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Great show gentlemen! Wake up fellas, this is a new day in age were marriage is just NOT the right decision. Spin your plates and keep em in line. Protect your finances and enjoy your manhood living a long and healthy prosperous life without the legal nightmare.
Coming from a Baptist Christian conservative background I don't necessarily agree with spinning plates but I can't argue with the state of marriage. Women have one job above All Else and that is to regulate the sexual marketplace. Until they can do that with some honor and dignity no man should get married. Moreover one of the bigger underlying problems is a cultural one. A bad toxic hookup culture will corrupt even the most virtuous of women. It is disrespectful of women to ask us as men to take them seriously and commit when they valley who they give access to them
To hell with marriage! Why sacrfice so many hopes, dreams and potential for such meagre gains? Especially with how draconian and misandrist divorce laws are....
Rich is so right about watching how when vetting a woman to look at clues on how they treat others. My ex wife was very polite and courteous in our relationship before marriage. But one thing I noticed and didn’t pay much attention to was how rude she was to her parents and grandmother. Low and behold after marriage guess who her next victim was and disrespect was aimed at.
@@badboy-gn8fu yeah I'm going through that now. Considering divorcing my wife. Inability/unwillingness of her to keep things straight/clean has been one of several issues. I been sleeping on the couch for the past week because the bed looks a total hot mess thanks to her...and she still sleeps in the bed without dressing it up no matter how chaotic and unpleasant it appears. Said I'd try marriage at least once when I was younger...but never again. I regret doing it this once. What kills me also is how women either slow down or stop the physical affection and sex....but still expect a man/husband who craves it to be monogamous and have no other woman(en).
Damn this is vile. I feel sorry for him having to find out about his wife's "business". My heart breaks just listening to this video. The more stories like this I've come across, the more I thank the heavens I'm single and not married. Single life is true freedom and happiness.
Glenn, I was married for 15 years and I understand what you mean when you say you wish you would've paid better attention. But I'm sure like me, you had no reason to doubt or question anything until it was too late. By the time I found out, it was over for me. You could've told me the morning of my wife leaving and I wouldn't have believed it. I had no reason to think my marriage was in danger. Thankfully I have my kids because she walked out on all 3 of us and we haven't seen her in over 3 years. Almost 4
@@magsteel9891 i am lucky that she walked away, yes. But I lost everything I ever owned except for a few things. But my daughters are the ones that have suffered. They're both really sad. To be a little girl and have your mom abandon you is hurtful.
@@adriancanestra6910 Just make sure to not allow her to waltz back into your daughters lives when/if she wants to play mom again. Be ready for the societal pressure hammer to drop on you, as you will be "depriving your daughters of their mother".
@@adriancanestra6910 Divorce sucks, I don't wish it on anyone. Watching your marriage, family, and finances implode can be earth shattering. It sucks for you and the kids, and there's no way to eliminate the suckage. But one difference between divorce and death is death has some finality, while divorce, especially with kids, has none. You never really get away when you are tied up by finances and kids. But your ex checked out completely so maybe you all have some finality to it. Good luck to you and your kids.
That’s facts brother! I don’t earn a lot of money but I’m a guy women want to bang but not have children with because I don’t have enough to “provide” for a family lmao
Don't get married/cohabitate under unfavourable laws in any city/country. Always try to get atleast 50/50 custody of YOUR child and allow this positive relationship to do social/emotional damage to her.
Glenn... I feel your pain. The first year after my divorce was so hard on the relationship with my older son. It is by far the most depressing things we can experience. It gets better.
It's been a great ride the last 3 years, watching this channel grow.. I have bought the book The Unplugged Alpha and it's a great book, every guy in their 18 and over needs to read this book. I'm leaving this channel because there's not much more to get out of this venue, I wish Rich the best.
I've just listened to the Unplugged Alpha audiobook. Loved your insight and it has definitely given me a lot to think about. Thanks, Rich. Much appreciated.
This was a good interview. You should reach out to the husband and see if he'd come on for a interview. Like how rollo got nikole Mitchells ex on his show. Maybe even try and get him on yours. It's old news I know but some newer subs would probably like it
I was with my ex for 5 years and just couldn’t divorce her. Our releationship was on and off all the time. She ev finished it which I am thankful for as we weren’t getting anywhere.
I know this ain't relevant to the video but I just wanna say, I got red-pilled not by one woman but by 10 or so, So I'm 22 I started to work as a nurse( yeah I know a job for women, but I like it) for about a week, it was something like a test to see how good I fare, I did a lot of work not 1 mistake and everybody was so nice and sociable, then I get to talk to the manager and he told me that the girls said to him that I wasn't doing enough, didn't take a lot initiative like doing things by myself without being asking, in the condițion that everyone told me that I should ask before I do things. It made me reslise that working with women in the same space is like working with a nest of snakes, not 1 of them told me i was doing anything wrong or that they thought I was not doing "enough" it made me realise that no one will help you achive anything if they feel like is at their expense.
the better saying is a 'Nest of Vipers' but yeah working around alot of women is a big no no, if they have any influence over you getting promoted most of the time they will try to hold you back. Most women behave worse when they are working in a goup. Your the odd man out.
Thank you Uncle Rich for this content. I started viewing Elliot Hulse and then gradually to your channel, Rollo Tomassi and then bought all of TRM books from Rollo. You’ve changed my life. Can’t thank you enough 🙏🙏🙏
she was a sugar baby and a covert narcisist, she wasnt hooking up with just any random guy with money, she had a small vetted rotation of men across the world, she saw her husband as her retirement plan once her looks start to fade. Her plan failed and backfired, she is now doxxed and exposed, high value men will not want to contract her now because everyone knows what shes about.
Thanks for watching and commenting. So much more information left to unpack with Rich in this crazy world of relationships, marriage, and divorce. Be careful out there!!
Great interview and highly informative especially for the younger men who are possibly contemplating marriage in the future. As a former divorcee, I live in Texas, and when I got divorced, initially I tried to get an annulment and wasn’t able to for two specific reasons, 1) I couldn’t prove fraud or duress(even though I suspected it eventually) and 2) The marriage was consummated (obviously my mistake, however the claws didn’t come out until AFTER the marriage). The second reason is a major requirement in trying to obtain an annulment at least in Texas, because even if you can prove fraud/duress you STILL have to prove that the marriage wasn’t consummated on the wedding night, which is the main reason why annulment is so difficult to get in family court. But hey, at least I didn’t get divorced in California for example where divorce is economically devastating and unforgiving towards men in general. Overall in general, this is what my lawyer informed me at the time, since this was several years ago. As always great show Rich, keep them coming!
Thanks for watching and sharing your story. As I always say, divorce laws vary widely from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Sounds like you made it out safely from a bad marriage. Stay safe out there!!
What’s the reason for having to prove the marriage was not consummated on the wedding night? I don’t understand why that would/should determine if the marriage happened under fraud or duress.
He’s book smart but not game smart. This happened to me before I unplugged I was academically smart, wasn’t aware of women nature I saw the flags but I was in denial, but eventually I caught my x wife now sleeping with a man from rehab she met that I funded glad she’s gone lesson learned. I’m 29 by the way the sooner men learn the better but only you can unplug yourself.
@@bookofeli4867 unfortunately Washington is a no-fault state but luckily we were only married for a year so I didn’t have to pay for any alimony and we had no kids lost a TV and time and some for helping her but could have been worse, but yes There were signs but I ignored them being blinded by her beauty thinking because she was beautiful that she was a good person but she was no angel having everyone fold around her just because she was pretty and I found out on my own she What deceiving me for months Since the moment she walked in the rehab facility I suspected something then when she got to a halfway house all women’s living I could tell something was up something wasn’t right and all her woman friends we’re backing her cheating ass up so one day I went to the house where she was staying unannounced and I guess she didn’t communicate to her roommate that she had a man in the bedroom with her so she let me in and I walk straight into the room called her a ho and left and realized I was right all along
Its not about being smart. A surgeon works crazy long shifts without sleeping and has to be aware about nearly everything. Its pretty easy to trick someone who spends most of his time in the hospital.
I had to go through this meat grinder 3 years ago with a very problematic woman and her mother..... It was the most painful thing I have ever gone through. I had to battle the ex and her mother..... My Attorney used this strategy as well. it turned out better in the end....
@@jcnlaw Yes, I sure did. My ex wife got pregnant and took off and disappeared..... I had to chase her down, get a DNA test to ensure that the child was mine. She took all of the furniture from the house while I was at work one day..... My neighbor called and told me what was going on..... before I could get home she was gone.... just an absolute nightmare.
He met her in 2013. They married in 2015. This man is a highly accomplished surgeon who was probably working substantial hours per week. He didn't have time to watchdog his partner all day every day. He trusted her and she took advantage of his trust. What type of relationship would he have if he felt he had to check up on her all the time. The man has a demanding career and has to come home and worry about asking his partner screening questions? No. He expected her to act like a responsible adult and he treated her like one. His wife is a sociopath and he should be given the benefit of the doubt. People need to stop asking, "How did he not know"? Put yourself in his shoes.
it should but rite now illegitimate children are a drain on the state system, now later on when we transition into a Mad Max free for all then all bets are off
HOLY SHIT! All the while I was listening to Archimedes’s story and kept wondering, could it be HER. Did a quick google search and ofcourse it’s her. His Ukrainian smoke show of a wife is someone I banged a few years ago and absolutely saw all the red flags, enough for me to never ever see her again despite how hot she was. Man, I know who you are, obviously i will maintain and respect your anonymity but it was crazy for me to watch you there describe this woman that I experienced a few years ago myself and I wish somehow we could have met before you met her, I would have warned you about her. Anyway, good luck with the situation and stay strong brother if you are reading this comment
Guys like that do that over and over, I can't feel sorry for him. He knew what he was seeing and chose to listen to his little head? I don't understand how someone so weak can earn 160k?
Work and Income has nothing to do with your Wokeness on Blue / Red / Blk Pills, most guys come to this knowledge by failure, its always been like that, its ok, beating people up on their failures is not very constructive
I got no sympathy once it happens twice, this guy's already been divorce graped before and the way he's acting he'll do it again. This guy was in his late 40s at least? He damn well knew that a Ukrainian Instagram model didn't love him, he said it himself, "all she cared about was money". If he was younger and this was a first wife I'd be more sympathetic but this guy is willfully blind.
You should keep testing her and dig as much as you can before taking the decision of your life to get married. Trust me you will regret it if you won’t get to know who is behind this angel mask ! They all look extremely angelic and hot but they are just devils from the inside and they lie, lie, lie…. Always remember that, lies and tears are number thing you should take a good care of and be careful.
Really scary,that's why it's important to vet these people out,take advice from your friends and family about this person and don't get married today because it can turn your life upside-down,it's sad and terrible.
Your content resonates like a symphony, Rich. A 2x4 to the head, man. Discovered you about a month ago. You, and now the other guys (Rollo, Rian, etc) have become daily consumed content for me. Your book was outstanding. Tore through that in a day. Narrate your next book as well please. Rollo’s Rational Male book isn’t served well by the actor he chose to read it. Great content, but his voice over guy is no bueno. Keep up the great work, sir. Outstanding!
No nonsense, straight up advice on gender dynamics. I impart with great info for my female friends and socialization wisdom for my teen son. I'm a fan!
Not getting married (or living in a “married state” in common law marriage jurisdictions) will minimize your downside risk of divorce to zero. I don’t know one single, fit, successful guy over 40 who is unhappy that he is single. Not one.
You can get a religious marriage in some foreign countries without forming a legal marriage. You can have kids, be religiously married and not have a legal marriage. If you have a religious need don't get legally trapped.
@@panfrel2649 Co-habitation depends on local laws. Can you identify a western country who recognise a marriage that was not a legal marriage in the country in which it 2as performed? If you have a spaghetti monster religious marriage in the UK the US isn't going recognise that as legally binding. As they will not recognise one performed in the process of filming a TV show. You can get screwed by co-habitation but not by recognising non-legal ceremonies in foreign countries.
4:49 funny we are gonna start off blaming the guy for her decision. because he didn't prevent her from doing what she did. smh. she didn't keep her legs closed. she's the problem here.
Vet, vet, vet again, vet over a period of time. Any gaps, lies, trickery then RUN. Don't be intimidated out of vetting. You have a right to know everything you need to know. You are not obliged.
Every girl thats not super dumb could trick a surgeon who works crazy shifts and spends most of his time in the hospital. Pretty sure, that his brain is 24/7 in rescue mode. Poor guy.
To the guy with the crazy Ukraine chick: let her go back to Ukraine. After she leaves, delete all social media, move to a new place so she can’t find you. Don’t sign anything. Disappear and don’t be found by her.
Men think, they're save as long, they didn't get married. However, the government will come out with ridiculous laws. For example, if you're part time caretaker for kids, and her kids is among all the kids under your wings, she can go to the court and asked you to pay for her kids because you take the role of parental figure for her kids. Or, you have been living together with her, or she's your fiance; she is entitled to have the same benefits as your "wife", she can divorce you and take your house. This happens at British Court.
No fault, Baby! That judge is not going to let him off the hook and void that marriage 🤣😂🤣. Of course this Esquire is going to tell you, "of course there is a chance!" 💰💰💰 They are all Vampires!
In New Zealand the law will favour the woman..even if your not married! If you've been together for 2 years or more, she will most likely be awarded half of your house, business, and any other finances you may have in trust.
I realize it’s this lawyers career, but he’s being way too optimistic about the divorce court machine. The reason why default 50/50 custody is so rare, is because it would jeopardize the amount of money flowing into the pockets of lawyers and judges. The divorce court system relies on the two parties fighting over children and assets until the money runs out. It’s called corruption.
Thank you for watching and commenting. Many more family law related topics to unpack with Richard in the future. In the meantime, please stay safe out there!!
Rich how much have guys been warned about my "Red flags?" There are people who behave badly, they are violent or steal or cheat. And there are people who lie about others being violent or stealing or cheating. As far as I can see I'm the victim of people with the red flag of being slanderers.
there is a story of this man who was awarded 50/50 custody but he says his wife still won't allow him to visit his children. he even complained to the courts and the courts gave his ex numerous warnings and his wife still won't allow him to visit his children and the law didn't do nothing to to make his ex comply b/c she's a woman and she's a delicate little rose.
I call bullshit. He must have understood she was a bimbo at the very least. How did they date for four years prior to the marriage and he didn’t find out about her not having a college degree? Either they had no or very little contact with her parents (red flag), or her family was in on the scam.
It is impossible to protect yourself against a wife being something she is not. Women act wholesome until they can pull the bait and switch. A few years of dating will not tell you a thing. If you want to be with a women, tell her you want to see what kind of wife she is going to be - over the LONG haul. You will sign the contract at 70 years old. She will run and find a new target. Hold masculine frame.
I like that Jonathan combines book smarts with a nice touch of redpill rather than many lawyer types that just preach about love and other bs. Had a gut feeling my recent ex was just wearing a mask and I finally acted on it and dumped her. There were other issues that doomed the relationship long term anyways. Listen to your gut!
Never marrying will definitely minimize your risk of suffering a terrible economic situation. Thank you for watching and commenting. Stay safe out there!
1:23:16 best case scenario he's going to have to watch his steps and follow the legal due process along 5 or 7 years considering that he's going out of country he's going to have to follow those statutes to and abide by those legal open windows. My projection is about 10 years
Reminder to self if I ever get engaged to have a prenuptial. Dave Ramsey also recommends this but puts a positive twist by saying it also keeps the other family from pressuring her to unjustly divorce you.
Don't know about his life, but as he's Korean, they have a culture known for parents putting a lot of pressure on their children to excel and achieve financial success at the cost of your own happiness. So parents could be part of it. Also, may have just wanted to prove something. Got himself a trophy wife to go along with his trophy life. People in the medical field, especially if they are in demand, can work crazy hours and part of his job might include travel due to him being specialized. Have friends and family in various fields and their schedules are crazy. Dude probably let a lot of shit go as he was getting taken care of at home by her. I think the problem is that she just didn't love him... or didn't love him enough to stop doing what she did and put him first.
Shes a Narcisist, she can't help be who she truly is, she saw her husband as her retirement plan and her 'cover' to show the world that shes a good wife. She probably had a rotation of men since high school and never planned to stop. As for the Good Doctor he did nothing wrong, he worked hard and he has every rite to wife up a trophy wife if he so chooses to, the problem is the typical modern day trophy wife nowadays is risky
So far I've only met one girl who actually took responsibility for the relationship with her baby daddy. Then again, right after that she had a long list of reasons he deserved it😂
Can someone tell me why all participants that are on the stand , aren’t on a polygraph so that metric can be taken into account in the jurors decision making process ?
Archimedes needs to get rid of the crazy. He should ask for her to be kept in the US for the criminal activity. Ask for prosecution for dishonesty to get the restraing order. And have her classified as a flight risk if she is allowed to leave. Just slow the prosecution until the kid is born. Then flag the dangers she poses to the child.
About the last guest 'Archimedes'... I would venture to say the unborn kid is not even his as I believe many of these type of women would have started sleeping around soon after they lose respect for their man and so in his case she might have wanted to get pregnant (with any man) in order to secure her future 'financial funding' when she decides to leave him later.
How could the smart surgeon get fooled by his pretty wife? I think it was coach red pill who talked about how the medical system is such that only the most obedient and by the book get through it. They breed very trusting people.
He spent most of his life studying and working hard on his profession, throughout the education process there is no classes on Red Pill, its quite normal and not his fault. Government and Society would need to be reworked to prevent this from happening to other professionals.
I couldn't write this comment when it was live but that story about the Chinese lady who got sued by her husband was actually fake they hired that model for the pictures and it actually ruined her career I can totally see it happening though
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Great advise Rich. Archimedes guy should stick to redpill principles and let that Ukrainian fly away.
Great show gentlemen! Wake up fellas, this is a new day in age were marriage is just NOT the right decision. Spin your plates and keep em in line. Protect your finances and enjoy your manhood living a long and healthy prosperous life without the legal nightmare.
Thank you for watching and commenting! You have the right mindset.
Coming from a Baptist Christian conservative background I don't necessarily agree with spinning plates but I can't argue with the state of marriage. Women have one job above All Else and that is to regulate the sexual marketplace. Until they can do that with some honor and dignity no man should get married. Moreover one of the bigger underlying problems is a cultural one. A bad toxic hookup culture will corrupt even the most virtuous of women. It is disrespectful of women to ask us as men to take them seriously and commit when they valley who they give access to them
Look for a woman like your mother , if she even exixts anymore
I agree
“Never try to make an unhappy woman happy.”
“It will never be enough.”
Absolutely true.
101%
Exhibit 1, Melissa Gates.
Facts
Wow, heartbreaking, he has to be devestated. Finding out your wife cheating is bad enough but this is on another level.
Yeah but no kids so he really dodged a bullet.
at least she was getting paid for it, it would be worse if she was bangin all those dudes for free imo
@@MrCharrrles
Maybe she did, on her days off hoe’ing
….Chad the biker and Tyrone the fitness coach could have given her a spit-roast …
@@Project-Masculinity Don't forget Chadpreet
@@wanderingdoc5075 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
If somebody is guilt tripping you about something you didn't do, they probably did it.
Things Grandma said I should have paid more attention to.
Your a good man Rich. Providing a space for men who've been through strife to connect and learn is epic. God bless
To hell with marriage!
Why sacrfice so many hopes, dreams and potential for such meagre gains? Especially with how draconian and misandrist divorce laws are....
Agreed
No marriage and no kids.... And I lived happily forever and after 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️🤸🤸🤸
Marriage is too much risk....
No shit
Just Date and Dont Cohabitate 😇
“Focus on the end game” - invaluable words from an experienced man on the subject.
Timestamp?
@@wanderingdoc5075 23:51
Endgame sounds like a movie
Rich is so right about watching how when vetting a woman to look at clues on how they treat others. My ex wife was very polite and courteous in our relationship before marriage. But one thing I noticed and didn’t pay much attention to was how rude she was to her parents and grandmother. Low and behold after marriage guess who her next victim was and disrespect was aimed at.
i dated many women and one of the things i like to check is how clean their home is. if it's a mess it is a red flag and i pass
yup, she hated her father, then later it was my turn
@@MrSamadolfo yup. If she doesn't get along with her parents that is a red flag
@@badboy-gn8fu 🙂 in hindsite it makes sense but back then i was a noob to Red Flags
@@badboy-gn8fu yeah I'm going through that now. Considering divorcing my wife. Inability/unwillingness of her to keep things straight/clean has been one of several issues. I been sleeping on the couch for the past week because the bed looks a total hot mess thanks to her...and she still sleeps in the bed without dressing it up no matter how chaotic and unpleasant it appears. Said I'd try marriage at least once when I was younger...but never again. I regret doing it this once. What kills me also is how women either slow down or stop the physical affection and sex....but still expect a man/husband who craves it to be monogamous and have no other woman(en).
This was heavy. Thanks for taking the time for this one, and shoutout to all the guys who called in.
Damn this is vile. I feel sorry for him having to find out about his wife's "business". My heart breaks just listening to this video. The more stories like this I've come across, the more I thank the heavens I'm single and not married. Single life is true freedom and happiness.
Didn't he ever wonder why there was a line of dudes around the block waiting at his front door?
@@CEWIII9873 bet the "beauty" pageant lady had that husband thing as like a fetish for her clients. Like "bang a married woman" package.
Glenn, I was married for 15 years and I understand what you mean when you say you wish you would've paid better attention. But I'm sure like me, you had no reason to doubt or question anything until it was too late. By the time I found out, it was over for me. You could've told me the morning of my wife leaving and I wouldn't have believed it. I had no reason to think my marriage was in danger. Thankfully I have my kids because she walked out on all 3 of us and we haven't seen her in over 3 years. Almost 4
You're a lucky, lucky man
@@magsteel9891 i am lucky that she walked away, yes. But I lost everything I ever owned except for a few things. But my daughters are the ones that have suffered. They're both really sad. To be a little girl and have your mom abandon you is hurtful.
@@adriancanestra6910 Just make sure to not allow her to waltz back into your daughters lives when/if she wants to play mom again. Be ready for the societal pressure hammer to drop on you, as you will be "depriving your daughters of their mother".
@@adriancanestra6910 Divorce sucks, I don't wish it on anyone. Watching your marriage, family, and finances implode can be earth shattering. It sucks for you and the kids, and there's no way to eliminate the suckage. But one difference between divorce and death is death has some finality, while divorce, especially with kids, has none. You never really get away when you are tied up by finances and kids. But your ex checked out completely so maybe you all have some finality to it. Good luck to you and your kids.
Wow sorry to hear that man! So she just disappeared? Ever heard of her whereabouts
I’m saying this with a little sarcasm. But that’s one benefit of being poor. No gold diggers coming my way.
The women that come your way are just as hypergamous as any other woman is!!
That’s facts brother! I don’t earn a lot of money but I’m a guy women want to bang but not have children with because I don’t have enough to “provide” for a family lmao
Not a good trade off but I kinda get what you’re saying
Don't get married/cohabitate under unfavourable laws in any city/country.
Always try to get atleast 50/50 custody of YOUR child and allow this positive relationship to do social/emotional damage to her.
Glenn... I feel your pain. The first year after my divorce was so hard on the relationship with my older son. It is by far the most depressing things we can experience. It gets better.
It's been a great ride the last 3 years, watching this channel grow.. I have bought the book The Unplugged Alpha and it's a great book, every guy in their 18 and over needs to read this book. I'm leaving this channel because there's not much more to get out of this venue, I wish Rich the best.
I've just listened to the Unplugged Alpha audiobook. Loved your insight and it has definitely given me a lot to think about. Thanks, Rich. Much appreciated.
This was a good interview. You should reach out to the husband and see if he'd come on for a interview. Like how rollo got nikole Mitchells ex on his show. Maybe even try and get him on yours. It's old news I know but some newer subs would probably like it
I was with my ex for 5 years and just couldn’t divorce her. Our releationship was on and off all the time. She ev finished it which I am thankful for as we weren’t getting anywhere.
All the best to you...I feel like you're a decent person 🙂.
I know this ain't relevant to the video but I just wanna say, I got red-pilled not by one woman but by 10 or so, So I'm 22 I started to work as a nurse( yeah I know a job for women, but I like it) for about a week, it was something like a test to see how good I fare, I did a lot of work not 1 mistake and everybody was so nice and sociable, then I get to talk to the manager and he told me that the girls said to him that I wasn't doing enough, didn't take a lot initiative like doing things by myself without being asking, in the condițion that everyone told me that I should ask before I do things. It made me reslise that working with women in the same space is like working with a nest of snakes, not 1 of them told me i was doing anything wrong or that they thought I was not doing "enough" it made me realise that no one will help you achive anything if they feel like is at their expense.
the better saying is a 'Nest of Vipers' but yeah working around alot of women is a big no no, if they have any influence over you getting promoted most of the time they will try to hold you back. Most women behave worse when they are working in a goup. Your the odd man out.
I’ve dated nurses, lived with one 3 years. They’re all crazy 😂
@@Ironboots123 🙂 thanks for the tip
“She was traveling for work.” I mean, she wasn’t lying 🤷🏻♂️
Jonathan Noble: Thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽 I wish you were my divorce lawyer
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Good Lord! I’m glad I never got me married 😅 I live in a common law marriage state, separate households is the way to go!🙌🏾
or Apartments, they can be on the same block, close but separated
Thank you Uncle Rich for this content. I started viewing Elliot Hulse and then gradually to your channel, Rollo Tomassi and then bought all of TRM books from Rollo. You’ve changed my life. Can’t thank you enough 🙏🙏🙏
100k per year for hooking up ? Imagine the frequency of her actions.
Guys maintain frame, trust yourself!
she was a sugar baby and a covert narcisist, she wasnt hooking up with just any random guy with money, she had a small vetted rotation of men across the world, she saw her husband as her retirement plan once her looks start to fade. Her plan failed and backfired, she is now doxxed and exposed, high value men will not want to contract her now because everyone knows what shes about.
I love having this man on the show. Great stuff.
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Great interview and highly informative especially for the younger men who are possibly contemplating marriage in the future. As a former divorcee, I live in Texas, and when I got divorced, initially I tried to get an annulment and wasn’t able to for two specific reasons, 1) I couldn’t prove fraud or duress(even though I suspected it eventually) and 2) The marriage was consummated (obviously my mistake, however the claws didn’t come out until AFTER the marriage). The second reason is a major requirement in trying to obtain an annulment at least in Texas, because even if you can prove fraud/duress you STILL have to prove that the marriage wasn’t consummated on the wedding night, which is the main reason why annulment is so difficult to get in family court. But hey, at least I didn’t get divorced in California for example where divorce is economically devastating and unforgiving towards men in general. Overall in general, this is what my lawyer informed me at the time, since this was several years ago. As always great show Rich, keep them coming!
Thanks for watching and sharing your story. As I always say, divorce laws vary widely from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Sounds like you made it out safely from a bad marriage. Stay safe out there!!
What’s the reason for having to prove the marriage was not consummated on the wedding night? I don’t understand why that would/should determine if the marriage happened under fraud or duress.
He’s book smart but not game smart. This happened to me before I unplugged I was academically smart, wasn’t aware of women nature I saw the flags but I was in denial, but eventually I caught my x wife now sleeping with a man from rehab she met that I funded glad she’s gone lesson learned. I’m 29 by the way the sooner men learn the better but only you can unplug yourself.
Wow sorry to hear that man! What did she go to rehab for ? Looking back now was there any signs ? Could infidelity be brought in divorce cases?
Also did she end up confessing ? Or you find out without her telling you
@@bookofeli4867 unfortunately Washington is a no-fault state but luckily we were only married for a year so I didn’t have to pay for any alimony and we had no kids lost a TV and time and some for helping her but could have been worse, but yes There were signs but I ignored them being blinded by her beauty thinking because she was beautiful that she was a good person but she was no angel having everyone fold around her just because she was pretty and I found out on my own she What deceiving me for months Since the moment she walked in the rehab facility I suspected something then when she got to a halfway house all women’s living I could tell something was up something wasn’t right and all her woman friends we’re backing her cheating ass up so one day I went to the house where she was staying unannounced and I guess she didn’t communicate to her roommate that she had a man in the bedroom with her so she let me in and I walk straight into the room called her a ho and left and realized I was right all along
@@worldlyobserver wow such a horror story you really can't trust a woman's friend. Good on you for continuing using to live
Its not about being smart. A surgeon works crazy long shifts without sleeping and has to be aware about nearly everything. Its pretty easy to trick someone who spends most of his time in the hospital.
I had to go through this meat grinder 3 years ago with a very problematic woman and her mother..... It was the most painful thing I have ever gone through. I had to battle the ex and her mother..... My Attorney used this strategy as well. it turned out better in the end....
Yep codependant disfunctional family members
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@@jcnlaw Yes, I sure did. My ex wife got pregnant and took off and disappeared..... I had to chase her down, get a DNA test to ensure that the child was mine. She took all of the furniture from the house while I was at work one day..... My neighbor called and told me what was going on..... before I could get home she was gone.... just an absolute nightmare.
Omg the carnage !
Don’t wife up….even if your life depends on it.
Got it ! 👍
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He met her in 2013. They married in 2015. This man is a highly accomplished surgeon who was probably working substantial hours per week. He didn't have time to watchdog his partner all day every day. He trusted her and she took advantage of his trust. What type of relationship would he have if he felt he had to check up on her all the time. The man has a demanding career and has to come home and worry about asking his partner screening questions? No. He expected her to act like a responsible adult and he treated her like one. His wife is a sociopath and he should be given the benefit of the doubt. People need to stop asking, "How did he not know"? Put yourself in his shoes.
🙂 agree, thanks for commenting
@@MrSamadolfo you're welcome
I wonder why paternity fraud doesn’t auto anull a marriage
It should
it should but rite now illegitimate children are a drain on the state system, now later on when we transition into a Mad Max free for all then all bets are off
Because half the population doesn't allow it.
HOLY SHIT! All the while I was listening to Archimedes’s story and kept wondering, could it be HER. Did a quick google search and ofcourse it’s her. His Ukrainian smoke show of a wife is someone I banged a few years ago and absolutely saw all the red flags, enough for me to never ever see her again despite how hot she was. Man, I know who you are, obviously i will maintain and respect your anonymity but it was crazy for me to watch you there describe this woman that I experienced a few years ago myself and I wish somehow we could have met before you met her, I would have warned you about her. Anyway, good luck with the situation and stay strong brother if you are reading this comment
Guys like that do that over and over, I can't feel sorry for him. He knew what he was seeing and chose to listen to his little head? I don't understand how someone so weak can earn 160k?
@@ryanhauck8026 Timestamp?
Hello Don, would you share the Red Flags?
Thanks.
Work and Income has nothing to do with your Wokeness on Blue / Red / Blk Pills, most guys come to this knowledge by failure, its always been like that, its ok, beating people up on their failures is not very constructive
I got no sympathy once it happens twice, this guy's already been divorce graped before and the way he's acting he'll do it again. This guy was in his late 40s at least? He damn well knew that a Ukrainian Instagram model didn't love him, he said it himself, "all she cared about was money". If he was younger and this was a first wife I'd be more sympathetic but this guy is willfully blind.
This was transformative, you need patience in the beginning of a relationship, to gain a grasp on the quality of a woman.
You should keep testing her and dig as much as you can before taking the decision of your life to get married.
Trust me you will regret it if you won’t get to know who is behind this angel mask !
They all look extremely angelic and hot but they are just devils from the inside and they lie, lie, lie…. Always remember that, lies and tears are number thing you should take a good care of and be careful.
Really scary,that's why it's important to vet these people out,take advice from your friends and family about this person and don't get married today because it can turn your life upside-down,it's sad and terrible.
Your content resonates like a symphony, Rich. A 2x4 to the head, man. Discovered you about a month ago. You, and now the other guys (Rollo, Rian, etc) have become daily consumed content for me. Your book was outstanding. Tore through that in a day. Narrate your next book as well please. Rollo’s Rational Male book isn’t served well by the actor he chose to read it. Great content, but his voice over guy is no bueno. Keep up the great work, sir. Outstanding!
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@@jcnlaw Thank you Jonathan. You were superb. I am not oblivious, but EYE OPENING nevertheless. Thank you, sir.
Great video. Thanks gents for the legal look at this. As a man I like this technical approach to these crazy situations that can occur.
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Im trying to be Vince Vaughn in the first 20 min of wedding crashers
Waaahahaha!
Those were a GREAT 20 minutes period! 🤣
Damn that’s amazing!!! That’s the life right there! Now I’m going to watch those 20 minutes to remind myself of the good life! 😂🤘🏽
the only way to win is too not play
Yes, The Joshua Option, how about a nice game of chess instead 🙂
her parents must be very proud
😉😆😂
This is more common than people are aware of, even in the lower financial classes.
Gray Rock! Stay off social media! Great advice!!!!!! Great videos and guests.
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No nonsense, straight up advice on gender dynamics. I impart with great info for my female friends and socialization wisdom for my teen son. I'm a fan!
Very True, Richard's books should be taught in year 11 for all men.
All this talk of vetting. F that. DONT. GET. MARRIED.
EVER! Under no circumstances!!!
Not getting married (or living in a “married state” in common law marriage jurisdictions) will minimize your downside risk of divorce to zero. I don’t know one single, fit, successful guy over 40 who is unhappy that he is single. Not one.
You can get a religious marriage in some foreign countries without forming a legal marriage.
You can have kids, be religiously married and not have a legal marriage.
If you have a religious need don't get legally trapped.
Bad advice, it all depends on local laws.
@@panfrel2649
Co-habitation depends on local laws.
Can you identify a western country who recognise a marriage that was not a legal marriage in the country in which it 2as performed?
If you have a spaghetti monster religious marriage in the UK the US isn't going recognise that as legally binding. As they will not recognise one performed in the process of filming a TV show.
You can get screwed by co-habitation but not by recognising non-legal ceremonies in foreign countries.
4:49 funny we are gonna start off blaming the guy for her decision. because he didn't prevent her from doing what she did. smh. she didn't keep her legs closed. she's the problem here.
Holy shit! This is real dude. I thought he was just a meme posting about divorce.
yes its very real, the divorce rate is around 70% in the usa alone, God Help Us All
These kinds of shows are great! Do more of these with Mr Esquire.
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Vet, vet, vet again, vet over a period of time. Any gaps, lies, trickery then RUN. Don't be intimidated out of vetting. You have a right to know everything you need to know. You are not obliged.
Problem is in most cases, once she touches his didi the vetting stops!! Maintain frame is ultimate.
Sounds like the modern society has monetized the p&&&y
Every girl thats not super dumb could trick a surgeon who works crazy shifts and spends most of his time in the hospital. Pretty sure, that his brain is 24/7 in rescue mode.
Poor guy.
Yes, he's on call 24/7 and you don't want just anybody opening up your spine
RICH DA MAAAN... exposing female human nature! WELL DONE!
To the guy with the crazy Ukraine chick: let her go back to Ukraine. After she leaves, delete all social media, move to a new place so she can’t find you. Don’t sign anything. Disappear and don’t be found by her.
agree, let the kid b born in UK, and ghost em all
I really feel for the call in guy - Archimedes…. Can see the emotion in the guys face…
yes its heart breaking, we try very hard to keep our composure but every once in a while we break
Great video! Good flow and excellent call-ins! Keep up the good work Rich!
Men think, they're save as long, they didn't get married. However, the government will come out with ridiculous laws.
For example, if you're part time caretaker for kids, and her kids is among all the kids under your wings, she can go to the court and asked you to pay for her kids because you take the role of parental figure for her kids.
Or, you have been living together with her, or she's your fiance; she is entitled to have the same benefits as your "wife", she can divorce you and take your house. This happens at British Court.
Great show, as always.
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Rather than sue the wife just use that money to give the kids plastic surgery. Problem solved.
I wish Jonathan was my neighbor
Johnathon is the real deal
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No fault, Baby! That judge is not going to let him off the hook and void that marriage 🤣😂🤣. Of course this Esquire is going to tell you, "of course there is a chance!" 💰💰💰 They are all Vampires!
37:59 this happens more frequently than a lot of people realize
My story very similar to Glenn's a Male has way more rights on a criminal court than a family court.
Bring this guest back often.
In New Zealand the law will favour the woman..even if your not married! If you've been together for 2 years or more, she will most likely be awarded half of your house, business, and any other finances you may have in trust.
I just wish know you before I wracked my situation. Good luck to all
I realize it’s this lawyers career, but he’s being way too optimistic about the divorce court machine. The reason why default 50/50 custody is so rare, is because it would jeopardize the amount of money flowing into the pockets of lawyers and judges. The divorce court system relies on the two parties fighting over children and assets until the money runs out. It’s called corruption.
The Kevin guy should get a paternity test.
Knowledge is better than ignorance.
agree, buy the Amazon Home Kit and get er done
Great show and great guest.
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Good work chaps 👍🏼
Rich how much have guys been warned about my "Red flags?"
There are people who behave badly, they are violent or steal or cheat.
And there are people who lie about others being violent or stealing or cheating.
As far as I can see I'm the victim of people with the red flag of being slanderers.
Yea this guy worked 60 hours a week. Never had a home life. 2-3 weeks high end vacations. Then back to work.Trusted his marriage to the wrong person
How do you know how many hours he worked?
@@user-vv6cb9vo7d I’m. Nurse. He’s a specialist. It frankly common the long hours
Good show and great content 🙂
there is a story of this man who was awarded 50/50 custody but he says his wife still won't allow him to visit his children. he even complained to the courts and the courts gave his ex numerous warnings and his wife still won't allow him to visit his children and the law didn't do nothing to to make his ex comply b/c she's a woman and she's a delicate little rose.
No surgeon could protect himself from this because he is busy working all the time. Men all experience vulnerability in trusting their wives.
I call bullshit. He must have understood she was a bimbo at the very least. How did they date for four years prior to the marriage and he didn’t find out about her not having a college degree? Either they had no or very little contact with her parents (red flag), or her family was in on the scam.
It is impossible to protect yourself against a wife being something she is not. Women act wholesome until they can pull the bait and switch.
A few years of dating will not tell you a thing.
If you want to be with a women, tell her you want to see what kind of wife she is going to be - over the LONG haul. You will sign the contract at 70 years old. She will run and find a new target. Hold masculine frame.
chase excellence
I like that Jonathan combines book smarts with a nice touch of redpill rather than many lawyer types that just preach about love and other bs. Had a gut feeling my recent ex was just wearing a mask and I finally acted on it and dumped her. There were other issues that doomed the relationship long term anyways. Listen to your gut!
My key takeaway, never marry.
Never marrying will definitely minimize your risk of suffering a terrible economic situation. Thank you for watching and commenting. Stay safe out there!
1:23:16 best case scenario he's going to have to watch his steps and follow the legal due process along 5 or 7 years considering that he's going out of country he's going to have to follow those statutes to and abide by those legal open windows. My projection is about 10 years
Reminder to self if I ever get engaged to have a prenuptial. Dave Ramsey also recommends this but puts a positive twist by saying it also keeps the other family from pressuring her to unjustly divorce you.
Jonathan Noble is the man
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@@jcnlaw 🙂 yes he has a really kind personality, hes not what i imagine a 'lawyer' to act like heehee 😊
Great show guys !
Don't know about his life, but as he's Korean, they have a culture known for parents putting a lot of pressure on their children to excel and achieve financial success at the cost of your own happiness. So parents could be part of it. Also, may have just wanted to prove something. Got himself a trophy wife to go along with his trophy life. People in the medical field, especially if they are in demand, can work crazy hours and part of his job might include travel due to him being specialized. Have friends and family in various fields and their schedules are crazy. Dude probably let a lot of shit go as he was getting taken care of at home by her. I think the problem is that she just didn't love him... or didn't love him enough to stop doing what she did and put him first.
Shes a Narcisist, she can't help be who she truly is, she saw her husband as her retirement plan and her 'cover' to show the world that shes a good wife. She probably had a rotation of men since high school and never planned to stop. As for the Good Doctor he did nothing wrong, he worked hard and he has every rite to wife up a trophy wife if he so chooses to, the problem is the typical modern day trophy wife nowadays is risky
He knew she was a MAXIM Mag model, normally thats a Red Flag in of itself
Great episode.
Stirling content as usual gents 👌
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So far I've only met one girl who actually took responsibility for the relationship with her baby daddy. Then again, right after that she had a long list of reasons he deserved it😂
Can someone tell me why all participants that are on the stand , aren’t on a polygraph so that metric can be taken into account in the jurors decision making process ?
In many jurisdictions, polygraphs are considered scientifically unreliable.
it should be but science is not law, theres wiggle room built into law, nothing is ever Black and White
Damn, stay strong brothers 💪
Catch 22: marry women who make at least as much as you but women only want men who make more than them
Interesting observation. True. Thanks for watching and commenting!
No accountability
Archimedes needs to get rid of the crazy.
He should ask for her to be kept in the US for the criminal activity. Ask for prosecution for dishonesty to get the restraing order. And have her classified as a flight risk if she is allowed to leave.
Just slow the prosecution until the kid is born.
Then flag the dangers she poses to the child.
If she stays hes going to get screwed even more
About the last guest 'Archimedes'... I would venture to say the unborn kid is not even his as I believe many of these type of women would have started sleeping around soon after they lose respect for their man and so in his case she might have wanted to get pregnant (with any man) in order to secure her future 'financial funding' when she decides to leave him later.
It is plausible to get marry. Just don't register with the county or state because the state is who you end marrying. up marrying.
Put a chick through school or buy her plastic surgery and she's gone ASAP.
How could the smart surgeon get fooled by his pretty wife? I think it was coach red pill who talked about how the medical system is such that only the most obedient and by the book get through it. They breed very trusting people.
He spent most of his life studying and working hard on his profession, throughout the education process there is no classes on Red Pill, its quite normal and not his fault. Government and Society would need to be reworked to prevent this from happening to other professionals.
Love Jonathan seem kind red pill grandpa
Thank you!
The law is such a racket
I couldn't write this comment when it was live but that story about the Chinese lady who got sued by her husband was actually fake they hired that model for the pictures and it actually ruined her career I can totally see it happening though