@@3flyte_3flyte Yes, I was, I left the profession because of hostile nurses. I will never recommend anyone to become a nurse. Because it’s not worth it.
I'm a newly graduated doctor. It's generally very easy to have to do with me, I always give more love than I receive and I've often heard that I'm humble, etc. Many nurses have been cool but the amount of nurses that make a young doctor's existence a bit more shitty is significant. I wonder why? Is it an expression of frustration with the stressful workload, maybe an inferiority complex of sorts or maybe even unloading the nastiness they've suffered from senior doctors on us juniors before we learn how to hit back? It kind of puzzles me that the place where sick people are welcomed and taken care, the f'n hospital, is so unhappy, unhealthy and inhospitable.
Try being a guy and dealing with female nurses. They do some INSANE things to male patients. I've had a couple female nurses and a couple Male nurses spill the beans on some secrets. Mostly its post surgery while the guy is under anesthesia and unconscious still. If a guy is good looking or in good shape and post surgery or if they hear from a female on the surgical team that saw him naked during surgery that he has a small or big anatomy. After surgery all patients are put in a Recovery room or Pacu room where they are monitored as a precaution. Well like I said if the guy is good looking, female nurses will come in and take turns lifting up his gown and expose him naked and laugh or mock him while he is unconscious. They get away with it because they're female. Its sexual assault actually!!! Imagine if you were unconscious post surgery and you found out that while u were under anesthesia 10 good looking male hospital employees came in and lifted up your gown leaving you COMPLETELY naked for no medical purpose and were laughing and mocking you. This is what men endure at hospitals. It's why most men avoid medical treatment. Cant blame them either, if women knew they would endure that sexual humiliation they would avoid treatment too. Men will never tell their hospital experiences to ANYONE typically, not even wives or girlfriends. But its INSANE what female nurses did to men. And sadly it will never change unless other female nurses and female medical personnel put a stop to it. So ya I'm just being honest, if you have a husband, boyfriend, son just know if they ever have surgery they will go through what I just mentioned and likely have zer recollection of it. Most dont under anesthesia and obviously female nurses know to do it right away while they are still fully unconscious. I could go on and on and on with other stories. It's more rare but female nurses in some places take pictures of the naked unconscious and share them around. Its WILD the things female nurses do to male patients. It's all hilarious to women in general.... but like I said just know it WILL happen to your husband, father, son, boyfriend too at some point.
I love this video! This is how I'm feeling right now. Every time this nurse talks to me she always rolls her eyes and talk like she's perfect. She even said once that we don't care. How dare her say that when we love our patients. How would you deal with her?
Hey Ashley great video. I am a registered nurse and I can totally relate to what your talking about. I work 3-11pm and there is a night nurse that I give report to every night . She is very rude and condescending at times. She thinks she is better than everybody else. She thinks she is the only one who knows how to do the job and everyone else is beneath. She has been reported before but the behavior still continues. She is good friends with ADON. That's why she always gets away with it. Something needs to be done. She is even rude to her night supervisor. People needs to realize that the rude behavior can have a bad effect on patient care resulting in harm to the patients. Something needs to be done and it needs to be done now.
I had a nurse at the change of shift yell at me in front of everyone and told me to that this was not done and to hurry up because they did not have my time. At that moment I did not know how to respond, so I notified the charge nurse. Before the incident I felt it was accumulated anger towards me because I advocated and spoke for their patient, that needed a commode because they were not mentally stable and they were also a fall risk, unable to bare weight. That night when that actual nurse was not present in the room, it took 4 people to transfer them. Even though that situation has passed, I still have that weird feeling when communicating with them. I don't understand why some nurses are so nasty and if they don't like you, get their frustrations out by disrespecting you. I feel that some nurses like to boost their ego by doing it in front of everyone instead of talking about it in private. I'm that time type of person that tries to avoid drama as much as possible with coworkers, because drama drains me out in addition to a busy shift.
You make a valid point Ashley about not having those discussions in front of the patient. If I notice something like that, I put the bed alarm on, and don't say anything in the room.
The title of the video was "How to deal with rude nurses." However, this video seemed to focus on advice on how to speak properly to another nurse... I guess I was looking on advice on to RESPOND to a nurse who is speaking rudely. to another nurse, none-the less, it was a great video..thx
People are tired of hearing nurses being stressed out,we work long hours patients are cruel too us,doctors yell at us,we are supper human, we save peoples lives,we perform miracles. Maybe it's time you move on and take your ego with you.
Ashley, I love your video about how to deal with rude nurses! You created this video well. I have faced rude nurses at doctors' offices and hospitals before. I know how that feels.
Im an unpaid carer not a nurse, but this is helpful to me. I just got shouted at by the person I care fors nurse that they tried ringing me twice , i pointed out that I had rang the clinic to say id be at a place with no signal and I also sent a text. Really no need for that, its difficult being a carer we don't need shouting at for something we have no control over
How do you deal with rude/ mean school nurses. My kid has a nurse who never follows what the parents want and doesn’t believe when the kids are sick (even when they really are.) she argues with me in front of people more than once. She seems sadistic.
Good video. I have a prior history of working with Men for 17 years I went into nursing in 2013. So now I work predominantly with women. I understand now why nurses don’t get to pay that they want and why they get stomped on by corporations and why in some cases they have a bad rap. They don’t work together quite a bit and they actually tried to stab each other in the back rather than work together. Not the case working on a construction crew with men except a very rarely
You should work in corporate and finance. Men are very ruthless towards one another. The more money one makes the more ruthless and arrogant a lot of people are. RN nurses often make 6 figures which is a higher salary than most jobs.
Is it possible that the patient really liked you and the nurse knew that and it made her mad? Maybe he was making her shifts more difficult because of it.
these people are not rude and mean because they are nurses ,they are just rude and mean . they are more to be pitied what in their life make them like that...
I completely agree with you, but in all do respect this is more of a video of how not to be the rude nurse. It would Be good to see how you handled it.
Congrats on your first shift! I hope to become a nurse someday and I was wondering if you had any tips on how what to do or what classes to take in high school if you hope to become a nurse
But she did get reported And after that she was not working there anymore and I feel good about that thank goodness cause she was really mean to Mia and her behavior was very disgusting
Right, but I am a patient looking how to deal with rude nurses. One nurse is very nice and sensible while the other could come straight out of a caricature cliche nurse cartoon; the standard, big, frightening type. So, one tells me to put on oxygen at night (during sleep) while the other (the humungous one) tells me the wear it during daytime !? On top of it, I don't want to have these little straws in my nose anyway when not necessary. And more fun, there are two different doctors. My doctor says to forget this machine while his replacement wants to keep me on it. But I have to deal with the nurses who don't seem to mention their patients during transmission. And I know, there are people who desperately need a hospital or even lack simple; yet lifesaving medication. I'm in a hospital for my wellbeing, and not to be caught up in a nurse-to-nurse fight (how sexy this may sound). I'd rather go home. Any advice ? Anyone ?
So...how do you deal with rude nurses? I get what the rude nurse did wrong, and what she should have done, but how are you suppose to respond to such behavior? Side note: Your videos are awesome~
I think the best thing to do is to not be nasty back. Calmly approach them about how the situation made you feel, and if you don't feel comfortable with that...talk to your charge nurse, supervisor, or nurse manager.
My grandpa at some point before he passed had a male nurse who was between 38-42 years old who called my mom because he couldn't handle my grandpa being combative towards him, and my grandpa had dementia too.
Nurses need to remember they don't walk on water .they take orders from the doctors. Pass your meds ladies.......and don't forget your assessment . ...lol
So what Ashley is saying is nursing is really hard and we get upset, so if we behave in a rude manner just accept it and say nothing, we're right and your wrong, or you can kiss our ass and apologize.
It’s a great profession. But so many rude and mean people work as nurses
Sorry about that. Were you a nurse before? I was an R.T. before. I left the profession because of the hostile work environment made so by nurses.
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Yes, I was, I left the profession because of hostile nurses. I will never recommend anyone to become a nurse. Because it’s not worth it.
I am a nurse as well. I see a. lot of very rude nurses.
I'm a newly graduated doctor. It's generally very easy to have to do with me, I always give more love than I receive and I've often heard that I'm humble, etc. Many nurses have been cool but the amount of nurses that make a young doctor's existence a bit more shitty is significant. I wonder why? Is it an expression of frustration with the stressful workload, maybe an inferiority complex of sorts or maybe even unloading the nastiness they've suffered from senior doctors on us juniors before we learn how to hit back?
It kind of puzzles me that the place where sick people are welcomed and taken care, the f'n hospital, is so unhappy, unhealthy and inhospitable.
Congratulations to you. What doctor are you? Just curious.
Nurses aren't rude? I've met many arrogant, rude nurses who were worse than any primary physician I've met.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It is unfortunate that we run into rude nurses.
Ashley Adkins, RN No problem, the regular ones are good, it's just the ones mental health hospitals who can be jerks.
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There are nurses that tells you in your face “ i dont like new nurses” then be genuine and crazy at the same.
As a future nurse I definitely see my self having to deal with other nurses that aren't so nice. Thanks for your tips they were extremely helpful.
And what about nurses that are rude and mean to the patients?
Try being a guy and dealing with female nurses. They do some INSANE things to male patients. I've had a couple female nurses and a couple Male nurses spill the beans on some secrets. Mostly its post surgery while the guy is under anesthesia and unconscious still. If a guy is good looking or in good shape and post surgery or if they hear from a female on the surgical team that saw him naked during surgery that he has a small or big anatomy. After surgery all patients are put in a Recovery room or Pacu room where they are monitored as a precaution. Well like I said if the guy is good looking, female nurses will come in and take turns lifting up his gown and expose him naked and laugh or mock him while he is unconscious. They get away with it because they're female. Its sexual assault actually!!! Imagine if you were unconscious post surgery and you found out that while u were under anesthesia 10 good looking male hospital employees came in and lifted up your gown leaving you COMPLETELY naked for no medical purpose and were laughing and mocking you. This is what men endure at hospitals. It's why most men avoid medical treatment. Cant blame them either, if women knew they would endure that sexual humiliation they would avoid treatment too. Men will never tell their hospital experiences to ANYONE typically, not even wives or girlfriends. But its INSANE what female nurses did to men. And sadly it will never change unless other female nurses and female medical personnel put a stop to it. So ya I'm just being honest, if you have a husband, boyfriend, son just know if they ever have surgery they will go through what I just mentioned and likely have zer recollection of it. Most dont under anesthesia and obviously female nurses know to do it right away while they are still fully unconscious. I could go on and on and on with other stories. It's more rare but female nurses in some places take pictures of the naked unconscious and share them around. Its WILD the things female nurses do to male patients. It's all hilarious to women in general.... but like I said just know it WILL happen to your husband, father, son, boyfriend too at some point.
Exactly!! That’s a whole other level of rude
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Bed alarms? BS . When you call, the nurse does not come. In my experience, most nurses are very mean and rude, disrespectful to patients
You are right nurses don't come.
I love this video! This is how I'm feeling right now. Every time this nurse talks to me she always rolls her eyes and talk like she's perfect. She even said once that we don't care. How dare her say that when we love our patients. How would you deal with her?
How bout nurse being rude toward patient?
Hey Ashley great video. I am a registered nurse and I can totally relate to what your talking about. I work 3-11pm and there is a night nurse that I give report to every night . She is very rude and condescending at times. She thinks she is better than everybody else. She thinks she is the only one who knows how to do the job and everyone else is beneath. She has been reported before but the behavior still continues. She is good friends with ADON. That's why she always gets away with it. Something needs to be done. She is even rude to her night supervisor. People needs to realize that the rude behavior can have a bad effect on patient care resulting in harm to the patients. Something needs to be done and it needs to be done now.
I agree, it’s our responsibility to teach in a respectful manner.
How do I as a patient deal with pissy nurse attitudes?
I had a nurse at the change of shift yell at me in front of everyone and told me to that this was not done and to hurry up because they did not have my time.
At that moment I did not know how to respond, so I notified the charge nurse.
Before the incident I felt it was accumulated anger towards me because I advocated and spoke for their patient, that needed a commode because they were not mentally stable and they were also a fall risk, unable to bare weight. That night when that actual nurse was not present in the room, it took 4 people to transfer them.
Even though that situation has passed, I still have that weird feeling when communicating with them.
I don't understand why some nurses are so nasty and if they don't like you, get their frustrations out by disrespecting you. I feel that some nurses like to boost their ego by doing it in front of everyone instead of talking about it in private.
I'm that time type of person that tries to avoid drama as much as possible with coworkers, because drama drains me out in addition to a busy shift.
You make a valid point Ashley about not having those discussions in front of the patient. If I notice something like that, I put the bed alarm on, and don't say anything in the room.
The title of the video was "How to deal with rude nurses." However, this video seemed to focus on advice on how to speak properly to another nurse... I guess I was looking on advice on to RESPOND to a nurse who is speaking rudely. to another nurse, none-the less, it was a great video..thx
well the title of this was misleading. would appreciate a video on how to deal with rude nurses not how to avoid being a rude nurse.
They can be snarky/snobbish sometimes.bittersweet.
Well said Ashley, unfortunately being in this field we deal with so much stress and burnout that we will always come across rude coworkers like that.
People are tired of hearing nurses being stressed out,we work long hours patients are cruel too us,doctors yell at us,we are supper human, we save peoples lives,we perform miracles. Maybe it's time you move on and take your ego with you.
amen !
Thank you Ashley! Very helpful especially to a new nurse like me.
You are welcome! :)
Ashley, I love your video about how to deal with rude nurses! You created this video well. I have faced rude nurses at doctors' offices and hospitals before.
I know how that feels.
Im an unpaid carer not a nurse, but this is helpful to me. I just got shouted at by the person I care fors nurse that they tried ringing me twice , i pointed out that I had rang the clinic to say id be at a place with no signal and I also sent a text. Really no need for that, its difficult being a carer we don't need shouting at for something we have no control over
How do you deal with rude/ mean school nurses. My kid has a nurse who never follows what the parents want and doesn’t believe when the kids are sick (even when they really are.) she argues with me in front of people more than once. She seems sadistic.
Good video. I have a prior history of working with Men for 17 years I went into nursing in 2013. So now I work predominantly with women. I understand now why nurses don’t get to pay that they want and why they get stomped on by corporations and why in some cases they have a bad rap. They don’t work together quite a bit and they actually tried to stab each other in the back rather than work together. Not the case working on a construction crew with men except a very rarely
You should work in corporate and finance. Men are very ruthless towards one another. The more money one makes the more ruthless and arrogant a lot of people are. RN nurses often make 6 figures which is a higher salary than most jobs.
Is it possible that the patient really liked you and the nurse knew that and it made her mad? Maybe he was making her shifts more difficult because of it.
I had a nurse threaten to get me fired...out loud, in front of EVERYONE (staff and patients) it was so uncalled for.
Abby Hernandez SAME. SHE EVEN SAID THAT INFRONT OF THE DOCTOR.
Thanks for sharing...I know now what to expect...so I'm prepare to not be suprised and disappointed 😉
Those are the ones...you want to catch outside of work and woop thier ass!
Soooooo many nurses are soooo mean
respectful with rude nurse ?? hahahahahahaha
Aiman Farhoud how do you deal with them ?
Same thing happened to me , most especially female nurses they yell at me and say curse words.
3:25 to 3:40, I've approached a nurse like that and was told, "don't tell me how to do my job!", with attitude.
these people are not rude and mean because they are nurses ,they are just rude and mean . they are more to be pitied what in their life make them like that...
Hi Ashley, thank you so much for this tip. I definitely agree with you.
thank you!!
Lord help me. I just started my journey in the medical field and there's 1 Nurse that I am dreading working with again! She's so nasty!!
No one have to DEAL with rude nurses that's the think especially patients that are supposed to be taken care of
Some are very laid back too and have a good balanced personality.
I completely agree with you, but in all do respect this is more of a video of how not to be the rude nurse. It would Be good to see how you handled it.
Wow, do I ever need to watch this video tonight. Help me before I explode!!!
Well usually nurses are always very nice there’s a few very bad ones but that’s very rare Because usually nurses are very caring nice people
Congrats on your first shift! I hope to become a nurse someday and I was wondering if you had any tips on how what to do or what classes to take in high school if you hope to become a nurse
+Abby Walker I think taking science courses, like anatomy and physiology, microbiology, biology, will really help!
Don't be a "B" that is advice from a housekeeper. Who cleans up YOUR mess.
She admits malpractice!
Thank you for this ,I’m sorry u experience this ,I think in nursing we do not get enough positive feedback so we take it out on each other ,
Focus
How I can contact you to get some advice
i have a mean nurse in my house
Jeania Finger same. It's my mom
It’s kinda weird to see how her profession has changed her
beware lol
But she did get reported And after that she was not working there anymore and I feel good about that thank goodness cause she was really mean to Mia and her behavior was very disgusting
Right, but I am a patient looking how to deal with rude nurses. One nurse is very nice and sensible while the other could come straight out of a caricature cliche nurse cartoon; the standard, big, frightening type. So, one tells me to put on oxygen at night (during sleep) while the other (the humungous one) tells me the wear it during daytime !? On top of it, I don't want to have these little straws in my nose anyway when not necessary. And more fun, there are two different doctors. My doctor says to forget this machine while his replacement wants to keep me on it. But I have to deal with the nurses who don't seem to mention their patients during transmission. And I know, there are people who desperately need a hospital or even lack simple; yet lifesaving medication. I'm in a hospital for my wellbeing, and not to be caught up in a nurse-to-nurse fight (how sexy this may sound). I'd rather go home. Any advice ? Anyone ?
It's a beautiful idea but I'm my town disrespectful nurses like to have people arrested and have you removed. Welcome to free healthcare in Canada
you look so pretty!!!
So...how do you deal with rude nurses?
I get what the rude nurse did wrong, and what she should have done, but how are you suppose to respond to such behavior?
Side note: Your videos are awesome~
I think the best thing to do is to not be nasty back. Calmly approach them about how the situation made you feel, and if you don't feel comfortable with that...talk to your charge nurse, supervisor, or nurse manager.
I just loved your video!
Thank you Ashley 😂😂😂😂😂
My grandpa at some point before he passed had a male nurse who was between 38-42 years old who called my mom because he couldn't handle my grandpa being combative towards him, and my grandpa had dementia too.
How did you deal with the combative behavior?
@@calliehilbert I never witnessed any of the behavior tbh
Nurses need to remember they don't walk on water .they take orders from the doctors. Pass your meds ladies.......and don't forget your assessment . ...lol
So what Ashley is saying is nursing is really hard and we get upset, so if we behave in a rude manner just accept it and say nothing, we're right and your wrong, or you can kiss our ass and apologize.
Well said :) good video
was the point of this to slam a co-worker???
Not at all. :)
Well usually nurses are always very nice there’s a few very bad ones but that’s very rare Because usually nurses are very caring nice people