Love this podcast. I love how Brett was able to speak truthfully yet still protect the inner details about his marriage. Although the way they got married was in an unorthodox way, we must normalize healthy & unproblematic dynamics. I perceived this interview to be more of trying to get insight of the issues/problems, which I understand why… but he reiterated more than once that they didn’t have those issues.
It was really nice seeing Brett in a different setting after watching him on Love Is Blind. It shows a different side of him and a different perspective of the show. Great show guys, as always!
Jalon, that transition towards the end was beautiful! Brett seems to be a naturally reserved guy and you met him where he was for him to be more expressive.
I really respect Brett and all the guys on this show. They asked great questions and Brett always seems so genuine and definitely very mature answers. I also appreciated how clean (meaning not so much cussing) the discussion was. Blessups 🙏🏽💕
As an educator, there is appropriate and professional contact. Some children need the comfort of a hug. However, as a teacher, I always maintain the physical, appropriate distance... I believe the hair takedown was inappropriate, but not malicious... but caring for children is nuanced...
Great episode! This showed the growth of your interviewing skills. I love when you ask a personal question then answer it yourself to demonstrate that it’s okay to be vulnerable in this space. Then you allow the guest to answer. There were at least two questions in the beginning yall didn’t fully let him reply to. Allow the guest to think. It’s okay to have that silence. It allows for the guest to be a little more thoughtful and insightful with their response. Proud of yall!
I agree! I felt like with this interview it almost seemed like they were trying to dissuade him from his opinions or stance, like they have preconceived feelings about his process. I respect their takes but this one started to feel like they were pushing him to say something he didn’t mean or want to at times (primarily duke and that’s rare for him to do that!)
Why are you all pressing this man to say something negative about his marriage? The “Oooh it has to be something”. The one in the red hat is really reaching. It had my attention up until that point. Chill…they’re good. Smh✌🏽
Yes! I was thinking the same thing, this podcast felt really..superficial and I’ve never felt that way before about the way they interview guests or handle conversations. It felt like they were trying to overpower the conversation a lot in the beginning. I actually haven’t finished the video because it feels like they continue this throughout the episode, like they’re reaching to have this man speak negative about his marriage, the experience, etc. it made me uncomfortable and the only reason I felt okay (barely) was because Brett handled it maturely and navigated the switch ups really well but it felt..like low key they were dissing on him..I don’t want this to come off rude about N&N because I love them and their takes on almost every single topic for 2 years but this one just felt like a miss to me..
I'm so blown away by this podcast ❤. It's my first time listening to you guys. So real, so beautiful, so mature and all of the good things. I love you all 😊😊
Goood episode! Though ya'll wanted to stomp Brett soooo bad. LOL! Why do men and women project on others so much? Relatively unproblematic unions do exist. We hear and experience enough of the opposite. Him and Tiff are fortunate to have found what they feel is a worth while match. It helps that they both seem like strong individual characters and respect the other verses trying to change them for their own comfort. And clearly they each weren't for everybody or they wouldn't have taken this avenue. God bless them! 🙏🏾
Absolutely. I and my husband met on line. And what stood out was our authenticity and comfort in it. Life is going to life, but the steadiness lies in knowing we are who we said we are.
The ending was really good. On community. Need to put myself in spaces as I love to engage with different people but have somehow become this recluse surrounded by my 4 children and I realise that is not sustainable as they have their own friends. Loneliness is not nice.
I’m a female teacher , I saw the post and I feel it was inappropriate but it was more to it that was left out of your scenario. Watch the clip both of them while on the show and then make your assessment.
Ok so I have a bit of a longer dialogue with this one. I like Brent! He has a very safe warm energy ! Like if I had a purse with 10k cash I would leave it by him and go run errands ! I would not think twice about him taking anything lol P.S this goes for all of you ! However I feel like he was a bit reserved in opinion! Apart of me gets it because I know he has to cover his wife ! However there were other topics I feel he was overly conscious on! Like the teacher question he was a little short ! Even when initially asked about Clay! Y’all did a good job at keeping good questions coming ! Especially Jalon ! But that’s apart of the job , some ppl personalities will make it a lil tougher to get in there ! Others will talk so much they do the job for you lol ! At the end it all came together, he showed more of his authenticity! Now with all that being said, please get Tony Gaskins on ! His personality will mesh beautifully with y’all’s ! He’s super opinionated and he will do so good with DEM da rules lol ! Keep goin y’all 🎉🤘🏾
“ Teachers should not be interacting with Students on an intimate level” I do agree with this! I want to push further 😏 does that apply to both genders? Male teachers to male student, female teacher to male student, female teacher to female student? Male teacher to female students? Or is there some wiggle room there? Also does it apply to conversations that happen between student and teacher? I.e. student sharing information about home, teacher giving input? What counts as interacting on an intimate level as a teacher or education professional? ✌🏾🥃🥰
It would have been nice to hear more about Brett’s career, upbringing, how his parents marriage shaped the good good man he is instead of reverting back to LIB constantly or how mature he is for being a caring and confident husband (which we already know)
I wish he was a little more open/vulnerable & didn’t answer the questions as broadly. I know that comes from media training & respecting his marriage in a way, but he definitely played on words.
Wait…what?? I don’t understand why “People” always have to dig, poke, and look for negative energy when there is none. Clearly they are good, and happy. Omg🙄
I don’t think anyone was looking for negative energy, just open and honest dialogue people can learn from. All the guys have been honest about their relationship not being perfect and I think they were hoping for a little more transparency especially considering he reviews things before he jumps in. He seemed very guarded even though he has seen the show before. People learn a lot from people being giving too much away. He did mention that he’s been without a community of guys and alone before his marriage so it makes sense that he was guarded, but them wanting him to share wasn’t “them wanting to hear something negative” it seemed more like their used to people being a little more transparent. No harm, no foul. He seemed more comfortable at the end and freer. And I agree that Jalon did very well. Maybe they well stay in touch
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The kids not hugging their teachers is a bit much. I’m a female educator so I get my male colleagues have it harder but a quick hug, some kids need that. That’s much. People out here want teachers to carry guns, that’s much but a hug especially when initiated by a student is ok. Come on, everything shouldn’t be evil…I’m sad for this world. I’m all about professional boundaries, hair braiding no, I wouldn’t do it and I’m a woman. But to reject a hug from a student is much.
The teacher thing is inappropriate. The term is grooming. He knows what he was doing thats why he recorded it on live for attention. Unprofessional. Why are you on love and doing your hair at work? Let alone crossing physical boundaries with children?
Is love blind. And ending up standing on the wall. This woman your idea. I am in love with him. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. Issue this is how this goes now. 6 pence black bird pie. Hey diddle diddle. You all are saying cool.
Y’all are making the teacher and student situation deeper than what it is. You’re looking at from the view point of mischievous men. It shows that you all don’t coach or interact with kids.
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcast and I can completely understand that part. I’m speaking to the point yall made about how he had to coerce or groom the kids to take his hair down. Coaching kids, i can tell you those kids offered. Would it be this much controversy around this topic if they were taking down a woman’s braids ?
I’m a cosmetologist and it is intimate. Our clients are closer to us than their own spouses because touching someone for 30min-2hrs is always intimate. I pray you don’t have children.
@@WilliamsPinchi didn’t say it wasn’t intimate. Touching anybody in general is intimate. However there are levels to intimacy. Being a person that coach kids, u can say there’s a 90% chance those kids asked to take his hair down. The fact that it was done on live shows how it wasn’t done with ill-intent. Don’t pray negatively over my life. I pray that whatever you pray negatively over me is returned back to you tenfold.
Cosmetologist, it IS intimate. There’s a reason people tell their stylists and barbers everything, because touching for an hour is intimate. Stop being obtuse.
Isn’t it strange how black men are asked if their preference is a black woman (their OWN) whereas a white man would NEVER be asked that question. I think it’s shameful on our black culture that our black men are even asked that question but due to their ‘out of office’ activities, I suppose the question needs to be asked 🤷🏽♀️
Is love blind. And ending up standing on the wall. This woman your idea. I am in love with him. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. Issue this is how this goes now. 6 pence black bird pie. Hey diddle diddle. You all are saying cool.
Brett exemplifies emotional intelligence and awareness. Thanks for this interview guys.
You can tell Brett is a real good man‼️‼️‼️
Great guy! 🥃🥃🥃
Y’all have BRETT on N&N?????? OMG. I love y’all 10x more now. I LOVE Brett and Tiffany.
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Love this podcast. I love how Brett was able to speak truthfully yet still protect the inner details about his marriage. Although the way they got married was in an unorthodox way, we must normalize healthy & unproblematic dynamics.
I perceived this interview to be more of trying to get insight of the issues/problems, which I understand why… but he reiterated more than once that they didn’t have those issues.
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I'm here for Tiffany's husband Brett, absolutely top tier man, even the guys on this podcast seem surprised by his excellence.
It was really nice seeing Brett in a different setting after watching him on Love Is Blind. It shows a different side of him and a different perspective of the show. Great show guys, as always!
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This is why I love y’all! Not only are y’all brilliant but y’all recognize when God is working in someone (referring to Brett’s intuition)!
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Jalon, that transition towards the end was beautiful! Brett seems to be a naturally reserved guy and you met him where he was for him to be more expressive.
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I really respect Brett and all the guys on this show. They asked great questions and Brett always seems so genuine and definitely very mature answers. I also appreciated how clean (meaning not so much cussing) the discussion was. Blessups 🙏🏽💕
Loved that Brett was a guest! Loved the questions jalon asked as well I wished they tapped more into those type of questions versus the others
As an educator, there is appropriate and professional contact. Some children need the comfort of a hug. However, as a teacher, I always maintain the physical, appropriate distance... I believe the hair takedown was inappropriate, but not malicious... but caring for children is nuanced...
I totally agree with you
“Love in Reverse” is sooooo spot on!!
Agree. They should have named it that instead
Brett definitely have media training😂😂
He works for Nike so I'm sure he's been trained well.
Great episode! This showed the growth of your interviewing skills. I love when you ask a personal question then answer it yourself to demonstrate that it’s okay to be vulnerable in this space. Then you allow the guest to answer. There were at least two questions in the beginning yall didn’t fully let him reply to. Allow the guest to think. It’s okay to have that silence. It allows for the guest to be a little more thoughtful and insightful with their response. Proud of yall!
I agree! I felt like with this interview it almost seemed like they were trying to dissuade him from his opinions or stance, like they have preconceived feelings about his process. I respect their takes but this one started to feel like they were pushing him to say something he didn’t mean or want to at times (primarily duke and that’s rare for him to do that!)
Brett is a real class act, I loved watching him and Tiffany’s relationship evolve. Much love and prosperity to them in their marriage ❤❤❤
Class act! 🥃🥃🥃
Such well conducted conversation… love Brett
Sooo great that you have Brett on the show. Solid all around. Love this podcast
#NANGANG 🥃🥃🥃
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Great interview❤❤❤Brett & Tiffany many blessings
Why are you all pressing this man to say something negative about his marriage? The
“Oooh it has to be something”. The one in the red hat is really reaching. It had my attention up until that point. Chill…they’re good. Smh✌🏽
Exactly. It made me upset from the beginning. Brett would say something and then one of them would say “but…”. It’s ridiculous
Desperate for a viral clip.
Yes! I was thinking the same thing, this podcast felt really..superficial and I’ve never felt that way before about the way they interview guests or handle conversations. It felt like they were trying to overpower the conversation a lot in the beginning. I actually haven’t finished the video because it feels like they continue this throughout the episode, like they’re reaching to have this man speak negative about his marriage, the experience, etc. it made me uncomfortable and the only reason I felt okay (barely) was because Brett handled it maturely and navigated the switch ups really well but it felt..like low key they were dissing on him..I don’t want this to come off rude about N&N because I love them and their takes on almost every single topic for 2 years but this one just felt like a miss to me..
@@animoni7I totally agree. Like they are losing sight of grown mature conversations for the sake of wanting something to put on reels
Exactly! Especially who fixes the situation in disagreements. We watched Tiff totally fall asleep on this man in the pods
Okay yall ate with this one ☝🏾
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One of my favorite episodes this year ❤
Thank you!! 🥃🥃🥃
This is why I love this show I was hoping you guys got him the show
Heard you!!! 🥃🥃🥃
Great conversation love Brett ❤
I'm so blown away by this podcast ❤. It's my first time listening to you guys. So real, so beautiful, so mature and all of the good things. I love you all 😊😊
A men’s conference hosted by you all is super dope and much needed !!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amazing episode and great questions guys! Loved this one and as always it was Nice and Neat 👌🏾
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Goood episode! Though ya'll wanted to stomp Brett soooo bad. LOL! Why do men and women project on others so much? Relatively unproblematic unions do exist. We hear and experience enough of the opposite. Him and Tiff are fortunate to have found what they feel is a worth while match. It helps that they both seem like strong individual characters and respect the other verses trying to change them for their own comfort. And clearly they each weren't for everybody or they wouldn't have taken this avenue. God bless them! 🙏🏾
Duke is DEFINITELY a skeptic 😂
Absolutely. I and my husband met on line. And what stood out was our authenticity and comfort in it. Life is going to life, but the steadiness lies in knowing we are who we said we are.
This was an amazing conversation. I'm surprised it's not doing bigger numbers. 🥃🥃
Omg so dope that you guys have Brett on. I can’t wait to watch!
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The ending was really good. On community. Need to put myself in spaces as I love to engage with different people but have somehow become this recluse surrounded by my 4 children and I realise that is not sustainable as they have their own friends. Loneliness is not nice.
Omg😍😍😍 i was waiting to you guys to invite Brett or Cameron in my favorite podcast ♥️♥️♥️
Let’s get Cameron on NEXT! 🥃🥃🥃
I’m a female teacher , I saw the post and I feel it was inappropriate but it was more to it that was left out of your scenario. Watch the clip both of them while on the show and then make your assessment.
Love this!!
I knew it was going to be good when I saw Big Brett😂❤
Not yall getting Brett!!! 🎉
Brett is on a different maturity level than the rest of these guys. Good interview though
I wished I could like this 100 times.😊. Some of the questions were not necessarily. Bret was so mature with his answers. Some were cool, tho.
Ok so I have a bit of a longer dialogue with this one. I like Brent! He has a very safe warm energy ! Like if I had a purse with 10k cash I would leave it by him and go run errands ! I would not think twice about him taking anything lol P.S this goes for all of you ! However I feel like he was a bit reserved in opinion! Apart of me gets it because I know he has to cover his wife ! However there were other topics I feel he was overly conscious on! Like the teacher question he was a little short ! Even when initially asked about Clay! Y’all did a good job at keeping good questions coming ! Especially Jalon ! But that’s apart of the job , some ppl personalities will make it a lil tougher to get in there ! Others will talk so much they do the job for you lol ! At the end it all came together, he showed more of his authenticity! Now with all that being said, please get Tony Gaskins on ! His personality will mesh beautifully with y’all’s ! He’s super opinionated and he will do so good with DEM da rules lol ! Keep goin y’all 🎉🤘🏾
Tony Gaskins on here would be crazyyyy 😭 cause Tony don’t play lmao
And, I agree! Brett is very reserved, however he handled this conversation gracefully.
After watching this entire interview…. Tiffanyyyy I get it girl! 🫶🏾Congratulationsssss *cries in Tyrese* Lol
Great conversation gentleman 🎉
🧐 Brett dimples be dimpling
I know hey 🥰
“ Teachers should not be interacting with Students on an intimate level” I do agree with this! I want to push further 😏 does that apply to both genders? Male teachers to male student, female teacher to male student, female teacher to female student? Male teacher to female students? Or is there some wiggle room there? Also does it apply to conversations that happen between student and teacher? I.e. student sharing information about home, teacher giving input? What counts as interacting on an intimate level as a teacher or education professional? ✌🏾🥃🥰
It applies to both genders
It would have been nice to hear more about Brett’s career, upbringing, how his parents marriage shaped the good good man he is instead of reverting back to LIB constantly or how mature he is for being a caring and confident husband (which we already know)
Exactly!! They stayed on the surface 😅
Good episode!
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59:30🎉
He questioned himself cause he wasn’t ready 😂😂
Yup
What’s the link for Mens Con information
I know that’s right !!!!! You guys don’t miss
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Where’s the link for Men’s Con?
Not the media training 😂😂
I think all the main cast get media training at some point. Seems like it to me
You guys should bring Clay on here, I think it may actually be a good real conversation
Agree. When clay isn't being fake for the cameras he gives interesting perspective. He might not since they said he went on the show for clout though
I wish he was a little more open/vulnerable & didn’t answer the questions as broadly. I know that comes from media training & respecting his marriage in a way,
but he definitely played on words.
Wait…what?? I don’t understand why “People” always have to dig, poke, and look for negative energy when there is none. Clearly they are good, and happy. Omg🙄
@@chancarter3440exactly. They are a happy couple who know how to handle disagreements and move on and be happy
I don’t think anyone was looking for negative energy, just open and honest dialogue people can learn from. All the guys have been honest about their relationship not being perfect and I think they were hoping for a little more transparency especially considering he reviews things before he jumps in. He seemed very guarded even though he has seen the show before. People learn a lot from people being giving too much away. He did mention that he’s been without a community of guys and alone before his marriage so it makes sense that he was guarded, but them wanting him to share wasn’t “them wanting to hear something negative” it seemed more like their used to people being a little more transparent. No harm, no foul. He seemed more comfortable at the end and freer. And I agree that Jalon did very well. Maybe they well stay in touch
It was fine, he did well and protecting his image is best
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dopeeeeeeeeeee
The kids not hugging their teachers is a bit much. I’m a female educator so I get my male colleagues have it harder but a quick hug, some kids need that. That’s much. People out here want teachers to carry guns, that’s much but a hug especially when initiated by a student is ok. Come on, everything shouldn’t be evil…I’m sad for this world. I’m all about professional boundaries, hair braiding no, I wouldn’t do it and I’m a woman. But to reject a hug from a student is much.
Brett didn’t answer the question about the braids lol
The teacher thing is inappropriate. The term is grooming. He knows what he was doing thats why he recorded it on live for attention.
Unprofessional. Why are you on love and doing your hair at work? Let alone crossing physical boundaries with children?
Not all the new spots lol that’s a sacrifice 😊
Is love blind. And ending up standing on the wall. This woman your idea. I am in love with him. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. Issue this is how this goes now. 6 pence black bird pie. Hey diddle diddle. You all are saying cool.
Y’all are making the teacher and student situation deeper than what it is. You’re looking at from the view point of mischievous men. It shows that you all don’t coach or interact with kids.
Professional boundaries is where we stand 🥃🥃🥃
@@NiceAndNeatThePodcast and I can completely understand that part. I’m speaking to the point yall made about how he had to coerce or groom the kids to take his hair down. Coaching kids, i can tell you those kids offered.
Would it be this much controversy around this topic if they were taking down a woman’s braids ?
I’m a cosmetologist and it is intimate. Our clients are closer to us than their own spouses because touching someone for 30min-2hrs is always intimate. I pray you don’t have children.
@@WilliamsPinchi didn’t say it wasn’t intimate. Touching anybody in general is intimate. However there are levels to intimacy. Being a person that coach kids, u can say there’s a 90% chance those kids asked to take his hair down. The fact that it was done on live shows how it wasn’t done with ill-intent.
Don’t pray negatively over my life. I pray that whatever you pray negatively over me is returned back to you tenfold.
It was revealed that the teacher was trying to have an intimate relationship with one of his students. Please go do your research.
4 minutes in: Common Sense….. not to speak badly about anyone.
The braiding is not intimate wow people always take people hair out
It’s inappropriate for students to do favors for teachers
Cosmetologist, it IS intimate. There’s a reason people tell their stylists and barbers everything, because touching for an hour is intimate. Stop being obtuse.
@@WilliamsPinch you stop being obtuse this wasn’t cosmetology
Isn’t it strange how black men are asked if their preference is a black woman (their OWN) whereas a white man would NEVER be asked that question. I think it’s shameful on our black culture that our black men are even asked that question but due to their ‘out of office’ activities, I suppose the question needs to be asked 🤷🏽♀️
Agree. That's embarrassing. But two of them are with nonblack women so I guess that's why they asked.
Who is Trevor again ?
Is love blind. And ending up standing on the wall. This woman your idea. I am in love with him. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. Issue this is how this goes now. 6 pence black bird pie. Hey diddle diddle. You all are saying cool.