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  • Опубліковано 1 жов 2015
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 34 тис.

  • @heatherspencer6503
    @heatherspencer6503 2 роки тому +33793

    My husband who I had been with for 20 years got very sick and spent months in ICU on breathing machines. I lived at Grant hospital in the ICU wtg room for 37 days at one point. This was one of the last songs he sent me from the hospital. He passed away one month before our 20 year anniversary on March 30th 2019. My house will never feel like home without him. We had 5 children together and our 16 year old son looks like him. Ppl say that it gets easier as time goes on, but for me, it's not any easier today than it was the night I watched him take his last breath. Idk if ppl actually read these comments or not. But if you did thanks for taking time out of your day to read this. John I love you and I miss you and I hope you're the 1st face I get to see when it's my time to go.

    • @chrish.6588
      @chrish.6588 2 роки тому +825

      God bless you and your family. You have my sincerest condolences.
      Close your eyes and breathe deep, as now spiritually your husband is more by your side than ever before.

    • @breanneberry1277
      @breanneberry1277 2 роки тому +438

      So sorry for your loss, I usually never read comments on songs I listen to but I clicked yours and read the whole thing and it put tears in my eyes, I couldn’t imagine what your going through and nobody should expect something like that to get easier but I no what you mean when they say it gets easier but I don’t think it would.

    • @breanneberry1277
      @breanneberry1277 2 роки тому +154

      You should listen to staind-something to remind you, it is a really good song

    • @CarlosMorales-hr4mt
      @CarlosMorales-hr4mt 2 роки тому +157

      Just stay strong I miss my daughter every day so I understand how u feel every room in your house is a memory he would want you to just remember the good times

    • @anthonydavis4581
      @anthonydavis4581 2 роки тому +157

      it’s all love sweetheart 💓 john hears you

  • @nelajnaebnit799
    @nelajnaebnit799 4 роки тому +21107

    My dad abused me for ten years. I was four years old when it first happened.
    He beat, tortured and humiliated me. He nearly killed me three times. I was bullied because I had to wear the clothes of my sisters. Three years ago my Mum committed suicide. Sometimes I don’t know how to breathe. But, I am here. I survived hell. To all those out there undergoing the same: never give up! You are not alone! There are so many of us. We are warriors! Please stay strong!

    • @eris5688
      @eris5688 4 роки тому +1351

      Nela Jnaebnit I Don’t know you but I Fucking love you and wish the best for u

    • @fafablog6152
      @fafablog6152 4 роки тому +713

      we love you and you are a hero

    • @A1xh4
      @A1xh4 4 роки тому +533

      You’re so strong!!! I love you.

    • @MammaBean0617
      @MammaBean0617 4 роки тому +214

      Thank you and your a rock star

    • @yenanne6190
      @yenanne6190 4 роки тому +188

      Godbless you. Stand for yourself. I'm praying for you

  • @sabastianevans
    @sabastianevans 5 місяців тому +1146

    Any listeners in 2024?

  • @tashakann2
    @tashakann2 11 місяців тому +713

    I’m in the fight for my life with brain cancer. Doctors said I should have been dead a month ago.. I’m still going praise Jesus. This song is helping me through some dark times

    • @ayahajslema
      @ayahajslema 11 місяців тому +14

      may God heal you

    • @jaylenabk
      @jaylenabk 10 місяців тому +8

      God gots ya ! ❤ be strong i hope you beat the s*** out that cancer stay blessed

    • @lifewithladya8481
      @lifewithladya8481 10 місяців тому +4

      Praying for you❤

    • @JozietheTexasLegend
      @JozietheTexasLegend 8 місяців тому +6

      How are you doing?

    • @kevinruese9365
      @kevinruese9365 8 місяців тому +5

      You are a miracle , doctors are human and make mistakes , God is everything

  • @jonathantiburcio8898
    @jonathantiburcio8898 3 роки тому +10127

    Dear person that’s reading this, we don’t know each-other but i wish you all the best in life.

  • @estevanromero363
    @estevanromero363 3 роки тому +7712

    My mother was my whole heart. She passed away on December 25th, 2020. Now I am as unsteady as I’ll ever be. I love you mom, r.i.p💔

    • @unrelentingf0x804
      @unrelentingf0x804 3 роки тому +156

      I'm sorry I know that's hard try to keep your head up

    • @HeavanlyValentine
      @HeavanlyValentine 3 роки тому +77

      I'm so sorry. I love you. Stay strong .

    • @rufarotalicjabangwe3761
      @rufarotalicjabangwe3761 3 роки тому +48

      I'm so sorry
      You will get through this
      Stay strong xx

    • @stephanialee4645
      @stephanialee4645 3 роки тому +54

      I'm so sorry I feel that way too it hurts, my dad passed away in the same date. Stay strong

    • @yadiracaruso9630
      @yadiracaruso9630 3 роки тому +15

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @god_chose_me24-7
    @god_chose_me24-7 7 місяців тому +310

    I used to play this song while in active addiction and now on May 26, 2024 I will be 2 years clean 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️ I was crying out to God to please keep holding on to me and not let me die I was definitely UNSTEADY at the time I will forever love this song

    • @angelagibson1096
      @angelagibson1096 5 місяців тому +4

      Keep it up wish I was in that place well done addiction is hard to crack I just need to work out how to crack it lol

    • @god_chose_me24-7
      @god_chose_me24-7 5 місяців тому +1

      @@angelagibson1096 The only way to do that is to say no to crack!! 😉

    • @14Daysin
      @14Daysin 3 місяці тому

      @@god_chose_me24-7 crack is wack

    • @leenamohammed6437
      @leenamohammed6437 3 місяці тому +2

      My children and I just lost their father (my ex husband / best friend) so drugs. I had to ID him today. Now listening to this is all I can think to do

    • @mistylosh1895
      @mistylosh1895 3 місяці тому +1

      Quitting is for quitters

  • @thandomkhonza3346
    @thandomkhonza3346 3 місяці тому +42

    This hit harder when you are going through the worst and no one is there to keep u steady 😢

    • @erika6651
      @erika6651 9 днів тому

      You have yourself. ❤

  • @annamoore8922
    @annamoore8922 4 роки тому +7787

    it hurts when someone is your reason to live but youre not theirs

    • @beno4936
      @beno4936 4 роки тому +181

      Can't you be your own reason to live?

    • @squelch6573
      @squelch6573 4 роки тому +18

      Weak !

    • @lalafun1666
      @lalafun1666 4 роки тому +152

      Squelch
      We have all been there don’t pretend you have never felt pain before.

    • @waseemzafar4344
      @waseemzafar4344 4 роки тому +89

      @@squelch6573 shut up

    • @skywasmaroon
      @skywasmaroon 4 роки тому +45

      you only have yourself, be your own reason to live.

  • @RebNegru
    @RebNegru 3 роки тому +14460

    Imagine how many people are listening at the same time.

  • @jinji2784
    @jinji2784 Рік тому +567

    This song feels like sitting and processing your emotions, and healing from the hurt at the same.. I'm in awe.

    • @lorep2535
      @lorep2535 11 місяців тому +1

      🙌🏻 Totalmente 🤝🏻👌🏻😌

    • @fourway9072
      @fourway9072 10 місяців тому +1

      tell me about it

    • @lainejohnson9094
      @lainejohnson9094 9 місяців тому +1

      So true

    • @GaryRussell-dh7se
      @GaryRussell-dh7se 9 місяців тому

      @@fourway9072eas 1:08 1:09

    • @Lulustime
      @Lulustime 7 місяців тому

      Yes it is like thinking about what just happened it’s hard

  • @NicoleRandall-dg9cv
    @NicoleRandall-dg9cv 9 місяців тому +90

    My beautiful husband played this song over and over before he died. He was beautiful, amazing, my true love. He wasn't unsteady, just sick, in pain. I never let go until now. I'm healed and ready. He would want that. God bless to all of you who have lost someone who felt unsteady.

  • @Mochikappa
    @Mochikappa 8 років тому +1856

    The pain in his voice broke my heart..

  • @jssalazar00
    @jssalazar00 3 роки тому +2475

    My son passed on February 11, 2021. I miss him with all my heart. Life will never be the same without him. I love you son. I will meet you soon.

    • @gabbymitchell5690
      @gabbymitchell5690 3 роки тому +51

      Wow, I'm sooo sorry for your loss I'm praying for you.! Just hold on and as much as you want to be alone and push people away don't you need them just as much as they need you.
      You got this just keep holding on

    • @meljosephusmolijon9707
      @meljosephusmolijon9707 3 роки тому +27

      Be strong. ❤️

    • @amyclaire6002
      @amyclaire6002 3 роки тому +30

      My heart dropped reading this I’m so sorry for your lose I just came back from my nans funeral and this song is helping me I hope it helps u stay strong

    • @kristinac5824
      @kristinac5824 3 роки тому +15

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Always here for you if you ever want to talk 💗 keep your head up

    • @Camishamaria
      @Camishamaria 3 роки тому +9

      I'm soooo sorry for your loss. This made my heart ache :( Keep your head up.

  • @allenreed2389
    @allenreed2389 10 місяців тому +196

    As an alcoholic, this hits home. Thank you for making this video. It truly shows our struggle. Much love people. Addicts and non.

  • @haley1104
    @haley1104 7 місяців тому +17

    If you're reading this you are not alone. I feel you and fight this battle with you. One more moment, that's all you need to hold on for. Let God do the rest.

  • @saturnsystem3167
    @saturnsystem3167 4 роки тому +3735

    "this house don't feel like home"
    that line got me
    edit: I've never gotten this many likes

    • @ilana5456
      @ilana5456 4 роки тому +6

      me too

    • @6.2_nightmare
      @6.2_nightmare 4 роки тому +7

      Same

    • @princessbrazilian
      @princessbrazilian 4 роки тому +8

      you should listen "home" by three days grace, the lyrics is about this

    • @sarmaua1
      @sarmaua1 4 роки тому +3

      i can relate to that as well. Stay strong my friend, there's a good place for everyone in this world

    • @lavernesimpson9027
      @lavernesimpson9027 4 роки тому +1

      Me too😢

  • @izzywhitby8994
    @izzywhitby8994 8 років тому +7250

    The pain in his voice just makes the song

    • @paigedodd1949
      @paigedodd1949 8 років тому +67

      This song made me cry cause it remind me if when my parents were fighting and they devorced when I was 4

    • @erinrowe4338
      @erinrowe4338 8 років тому +30

      I feel you. The exact same thing happened to me.

    • @nadiagpadilla
      @nadiagpadilla 8 років тому +14

      +Paige Dodd same here. My parents divorced when j was 4 and this brought back the terrible memories so I feel ya

    • @beetsuri178
      @beetsuri178 8 років тому +13

      The divorce papers were final on my birthday...

    • @erinrowe4338
      @erinrowe4338 8 років тому +6

      My parents got divorced one day after my dad's birthday... and my dog died one month before that...

  • @LadyBeeLee
    @LadyBeeLee 9 місяців тому +63

    No matter how many times I hear the song called, it always moves me to tears

  • @OakenShield.Gaming
    @OakenShield.Gaming 8 місяців тому +20

    I lost my wife march 3rd 2015 to a overdose. She was an amazing soul . After she died i traveled the country with our daughter she was 8 months old . J traveled for 4 years before i financial tapped out . In the end i turned to god he put me on a new path . I met a woman who gave me 3 more beautiful children who gave me new hope and light . I don't nt know what the lords plan is but i will remain faithful .
    Rest in peace
    Christina Martin

  • @datruth9813
    @datruth9813 3 роки тому +2673

    When you've been through childhood trauma and you're fighting to just be a normal adult..But so many don't understand

    • @ashleypettus7750
      @ashleypettus7750 3 роки тому +44

      i felt this. it’s so hard to just be normal.

    • @datruth9813
      @datruth9813 3 роки тому +19

      @@ashleypettus7750 So true..Wishing you all the best in life - Hugs-

    • @ashleypettus7750
      @ashleypettus7750 3 роки тому +11

      @@datruth9813 thank you. wishing you the best as well. ❤️

    • @lorissasanchez6028
      @lorissasanchez6028 3 роки тому +4

      This!! 💔

    • @ElsewhereGuitar
      @ElsewhereGuitar 3 роки тому +4

      this hurts....bless u

  • @gixerson8212
    @gixerson8212 4 роки тому +6911

    *Sucks when you see the galaxy in someone’s eyes when they can’t see a star in yours.*

    • @mfer.495
      @mfer.495 3 роки тому +193

      Damn that's deep

    • @itsasoulthingconnecttothis2743
      @itsasoulthingconnecttothis2743 3 роки тому +91

      Dude.. Woah. I concur with the first comment. That's deep AF.

    • @gixerson8212
      @gixerson8212 3 роки тому +75

      It's a soul thing Connect to this amazing universe life can be hard sometimes, keep your head high and your happiness higher.

    • @ashleyketchum3267
      @ashleyketchum3267 3 роки тому +42

      Fucking FELT

    • @oliviasmith5073
      @oliviasmith5073 3 роки тому +25

      really felt that

  • @lightdancer2251
    @lightdancer2251 9 місяців тому +55

    Saw you guys at a concert last night and this song made me cry, we lost our son this year to colon cancer at 46, there were 14 of us at the concert because that’s how we’ve always rolled as a family, all together always….trying to figure how we move forward without him and it’s been hard to listen to music so you were our first outing, you were great, we laughed and cried.. trying to get back to work and life I had been using the phrase I feel pretty unstable but unsteady fits way better. thanks for the show and comfort in knowing we are not alone in the emptiness in our our heart and souls for whatever reason and hope of getting through it, it’s been so hard. Just hold on…

    • @jennifertree2702
      @jennifertree2702 8 місяців тому

      So SORRY for your loss.
      Pepple should NOT die of cancer.
      There ARE cures FOR CANCER, RIGHT NOW, that the 'medical industrial complex' COVERS UP
      So very sorry

    • @brandilumbra5476
      @brandilumbra5476 8 місяців тому

      Wow you couldn’t have said it any better.. I’m so sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace..

  • @scorpiomomandwife8407
    @scorpiomomandwife8407 3 місяці тому +20

    2024 and this song still brings me to tears. I've never had a song dig into my soul quite like this one does 😭😭😭

  • @raqllrz
    @raqllrz 3 роки тому +3638

    how a family has the power to destroy a person’s psychological, fuck

  • @annaafonso8686
    @annaafonso8686 3 роки тому +4436

    anyone else feel so broken that no matter how good your life is going you still feel like nothing can fullfill that empy space in your heart and your chest just never stops hurting?

    • @Kaylas2003
      @Kaylas2003 3 роки тому +82

      All the time i mostly try going to my room and when I go to my room I just cry and act like I'm ok when I am around my family

    • @avatar5811
      @avatar5811 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah

    • @monicaarlenealvarez2089
      @monicaarlenealvarez2089 3 роки тому +5

      Yup!! :(

    • @tonyascheckel6621
      @tonyascheckel6621 3 роки тому +101

      I filled mine with Jesus.

    • @annaafonso8686
      @annaafonso8686 3 роки тому +12

      @@tonyascheckel6621 oh Ive tried so many times

  • @foxxyraldin
    @foxxyraldin 2 місяці тому +13

    It's 2024, and this is the first song that has touched my soul since I lost my dad 4 months ago. Some pain never goes away.

    • @whodafukisthis
      @whodafukisthis 2 місяці тому

      I'm so sorry for loss may you find strength to never let go but heal 💓 I don't know you but that doesn't matter with compassion

    • @gemalbest1
      @gemalbest1 2 місяці тому

      Pain is sumthing that’s doesn’t goes away cuz it sumthing that u learn from grow from n eventually heal from.! Choosing to hold on to the pain is a choice as well.! Your dad isn’t gone truly, he with u everywhere u go, he’s in ur heart n wherever also whenever u need him he’ll be there for u.! Cherish n hold on to the good times n keep him close to u that’s how he will live forever.! Grieve n take ur time just don’t stay gone too long cuz ur father wouldn’t want u sad n lost over the pain of him being physically gone.! My condolences, it’s always tough losing sum1 very close I know the thing is tho in the end God calls us back cause our time is up n we served the purpose we was on earth for.! When we our done earth our true happiness is brought back to n all the suffering ends when we return back to God.!

    • @Khalessixtiffany
      @Khalessixtiffany 2 місяці тому

      Me too. My dad passed on December 11th. This was our song.

  • @sherireedy329
    @sherireedy329 5 місяців тому +18

    What a beautiful song 🥺
    My ex husband was just diagnosed with small cell lung cancer that has metastasized and is on his liver, spine and bones. I came home to care for him a little over 2 years ago with minor conditions compared to this. He was given weeks to months to live and first week of chemo and it’s been a rough week and he’s getting weaker 😢
    It’s so hard watching our 3 grown daughters cry and grieve as we’re hopelessly praying for a miracle and an extended life for him that has quality. I’m feeling very unsteady and this song just hits home. Please pray for a turnaround and extended life for my ex and daughters entire world…their Dad ❤️🙏🏼🥺

    • @davidcoronado7662
      @davidcoronado7662 5 місяців тому

      Start researching about apricot seeds, turkey tail mushrooms, soursop fruit and colloidal silver.

  • @beyourself9468
    @beyourself9468 2 роки тому +3184

    Crazy how in a world full of people you can still feel so alone and unheard

  • @ginuenmiller
    @ginuenmiller 2 роки тому +2730

    We are just all broken children in adult lives trying to make it okay.. I see you. You are doing a great job.

  • @Echomur
    @Echomur 7 місяців тому +23

    This song came out just before my dad passed suddenly. The first time I heard it was when I was driving to work right after my bereavement period. I had to pull over and just...let it happen. I still listen to it and just remember. This song has helped me work through all the emotions of losing him the way I did. Sending love to all the people it's touched.

  • @Cheryl-px8gr
    @Cheryl-px8gr 11 місяців тому +50

    I bet you had no idea the impact this song would have on so many people in so many different ways. Having so many different interpretations to fit each individual. ❤

  • @mitchcve4336
    @mitchcve4336 5 років тому +5180

    My brother 27 overdosed and was put on life support, my dad later committed suicide. My mom scrubs toilets for a living. I feel every bit of this song. My mom's alone, my dad couldn't let go of the alcohol .
    May God put peace and comfort in the hearts of those who have been dealt pain and grief.

    • @leoflores3839
      @leoflores3839 5 років тому +122

      Mitch Cve stay strong if u need someone to talk im here :(

    • @annab.7428
      @annab.7428 4 роки тому +74

      Stay strong, you've made it this far so don't give up. :(

    • @bluebebleu
      @bluebebleu 4 роки тому +45

      I'm so sorry.. stay strong

    • @deagindraws5779
      @deagindraws5779 4 роки тому +34

      hand in there you can make it and if you you need to talk i'm here

    • @xyumixx1775
      @xyumixx1775 4 роки тому +24

      Jeremiah 29:11

  • @dylanwalford11
    @dylanwalford11 5 років тому +2980

    This song is the lyrical definition of that feeling where your chest hurts and it's just emptiness

    • @therealdoll3469
      @therealdoll3469 5 років тому +16

      omg ik this feeling and i havent had it in so long but now i feel so broken

    • @therealdoll3469
      @therealdoll3469 5 років тому +5

      @@sentinelrevolutionist9798 yesss i have so been their

    • @hopedrake898
      @hopedrake898 5 років тому +1

      So true.

    • @foxyrhi7398
      @foxyrhi7398 4 роки тому +4

      For me its a reminder of my child abuse.

    • @foxyrhi7398
      @foxyrhi7398 4 роки тому +10

      @@sentinelrevolutionist9798 i hate that feeling ur throat hurt chest tight ur eyes are on the brink of tears im a childhood abuse survivor but its left its scars i now have cptsd and my life hasnt been easy since

  • @crit8893
    @crit8893 10 місяців тому +25

    My parents seperated when I was young, Im sure that contributed to there lack of support towards me throughout my life, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor mid last year, I felt my world spin upside down, I felt alone, scared, and very unsteady! This was the most scariest time of my life! Thankfully my dad started calling me to see that I was alright. This song has always resignated deeply within me! It moves me to my core 🙏❤️‍🔥 Thank you. I am so greatful for music!

    • @mrugankdesai8055
      @mrugankdesai8055 10 місяців тому +4

      I wish you all the very best.

    • @petertaylornatarshastratto3734
      @petertaylornatarshastratto3734 9 місяців тому +3

      💙I too, wish you the very best mate..🙏🏽 it's okay to be scared, but know you are not alone pal.
      Reach out there will always be a friend.

    • @damarisramos7200
      @damarisramos7200 7 місяців тому

      That how I feel when my dad left me and my mom it still hurts me

    • @crit8893
      @crit8893 7 місяців тому

      @@mrugankdesai8055 thank you so much 🫶

    • @crit8893
      @crit8893 7 місяців тому

      @@petertaylornatarshastratto3734 thank you for your kind words 🫶

  • @tammycausey7270
    @tammycausey7270 5 місяців тому +15

    My prayers to all that have lost a loved one. This song for me makes me think of my son his struggles with addiction and helps me with strength to keep fighting for him.

  • @sophiapiper4978
    @sophiapiper4978 8 років тому +2408

    I'm in a rough place right now, and this hit me really hard.

    • @Kcon2694
      @Kcon2694 8 років тому +26

      Agreed, this too shall pass! keep your head up

    • @mozsanimates8930
      @mozsanimates8930 8 років тому +4

      +Sophia Piper not as hard as my parents jk its so good though!

    • @Mr02sunfire
      @Mr02sunfire 8 років тому +5

      +Sophia Piper hit ye right in the dink?

    • @MelissaNiv
      @MelissaNiv 8 років тому +4

      +Sophia Piper *hug*

    • @wickedgrrly1
      @wickedgrrly1 8 років тому +4

      +Sophia Piper Hang in there, girl.

  • @emac16e
    @emac16e 3 роки тому +2679

    everyone talking about being here because this song was in a show. Whos here because this is just a good band and good song?

  • @QueenK-pl7lf
    @QueenK-pl7lf 9 місяців тому +12

    I remember one night I was so stressed out from school and out of nowhere this song comes on . All of a sudden I stopped crying ,listening to the words , and realize life toughest moments don’t last

    • @davidguidi8737
      @davidguidi8737 9 місяців тому

      School is your biggest stress seriously

  • @at.2930
    @at.2930 10 місяців тому +18

    Had a chance to listen to this song in Oregon by chance. The quality of their live show was top-notch. Definitely a banger that seems to make all of us come back again and again. Thank you for writing lyrics and composing music that can resound with so many people across the globe.

  • @dianacmireles5903
    @dianacmireles5903 3 роки тому +1521

    Depression sucks... But being a mom with depression is something I can’t even describe 😢😢😢

    • @Breeology_
      @Breeology_ 3 роки тому +84

      I literally cry for help in silence when my child is sleep .. it’s sooooo hard but I try everyday! I just wish I had someone to unconditionally be there for me

    • @aubrimartinez5373
      @aubrimartinez5373 3 роки тому +31

      @@Breeology_ keep your head up your so worth everything your a great mother ❤️your doing amazing love your so worthy

    • @aubrimartinez5373
      @aubrimartinez5373 3 роки тому +10

      your amazing keep your head up your an amazing mother. your worth everything you can do it❤️

    • @dianacmireles5903
      @dianacmireles5903 3 роки тому +19

      @@Breeology_ it’s not easy being a mom we have feelings too and that’s okay! I know exactly what ur going through . Ur child and god loves u soo much girll message me if You ever need someone to talk to cause I care 💗

    • @sparklelicious598
      @sparklelicious598 3 роки тому +10

      God you have NO Idea how much this hit me. I'm a mom and it's so hard and now my 14yr old daughter is fighting Depression. Its soooo Hard. God Bless you an know you are not alone. Love you

  • @ariannacleveland
    @ariannacleveland 3 роки тому +2220

    The part “Im alone. Cause this house don’t feel like home”. Really, really hit hard for me because of personal reasons.

    • @peartdahurt
      @peartdahurt 3 роки тому +32

      I don't know what you're going through but what I do know is you WILL get through it. Stay strong and stay safe and know that you are Loved.

    • @sadgedoge7819
      @sadgedoge7819 3 роки тому +10

      Same bro :/

    • @5ive4thelabel47
      @5ive4thelabel47 3 роки тому +4

      NAW FOR REAL SAME REASONS

    • @5ive4thelabel47
      @5ive4thelabel47 3 роки тому +3

      Naw for real same reasons

    • @brittanytully739
      @brittanytully739 3 роки тому +8

      Here, here... I’m just finding things out with my marriage, I was already dealing with depression and things going on in my life, myself. We never fought, we laughed and always got along. I feel so weak but have to bring strong for my three babies.

  • @stabenlopezmrenee
    @stabenlopezmrenee 10 місяців тому +26

    This is a very meaningful song, reading through the comments I can tell we all have rough times. Personally, makes me feel a bit more closer to push than I was before, is that feeling were you have no more choices but to be strong and believe in your self.
    I wish you all who are reading and going through the comments looking for a small light with in a rough patch...We will make it trough, I know it might hurt right now and you might have no strenght and on the brink of giving up, I know is to much to ask, but try to be ok. ❤
    Hope you do better soon.

  • @millaarmstrong1427
    @millaarmstrong1427 10 місяців тому +6

    I was raised by my grandma my whole life. And gree up with only her backing me. And when i hear "momma, come hear aproach, appear. Daddy im alone cause this house dont feel like home." Hits a open wound. I grew up really rough. To the point i was in juvenile detention while going through biopsys over years and ending in a cone biopsy when i was 14. And shes all i had since i was 8. Wish she was still here.

  • @marshmallow7746
    @marshmallow7746 3 роки тому +2386

    "I'm alone, cause this house don't feel like home" is when I started crying bc it really doesn't...

    • @Fiercewarriorwithin
      @Fiercewarriorwithin 3 роки тому +32

      I started to break down upon hearing that same line. Beautiful yet sorrowful. Many of the words resonate with me due to some of the experiences I've had

    • @wendiraley3783
      @wendiraley3783 3 роки тому +17

      Don't give up

    • @casandrawood4068
      @casandrawood4068 3 роки тому +17

      Home is where u make it dont ever let yourself feel lonly cause ur alone abuse is a nasty nasty thing and can really distroy ur life dont let it keep ur head learn ur own worth dont let someone tell u what it is

    • @katrinabonfiglio1333
      @katrinabonfiglio1333 3 роки тому +3

      Same. Every time.

    • @nameless5548
      @nameless5548 3 роки тому +7

      Home is where the heart is.. for that is your treasure.. for what you treasure is where your heart is. YOU GOTTA KEEP ON KEEPING ON. ;)

  • @Bri059
    @Bri059 4 роки тому +1047

    I lost my momma yesterday. This song hurts so much more.

    • @OfficialRobloxGaming
      @OfficialRobloxGaming 4 роки тому +39

      I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine the pain you are going through. Please just know that you will make it out of this in the end.

    • @shepherdgrey1656
      @shepherdgrey1656 4 роки тому +24

      My deepest sympathy to you

    • @tiaislam645
      @tiaislam645 4 роки тому +21

      I’m so sorry 😔 May she rest in peace stay strong 🙂

    • @RainielPalacio
      @RainielPalacio 4 роки тому +13

      ohh im sorry for your lost.. i know it hurts so much....

    • @lakarrawilliams8783
      @lakarrawilliams8783 4 роки тому +4

      I feel u girl

  • @LovethosePNWVibes
    @LovethosePNWVibes 8 місяців тому +6

    I listened to this song on repeat in college, and as time passed, I'd totally forgotten about it. It starts playing in Goodwill, and I immediately got a lump in my throat. What a wonderful song.

  • @blackrooster8334
    @blackrooster8334 Місяць тому +6

    Lost my two sisters last year and my momma this year, the sadness in my dads eyes, the house don’t feel the same

  • @connornicholas8628
    @connornicholas8628 8 років тому +380

    X Ambassadors has this wonderful ability to make me actually watch and care about what goes on in their music videos, rather than just listening to it alone.

  • @itsyourgirlamanda1624
    @itsyourgirlamanda1624 2 роки тому +3048

    It's crazy how many people come back to this everyday. This song is legendary 💕
    2022 anyone??

  • @justinbowen2529
    @justinbowen2529 7 місяців тому +6

    This song makes me think of my brother who passed away from cancer this month rip big bro u will be missed big nate

  • @cooliojoe6
    @cooliojoe6 10 місяців тому +21

    It's a special thing when so many people can relate to an artists words as if they are their own. I feel as though someone could've written this song from my perspect as eell. This was the first song I heard when I got in my car at the hospital after watching my father pass. Such a powerful song, thank you 💜

  • @wlee6685
    @wlee6685 8 років тому +1514

    Great song, probably the most underrated band in music right now.

    • @menteur4444
      @menteur4444 8 років тому +5

      +W Lee underrated they will play with Muse! xD

    • @wlee6685
      @wlee6685 8 років тому +5

      Compared to Imagine Dragons "somewhat similar sound" who just about everyone knows they are relatively unknown and underrated. To my knowledge none of their songs or videos have won any awards even though they have a host of great songs like this one. Thats what I meant by my comment.

    • @whackedout101
      @whackedout101 8 років тому +6

      +W Lee I agree that more people should know of them, but they really haven't been a band for a really long period of time. I mean, there are still some really great bands out there who have been around for a little longer and they still don't have awards. I saw them live when I saw them with Panic! at the Disco and that's pretty cool to say. They'll get there eventually! (:

    • @wlee6685
      @wlee6685 8 років тому +6

      +whackedout101 Agree with you 100% on great bands not being heard and getting awards. Its kind of strange to think that if it wasn't for a Jeep commercial "and a advertising person with an ear for good music" this band might have never gotten to that next level like it has. Its like if you don't hear these artist songs in TV commercials, shows or movies then they may never make it big. Kinda of weird don't you think?

    • @whackedout101
      @whackedout101 8 років тому +6

      W Lee Yeah, it makes me sad when really great bands don't get enough representation in the music industry. I didn't really know who X Ambassadors was when I saw them live, BUT when I heard Renegades on the radio and I heard it live I was like "Whaaat?! That's the same band?!" I was kind of angry with myself for not knowing the name of the band that sang the song. The dude has some AMAZING pipes on him.
      It is really hard for artists to make it big which is kind of stupid, if you ask me. But then I look at those fans who say they hated when their favorite artist/band got super big because then it was nearly impossible to see them live without their concert tickets selling out in a couple of days and the venues are HUGE. I just FINALLY decided to give Twenty One Pilots a try a month ago or so and finally decided they grew on me a ton and when I found out they were performing at Red Rocks like X Ambassadors did this summer I had to get tickets. They are playing 2 shows and they sold out the first night in a day and the 2nd had probably half of the tickets left to sell. So when I saw that I had a strange feeling that I wish I had listened to them back in 2011 when they weren't so big.
      It's kind of weird--the music industry.
      As far as X Ambassadors, their music is pretty amazing as far as vocals, lyrics, and just overall sound. It is a shame that they aren't as big as Miley Cyrus or whatever because they definitely deserve it more. I totally agree with you. Just request their music on your local station and maybe you'll hear 'em more. (:

  • @WendyAG
    @WendyAG 3 роки тому +3785

    Reading the comments in this video while listening to the song was truly heartbreaking. To anyone reading this, please stay strong! we don't know each other, but in case you need this: I believe in you. You can do it. You can get through it. You're strong enough. You're worthy.

    • @kierasaddleback4507
      @kierasaddleback4507 3 роки тому +39

      this means soooo much.. idk what to do anymore. i'm sooo tired of life, and everything, and i can't believe i'm typing this.

    • @rac0586
      @rac0586 3 роки тому +9

      I hope you are doing okay.. Let me know what's going on? I care about you..

    • @mackiedon8300
      @mackiedon8300 3 роки тому +10

      Thanks for believing in me, i jus want u to know that u are an amazing person 🤗

    • @lukacolovic572
      @lukacolovic572 3 роки тому +8

      Love and support to all!!!

    • @latoyawinter3396
      @latoyawinter3396 3 роки тому +2

      Aww

  • @cherylrodman6352
    @cherylrodman6352 11 місяців тому +5

    I just loss the other half of my soul Very unexpectedly, He just retired at 60 two, so we can have the rest of our lifetime together.. I have been with him since I was 17 years old. He worked fifty to sixty hours a week for nothing. But his family and his children meant everything to him God rest his beautiful soul. I can't imagine life without him

  • @virgieoliver448
    @virgieoliver448 Рік тому +9

    I love love love this song, so powerful!!!! Beautiful voice lead singer!!!!! So powerfully moving!!!! Big fan

  • @happytanoya5082
    @happytanoya5082 3 роки тому +1660

    a moment of silence for people who forgot this song exist
    Edit: Still silently waiting XD

    • @ripterrori7168
      @ripterrori7168 3 роки тому +14

      True , I literally forgot

    • @Andazola92
      @Andazola92 3 роки тому +6

      I never forgot mainly cuz I'm always depressed ig

    • @arftrooper44
      @arftrooper44 3 роки тому +8

      Forgot? I never knew this existed

    • @Chill_lxrd
      @Chill_lxrd 3 роки тому +3

      Everyone remembered it after that among us animation

    • @contractor1535
      @contractor1535 3 роки тому

      @@Andazola92 ig?????

  • @SuperPhantom1990
    @SuperPhantom1990 5 років тому +1491

    To everyone dealing with hard times I love you all, be strong

    • @nikolaibeliski1309
      @nikolaibeliski1309 5 років тому +2

      Jose sotelo thnx bro

    • @bellswhistles3777
      @bellswhistles3777 5 років тому +2

      Thank you

    • @kingzach7081
      @kingzach7081 5 років тому +3

      Thank you 🙏

    • @punzalanmariefers.1788
      @punzalanmariefers.1788 5 років тому +3

      Thank you :(

    • @kathrynanderson7667
      @kathrynanderson7667 5 років тому +6

      Thanks, I feel like I’m drifting away from my best friend and the only comfort in my life and it’s all my fault just because I have blooming anxiety and no one gives one even when I say I need to get homeschooled etc, and my life is just always so shitty! :(

  • @jacqueashton
    @jacqueashton 11 місяців тому +7

    When I couldn't even catch a breath after my husband died.... This song .❤

  • @princesswarriortheimperfec2125
    @princesswarriortheimperfec2125 29 днів тому +2

    I first heard this song in the county jail... and it hurts. It aches... 😢
    This is very much relatable.
    Prayers for these kiddoes!

  • @jaded5789
    @jaded5789 2 роки тому +1933

    The pain in his voice as he sings every line, got me in my feelings..
    It's heartbreaking, yet therapeutic..

    • @latriciaholloway3228
      @latriciaholloway3228 2 роки тому +23

      You tube is just taking me through a musical therapy session

    • @kaseybodenmann3601
      @kaseybodenmann3601 2 роки тому +5

      The best and worst song after you lose a parent/loved one

    • @mackenzieleigh6568
      @mackenzieleigh6568 2 роки тому +3

      Me too 😌

    • @zoeyziva7164
      @zoeyziva7164 2 роки тому +6

      I feel everything... It's so disheartening.

    • @edwincabrera2362
      @edwincabrera2362 2 роки тому +4

      I told my ex if four years I cheated couldn’t lie to her no more lost the best thing in my life currently I feel so lost but I know I did the right thing idc how ya feel I shouldn’t be hurting but I am I love you Andrea

  • @mattthewbruce844
    @mattthewbruce844 5 років тому +2157

    Lost so many people I love because of my addiction 😞 thank God I am 4 years clean today and I'll never look back again!

    • @prettysmile86
      @prettysmile86 5 років тому +43

      Congratulations! Proud of you

    • @humanconnectionflores
      @humanconnectionflores 5 років тому +15

      Congratulations !! The view is always better looking Ahead then backwards.fight for you and reach out to those who care.and remember we're all just passing thru make it count.

    • @mernaraouf5967
      @mernaraouf5967 5 років тому +6

      Congrats dude.

    • @ross5763
      @ross5763 5 років тому +7

      Star Zombie congratulations! I hope you can go forever sober, but know it's hard. Good on you man!

    • @jstandish90
      @jstandish90 5 років тому +8

      Congratulations mate, one day at a time.

  • @mvulakitshofela4720
    @mvulakitshofela4720 2 місяці тому +6

    Still Watching In 2024🥹🔥

  • @smith-got-juug4764
    @smith-got-juug4764 11 місяців тому +7

    It’s so hard to hold onto something you love when you push them away slowly. Hope anyone going through a rough patch in your relationship, whatever it may be, I hope you can get past it. Peace and Love

    • @ryanmclaren5041
      @ryanmclaren5041 10 місяців тому

      I’ve fucked it up so bad I miss her what a song 💔😞

  • @S3verusMyG
    @S3verusMyG 3 роки тому +4472

    This song hits harder than a knife by the imposter…
    (Edit: It’s been a whole year, Amogus has finally died…)

  • @kaylarose1081
    @kaylarose1081 3 роки тому +578

    "It ran in the family, until it ran into me."
    To everyone out there struggling with generational trauma: YOU CAN BREAK THE CYCLE. It doesn't have to continue through you. Find a therapist, find support, find books, find God, find friends who can help. Surround yourself with people who can push you out of the circumstances you were raised in. I grew up in an abusive house that left me with psychological and emotional scars, but I fought tooth and nail to recover from the crap that went on. I'm now married to a wonderful guy and we're expecting our first baby. This baby will be raised in a peaceful, nonviolent home, one where they are cherished and loved every day of their life. I know I won't be a perfect parent, but I determined years ago that I would be the link in the chain that would allow itself to be broken. The chain stopped with me. It can stop with you, too. I'm praying for you.

    • @andreaduncan3845
      @andreaduncan3845 3 роки тому +3

      Kiki thank you..i pray the curse is broken !

    • @tiaramcneal316
      @tiaramcneal316 3 роки тому

      Thanks for your post! Stay mighty.

    • @heatherhigman1132
      @heatherhigman1132 3 роки тому +3

      I was raised in an abusive home with alcohol n drugs n although im not in a household with alcohol n drugs I do find myself in a domestic violence situation that I cant seem to get out of cuz of financial n no support unfortunately from outside fam n friends, mean they say leave but where r they to help... n we r pregnant with our first his 4th but my first lol n hes already out his hands on me pregnant so I feel as though he doesn't deserve to b a father he swears he will change but his anger isn't only problem hes controlling possessive aggressive n a liar n a cheater not physically but through social media n I wanna leave n ive tried but he won't let me n he won't keave either. I never thought id find myself in this situation ever but here I am lol. I use to volunteer n help families n women in my situation now n I never try understood why they would stay never understood why my mom did but now I get it n I hate it. But I still care n love him n I feel guilty for tryin to leave... I know its crazy but I feel psychologically fucked in a sense. But bless u that u got away from it all n dealt with it. I thought I had to until I found myself with this one n he was so perfect too perfect to b true n I kept thinking that but we have known eachother from highschool n he had anger issues but never laid hand on his ex wife so I never thought he would me but he says he love sme so much I drive him crazy... once again flipping the blame on me. Im just so tired feeling bad n if I leave he threatens his own life and what not. Like its a psychological roller coaster that ive been drawn into like a maze n cant find my way out of. But so happy for u n urs. Best wishes n many blessings for u n ur lil one.

    • @itscoryduh575
      @itscoryduh575 3 роки тому +3

      That first sentence man, that’s my mission right now

    • @kaylarose1081
      @kaylarose1081 3 роки тому +4

      @@heatherhigman1132 I was in a domestically abusive relationship too. Girl, you deserve to get out. You're trapped right now in a cycle of dependency and control and I am PRAYING you get out of there. You and your baby deserve SO MUCH BETTER. There is a man out there just waiting to treat you like the queen that you are, who won't manipulate you or make you feel crazy and who will NEVER make you feel unsafe. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. But please know that finances are no reason to stay trapped there. Is there a women's shelter somewhere nearby? You don't have to pay to use one and they can help you figure out how to get on your feet and take care of your baby free of this guy. Please, please, please take that leap of faith. You have such a beautiful future ahead of you but you have to start running for it.

  • @papuan-black
    @papuan-black 26 днів тому +1

    My life's been a lil "UNSTEADY" all this years ❤

  • @NeyMessiFCB
    @NeyMessiFCB Місяць тому +1

    Just saw them perform this live last night. I cried. Absolutely beautiful experience. This is hands down my favourite song.

  • @hannahlynn175
    @hannahlynn175 4 роки тому +1562

    Hey ❤
    It's okay to cry. It's okay to experience deep pain and sadness.
    Let it out. Let the tears roll down your face.
    But don't stay there for too long beautiful. When you're ready take a deep breath. Wipe those pretty eyes.
    You're going to be okay. Things will get better soon I promise. Whatever you're going through, it is only for a season. This too shall pass.
    I hope you know what a beautiful soul you are. I hope you know your worth, your value, your beauty. You're such a lovely human that no one else in this world can replace.
    You are important.
    You are needed.
    You are loved.
    So hold on a bit longer, okay? There is hope. There is purpose. You're going to make it through I promise. The light is just up ahead❤

    • @bulletprooffiend5920
      @bulletprooffiend5920 4 роки тому +43

      That just brought me to tears. Thank you so much for those kind words to this stranger.

    • @brandonkelley4096
      @brandonkelley4096 4 роки тому +9

      it really is

    • @sundunefeather9448
      @sundunefeather9448 4 роки тому +10

      The only thing that got me to get rid of my tears, thanks dude.

    • @hoytm9172
      @hoytm9172 4 роки тому +5

      @@bulletprooffiend5920 same

    • @Dear_Neptune
      @Dear_Neptune 4 роки тому +8

      Thanks for holding on to me, i was a little unsteady :)

  • @yolandahassell2971
    @yolandahassell2971 7 років тому +386

    well... didn't I started off my morning sad... *trying so hard not to cry*

  • @jeaninecousin8916
    @jeaninecousin8916 11 місяців тому +2

    I am so very sorry for you're loss. Your husband was so blessed to be loved and cared so much by you and his children. I pray you will continue to find strength in the memories of years with you're loving family.
    God bless you

  • @joesmariesolisdiaz6073
    @joesmariesolisdiaz6073 5 днів тому +2

    Going through so much pain, just listening to this and thinking is my son telling me to please “don’t let go, If I love him”

  • @charlesmooney3480
    @charlesmooney3480 3 роки тому +653

    2020 is almost gone... This years been so unsteady

  • @keatonardoin4547
    @keatonardoin4547 3 роки тому +1531

    This song just hits on so many different levels. You're the real MVP if you're still listening in 2021. And remember always. You're never alone! Stay strong

    • @queenny4739
      @queenny4739 2 роки тому +2

      thats me ong

    • @thelostadventurer4684
      @thelostadventurer4684 2 роки тому +1

      Dsmmm why this comentó make me feel so good .

    • @nicolesiege819
      @nicolesiege819 2 роки тому

      @@queenny4739 to/aa

    • @tally9166
      @tally9166 2 роки тому +2

      Just been to the DC concert on Saturday. The played Unsteady. I cried through the whole performance. It broke and healded something inside me at the same time.

    • @Santiag0217
      @Santiag0217 2 роки тому +1

      Thx bro I Appreciate that

  • @user-jr3pi3kn9x
    @user-jr3pi3kn9x 8 днів тому +1

    My father spent his entire life trying to make a better life for us. When he passed in the icu , it tore my family apart but we have to keep going no matter the pain. Others deserve to be happy and that’s what I know he would want for our family. This song really hits home for me. Prayers for the ones that’s lost their way. It does get better!

  • @Porqueknowsay
    @Porqueknowsay 7 місяців тому +2

    I think of my family when I hear this song especially my dad that passed away. Thank you for this positive vibes to get through the -ones.

  • @biancalopes4863
    @biancalopes4863 7 років тому +1269

    I get goosebumps to hear the beautiful song! 😭💔💕❤️❤️

  • @keissafespace6912
    @keissafespace6912 3 роки тому +673

    i feel like this really hits when your parents hurt you so much but you know that they've been through so much trauma and have their own things to work out and they don't know any better

    • @justingreen3557
      @justingreen3557 3 роки тому +15

      Wish I could tell my kids how sorry I am

    • @devanxhi
      @devanxhi 3 роки тому

      mhm

    • @paulazapata4187
      @paulazapata4187 3 роки тому +17

      My dad has being through a lot when he was a child, he practically raised himself, and he never did anything to hurt us, he doesn't smoke, drink or do drugs. When people do that it's bc they want to, there are no excuses.

    • @Angel_shawty_official
      @Angel_shawty_official 3 роки тому +3

      Fuck this comment is everything ☹

    • @flortonizzo3651
      @flortonizzo3651 3 роки тому +6

      you dont have to justify abuse, not even if they have trauma or they have benn abused or when they were little that was okay because that is wrong, abuse can never be justified

  • @elizabethsingley2849
    @elizabethsingley2849 7 місяців тому +5

    This song made me cry so hard and I don’t cry a lot but when I heard this it brought up memories of everyone I loved that passed 😭

  • @sueking4227
    @sueking4227 10 місяців тому +3

    This song hits people in different ways. Thank you for sharing this song.❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

    • @Wolf-Claw1
      @Wolf-Claw1 10 місяців тому

      Same this song touches my heart ❤️

  • @princessgere2740
    @princessgere2740 7 років тому +728

    First time listening to this song and I can't stop crying... I miss my mom so much I wish I could hold her hand just one more time

    • @jodysmith3904
      @jodysmith3904 7 років тому +9

      Princess Gere I know that feeling

    • @AnimalLover-wm8zs
      @AnimalLover-wm8zs 7 років тому +9

      Princess Gere Fucking prefect by pink made me cry

    • @xSuuussable
      @xSuuussable 7 років тому +3

      I know how you feel :(

    • @lenieflecha9414
      @lenieflecha9414 7 років тому +10

      Princess Gere lost my mom at 10 brother 2 years ago and father 1 year ago sow hold on

    • @larissafernandez6571
      @larissafernandez6571 7 років тому +2

      Princess Gere its okay you'll be fine we all lose people at one point its okay cause I know how you feel because my dad is gone and I can feel what you do I hope you feel better .

  • @morgansyt
    @morgansyt 3 роки тому +284

    “dad, i know your trying to fight when you feel flying” ... that hit hard ngl. depression sucks.

    • @morganramirez510
      @morganramirez510 3 роки тому +6

      When you find another Morgan that can relate😢

    • @morgansyt
      @morgansyt 3 роки тому +4

      @@morganramirez510 hi fellow morgan

    • @morganramirez510
      @morganramirez510 3 роки тому +1

      @@morgansyt do you have a phone number or socials i already wanna be freinds and get to know you

    • @btstae6859
      @btstae6859 2 роки тому +2

      Except he stopped fighting and let go

  • @tariendemille2364
    @tariendemille2364 7 місяців тому +2

    Instant tears 😭 the power behind this song 💕

  • @jeremiahwilkes9588
    @jeremiahwilkes9588 8 місяців тому +5

    This song meant to me get sober. Love and dont stop. One day we will all go dont waste time on yourself. Drinking, anger, sadness, depression, outbursts, and emnity cannot over power love. Just love no matter how hard it can be. I miss my cousins so much everyday but that bottle is my enemy. I thank my lover for holding on while i was more than just a little unsteady.

  • @scopelynx5170
    @scopelynx5170 7 років тому +1689

    Lost my dad to bone cancer, tried to convince my self he was gonna be ok but we all know I was lying to myself! Dad passed away in front of me. Rest in eternal piece dad, fly like an angel!

    • @jamesmckirdy4167
      @jamesmckirdy4167 7 років тому +8

      Frankie DaKilla sorry about your lost. I lost my friend in ATV accident

    • @aidanhosein9864
      @aidanhosein9864 7 років тому +8

      I lost my brother

    • @damianherrera1040
      @damianherrera1040 7 років тому +5

      Sorry for your lose

    • @scopelynx5170
      @scopelynx5170 7 років тому +4

      james mckirdy sorry for your loss, must've been difficult

    • @scopelynx5170
      @scopelynx5170 7 років тому +4

      Aidan Hosein I'm sorry for your loss

  • @samueljunior7625
    @samueljunior7625 4 роки тому +566

    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mama, come here
    Approach, appear
    Daddy, I'm alone
    'Cause this house don't feel like home
    If you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Mother, I know
    That you're tired of being alone
    Dad, I know you're trying
    To fight when you feel like flying
    If you love me, don't let go
    If you love me, don't let go
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady
    Hold
    Hold on
    Hold on to me
    'Cause I'm a little unsteady
    A little unsteady

  • @SusanAraniecke
    @SusanAraniecke Місяць тому +1

    This song and especially the video was so relatable with my first marriage. I had 2 sons under 2 when my ex was at his worst. So grateful my current husband is wonderful and responsible and doesn't drink.

  • @serinasanchez6195
    @serinasanchez6195 10 місяців тому +17

    I love this song. From never growing up with my dad but always wished I can have that perfect family where I can grow up with both my parents. I just wanted to feel loved/wanted by him and I would always reach out but just be ignored constantly. He would constantly put me down instead when you are supposed to do the complete opposite. Why did I deserve that? Now as I'm an adult I can see the bigger picture. I haven't succeeded much in my life but I am trying to start somewhere now and I won't let my broken family be the reason as on to why. I have my own son to give my all too, and I will do my best to make sure he has something I never had. I still have love for you dad. I forgive you. But just know I see and notice everything. I wanted you to be there from the beginning. You will probably never see this. - Your broken daughter

    • @pleasure_mixz1307
      @pleasure_mixz1307 9 місяців тому

      because it most situations, marriages don’t work out to begin with. any good parent, wether you’re a mother or father, would know when to call it quits especially if said partner is degrading your child. my mom, personally, is my world because when she found out about all the shit my “father” did-she put her kids first. it’s better to leave if the situation at hand is worsening and not working out, it only creates more further problems for both the parents and child/children. a father or mother should know that having their child degraded or have the pressure of THEIR issues, isn’t worth it to stay in the relationship. it’s, if you really think about, the dad’s fault in their story based on context because of the way he seemed to treat his own child. the father shouldn’t of began to degrade his child to begin with, the mother was right to leave. 🤷‍♀️

    • @livelovelaugh7944
      @livelovelaugh7944 9 місяців тому

      Stay strong. I never knew or seen my daddy & I’m 70 yrs old now but God has kept me all these years & I’m good without a father. 🙏🏽❤️

    • @teresalindsey1286
      @teresalindsey1286 9 місяців тому

      ​@@livelovelaugh7944 I'm so glad that you recognize that GOD kept you all these years. Because HE Is your Father.. He loves all of his children very much and wishes none to perish, but that all would come to repentance. Our Father loves you, I love you.💕 Let God lead you. Have a beautiful day today. In Jesus name, Amen.🙏🏽

  • @bethschaad228
    @bethschaad228 Рік тому +1366

    Myself and my husband both struggled with addiction for years. This song still reminds me of standing in the kitchen when he was at his worst. I thought I lost him forever. Today we are years sober with 2 beautiful girls 2 cars and a beautiful house. I’ll never take a day for granted.

  • @britadawn5116
    @britadawn5116 11 місяців тому +6

    This song came out right after my parents died and it fit so well 😢 miss them dearly

    • @sirendancer4677
      @sirendancer4677 11 місяців тому

      Sending you a hug even though you don't know me. I am truly sorry 😢

  • @diam0ndindaruff775
    @diam0ndindaruff775 8 місяців тому +1

    Omg I am going thru soooo much I'm so alone and this comment gave me chills. He's with you spiritually hunny

  • @juic3884
    @juic3884 7 років тому +3377

    gut wrenching feeling when your falling apart and realize you have no one to comfort you or at least hold you. my heart goes out to all those out there going through a tough time and feeling/dealing with it alone.

    • @davidgraff3254
      @davidgraff3254 7 років тому +51

      Same feeling. I know there are worst situations than mine..So I continue to pray for those. I'm having a hard time right now...Friends and family are everything.

    • @crystalgrimm409
      @crystalgrimm409 7 років тому +19

      thanks, that was so nice to post

    • @kristaward9022
      @kristaward9022 7 років тому +16

      juic388 I falling apart to. so much going on and the one that promised to be there forever, left! it hurts!

    • @rachelldaugherty
      @rachelldaugherty 7 років тому +11

      juic388 just lost a friend very dear to my heart. sad way to go but he has peace and that's all I'd ever ask for him. reach out in your darkest hour there are so many admiring you and love you. keep your head up and your heart open. lv & respect. takes one to know one. we hear you. I hear you. 💜💔

    • @kylieb803
      @kylieb803 7 років тому +1

      juic388 me.

  • @samvanlonkhuyzen5745
    @samvanlonkhuyzen5745 4 роки тому +431

    The pain in the mom’s face,
    The ignorance of the dad who doesn’t care
    The happiest kid in the world, unknowing

    • @kaleighwylie107
      @kaleighwylie107 4 роки тому

      Sam Van Lonkhuyzen 👌

    • @Tupelo927
      @Tupelo927 4 роки тому +5

      That child will know soon enough.

    • @litebluwulf
      @litebluwulf 4 роки тому +12

      The guy could have trauma of his own, maybe even be trying to mask it with alcohol. I know alot of great guys in the marine corps that turned to alcohol to fix their issues most of it to do with ptsd. Its sad and heart breaking but alot of internal pain masked with alcohol could make even a great guy seem bad. I myself have issues with ptsd and turned alcohol for awhile and it was to the point that if i wasnt drinking i wasnt able to enjoy anything. The guy is wrong and needs help but alot of those issues could be coming from trauma and an inablitiy to get by without using alcohol as a crutch. This song really hits home to me for this reason as well

    • @andreipop5805
      @andreipop5805 4 роки тому

      Ignorance is strenght - George Orwell

    • @nodishtoodeep3053
      @nodishtoodeep3053 4 роки тому +1

      Brenden H
      I can get by for a long time without alcohol and do just fine, but god do I only feel happy when I’m inebriated.

  • @evelynbatista7846
    @evelynbatista7846 9 місяців тому +6

    Forever be my favorite song. This song hits hard every time.

  • @liccronlettuce
    @liccronlettuce 11 місяців тому +6

    I miss dancing to this song in the living room with my uncle, there were so many good memories associated with this song, now I can't listen to it without crying

  • @halevalen8768
    @halevalen8768 7 років тому +282

    emotion incarnate!
    i lost my dad 5 years ago and this song brings out so much emotion in me...
    "mother i know... your tired of being alone... daddy i know your tryin... to fight when you feel like flyin"
    this line hits me hard, losing my father to cancer was hard...

    • @aulia7909
      @aulia7909 7 років тому +5

      He is in a better place now... :')

    • @Isa1ahL33
      @Isa1ahL33 7 років тому +1

      Hale Valen I feel your pain, man. I lost my father 5 years ago, as well. It was from a work related accident. I didn't grieved much for him, but only because I wanted to be strong. For him, and my mom and sister.

    • @halevalen8768
      @halevalen8768 7 років тому +2

      Jonathan i did the same, i became the rock that everyone could depend on, i distanced my emotions so i could be their support. same deal... looking back i should have let myself fall apart too

    • @myrun112
      @myrun112 7 років тому +13

      *FUCK YOU CANCER!!!!*

    • @teamsladam845
      @teamsladam845 7 років тому +3

      I feel yaa cause My dad died too

  • @NoName-rk8lh
    @NoName-rk8lh 4 роки тому +455

    “I know your tryin to fight when you feel like flyin” felt that to much..

    • @87flawlessbeauty
      @87flawlessbeauty 4 роки тому +5

      Yes

    • @imndabeach
      @imndabeach 4 роки тому +3

      Hang in there No Name

    • @jadedone5579
      @jadedone5579 4 роки тому +4

      Love the man I'm with, but he is way too unsteady.. Not addictions, but verbally abusive, and already let me know he would end our relationship if it's me or his cat.. He would choose his cat, over a human being?! Wow!

    • @iLLite723
      @iLLite723 4 роки тому +2

      Woooo. Yep. Had to spin it backwards on that part a few times. Ugh. That's deep pain right there.

    • @iLLite723
      @iLLite723 4 роки тому

      As a parent or a child

  • @NorahAttard-fy8ej
    @NorahAttard-fy8ej 21 день тому +1

    My brother was 12 and went through a really bad breakup. He played this song on repeate for a solid month, and it worked wonders. I'm truly in awe

  • @gispaAPRN
    @gispaAPRN 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m so incredibly sorry, Heather. There aren’t enough words in the human language to express my sympathy. What a terrible thing you have gone through. What a tragic loss. 😢

  • @aviaibb3681
    @aviaibb3681 4 роки тому +1071

    i am so sorry for everyone's pain down here in the comments.. hope everything's gonna be okay one day and you all gonna be happy :)