and happy dog.
@@ZairaBandy there a medical issue with him that makes it where he can no longer be a guide dog.molly has said this in another video
@@beth1188 on Patreon? On Reddit they said he had a problem with peeing and she did say that the vet said that he lost a lot of weight. Both could be signs of stress. If he wasn't able to handle being a guide dog that is a reason they would retire him. She needs a dog she can depend on. Her life depends on it. Because she refuses to say why they retired him makes me think it was definitely psychological and not physical. It's heartbreaking
@@AA-mz3ig I wonder why her parents can't take the dog then. Since it seems like he can't be a service dog for anyone. Then she'd be able to see him, with his other one.
@@sarahobeebopo It might be some condition with Mira because she had him less than a year or the parents can't handle Gallup and Ben. Ben is going to his puppy family supposedly. If so, he'll be fine.
The moment you reunited with Ben and he started going wild with excitement, my eyes never welled up with tears so quickly. A happy moment but an emotional one. What a very very special love you two share. ❤And now I write this with my face completely wet with tears... Thanks for letting us say bye to him too.
Molly, it was just a half step! He’ll never forget you, not ever. I lost my 13 year old Golden mix on July 26 and it’s been so very difficult. She saw me through many surgeries and emotional difficulties, caring for me and loving without end. Many days I’d wake on the couch from a migraine fog with her on the floor below me and her favorite stuffed toys placed carefully around my head.
Just a month before a stray puppy came to our house during a storm, no chip or tag, no luck finding owners, so even though we’d decided no more dogs we now have a 8 month old Collie/Sheltie mix to train. She is funny, loves our cat, and wants to be with me all the time, just like Miss B. Apparently I needed a new, energetic caregiver. God sends us the right animal at the right time for a reason. You will eventually know, but your heart will always have tenderness for those no longer with you.
This last time seeing Ben with you was so hard.
I cried throughout the whole video.
He will always be in your heart and in ours!
This is the saddest video I have ever seen. Bennix clearly loves you unconditionally. My heart goes out to you, Molly, and to Ben. Prayers he has as good of a life with his new family as he would've had with you. Hugs!
Thank you for sharing this, it is an important story and really makes me understand how important service dogs are and what a unique and special connection there is between you and the dog.
Oh honey this is heart breaking! *hugs*
Thank you for sharing this moment with us.
Also that anecdote of Gallup crashing a birthday party is such a mood!
We love you molly! Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things to go through in life, know that we are all here for you!
Awww molly im so sorry you had to retire Ben so soon but i know you made the best choice for him to live his best life… i hope your new dog brings you as much joy as Ben did!