Congratulations, Rachel and AJ! Rachel, when I found your channel we were both struggling with TTC, now we’re both pregnant and I’m looking forward to watching you experience first time motherhood as I’m doing the same! All the best ❤
Totally agree and appreciate your comments about trying ‘naturally’. I even have PCOS (weight controlled) and after almost a year and a half of trying my doctor even said I don’t need to exercise or eat a certain way because in all honesty it probably wouldn’t make a difference. If you’re generally healthy, if it was going to happen naturally it would have happened within the first year (ish). I feel so bad for women who feel pressured to conceive naturally, spending all their money on supplements that pretty much do nothing, torturing themselves with super strict diets and exercising in ways that don’t feel good to their body and who still don’t conceive, sometimes for years, and the whole time their eggs are aging, which isn’t helping the process either. It’s ok to get help. At the end of the day your baby is going to be as natural as a baby conceived in a bedroom as opposed to a doctor’s office.
I felt connected as soon as i heard the little heartbeat at 9 weeks and ive been obsessed with her ever since. My due date is on Sunday. Stroke your belly and talk/sing to baby as much as you can...that connection will come. Plus when you start feeling movement it's wonderful ❤
Loved this! I’m 21 weeks along and I didn’t really let myself become fully excited or even think about actually bringing a baby home until around 14-16 weeks. Just now starting to think about the nursery and taking it step by step! Much more connected to baby now that I can feel then moving everyday ❤
One thing to consider is the impact of showing a child publicly on the internet and social media will have on them in the future. As they can’t yet decide whether they want their baby photos and videos out for the whole world to see it can impact their sense of autonomy and privacy as they grow up to have those out there. A lot of vloggers strike the balance by showing their baby on camera but not it’s face😊
Not just visuals but I would also be cautious about sharing super personal stories. Talking about baby blowouts or personality struggles might feel trivial in the moment but can be embarrassing to have recorded online once they are older
I wish I had known that the first trimester is the worst. I was more ready for the adverse effects on my body. The emotional part of things caught me off guard. I was so tired, nauseous, and anxious. Because of this, I felt very sad. Thankfully, as I felt better, it went away. I say this because I never really heard anyone else express quite what I was feeling. On the one hand, I felt so grateful to be pregnant, but on the other, I felt so sad and scared. I am so happy for you both and will keep you in my prayers :)
I dealt with infertility and miscarriages for 3 years. I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant and I didn’t fully allow myself to believe it until he started kicking around 24 weeks. My husband says im a disaster planner but I’m just worried for the worst. And sometimes it feels too good to be true that I’m blessed.
Congrats! I am starting stims this week and I’m super anxious about it, but your videos have put me a bit more at ease. I am using the same clinic you used, so it’s nice to see someone came out successful. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Hey rachel! I didnt feel connected to my baby until after she was born. Even when she was first born and they put her in my arms i couldnt believe it was my baby, but she is 2.5 weeks now and i love her so much!
After last month I gave up trying to conceive my last baby. I gave it to God. And I found out I was pregnant at literally 3wks. I had no symptoms didn't think I was pregnant I was just in the habit of taking tests every month and so I just took one to take one knowing it was gonna be pregnant after ttc for a while and it came out positive. I was in such a state of shock I took 13 more tests. All positive. I've never got a positive so early. I was like 6 or 7dpo. It was crazy. And so many congratulations to your new bundle.
A doula is a support person for you in labor, whereas a midwife is a medical provider and would be another option in place of a OBGYN. Doulas cannot deliver babies or give medical advice/assessment, but are a really wonderful addition to your birth team for help with labor support.
Hi Rachel❤ have you listened to the Birth Hour podcast?? You would love it! Each episode is a woman telling her unique birth story and you’ll learn so much about everything from it! Also- a doula is more of a birth coach/advocate and a midwife is a medically licensed professional who helps delivers babies. Different from an OB because a midwife doesn’t have the same approach because they are usually a more natural/holistic professional and cannot perform surgery like an OB can
Hi rachel! Based on my own experience, I didnt feel connected to my baby until I gave birth😂.. congratulations and im praying for a safe pregnancy for you. Much love from the Philippines! 🇵🇭
31wks right now, I didn’t start feeling connected to the idea of being a mom/pregnant until 17ish weeks, didn’t start feeling connected to this baby specifically until very end of 2nd trimester!
I didn't realise how expensive IVF was in the states. In the UK if you're not a smoker, have no children and have a BMI of below 30 you can get IVF on the NHS and if you go private it's £5000 and above x
Hi Rachel - I think it’s normal to not feel connected to your baby, especially early on. I’m 32 weeks and it still feels a bit unreal. I started feeling more connected to my baby after she started moving around a ton (maybe midway through 2nd trimester) and after I had my baby shower.
I think you'll feel connected to the baby the first time you feel it flutter or kick inside of you ❤ ive had 2 and I cant remember which stage that happened at during pregnancy haha..but at first it's hard to even wrap your head around the fact there's a baby in there.
I started feeling connected to the baby a little bit when I had a bump. But it was more excited of the idea of a baby I didn’t ever really feel super super connected to the baby in my womb. And until he was born. I was obviously super super excited, but my baby didn’t move a whole lot so I only ever felt small little kicks. So if you don’t ever feel super super connected to the baby in your womb, don’t worry about it because you will get that connection when your baby is in your arms. That’s really when I felt the connection. And even that some moms take a few days or so to feel that connection because it’s so strange, and your body feels so strange, during birth, and after birth.
I struggled with infertility and didn't feel connected to my baby until after she was born and it had been several weeks. I definitely felt that maternal instinct that I need to care for and protect her after she was born, but not that overwhelming love feeling. I think it being my first child, it mostly just felt surreal during the pregnancy and adjusting to my changing body. I wonder if the second time around I would feel differently knowing what I know now.
Hey Rachel! Not long time ago I started to follow you as I was trying to get pregnant too. And we got pregnant at almost same time haha !! Our due dates are like 3 days apart! I completely understand you about not feeling connected to the baby. I still don't believe its true. Like, until I don't see the bump growing, I wont take it serious I guess. :)
i gave birth on April 1th and i didn't see myself being a mom or having a baby until i had him in my arms. I felt like my friends and family was more excited than me that i was having a baby which made me feel kind of guilty since this was a wanted pregnancy. So don't worry if you don't feel connected to your baby, you will once you se their face :)
Mother of 3 here. Just had my third in November. I didn't feel connected with my first until she was actually born. It didn't feel real until she arrived and I could hold her in my arms. For my other two.... I forced myself not to connect until they were born because I experienced two losses in between and I didn't want to get my hopes up until they were here safely. I don't think there is a straight answer for this. Everyone is different!
During my birth, my midwife came in to take vitals and check on me during labor only every 30 minutes (until the pushing phase). My doula was with me the whole time and much more hands on with pain management / walking me through each contraction.
First off congrats! 🎉 Question: I remember you saying that in the two week waiting period when you first started TTC you convinced yourself you had early pregnancy symptoms, even though you didn’t. Girl, same boat 🫠. Did your ACTUAL early pregnancy symptoms feel different than your “fake” early pregnancy symptoms. I’m trying to put it out of my head but ugh waiting is so hard. 😢 Thanks for putting videos like this out there. This seems to be the only thing that eases my mind while TTC.
The information about Ozempic is not totally correct. It’s not just helping you to feel full. Lowering caloric intake itself does not lower blood sugar. It will help with weight loss. But the reason it works so well is GLP-1 prevents the release of glucagon, a hormone that raises blood sugar levels. Keeping your blood sugar level is what makes the weight loss so successful.
Not my 5 month old blowing out of her diaper and then peeing everywhere while her dad is in the middle of changing her diaper while I’m watching this lmao. Can’t wait for you to experience your first blowout! But seriously, congrats again 💜
I clicked so fast when I saw my questions in the thumbnail 🤣 love these videos and so excited for the gender reveal!! 🩷🩵🩷🩵 also I started to feel more connected once I could feel those kicks, I honestly miss them so much 🥺 enjoy every moment of them, it goes so quick!!
For me, the perfect birth plan was not having a plan 😂 like you said, setting low expectations so no outcome is upsetting. my “plan” was to get baby here while keeping me and her safe, whether that was a medicated birth, a spontaneous birth with no time to even think about an epidural or a csection. that way there’s no disappointment if something does different than “planned” because the only plan was a safe labor and delivery.
10:33 I am at 24 weeks pregnancy now and I set expectations low since I am already at high risk age. Now I realized I have to create baby registry and clean up house..
The difference between a midwife and doula is that a midwife would be your care provider like an OB, and they will “deliver” your baby. You can use a midwife for a home birth or in hospital, they are really great and some people choose to have a midwife and OB but I’m not sure how that works in the US. (There’s also different kinds of midwives) A doula is someone who’s with you during your whole labor ideally and focuses on you and helping you achieve the kind of birth you want. They’re more of a physical and emotional support vs a midwife though some midwives also act a little like a doula on top of their midwife role.
Hiii dear can u please help me fr natural killer cell how many times intralipids were given to u during IVF...As i have the same issue NK cells positive
You’re really pretty rn…supper glowy…so if I had to guess…it could be a boy…but because you said GIRL and boy names in that order…I’m thinking maybe a girl😅😝😂 either way…baby will be healthy and happy 🩵🩷
Thank you for choosing to show and also don’t be scared of the internet mo matter its internet or even world God will protect them because he is faithful and he’s chosen that baby and has purpose and God loves that baby more than you love him/her.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing to share your babies as other people think. I followed a creator for years. She got pregnant. Spoke about it once, then carried on. Everyone sent everything they could have ever needed or wanted for their unborn child. She showed the whole nursery decorated by her following. She that the baby over a year and a half ago. Talked one time about the birth experience and that’s it! No one has seen the child nor does she ever talk about him. That is creepy! I know she says the baby can’t say he wants to be on camera! Come on, common sense knows a baby can’t speak. I get it to a point, not wanting to show your child. But her following including me was so excited and then for over a year and half she doesn’t speak of her child. I unsubscribed because when I asked after a Year, have you ever updated about your baby? Or have you ever said your babies name? I got blasted and told it was none of my business. I’m not a creepy internet person, I’m a mom and a grandma. We were all invested in her and her husband’s lives, just as we are with you. I personally follow the lives of other content creators such as Michelle, Cassie, and Renee among others who have a different content channel but then get pregnant and are excited and we come along. Ultimately it is you and AJ’s life as to whether you share your child or not, but I have already read comments not to do it. Anyway I’m happy and excited. I hope we get to see your child one day, know her name and enjoy your continued journey. I truly felt hurt when this other person wouldn’t even share the name. Idk maybe I am the creepy one. Love that you share and I’m so happy I found your channel years ago. Congratulations
That's your point of view as a viewer. It's normal for people to be curious about baby's name etc. However, there are a lot of things to consider, such as safety of this child. It's creating great opportunities for some perverts, it's easier to gain child's trust when someone is calling them by their name, for example, especially when someone is sharing in parallel where they live. Photo's of children posted on internet end up in dark web. I am glad that this topic has become popular recently. I respect that content creators are less eager to overshare about their children and such decision is not coming from them being mean and selfish, but from the impact that it can have on their children. I think it's important to make a well thought decision and it's up to every parent and we, as viewers, need to respect that. I recommend materials about this topic on The Financial Diet 😊
@@aleksandrakupinska-ojko3675 I totally understand. Then it needs to be made Clear they will not share any part of it. Viewers were really upset that they didn’t even know when the baby was born. They have really great gifts etc. I know you should never expect anything back then the gifts should not be taken if you aren’t willing even to share that you actually had the baby. I’m a grandmother of 3 grandsons and I understand. No one should share their locations either. I’m not saying the creator was selfish. If that was a part she wasn’t willing to share then nothing should have been brought up and there should not be links to buy the whole nursery. Just my opinion also. People are really ready to take gifts, money etc but aren’t willing to give one shred back. Again I respect people who choose not to. Then keep it quiet and not share that part on the internet. People can find you either way.
Congratulations, Rachel and AJ! Rachel, when I found your channel we were both struggling with TTC, now we’re both pregnant and I’m looking forward to watching you experience first time motherhood as I’m doing the same! All the best ❤
Currently 6 months TTC and just found your page. Going back through all your old videos is so encouraging 🤍
I didn’t start feeling connected to my baby until like 5/6 weeks postpartum! Now she’s 13 months and my little bestie. It will come in your own time!
Girl the way my heart prayed for this series I literally had it written down! I just couldn’t wait for all your pregnancy videos and they’re here! ❤
Totally agree and appreciate your comments about trying ‘naturally’. I even have PCOS (weight controlled) and after almost a year and a half of trying my doctor even said I don’t need to exercise or eat a certain way because in all honesty it probably wouldn’t make a difference. If you’re generally healthy, if it was going to happen naturally it would have happened within the first year (ish). I feel so bad for women who feel pressured to conceive naturally, spending all their money on supplements that pretty much do nothing, torturing themselves with super strict diets and exercising in ways that don’t feel good to their body and who still don’t conceive, sometimes for years, and the whole time their eggs are aging, which isn’t helping the process either. It’s ok to get help. At the end of the day your baby is going to be as natural as a baby conceived in a bedroom as opposed to a doctor’s office.
I felt connected as soon as i heard the little heartbeat at 9 weeks and ive been obsessed with her ever since. My due date is on Sunday. Stroke your belly and talk/sing to baby as much as you can...that connection will come. Plus when you start feeling movement it's wonderful ❤
Had my son in October and it is just the best month to have a baby 🤍 so so happy for you guys!!
Once you get a bump and start feeling them moving, for me it was 16 weeks, that's when you feel more connected
Loved this! I’m 21 weeks along and I didn’t really let myself become fully excited or even think about actually bringing a baby home until around 14-16 weeks. Just now starting to think about the nursery and taking it step by step! Much more connected to baby now that I can feel then moving everyday ❤
One thing to consider is the impact of showing a child publicly on the internet and social media will have on them in the future. As they can’t yet decide whether they want their baby photos and videos out for the whole world to see it can impact their sense of autonomy and privacy as they grow up to have those out there. A lot of vloggers strike the balance by showing their baby on camera but not it’s face😊
Not just visuals but I would also be cautious about sharing super personal stories. Talking about baby blowouts or personality struggles might feel trivial in the moment but can be embarrassing to have recorded online once they are older
Completely agree, as much as I love seeing cute babies, it’s more important to protect our babies 💕
I wish I had known that the first trimester is the worst. I was more ready for the adverse effects on my body. The emotional part of things caught me off guard. I was so tired, nauseous, and anxious. Because of this, I felt very sad. Thankfully, as I felt better, it went away. I say this because I never really heard anyone else express quite what I was feeling. On the one hand, I felt so grateful to be pregnant, but on the other, I felt so sad and scared. I am so happy for you both and will keep you in my prayers :)
Rachel, you have that pregnancy glow 😍 I pray you have a safe and healthy pregnancy ❤
That jumpsuit looks amazing on you Rachel! Beautiful style and color.
The pregnancy glow is real!!!
I dealt with infertility and miscarriages for 3 years. I’m currently 36 weeks pregnant and I didn’t fully allow myself to believe it until he started kicking around 24 weeks. My husband says im a disaster planner but I’m just worried for the worst. And sometimes it feels too good to be true that I’m blessed.
Congratulations! May God keep you and your baby safe during and after pregnancy
Congrats! I am starting stims this week and I’m super anxious about it, but your videos have put me a bit more at ease. I am using the same clinic you used, so it’s nice to see someone came out successful. Thanks for sharing your experience!
im so excited for you!
Hey rachel! I didnt feel connected to my baby until after she was born. Even when she was first born and they put her in my arms i couldnt believe it was my baby, but she is 2.5 weeks now and i love her so much!
After last month I gave up trying to conceive my last baby. I gave it to God. And I found out I was pregnant at literally 3wks. I had no symptoms didn't think I was pregnant I was just in the habit of taking tests every month and so I just took one to take one knowing it was gonna be pregnant after ttc for a while and it came out positive. I was in such a state of shock I took 13 more tests. All positive. I've never got a positive so early. I was like 6 or 7dpo. It was crazy. And so many congratulations to your new bundle.
Awww i haven’t been on here in a while and a notification opted up… this one made me SMILE… girl CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🌷
so happy and excited for you! Congrats again on your pregnancy!
Awww congratulations 🎉 I'm pregnant too on exactly the same week too to the day I can't believe it 😮❤❤❤😮
A doula is a support person for you in labor, whereas a midwife is a medical provider and would be another option in place of a OBGYN. Doulas cannot deliver babies or give medical advice/assessment, but are a really wonderful addition to your birth team for help with labor support.
Good morning Rachel happy Monday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs is amazing and you are amazing Supporter and I enjoy your channel
Hi Rachel❤ have you listened to the Birth Hour podcast?? You would love it! Each episode is a woman telling her unique birth story and you’ll learn so much about everything from it! Also- a doula is more of a birth coach/advocate and a midwife is a medically licensed professional who helps delivers babies. Different from an OB because a midwife doesn’t have the same approach because they are usually a more natural/holistic professional and cannot perform surgery like an OB can
Hi rachel! Based on my own experience, I didnt feel connected to my baby until I gave birth😂.. congratulations and im praying for a safe pregnancy for you. Much love from the Philippines! 🇵🇭
green is such your color💚💚💚🍏
31wks right now, I didn’t start feeling connected to the idea of being a mom/pregnant until 17ish weeks, didn’t start feeling connected to this baby specifically until very end of 2nd trimester!
YOU’RE GLOWING!❤ And, you're in my thoughts and prayers as you journey through pregnancy.
I didn't realise how expensive IVF was in the states. In the UK if you're not a smoker, have no children and have a BMI of below 30 you can get IVF on the NHS and if you go private it's £5000 and above x
Hi Rachel - I think it’s normal to not feel connected to your baby, especially early on. I’m 32 weeks and it still feels a bit unreal. I started feeling more connected to my baby after she started moving around a ton (maybe midway through 2nd trimester) and after I had my baby shower.
Not related to the a&a but you’re glowing!!
I think you'll feel connected to the baby the first time you feel it flutter or kick inside of you ❤ ive had 2 and I cant remember which stage that happened at during pregnancy haha..but at first it's hard to even wrap your head around the fact there's a baby in there.
First comment! Happy 27th birthday, Rachel!❤
I started feeling connected to the baby a little bit when I had a bump. But it was more excited of the idea of a baby I didn’t ever really feel super super connected to the baby in my womb. And until he was born. I was obviously super super excited, but my baby didn’t move a whole lot so I only ever felt small little kicks. So if you don’t ever feel super super connected to the baby in your womb, don’t worry about it because you will get that connection when your baby is in your arms. That’s really when I felt the connection. And even that some moms take a few days or so to feel that connection because it’s so strange, and your body feels so strange, during birth, and after birth.
Sooo happy for u🥺💚💚💚
I struggled with infertility and didn't feel connected to my baby until after she was born and it had been several weeks. I definitely felt that maternal instinct that I need to care for and protect her after she was born, but not that overwhelming love feeling. I think it being my first child, it mostly just felt surreal during the pregnancy and adjusting to my changing body. I wonder if the second time around I would feel differently knowing what I know now.
Hey Rachel! Not long time ago I started to follow you as I was trying to get pregnant too. And we got pregnant at almost same time haha !! Our due dates are like 3 days apart!
I completely understand you about not feeling connected to the baby. I still don't believe its true. Like, until I don't see the bump growing, I wont take it serious I guess. :)
same here!!! im also 10weeks!!! 😊
i gave birth on April 1th and i didn't see myself being a mom or having a baby until i had him in my arms. I felt like my friends and family was more excited than me that i was having a baby which made me feel kind of guilty since this was a wanted pregnancy. So don't worry if you don't feel connected to your baby, you will once you se their face :)
The skirt looks beautiful on you!
Mother of 3 here. Just had my third in November. I didn't feel connected with my first until she was actually born. It didn't feel real until she arrived and I could hold her in my arms. For my other two.... I forced myself not to connect until they were born because I experienced two losses in between and I didn't want to get my hopes up until they were here safely. I don't think there is a straight answer for this. Everyone is different!
During my birth, my midwife came in to take vitals and check on me during labor only every 30 minutes (until the pushing phase). My doula was with me the whole time and much more hands on with pain management / walking me through each contraction.
First off congrats! 🎉
Question: I remember you saying that in the two week waiting period when you first started TTC you convinced yourself you had early pregnancy symptoms, even though you didn’t. Girl, same boat 🫠. Did your ACTUAL early pregnancy symptoms feel different than your “fake” early pregnancy symptoms.
I’m trying to put it out of my head but ugh waiting is so hard. 😢
Thanks for putting videos like this out there. This seems to be the only thing that eases my mind while TTC.
The information about Ozempic is not totally correct. It’s not just helping you to feel full. Lowering caloric intake itself does not lower blood sugar. It will help with weight loss. But the reason it works so well is GLP-1 prevents the release of glucagon, a hormone that raises blood sugar levels. Keeping your blood sugar level is what makes the weight loss so successful.
I felt connected with the baby when I started to feel her moving :)
Progyny is amazing!!
Felt more connected when i started feeling him move around 17 weeks
I’m getting induced on Thursday and still don’t feel pregnant or like I’m having a child lol
Not my 5 month old blowing out of her diaper and then peeing everywhere while her dad is in the middle of changing her diaper while I’m watching this lmao. Can’t wait for you to experience your first blowout! But seriously, congrats again 💜
I clicked so fast when I saw my questions in the thumbnail 🤣 love these videos and so excited for the gender reveal!! 🩷🩵🩷🩵 also I started to feel more connected once I could feel those kicks, I honestly miss them so much 🥺 enjoy every moment of them, it goes so quick!!
For me, the perfect birth plan was not having a plan 😂 like you said, setting low expectations so no outcome is upsetting. my “plan” was to get baby here while keeping me and her safe, whether that was a medicated birth, a spontaneous birth with no time to even think about an epidural or a csection. that way there’s no disappointment if something does different than “planned” because the only plan was a safe labor and delivery.
MTHFR is a gene variant, not a mutation! It’s an important distinction. :)
10:33 I am at 24 weeks pregnancy now and I set expectations low since I am already at high risk age. Now I realized I have to create baby registry and clean up house..
The difference between a midwife and doula is that a midwife would be your care provider like an OB, and they will “deliver” your baby. You can use a midwife for a home birth or in hospital, they are really great and some people choose to have a midwife and OB but I’m not sure how that works in the US. (There’s also different kinds of midwives) A doula is someone who’s with you during your whole labor ideally and focuses on you and helping you achieve the kind of birth you want. They’re more of a physical and emotional support vs a midwife though some midwives also act a little like a doula on top of their midwife role.
I'm 31 weeks right now and did not started feeling connected until I started feeling her kick which was around 18-20 weeks. :)
Rachel congratulations! God is so so good!! I would love to know how your faith is doing now. I remember it was a struggle there for bit.
I just love everything about babies .
Love the pregnancy videos!!! Im 9 weeks and 1 day 🥺🤭
Congrats 🎉😊
Congrats 😊❤ hope all goes well
I’m 9 weeks 1 day as well!
I am 5 weeks and 3 days . So excited for all of us
I have PCOS and thought about trying things like ozempic but read that you cannot try to conceive for 6months of taking it.
Halloween birthday party’s 🎉❤😂
Hiii dear can u please help me fr natural killer cell how many times intralipids were given to u during IVF...As i have the same issue NK cells positive
Omg! My due date is October 30th too!!!
October 30th due date here too! 🥰
What is your workout plan now?
I just place an order with Halara last week using the code from one of your previous videos ♥️ so happy you still working with them
Yay! Thank you! I hope you love everything you got :)
Who did you go to for acupuntura? Looking to make a change after my transfer failed last February.
Dr Zhou in plantation Florida
My daughter was born on 10/31/1998.
Love love love youuuuu❤
Congrats safe journey
I'm so surprised you chose to find out the gender before transfer! Or does literally every single person do this with IVF?
I’m soo happy for you Rachel… Jesus is Faithful❤
Lovely Rachel 😅🎉😂❤❤
Ahhh im excited!!!
Did you pick the gender?
You’re really pretty rn…supper glowy…so if I had to guess…it could be a boy…but because you said GIRL and boy names in that order…I’m thinking maybe a girl😅😝😂 either way…baby will be healthy and happy 🩵🩷
dont forget the elite sourdough bread (even if only 2 loaves) :)
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Thank you for choosing to show and also don’t be scared of the internet mo matter its internet or even world God will protect them because he is faithful and he’s chosen that baby and has purpose and God loves that baby more than you love him/her.
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I don’t think it’s a bad thing to share your babies as other people think. I followed a creator for years. She got pregnant. Spoke about it once, then carried on. Everyone sent everything they could have ever needed or wanted for their unborn child. She showed the whole nursery decorated by her following. She that the baby over a year and a half ago. Talked one time about the birth experience and that’s it! No one has seen the child nor does she ever talk about him. That is creepy! I know she says the baby can’t say he wants to be on camera! Come on, common sense knows a baby can’t speak. I get it to a point, not wanting to show your child. But her following including me was so excited and then for over a year and half she doesn’t speak of her child. I unsubscribed because when I asked after a Year, have you ever updated about your baby? Or have you ever said your babies name? I got blasted and told it was none of my business. I’m not a creepy internet person, I’m a mom and a grandma. We were all invested in her and her husband’s lives, just as we are with you. I personally follow the lives of other content creators such as Michelle, Cassie, and Renee among others who have a different content channel but then get pregnant and are excited and we come along. Ultimately it is you and AJ’s life as to whether you share your child or not, but I have already read comments not to do it. Anyway I’m happy and excited. I hope we get to see your child one day, know her name and enjoy your continued journey. I truly felt hurt when this other person wouldn’t even share the name. Idk maybe I am the creepy one. Love that you share and I’m so happy I found your channel years ago. Congratulations
That's your point of view as a viewer. It's normal for people to be curious about baby's name etc. However, there are a lot of things to consider, such as safety of this child. It's creating great opportunities for some perverts, it's easier to gain child's trust when someone is calling them by their name, for example, especially when someone is sharing in parallel where they live. Photo's of children posted on internet end up in dark web. I am glad that this topic has become popular recently. I respect that content creators are less eager to overshare about their children and such decision is not coming from them being mean and selfish, but from the impact that it can have on their children. I think it's important to make a well thought decision and it's up to every parent and we, as viewers, need to respect that. I recommend materials about this topic on The Financial Diet 😊
@@aleksandrakupinska-ojko3675 I totally understand. Then it needs to be made Clear they will not share any part of it. Viewers were really upset that they didn’t even know when the baby was born. They have really great gifts etc. I know you should never expect anything back then the gifts should not be taken if you aren’t willing even to share that you actually had the baby. I’m a grandmother of 3 grandsons and I understand. No one should share their locations either. I’m not saying the creator was selfish. If that was a part she wasn’t willing to share then nothing should have been brought up and there should not be links to buy the whole nursery. Just my opinion also. People are really ready to take gifts, money etc but aren’t willing to give one shred back. Again I respect people who choose not to. Then keep it quiet and not share that part on the internet. People can find you either way.
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