the first few minutes described me in my middle school years. i was especially aggressive to get people to respect me but it also prevented me from developing intimate relationships with others. as i entered high school, i began to see the negative effects of this aspect. i was forced to take a good look at myself and transform myself into a less blunt and toxic person. that side tends to slip out when people start to poke at my insecurities, but otherwise i've learned to identify moments where i feel vulnerable or lesser and adjust accordingly. i'm just scared this explosive, sharp-tongued part of myself will never fully go away.
I don't try to come off as superior but I think I give off that vibe. People get to know me and confess that they thought I was snobby when they first met me. But I also have austere Saturn squaring my Mercury as well. Pluto squaring my Mercury gives me social anxiety. A touch of paranoia in that I assume people think the worst of me. My mercury is in Aquarius so I can get very idealistic and fixed on those ideals and pluto brings painful situations that force me to reconsider. But learning to work with Pluto in a healthy way has been totally transformative and has helped me to not be so rigid and stuck in viewpoint. Pluto gives me great mental powers and intuitive abilities and I can SEE into people and situations. It makes my speech sort of blunt though, which can be hard for others especially when what I speak is what they don't want to hear. I don't mince words. I'm not always tactful in my speaking, especially when angered. I try to be more sensitive. I also have Uranus sextile to my mercury which can make my thoughts erratic but Saturn and Pluto bring me back down to earth. With Pluto to my mercury, three placements in Aquarius and four i Sagittarius I had to learn the hard way not to be so idealistic, preachy and opinionated! If I don't focus on the healthy sides of these signs, Pluto is there to bite me in the ass and bring a painful experience where I am forced to examine myself!
I'm am way too honest for most people. The older I get I really try to think before I act. But I'm aware of my mental sparing. And had to unplug from news and politics. It wasn't going me any good. It's so bad and thank you for saying everyone is flawed. Everything is gray. Focusing on the positive and what I can learn from others despite there flaws. It's really hard and a lot of work. Is it bad I wish there was a workshop for dealing with Square Mercury - Pluto 🤣
Im having that news politics issue right now lol. Im fully convinced politicians and journalist are retarded. But cant stand to watch them bc i get emotionally stressed out.
I had a car accident that healed this part of me. It was a profound experience and healed my mind of trauma thinking. I have found in my experience of the energy- that trauma triggers this like post traumatic stress disorder...its like a need to stop and a deep fear of another destroying your mind and invading you so you become the warrior who no one shall pass into your inner state....the mind thinks there danger - of penetration or injecting from an out side source. The pluto holds alot of past life trauma to the mind...psychological and emotional abuse. I learnt to humble myself and i do not need t defend when i feel under attack (and know that if i feel under attack i need to go with in) and not be effected and direct my energy to effect other in healing and empowering way. No matter how someone acts behaves or speaks it hasnt a thing to do with me, its about them. stay grounded in inner power and grace...move and respond from there. Thankyou for your video.💚
Mercury/Venus/Sun in Aquarius (12th house) square Pluto in Scorpio (8th house), and trine Moon - I used to cry and shake when I spoke about certain things when I was younger. It seemed like almost every time I would speak, I would cry and shake. I had no control over it. It was horrible!!! Sometimes I wouldn't be aware of why, like it was something in my unconscious. I think people with Pluto squares need to work on resolving trauma and healing the nervous system. Doing a lot of journaling around fear and resentment helps me, with a pray to release it. Lots of meditation and Kundalini yoga. Remembering that our power comes from self-mastery, not from controlling anyone else or public opinion, because we can't do that. For me most of my triggers are around what I consider ethical issues. I don't care about most topics or random opinions people carry, but on some things I just go NUTS and sever the relationship if I consider that someone violates my ethical code. I have to remind myself that people more often change their views if I stay calm and offer data and sound arguments. I will admit there's something very satisfying about getting someone to come around to my perspective, and especially if they thank me later for showing them things they never thought of before (this has happened a fair amount). Depending on the person, sometimes I can really push too hard and get explosive in that process though, which my Libra Moon is always mortified by after the fact. I'm trying to be a more accepting person, but I find I don't really trust anyone because most don't meet my standards. I do think I'm improving though. Healing triggers is key. Relationships are so hard...I feel like I'm just a catalyst for my partner and I annoy them and push them to grow and then I break up because I can't stand it anymore, then they're in a better position for a better relationship and I still don't know how to have a stable relationship. :-| Has anyone really fully transformed their Pluto squares into the higher expression because I want to hear from you!!
Thank U so much for taking the time to delve into & publish this. So greatly appreciated 💛 Looking for enemies! 😆. Don't care what others think. Antagonistic. Power/authority in ideas. Quickly know what's wrong w/others & rips it out. Others respond in same. Uncon- sciously asks to mentally expose OWN flaws/shortcomings. Outs authority figures. Hard allowing others their opinions. It's a justified/outlet & mission. WE r ALL flawed. Don't have to save/force self from someone else's ideas. Instead, use that time to evoke positive responses. Submission to authority difficult. Not controlling is REAL control. Focus abilities on motivating others. Then a wise understanding of human nature.
I would like to publicly apologize for a comment I made on one of ur videos! I was going thru something and got emotional! I love your channel and it won’t happen again! Much peace and love to you and deepest thanks for the education ❤️❤️❤️🏆
I have this with Leo mercury/Scorpio Pluto😣 sometimes it’s a good aspect when you need to be strong & explain your point of view/or want someone to know they can’t talk to you like shit because you won’t have it. but other times it can make your communication nasty/aggressive and then you feel bad for what you said after, as it’s not the person you are! I’m a compassionate person but like you said you can see in others what’s hidden & ‘rip it out of them’ when you’re angry, and I feel bad after. And it can cause explosive arguments too
I'm kind of proud to have this aspect. I have mercury in 9 degrees virgo SQUARE pluto in 3 degrees sagittarius. I also have pluto in my THIRD house, which will intensity those characteristics, since the lord of the 3rd house is mercury.
I have this same aspect and most times i choose to stay silent than to say something so strong or others would find hurtful. What I hate about myself is often times i can keep my mouth shut when jt comes to ppl I don't really care about but when it's my loved ones I'm talking to i can go right ahead and say what's on my head which can be hurtful. I know i shouldn't be doing that and it makes me feel guilty. My sun moon cancer just buries me deep with guilt.
Have this exact aspect and agree 100%. Almost like you're communication style is like a scalpel and if you're not careful, it can seriously cause damage. It usually helps when I think to myself that what I'm consciously aware of is a tiny, tiny fraction of the entire picture. There is a lot more I could understand, and if the other is getting argumentative I have probably instigated something unconsciously, even if I feel totally calm.
@@andreamarr5001 people have also said to me that I seem like I deep thinker, but on the negative side I really overthink things too much - I’m always trying to figure both myself and others out - a natural born psychologist lol Can definitely see through facades and that can actually be emotionally draining at times
I currently have this square in my transit. And I find myself speaking my opinions out loud and strongly. I definitely don’t care what others think of me right now lol I have been having dark vengeful thoughts too. Btw you are so beautiful 😍 like you are gorgeous and your mind and intellect is so crystal clear! You speak effortlessly! 💖☺️
Omg so accurate. My old roommate had this aspect and it was misery. Of course she has other bad aspects, but this one in particular, I felt like she shaped all my thinking and at the end I felt like I didn’t know myself. After moving out, I had to go to therapy and my therapist told me she has narcissistic personality disorder.
My mother has this aspect and when I'm talking from my point of view, she will always tell me in stressful way that I think that I'm the smartest one. When I was younger it was hurting me, but now I know it's manipulation.
The manipulation only exists because she is feeling disempowered by your point of view or what you are saying is nagging on an insecurity of hers. This happens when someone doesn't know how to understand this energy. If she were self aware she could work on the healthy pluto stuff. Squares exist to shape and form us through difficult ways or through inner tension or conflict. But if a person is not very conscious or fails to learn these lessons, they pain they feel inside will be spewed on to others.
Spot on! I know a couple of persons with this aspect and they constantly want to, in a way, have the upper hand during the conversation. They usually don't want to reveal their true thoughts even when in the company of their loved ones. Also, they often choose to remain silent when they should really speak,( because e.g. it IS the lack of bad manners not answer the question or email). It is only when someone says something against them (or they see it that way), even if it's true, that they "explode" and defend themselves by attacking verbally the other person and making verbal threats! I have Mercury trine Pluto, but it plays out in a completely different way. Besides, my mercury is in mutable Gemini, but the people I know usually have mercury in fixed signs which makes this aspect even worse. They are completely stuck in their own ways and veeeeery unwiling to change their mind, apologise etc. even when they know they should.
I have mercury in virgo square Pluto in the 8th house. My words can be very destructive I also have Mars in Scorpio. Thankfully I am aware the power I hold whenever I speak and I'm learning to control my words whenever I am angry due to the harm I am capable of causing
It is so helpful to hear from other people with this aspect. Sometimes I'm so frustrated with myself because it seems like I'm always out to wreck my interpersonal connections over disagreements...I have Sun, Mercury AND Venus (all Aquarius in the 12th) square Pluto (Scorpio in the 8th).
My sister has this aspect, she also has mercury conj Mars - she is brutal and packs a punch 🤜... she is defensive and aggressive, you can’t works things out with her in a conversation, there is never any resolve - once she has hurt me - I can’t tell her she’s hurt me or try to work through it with her. I’ve decided to not have a relationship with her anymore - nothing changes, there is no growth. We just fight and don’t speak for 6 months then when we “make up” there is NO talking it through, NO apology - it’s just brushed under the carpet until next time, the elephant is always in the room and the resentment builds and builds until the next explosion. But this time - there is no next time - I’m exhausted and done.
yessssss! I can recall situations where I acted all of these characteristics you mention here, but not too strong or aggressive (at least from my perspective, for example I most of time struggle with too much worry of what others think and although I get very angry that people are not honest or they don't show their transparency I'm not into forcefully exposing it, I try to expose it mildly or sweetened sometimes, especially with authority figures, I remember a time where I wanted to give my boss a book on "how to be a good boss" approved by me first hahaha. My Pluto is in Scorpio in the 12th house, and I always react with this more negative aspect when a wave of powerlessness swoops me), in my chart Mercury is also inconjunct Neptune and Saturn, so I think it all plays out together in the Mercurial world, it's like this weird interaction between compassion/empathy, ridiculous expectations, destruction and brutality all merging in the mind. we are not our thoughts, and thoughts are not even ours.
I love you Jewel! You always make so much sense and really often affirm my own experience of aspects in astrology, whilst always bringing deeper insight and understanding . Clarifying and crystallising the intermingling energies of aspects with your top communication skills. I love your wisdom and learn a lot from you, so thank you 😊
Have this in Leo.. I sometimes see things and use it for knowledge mostly... I see weakness and can tell when someone doesnt want me to know certain things. I love to probe for truths and only use the stinger side when people cross me.
I have this aspect Mercury Capricorn [Retrograde] in 7th House square Pluto Virgo in 4th House. I've experienced intense power struggles with employers. I can tell when they feel competitive with me. I've had horrifying familial power struggles and power struggles and competition in intimate relationships. I usually end up in competition with everyone. This all began as a very young child receiving no love from the adults around me.
an ex boyfriend has Cancer Mercury Retrograde (at the end of the cancer sign) square pluto + Sun leo square pluto, he's a huuuuge manipulative person, very toxic. He made my life miserable when we were together and still now, he tries to manipulate me, even if our relationship is over since 5 years now and he's married. As if he needs to see if i'm still attracted to him, using manipulative tacticts with words to makes me hope some things (that actually i don't care about). I thought years later he would've changed but sadly... Nope.
Aqua Merc Square Scorpio Pluto, talk about being fixed in my point of view. I’ve been verbally abusive when I was younger, but it was a learned behavior as a child. I’m trying to change
I also have Mercury (and Sun, and Venus) in Aquarius square Pluto in Scorpio. I have always had high minded ideals on certain topics and I notice that I try to shape others to come around to my point of view. If they don't, sometimes I can't stand to keep the relationship. It depends on the issue at hand...certain topics make me feel nauseous if someone disagrees as it's a matter of ethics for me and I can take those particular things personally. It's mostly around only issues that trigger me. I'm trying to be ok with people not agreeing with me or seeing these things like I do by focusing on developing my own personal power and feeling of safety in my body. But it's really hard...some disagreements feel emotionally threatening. On the other hand, sometimes my being so direct in trying to change people has a positive impact on them, although they find me 'hard to love,' sometimes they thank me down the road. And yeah, I've had to accept that I can be a real pain when it comes to the way I communicate. It's so frustrating. Moon in Libra in the 7th helps (trine my Mercury) but not enough. lol I have to remind myself that the way people change their views is to hear a calm and clear argument, that as soon as I start to be visibly angry most people shut down, and that not everyone can hear something at that moment and that's ok.
Thank You for Your Awesomeness + ALL your Kick Ass, Super Cool videos! How about the Trine Aspect? I hear square is the hard aspect, So What about: Libra ♎️ Pluto (11deg.) in 12th house Western (1st house Vedic)? Trine Aquarius ♒️ Mercury (6deg) 4th house? Sending You L💗ve !
I knew someone with this with 1 degree orb and Pluto conjunct the ascendant. She was manipulative and tried to guilt trip me into doing what she wanted. She liked having control and would get vindictive if people asserted their autonomy. She would always be complaining about her coworkers that hated her and would ALWAYS have work drama no matter what job she worked. She also cut off a lot of friends because they did something she didn’t like. I eventually became one of those friends lol. Should have seen the signs
I have this as a Transit. I can feel very bold when I speak now and I was never like that before. I would always be careful with my words but now if something bothers me I just let it be heard. I also have this high suspicion over everyone who is super nice to me and in my mind I’m like okay,what do they want now?
My Pluto is in Virgo Square my Mercury & Sun in Sag. Could this represent my anxiety & epilepsy which appeared as a teenager & still to this day had not been controlled by medications? My Mars in Libra makes me always give into others cos I don’t like to fight. I’ve never been able to raise my voice to others, always fearing no-one will like me. My focus, concentration & memory have been shocking since high school but was told it’s related to my medications. I’m 50 now & have been on a lifelong mission to get rid of my seizures. Is this something I’ll always be stuck with? Thanks
I'm having difficulty aligning this aspect with my past or current personal experience in thought. I may have slight tendencies to apply it to myself, but I don't see developing a standard by which I've applied it to others, not looking for their flaws. I'm an Empath, and overwhelmingly focused on the talents, gifts, and good in others - this my flaw in succumbing to a Codependent role in many relationships, family, friend, partners - However, it is said the polar opposite is not that far apart under certain circumstances. This one has me challenged - I must return and find a line of connection - or it may be offset by another aspect - but there still should be a semblance of behaviors. Maybe it was so early life that I met and overcame the challenge - Bugging ha! Riddle!
Very enlightening and informative. Thank you, ma'am, for interpreting this aspect, but would you have any advice for a person with it who wants to know how to control or channel it? This creates frustrating inner conflict because I am educated, I have high morals, I know I shouldn't do bad things but when upset I tend to utter really harsh statements and hurt my loved ones over an insignificant dispute.
my partner has natal ketu (5) and mercury (17) of Aries (12th house: whole sign) opposite rahu (5) and pluto (14) of Libra (6th house). looking forward to info on these aspects, i.e. the opposition as well as the nodes with personal and outer planets. ♡☆♡☆
Yep, that's me seeing flaws in others. 😅 But I don't point out stuff, I just observe it. It's like it jumps at me, even if I don't want to see it. 🙈 And I try to help people with their problems, whenever I can. But how do I get around this whole thing with Pluto conjunct my MC and also Pluto opposite Moon?! Oh, and then there's sun square Pluto, too... It's a riddle. 🙈
mercury conjunct MC in Aquarius square pluto.. I am typically nice. but do not ever ask me to lie. I will play devil's advocate just to prove a point. I have to unplug from news and politics. I hate being painfully aware of everyday currents. manipulations. fast food, commercials, world news, world issues. small things annoy me. I wish everyone could see the big picture. pumping gas while being saddened by my usage of fossil fuel. using plastic while being saddened by the poison of BPA. why is no one else bothered. I have an inner twitch. pessimistic. I get off on being honest and exposing things. exposing people, the government. truth turns me on. I love real, raw, people. do I listen? of course. maybe too much.
But the enemies are real! I'll never change Mercury Aquarius 10th house/Pluto Scorpio 7th. People bug with deeply so the antagonism will stay and yes, I don't comprehend submission. It's unfathomable!
i’m scared and sad. I have all of these strong intense challenging aspects in my chart and I don’t want to be a narcissist. How do you learn to work with this aspect without allowing it to take over
Meditation and to stop reading/watching too much of the news/doomscrolling/watching too much sexual stuff Try to watch and consume "wholesome" type of media/interacting with people on a neutral but positive manner to avoid aggravating the negative thoughts because it will ALWAYS be a part of us It can't be removed 💀 I have this aspect with Aquarius mercury square Scorpio pluto lmao
My pluto in 3rd house scorpio has squares with both Mecury and Sun in 6th house aquarius. I think this video does seem very relevant. I've already done some work not to be so antagonistic and will always need to keep that in mind. Thank you for the cool video, wish I'd have seen it earlier!
I love your videoss, please pleease Jewel make Mercury square Neptune! Mercury rules my chart and it's the only big aspect it has! (it semisextiles Pluto) :D
I have Mercury in Aquarius square Pluto in Scorpio and personally this sounds freaking nuts! I do seek truth but who wants to be lied to? No one. I have my own opinion and everyone should have theirs as well. I also have never sought control in communication either ... that just seems like a giant NO to me. I'm glad she mentioned at the beginning that the signs makes all of this objective and I would say this is aimed more towards fire/earth Mercury's where there is some heat behind the mouth.
After being forced to reflect and get to know myself like you said... I still am the same way with being direct. We really have to learn to accept constructive criticism about our flaws. My point of view is no point of view. 2+2=4 it's not my point of view or would you say that's just my point of view ? Because this happens a lot people say that 4 isn't the same for everyone and my point of view is my unique point of view 🤦🏻♂️ Well the false sense of control is grandiosity but not If you're realistic and objective and you can prove it than it's not an illusion. Being more effective is and a leader requires these traits you mentioned are great qualities if you apply them in the right area. You want these qualities in a man who knows how to apply them and don't say that's not a turn on.
It took years to turn this aspect into the irreplaceable tool that it is and I wouldn't give it up for the world.
I have this with that Mercury in Virgo :(
"It's not that I'm smarter than you, I just know better." -Me to my mother at 5 years old
OMG SAAAME !!! I have mercury in virgo square pluto it feels like everyone around you is stupid and can't understand anything on the deeper level lol
Mercury in Virgo here as well. XD
Alice Hagerty I have mercury in virgo square Pluto in the 8th house😓
Aylin No way!! Mine's in the 8th house too! small world....or big cosmos I suppose...
Girl me too!!!!!!
Yes, I've overcome this aspect!! I'm not as confrontational anymore. I'm focusing on more positive things and keep things more in balance
What did u do? Like how did u embrace it n overcome?
do you have any other mercury aspects?
@@hutcher-bq7qk mercury sextile Mars
Did u find out why u were confrontational?
@@r011ing_thunder6 because I wanted to have power over the other person with the info I had
the first few minutes described me in my middle school years. i was especially aggressive to get people to respect me but it also prevented me from developing intimate relationships with others. as i entered high school, i began to see the negative effects of this aspect. i was forced to take a good look at myself and transform myself into a less blunt and toxic person. that side tends to slip out when people start to poke at my insecurities, but otherwise i've learned to identify moments where i feel vulnerable or lesser and adjust accordingly. i'm just scared this explosive, sharp-tongued part of myself will never fully go away.
Same! I rlly was forced to sit back and analyze myself during my late highschool years
Can you talk about mercury opposite pluto?
I don't try to come off as superior but I think I give off that vibe. People get to know me and confess that they thought I was snobby when they first met me.
But I also have austere Saturn squaring my Mercury as well.
Pluto squaring my Mercury gives me social anxiety. A touch of paranoia in that I assume people think the worst of me. My mercury is in Aquarius so I can get very idealistic and fixed on those ideals and pluto brings painful situations that force me to reconsider. But learning to work with Pluto in a healthy way has been totally transformative and has helped me to not be so rigid and stuck in viewpoint. Pluto gives me great mental powers and intuitive abilities and I can SEE into people and situations. It makes my speech sort of blunt though, which can be hard for others especially when what I speak is what they don't want to hear. I don't mince words. I'm not always tactful in my speaking, especially when angered. I try to be more sensitive.
I also have Uranus sextile to my mercury which can make my thoughts erratic but Saturn and Pluto bring me back down to earth. With Pluto to my mercury, three placements in Aquarius and four i Sagittarius I had to learn the hard way not to be so idealistic, preachy and opinionated! If I don't focus on the healthy sides of these signs, Pluto is there to bite me in the ass and bring a painful experience where I am forced to examine myself!
Are you a scorpio ascendant?
I'm am way too honest for most people. The older I get I really try to think before I act. But I'm aware of my mental sparing. And had to unplug from news and politics. It wasn't going me any good. It's so bad and thank you for saying everyone is flawed. Everything is gray. Focusing on the positive and what I can learn from others despite there flaws. It's really hard and a lot of work. Is it bad I wish there was a workshop for dealing with Square Mercury - Pluto 🤣
Im having that news politics issue right now lol. Im fully convinced politicians and journalist are retarded. But cant stand to watch them bc i get emotionally stressed out.
Same! Stopped watching news and politics several years ago. Too much!
I had a car accident that healed this part of me. It was a profound experience and healed my mind of trauma thinking. I have found in my experience of the energy- that trauma triggers this like post traumatic stress disorder...its like a need to stop and a deep fear of another destroying your mind and invading you so you become the warrior who no one shall pass into your inner state....the mind thinks there danger - of penetration or injecting from an out side source. The pluto holds alot of past life trauma to the mind...psychological and emotional abuse. I learnt to humble myself and i do not need t defend when i feel under attack (and know that if i feel under attack i need to go with in) and not be effected and direct my energy to effect other in healing and empowering way.
No matter how someone acts behaves or speaks it hasnt a thing to do with me, its about them. stay grounded in inner power and grace...move and respond from there.
Thankyou for your video.💚
Mercury/Venus/Sun in Aquarius (12th house) square Pluto in Scorpio (8th house), and trine Moon - I used to cry and shake when I spoke about certain things when I was younger. It seemed like almost every time I would speak, I would cry and shake. I had no control over it. It was horrible!!! Sometimes I wouldn't be aware of why, like it was something in my unconscious. I think people with Pluto squares need to work on resolving trauma and healing the nervous system. Doing a lot of journaling around fear and resentment helps me, with a pray to release it. Lots of meditation and Kundalini yoga. Remembering that our power comes from self-mastery, not from controlling anyone else or public opinion, because we can't do that. For me most of my triggers are around what I consider ethical issues. I don't care about most topics or random opinions people carry, but on some things I just go NUTS and sever the relationship if I consider that someone violates my ethical code. I have to remind myself that people more often change their views if I stay calm and offer data and sound arguments. I will admit there's something very satisfying about getting someone to come around to my perspective, and especially if they thank me later for showing them things they never thought of before (this has happened a fair amount). Depending on the person, sometimes I can really push too hard and get explosive in that process though, which my Libra Moon is always mortified by after the fact. I'm trying to be a more accepting person, but I find I don't really trust anyone because most don't meet my standards. I do think I'm improving though. Healing triggers is key. Relationships are so hard...I feel like I'm just a catalyst for my partner and I annoy them and push them to grow and then I break up because I can't stand it anymore, then they're in a better position for a better relationship and I still don't know how to have a stable relationship. :-| Has anyone really fully transformed their Pluto squares into the higher expression because I want to hear from you!!
Thank U so much for taking the time to delve into & publish this. So greatly appreciated 💛
Looking for enemies! 😆. Don't care what others think. Antagonistic. Power/authority in ideas. Quickly know what's wrong w/others & rips it out. Others respond in same. Uncon- sciously asks to mentally expose OWN flaws/shortcomings. Outs authority figures. Hard allowing others their opinions. It's a justified/outlet & mission. WE r ALL flawed. Don't have to save/force self from someone else's ideas. Instead, use that time to evoke positive responses. Submission to authority difficult. Not controlling is REAL control. Focus abilities on motivating others. Then a wise understanding of human nature.
I would like to publicly apologize for a comment I made on one of ur videos! I was going thru something and got emotional! I love your channel and it won’t happen again! Much peace and love to you and deepest thanks for the education ❤️❤️❤️🏆
I have this with Leo mercury/Scorpio Pluto😣 sometimes it’s a good aspect when you need to be strong & explain your point of view/or want someone to know they can’t talk to you like shit because you won’t have it. but other times it can make your communication nasty/aggressive and then you feel bad for what you said after, as it’s not the person you are! I’m a compassionate person but like you said you can see in others what’s hidden & ‘rip it out of them’ when you’re angry, and I feel bad after. And it can cause explosive arguments too
I'm kind of proud to have this aspect. I have mercury in 9 degrees virgo SQUARE pluto in 3 degrees sagittarius. I also have pluto in my THIRD house, which will intensity those characteristics, since the lord of the 3rd house is mercury.
I have this same aspect and most times i choose to stay silent than to say something so strong or others would find hurtful. What I hate about myself is often times i can keep my mouth shut when jt comes to ppl I don't really care about but when it's my loved ones I'm talking to i can go right ahead and say what's on my head which can be hurtful. I know i shouldn't be doing that and it makes me feel guilty. My sun moon cancer just buries me deep with guilt.
Have this exact aspect and agree 100%. Almost like you're communication style is like a scalpel and if you're not careful, it can seriously cause damage. It usually helps when I think to myself that what I'm consciously aware of is a tiny, tiny fraction of the entire picture. There is a lot more I could understand, and if the other is getting argumentative I have probably instigated something unconsciously, even if I feel totally calm.
@@andreamarr5001 people have also said to me that I seem like I deep thinker, but on the negative side I really overthink things too much - I’m always trying to figure both myself and others out - a natural born psychologist lol
Can definitely see through facades and that can actually be emotionally draining at times
I used to be like this in my preteen years that's pretty young but thankfully I grew the hell up lmfaooo
you are incredible! thankyou for your wisdom, I am taking this to heart
I currently have this square in my transit. And I find myself speaking my opinions out loud and strongly. I definitely don’t care what others think of me right now lol I have been having dark vengeful thoughts too. Btw you are so beautiful 😍 like you are gorgeous and your mind and intellect is so crystal clear! You speak effortlessly! 💖☺️
Omg so accurate.
My old roommate had this aspect and it was misery.
Of course she has other bad aspects, but this one in particular, I felt like she shaped all my thinking and at the end I felt like I didn’t know myself.
After moving out, I had to go to therapy and my therapist told me she has narcissistic personality disorder.
her NPD doesnt come hand and hand at all with mercury square pluto. dont correlate mental disorder to astrology.
@@froboy2120 so true
My mother has this aspect and when I'm talking from my point of view, she will always tell me in stressful way that I think that I'm the smartest one. When I was younger it was hurting me, but now I know it's manipulation.
The manipulation only exists because she is feeling disempowered by your point of view or what you are saying is nagging on an insecurity of hers. This happens when someone doesn't know how to understand this energy. If she were self aware she could work on the healthy pluto stuff. Squares exist to shape and form us through difficult ways or through inner tension or conflict. But if a person is not very conscious or fails to learn these lessons, they pain they feel inside will be spewed on to others.
My mom too, she’s a cunt, love her
This is truly insightful! Thank you very much, dear Jewel 💎❤
Thank you, Jewel! As always it is insightful listen to your interpretations of aspects
Spot on! I know a couple of persons with this aspect and they constantly want to, in a way, have the upper hand during the conversation. They usually don't want to reveal their true thoughts even when in the company of their loved ones. Also, they often choose to remain silent when they should really speak,( because e.g. it IS the lack of bad manners not answer the question or email). It is only when someone says something against them (or they see it that way), even if it's true, that they "explode" and defend themselves by attacking verbally the other person and making verbal threats!
I have Mercury trine Pluto, but it plays out in a completely different way. Besides, my mercury is in mutable Gemini, but the people I know usually have mercury in fixed signs which makes this aspect even worse. They are completely stuck in their own ways and veeeeery unwiling to change their mind, apologise etc. even when they know they should.
I have mercury in virgo square Pluto in the 8th house. My words can be very destructive I also have Mars in Scorpio. Thankfully I am aware the power I hold whenever I speak and I'm learning to control my words whenever I am angry due to the harm I am capable of causing
I have this placement too! And I agree.
It is so helpful to hear from other people with this aspect. Sometimes I'm so frustrated with myself because it seems like I'm always out to wreck my interpersonal connections over disagreements...I have Sun, Mercury AND Venus (all Aquarius in the 12th) square Pluto (Scorpio in the 8th).
My sister has this aspect, she also has mercury conj Mars - she is brutal and packs a punch 🤜... she is defensive and aggressive, you can’t works things out with her in a conversation, there is never any resolve - once she has hurt me - I can’t tell her she’s hurt me or try to work through it with her. I’ve decided to not have a relationship with her anymore - nothing changes, there is no growth. We just fight and don’t speak for 6 months then when we “make up” there is NO talking it through, NO apology - it’s just brushed under the carpet until next time, the elephant is always in the room and the resentment builds and builds until the next explosion. But this time - there is no next time - I’m exhausted and done.
I’m crying on the inside. This is healing.
I have a roommate with the aspect. He’s from Cameroon and he is always throwing shade on American culture while uplifting his. He can do no wrong lol.
Id do the same lmao
Thank you for sharing you tremendous wisdom& energy. So very much appreciated. -All the Best
yessssss! I can recall situations where I acted all of these characteristics you mention here, but not too strong or aggressive (at least from my perspective, for example I most of time struggle with too much worry of what others think and although I get very angry that people are not honest or they don't show their transparency I'm not into forcefully exposing it, I try to expose it mildly or sweetened sometimes, especially with authority figures, I remember a time where I wanted to give my boss a book on "how to be a good boss" approved by me first hahaha. My Pluto is in Scorpio in the 12th house, and I always react with this more negative aspect when a wave of powerlessness swoops me), in my chart Mercury is also inconjunct Neptune and Saturn, so I think it all plays out together in the Mercurial world, it's like this weird interaction between compassion/empathy, ridiculous expectations, destruction and brutality all merging in the mind.
we are not our thoughts, and thoughts are not even ours.
I love you Jewel! You always make so much sense and really often affirm my own experience of aspects in astrology, whilst always bringing deeper insight and understanding . Clarifying and crystallising the intermingling energies of aspects with your top communication skills. I love your wisdom and learn a lot from you, so thank you 😊
that necklace is so beautiful
Jewel ........ "Moon Square Neptune" In The Natal Chart!!!!!
Geesh i sound like a monster 🤔😳. Mercury in Leo Square Pluto in Scorpio
Same. We're right though.
Hi Amico same here Pluto squares my mercury and moon.
actually in my point of view, Jewel has been very nice compare to what i've noticed about mercury square pluto people...
Pluto Scorpio square Sun Mercury Mars Jupiter Its a square party ehhhhh
Excellent and artful explanation!
this was eye-opening! thanks for posting.
+M Puppybreath I'm glad you took it so well 😘
Have this in Leo.. I sometimes see things and use it for knowledge mostly... I see weakness and can tell when someone doesnt want me to know certain things. I love to probe for truths and only use the stinger side when people cross me.
I have this aspect Mercury Capricorn [Retrograde] in 7th House square Pluto Virgo in 4th House. I've experienced intense power struggles with employers. I can tell when they feel competitive with me. I've had horrifying familial power struggles and power struggles and competition in intimate relationships. I usually end up in competition with everyone. This all began as a very young child receiving no love from the adults around me.
THIS resonates…
I would love to see your take on Mercury square Jupiter. I hope you’ll do a video about it.
Thank you for all your content, Jewel!
Thanks, Jewel, you brought up two things in myself i need to work on.
an ex boyfriend has Cancer Mercury Retrograde (at the end of the cancer sign) square pluto + Sun leo square pluto, he's a huuuuge manipulative person, very toxic. He made my life miserable when we were together and still now, he tries to manipulate me, even if our relationship is over since 5 years now and he's married. As if he needs to see if i'm still attracted to him, using manipulative tacticts with words to makes me hope some things (that actually i don't care about). I thought years later he would've changed but sadly... Nope.
Does the opposition work similarly?
Aqua Merc Square Scorpio Pluto, talk about being fixed in my point of view. I’ve been verbally abusive when I was younger, but it was a learned behavior as a child. I’m trying to change
I also have Mercury (and Sun, and Venus) in Aquarius square Pluto in Scorpio. I have always had high minded ideals on certain topics and I notice that I try to shape others to come around to my point of view. If they don't, sometimes I can't stand to keep the relationship. It depends on the issue at hand...certain topics make me feel nauseous if someone disagrees as it's a matter of ethics for me and I can take those particular things personally. It's mostly around only issues that trigger me. I'm trying to be ok with people not agreeing with me or seeing these things like I do by focusing on developing my own personal power and feeling of safety in my body. But it's really hard...some disagreements feel emotionally threatening. On the other hand, sometimes my being so direct in trying to change people has a positive impact on them, although they find me 'hard to love,' sometimes they thank me down the road. And yeah, I've had to accept that I can be a real pain when it comes to the way I communicate. It's so frustrating. Moon in Libra in the 7th helps (trine my Mercury) but not enough. lol I have to remind myself that the way people change their views is to hear a calm and clear argument, that as soon as I start to be visibly angry most people shut down, and that not everyone can hear something at that moment and that's ok.
On point! I have this aspect (3 degrees)
Wow this is insightful, thank you! 🙏
Thank you so much for this explanation. Have cancer mercury (rising lord) square Pluto🙏
Thank you very much, dear Jewel ! Could you please do a video about Natal Mercury inconjunct Pluto? How would that manifest?
Thanks..i recognize myself in this video, I am often asked why at work they call me "the boss" .... I'm not the boss!!
libra mercury square sagittarius pluto
Another request for the opposition. (Mercury in Pisces 12 opposing) Thank you Jewel. Happy New Year!
+Traci M I will put this on my list for this week.
Amazing insight! Thank you
wow! gratitude!!
I'm just a Communicator.
Mercury(2nd) conjunct with NN and Sun(all in Cancer).
Mercury Square with Saturn,Mars & Pluto(all three in Libra).
Thank You for Your Awesomeness + ALL your Kick Ass, Super Cool videos!
How about the Trine Aspect? I hear square is the hard aspect, So
What about:
Libra ♎️ Pluto (11deg.) in 12th house Western (1st house Vedic)?
Trine
Aquarius ♒️ Mercury (6deg) 4th house?
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I knew someone with this with 1 degree orb and Pluto conjunct the ascendant. She was manipulative and tried to guilt trip me into doing what she wanted. She liked having control and would get vindictive if people asserted their autonomy.
She would always be complaining about her coworkers that hated her and would ALWAYS have work drama no matter what job she worked. She also cut off a lot of friends because they did something she didn’t like. I eventually became one of those friends lol. Should have seen the signs
don’t know how i got here cause i don’t have Mercury square Pluto but Scorpio Mercury and i relate so much lmao
Can you do Venus opposite Saturn
I have this as a Transit. I can feel very bold when I speak now and I was never like that before. I would always be careful with my words but now if something bothers me I just let it be heard. I also have this high suspicion over everyone who is super nice to me and in my mind I’m like okay,what do they want now?
Love your necklace! Where did you get it? :D
My Pluto is in Virgo Square my Mercury & Sun in Sag. Could this represent my anxiety & epilepsy which appeared as a teenager & still to this day had not been controlled by medications? My Mars in Libra makes me always give into others cos I don’t like to fight. I’ve never been able to raise my voice to others, always fearing no-one will like me. My focus, concentration & memory have been shocking since high school but was told it’s related to my medications. I’m 50 now & have been on a lifelong mission to get rid of my seizures. Is this something I’ll always be stuck with? Thanks
I'm having difficulty aligning this aspect with my past or current personal experience in thought.
I may have slight tendencies to apply it to myself, but I don't see developing a standard by which I've applied it to others, not looking for their flaws. I'm an Empath, and overwhelmingly focused on the talents, gifts, and good in others - this my flaw in succumbing to a Codependent role in many relationships, family, friend, partners -
However, it is said the polar opposite is not that far apart under certain circumstances.
This one has me challenged - I must return and find a line of connection - or it may be offset by another aspect - but there still should be a semblance of behaviors.
Maybe it was so early life that I met and overcame the challenge -
Bugging ha! Riddle!
I have this aspect in a tight orb between libra pluto and mercury cap and i have it with mercury square mars
Very enlightening and informative. Thank you, ma'am, for interpreting this aspect, but would you have any advice for a person with it who wants to know how to control or channel it? This creates frustrating inner conflict because I am educated, I have high morals, I know I shouldn't do bad things but when upset I tend to utter really harsh statements and hurt my loved ones over an insignificant dispute.
this was so helpful omg thank you 🤍
This is me. Thanks a lot!
How does the Opposition between between Natal Mercury and Pluto play out? Is it the similar to the Square?
minakittyful yes except worse lol in a sense that u will always battle with it
Watch the opposition video people
i hate this because its all so on point lol
my partner has natal ketu (5) and mercury (17) of Aries (12th house: whole sign) opposite rahu (5) and pluto (14) of Libra (6th house).
looking forward to info on these aspects, i.e. the opposition as well as the nodes with personal and outer planets.
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Natal Moon square Uranus next... Please!!!!
You are okay with this aspect??
Sun, Mercury in leo, both squaring pluto in Scorpio... Any insight would be helpful with this? Please and thank yoy xx
Is this similiar to have Mercury opposite Pluto natal?
Could you make pluto opposite mercury in natal chart thank you
6:40 unless ur point of view is based in logistics
Genius!
I have Mercury quintile Pluto 0°02.
Makes sense with my Virgo SN
My sister has Mercury in 4th house Aquarius squaring Pluto in libra 1st house. What is this stating about her?
Does mercury inconjunction to pluto works the same ?? If not can u please do a video about this aspect!
My mom has this aspect, but also moon sextile mercury, which is confusing because they seem like 2 opposite energies
I wonder how this play out with the person I am involved romantically his sun, moon and Mercury conjunct square pluto
What about Mercury opposite Pluto??
Would you mind talking about Mercury quincunx Pluto? Though, some of this really resonates
Are you a virgo rising?
Yep, that's me seeing flaws in others. 😅 But I don't point out stuff, I just observe it. It's like it jumps at me, even if I don't want to see it. 🙈 And I try to help people with their problems, whenever I can. But how do I get around this whole thing with Pluto conjunct my MC and also Pluto opposite Moon?! Oh, and then there's sun square Pluto, too... It's a riddle. 🙈
What if both planets are retrograde?
Similar for opposition?
mercury conjunct MC in Aquarius square pluto.. I am typically nice. but do not ever ask me to lie. I will play devil's advocate just to prove a point. I have to unplug from news and politics. I hate being painfully aware of everyday currents. manipulations.
fast food, commercials, world news, world issues. small things annoy me. I wish everyone could see the big picture. pumping gas while being saddened by my usage of fossil fuel. using plastic while being saddened by the poison of BPA. why is no one else bothered. I have an inner twitch. pessimistic. I get off on being honest and exposing things. exposing people, the government. truth turns me on. I love real, raw, people.
do I listen? of course. maybe too much.
Oh, that's totally what I do too!
this is so relatable wtf
But the enemies are real! I'll never change
Mercury Aquarius 10th house/Pluto Scorpio 7th. People bug with deeply so the antagonism will stay and yes, I don't comprehend submission. It's unfathomable!
What about Mercury conjunct Pluto?
Mercury taurus Pluto in Scorpio
Mars in Leo yup!! 👀 🔥
I noticed a lot of celebrities have this aspect, why do you think that is?
It may be because they are the dark actors, “the heavy” in a series or film. They can project power and be convincingly mean.
i’m scared and sad. I have all of these strong intense challenging aspects in my chart and I don’t want to be a narcissist. How do you learn to work with this aspect without allowing it to take over
Meditation and to stop reading/watching too much of the news/doomscrolling/watching too much sexual stuff
Try to watch and consume "wholesome" type of media/interacting with people on a neutral but positive manner to avoid aggravating the negative thoughts because it will ALWAYS be a part of us
It can't be removed 💀
I have this aspect with Aquarius mercury square Scorpio pluto lmao
My pluto in 3rd house scorpio has squares with both Mecury and Sun in 6th house aquarius. I think this video does seem very relevant. I've already done some work not to be so antagonistic and will always need to keep that in mind. Thank you for the cool video, wish I'd have seen it earlier!
I love your videoss, please pleease Jewel make Mercury square Neptune! Mercury rules my chart and it's the only big aspect it has! (it semisextiles Pluto) :D
This is the Conspiracy Theorist aspect
It sure can be. Look at some of the comments.
I have this.. 4° Leo Mercury square my 4° Scorpio Pluto.. In human design my sun is gate 39(2nd decan Cancer) Gate 39 is "The Provocatuer" 😅😅😅
I have this aspect and a potty mouth LOL
wish i could start again. every personal planet squares pluto and uranus....fatal flaws.
Mine is in opposition. Enemies haha yes😀 I scout that... it drives me crazy. 😢
True .. verbal abuse and force...by someone close to me
I have Mercury in Aquarius square Pluto in Scorpio and personally this sounds freaking nuts! I do seek truth but who wants to be lied to? No one. I have my own opinion and everyone should have theirs as well. I also have never sought control in communication either ... that just seems like a giant NO to me. I'm glad she mentioned at the beginning that the signs makes all of this objective and I would say this is aimed more towards fire/earth Mercury's where there is some heat behind the mouth.
After being forced to reflect and get to know myself like you said... I still am the same way with being direct. We really have to learn to accept constructive criticism about our flaws. My point of view is no point of view. 2+2=4 it's not my point of view or would you say that's just my point of view ? Because this happens a lot people say that 4 isn't the same for everyone and my point of view is my unique point of view 🤦🏻♂️ Well the false sense of control is grandiosity but not If you're realistic and objective and you can prove it than it's not an illusion. Being more effective is and a leader requires these traits you mentioned are great qualities if you apply them in the right area. You want these qualities in a man who knows how to apply them and don't say that's not a turn on.
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