Can’t Get Over Her Ex
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- Опубліковано 16 жов 2024
- The plaintiff says she has two children with the defendant and she’s still in love with him even though he assaulted her while she was pregnant. She’s suing her ex for personal property, the balance due on a cell phone, and a rent refund. The defendant says the plaintiff is only suing because she wants him back. He’s countersuing because he claims she assaulted him.
#JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
Never let a man tell you more than once, he doesn’t want you. -Judge Lynn Toler
I miss her
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His opening line: She's just mad because I don't want to be with her anymore
Her opening line: I am in love with this man
She stayed after he bust her in the head, left when he went outside with his friends.
If goofy was a person, it would be her
She was the violent one
Facts
She sure showed her true colors turned out to be a terrible liar
That little face she made when the judge caught her in a lie told me everything. I’m actually glad he won.
But He Is A Liar Also! 😏
@@LADILADY67 she pretty much told on herself when she did that
Yeap she said st patty day then easter.
@@LADILADY67that smirk frustrated me so much
Poor guy, he’s going to regret ever meeting her. She will always use his kids against him.
Yes. Even when they're grown.
Yes, UNLESS, she meets another man, and have another child
@@shonda79able was
And she looks so innocent and knows her looks play in her favor. Females like this are very dangerous.
He's a bum
She didn’t expect him to have that text. She was speechless. 😂😂😂
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
She ain't have shit to say 😂
she almost asked for a lawyer the way she was silent
throughout the entire time the man was talking, her head was down because she realized that she forgot to destroy her evidence. Women are so busy destroying their men that they leave a bunch of incriminating evidence. She's just like my ex-wife, a compulsive liar! The funny thing is she was doing everything she could to cover up her lies, but the pictures snitched on her, and at the end, after she lost, she was pissed, and tried to call him a liar, but she was busted lying, and still refuses to hold herself accountable.
@curtis wilson ALL FACTS
Now, this is the way you win a case. Tell the truth, have plenty of receipts, be consistent and remain cool. He handled himself well. She on the other hand needs to get it together.
Really you think he was truthful ?
@@marierevis1351 I do. He proved his case. Woman will do anything to ruin your life when they have a child with u and u won’t won’t commit to them. Good for him, he should have asked for 5000
@@marierevis1351 • I believe there was a little embellishments on both sides. She admitted that she was breaking pictures and he didn't deny that. He chose to use breaking things, and I believe had it been more, he would've said it. The young lady seemed to have knocked the wind out of her sail by the way Judge Mathis was speaking to her. I don't know if he was joking at times, but had I been her, I would've thought he was already leaning towards the young man 🙂.
@@SarahJohnson-pe4oj are you single or married?
It don't matter what any of you think, he and O.J won their cases.
The minute you contradict yourself in JM’s court - your case is DISMISSED 😳😂😎
Its called "lying" or when you do it in court, "perjury." It ruins your credibility in ANY court of law (as it should), not just JM's
@@waldolydecker8118 exactly
Most cases are ruled that way... perjury taints the case .....if you're not wrong why lie?
There should be penalty against women who make inflammatory allegations that could ruin a man's entire life. How vile and evil can you be?
I know she went to child support after SMH
@@christiandilday7543 he should’ve wrapped up; better yet not even laid down with her. After seeing her behavior with one child, why double back and create another. Ppl create their own storms.
So scary
There really should be.
@@christiandilday7543 I really hope she went to child support because many single women try to financially support children on their own. Let's hope they both co-parent and put the children's well being first !!!
2 kids in 2 and a half years. They didn't waste any time in that toxic relationship. 😣
she knew what she was doin..some woman and men also have kids for diff reasons and thats the saddest part about humanity
She is a breeder.....baby manufacturer..... world populator .... man trapper
Why was I thinking the same thing. Not sure of those 2 times he cheated on her that she knows of but she knew what she was getting into with him. He is very handsome and charming and you tell he has a helluva body the way those muscles are just aching to burst through the clothes and then she is attractive too. I bet he was beating that wap up all through the house. Good for them. They probably got a 3rd kid now.
She was trapping him & he didn’t work so now he just stuck with her … 💡💡💡🧏🏾♂️🧏🏾♂️🧏🏾♂️🧏🏾♂️ Niggas need to understand you don’t have to nut in everyone buggin out I see girls like her from a mile away
@@imhereforitall9218 ... holy crap, thirst levels sky high lol
Her saying she still loves him is sickening... She's clearly unstable.
Dated 2 yrs, pumped u up with two kids back to back, cheated and dumped u.
What's there to want sis 😒
Some women just create their own hell.
Factz
Big time facts
I'm sure he made things seem nicer in the beginning. Women should be careful with who we sleep with because it can be harder to be logical when feelings are involved. It's sad to see some women struggle with self worth like this.
Was she dumped for no reason? Did she not leave the home? Did you not see her scratches? Does she seem like the type to be bullied, she's cray cray
@@MarwaFamily888 she definitely has a issue
I have never seen a man cool, calm and collected while being lied on in, and stated his case with humility and honesty. What a young man!
He knew he had the receipts. She counted on her looks and thought Judge Mathis would go for pretty girl crap. If this is how she acts in court she must be a hot mess in real life. Whew... The headache he has attached himself too for life. Poor fella.
Got the receipts and tired of her...
He robbed a Dollar General two weeks later.
@@tesstickles1280 Stop making up stuff about people.
His calmness made her look bad, point blank!
He never interrupted her as she opened her testimony with nothing but lies. Cool, calm and prepared. Great presentation, young man.
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After two kids…. His fist line is “I cheated on her numerous times” and no one remembers that.
@@crystalmarroquin777has zero to do with the case though 🤷🏾♂️
@@crystalmarroquin777 Gotta tell the truth to prove your case
Knew he wasn’t lying when she said “I love this man” 😂
Lol
😂😂
One of my favorite cases. A man who won his case on evidence. A good father who his babymother was trying to paint as abusive
She was the aggressor and she show her true color leaving the court. Using obscene language.
@ 4:40, you can tell by her facial expression that she knew she was about to lose her case, so she was scheming.
That was crazy! I was all the way on her side at first and boom he had evidence that she was lying right there to JM. Best case in a long time.
Gotta stop believing these stories! We are have to stay on a unbiased path.
@@andrejamal5438 mane preach.
Females be doing that I remember my bm killed my ps4 lml and cuz I restrained her she told her family I hit her smh
@@andrejamal5438 I absolutely agree!
@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent u mean to tell me once u got married the abusive started ? Was yah even roommates before all that ? Sounds to me like u was living with him and not with him
Don't understand why she took him to court. Glad the defendant just went in and told the truth about everything
Im glad he did too. You can tell by the way he explained everything that he wasnt lying
@@HAZYHEAUX You'll be hearing about her preventing him from trying to see his child soon as they get back to Ohio. And then he's going to have to go to court and try and get visitation because she's not going to let him see his child.
@@HAZYHEAUX Yeah she's ignorant.
@@HAZYHEAUX ijojojooii
@@HAZYHEAUX jokiojojjojojojjojojjjojojojo
Some of y’all women are just so damn downright NASTY AND EVIL and miserable and bitter as all hell! I hear the horror stories of what some of y’all do to these men who just want to be a father to their children and it’s absolutely appalling and disgusting! Damn! Do better! SMH
At least you said "some" while seemingly pointing the finger at all. I would tell my sons if they were in this kind of situation to fight for joint or full custody, no matter the odds. That's what I would call really trying to be a father to your children. AND I mean then take care of their children, not pawn them off on their mothers.
@@sereneamani1713 we gone point the finger at MOST of you. Because MOST of you be on this type of bull 💩
The saddest part is the kid(s) suffer.
You are a diamond in the ruff
True!!!
I FEEL SORRY FOR THEIR BABIES !
Can you imagine the nightmare of having them as parents? Hopefully, they will mature real soon.
Why...she like this...
@@sereneamani1713 them? Nah just her. She’s the problem not him.
So tired of these women with these false accusations against men.
The sooner they start going to jail for these false accusations the better.
If they lie saying you assaulted them they will lie saying you raped them.
She gone put that man through pure hell about them kids she's gone use them as a pawn against him.
Go to court and get parental custody rights.
What’s preventing him from getting custody
She surely will.
He better get a lawyer now
Fast forward, woman found shot dead leaving 2 kids behind. Oh she as so good to her kids. She loved her kids. No she as an effin stupid B and had a lot of enablers around her. Now she is gone because he was a vindictive B.
A baby can't keep a man
This‼️
Nothing can keep a man except himself. Free will is a powerful thing
So proud of this defendant.
again you’re on here when it’s abuse
He proved otherwise but as always many of you get it all wrong. She was the abuser not him.
@@adrianprince7266 they both were . She’s peppersprayed her and he threw her while pregnant.
Me too
@@adrianprince7266 He need to leave her alone and just be a father to his kids. I agree with you 💯 percent on this one. She was clearly the aggressor and tried to paint a picture to make herself look like a victim.
She conveniently couldn't remember how any altercation started then went right into a specific incident from start to finish 😶
Yikes 😬
I agree and wats funny some females really be acting as a victim like they not the problematic one once she said she forgive him I knew she was a liar
@@Sunshine134chick bw are the only group I know who get into multiple fights being 6 to 8 months pregnant smh
I said the same thing. She remembered all of the other details.
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 no, white women are that way too
I know that sometimes moving on seems difficult but please do it. This case is a clear example of why you should be careful of who you have children with and also poor emotional intelligence. She brought him on this show because she can't let him go. I truly believe if he'd countersued for the maximum he would've won. She just ended up looking unstable and abusive. Men, watch out!
ABSOLUTELY.... I AGREE
I mostly agree but the last part should be "men and women watch out", he was a cheater and didn't help create a stable home.
@@jadesmith7983 it doesn’t matter if he cheat with multiple women, it doesn’t give anyone the right to put hands on anyone. And why every time a woman does something y’all always try to include men on their screw ups. It’s always Men and Women, every time a woman messes up. But every time a man messes up, it’s men need to…..just accept the fact that women need to hold women accountable for their unstable feelings sometimes.
@@djsmove2389 I didn't excuse her actions. Maybe you should assess why you think it's ok to cheat on a women while she is having your children. I know you've never had a child being that you are a man but you don't play with people's mental health like that. Create a stable environment and reap what you sow. Create chaos and you will get that back aswell. Like I said the first time BOTH of them are at fault.
@@djsmove2389Notice the deflection in her statements, yet the original comment (from a logical thinking woman, who sees the bs in the part of the plaintiff) sheds light on just how vindictive and petty some women can get, to the point of alienating fathers from their children's lives, just because the relationship is done.
P.S: It's said that "ACCOUNTABILITY is a woman's kryptonite". Truest words ever told!
When it's over it's over. Ladies cry, have a drink hang with your people, pray,fast what ever it takes. Let it go. Eighty percent of the time a man will move on faster but volience isn't the answer or acting crazy isn't the answer.
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95% of the time...they definitely don't waste time..
Getting all of your evidence of her abuse documented when she telling her sob stories painting herself as a victim is the answer.....works every time....congratulations 👏 young brother.....
She never got over him cheating on her in the beginning. And I do believe she's upset he don't want her no more. She was definitely the aggressor in all their situations. He needs to go through the court system and get visitation of his kid. She's that type!;
Yo honor I would like to say I'm still in love with this man, although he busted me up side my head while I was 6 months pregnant in front of our 1 year old daughter then he left me there just bleeding. But I'm steady cheesing from ear to ear. I can't with her!!!
Not bust me upside my head. Lol🤣🤣🤣
Oops up side the head
@@amaj_lex Omg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ALL OF THIS!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Like frfr😂😂😂😂
The only thing he could’ve done better was never meet her! Kudos to this king for maintaining his composure and handling business. Next stop- custody hearing! Because she is way too unstable and violent to have full custody of a dog let alone children
Don’t say that, the brother has kids with her
Was there something else in the video that I missed? He's a cheater and she didn't know how to let go. Both of them are immature and need to put their children first !!!
@@birdchoyce4332 No, you didn't miss anything.
Wow
He handle himself well and had all the text as evidence. She is a liar. And the aggressor in the relationship.
Self worth needs to be a mandatory school course along with financial literacy, home economics and sexual education.
She started the conversation off saying how in love with him that she is… I think she is more obsessed than in love. Love doesn’t cause you to react violently! But obsessive does.
Yes. That's classic signs of an obsessive toxic relationship. Women like this terrify me especially when they have children. Cause they'll put themselves and children in harms way trying to fight for the love of a man that clearly don't want them.
Ain't no love in my heart for anyone that cheats and beats me.
That was a good one, with twist and turns!!!Mathis gets the case RIGHT!!!👍 Any other judge wouldn't understand, and she would've won off open statements.....best thing he had was the evidence of abuse
How can in one breathe she say " she's in love with that man " and in the next breathe explain how he physically abuses her. ". Smh. Wow.
Bc she obviously lied. Did you watch the case…
@Mike C you trying to be a smart behind or sarcastic. I wasn't literally asking the question. It was a play on words. Clearly,that's over your head.
You know a man is done when he doesn’t argue back and forth. I feel sorry cause she seem like she will be using the kids against him because she can’t have him
The way she was smiling while saying he hit her randomly girl wtf
Bc it was clearly a lie
She. Fought him to court to get another look at him this is ridiculous.
My thoughts exactly. That D got her going crazy
Stuff like this reminds me how I proudly made it to damn near 30 with no kids. I don’t want to end up coparenting with an awful person.
I am trying to understand your logic. You're almost 30 with no children. Was that difficult to do? If so, why? You can't think of any other circumstance to have children that have you not being a co-parent. Your statement seems to limit your choices to not having children vs co-parenting.
@@sereneamani1713 You don’t actually have to understand my logic. For a woman to make it to 30 in year 2022 with no children is not the most common thing. Women only naturally have so long to conceive. Those who purposely don’t have children because they haven’t ran into a good person they can possibly co-parent with for the next 18 years understand what I’m saying. A great majority of the people I’ve come across or know who have children eventually spilt with the mom or dad and now have to co-parent with a whole lot of drama, child support, fussing over how to raise the kid, fighting, etc. People expose their true selves after kids get involved, some for the good and some for the worse. I’m not willing to find out for just any ol person unless I truly love them, determine their character, and I am married.
Smart woman !!!
Well I'm in my mid-30s with no kids so I wholeheartedly understand your statement. Having kids are not a small responsibility, they require both money (to buy pampers, food, clothes, etc.) and time (to teach them how to talk, walk, etc.)!!!
@@cashoutsteve2495 Yes, kids are such a big commitment and it can be challenging to find the right person to have them with.
You cannot assault a woman or a man under any circumstances much less with someone pregnant. But I feel for this defendant, so my heart goes out to him because men go through things that get ignored all too often out here. I stopped listening to her after deciding to stay after all the abuse with 2 kids mind you.
He said she came at him with a knife so he pushed her away or was that a different assault
That was the same incident which involved one of their children. But it seems there was alot of abuse in this relationship. But she was the abuser. He actually proved his case. I was surprised because generally with these kinds of cases Mathis has the men for lunch.
She was like, he left me pregnant with my head bleeding….🙄 that was such a dramatic statement as any small cut on the head would bleed a lot.
@@jplaya2023 You guys are new to his comments?
@@Proverbspsalms They have to be. Adrian must be running for office. He's softening and camouflaging the fact that he hates all women (except his mother, so he says).
She showed her true colors walking out the courtroom
Exactly. The even more crazier thing is there may be some women who watching the video who are going to defend this “woman” disguised as the plaintiff & make her out to be the victim
Just tell the truth, don’t go in there tryna shame the man and make him out to be the physical abuser when you without a doubt participated in abuse! That’s why she lost. It’s sad on both of them. I don’t believe everything she said was a lie but she def stretch her story and falsified some contents!
Exactly there was truth to some of what she said, but stretching the truth and lacking the proof got her caught up. Both were abusive, sad on all sides.
@@gigga693 yes you can sense the abuse whether it was physical or verbal.
That's where they always fail. Like you said, just tell the truth. Trying to make the other person look worse won't help you at all.
You can tell there wasn't any physical abuse on his end.. she couldn't give a number on how many times he put his hands on her.. talk to someone who has really lived the life of dv..
It’s really sad that a man need to have all this proof to combat a woman’s lie, however a woman can just have a story, her story alone can have a man arrested and found guilty 🤦🏾♂️
I like how Judge didnt say much or laugh at all. When she mentioned assault, his whole demeanor changed. Judge does not play about stuff like that.
He doesn't play when the one who was assaulted is a woman. He has a long history of laughing it off when a man is the one who was assaulted.
@@Bray_Jay idk I don’t recall seeing him do that much even with men.
@@Bray_Jay if anything he may laugh at a man going through it continuously that did nothing about it on any occasion.
Uncle Mathis don’t play when it comes to young folk.
Good case. Prime definition of an accident. The meeting of 2 people who were never intended to meet.🤫
Young and immature. It’s so sad many people go through things like this. Hope they can be strong for their babies.
Which one of them was the mature one?
That’s good for her … she needed her case dismissed. She’s pathetic , sad & too emotional. Why are you in your feelings about this man having who he wants in his home after she chose to leave. She is confrontational and spiteful. I hope he really leaves her alone because she is extremely toxic. I don’t believe a thing she said.
I feel that the kids will be suffering throughout their lives because mom stated she’s still in love with this man even though she’s not with him anymore so whenever mom sees another woman with the dad all hell will break out and I hope she doesn’t hurt or do worst to him being scorned.
He made it very clear that he just wants to see his kids. He didn't say anything about her. This can get messier.
@@shonda79able exactly and see that hard breath she took when he said ONLY his kids sad this won’t be good for the kids nor him
Realize that No One can Control Another Person's Life ,No One owns Another Person, This is Toxic, Just Coparent and Leave Each other Alone No One has the right to assault someone else Period !!!
It's the defendant's calmness and honesty for me.
I pray he finds true love 💜
Lord they was a TOXIC couple!!
Naw she the one toxic. Always blame shit on the man.
Lord SHE is TOXIC and needs to be in PRISON!
He’s failing to understand she’s going to walk him down for 18 years, 🤭🤭🤭🤭
She is miserable having babies don't mean he will stay with you
@@mmsmart1014 she look like those church girl types that by appearance they look innocent but they really crazy as hell i know I have had one before and I was so glad to get away
And let that man see his kids and separate your emotions girl. If you don’t you are not doing anything but hurting your kids and making things more difficult for yourself. I know it’s hard especially when you love or loved someone but you gotta mature at some point and do what’s best without the constant chaos.
She doesn’t have a nervous smile, she’s lying.
Wow, she’s vindictive and a huge lair. Glad the judge inquired further to get the truth. He doesn’t condone domestics violence of any types. Glad this gentleman called the cops and pressed charges to document this, not many men do.
Gentlemen don’t cheat.
Why is she embarrassing herself publicly professing love to a man who doesn't love her and has repeatedly cheated on her and she claims he beat her? That's psycho behavior
Dude was cool, calm and collected waiting for his turn...bam here you go proof speaks for itself. Once she started yelling at him she knew she got caught.
Oh yes! The Wheels of Justice turn slowly but exceedingly fine.
Every time she was lying she would start talking real softly.
Look at Kirk Franklin!!! 🎶 Smile! Even though I hurt… see I smile!!
😂
He does look like a young Kirk Franklin
taller kirk franklin 😂
Damn, and I was believing her when I heard her testimony at the beginning. That young lady ought to be ashamed of herself lying on that young man.
The plaintiff story sounded so believable. Then when the defendant gave his side of the story. Her story didn't add up. On a side note. Don't sleep have kids with people you don't want to spend your life with. Get married. If you don't want to marry a crazy person. Then why you willing to have that crazy person be the parent of your child
Why do these girls so openly have kids by just anybody--she only knew him for 2 years and has 2 kids already? smh
She’s delusional as hell
Hmm u think? Smh
Sad, seam's like two good young people...need adult counseling.
Sis you don't own him
She said I’m still in love with him 😅 so imma take him to court and lose 🤣
When the defendant got to shuffling them papers to prove his case at the end.... it's was a wrap... girl he don't love you no mo... better be like Toni Braxton in her song" move on".
Dang, did he breath when he told his side of the story?🤔
😂😂
The plaintiff was being vindictive. Thank goodness the defendant had receipts!
I like that guy👍, cause that's how men is suppose to come to court, have all your evidence, speak like you got some sense, not stuttering and acting like you can't remember anything, then maybe they would win their cases more often.
very smart young man
Except not too smart because he got with her
@@Proverbspsalms I am really agreeing with you today.
@@sereneamani1713 🤗 there you are again. I’m glad we’ve bonded. I think one day we were fighting
@@Proverbspsalms he probably didn't know she was violent.... Alot of bw are very violent like her
She's very TOXIC 😞
Plaintiff like the woman on a thin line between love and hate. Bitter and scorned
She was the only one lying😂
She more mad at the cops for saying it's Easter than at her supposedly abusive dude. Ladies, cops are not counselors just for you to go back and still be in love.
My man presented his case so well
I thought JM would trigger in the first minute of her testimony, thankfully he listened and weighed both sides.
He said he cheated a few times! 🤦🏾♀️
And brushed right on thru it like that’s no big deal. Oh I just cheated a few times and she wouldn’t get over it 🤦🏾♀️
Men are going to want other women like get over it
@@gp9677 have as many as you want if they’ll accept. Just don’t commit to one and tell her she’s the only one! That ain’t player anyway!
@@ProfessorBae08 neither is lying about your body count as a woman as we know y’all do or telling men it’s childish for wanting to know your past
@@gp9677 I think you’re missing the point. When you’re cheating, that could be in a present relationship. We aren’t talking about past body count. If you’re under 35 let me know so I can either stop conversing with you or understand why you think the way you do.
This is just sad all the way around 😔
"Are those old scratches, or are those new scratches, Dwayne?" She clearly scratches him regularly. I hope he gets custody of his child and stays FAR away from her.
She didn't know her lies would catch up wth her😀😀😀 she's a professional liar 😲
It seems they both were violent towards one another despite the judgement!
His nightmere has only just begun, stay prayed up my guy🙏🏿🥺
This brother brought them receipts !!!!!! This how you handle yourself when dealing with a crazy baby mama 🙌🏾🙏🏾🐐
As soon as I seen her, I knew it was about to be some stuff... and then she started speaking and CONFIRMATION!!!
Ah yes, the old " better to stay quiet and let people think you're an idiot, than to speak up and remove all doubt"...perfect scenario for this case
@@d820m exactly that!!
Lil girl you LOST. Let him see and be apart of His Kids Future..
When someone shows you who they are......BELIEVE THEM.
While describing “abuse” she’s smiling ear from ear. Chileeeeer somebody get this liar
Damn the defendant was prepared
Once he pushed that door open …ohhh baby 😂😂
Damn Dwayne came prepared!
She should’ve been embarrassed AF! She’s calling him a liar?? That’s all she could say cause she was embarrassed!
She's scorned!
Grow up sis!!!!
I'll never understand how a woman can look at a man after he physically assaults you and look at him a say "yes I still wanna be here" make it make sense lady!!!
She keeps admitting she’s inlove with him n she’s really acting out it irritates me that she abused him too n thought he wasn’t going to mention her part
Damn, she mad because he presented documents and won his case and she was caught up in lies. Brother go to court and fight for your kids.
A respectable and respectful MAN will not attract or be attracted to a disrespectful woman. A respectable and respectful man will elevate those he comes in contact with. He will not find himself in disrespectful situations and relationships. I am definitely not describing the defendant.
How can she be so devious & conniving? 2 sides to the story, but the Truth came out! Justice was served. Hold those receipts.
I think they have a mutually combative relationship.
Your claim is dismissed you are the liar ma’am. Take her to court sir
These young people are learning how difficult it is to be grown the hard way. Playing house and having babies ain't exactly what it's cracked up to be! Im sure that somebody's parent tried to guide them in the right direction but they thought they knew best. 🤐
This is more common than people think! When a woman mentions assault the man is automatically the bad guy but more times than not there is a reaction to a action and those details are always left out when telling the story. SMH
Oh, she’s calling him a liar when she just straight-up lied to JM about scratching him! Or what was it, she didn’t scratch him but then he shows pics to JM where he is full of scratches & bottle cuts it looked like. Well, she sure as heck ain’t gonna get him back now with all that! That girl be messy!!
She just mad cause he don't want that kitty no more. Lmao. 😂😂😂😂She made herself look like a complete buffoon on national TV. Wow!😂😂😂