Pile 2: Im coming out of a long term relationship where he was always critisizing me and i always took it to heart because i loved and trusted him but now that im getting out of this relationship i realize that he was deeply insecure and wanted me to be lower than him. Im taking back my love and stealing his right to love me and choosing to love myself instead.
I’ve been there too sis. You deserve to be able to be yourself and be admired for who you are. Someone will worship you one day and starting with you!!! Sending so much love!
I would replace the word 'insecure' with the word 'controlling'. I'm not saying people can't be both but all to often we blame insecurity for crappy peoples crappy behaviour. Read up on narcissistic abuse btw, it makes life less scary when the time comes to date again, knowing that you'll spot these sorts of people easier in future!
Good for you!! I went through the same experience as you. A person who is not able to understand your emotional depth and needs isn’t for you. Someone can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves. Wishing you all the best ❤
He was probably a narcissist if he always criticised you. Do not put yourself down move on and enjoy single life till you find a good person to value you for who you are. Learn to be happy by yourself till you find this person. Best of luck!
Pile 1 : COMPLETELY RESONATED WITH THIS. I’ve always been investing emotionally in people who don’t reciprocate and I AM LEARNING TO SET BOUNDARIES. im learning to raise my standards and not lower/higher my frequency to align it with the other person, but instead allowing it to happen on its own. it’s taking time but I’m learning. ❤️ thank you for this edit - i redid this when i was sure that i healed myself and PILE 3 OH MY GOD ! i know who my person is and i am so excited to welcome him into my life
Pile 2: Everything you said resonated with the self love journey i've been on since my breakup last year, but i recently started feeling less regret about things that happened in that relationship and more gratitude because it taught me a lot since then. I also recently had a vivid dream that really stayed with me because it was very bizarre. In that dream a good friend (though not close), who I really care for and admire creatively, said to me that he'll be waiting for me and when I asked what he mean by it, he just responded by saying "in 2 years". I can't get this dream out of my mind and recently reached out to him about hanging out in LA in November since i'll be going out there for a trip. I can't help that this is all related because we work in similar creative fields too and that's something i've been focusing on as a career, because I feel more confident when I am able to express myself creatively and he very much understands that. It just all connects in strange ways, but I'm excited for what's to come.
Pile 2...how is that so accurate? Recently I didn't find myself in tarots reading anymore but i found your channel, and started to feel completly shocked!! Thank you❤❤
Pile 3: I have basically been getting this same message in nearly every reading (whether it’s about your love life or not) for nearly a year now! It’s starting to make me feel a little crazy, but I’m trying to just trust in the universe and let this supposed ultimate love connection appear at the right time.
Pile 4: I have been single for awhile and I've been waiting on God's timing and hearing this pile makes it feel like it's getting closer. Thank you, Gem Goddess!!!
Pile 2 loved each and every word you said...I am myself an over critical and over judging person to me rather than others doing it...I am in process of learning more of self thing...like love, confidence, decisiveness, putting myself first,not repressing my soul
Pile no 2: got married to a narcissist last year and was always put down .Now I am living separately from him and deciding to get separated from him .All my family members are supporting me. Now I am trying to heal myself and love myself .I actually feel lonely sometimes but after seeing your reading I kind of feel optimistic now .I claim all the positive energy .
Pile 3 :: This is amazing. I've been holding onto my ex for the past year and recently made the choice to let him go fully and an amazing man came into my life... This is ON POINT!
Pile 1: next relationship with someone stable whose already found themselves, same values, same energy, same level, successful career, raising standards, someone from past getting back in touch
Pile 2: i claim this positive and beautiful change coming in my soul, friendship and life. More success, love and luck coming my way! And to more happy and loyal years to my love life!🧿
Pile #1 and wow… Spot on. I am in a committed relationship for 15 years and three kids, and have realized how much I’ve been abandoning myself in this relationship. Taking bullets and sacrificing my own needs. He never intentionally hurt me but his lack of emotional intelligence and me not being able to express my needs properly has led to so much pain. I have started to expect more from him but am also seeing where I have played a role as a victim/martyr in the relationship and expected him to fill my cup in ways I can and should only do on my own. We are in a phase right now where we are trying to start over and build a new, stronger foundation. I hope we are able to build something sustainable, but I’m scared that it will become obvious that we’re no longer aligned.
Pile 4: I LITERALLY got my surprise before I saw the end of this video. In shock… I have been married for almost 15 years and couldn’t foresee any surprises so I stopped watching, thought no, spirit is saying this for someone else - THEN I’d mentioned feeling a bit down today to my husband and just a little lost with my direction in life and BOOM he surprised me with vegan chocolate 🍫 to cheer me up. This may not mean a lot to some people, maybe you get gifts all the time, maybe you never went through hell and back with that person but it meant the world to me ❤ this shows he was listening and wanted to make me happy. And it means everything ❤❤❤mission accomplished!! Came back to see the end of my reading have so much hope for the future Xx
Pile 3: i'm single and I realized I've been claiming this kind of relationship for about 6 years, but I wasn't conscious or I thought I didn't deserve it. Now this s***t belongs to the past. I feel close to this dream relationship and I HIGHLY CLAIM THIS ENERGY AND THIS PILE. I'm fed up with bare minimum and breadcrumblig.
Pile 2 resonated with me so much! I've been single for a year after being in a relationship with a narcissist who would always bring me down and my identity revolved around him. But now, as a newly licensed professional about to enter a new season, I feel much validated in my self without needing anybody and I can't wait to meet people who will add up to the goodness I feel in my soul.
PILE 2 : this is so fking accurate! I broke up recently and regaining my confidence these days. I feel so much better now. and also I am getting close to a girl in our class, who's really amazing and caring. whenever I lay my head on her lap she pets me and helps me to calm down. she's the friend I wanted in my life. and I'm having so much fun with her these days. I've been put down by my family members long ago but now I'm letting all those things go. I'm the best I see. Thank you Gem!
Hahahaha pile no 2. I wasn't playing this reading because it was a love reading. But so spot on gem. You were my first UA-cam tarot reader and in my most difficult times your tarot readings often resonate. This is exactly what I am feeling word by word and yes I am newly Single and so excited to love myself and explore the world! 🌎 Thank you so much ❤
Pile 1! Finally released a toxic ex, I've always attracted energy vampires. I quit drinking I'm working out and meditating multiple times a week. I also have no love interests or situation ships in my energy for the first time in years! I've had to take so many powerful new steps to try and only allow healthy reciprocal energy!! Can't wait for the payoff. Thanks for the confirmation 🎉
Pile 3: after years of disappointments and heartbreaks, I am seeing someone new, for about a month now, and it's a completely different experience for me 😁
Pile 2: This reading made me feel so wholesome inside my heart and thank you so so so much. I’m part of the 10% 😅 After years of neglect and really feeling lost with my identity, in recent months I’ve been working very hard to heal myself and improve my health. It’s been hard but so rewarding. So much to love to everyone for pile 2 too ❤❤❤
I picked pile 2. I typically don’t watch these but I stumbled upon it in my recommended so I was just like “why not”? The accuracy of this is insane. After my most recent break I have decided to really focus on myself. Have a “glow up” but not out of spite. I finally want to finally treat myself. I want to take care of myself and become the best me. I’ve also been feeling lonely lately and wanting a tight friend connection, I’m really looking forward to this. I also genuinely love that this isn’t “you’ll be in a relationship with a new partner and have a happy ever after” as im not looking, like you said.
Pile 2: I went to a tarot reader last week for funsies and she pretty much said the same thing!! The 2 yrs, having my best life, even the traveling!... I'm already starting to feel it!
Pile 2: im going through a breakup and have been realizing how much my ex suppressed my personality and excitement and enjoyment of life. everything has been so dark and grey and negative and im finally in a space like at my new job with like minded people where i can flourish. ive felt a weight lifted off my shoulders after realizing this and i literally have chills listening to my pile. my background on my phone is literally text that says “you must absolutely choose yourself this time.” ive been telling myself that 7th grade me would be so proud of who ive become today.
Pile 2 I love this thank you for the confidence boost! I have been making changes and I’m glowing and I love it! I’m a Capricorn rising so knowing that I’m motivated to embrace my best self is also going to improve my finances, my passion for my life and lifestyle. All of I is changing in the best ways possible
Pile 1: only about a minute in and yes, I recently started a 90 day self improvement journey. Currently on day 8. It’s crazy because I was drawn to pile one but felt nervous about it and felt myself about to choose a different pile I felt semi-drawn to but something told me “no. Pile one is the one for you” - a little deeper, the “next relationship with someone successful” is mind blowing. I had a conversation with my client yesterday and said to her “I don’t know but I feel like my next relationship is going to be with someone of a higher status, I don’t know why but I just feel it” - okay I oddly feel really exposed now. This was extremely accurate - okay so I’ve been single for 2 years now BUT I have been in a situationship for those two years. I knew I shouldn’t have been dealing with this person but I enjoyed the attention I guess, however, I definitely was not respected or seen. I put my foot down officially yesterday and I’m standing on my boundaries. I no longer want to entertain a situation I know I shouldn’t be. I knew better and didn’t do better and I was more frustrated with myself than everything - okay the spy card came out and PLEASE LET THIS BOY LEAVE ME ALONE 😭😂 - past life relationship - all this boy did was promise things & that’s what my final straw was, another broken promise.
Pile 3! Omg I have been manifesting and scripting an apology from someone. We’ve had a series of miscommunications and misunderstandings over the years and I’ve been working on forgiving him but especially the version of me that was bad at communicating and being a people pleaser. I’m in a 12 step program now and in a really good place.
Pile 3: I'm ready for all of it. I feel like I've finally healed from old relationships and I'm ready for this new one, even if it has heavy conversations, I'm ready.
Pile 2. I am a Capricorn sun. I am 30. I have lived for my family as a caregiver. Now I want to love myself, I want to take care of myself. ❤ Moving and living my dream life explore and travel as much as I can!
pile 1: this make sense I'm single and thees days i have been doing things to become my best version and also i'm manifesting physical changes. this really motivates me to keep going .
Pile 2: Omg girl this is my reading. Healing and putting ME first. Finally enjoying my peace and yea the importance of regret and fear around that…I refuse to betray myself again. I won’t lie my heart is in lock down protection mode. It was before but now it’s even more so and you’re correct with me not avidly looking..
Pile 3: So many things I was thinking and talking about just now with my bf came back here! And I was holding my necklace while listening and the healing card, my necklace looks exactly like that and I got from my bf came up and I was just really proud of myself and us in our healing journey, I felt so connected to this reading
Pile 1: I cried with Queen of Cups and 10 of cups, I was a horrible place, and my energy it was very low, and my ex it was not letting me go....I was losing myself 💔 and my crush came back to my life and we have the perfect balance, we are connecting beautiful and we are growing together. We are not in a relationship, but we are building something beautiful. Thank you❤
Yes, Pile 2! Totally resonates! Healing self-critical ways, also past relationships with critical men, not to mention a very critical mother. I am saying ‚yes’ to Freedom, self- expression & self-exploration and travel! Recently I encountered a new group of friends with a very positive outlook on life & one of them especially will become a dear friend, I believe. Usually I’ve met others who wanted me to be who they needed me to be. It’s a relief this is changing - yeah! 🎉
Pile 2 I’m definitely in a “accept me as I am or kick rocks” era. I feel like I’ve always tolerated being in situations where I can only be one part of myself. I feel like now I’ve fallen in love with myself. Im still working on myself, but it feels natural and not like I’m trying to “fix” me. I can’t really say I regret my past choices, because I feel like they had to happen. I appreciate the experiences & what I learned from them. I wouldn’t be where I am without them so 🤷🏽♀️ And I blocked everyone that needed to be blocked 😂😂
ok that's actually crazy. pile 2 resonated with me so much and was just so spot on with my current situation. how does that even happen. thank you for this!
Pile#2 Thank You so much Gem Goddess ☺️❤️❤️ Perfect timing, especially with the upcoming Pisces 🐟 Moon Eclipse and that Energies are shifting very fast. I do feel more confident lately and more beautiful and stronger - looking in the mirror 🪞🪞 and self talk really helps a lot ❤❤❤❤ Many Love 💕💕 and blessings to you too 💖💖💖
Pile 2 really resonated with me I’m currently going through a rough time in my relationship and I really want to just focus on myself now. I don’t have too many friends, and to be honest I’m not really close to anyone anymore as I tend to put a barrier up, but I am going on holiday with two friends that I actually really like and I hope to get closer to -so hopefully I can heal, travel and enjoy my life right now that’s all I want is just to be happy and express who I am because recently I have felt a bit like a shell of myself. And I’ve had enough of it.
My pile said “this is like what you see in movies” I related so much to this we have been very well at communicating and love a healthy relationship is my best and longest relationship. I only listen to tarot when my mind tells me to, the universe brought me to you. Thank you.
Pile 2. I have been making myself feel better and my sleep is improving and I’m no longer tired throughout the day. Also I’m traveling abroad in December and hope to do more over the next few years. I’m Going on a group trip in December that I’m hoping to meet new people and I’m also hoping to meet my person while away as well 😁🥰
Pile 2 - so many similarities to the era I have been living since January 2023 (minus the travel - I bought a house instead). The last few years have been the most self-actualized I have ever felt and I realized that one reason I don't move into romantic relationships easily is because I don't want to compromise any part of who I am to be with another person because I love all my parts too much - I really need someone who will accept all of me. Sounds like in the reading there is still time left on this era, so I will keep living into it. 🙂
Yes! I see how much other women have had to sacrifice to be in a relationship and it made me never want to commit to anyone. I grew up in a controlling household, so I never want to experience anything like that again.
Wow!! Wow!!! I couldn't decide between #1 & #2, though slightly more drawn to one... & WOW! Every part of each reading is very relevant to me, even though some has already happened, or I'm in the midst of it happening. I've set boundaries like never before... & some don't like it. Tough. Their problem. I'm the most authentic at being me right now!! I'm healing physically & very fast emotionally (healing CPTSD). I've also had an amazing connection with someone who's on my wavelength a lot. He doesn't live in this town, but has a successful business. The energy is powerful... but I'm not jumping. I want to take my sweet time, do more work on myself, explore what we have potentially, & be friends... & it feels so right. I've listened to several readings of yours, & connected in some way with them all.... but this time it was incredibly relevant! I'm going to steal a few lines from an amazing song called You're The Voice (John Farnham), & change them a bit.... I'm not going to sit in silence. I'm not going to live with fear. I have the power to be powerful, believing I can make it better.... xx
Your readings are always spot on (Pile 2). I just came out of a relationship, my longest ever. He was an amazing man, but not my right fit because I couldn’t actually be who I TRULY am, so can’t he. May both me and him grow and be better, even if we’re not together.
You blow me away. Pile 4 - I'm Cancer he's Gemini. He's my ex boyfriend from when we were 15. He recently came back into my life on social media and quite caught me by surprise with the depth of how he's held a candle for me all these years?! We've got an innate bond just really drawn to each other. Claiming this ❤❤
PILE 3: i’m shaking and on the verge of tears. i nanny for this girl and she showed me her new halloween bag with a witch on it with a cool broom so i chose it because of that and pile 3 is usually just my pile so it lined up well! but what i wasn’t ready for was how exact this was. this is exactly the position im in rn. we met 3 months ago and we’ve been on like 10 dates and we act like a couple like… it’s shocking he hasn’t asked me yet BUT he is very slow and steady which i admire so much and he has never officially said, “let’s go on this date” but it’s more “i wanna do this with you” and my friends tell me it’s a date w/o asking but regardless HE PLANNED A CUTSIE DATE FOR US so i finally heard that word from him which is so refreshing and makes me think he is going to ask me soon and he wants me to meet his friends so i feel like he will ask soon. This whole reading was just too spot on, we met exactly in that way, we are the same person. like the same person. we get along sooooo well, everytime we hangout it’s just>>>, and as for the marriage part im only 19 lmao but he is older (2 years lmao) so idk BUT regardless i can feel it getting serious and we deffff new to have a conversation about what all of this is cause there is a possibility he just assumes im his gf so a CONVO will DEF help!! amazing reading woah.
Please be careful, idk how much older he is. But if there is a significant age difference-besides that being a red flag in itself-they usually have a lot of problems, hence dating too young for them. So, remember you get to control the pace of the relationship too ❤
@@makendestewart oh girl you scared the crap out of me. I’m always looking out for my little sisters 🥹🩷. I do the same for my irl lil sis and her taste in guys has majorly improved. I’m late 20s so I can 21 is really young. Be safe and have fun 🫶🏽
Love your reading! ^^ My Higher Self chose pile 2 and pile 3. I met a special person on an online dating platform and we just celebrated 2 months together last week. It's impressive how accurate the readings are. Actually this weekend we started to have conversations about moving in (pile 3) and talking about past hurts from previous relationships (pile 2). We started to talk about moving in together becasue we live in 2 different countries and need to see how we are going to make it work (compromising, pile 3) Would you like to make a video about the hightlights of your week? :)
I dont know why but i was thinking about the same you talked about for pile 1. Bringing new standards, change dynamics, creating balance, cut away all the things which are not working. Thank you universe.. i want to be stronger and healthier 💓🤞🏼😌thank you universe for always guiding me .
This is my second reading ever and last time I was drawn to two decks. It was really hard to choose this time but suddenly in an instant it felt like there was only one option. And wow. Pile 4…it’s literally happening to me AS WE SPEAK
Like not even an hour I recently broke up with my boyfriend so getting pile 3 and hearing good things gives me the peace and reassurance that I’ve made a good decision for myself
I missed you, Gem! Thank you for your time, energy, care, effort - all of it! I love your videos and how you present yourself. Thank you for introducing me to the world of tarot 🤍
I haven't been in a relationship, and I'm not interested in love readings, but this video kept popping out in my Recommended, and it even sent a notification right now. 😅 *Okay Spirit, and Universe, **_I choose Pile 3_*
Pile 2: I'm actually happily married. But I lost myself due to my childhood trauma.. now I'm reconnecting with my inner child. I talk to her daily and I'm starting to do what she wants. The adult me is so focused on surviving But my inner child just tells me to live life. This is more of a self love reading for me. I'm starting to love myself. Ofcourse I have my wonderful husband by my side. He's very supportive but now I'm just completely focused on self love. I feel it's going to take me places where I'm meant to be Thanks Gem ❤
Pile 2. Omg i am actually a newly single, i was in a really bad relationship where it took a massive toll on me, so now im focusing on loving myself and improving. Also yes friendships are so important to me rn.
Pile 2 - I am currently in a relationship with someone who is not the right fit for me, I can feel us slowly grow apart. Your reading about the next two years of self-love, glow-up, friendship, travel and freedom is exactly what I am manifesting for. Thank you Gem Goddess
Pile #1 & 2 New standards 👑 ❤ Level UP + big Cap ♑️ energy + freedom, movement, travel 53:46 & 54:56 2's going on a new path 🎉 innovating life over the next 2 yrs 😊 57:47 the most fun + best time of my life yet!
I opened this reading thinking exactly about the topic you talked about on pile 3. Is just so accurate. Everything I’ve been feeling and hoping. Thank you for your videos. They helped a lot throughout the years 💜
As always your reading resonates so deeply with me! Picked like 1 and I just went through so much healing for setting better boundaries and upleveling my standards. I’m ready to meet someone who’s on the same page with me and no more people pleasing or needing to fix a Partner. Thank you 🤍
Pile 2...made me cry. I did have a lot of sleepless nights recently, not being able to find peace, wanting to walk away from everything to be free and feel myself for a while. And then this new friend...I feel like this could be my tennis coach. I took up tennis 2 month ago. He's so damn cute and has such a positive and uplifting personality. Spending time with him feels very good. We do laugh a lot together and I^m enjoying every moment, not having to think about stuff I have to do next or anything. Just pure joy. I do have a little crush on him though. But being married the friendship thing is a way to keep him in my life without getting into trouble. Hope I will be able to let go of those feelings. Also it's exactly the exitement I'm yearning for. Being a Pisces sucks sometimes 🙄😃
This is so freaky. Okay so this is gonna be a kinda long one Gem but I swear it’s worth it. I’ve been in a toxic two year long relationship and in it it’s as though I’ve lost my vitality. So then when I broke up with him two weeks ago, my spiritual side came back. I felt in tune with myself and my intuition. How all the readings I get and ones that come out are so scary accurate/exactly what I’m looking for. I was interested to see what love looked like for me in the future and then you make THIS VIDEO. I love your videos so muchhhh thank you Gem❤️
this actually made a lot of sense for me, I intuitively chose a pile and that's pretty much what I've been living with someone I met recently 💟 thank you!!!
Pile 1 & 2: Been single for a long time now, and I've been in a hermit mode, like alone, and sometimes lonely too. But I've been wanting to like just shake everything up. I loved how the strength card knocked the dice to pull Uranus on it. That's what I've been urging to do as well, felt that so strong. I feel sure of myself after a long time, I have learned what a healthy partnership is and now I just wanna get out into the world.
My friends and I always chose 2 of your decks. We tend to get attracted to 2. Sometimes one definitely feels more like its meant for us but sometimes I wonder if its two paths we will be presented
OMGGG 😭😭😭😭, I chose pile 3 and 4, this was on point. You r one of the tarot reader i resonate soooo easily. The relationship I'm in rn is sooo healthy and yea online cuz LDR and that's how we met.
PILE#4: I have got only injustice in my love life all the time... I'm literally tired of life...things only seem to be getting uglier.... I'm tired of literally everything...
Thank you for your advices and guidance. I'm picking the 2nd pile, you're saying what it is in my own head. I'm so struggling to pull myself together after I've almost lost myself for some reason. It's feels like finally someone understanding my thought 🥲
Pile 3: I had a recent dream that I was proposed to and I woke up feeling so many things. I know my divine partner is coming in soon and I have healed so much. Baby I’m ready!
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Thank you so much for this reading.
Pile 2: Im coming out of a long term relationship where he was always critisizing me and i always took it to heart because i loved and trusted him but now that im getting out of this relationship i realize that he was deeply insecure and wanted me to be lower than him. Im taking back my love and stealing his right to love me and choosing to love myself instead.
I’ve been there too sis. You deserve to be able to be yourself and be admired for who you are. Someone will worship you one day and starting with you!!! Sending so much love!
I would replace the word 'insecure' with the word 'controlling'. I'm not saying people can't be both but all to often we blame insecurity for crappy peoples crappy behaviour. Read up on narcissistic abuse btw, it makes life less scary when the time comes to date again, knowing that you'll spot these sorts of people easier in future!
You literally just described my relationship. It is sad.
Good for you!! I went through the same experience as you. A person who is not able to understand your emotional depth and needs isn’t for you. Someone can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves. Wishing you all the best ❤
He was probably a narcissist if he always criticised you. Do not put yourself down move on and enjoy single life till you find a good person to value you for who you are. Learn to be happy by yourself till you find this person. Best of luck!
Pile 1 : COMPLETELY RESONATED WITH THIS. I’ve always been investing emotionally in people who don’t reciprocate and I AM LEARNING TO SET BOUNDARIES. im learning to raise my standards and not lower/higher my frequency to align it with the other person, but instead allowing it to happen on its own. it’s taking time but I’m learning. ❤️ thank you for this
edit - i redid this when i was sure that i healed myself and PILE 3 OH MY GOD ! i know who my person is and i am so excited to welcome him into my life
Yesss ✨💕
Pile 2: Everything you said resonated with the self love journey i've been on since my breakup last year, but i recently started feeling less regret about things that happened in that relationship and more gratitude because it taught me a lot since then. I also recently had a vivid dream that really stayed with me because it was very bizarre. In that dream a good friend (though not close), who I really care for and admire creatively, said to me that he'll be waiting for me and when I asked what he mean by it, he just responded by saying "in 2 years". I can't get this dream out of my mind and recently reached out to him about hanging out in LA in November since i'll be going out there for a trip. I can't help that this is all related because we work in similar creative fields too and that's something i've been focusing on as a career, because I feel more confident when I am able to express myself creatively and he very much understands that. It just all connects in strange ways, but I'm excited for what's to come.
Pile 2 was fucking amazing I’m soooo excited this is what my soul is manifesting
Pile 4, claiming it now 😭 this is literally the relationship of my dreams 😭
Pile 2...how is that so accurate? Recently I didn't find myself in tarots reading anymore but i found your channel, and started to feel completly shocked!!
Thank you❤❤
Pile 3: I have basically been getting this same message in nearly every reading (whether it’s about your love life or not) for nearly a year now! It’s starting to make me feel a little crazy, but I’m trying to just trust in the universe and let this supposed ultimate love connection appear at the right time.
Omg same! May this manifest for us!
Yes trust in the universe!! 👏
Same girl, but the universe is divinely guiding us all in so many different unique ways. Just trust.
Exactly
Yeah me too, across all different multiple reading lol
Pile 4: I have been single for awhile and I've been waiting on God's timing and hearing this pile makes it feel like it's getting closer. Thank you, Gem Goddess!!!
Pile 2 loved each and every word you said...I am myself an over critical and over judging person to me rather than others doing it...I am in process of learning more of self thing...like love, confidence, decisiveness, putting myself first,not repressing my soul
i don't have a lover or crush let alone having a lovelife. i don't even know what im doing here
At this point it’s like a podcast, I just like listening to the stories people make
I've been single my whole life and don't expect to meet anyone in the near future, I just watch tarot for fun and as a background noise :)
Lol x2
That comment made my day..thank you❤
Same
Pile no 2: got married to a narcissist last year and was always put down .Now I am living separately from him and deciding to get separated from him .All my family members are supporting me. Now I am trying to heal myself and love myself .I actually feel lonely sometimes but after seeing your reading I kind of feel optimistic now .I claim all the positive energy .
Pile 3 :: This is amazing. I've been holding onto my ex for the past year and recently made the choice to let him go fully and an amazing man came into my life... This is ON POINT!
Pile 1: next relationship with someone stable whose already found themselves, same values, same energy, same level, successful career, raising standards, someone from past getting back in touch
Pile 2: i claim this positive and beautiful change coming in my soul, friendship and life. More success, love and luck coming my way! And to more happy and loyal years to my love life!🧿
Your energy is pure and powerful Use it to create a beautiful day 🌿💖
Pile #1 and wow… Spot on. I am in a committed relationship for 15 years and three kids, and have realized how much I’ve been abandoning myself in this relationship. Taking bullets and sacrificing my own needs. He never intentionally hurt me but his lack of emotional intelligence and me not being able to express my needs properly has led to so much pain. I have started to expect more from him but am also seeing where I have played a role as a victim/martyr in the relationship and expected him to fill my cup in ways I can and should only do on my own. We are in a phase right now where we are trying to start over and build a new, stronger foundation. I hope we are able to build something sustainable, but I’m scared that it will become obvious that we’re no longer aligned.
Pile 4: I LITERALLY got my surprise before I saw the end of this video. In shock… I have been married for almost 15 years and couldn’t foresee any surprises so I stopped watching, thought no, spirit is saying this for someone else - THEN I’d mentioned feeling a bit down today to my husband and just a little lost with my direction in life and BOOM he surprised me with vegan chocolate 🍫 to cheer me up.
This may not mean a lot to some people, maybe you get gifts all the time, maybe you never went through hell and back with that person but it meant the world to me ❤ this shows he was listening and wanted to make me happy. And it means everything ❤❤❤mission accomplished!!
Came back to see the end of my reading have so much hope for the future Xx
Pile 3: i'm single and I realized I've been claiming this kind of relationship for about 6 years, but I wasn't conscious or I thought I didn't deserve it. Now this s***t belongs to the past. I feel close to this dream relationship and I HIGHLY CLAIM THIS ENERGY AND THIS PILE. I'm fed up with bare minimum and breadcrumblig.
Yessssss!! You said it so perfectly!! I claim it with you girly! It’s 100% OURS
Thanks!
Pile 2 resonated with me so much! I've been single for a year after being in a relationship with a narcissist who would always bring me down and my identity revolved around him. But now, as a newly licensed professional about to enter a new season, I feel much validated in my self without needing anybody and I can't wait to meet people who will add up to the goodness I feel in my soul.
PILE 2 : this is so fking accurate! I broke up recently and regaining my confidence these days. I feel so much better now. and also I am getting close to a girl in our class, who's really amazing and caring. whenever I lay my head on her lap she pets me and helps me to calm down. she's the friend I wanted in my life. and I'm having so much fun with her these days. I've been put down by my family members long ago but now I'm letting all those things go. I'm the best I see. Thank you Gem!
Hahahaha pile no 2. I wasn't playing this reading because it was a love reading. But so spot on gem. You were my first UA-cam tarot reader and in my most difficult times your tarot readings often resonate.
This is exactly what I am feeling word by word and yes I am newly Single and so excited to love myself and explore the world! 🌎 Thank you so much ❤
Pile 1! Finally released a toxic ex, I've always attracted energy vampires. I quit drinking I'm working out and meditating multiple times a week. I also have no love interests or situation ships in my energy for the first time in years! I've had to take so many powerful new steps to try and only allow healthy reciprocal energy!! Can't wait for the payoff. Thanks for the confirmation 🎉
Pile 3: after years of disappointments and heartbreaks, I am seeing someone new, for about a month now, and it's a completely different experience for me 😁
Pile 2: This reading made me feel so wholesome inside my heart and thank you so so so much. I’m part of the 10% 😅 After years of neglect and really feeling lost with my identity, in recent months I’ve been working very hard to heal myself and improve my health. It’s been hard but so rewarding. So much to love to everyone for pile 2 too ❤❤❤
I picked pile 2. I typically don’t watch these but I stumbled upon it in my recommended so I was just like “why not”?
The accuracy of this is insane. After my most recent break I have decided to really focus on myself. Have a “glow up” but not out of spite. I finally want to finally treat myself. I want to take care of myself and become the best me.
I’ve also been feeling lonely lately and wanting a tight friend connection, I’m really looking forward to this.
I also genuinely love that this isn’t “you’ll be in a relationship with a new partner and have a happy ever after” as im not looking, like you said.
Pile 2: I went to a tarot reader last week for funsies and she pretty much said the same thing!! The 2 yrs, having my best life, even the traveling!... I'm already starting to feel it!
Pile 2: im going through a breakup and have been realizing how much my ex suppressed my personality and excitement and enjoyment of life. everything has been so dark and grey and negative and im finally in a space like at my new job with like minded people where i can flourish. ive felt a weight lifted off my shoulders after realizing this and i literally have chills listening to my pile. my background on my phone is literally text that says “you must absolutely choose yourself this time.” ive been telling myself that 7th grade me would be so proud of who ive become today.
Pile 2 I love this thank you for the confidence boost! I have been making changes and I’m glowing and I love it! I’m a Capricorn rising so knowing that I’m motivated to embrace my best self is also going to improve my finances, my passion for my life and lifestyle. All of I is changing in the best ways possible
Pile 1: only about a minute in and yes, I recently started a 90 day self improvement journey. Currently on day 8. It’s crazy because I was drawn to pile one but felt nervous about it and felt myself about to choose a different pile I felt semi-drawn to but something told me “no. Pile one is the one for you”
- a little deeper, the “next relationship with someone successful” is mind blowing. I had a conversation with my client yesterday and said to her “I don’t know but I feel like my next relationship is going to be with someone of a higher status, I don’t know why but I just feel it”
- okay I oddly feel really exposed now. This was extremely accurate
- okay so I’ve been single for 2 years now BUT I have been in a situationship for those two years. I knew I shouldn’t have been dealing with this person but I enjoyed the attention I guess, however, I definitely was not respected or seen. I put my foot down officially yesterday and I’m standing on my boundaries. I no longer want to entertain a situation I know I shouldn’t be. I knew better and didn’t do better and I was more frustrated with myself than everything
- okay the spy card came out and PLEASE LET THIS BOY LEAVE ME ALONE 😭😂
- past life relationship - all this boy did was promise things & that’s what my final straw was, another broken promise.
Pile no.4. - I'm ready to receive my soulmate's unconditional love
Pile 3! Omg I have been manifesting and scripting an apology from someone. We’ve had a series of miscommunications and misunderstandings over the years and I’ve been working on forgiving him but especially the version of me that was bad at communicating and being a people pleaser. I’m in a 12 step program now and in a really good place.
Pile 2 was so accurate and on point. It really mad me happy knowing that things are going to change soon. Thank you for this reading ❤
Pile 3: I'm ready for all of it. I feel like I've finally healed from old relationships and I'm ready for this new one, even if it has heavy conversations, I'm ready.
Pile 2. I am a Capricorn sun. I am 30. I have lived for my family as a caregiver. Now I want to love myself, I want to take care of myself. ❤ Moving and living my dream life explore and travel as much as I can!
Pile 2, feeling the need to go travelling and changing my career. Spot on reading, can’t wait xx 🙏
pile 1: this make sense I'm single and thees days i have been doing things to become my best version and also i'm manifesting physical changes. this really motivates me to keep going .
Pile 2: Omg girl this is my reading. Healing and putting ME first. Finally enjoying my peace and yea the importance of regret and fear around that…I refuse to betray myself again. I won’t lie my heart is in lock down protection mode. It was before but now it’s even more so and you’re correct with me not avidly looking..
Pile 3: So many things I was thinking and talking about just now with my bf came back here! And I was holding my necklace while listening and the healing card, my necklace looks exactly like that and I got from my bf came up and I was just really proud of myself and us in our healing journey, I felt so connected to this reading
Claiming Pile 2.I accidentally watched this reading
I consider this as a sign from universe ♥️
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. You never fail me, Gem Goddess. I don’t know how you’re so on point on 99% of the videos I watch.
it’s almost eerie how your readings always resonate 😅
pile 2: i claim this energy with everything in me
Pile 2 is 💯 I hope all the positivity comes through 🌟
Pile 1: I cried with Queen of Cups and 10 of cups, I was a horrible place, and my energy it was very low, and my ex it was not letting me go....I was losing myself 💔 and my crush came back to my life and we have the perfect balance, we are connecting beautiful and we are growing together. We are not in a relationship, but we are building something beautiful.
Thank you❤
Not me choosing pile 2 while in my healing and self love era💖
Group 2 - happily, blissfully married, healing from childhood trauma 😅
Yes, Pile 2! Totally resonates! Healing self-critical ways, also past relationships with critical men, not to mention a very critical mother. I am saying ‚yes’ to Freedom, self- expression & self-exploration and travel! Recently I encountered a new group of friends with a very positive outlook on life & one of them especially will become a dear friend, I believe. Usually I’ve met others who wanted me to be who they needed me to be. It’s a relief this is changing - yeah! 🎉
Pile 4- thank you for the beautiful reading. Amen to my dream marriage to the love of my life
Pile 2 I’m definitely in a “accept me as I am or kick rocks” era. I feel like I’ve always tolerated being in situations where I can only be one part of myself. I feel like now I’ve fallen in love with myself. Im still working on myself, but it feels natural and not like I’m trying to “fix” me. I can’t really say I regret my past choices, because I feel like they had to happen. I appreciate the experiences & what I learned from them. I wouldn’t be where I am without them so 🤷🏽♀️ And I blocked everyone that needed to be blocked 😂😂
ok that's actually crazy. pile 2 resonated with me so much and was just so spot on with my current situation. how does that even happen. thank you for this!
I am teary eyed...it's like you are reading my mind and soul....thank you... heartfelt gratitude ❤
Card 4. I love the Crystal Visions Tarot deck! It’s amazing how accurate this is!
Pile 2 I stronglyyyy claimmm. Resonating completely 🌸
Woah, pile 2. Thinking about being a flight attendant because I want to travel. You were on the money with this one, honey! Thank you 😊.
Pile#2 Thank You so much Gem Goddess ☺️❤️❤️ Perfect timing, especially with the upcoming Pisces 🐟 Moon Eclipse and that Energies are shifting very fast. I do feel more confident lately and more beautiful and stronger - looking in the mirror 🪞🪞 and self talk really helps a lot ❤❤❤❤
Many Love 💕💕 and blessings to you too 💖💖💖
I like your **snap** transitions, and your nails are gorgeous 💜
Thank you for the reading (I'm Pile 4). This is beautiful 🥰
Pile 2 really resonated with me I’m currently going through a rough time in my relationship and I really want to just focus on myself now. I don’t have too many friends, and to be honest I’m not really close to anyone anymore as I tend to put a barrier up, but I am going on holiday with two friends that I actually really like and I hope to get closer to -so hopefully I can heal, travel and enjoy my life right now that’s all I want is just to be happy and express who I am because recently I have felt a bit like a shell of myself. And I’ve had enough of it.
My pile said “this is like what you see in movies” I related so much to this we have been very well at communicating and love a healthy relationship is my best and longest relationship. I only listen to tarot when my mind tells me to, the universe brought me to you. Thank you.
Pile 2. I have been making myself feel better and my sleep is improving and I’m no longer tired throughout the day. Also I’m traveling abroad in December and hope to do more over the next few years. I’m
Going on a group trip in December that I’m hoping to meet new people and I’m also hoping to meet my person while away as well 😁🥰
Pile 2 - so many similarities to the era I have been living since January 2023 (minus the travel - I bought a house instead). The last few years have been the most self-actualized I have ever felt and I realized that one reason I don't move into romantic relationships easily is because I don't want to compromise any part of who I am to be with another person because I love all my parts too much - I really need someone who will accept all of me. Sounds like in the reading there is still time left on this era, so I will keep living into it. 🙂
Yes! I see how much other women have had to sacrifice to be in a relationship and it made me never want to commit to anyone. I grew up in a controlling household, so I never want to experience anything like that again.
Congrats on your marriage Gem! Wishing you guys a beautiful lifetime together! ❤ so cool to hear you eloped 🎉
Wow!! Wow!!! I couldn't decide between #1 & #2, though slightly more drawn to one... & WOW! Every part of each reading is very relevant to me, even though some has already happened, or I'm in the midst of it happening. I've set boundaries like never before... & some don't like it. Tough. Their problem. I'm the most authentic at being me right now!! I'm healing physically & very fast emotionally (healing CPTSD). I've also had an amazing connection with someone who's on my wavelength a lot. He doesn't live in this town, but has a successful business. The energy is powerful... but I'm not jumping. I want to take my sweet time, do more work on myself, explore what we have potentially, & be friends... & it feels so right.
I've listened to several readings of yours, & connected in some way with them all.... but this time it was incredibly relevant!
I'm going to steal a few lines from an amazing song called You're The Voice (John Farnham), & change them a bit.... I'm not going to sit in silence. I'm not going to live with fear. I have the power to be powerful, believing I can make it better.... xx
Pile 2 on point . Thank you for the talk. I felt as if you were talking directly to me ❤
Group 3 - I've waited 12 years and my partner just proposed to me! Finally!🤣🤣🤣
Group 2 - This is so spot on. Omg.
Your readings are always spot on (Pile 2). I just came out of a relationship, my longest ever. He was an amazing man, but not my right fit because I couldn’t actually be who I TRULY am, so can’t he.
May both me and him grow and be better, even if we’re not together.
Pile 1. Thank you. I'm learning to set my boundaries. I'm trying to regain my energy. You describe it perfectly with two of cups
You blow me away. Pile 4 - I'm Cancer he's Gemini. He's my ex boyfriend from when we were 15. He recently came back into my life on social media and quite caught me by surprise with the depth of how he's held a candle for me all these years?! We've got an innate bond just really drawn to each other. Claiming this ❤❤
Pile 2, wow - do you read my mind?
PILE 3: i’m shaking and on the verge of tears. i nanny for this girl and she showed me her new halloween bag with a witch on it with a cool broom so i chose it because of that and pile 3 is usually just my pile so it lined up well! but what i wasn’t ready for was how exact this was. this is exactly the position im in rn. we met 3 months ago and we’ve been on like 10 dates and we act like a couple like… it’s shocking he hasn’t asked me yet BUT he is very slow and steady which i admire so much and he has never officially said, “let’s go on this date” but it’s more “i wanna do this with you” and my friends tell me it’s a date w/o asking but regardless HE PLANNED A CUTSIE DATE FOR US so i finally heard that word from him which is so refreshing and makes me think he is going to ask me soon and he wants me to meet his friends so i feel like he will ask soon. This whole reading was just too spot on, we met exactly in that way, we are the same person. like the same person. we get along sooooo well, everytime we hangout it’s just>>>, and as for the marriage part im only 19 lmao but he is older (2 years lmao) so idk BUT regardless i can feel it getting serious and we deffff new to have a conversation about what all of this is cause there is a possibility he just assumes im his gf so a CONVO will DEF help!! amazing reading woah.
you met in 2024?
@@sophianguyen6602 yup! june 2024 and we’ve been talking and going out since then
Please be careful, idk how much older he is. But if there is a significant age difference-besides that being a red flag in itself-they usually have a lot of problems, hence dating too young for them. So, remember you get to control the pace of the relationship too ❤
@@TheePrincessBrat it’s two years😭🩷
@@makendestewart oh girl you scared the crap out of me. I’m always looking out for my little sisters 🥹🩷. I do the same for my irl lil sis and her taste in guys has majorly improved. I’m late 20s so I can 21 is really young. Be safe and have fun 🫶🏽
Love your reading! ^^ My Higher Self chose pile 2 and pile 3. I met a special person on an online dating platform and we just celebrated 2 months together last week. It's impressive how accurate the readings are. Actually this weekend we started to have conversations about moving in (pile 3) and talking about past hurts from previous relationships (pile 2). We started to talk about moving in together becasue we live in 2 different countries and need to see how we are going to make it work (compromising, pile 3)
Would you like to make a video about the hightlights of your week? :)
I dont know why but i was thinking about the same you talked about for pile 1. Bringing new standards, change dynamics, creating balance, cut away all the things which are not working. Thank you universe.. i want to be stronger and healthier 💓🤞🏼😌thank you universe for always guiding me .
This is my second reading ever and last time I was drawn to two decks. It was really hard to choose this time but suddenly in an instant it felt like there was only one option. And wow. Pile 4…it’s literally happening to me AS WE SPEAK
The universe is always on your side Keep moving forward with confidence 🌸💫
okayy so i was freaking waiting for this specific reading OMG OMG
Pile 1 for the last months of this year and Pile 4 for the future in general ❤
Like not even an hour I recently broke up with my boyfriend so getting pile 3 and hearing good things gives me the peace and reassurance that I’ve made a good decision for myself
Pile 2, thank you so much!!❤️❤️
I missed you, Gem! Thank you for your time, energy, care, effort - all of it! I love your videos and how you present yourself. Thank you for introducing me to the world of tarot 🤍
I haven't been in a relationship, and I'm not interested in love readings, but this video kept popping out in my Recommended, and it even sent a notification right now. 😅
*Okay Spirit, and Universe, **_I choose Pile 3_*
Pile 2: I'm actually happily married. But I lost myself due to my childhood trauma.. now I'm reconnecting with my inner child. I talk to her daily and I'm starting to do what she wants. The adult me is so focused on surviving But my inner child just tells me to live life. This is more of a self love reading for me. I'm starting to love myself. Ofcourse I have my wonderful husband by my side. He's very supportive but now I'm just completely focused on self love.
I feel it's going to take me places where I'm meant to be
Thanks Gem ❤
Pile 2. Omg i am actually a newly single, i was in a really bad relationship where it took a massive toll on me, so now im focusing on loving myself and improving. Also yes friendships are so important to me rn.
Pile 2 is so spot on thank you much ❤
Every step you take is guided by divine love Trust in yourself 🌸💫
I've literally never watched any of ur videos as soon as they've been posted so this is Gonna be a treat
Pile 2 really spoke to me. Thanks! ❤
Pile 2 - I am currently in a relationship with someone who is not the right fit for me, I can feel us slowly grow apart. Your reading about the next two years of self-love, glow-up, friendship, travel and freedom is exactly what I am manifesting for. Thank you Gem Goddess
Pile #1 & 2 New standards 👑 ❤ Level UP + big Cap ♑️ energy + freedom, movement, travel 53:46 & 54:56 2's going on a new path 🎉 innovating life over the next 2 yrs 😊 57:47 the most fun + best time of my life yet!
GIRL I opened youtube with this exact topic in mind and your reading was posted 5 MINTUES ago??? if this isn't a sign idk what is
I opened this reading thinking exactly about the topic you talked about on pile 3. Is just so accurate. Everything I’ve been feeling and hoping. Thank you for your videos. They helped a lot throughout the years 💜
As always your reading resonates so deeply with me! Picked like 1 and I just went through so much healing for setting better boundaries and upleveling my standards. I’m ready to meet someone who’s on the same page with me and no more people pleasing or needing to fix a Partner. Thank you 🤍
Pile 2...made me cry. I did have a lot of sleepless nights recently, not being able to find peace, wanting to walk away from everything to be free and feel myself for a while. And then this new friend...I feel like this could be my tennis coach. I took up tennis 2 month ago. He's so damn cute and has such a positive and uplifting personality. Spending time with him feels very good. We do laugh a lot together and I^m enjoying every moment, not having to think about stuff I have to do next or anything. Just pure joy. I do have a little crush on him though. But being married the friendship thing is a way to keep him in my life without getting into trouble. Hope I will be able to let go of those feelings. Also it's exactly the exitement I'm yearning for.
Being a Pisces sucks sometimes 🙄😃
May your day be filled with love, clarity, and boundless joy 🌸💫
This is so freaky. Okay so this is gonna be a kinda long one Gem but I swear it’s worth it. I’ve been in a toxic two year long relationship and in it it’s as though I’ve lost my vitality. So then when I broke up with him two weeks ago, my spiritual side came back. I felt in tune with myself and my intuition. How all the readings I get and ones that come out are so scary accurate/exactly what I’m looking for. I was interested to see what love looked like for me in the future and then you make THIS VIDEO. I love your videos so muchhhh thank you Gem❤️
this actually made a lot of sense for me, I intuitively chose a pile and that's pretty much what I've been living with someone I met recently 💟 thank you!!!
Pile 1 & 2: Been single for a long time now, and I've been in a hermit mode, like alone, and sometimes lonely too. But I've been wanting to like just shake everything up. I loved how the strength card knocked the dice to pull Uranus on it. That's what I've been urging to do as well, felt that so strong. I feel sure of myself after a long time, I have learned what a healthy partnership is and now I just wanna get out into the world.
Pile 3! Literally been manifesting this exact man that I just met! There were so many moments that I was like YES!!!! Thank you for this.
My friends and I always chose 2 of your decks. We tend to get attracted to 2. Sometimes one definitely feels more like its meant for us but sometimes I wonder if its two paths we will be presented
OMGGG 😭😭😭😭, I chose pile 3 and 4, this was on point. You r one of the tarot reader i resonate soooo easily. The relationship I'm in rn is sooo healthy and yea online cuz LDR and that's how we met.
PILE#4: I have got only injustice in my love life all the time... I'm literally tired of life...things only seem to be getting uglier.... I'm tired of literally everything...
Thank you for your advices and guidance. I'm picking the 2nd pile, you're saying what it is in my own head. I'm so struggling to pull myself together after I've almost lost myself for some reason. It's feels like finally someone understanding my thought 🥲
Pile 3: I had a recent dream that I was proposed to and I woke up feeling so many things. I know my divine partner is coming in soon and I have healed so much. Baby I’m ready!