My wife is leaving me...
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- My wife is leaving me.... Jenna DeValen "Licciardo-Toivola" my wife is leaving me to pursue her dream to become a model. Now what do I do!? SHOCKING. A big life update. Find out what's going on, Why is she leaving me, how do I feel about this situation. BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!
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You are crazy couple 😅😅😅
Not supposed to put it on your eyebrows hahahah and it must be layered a lot thicker on 🤣 but a job well done
Your great if you guys need friends we are here ☺️
Send her care packages, flowers, send her things that would make her feel loved and cared for and when you can go visit her and take her out for a date each time you visit her.
I think I'll have more idea later.
Letters and poems..
Please be safe. Don’t get taken advantage of. The modeling business can be dangerous if you’re not around the right people
Leonardo your hair looks good that length! Okay, there is a lot of sex trafficking on a global level! Not to mention that things are going to be crazy around Late September or the first of November ( globally ) Seriously, please stay close by family! Forget about modeling, it’s way to dangerous!!!! Not to mention that the return of Jesus is around the corner.
Please spend as much time together as possible, because once you leave, there’s no promise that traveling back will be allowed. That’s a chance many aren’t willing to take!
@@NcScbeach1 Im sure everyone can get back to their own countries, if the next wave of korona comes. Thats how it was back in march too.
Quite stupid of you to spread fear like that.
Wenixi , I’m a realist and you may want to check out a guy from Norway on UA-cam name; Bjorn Andres Bull Hansen, who was a Psychologist turned author and Survivalist. Also, October & November in The States is a big deal because it’s election time, and either way it goes there’s chaos! Antifa ( the mob) won’t allow a good Crisis to go without action. Most people in The World are aware of the food Shortage, riots globally, and CV isn’t going anywhere. All this is a hot bed for disaster. Sorry that you feel that people that are realist are negative. The Truth is not always positive and we must be discerning and wise.
NcScbeach1 wtf
Long distance relationship tips (from doing it for 3 years):
- Sending a message before going to sleep and waking up will make the other feel special.
- We often had date nights, watching the same movie, at the same time or ordering takeaway for each other.
- Plan things that you're going to do together when you're back again.
- Write a little message for each other for every day she won't be there, and exchange them before she leaves. Only open them on the specific days. :)
- We both downloaded a mobile game and tried to beat each other to it.
Oh My God
I do all this things with my bf ksksk
Really.
My first impression, that Leonardo- YOU can be a model too - just look at your wedding video- take care of yourself, pray without ceasing, and let Jenna take assignments that only glorify God.
Something tells me that there is nothing about the modeling business that glorifies God
Much of what goes on in it is all about vanity and money ..greed
Get her a teddy bear to take with her, something she can hug, hold, kiss when shes missing you. Send her a picture of you thinking of her and a special time when you were together. Write her letters and poems in the post. Don't make her feel guilty, remember she misses you too. Don't refer to her as the 'bread winner" she's more than that. Remember...absence makes the heart grow fonder
:)
there's a bracelet that vibrates when the other person presses on it (so you can let them know that you are thinking about them) 🥰😁
cute what is it called
Where do you get them?
it is call the bond touch bracelet. just go to www.bond-touch.com
TapTap wristband 😁
Write letters not only text, make regular date connections over FaceTime or zoom
For a social distancimg relationship i recommend:
Say goodmorning and goodnight everyday;
Have dates threw facetime;
Facetime alot;
Tell eachoter about your day or how you feel;
This is what i know it probably isn't the best but i atleast gave you guys some ideas.
For jenna your are doing good by fighting for your dreams but it will be hard leaving someone you love and can't see them.
P.s. Leonardo send her cards without her knowing about how much you love her
Stay safe ❤
Hello from Portugal
You could maybe create like a “book/album” for her and like every day she gets to read a new page where maybe there’s something funny written on there or like a memory in pictures or something like that
The two months will go much faster then you realize. And when you come back your marriage will be so much stronger. You'll appreciate each other more. And you won't take time with each other for granted. Honestly i recommend all couples spend time away from each other now and then because it really does help the relationship. I know any times I've been separated from my partner and returned it just made everything so much better all around. And we also realized we don't need to spend every waking second with each other. Congrats Jenna 💚
I just finished watching Jenna's video and I am so happy for her. Jenna is very lucky to have a supportive and understanding husband like you. Hope you keep on making videos even when Jenna is not around.
Prayers for a hedge of protection around you both❣️
Send her a good morning text to wake up to. Schedule phone calls so you still make time for each other. The most important thing about long distance relationships is to have good communication and always express your true feelings. You can have Netflix dates where you watch the same movie at the same time and text about it, or even call/video call. You can send postcards.
A “Good morning, Beautiful” is always nice. Maybe send a care package. Lots of support. You seem pretty good at making her happy. Women love men who make them laugh and you are amazing at this. The time will go by quickly. You are the most adorable couple I’ve ever seen. #couplegoals. 🥰. Also, when my hubby had to leave for several months, I got these teeny tiny envelopes with little cards that went in them. I wrote a reason that I loved him on each one. It is harder than it sounds after about a dozen. Lol. She would love that. Send a few gifts in her luggage that surprise her. Send flowers. Maybe have them for her when she arrives. Chocolate strawberries. Etc. cut off a little snippet of your hair and send it with her. Lol.
I’m in a long distance relationship and from personal experience I would say that sharing with your partner the little details about your daily life makes a big difference. For instance, when I cook something special or my boyfriend cooks something really nice, we will send pictures to each other and talk about everything that we have done during the day. Something that I also really like doing is writing him a message at night after he went to sleep so that he can wake up and read something sweet and lovely in the morning. 🤍
I’m glad she is not really leaving you, Omg l’m first here.
you're a kind hearted man Leo, thank you for this.
You could always suprise her and fly out to her or if you can't do that, maybe have something delivered to her room where she will be staying. That's always a wonderful welcome suprise that will lift her spirits :)
Me and my now finance have done the long distance relationship for about 3 years now. My tips would be to text eachother throughout the day, call or video chat in the evening if possible to tell eachother about your day, and finally send small gifts periodically : ) hope this helps, best of luck to you two!
Yes! Throughout the day communication to keep each other involved. My boyfriend and I did 3 years long distance, ended up getting married and that was over 6 years ago 😊❤️
You're such an ideal husband the way you support your wife even you're apart for 2 months. Just don't pressure each other, enough communication is okey not too much hehe. And also give her some remembrance for her to bring so that she feel your presence even you're apart. Keep safe for the both of you
A suggestions about long distance is firstly to always always say good morning and good night,
pre book in FaceTime dates like say on this day at this time we are gunna eat dinner together and watch the same movie together. Also booking in times to just sit down and chat over video call. It’s means you always have something to look forward too and be excited about. Also going old school sometimes and send hand written letters, it’s cute and you can keep them for ever. And lastly write letters to each other before Jenna leaves and put them in envelopes. Title the envelopes different things like sad day, missing you, love you, hard day, remember who you are. And in each envelope put in a letter of encouragement and uplifting affirmations and confirmations etc so when your feeling those things you can open them and remind yourself of the love and support you have from husband and wife.
And always remind each other that you are worth it.
I love you guys and I think the communication you have prior to the distance is beautiful and so natural. Sending love from New Zealand 💜
3:00
Jenna: ”i know I’m gonna be okay”
Leonardo: “yeah, you gonna be alright”
Me: “with my family here beside me, my family is here to guide me”
~Raising my family - Steve Kakana 🎶
My partner works offshore and he's gone 6weeks at a time anywhere in the world. It's 6weeks gone, then 6weeks home, then 6weeks gone....you get the picture:). Our situation is a bit different bc he's on a vessel offshore in water waay far away from land, so there is no cell service. Fortunately the vessel has wifi so we can use a texting app! My best advice is to always send a goodmorning & goodnight txt (even if ur on different sleeping schedules/time zones!). Also send a few (or as many as u want or have time for) messages throughout the day sharing your lives and what ur doing/did that day. It makes the other person feel involved. Plus it's just is nice to know what the other is up to.
You guys will do great👍! At first it SUCKS and you'll miss each other so much, but honestly (in my experience) it will make you appreciate your partner & not ever take them for granted. Good luck!
You're gonna be okay, Jenna is just persuing her dreams, and she is coming back soon.
Ps1: your hair looks great leonardo, mine is curly also, but I wished it looked more like this, it's kind of the same size, but I look more like a lion😂. I've already told you this through insta but with you hair down you look a lot like a mix of romeo and Jerusalem.
Ps2: i havent watched the whole video yet, but ive used this kind of mask and it peels off removing all your face hair, so when you put it on your eyebrow, I got kinda scared. But maybe it's a different mask, so I'll go on with the video now.
A fun idea when you talk each night or whenever you talk. Say like 2 things your greatful or share a scripture that relates to your day, or feelings 💖
The title was scary because I never want you two to ever break up 🙏
I absolutely loved this video. It was so real, and sweet. I appreciate you guys, and the example of marriage you are sharing. Supporting each other's growth and career goals is so critical in a relationship, even more so when it requires change and sacrifice.
Oh shit... I really was in shock when I read this...
Nice to hear from you guys!! Hope you're well :))
Yes jajaja, me tooo
I hope she has good management during her modeling. It's a crazy world especially in the modeling world. Also be careful during pandemic. It's serious. Good luck and have fun. You guys will be fine away from each other for this short period of time !!!!!!!
Remember send gifts even homemade gifts to each other and just telling each other you love each other
God will look after ur wife on her journey x
I wish both of you just the best. Jenna is so beautiful, she sure will make it. Two month are not that long, they went by so fast! I wish you a happy, healthy and successful time.
I’m in Queensland Australia. Follow you both and your mum. You both will do amazing, such a beautiful unit. This is just a season, not forever best of luck.
Good luck and be careful sweety 😘. Also you guys need to fix the audio on your camera as the colouring isn't right..all the white is yellow. Please stay safe, love to you both from Tasmania Australia xoxo
OMG YOU SCARED ME GEEZ
Communication. When my husband and I first got together we were long distance aswell. Take the time to listen to each other, but make sure you don’t suppress your own feelings/emotions.
I've sadly been long distance for 2 years from my husband , it takes alot of patience ,love and communication, I can't stress communication enough!!! The time change is difficult , schedule a proper time u both can call each other everyday 🌹it really really helped us!! Always send sweet texts through out the day , and maybe get a calendar n count down the days until I see them again 🌹♥️🥰hope it helps .
my husband and i met on the internet about a year and half before we got married. We wrote love letters to each other, It is so special to hold a letter from your loved one when you are missing them. The letters are still here in a box in the attic. We have now been married for fifteen years x Good luck
You have a beautiful, loving, strong relationship. You have built a beautiful foundation together and you are amazing for being so supportive of her and her dream. I did long distance with my husband for 1.5 years and though it was a challenge, our relationship grew stronger. I wish you both the best! Go Jenna! ❤️👍🏻
My partner of 4 years leaves for 4 months of military training soon, and I feel like it's important to keep in mind that it's only a small amount of time in the big scheme of things, count the weeks, not the days and keep reminding yourself of the positives that will come at the end of it. 💕🌼
I’ve never been in a long term relationship, but I have been away from loved ones for a long period of time. (Six month long tour) All I can say Leonardo is leave that phone on and charged 24/7 so she can call you anytime she needs your encouragement! Whether it is 2 in the morning or 3 in the afternoon! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Just knowing she’s going on this adventure with so much love and support makes it all the better! I will keep you both in my prayers! ❤️
My opinion... Never separate yourselves... The love for each other is more precious than any other dreams.. Stay together.. move in with her... Or stay close... I know so many cases that innocent girls being abused in this industries.. Or being drugged by putting in the drinks or food... So many bad things go wrong... And for what.. Just my thoughts for you guys... ❤️
I always get a heartfelt goodnight and morning text from my best friend and that always makes my day x
You said you would be reading every comment and then I got excited but I didnt know what to say so now were just ending up with this. Hope that everything goes good and theres no problems. :))
Best of luck Jenna!!! You’re going to rock it! Not only are you pretty but you’re also so kind. Stay safe, there are some crazy people in the world, but I know you’ll be awesome!
I've never had a long distance relationship but I'd say that the little things definitely help if you can't see someone for a while. A good morning text, a random text in the middle of their day, to tell them you are thinking of them, maybe a parcel of goodies to brighten their day :)
Leonardo you look very handsome with your hair down. Jenna you are going to do amazingly in Milan. Your long distance relationship will work because you have such great chemistry. Good luck x
I signed with an agency when I was 19, be careful. Buncha wolves out there and you’re just a little fox.
I’m soo happy and excited for Jenna!!! I knew she will be a super model one day... please tell her to use your full surname so the world knows the unique surname
Glynis do you have an Instagram?
@@TAINATHEMUMOF10 no I don’t 🙈I don’t want one though and maybe that should be on my maybe list for 2021
@@GlynisMarthinussen.
That’s a shame. I was doing a huge giveaway and I wanted to give it to you because you’ve been following me for so many years.
I think your such a strong couple, this time apart will help you grow stronger individually and become more independent, you'll strengthen your relationship and have a lot of experiences to share and learn from each other. Although 2 months seems forever, it's really a short piece of your life apart. Xxx
It will all go great, you both seem to be mature and smart. Two months is nothing when there is true love, honesty and commitment.
Hey mate, I've been following your channel for a little while now and I've come to really look up to you. God has blessed you guys so much and I can't wait to see what he has for you next. PS Got any tips on growing long hair for men? God bless
I wish you guys the best. Hope all goes well with the modeling. One thing I do know things will work out the way God wants it too. Just pray for His guidance. Love your channel
You both are so much in love, you will make it 2 months, my husband and I went 7 months apart, he was in the military and was gone 7 months, he couldn't call everyday, you are blessed to call each other everyday, remember pray everyday for each other prayer is the key to get through this, God will keep you both strong. I have seen your videos since the beginning and as a fan I know you both are so much in love and you both would do anything for each other, and Jenna has a brave and good husband to support her dream❤ the thing me and my husband did is he sent me gifts through the mail, and it was so sweet like teddy bears, clothes, flowers, perfume, and I sent him packages of candy and snacks of where I was and he loved that, I also sent him pictures of me😉 and it made him happy😍🤩 also calling every night before you sleep is sweet, we used to fall asleep with each other on the phone when he did call and wake up saying hello to each other 💜
Good luck you two! you are a beautiful couple & I love seeing the both of you following your dreams! I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years & some of my tips are: facetime as often as possible, always say good morning and goodnight, write letters if you want an extra little surprise. also, if shes had a bad day order dinner from her favorite restaurant to be delivered!
Make sure you have alloted time each day to talk to each other. And do nothing tiering before that to affect that time. Also small surprises like a gift from a local shop never hurt.
Sending you both love from the UK ❤️🇬🇧 the only advice i can give is to talk as often as possible but with God by both of your sides you will be okay! ❤️
Communicate, communicate, communicate 😁. Really I can’t stress this enough. Write things down throughout the day when you’re too busy to talk so that you will remember to share the little things with each other. You both are adorable and will do great 🥰.
My advice is: face time whenever you can but at the same time try to remember that the other person is busy and sometimes will not have as much time as you have.Good morning/night texts are very important like very and sending each other photos of what are you up to is cool, it feels like you are apart of his/her day. Also sending videos or pics of things that reminded you of him/her is nice.
But again you should remind yourself that sometimes the other person will be busy or tired and not give you all the attention that u need sooo remaind yourself that this is not forever. Goood luck!
I feel this experience will be good for both of you. Jenna will gain experience and hopefully open up more career opportunities and learn independence. Leonardo will for the first time ever live alone which will be an experience in itself. 2 months will fly by and then when Jenna gain's an assignment I am sure Leonardo could meet up and "hold her bags" LOL. I wish you all the best Jenna, good on you for following a career you really like!
“Don’t you dare pull yours out you money maker”. 😂
The best comment ❤️
You guys are so sweet. I think its really great how supportive you are Leonardo :)
Please be careful. I know you're smart enough to not let anyone n that industry take advantage of you. I think ur both a wonderful CHRISTIAN COUPLE, and just trust n one another while your apart. Be safe, both of you. We'll b waiting for more videos n news from jenna on how it's going. Good luck! GOD'S speed.♥️♥️
When you leave be safe out there. God be with you both. Nice seeing you both.
Talk every day on the phone if you have a chance not to bother each other just to let each other know how much you Love one another.
This might sound a little bit crazy but it's worked for my husband and I in our 20 years of marriage.
I stay at home and he works in the oil fields here in Oklahoma.
Stay safe hugs from afar ❤
Jenna, your German is so sweet! I'm German 🇩🇪 and have a question :
Do you speak finish or English privatly?
The only advice I can give is to make sure to always keep God in the center of your marriage. Know that I'm praying for you both every day. I'm old enough to be your mom and I care a lot about you both. I wish you both nothing but happiness, success and last but certainly not least, that your relationship with God grows more and more each day. Also praying for Jenna's safety as she travels to Italy. ❤️❤️
Leonardo,I respect that your okay with letting Jenna pursue her dreams,it will be okay ,you two have a very strong bond that cannot be broken,and the love you have for each other is so beautiful,but Leonardo if I was an agent I would sign you instantly! Love your hair!!!
Best of luck to you Jenna!!! As some comments have said remember to stay safe! ❤️
Also funny how being from the US other countries have basically returned to normal! Remember to bring a mask with you where ever just to be safe!
I watched Jenna video before yours. God will be with you all through this, put Him first. Everything will be okay. Take care and be safe Jenna God bless you two 💜
Leonardo, you can send 5 cards or letters with her. Put the date on each one or the day she is to open them. By then you should have her address there and send her a letter or card each day.
y'all got this 🙂 💕
we are praying for your family.
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
please keep us updated ❤️❤️❤️
2 months is nothing it'll fly by! Yes it sucks, but we are lucky in the sense that there are ways to be able to communicate and see each other without being together!. Just think of military people being sent away from their loved ones for months at a time and not being able to face time or call their kids or families daily!. Best of luck Jenna, stay safe and have fun you got this girl!.
Unfortunately I don't any experience in long distance relationship, but in general I think the key in life and relationships is balance and communication. Don't worry too much about the covid situation, here in Milan at least it is improving and now places are reopening and we don't have to wear a mask outside anymore, but I understand that compared to your country it can seems bad.
Yes hair is a 10 out of 10. Great job! I LOVE talking on the phone with my hubby when he’s away or on his way to and from work. Sending random texts throughout the day. Or read the same book, watch same movie so you have something fun to talk about.
Leonardo you are so funny and have such a mature attitude. I've just watched Jenna's video, and there seem to be lots of really helpful suggestions from viewers on both of your channels. Sending you best wishes from Australia!
Just being able to reassure her tell her how much you love her and make that time will mean more than anything to her , because when its long distance there could be lots of insecurities and thoughts that trickle in even if you have the most faith in each other the goals to not let that spark die💜 i love you guys very much, I watch your mother as well and youve got such a beautiful family, wishing nothing but happiness and health to all of you🥰!!
Plz , if possible try to visit her once just to b assure of weather she's fine n comfortable there. Bcz u both r too young n specially ur wife is too cute n adorable . So, may God b with her during her challenging days n u being her life partner, her soulmate I personally think if u visit her surprisingly n just spend few time together u both will hv a good time 🥰 ..LOVE FROM INDIA
You can have dinner and movie nights via Facetime or Zoom. Also, have a "Formal Friday" meeting, where you clean up nice, and dress up nice for a virtual candle lit dinner together via Zoom or Facetime. Even if you both eat McDonald's, you are still making the experience special. Also you could get in a great routine of when talking on the phone, each of you both share 1 thing you did for your health, 1 thing that made you laugh, and 1 thing you will accomplish tomorrow.
I'm from Argentina and I love both of you! Everything is going to be okey!!
Firstly, you guys should watch The Mask w/Jim Carrey. Secondly, the only advice I can give for long distance time apart is to NOT actually talk everyday. Give this time apart to miss each other even more, build up the excitement to talk to each other even just the course over a few days. Give each other space to do what this distance is meant to do, Jenna is there to model, grow, and learn the ins and outs of modelling. And since Jenna will be in a place where the pandemic is much more serious, make sure you read up the rules according to that country before you make the trip. Also... I recommend that again, that you, Leonardo, take the time to learn how to cook some of Jenna's favorite dishes and yours too! With the internet you have no excuse 😛 Anyone can cook if you can follow instructions hah. Perhaps ask your dad for some tips. Hehe! Learn a new skill Leo! Something you've thought about but kept at the back burner. And for both of you, I recommend you both do something (an activity) that you yourself had wanted to do that your partner doesn't like to do OR might actually like - something new you can do together when reunited!
I'm actually kinda of against that idea.
Depends on if that is something that the Lord is ok with.
I know some people that are going through a long distance relationship at the moment, and I know it's not always easy, but I'm sure it will make your marriage much stronger.
I've never been in a relationship before, but if I had to long distance for a while, I would very much appreciate a little more effort to make me feel loved, and by that I mean, send her flowers or cards, or make some letters so she can open one each day or 'letters for when you miss me, letters for when your felling happy or sad' kinda thing.
Keep the lines of communication open. Email, text, talk. Every note and then send a letter in the post - Old school romantic 💗
Love you both and the love and support you have for each other 💗
Speak with each other every night before bed and in the morning before you start your day. Truly money is not worth being apart. Being apart makes the hearts grow fonder is a lie! It happened in my marriage. Wait until you can go together. 💝🥰😿
Wish you guys success !! Be safe. Love you ... from Brazil 🇧🇷
Love your personality, and your relationship (well imean marriage) is beautiful. You guys make this tough topic sound so cheerful! Sending so much love to you two💗
Romeo will be just like you
Your hair, your eyes, the smile
We are like clones
their features are so the same
Congratulations Jenna. I don't think you need to worry because you have a strong relationship. I just love your accents, btw Romeo really looks like you.
You two scared me so much 😭
I was about to lose a little faith in the world
Congrats!!! Im happy for you. I follow your mom as well. I enjoy her videos. You are blessed with an awesome family.
My boyfriend and I 8 months not seeing each other because of covid19 but we still love each other❤
She is courageous and so are you... wish you a safe and loving life ahead
When he asked her to show us the mask my heart melted :) such a cute couple
A) This was clickbait. B) Jenna is beautiful and I called it a long time ago that she should be a model. Go to NY! Don't let anything hold you back Jenna!
It will be difficult for both of you being apart, but pray every day for each other, absence makes the heart grow fonder,I hope it will make both of you stronger and more thankful for each other.P.S wrote love letter to each other.
Hair looks great!You really look like your brothers now!
I am so happy for Jenna! You guys are so blessed and strong and I believe that God will be with both of you and keep you safe! But I just don’t get it... didn’t you move? Or this is an old video.. 😂🤦♀️ sorry if I sound dumb
Text message, phone calls and love letters. Stay connected. Continue to love each other no matter distances. Build each other up. Pray for one another everyday. 🙏🙏
MY HEART JUST ABOUT STOPPED READING THE TITLE ...2 months will fly by, just stay busy and talk everyday!