I literally shed a tear with the first episode. I understand the daughter point but mama was broken because she was really trying to tell her. I really believed her when she said she brought her over her father’s home many times.
1st case, her resentment toward her mom is blinding her from believing anything her mom says. You can tell her mom is trying so hard to explain to her that she has done the absolute best she could and has tried to tell her the truth. And everything her mama says just goes over her head. Hopefully they can build that relationship back up now that she knows her mama wasn't lying to her.
Why is no one criticising Mr Long for his absolute disregard for his daughter? Never making the effort to even try to get to know her or try and get confirmation as whether she was his daughter or not. The daughter is full of resentment and this definitely clouded her ability to see her Mom’s efforts or pain. I hope they can forgive and move forward.
The mother in the first case is breaking my heart. She is really trying to help her daughter and her daughter is so fixated on the mistake her mother made years ago.
Who knows if the “lies” she says she was told are even true. Her mother was 2/2 telling the truth and the daughter was 0/2 second guessing her. Seems to me like the mother always knew and the daughter just didn’t wanna hear it because of her resentment
2nd case got me in fountain of tears, thank God was what I said. I love how articulate they both were and also admired their faith. That baby boy is a miracle child, praying for God’s protection upon this family 🙏🏽
The first case the young lady were so nasty to her mother. She doesn't know what her mom went through. I am so happy for the Bakers,it was nothing but the Grace of God that they have a beautiful son,God Bless you all!!!
First case: YOU owe your mother an apology. She DID NOT deserve the disrespect. Judge Lake, you should not have allowed her to do her mom like that either. NO ONE WAS LISTENING to mama
We didn’t see how the mother treated her growing up. We don’t know what going through the daughters mind. It’s easy to judge when we don’t see what was going on behind the cameras. The daughter was told multiple different names by her mom and her mom was dismissing her feelings. The daughter was trying to explain how not having her real father affected her but her mom kept saying “you had a dad he may not have been your real dad but he was there” basically dismissing her feelings. I grew up knowing who my father was but not having him around and that alone made me resentful towards my mom and my grandparents because I wanted my father. But what I’m trying to say is The child in you, who longed for a father, comes out when faced with the possibility that you may or may not have found your father. She has a right to be upset. I definitely think she should have tried to be nicer but the child in her, just wants to yell and cry and find her daddy.
I respect your view, but her mother cares nothing about her feelings. Unless they learn to communicate and her mother starts being honest with her, then their relationship will continue to deteriorate until the state of beyond repair.
I am so happy for the husband that had the vasectomy and now he finds out that he’s had a child. I must say very well spoken very clear very positive. I love this guy. I don’t know him from Adam anyway, the wife is very very lucky and I hope they stay together forever.
Exactly. She sent the picture to him and told him he was the father. He obviously lived next door to her parents. So she was visiting her parents and then going to his house. He never asked about the daughter in those visits. He never asked her parents for her address or her information. Even when it was announced he was the father, he wasn’t that concerned. Judge lake had to tell him to hug her. The daughter was 35 and a mother and grandmother.
Ms. Robinson is the grown child we all pray NOT to have. She is so disrespectful. So entitled. And totally disregards the fact that her mom did the best she could to raise her based on what she had. Shameful.
First case, the daughter is so heartless towards her mom. Geesh 🤮 She sits on a high throne pedestal judging her mom and throwing stones at her, and her mom is in so much pain.
Yeah usually I believe the kids but the Mom's story makes more sense, including the daughter's level of personal success. The Mom joined the army and had her daughter raised in a 2 parent home with her grandparents. Once she had that career she stayed in her daughter's life. She gave good reason at the time for not being able to contact the father who she had to speak to in secret and who was ready to wash his hands of the situation. This is a woman who made a mistake and did everything in her power to undo it to me.
@@eve3363The daughter was with her parents. When you’re in the Military, you can’t take your child with you. If their is no spouse, everyone leaves their child with their parents to raise. The mother said that she gave her daughter everything that she wanted and needed. The mother said that Mr Long and his family lived next door. She sent him the picture and told him he was father. When she went back to her parents. She took the daughter to his family. Sent they lived next door to her parents. Mr long didn’t want to be bothered. He could have asked her parents. He never did
I love how the first woman has this idealized version of the perfect father. I wish I had NOT had a father in my life. There is NO guarantee you will have dream daddy in your life. If whoever her father is, was a great daddy that would be there for her, he would have been there for her no matter what. She's too old to be carrying on like this about her "daddy."
My biological father was NOT good. Things I carry with me to this day! I can’t imagine what it must feel like to have had a dream dad. How my life would have turned out. I always wished that he wasn’t even in my life at allllll. And I’m 40 just this past week and I wonder if I will ever know.
Yeah and what this one got is either cynical "I don't remember" like trained by a lawyer, or plain slow-minded. The judge even had to tell him to step down and hug his daughter. As her mother had taken her to him so many times and gave the child at 10yo the name and showed him to her by visiting, I think this super bright little girl chose NOT to believe this guy who looked like her, whose sister she resembled was mot her father because of something she perceived as not so bright in him.
@@fayjones9150Exactly. My biological father was married to my mother. Lived right in the house with me. Never hugged me in my life and never said I love you. Never took me anywhere and never was at anything. So I can’t understand them crying and saying everyone else dad was there with there with their kids. Or I wished I could talk to a dad. You grow up and get over it
I hope to God that the lady from the first case has came to this video and read all the comments about how badly she is treating her mother. Talk about ungrateful and tone deaf. I'm sure that I'm not the only one watching this that would give anything just to say "I love you" to their own mother. It's painful to see grown people treating their mother's so badly, when many of us don't have one anymore. 😢
In the first case she sat up there and called her mother a liar, she was being every bit of disrespectful. Her mother told her from the jump even in the last episode that she knew exactly who her father was. She told her immediately that man was not her father and that a man named Mr. Long was. I personally don’t believe she found out at 10 years old, I believe that’s when she understood exactly what it meant. And she was in her 30’s she was just being mean
Absolutely. I feel like the Judge allowed her to disrespect her mother too. Like HELLO she's been telling her who her father is. The daughter owes her mother an apology. I felt so bad for the mother. She DID NOT deserve that.
The first young lady should be ashamed of herself for how she treated her mother and talked to her like that in front of strangers on tv…. She was so fixated on finding a male figure & blaming her mother for being “promiscuous” that she failed to realize her own behavior and it’s effect.
1st Case: My heart broke for the mama, she was really trying & the daughter was just SO bitter & mean to her. Hopefully they have a better relationship now so she doesn’t have to regret how she treated her mom.
Case 2: it's the early hours of the morning here, and somebody is cutting onions in my bedroom. I was seriously moved when husband and wife held each other and cried tears of joy together. May The Most High continue to grace them.
No obviously the mother doesn’t allow her daughter to vent or get her emotions across and is dismissive. Like most black mothers are. Y’all gotta stop acting like y’all didn’t see it. This was about her and her mother didn’t put in the foot work for her to be around or know her father.
@@nageeyounger5290don't be racist or stereotypical, prejudice, or negative. Honestly you need to check yourself and probably get off of your high horse because no one's perfect and many many people of this world fall short. Mother, father, black, white. Doing wrong has no color or gender. Accountability and honesty is important.
Case 1: The mother vindicated herself, in my opinion. She was certain that Mr Long was her daughter's father. I believed her that she had been telling her daughter the truth from the beginning. I wish them all every happiness.
It really pisses me off when women don’t know who the father of their child is and they have the AUDACITY to say “you should step up because it COULD be yours” 🙄😒
@@dontworry8724 People stay for many reasons. Cheating is rampant. More than 60 percent of people surveyed admit to cheating, but their spouse or significant other never hears about it. We judge cheating way too harshly, until it happens to you.
First off he lying he said when I got the 1st picture means brother you got the other 7 or 8 and this daughter is disrespectful and how dare she discredit her for her upbringing this is sad
Exactly! He was not interested in being a father. She took her daughter back home to see her parents and went to Mr long house. He seen the daughter and was not interested. He never asked her parents for information. Even when he was told he was the father. He still wasn’t concerned. Judge lake had to tell him to hug her. The daughter is 35 and a Mother and a grandmother. So she was a teen mom and her daughter is a teen mom as well.
The first daughter is the most narcissistic woman ever. Anytime anyone says that's stuff you give to me, I haven't asked for it. " the more disgusting ungrateful thing someone can say
First case I understand the daughter wants to know who her father is but as a grown woman she is too disrespectful to her mom. She is the true definition of hurt people hurt people.
@BLVCK I.V.I the mother wouldn't stop talking long enough to hear her daughter. I'm glad the daughter finally stood for herself. She probably felt invisible and unheard growing up. There are consequences when you deny your child access to a parent.
A child can’t have too much love - I agree wholeheartedly. Knowing that someone who doesn’t need to be in your life but wants to be? That is absolutely precious
First case .. mother is so innocent looking .. daughter need not to be so tough on her mother ..mother is sincere caring person. I really feel for her .😍.. second case ..I was tense for that couple .. happy to hear the result.😅
@eve3363 Why? That lady told her who her dad was as a child. She's the one kept believing otherwise. Her mom was telling her on the last episode as well but she insisted on testing that other man🤦🏾♀️
It's so sad 😞, I did not know my father I was almost 20 years old, I'm in my 50s now and we don't communicate much. My father hop off with his side woman leaving his wife which is my mother, leaving her to struggle and suffer wit us, so I know it's not easy growing without a father but it does now give you the rights to speak to your mother like that !
Exactly. My father was married to my mother. He was in the home. Never spent time with me. Never said I love you and never hugged me. Never attended anything with me. My mom struggled and took care of us. She was mom and dad. I can’t relate to the daughter. She is 35 years old and a mother and a grandmother There are MANY people without fathers. She makes it’s like the 30’s or th3 40’s. Like it’s shameful. Many people don’t have a father in their lives.
I remember the first case now there back to test this man. I can kinda understand why she is mad at her mother but her mother seems upfront regardless she shouldn't disrespect her mother like that. I've known my dad my whole life but he's never had nothing to do with me you know that's not my mom's fault my mom raised me and took good care of me she shouldn't treat her mother that way.
Exactly!!! She talked about how she was straight A in high school and an athlete. The daughter is 35 and a mother AND a GRANDMOTHER. She need to take responsibility for herself and her own actions As well when you join the Military young. Every woman leaves their child with their parents. You can’t take your child with you in the Military. She was in the care of my grandmother and grandfather. She was cared for and taken care of. She still was a teen mom, she is 35 years old. Her daughter is a teen mom as well. Since she is a grandmother with grand kids
But I thought she never told her? That daughter in the 1st case resents her mother so much…. She has to learn to forgive her mom so she won’t grow bitter against everyone else in her life.
If she's 32 and she won't let her mother see her grandchildren and GREAT grandchildren, and she had her 1st child when she was 18(as she said), she has a 14 yo child with a child????
That daughter does not have any respect for her mother and her mother has been telling her all the time who her father is but she refuses to listen but choose to go and test whom she feels is her dad
Case 3: Toxic relationship. She knew that he wasn't the father and she didn't seem to care. She let him sign for her to carry another man's seed. That relationship has run its course. I disagree with Judge Lake on this one. He needs to move on and let her go to the child's real father.
2nd case was a wonderful ending. God works in mysterious ways. I'm so happy that God has shown he can still work on that 1% chance ❤️ may they get counseling and have a relationship stronger than ever
He need to step away and let that man raise his child. The judge always tells a man to stay in a child's life when he has a bond with the child. That should not be her or his job to tell him this.
I was looking for a comment like this. When he said he would be done with the relationship, it's almost like they started guilting him into feeling otherwise. Like huhh?! That choice would be a consequence of her actions & he wouldn't be wrong. She needs to make better decisions for the sake of those children.
@@valeedadavidson678 it wasn’t the fact that she needed her daddy. She is too old to be acting like a little teenage girl. Have some grown woman about how you approach the situation ya know?
I'll only comment on the last case: Mr Thomas needs to go to court and get his name off the birth certificate so the biological father can put his name on it and be recognized as the 'legal father' and all the responsibilities that go with that - what he does about his relationship with her after that is a whole 'nother story -
In her defense, when I had questionable symptoms and took a pregnancy test, after 7 years of trying with no results and pushing 40 years old. When it came back positive, the first thing I did was research what would cause a false positive (there is nothing good). My sister died of ovarian cancer, so I assumed that I must have it as well, and spent the week waiting for a gyno/ob appt just assuming I was going to die. When I finally got to the dr, I discovered I was 13 weeks pregnant! I literally said, "I'm not dying?" and the dr looked at me like I had two heads. I went home and told my husband I was pregnant...I told him 13 weeks...he asked, "How the heck did you get 13 weeks pregnant and not know?" I told him I didn't know!!
In the 3rd case I agree anyone can step up and show love to this cild however I need this judge to encourage these wayward women to connect to the biological fathers of these children and allow them to step up!!!
That and make them take accountability for their actions instead of giving them a pass cause they are women with children smh the judge need to go in on them just as much as she do with the men it takes two you can't get yourself pregnant
Second case .. the family went through all that because he didn't go back for the second appointment ... Then when the doctors says why he needs to go for the second app...he then TELLS the doctor what the second app is for .!! Love the way that doctor put him right about the second app... Had he'd gone he would of known his tube grew back!! But noooo..... let's just accuse the wife and cause nothing but problems in the marriage ... But oh dear 'Mr know all' didn't know all after all ! That's what you get for being a know all in the first place!
If the lady was as well questioning the paternity...don't think it was all on him . And a lot of people are ignorant when it comes to vasectomy process .......it should be well explained in the hospital the first time ..make sure the patient has all the information and what is needed from them .
Last case: these two are so well spoken. No screaming even though it’s clear they’re emotional. They sound educated and respectful of each other, even though there is upset on both sides
With the second case It reminds me of my Dad in a way however my dad got a reversal done after 17 years of having a vasectomy. He got it done for his (now ex) wife who was my age at 23 then, but they never got pregnant. So when they divorced my dad slept with other women, he didn't think he could conceive until he did. So now here I am as the oldest with a baby brother that is a lil over 24 years younger than me! Things work in mysterious ways and God does miracles. My dad is still single (he's better off that way in my opinion), and co-parenting with my brother's mother really well. I am proud of him.
38.05 him : "I stepped up because there was a 50% chance the baby was mine" Her : " As he should". My dear woman, you know FULL well that ALL THE MONEY INVESTED on YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE REIMBURSED TO HIM SHOULD HE NOT BE YOUR child's father, so just try having the decency to KEEP IT SHUT. Conversely, any father IS Legally obliged to pay the arrears when he is found to be the biological father.
the first case I feel exactly how she feels some mothers don’t understand the pain and hurt e comes from their mistakes but to be an adult now with daughters of my own knowing exactly who their fathers is and yet and still he refuses to be apart of her life i’m learning to forgive my mom she has yet to disclose who my dad is and im 25 years old ive just learned to keep going
Actually the first episode the mother told her who the father was but the daughter thought it was someone else, she didn’t want to believe her mother. The daughter was the issue.
@@misskb2363 daughter was definitely the issue. She’s a woman child no telling why though but she had no anger towards the father who wasn’t there all that time either
once again, a man tries to do the right thing with a cheating woman and a child that is not his and yet, the cheating woman gets all kinds of compassion and the man who did nothing is made to feel guilty
Case #1 I am smh with the reaction of daughter towards mom. She didn’t even hug her mom when her mom was trying to hug her. I believe there is something else that has placed this division in their relationship.
Perhaps the daughter is angry at herself. She is 35 and a mother and a grandmother. She obviously was a teen mom. Her daughter is a teen mom. She had grandkids at 35 Her daughter has other issues than not having a father at 35
These shows should be shown in every school. It might stop young people hopping in and out of bed with different people.if nothing else it might get them to use protection.
I'm really annoyed how disrespectful she was too her mother, looking down on her. Blaming her problems on not having a father growing up. There are plenty of children in this world that wish there dad had not been in their life.
You shouldn't sleep around and deny your child their father if you want to be respected. The mother deserved what she got. The mother disrespected the child first by creating this chaos by being loose. You have to give respect first.
@@kittyb275 She told that hard headed woman over and over and over and over again who her father was. She never accepted it. She still did not accept it until the dna results were read. She constantly attacked her mother. Her mother got tired of it and shot back. In the first episode and this episode, I was on the mother's side. This long since grown asp woman sitting there crying about a fantasy Daddy...my Daddy. Please! She wanted to pick and choose who her father was instead of listening to her mother about who her actual father is.
@@lovegymnasts the daughter was also told other men are or could be her father. No child is gonna not believe who they are told their father is, unless they are told there are other possibilities as well.
Others wishing they didn't have a father doesn't, mean those who don't shouldn't wish they had 1. Those with a father, may not like him; those without have a hole/void nothing but finding/meeting him can fill. If he'd died is 1 thing, but even knowing that is better than not knowing anything about him.
I’on like how judge lake was trying to make the mom feel belittled and was being rude cutting her off while she trying to respond and express herself to her daughter.
True definition of being ungrateful, despite of her mistakes of not having her daughter father,I bet she did her best to raise her into the woman she is today
I literally shed a tear with the first episode. I understand the daughter point but mama was broken because she was really trying to tell her. I really believed her when she said she brought her over her father’s home many times.
Ok
1st case, her resentment toward her mom is blinding her from believing anything her mom says. You can tell her mom is trying so hard to explain to her that she has done the absolute best she could and has tried to tell her the truth. And everything her mama says just goes over her head. Hopefully they can build that relationship back up now that she knows her mama wasn't lying to her.
Do not low rate your mother dont matter what you ar still a big woman be greatfull it seem as though you hate your mother
But the Bible says don’t provoke your child into anger🙄.
Why is no one criticising Mr Long for his absolute disregard for his daughter? Never making the effort to even try to get to know her or try and get confirmation as whether she was his daughter or not.
The daughter is full of resentment and this definitely clouded her ability to see her Mom’s efforts or pain. I hope they can forgive and move forward.
I've never been happier to see someone be the father as I was to see Mr Baker be the father... I was rooting for them
Me too. I cried for him
Me too ❤
🙏🏻 I rarely get tears in my eyes but that did. He reminds me of my dad, also so kind and soft spoken just wanting to improve life for his family
Same
We serve an awesome GOD🙏🏾💕
The mother in the first case is breaking my heart. She is really trying to help her daughter and her daughter is so fixated on the mistake her mother made years ago.
The daughter is upset because of the lies she got as a child.
Who knows if the “lies” she says she was told are even true. Her mother was 2/2 telling the truth and the daughter was 0/2 second guessing her. Seems to me like the mother always knew and the daughter just didn’t wanna hear it because of her resentment
@@donobedabest8446absolutely
What's really sad, is how much older the daughter looks than the mother. Unforgiveness is not healthy.
I’m sorry but the mother misled her daughter which shouldn’t be done at the first place. It’s sad😢.
Children always imagine that their lives would have been better with the parent that’s not being a parent.
Exactly, so sad
2nd case got me in fountain of tears, thank God was what I said. I love how articulate they both were and also admired their faith. That baby boy is a miracle child, praying for God’s protection upon this family 🙏🏽
Praise HIS holy name🙏🏾💕
The mom in the first case never lied to the daughter, that's very clear
The first case the young lady were so nasty to her mother. She doesn't know what her mom went through. I am so happy for the Bakers,it was nothing but the Grace of God that they have a beautiful son,God Bless you all!!!
And what about what she went through?
If you saw the first half you would feel a little differently.
The Bible says don’t provoke your child into anger. The should’ve been a better woman.
She ought make NO apologies for what happened in her CHILDhood.
First case: YOU owe your mother an apology. She DID NOT deserve the disrespect. Judge Lake, you should not have allowed her to do her mom like that either. NO ONE WAS LISTENING to mama
We didn’t see how the mother treated her growing up. We don’t know what going through the daughters mind. It’s easy to judge when we don’t see what was going on behind the cameras. The daughter was told multiple different names by her mom and her mom was dismissing her feelings.
The daughter was trying to explain how not having her real father affected her but her mom kept saying “you had a dad he may not have been your real dad but he was there” basically dismissing her feelings. I grew up knowing who my father was but not having him around and that alone made me resentful towards my mom and my grandparents because I wanted my father. But what I’m trying to say is
The child in you, who longed for a father, comes out when faced with the possibility that you may or may not have found your father. She has a right to be upset. I definitely think she should have tried to be nicer but the child in her, just wants to yell and cry and find her daddy.
@@Skyk0409 I respect your view. Though I may agree to a point, I stand by my comment.
I respect your view, but her mother cares nothing about her feelings. Unless they learn to communicate and her mother starts being honest with her, then their relationship will continue to deteriorate until the state of beyond repair.
I am so happy for the husband that had the vasectomy and now he finds out that he’s had a child. I must say very well spoken very clear very positive. I love this guy. I don’t know him from Adam anyway, the wife is very very lucky and I hope they stay together forever.
That first woman is so disrespectful to her mom. It’s pissing me off real bad.
Agreed
I agree!!! Calling your mom promiscuous is crazy
@@Ilayshaa
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when it’s not you fighting ya parents it’s easy to judge. we don’t know what this woman been through with her mom.
@@zee.crafty Sounds like she was a great mom.
First case: the daughter blaming the mom but has zero smoke for the dad. He had doubts but did nothing to check
What smoke should she have for the Dad?
The dad never tried to find cared or take care his daughter.
Exactly. She sent the picture to him and told him he was the father. He obviously lived next door to her parents. So she was visiting her parents and then going to his house. He never asked about the daughter in those visits. He never asked her parents for her address or her information. Even when it was announced he was the father, he wasn’t that concerned. Judge lake had to tell him to hug her.
The daughter was 35 and a mother and grandmother.
Ms. Robinson is the grown child we all pray NOT to have. She is so disrespectful. So entitled. And totally disregards the fact that her mom did the best she could to raise her based on what she had. Shameful.
You wouldn't say that if that was the man
@@williamwright8250 actually I would. Notice I said grown child... which means my comment would be the same.
Right. Because being lied to makes you respect your parents more. I see how yall treat yall kids.
@@eve3363 who lied tho?
@@SamM88 The mom
First case, the daughter is so heartless towards her mom. Geesh 🤮 She sits on a high throne pedestal judging her mom and throwing stones at her, and her mom is in so much pain.
Yeah usually I believe the kids but the Mom's story makes more sense, including the daughter's level of personal success. The Mom joined the army and had her daughter raised in a 2 parent home with her grandparents. Once she had that career she stayed in her daughter's life. She gave good reason at the time for not being able to contact the father who she had to speak to in secret and who was ready to wash his hands of the situation. This is a woman who made a mistake and did everything in her power to undo it to me.
@@Jaderabbit3485 I hope the mom & her daughter repair their relationship for at least the daughter's kids.
So the mom wasn't heartless for raising her daughter without a father yet she was raised in a loving, two parent home?
@@eve3363The daughter was with her parents. When you’re in the Military, you can’t take your child with you. If their is no spouse, everyone leaves their child with their parents to raise.
The mother said that she gave her daughter everything that she wanted and needed.
The mother said that Mr Long and his family lived next door. She sent him the picture and told him he was father. When she went back to her parents. She took the daughter to his family. Sent they lived next door to her parents.
Mr long didn’t want to be bothered. He could have asked her parents. He never did
I love how the first woman has this idealized version of the perfect father. I wish I had NOT had a father in my life. There is NO guarantee you will have dream daddy in your life. If whoever her father is, was a great daddy that would be there for her, he would have been there for her no matter what. She's too old to be carrying on like this about her "daddy."
I felt this
My biological father was NOT good. Things I carry with me to this day! I can’t imagine what it must feel like to have had a dream dad. How my life would have turned out. I always wished that he wasn’t even in my life at allllll. And I’m 40 just this past week and I wonder if I will ever know.
Wow. Yall are hurt and sick!
Yeah and what this one got is either cynical "I don't remember" like trained by a lawyer, or plain slow-minded. The judge even had to tell him to step down and hug his daughter. As her mother had taken her to him so many times and gave the child at 10yo the name and showed him to her by visiting, I think this super bright little girl chose NOT to believe this guy who looked like her, whose sister she resembled was mot her father because of something she perceived as not so bright in him.
@@fayjones9150Exactly. My biological father was married to my mother. Lived right in the house with me. Never hugged me in my life and never said I love you. Never took me anywhere and never was at anything.
So I can’t understand them crying and saying everyone else dad was there with there with their kids. Or I wished I could talk to a dad. You grow up and get over it
I hope to God that the lady from the first case has came to this video and read all the comments about how badly she is treating her mother. Talk about ungrateful and tone deaf. I'm sure that I'm not the only one watching this that would give anything just to say "I love you" to their own mother. It's painful to see grown people treating their mother's so badly, when many of us don't have one anymore. 😢
In the first case she sat up there and called her mother a liar, she was being every bit of disrespectful. Her mother told her from the jump even in the last episode that she knew exactly who her father was. She told her immediately that man was not her father and that a man named Mr. Long was. I personally don’t believe she found out at 10 years old, I believe that’s when she understood exactly what it meant. And she was in her 30’s she was just being mean
Yes a bad attitude. Resentful evil person
Absolutely. I feel like the Judge allowed her to disrespect her mother too.
Like HELLO she's been telling her who her father is.
The daughter owes her mother an apology. I felt so bad for the mother. She DID NOT deserve that.
How was she disrespectful? Yall are disgusting
@@eve3363 baby I’m sorry but read all the comments, everybody isn’t wrong
@@eve3363 there is no way you’re serious. She sat there and showed out just to be dead wrong her mother wasn’t lying to her.
The first young lady should be ashamed of herself for how she treated her mother and talked to her like that in front of strangers on tv…. She was so fixated on finding a male figure & blaming her mother for being “promiscuous” that she failed to realize her own behavior and it’s effect.
She is right,hold this irresponsible mother's accountable
1st Case: My heart broke for the mama, she was really trying & the daughter was just SO bitter & mean to her. Hopefully they have a better relationship now so she doesn’t have to regret how she treated her mom.
Case 2: it's the early hours of the morning here, and somebody is cutting onions in my bedroom.
I was seriously moved when husband and wife held each other and cried tears of joy together.
May The Most High continue to grace them.
Amen!
the daughter in the first case was so nasty to her poor mother
She deserved it
1st one I feel bad for the mom and I lost my mom at 4 I would never imagine somebody treating they mom like that
The mom looks younger than the daughter
I agree
I was thinking the same
A thought the mom was the daughter
For sure! She looks way older than 36 and she did mention that she had a grandson. Crazy!
I was going to say this too so trippy
First episode I felt like Lauren Lakes was rude to the mother for standing on the truth, Lauren showed a lot of disrespect 🥺🤔
No obviously the mother doesn’t allow her daughter to vent or get her emotions across and is dismissive. Like most black mothers are. Y’all gotta stop acting like y’all didn’t see it. This was about her and her mother didn’t put in the foot work for her to be around or know her father.
@@nageeyounger5290don't be racist or stereotypical, prejudice, or negative. Honestly you need to check yourself and probably get off of your high horse because no one's perfect and many many people of this world fall short. Mother, father, black, white. Doing wrong has no color or gender. Accountability and honesty is important.
You are not the only one. I often don't like her reactions. But, I realize that's a tv show too. So, I understand her sometimes.
Case 1: The mother vindicated herself, in my opinion. She was certain that Mr Long was her daughter's father. I believed her that she had been telling her daughter the truth from the beginning.
I wish them all every happiness.
No she didn't vindicate herself
In the first case the daughter is so vindictive she doesnt appreciate anything the mother did for her
It really pisses me off when women don’t know who the father of their child is and they have the AUDACITY to say “you should step up because it COULD be yours” 🙄😒
Right. “Just in case”
The second case had me on my chair, I was scared for Mrs Baker
I love the happy ending
He bothered me. He was going to divorce her? He was so strange, imho. They have 11 kids between them and he would throw it all away?
And,
@@RR-iq8ze he can still look after those kids whilst being divorced tho i think like if someone cheats why stay with them
@@dontworry8724 People stay for many reasons. Cheating is rampant. More than 60 percent of people surveyed admit to cheating, but their spouse or significant other never hears about it. We judge cheating way too harshly, until it happens to you.
They just glossed over the fact that the woman in the first case was 36 and already had a grandchild.
First off he lying he said when I got the 1st picture means brother you got the other 7 or 8 and this daughter is disrespectful and how dare she discredit her for her upbringing this is sad
That's what I said....
She dared you as she dared everyone else. Looks like she lives her life on her terms alone.
Exactly! He was not interested in being a father. She took her daughter back home to see her parents and went to Mr long house. He seen the daughter and was not interested. He never asked her parents for information. Even when he was told he was the father. He still wasn’t concerned. Judge lake had to tell him to hug her.
The daughter is 35 and a Mother and a grandmother. So she was a teen mom and her daughter is a teen mom as well.
The first daughter is the most narcissistic woman ever. Anytime anyone says that's stuff you give to me, I haven't asked for it. " the more disgusting ungrateful thing someone can say
So she grew up without a dad and now she's narcissistic? Yall are disgusting and putrid
Then said nobody took care of her. Girl please
The daughter stayed in denial, mom's told her multiple times who her father was & is!
First case I understand the daughter wants to know who her father is but as a grown woman she is too disrespectful to her mom. She is the true definition of hurt people hurt people.
This part first time I really feel bad for the mom her daughter talks to her like she is nothing
@BLVCK I.V.I the mother wouldn't stop talking long enough to hear her daughter. I'm glad the daughter finally stood for herself. She probably felt invisible and unheard growing up. There are consequences when you deny your child access to a parent.
Y’all don’t understand there is more that meets to the eye of this Im lowkey on the daughters side
A child can’t have too much love - I agree wholeheartedly. Knowing that someone who doesn’t need to be in your life but wants to be? That is absolutely precious
First case .. mother is so innocent looking .. daughter need not to be so tough on her mother ..mother is sincere caring person. I really feel for her .😍.. second case ..I was tense for that couple .. happy to hear the result.😅
She didn’t have to chew her mom up like that sheesh
Yes she did
@eve3363 Why? That lady told her who her dad was as a child. She's the one kept believing otherwise. Her mom was telling her on the last episode as well but she insisted on testing that other man🤦🏾♀️
The first lady needs to let it go! She won't let her mom talk!!! Smh. At some point you become an adult and u can take control!
Mr baker seems like a really wonderful man . He talks so clear and It breaks my heart
The first case is one of my favorites.
It's so sad 😞, I did not know my father I was almost 20 years old, I'm in my 50s now and we don't communicate much. My father hop off with his side woman leaving his wife which is my mother, leaving her to struggle and suffer wit us, so I know it's not easy growing without a father but it does now give you the rights to speak to your mother like that !
Exactly. My father was married to my mother. He was in the home. Never spent time with me. Never said I love you and never hugged me. Never attended anything with me.
My mom struggled and took care of us. She was mom and dad. I can’t relate to the daughter.
She is 35 years old and a mother and a grandmother
There are MANY people without fathers. She makes it’s like the 30’s or th3 40’s. Like it’s shameful. Many people don’t have a father in their lives.
I truly feel her pain . Because me and my Twin went thru the similar situation
I remember the first case now there back to test this man. I can kinda understand why she is mad at her mother but her mother seems upfront regardless she shouldn't disrespect her mother like that. I've known my dad my whole life but he's never had nothing to do with me you know that's not my mom's fault my mom raised me and took good care of me she shouldn't treat her mother that way.
Right!!! That's what I'm saying. The mom has been saying it's Mr. Long the entire time. Even when she was a child. The daughter has other issues
amen thank you...
quite of few us are in that boat ride of life....
grow tF up and deal wit it
Exactly!!! She talked about how she was straight A in high school and an athlete.
The daughter is 35 and a mother AND a GRANDMOTHER. She need to take responsibility for herself and her own actions
As well when you join the Military young. Every woman leaves their child with their parents. You can’t take your child with you in the Military.
She was in the care of my grandmother and grandfather. She was cared for and taken care of.
She still was a teen mom, she is 35 years old. Her daughter is a teen mom as well. Since she is a grandmother with grand kids
The daughter seems was born before her mother in the 1st case😅😅😅😅😅
Was definitely thinking the same 😂
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And she’s just 36!!!im like 36x what???
But I thought she never told her? That daughter in the 1st case resents her mother so much….
She has to learn to forgive her mom so she won’t grow bitter against everyone else in her life.
1st case- Her Mom responds. But she's not really saying anything productive. It's just a bunch of words.
First case... The mom looks like she and her daughter could be siblings.
The second case, the woman look so good to be a mother of 9 kids. She is blessed. Wow!
If she's 32 and she won't let her mother see her grandchildren and GREAT grandchildren, and she had her 1st child when she was 18(as she said), she has a 14 yo child with a child????
She's 36 so that will make her daughter 18 or so and they never said how old the grandchild was.
@@chardonnayinmyownlane6344 I thought she said she was 32? I'll have to relisten
damn....i totally ignored her conversation, too much hate was shared.
imitation of life
she'll be first on floor screaming!!
The first case jesus ! She got no respect i hope her own kids don’t put her through what she has done to her mum. 😢
I low key hate how the judge picks and chooses. Ms.Robinson was really trying
Exactly, she should have cautioned her to be a bit respectful to her mom at least.
In the Baker case that’s the first time I saw on the judges face when she read the results that he was the father.
Mr Baker!!! So happy for them. That was nail biting.
I hope her daughters don't talk to her the way she talked to her mom. What a heartless daughter.
That daughter does not have any respect for her mother and her mother has been telling her all the time who her father is but she refuses to listen but choose to go and test whom she feels is her dad
“I support you in your truth but I’m not gone let you tell yourself a lie” Wooooo Powerful
They second case had me crying like a baby… I’m so happy for them.
Poor mom. She been verbally accused for not being a good mom the entire 36 years
I suppose you're saying she was!??
Case 3: Toxic relationship. She knew that he wasn't the father and she didn't seem to care. She let him sign for her to carry another man's seed. That relationship has run its course.
I disagree with Judge Lake on this one. He needs to move on and let her go to the child's real father.
real talk!! plus she has 4 other kids, it's too much going on in that environment!
why treat yourself like doorknob, is my question?
2nd case was a wonderful ending. God works in mysterious ways. I'm so happy that God has shown he can still work on that 1% chance ❤️ may they get counseling and have a relationship stronger than ever
Amen Nikki, Amen!
He need to step away and let that man raise his child. The judge always tells a man to stay in a child's life when he has a bond with the child. That should not be her or his job to tell him this.
I was looking for a comment like this. When he said he would be done with the relationship, it's almost like they started guilting him into feeling otherwise. Like huhh?! That choice would be a consequence of her actions & he wouldn't be wrong. She needs to make better decisions for the sake of those children.
I feel her pain but as a grown woman plz stop with that I need my daddy and handle it differently
I’m glad I’m not the only one that was like girl you are too old for that mess.
Exactly!!! She is a mother and a grandmother. She’s not a child
@@IlayshaaWHAT DO YOU MEAN? YOU'RE NEVER TOO OLD TO NEED YOUR FATHER. SMH
@@Blessed381YOU'RE NEVER TOO OLD TO NEED YOUR FATHER.
@@valeedadavidson678 it wasn’t the fact that she needed her daddy. She is too old to be acting like a little teenage girl. Have some grown woman about how you approach the situation ya know?
I’m the first case the daughter looks older than the mum.
1st case, the daughter looks older then the mother.. until she spoke
May God bless your family 🙏🏾 your son is a gift from God ❤️
The second case WOW I was hoping but I didn't believe it. God is amazing ❤
That daughter in the first case got on my nerves. She was so nasty and rude.
I'll only comment on the last case: Mr Thomas needs to go to court and get his name off the birth certificate so the biological father can put his name on it and be recognized as the 'legal father' and all the responsibilities that go with that - what he does about his relationship with her after that is a whole 'nother story -
Let me guess Ms. Baker went on Web MD and thought she had ovarian cancer 🤦🏾 Stay off Web MD! 😊
In her defense, when I had questionable symptoms and took a pregnancy test, after 7 years of trying with no results and pushing 40 years old. When it came back positive, the first thing I did was research what would cause a false positive (there is nothing good). My sister died of ovarian cancer, so I assumed that I must have it as well, and spent the week waiting for a gyno/ob appt just assuming I was going to die. When I finally got to the dr, I discovered I was 13 weeks pregnant! I literally said, "I'm not dying?" and the dr looked at me like I had two heads. I went home and told my husband I was pregnant...I told him 13 weeks...he asked, "How the heck did you get 13 weeks pregnant and not know?" I told him I didn't know!!
@@MommyLion God bless you 🙏🏼✝️
Happy Sunday y’all ❤
Happy Sunday ❤️
Happy Sunday
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happy rainy monday....
☝🏾sorry for the lateness
3rd case…. The baby pic with the 💚 onesie and the 🤍 tie … So Adorable 😍
In the 3rd case I agree anyone can step up and show love to this cild however I need this judge to encourage these wayward women to connect to the biological fathers of these children and allow them to step up!!!
True story
That and make them take accountability for their actions instead of giving them a pass cause they are women with children smh the judge need to go in on them just as much as she do with the men it takes two you can't get yourself pregnant
God bless the Baker family! 🙏🏽🌈❤️
This last case, these two are so cute and their baby is precious. I wish them the best. Truly. Side
Note: mothers hair is awesome! Love the curls.
Second case .. the family went through all that because he didn't go back for the second appointment ... Then when the doctors says why he needs to go for the second app...he then TELLS the doctor what the second app is for .!! Love the way that doctor put him right about the second app... Had he'd gone he would of known his tube grew back!! But noooo..... let's just accuse the wife and cause nothing but problems in the marriage ... But oh dear 'Mr know all' didn't know all after all ! That's what you get for being a know all in the first place!
If the lady was as well questioning the paternity...don't think it was all on him . And a lot of people are ignorant when it comes to vasectomy process .......it should be well explained in the hospital the first time ..make sure the patient has all the information and what is needed from them .
Last case: these two are so well spoken. No screaming even though it’s clear they’re emotional. They sound educated and respectful of each other, even though there is upset on both sides
😭😭😭😭#2. What a lovely gift!!!😭😭😭😭
Good morning, PC 👪
With the second case It reminds me of my Dad in a way however my dad got a reversal done after 17 years of having a vasectomy. He got it done for his (now ex) wife who was my age at 23 then, but they never got pregnant. So when they divorced my dad slept with other women, he didn't think he could conceive until he did. So now here I am as the oldest with a baby brother that is a lil over 24 years younger than me! Things work in mysterious ways and God does miracles. My dad is still single (he's better off that way in my opinion), and co-parenting with my brother's mother really well. I am proud of him.
38.05 him : "I stepped up because there was a 50% chance the baby was mine"
Her : " As he should".
My dear woman, you know FULL well that ALL THE MONEY INVESTED on YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE REIMBURSED TO HIM SHOULD HE NOT BE YOUR child's father, so just try having the decency to KEEP IT SHUT.
Conversely, any father IS Legally obliged to pay the arrears when he is found to be the biological father.
the first case I feel exactly how she feels some mothers don’t understand the pain and hurt e comes from their mistakes but to be an adult now with daughters of my own knowing exactly who their fathers is and yet and still he refuses to be apart of her life i’m learning to forgive my mom she has yet to disclose who my dad is and im 25 years old ive just learned to keep going
This daughter knew her mom was a liar from experience, she didn't attack the possible father...first time the energy was toward the right parent!!!!
Agreed👏👏
Actually the first episode the mother told her who the father was but the daughter thought it was someone else, she didn’t want to believe her mother. The daughter was the issue.
@@misskb2363 daughter was definitely the issue. She’s a woman child no telling why though but she had no anger towards the father who wasn’t there all that time either
once again, a man tries to do the right thing with a cheating woman and a child that is not his and yet, the cheating woman gets all kinds of compassion and the man who did nothing is made to feel guilty
PEOPLE LIKE THE FIRST GIRL l DIDN'T ASK FOR THE Furniture WILL NEVER GET ANYTHING ELSE.......
Case #1 I am smh with the reaction of daughter towards mom. She didn’t even hug her mom when her mom was trying to hug her. I believe there is something else that has placed this division in their relationship.
Perhaps the daughter is angry at herself. She is 35 and a mother and a grandmother. She obviously was a teen mom. Her daughter is a teen mom. She had grandkids at 35
Her daughter has other issues than not having a father at 35
These shows should be shown in every school. It might stop young people hopping in and out of bed with different people.if nothing else it might get them to use protection.
The first case hurt my heart..
I'm really annoyed how disrespectful she was too her mother, looking down on her. Blaming her problems on not having a father growing up. There are plenty of children in this world that wish there dad had not been in their life.
Right but it’s not easy raising kids the dad could’ve tried to find her too she blames her mom for everything
You shouldn't sleep around and deny your child their father if you want to be respected. The mother deserved what she got. The mother disrespected the child first by creating this chaos by being loose. You have to give respect first.
@@kittyb275
She told that hard headed woman over and over and over and over again who her father was. She never accepted it. She still did not accept it until the dna results were read. She constantly attacked her mother. Her mother got tired of it and shot back. In the first episode and this episode, I was on the mother's side.
This long since grown asp woman sitting there crying about a fantasy Daddy...my Daddy. Please! She wanted to pick and choose who her father was instead of listening to her mother about who her actual father is.
@@lovegymnasts the daughter was also told other men are or could be her father. No child is gonna not believe who they are told their father is, unless they are told there are other possibilities as well.
Others wishing they didn't have a father doesn't, mean those who don't shouldn't wish they had 1. Those with a father, may not like him; those without have a hole/void nothing but finding/meeting him can fill. If he'd died is 1 thing, but even knowing that is better than not knowing anything about him.
For a second on the first case, I thought she had the mama and daughter mixed up, until the mama started talking 😂😂😂😂
I was so happy for this couple ❤
36! shocked!! she looks 50 and is a grandmother!!! Jesus please take the wheels! glad she found her father
I’on like how judge lake was trying to make the mom feel belittled and was being rude cutting her off while she trying to respond and express herself to her daughter.
The mom and daughter look like sisters
The daughter looks older
Watching their previous episode and now this one the mama was always certain and she was proven right
True definition of being ungrateful, despite of her mistakes of not having her daughter father,I bet she did her best to raise her into the woman she is today
The mother in the first case wqs a scared little girl when she had her baby and protected Mr Long from her father's anger
Im way younger, and my mom or dad has never been there. I would never talk to my mother like that, disgusting. That daughter is a liar.
The lady in the first case acts as if she's better than her mother. She keeps putting her mom down like her mess don't stank.
Mr. Long is dodging responsibility
It’s the let her speak 😅 after she kept talking over her mom smh