Sober Doesn't Mean Boring - Lucy Hale

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  • Опубліковано 31 жов 2023
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    Join Alex in the studio for a powerful sit-down interview with Lucy Hale. Lucy opens up about the struggles she was facing behind the scenes and reveals the absolute rock bottom moment that led to her getting sober. She reflects on how drinking negatively impacted both her friendships and romantic relationships. Lucy tells Alex about what life looks like sober and how she’s been navigating dating and sex without alcohol. Daddy Gang, get ready because this is an amazing and inspiring conversation you won't want to miss!
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  • @kali697
    @kali697 6 місяців тому +211

    I love how open and honest she’s on the podcast. This is so real and refreshing

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere 3 місяці тому

      verse to those who think and see human life on earth as daily mating/dating:
      1 Corinthians Chapter 7 32
      But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
      33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
      35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
      Souls, remember: GHOSTS = DEMONS.
      you and your loved ones ain´t demons.
      You and your loved ones are ADAM = mankind, created in the image of GOD.
      you and your loved ones stay not around to "ghost", we return back to dust and back to GOD.
      Genesis 5:2
      Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created.
      Ecclesiastes 12:7
      Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.

  • @asiabarajas2839
    @asiabarajas2839 2 місяці тому +50

    I love that she *actually listens*, she asks a question, and has the patience to wait for Lucy to fully answer. I think that's what makes a great interview- they don't jump in after 2 seconds of silence. She lets her fully answer and then will ask questions to draw her out. So good

    • @liljon1018
      @liljon1018 11 днів тому

      i agree, i feel like ppl who cant do that have something i call ticktok brain lol

  • @LovedByYou
    @LovedByYou 5 місяців тому +91

    Loved every second of this. Her honesty, vulnerability, and self awareness was captivating. Really made me want to listen to the entire episode

  • @EricDez
    @EricDez 6 місяців тому +34

    when we hit our 30's in life, we tend to get where she is at.The wisdom starts to kick in (for some) ;). I was her age when I had a similar personal growth.

  • @baxatakbaxatak2014
    @baxatakbaxatak2014 6 місяців тому +116

    Congratulations on your ongoing sobriety, Lucy. I’m thrilled you’re back and branching out. Keep up the good work!

    • @mmmggg111
      @mmmggg111 6 місяців тому

      Alix Earle needs to do sobriety

  • @ohissnunu
    @ohissnunu 6 місяців тому +43

    I have not listened to Call Her Daddy since the first season and just came across this today. Absolutely floored at what it has grown into. Great job Alex!

  • @gisela5442
    @gisela5442 6 місяців тому +194

    This little video hit hard because I was just at a Halloween party this past weekend and I was dancing with a complete stranger and I was drunk but I did NOT feel good what so ever! I thought it was gonna be fun but I didn’t enjoy it at all. So I completely agree that we aren’t ourselves when we are drinking

    • @NadiaVenice
      @NadiaVenice 6 місяців тому +3

      You and me both sis

    • @Mirraluvsu
      @Mirraluvsu 6 місяців тому

      Omgg!!! Were you seggsually assaulted? 😢 I'm so sorry!!😔🫶🏾🫶🏾 sending you all my love!💕

    • @phorn100
      @phorn100 28 днів тому

      What being drunk is now sexual assault? Feminitism is really overreaching isn’t it!

  • @C8296kf_m
    @C8296kf_m 6 місяців тому +22

    This was such an amazing episode 👏

  • @heatherc.5760
    @heatherc.5760 6 місяців тому +29

    The worst offense in my eyes as I live in recovery from my addiction to pain pills just made thirteen years sober, is when ppl say ur boring now. When I heard lala Kent from VPR say this too cus her ex Randall said that to her I related like a MF! Someone in my family said this too me my first year of sobriety n I went off. Just because I am aware now n mindful now in my recovery doesn't make me boring it's who I am who I always been n I recommend ppl not to say this to anyone that has got sober, stayed sober, worked hard to do so cus at the end of the day wat it is, I took accountability grew up n saved my own life. God bless everyone on their journey to recovery.

    • @sharkwater1726
      @sharkwater1726 Місяць тому +1

      I was literally sober because I’m not supposed to drink or do anything because I met someone enough and this girl in Mexico somehow like a weird just about convinced me to drink on my birthday and everything went to hell from there So I’m never drinking again

  • @Kyshalise
    @Kyshalise 4 місяці тому +2

    I love how honest she is

  • @g_factking
    @g_factking 6 місяців тому +12

    I loved listening to this tonight

  • @tammyjelisse
    @tammyjelisse 6 місяців тому +21

    Ugh Lucy you expressed each feeling so well and so beautifully. That’s what growth does!

  • @Manxsee
    @Manxsee 6 місяців тому +14

    I have been recently looking up and listen to every podcast that Lucy Hale have done. I'm a huge fan.

  • @IamRachelSparks
    @IamRachelSparks 6 місяців тому +36

    Excited for this one!! Lucy Hale is amazing. ❤

  • @jasminehayes4810
    @jasminehayes4810 6 місяців тому +29

    This was absolutely the BEST episode of your podcast I've ever heard. Thank you so much!!!

  • @tammy_j
    @tammy_j 3 місяці тому +4

    Wow. Thank you for being so open, Lucy. I've been trying to get sober for years. It's so nice to listen to a woman candidly share my story, who is further along in the healing process. Sex, shame, learning how to be comfortable sober, thank you for your openness.

  • @blushbb.
    @blushbb. 5 місяців тому +4

    Adore Lucy, I relate to her a lot like feeling alien when I was younger and even now. I’m a young adult but this helps me for the future.

  • @arontamas5639
    @arontamas5639 3 місяці тому +2

    Her honesty is refreshing and it's so rare that girls like her could have the same experience.

  • @RickAmey-wc3dx
    @RickAmey-wc3dx 6 місяців тому +9

    shes gotta be the most beautiful woman ive ever seen. hands down. goes to show we all struggle, even angels

  • @Justa.prettyface
    @Justa.prettyface 6 місяців тому +41

    I appreciate Lucy’s strength and honesty 🤍 this episode seems so raw and Alex is able to connect with everyone and makes them feel seen 🖤

  • @biancasmith760
    @biancasmith760 6 місяців тому +20

    I love lucy hale,she seems like a sweetheart.

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 6 місяців тому +2

    I LOVE LUCY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @kking07
    @kking07 5 місяців тому +1

    I love her!!

  • @KayleiBurke353
    @KayleiBurke353 3 місяці тому +2

    Lucy is the best 🥰 She is the sweetest person EVER!!! 😭😭

  • @gabicastro1698
    @gabicastro1698 6 місяців тому +1

    Is there somewhere I can watch the full episode in video and not only audio? In yt?

  • @DamirBabic-xc5po
    @DamirBabic-xc5po 17 днів тому

    Lucy always and forever 🥺🙏💖

  • @skygreen133
    @skygreen133 6 місяців тому +15

    Props on sobriety

  • @sunflowermyeyes9758
    @sunflowermyeyes9758 14 днів тому

    Love Lucy ❤❤❤❤

  • @meeee214
    @meeee214 4 місяці тому +3

    1:49 interviewer is capping and does not agree😂

  • @ZoeViolet-uq9yz
    @ZoeViolet-uq9yz 6 місяців тому +21

    How do celebs with drink and drug addictions still look so put together and get through their job

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 4 місяці тому +4

      They're just good at pretending -- because that's what you HAVE to do in order to be a celebrity!

    • @Blashmack
      @Blashmack 3 місяці тому +5

      They have a professional stylist and a make-up artist helping them before these shows, and it's literally their job to eat well, train well, treat their skin well.

  • @danielward4485
    @danielward4485 4 місяці тому +5

    “You can drink the day after” common occurrence here in Ireland. Nothing better than a rollover 😅😂

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 4 місяці тому

      Also in Russia -- but for some reason there's MUCH less alcoholism in Ireland than in Russia (can you explain to me WHY that might be???)

    • @danielward4485
      @danielward4485 3 місяці тому

      @@agentorange153 it’s not called alcoholism in Ireland. It’s called “he’d be fond of a drink alright”

  • @Alicia-vq8jg
    @Alicia-vq8jg 3 місяці тому

    It’s very important to realize that you can answer one in one word and it’s like super cute and charming like when she says does anyone in your family struggles alcohol just her saying yeah like so cute
    That’s all you have to do you have to tell the whole life story

  • @F_0017
    @F_0017 6 місяців тому +5

    WOW, first one

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 6 місяців тому +1

    OMG IT'S LUCY HALE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @claireshincecil
    @claireshincecil 3 місяці тому

    love lucy hale 🩷

  • @ryanhowell4492
    @ryanhowell4492 5 місяців тому

    She's beautiful

  • @CooreValues
    @CooreValues 4 місяці тому

    Daddy daddy daddy gang

  • @CooreValues
    @CooreValues 4 місяці тому +4

    Love Coops, I was a slut and I feel so ashamed but Coops makes me proud and I keep my head held high. I stopped drinking and it’s been the best decision, but relationships are hard now I have built my relationships and connections through sex now I am realizing I am not able to connect without sex.

  • @kevinhove6893
    @kevinhove6893 4 місяці тому

    Health and happiness to everyone but especially Lucy Hale

  • @elvinpolanco8032
    @elvinpolanco8032 6 місяців тому

    Fresh and fit put me on to you ❤

  • @nyyokk
    @nyyokk 6 місяців тому +5

    Currently drunk currently feeling stupid af for being drunk 😅

    • @Alicia-vq8jg
      @Alicia-vq8jg 5 місяців тому

      I get the worst hangxiety for like 6 months after 😢

  • @wacksparrow88
    @wacksparrow88 Місяць тому +1

    Sobriety isn’t boring, it’s extremely boring

  • @67Amanecer
    @67Amanecer 3 місяці тому +1

    Plis more people with influence saying these kind of things. I feel like nowdays you cant say that without being called boring.

  • @levikeller7916
    @levikeller7916 Місяць тому

    Gluck Gluck

  • @hannacal8347
    @hannacal8347 5 місяців тому

    But her and Ashley were like bff before the show and during the first three seasons you can see that they were really close

  • @chickinbobswag
    @chickinbobswag 6 місяців тому +4

    Where did all the viewers go

    • @go4damo
      @go4damo 6 місяців тому

      Dive bar vibes, though

    • @Brilliantstar77
      @Brilliantstar77 6 місяців тому +1

      They’re on Spotify

    • @chickinbobswag
      @chickinbobswag 6 місяців тому

      @@Brilliantstar77 ah makes sense

    • @go4damo
      @go4damo 6 місяців тому

      @@Brilliantstar77 where'd the co-host go

  • @jennv1376
    @jennv1376 4 місяці тому +4

    This host seems kinda disingenuous to me. It’s just the vibe she gives off.
    Watching some of her other stuff (before feeling like this about her) she has this tendency to be a bit of a hypocrite at times, in different interviews same thing. Just my opinion.

  • @ga4254
    @ga4254 6 місяців тому +1

    How to watch the full episode ?

  • @housechic2284
    @housechic2284 6 місяців тому +2

    God First

    • @Dan-ys8nk
      @Dan-ys8nk 6 місяців тому +2

      Not everyone shares your beliefs. Not everyone believes in God.

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 4 місяці тому

      @@Dan-ys8nk I sure don't -- lots of reasons why, but THE biggest is that EVERY church I've ever explored LITERALLY tried to MAKE ME BETRAY THE FLAG IN ORDER TO FOLLOW THE CROSS, so I decided instead to follow the flag and RENOUNCE the cross, as ANY real American SHOULD do if put in THIS kind of situation! If anything, my country is my god now, and NOTHING will change this!

  • @JohnSmith-nm4zd
    @JohnSmith-nm4zd 4 місяці тому

    She's the girl next door

  • @taylorlane6289
    @taylorlane6289 6 місяців тому +1

    Is call her daddy over with?

  • @davidthompson1573
    @davidthompson1573 6 місяців тому +9

    Not everything in life needs deconstructed and analyzed. Everyone feels better after sex, everyone becomes more social when drunk, and everyone has insecurities about their body. That said, not everybody hops online to tell the world about times they slept around. People, get your lives in check and stop advertising every detail of your life online.

  • @ShanaSephora
    @ShanaSephora 2 місяці тому

    I literally just wanted to hear Lucy, the other woman kept swearing, so I kept forwarding whenever she spoke, like seriously, there's really just no need.. 😣

  • @PercysTv
    @PercysTv 6 місяців тому +1

    🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ stop complaining and do better jheeeez

    • @PercysTv
      @PercysTv 6 місяців тому

      Some of yall use substances as excuses for not addressing issues, just like me some of yall parents didn't teach you enough so it's up to you to learn how to do things. Plz don't blame men cause alot of yall are one way in your head that isn't realistic in real life.

  • @luizamorena
    @luizamorena 5 місяців тому +1

    Drunk sex yes, sure, sex with total strangers no.

    • @agentorange153
      @agentorange153 4 місяці тому

      No to both -- I'll stick to having sober sex with only the one woman I love!

  • @Matt-btc
    @Matt-btc Місяць тому

    Drink every time they say "I"

  • @stoicaliliana8608
    @stoicaliliana8608 5 місяців тому

    The whole episode was cringe af. Catchy short tho.

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 6 місяців тому +1

    LUCY HAS NICE SOCKS!

  • @rmannayr2129
    @rmannayr2129 6 місяців тому +1

    NICE SOCKS LUCY!

  • @Indomitablespirit108
    @Indomitablespirit108 3 місяці тому

    It's great how men really helped you find your authentic self! Men Rule

  • @agentorange153
    @agentorange153 4 місяці тому

    Personally, I would NEVER have sex drunk or on drugs (in fact, I would NEVER drink to the point of drunkenness or do drugs AT ALL) or have sex with random strangers -- it's MUCH better to have sober sex with only one person you love, in the context of a committed relationship (and it's better still if you're both introverts, as me and my sweetheart both are, and if you FULLY EMBRACE your introversion instead of trying to become extroverts which you're not)! One thing I don't understand, though: introverts do NOT like excitement (this, in fact, is THE fundamental characteristic of an introvert), so if she's truly an introvert (as opposed to being an extrovert with social anxiety), then why WOULD she seek excitement through alcohol, drugs and casual sex, as opposed to seeking constancy and stability???

  • @taylorvany1084
    @taylorvany1084 6 місяців тому +5

    Alex your like 30 grow up

  • @christianglashoff263
    @christianglashoff263 Місяць тому +2

    For everyone that needs to hear this just know that it's never too late to find God :)

  • @ifiehill1789
    @ifiehill1789 19 днів тому

    That's so sad - to feel you have to sleep with a guy to get validation. No man is worth that much attention or access to your body. Any guy expecting that from you is not worth your time.

  • @dragonminja246
    @dragonminja246 6 місяців тому +2

    I initially came here to criticize you but instead i would like to give you some advice. You do not need alcohol, and the fact that you admitted that made me reconsider hating on you, because i never fell victim to our society normalizing a drug ( alcohol ) and requiring it in many parts of our adult lives. I still get asked why i don't drink and now to my advice: This has nothing to do with men or women, this is a problem in our mind. You have to love yourself, you have to figure out a purpose for yourself. NEVER depend on someone before you figure yourself out. Yes people can support you, but you are responsible for your own mind and others can not fix you. To live in harmony with others you first have to live in harmony with yourself. The same power that can make your mind flourish can also destroy it.

    • @SF-op5ix
      @SF-op5ix 5 місяців тому

      She’s sober, she knows this

    • @blushbb.
      @blushbb. 5 місяців тому +2

      Came to criticize her? Lmao it’s pointless reading what you have to say after that sentence

    • @bellabowwow2204
      @bellabowwow2204 4 місяці тому +1

      why search out somebody you don't know just to want to criticize them?

  • @strongbelieveroftheholybible
    @strongbelieveroftheholybible 4 місяці тому +1

    Lucy hale is one of the fallen angels/ demons that got kick out from heaven for their rebellion. A lot of them are in this generation ( celebrities, politicians, scientists) Lord Jesus Christ is coming soon🙏🏼❤️🕊REPENT, believe in the Gospel, Be Born Again

    • @plbeckman
      @plbeckman 4 місяці тому

      Could you dive a little deeper?

    • @strongbelieveroftheholybible
      @strongbelieveroftheholybible 4 місяці тому +1

      @@plbeckman a lot of people don’t know that a lot of these celebrities are fallen angels who bargain their souls to the devil also known as Lucifer for fame, power and fortune.

  • @Jduhon702
    @Jduhon702 26 днів тому

    Imagine girls listening to a podcast about a ***** talking about her ***** adventures

  • @eleni4432
    @eleni4432 4 місяці тому

    I watched the whole interview and I must say, I have never related to a person more in my life than Lucy Hale. Thank you Lucy for opening up! This really touched me and helped me realize a lot of stuff! 🤍💫✨