the boundaries are just a mirage, i promise

In order to step out of our comfort zone, it helps to understand the human made rules that we operate within.
When we overstep these boundaries and test to see where the line is drawn, it feels uncomfortable or dangerous.
The reality is, overstepping the boundaries in getting the things that we want is an incredibly powerful tool.
With good intentions of course...
'Causing a scene' every now and again and being persistent only shows you that there's no real consequences on the other side; people often actually respect the fortitude.
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[@gmarounf7472]

This is very insightful and there is a lot to unpack here. But, I think the saying "God only helps those that help themselves" here applies. People often times are focused on hoping they are "chosen" so much that they forget to choose themselves. We are conditioned to be obedient to authority and to conform to social/societal norms. There is Bystander Syndrome and there is Stockholmn Syndrome for you to look into which I think more or less would help you to understand the nature of this complex (which isban inferiority complex) a little better.

[@CarterDombeck]

Love the words - it's totally like a form of bystander syndrome, but the situation is your own life and the hesitancy to take action. The conditioning makes it very difficult to go against the grain and overstep the boundaries, but in reality there's no real consequences if you have a great heart with great intentions. ✊