I enjoy your content Casey, just a quick question. What's your take on the red pill, black pill and all these new internet terms and looking 6 and below in terms of looks, and is it true that women are only attracted to Chads? Apparently, there is a lot of nonsense on the internet around those topics as well and a lot of men thinking that only the so called chads have a chance with women. It's all just pathetic if you ask me lol. Nothing beats being your self and putting your purpose over women as you mention in your videos. That being said, if you are ugly then it's a different story lol
Casey Bro! I've been binging on your content on repeat when I say on repeat I mean I am obsessed, fucking hell fire I am getting women blushing approaching me like I'm the catch it's a night and day difference and I truly love you. I will meet and take you out for a meal you are a god send may Almighty Allah protect you and keep you in good health! 🖤
@@jeansollot6419jean drama quean And he's 100% correct. If a woman wants a man, she will chase. "Choose women who choose you". Some men just have to accept they aren't being chosen, or better themselves until they are
Agreed totally. Every time I have ever made an approach - never worked, short term and then fizzled out. You have to make yourself attractive and let them come to you. Its Like bees will always come to honey. The honey never goes to the bee. 1.Who you are...beats 2.Do you are (what you do)…..beats 3.Say you are. (what you say). Who you are is always top, over what you do, and then finally what you say. Build a good social circle ,and try and be top end ….i.e. "King" game. The king usually wins.....as after all, he is the King. One more point which I personally found which surprised me. Whenever I was with a large group of friends going clubbing, social events, I never had any success with women. On the other hand whenever I was out on my own, it was the complete opposite. Many times I would go out clubbing, and every few months, there would be someone wanting to come home with me that night, without trying anything, just being out and smiling, Having a good time, seemed to be magnetic in and of itself. People want to be with others who "seem" to be enjoying themselves. That's my take on it....from a psychological standpoint, someone on their own can be more approachable, and less distractions, than being with a larger social group, where its the opposite of that.
Crazy how this guy never ever misses. was at the beach today by myself there was a group of 3 hot girls in front of me, the whole day I didn’t really pay much attention to them had my music going on, having a beer vibing alone in my own world, swimming by myself,etc. Through the day these girls were approached at least 3 times by groups of guys that had no success. Towards the end of the day one of them randomly starts talking to me, saying I was drinking warm beer asks me to join them. I Sit there getting all their attention get to hook up with one of them and leave with their number. No one in the industry brakes it down like you do thank you bro!
If you don’t show a woman you are attracted, she won’t pursue either. If you show her you aren’t attracted, she won’t pursue as she fears rejection. It’s a messed up situation, but it needs to be a delicate balance. You have to show you are attracted without it affecting your emotional position, I.e she needs to know if you are attracted, but that you don’t give a shit if you get with her or not.
I think also if you have other 'options', and you are able to 'relay' this to her, or others do so, you may get out of the doldrums, as she will feel challenged and act
Agree with you. It's a matter of balance. Not easy that's why men should get enough experience so that they won't fumble or break down and get emotionally attached to a woman they really like.
They want to prey on you when you are weak. Trust me. When I am serious at work they not disturb but when I give relaxed vibes. They hope to emasculate me and approach me. They will only come to you when you seem stupid just so they can feel better about themselves.
100% Spruce, even though for all of my years I didn't believe a word of it, being autistic awkward and on the sick and having no interest in women, a friend of mine has repeatedly told me "she was in to you dude" because I usually have no clue on what is called "social cues" I'm taller than my friend which he says is one of the traits women want, still I havent done anything about it as most if not all women that "show me signs" are not single, usually covered in facepaint and tats, or have none of those things but have kids wedding ring etc, still when you find people in general exhausting, women are the last thing you need.
@@spruce5123 this is cause we truly start manifesting that we do not care and that triggers attention seeking behaviours as attention is their currency
14:00 I am so glad you have SEEN IT FOR YOURSELF. This is exactly what I been saying for oh so long now and I am VERY HAPPY YOU HAVE SEEN IT SO YOU CAN SHARE IT with your audience. I am not the in front of camera type of guy, but I have no problem supporting you and few others and share my experiences hoping others read this and hopefully the creator see it, learn from it and can share it.
This was one of your most interesting videos in a while. I too have been going to way more social gatherings this year and man you nailed it in this video. I too have observed the exact same things so many times and now I can't unsee this shit. The good news is, once you pick up on all these things it's not that hard to navigate going forward.
6:23 this is why i ALWAYS win with women, because i DO NOT CARE for their attention nor validation. That is how women see it when you keep trying to sell yourself, that you are seeking validation and worst, that you are NOT USED TO GETTING WOMEN, especially if the girl is TOP 10 hot. I wasnt doing it on purpose my entire life, it's just how I have always been, NOT GIVE WOMEN ATTENTION NOR VALIDATION and I have realize that that is exactly why they have been the ones who have ALWAYS pursued me and it has ALWAYS BEEN THE HOTTEST GIRLS.
Settle down man, you're just living life on Easy mode, that's all. I've tried not giving girls attention, and nothing has ever happened. I'm guessing that in the past, you've been rejected by a girl, then you started ignoring her, and suddenly she became interested in you yeah? Another thing that's never happened to me, nor anyone else not living life on Easy mode. Man though, it must be so nice to have hot girls pursuing you just by doing nothing.
This has been my method going in 5 years be it friends or by myself; If with friends I laugh & talk with them but when they start talking to women or the waitress I always just stay quiet & reserved & let them talk & then join the convo but make sure to only talk to the guys or non pick girls & don’t respond or talk to the girI, totally ignore them & act like they don’t exist I then check the girls out & every time they end up giving me the look or find their way to talk to me once the others are distracted. Same with going out by myself, I sit among the crowd but stick to myself until I find myself with a group or a guy wants to chat, i have fun & laugh but every time I go back to be alone im reserved & soon enough a girl will come up. Literally, giving your extra energy only towards guys & non pick girls & doing nothing, saying nothing & giving zero attention to the women you want while they’re around work’s every single time. Getting women to make the first move has gotten me the highest success rate. If you’re able to get them to break the rule of guys making the first move, then they’re willing to break more & fall apart for you.
It works. Become comfortable in your own company and they will come to you. Also don't be fat and don't act nervous. Don't look at your phone to distract yourself. Be present in the moment as an observer
14:44 for me personally this is your best video ever because you have seen IN FIELD FOR YOURSELF EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING FOR MONTHS. Many may thing I "think i am the prize" or that that women should pursue me. Nah, it is that i literally DO NOT CARE to see them, talk to them, pursue them, give them attention nor validation. But because of it they have been the ones who approach me and none can ever say they regretted it or they made a mistake in doing so.
It kind of answers why women are attracted to you once you get a GF. The look of desperation leaves your face because that drawer in your mind is closed. It seriously sets you aside from the hungry guys.
13:38 THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I SAY WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE ONES WHO APPROACHED ME. Because I am NEVER given them attention and validation and in my own zone and they can SEE the type of person that I am. It creates mystery, they get CURIOUS and boom they now MUST APPROACH.
You're just living life on Easy mode my guy. For the rest of us who aren't so lucky, we can ignore women, give them no attention or validation, but we'll go our whole lives without one approaching us. Life on Easy mode = they MUST approach Life on Hard mode = they'll never approach
You absolutely killed it with this one! As a seasoned Vegas local, and ex VIP Host, I can attest to this, I could pull almost any girl when I was in my own world having a blast or my group was in our own zone and enjoying ourselves, you could slowly notice female groups start getting closer and placing themselves beside my group, but if the hunting mindset took over, or I started searching for it and trying hard, was when things never flowed well, took a few years to realize this pattern and to start focusing on keeping a solid, confident, good energy group around me with fun positive(have fun anywhere) energy that wasn't chasing. Nowadays I don't care so much where we are going but more who is going to be around me, or I prefer to go alone, this is why girls always talk about liking guys who aren't scared to look stupid and have fun, and why they tend to like gay guys who act wild with no inhibitions, its attractive to them when someone doesn't fear or care about their presence and has fun in his own world which then they want to be a part of
@@fredericbouh4955 I love the man I am. Write down all your good qualities then look into your eyes in the mirror and say I love myself etc. Do it every morning. Your self concept will change. You tube hypnosis sessions around sel esteem, self love also works wonders. All the best
This girl I have a crush on was super clingy and playful with me last I saw her at church. The week before I was flirting with other girls and almost completely ignoring her. This stuff Casey preaches truly works. I can get more in depth on my situation if anyone here is interested lol.
It works with girls, not with mature women. A women who did her inner work, knows who she is, is connected to herself and therefore is able to create a true connection with others, would run for the hills.
@@susanfraniai distanced myself from my crush because she threatened to block me for writting too much texts and flirting. Its hard to not respond to her messeges but i am learning self control. And i love her still
Yes, this has been experience as “Chad” myself.. approaching a girl is counterproductive. They at least need to give signals, and even then you can’t validate them or it’s game over.
Was watching one of the thor movies with a woman I was seeing at the time. I asked her "who's hotter? Thor or Loki?" I'll never forget her answer. She said they both were but for different reasons. This video is right. Don't try to be someone else, but take these principles into making the best version of yourself.
This is Casey's best video. Other than being (the best version of) yourself, you can't *do* anything to generate attraction. Kinda takes the pressure off if you think about it.
Only a girl with dating experience will give signs, if they are young and shy and you look good you will never get a date waiting for the girl, you will have to pursue hard and maybe get a little sign from her if your lucky. Not a chance in the world the nice shy girls will talk to you first
Had an interaction with a shy type. It took a knockout Ducenne smile to give me the resolve to a) formerly introduce myself, b) ask for her number in a way recommended by a youtuber, and c), when she asked WHY i wanted her No, tell her i liked her and wanted to get know her better. Sadly, all combined were a bit too heavy. Emotion overload. Still have hope, but warned off her as its workplace attraction deal. She now seems 'angry', but unsure. Dead end.
@@stevepops4450 Yea the workplace is the one place where I don't openly approach women, I may flirt with them and joke around but never actually be direct in interest just because of the closed setting. Otherwise pretty much everywhere else it's on, shoot your shot and move on.
Why? She chose you by looking at you etc, now you just keep being yourself & stay in each other's presence over a period of time, that's the 'interest.'
2:00 this what i been saying over & over again and it is the reason i have NEVER had to approach a woman, it has ALWAYS been them. Even right now there is a girl texting off my phone, no matter how I tell her i talk alter, she comes with something else. I am to pick her up from airport this Friday and it just simply means, SHE IS EXCITED TO SEE ME. And the fact that I am not the one coming at her and for the entire day I been delaying her, heck i literally told her, CLEAR YOUR EVENING/NIGHT. (while I typing this another girl WHATSAPP CALL MY PHONE, it stopped, MEANS SHE STALKING!!)
4:20 isnt this I been saying so many times here.... MASCULINE PRESENCE... THAT is why women APPROACH ME. I aint got muscles, I dont wear designer but there is something about my PRESENCE that gets their attention. I dont need to be loud nor center of attention, I am most times the quietest person around.
So I’m not sure this guy is and I’m not gonna watch the video. I just read the title and clicked to leave this comment. I think it got recommended to me because I was just having this conversation with a female friend last night. It is 100% true. If she doesn’t choose you it will never ever work. I realized this about 5 years ago and it changed my life. I’ve even asked women this and they also agree. Once I learned this I felt like a huge weight I had been carrying for years was gone. I just started unapologetically being myself knowing that as a guy it’s not up to me to make a woman like me. When they like you they will let you know. It simplifies everything trust me.
@@JayS.-mm3qr Yes. Full stop yes!! Just exist as you are be yourself even if it’s unpopular especially if it’s unpopular. Better yourself it’s tough for good men to be selfish. Because we are good men. But look at your vessel. Your life and soul as cup. When you give and give and give eventually your cup will be empty. Fill your cup first. Fill it until it overflows that overflow will care for more people then when you thought you cared. You still care. But you care enough about yourself that you see the flow of your will be done. Just as GODS WILL BE DONE. GOD DOES NOT NEED, GOD DOES NOT WANT. GOD IS. Just like you are. The feminine is chaos. Chaos is inherently chaotic. It’s disorder. Second law of thermodynamics. I’m not going to explain that. Do your own research. The female is looking for stability. You can project stability. But that is not sustainable. You must be sustainable as a man with or without the feminine. This is what attracts them. Be masculine. Build your world and if they want to enter your world…. They will let you know!! You don’t have to do anything but be the truest version of you. IF THAT VERSION IF YOU SUCKS. WELL THEY WILL LET YOU KNOW BY LITERALLY NOT PAYING ANY ATTENTION TO YOU!! That means you need to be better. Because better option. Not to them. But for you. For your family. To your country. To however you slice it. When you do this you will know when they want you. Because that feminine energy will be your undeniable! Even if you are a man that is in touch and aware of both. They come for you. We as men need to do what men are good at. Working as a team and elevating each other and others. You are not alone. We are all in this together. Just as we have conquered and created this world we will do so again.
Man you really drove home some shit here. I watch this in school and it’s exactly as you point out. I’m 51 in college and want to holler at some of these dudes I watch fail. We’ve all done it.
I had a situation where im getting to know someone online ,we had a vibe and can tell she was into me . She then started speaking about men in general saying they trash etc . Now rather than simp and agree with her i gave some pushback by saying women are the same these days . I dodnt agree with her yet stood my ground . Ive now been blocked ,part of me is thinking should i have said i dont wanna hear about other guys because to pass her test i came across as unbothered . I dont know if she has blocked as a test or because the lack of assertiveness
Its easy when they want you to begin with.. you cant be who she looks upto, if you immediately put yourself in the position of competing or begging for her attention.
I’m 2:12 in and I already know where this is going and I’ve experienced this A LOT recently too. We use live in a world where you could go out as a man with friends and pretty much dominate pull up game cause most men weren’t doing it cause they were too scared. Now women are absolutely sick of that shit. They get hit on too much from in person to social media. It’s too much saturation. I even saw a post on IG the other day that got tens of thousands of likes and comments that said something like “If a man randomly follows me and starts liking my pictures I know he’s not my husband because my husband wouldn’t randomly like girls pictures” the post is stupid af because how do you talk to a girl you’re interested in now. The answer is you don’t 😂 they gotta come to you. But then you’ll have them complain later on why don’t men approach anymore.
But to be very honest, knowing yourself is also not a easy task. Sometimes it can takes several years to find this out. For this first of all one should act and talk in a same way with everyone at some extend and stop being double personality and people pleaser. Again a nice video Mr.Casey!
lol some of these concepts, I keep looking deep into my own gut and know he’s spitting truth… kind of had a moment like in the matrix when Neo vomits from the difficulty of accepting the truth
I really enjoy watching this guy because he's so funny from a psychological perspective. The first thing anyone should focus on is themselves-ensuring they feel good and confident. Great looks and sexiness are just fleeting; they don't last. What truly matters is finding a partner you can trust and build a life with. The guy in the video is just selling a fake formula to make money on UA-cam. He probably doesn't have a real sense of direction in his own life, and if he has a partner, she's likely as shallow as he is. It's natural for young people to be attracted to superficial things, but as we age, we should realise that true beauty lies in finding someone you can trust with your life. So, remember, if you follow this immature guy's advice, you might get a sexy girl, but if she only cares about shallow things, there's always someone with more money, a bigger car, or flashier clothes who can take her away.😉
2:39 it will always show in his body language and his tone. what is happening, it is Vegas, THEY ARE PREENING FOR THE ULTIMATE HIGHLEST LEVEL GUY THERE, so all the girls will come around to see how he handles himself. If he does well, which typically means he doesn't falter, dont get too excited it means he is used to a lot of hot girls, so he is high value and not just a guy posing. PLUS, A LOT OF scammers in Vegas, so they may even be feeling him out to see what he has that they could literally TAKE.
Women have to chose you ..to be attracted towards you 1.men always fail who try to generate attraction ..fact of trying will disqualifi him 2.women notice the guy ..they notice that he want to be someone that hes not ... identify who you are be real don't copy 3.show youre brotherhood how you happy with them to get her attracted 4.they want a guy who has 3 things -unique look ..a guy who centerrd in his own world ..a guy who enjoy himself in moment
This is the first time I’m disagreeing with you champ. I like to shoot my shot. And I’ll usually go out with my other girls so that hypergamy for her to “choose” is instant
If you show her more interest at first place during first meeting and give her flirty vibe . Many times she thought you are beneath her and attraction not woek
12:49 Casey, YOU ARE FRESH MEAT, SHE IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SCAM. You gotta learn how they operate in different environments, that girl is a "tag" which I call them or BAR FLY. Their job is to hang out bars/casinos and look for FRESH MEAT TO SCAM. Because you were dressed "simple" but your aura speaks volumes, but she NEEDED to find out if you go "simple DESIGNER" so she could lure you to SCAM YOU.
is is a good idea to ask her out via recording a small video/ voice note after the initial “how s things?” type of text and her reply? i feel like it would come across more appealing to her ( we know each other and cool with each other)
You can chase women, and get them. It just usually doesn’t last long, or if it does you kind of become the bitch in the relationship. The only issue I have with Casey’s method is it will require you to first of all look good enough, facially, physically, and attire wise, in order for ATTRACTIVE women to sing you out of a crowd and approach you, without you having first initiating contact. Secondly, it will require you to be out and about, and in an environment with lots of pretty women, for there to be enough women to have the chance of one of them being bold enough to approach you and start conversation. This is not game that you can expect to work With just being around a few women occasionally. You basically have to put yourself in party/fedtival like atmospheres on a semi regular basis, in order for this to work.
Yes of course you need to be the best version of yourself that you can be. That's the most attractive thing.. doesn't matter if you're the Top G always. Ya, it sucks going out lol. Do it though. Or join some co ed sports leagues
@@somethinderpsterious yes, is the going out part I have trouble with. Between the effort of even finding someplace to go, paying for the venue, making sure your clothing game is on point, traffic, expensive drinks, trying to find someone to go with you, all at California elevated prices, is just a drag. It has to be done though.
4:20 now, since you were at Encore/Wynn.. YUP, them chics were literally scoping out for the HIGHEST VALUE MALE. It is a VERY HIGH STATUS place so anywhere there should already be high status, but they STILL have to scope for who is the highest value of all the high value, LOLOL!! And here high value dont mean money, cause most if not all who are there already got money, it's about who he is as a MAN.
I asked a girl to hang out, she said “okay I’ll let you know when I’m free” 3 weeks later I casually hit her up again, she wouldn’t give me a definitive answer so I told her “okay well I asked twice so I’m not gonna keep asking.” She said “why can’t you keep asking?” I said “If you were me, how many times would you ask sum1?” She said “As many times as it takes until they agree.” I was so confused. I still am.
When she simply says no without offering at least vague alternatives, and does so several times Move away Maybe she'll say yes at some point. But by then, the respect for you is pretty tarnished because you will be perceived as pushy and clingy She may need 5-50 invitations to feel “safe.” But instead of just getting to know each other, she's just wasting time Don't sacrifice your self-respect
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I enjoy your content Casey, just a quick question. What's your take on the red pill, black pill and all these new internet terms and looking 6 and below in terms of looks, and is it true that women are only attracted to Chads? Apparently, there is a lot of nonsense on the internet around those topics as well and a lot of men thinking that only the so called chads have a chance with women. It's all just pathetic if you ask me lol. Nothing beats being your self and putting your purpose over women as you mention in your videos. That being said, if you are ugly then it's a different story lol
Casey Bro! I've been binging on your content on repeat when I say on repeat I mean I am obsessed, fucking hell fire I am getting women blushing approaching me like I'm the catch it's a night and day difference and I truly love you. I will meet and take you out for a meal you are a god send may Almighty Allah protect you and keep you in good health! 🖤
I saw you at Bellagio on Saturday night at Snacks
Chasing never works--- and if you get them, it won't last
@@jeansollot6419How many times do I have to see you here, Debbie? Leave them alone
@@jeansollot6419jean drama quean
And he's 100% correct. If a woman wants a man, she will chase. "Choose women who choose you". Some men just have to accept they aren't being chosen, or better themselves until they are
Agreed totally. Every time I have ever made an approach - never worked, short term and then fizzled out.
You have to make yourself attractive and let them come to you.
Its Like bees will always come to honey. The honey never goes to the bee.
1.Who you are...beats
2.Do you are (what you do)…..beats
3.Say you are. (what you say).
Who you are is always top, over what you do, and then finally what you say.
Build a good social circle ,and try and be top end ….i.e. "King" game. The king usually wins.....as after all, he is the King.
One more point which I personally found which surprised me. Whenever I was with a large group of friends going clubbing, social events, I never had any success with women.
On the other hand whenever I was out on my own, it was the complete opposite. Many times I would go out clubbing, and every few months, there would be someone wanting to come home with me that night, without trying anything, just being out and smiling, Having a good time, seemed to be magnetic in and of itself. People want to be with others who "seem" to be enjoying themselves. That's my take on it....from a psychological standpoint, someone on their own can be more approachable, and less distractions, than being with a larger social group, where its the opposite of that.
But everything…..will not last 🤔
@@alexanderarcher9841 there are lots of people that stay together, and happily, until dying
Crazy how this guy never ever misses. was at the beach today by myself there was a group of 3 hot girls in front of me, the whole day I didn’t really pay much attention to them had my music going on, having a beer vibing alone in my own world, swimming by myself,etc. Through the day these girls were approached at least 3 times by groups of guys that had no success. Towards the end of the day one of them randomly starts talking to me, saying I was drinking warm beer asks me to join them. I Sit there getting all their attention get to hook up with one of them and leave with their number. No one in the industry brakes it down like you do thank you bro!
Never Chase Women. Ever
@@jeansollot6419
No
@@puertoricanprince7690Don’t listen to that commenter. It’s a troll that likes to roam around the comment sections to spread copium.
@@jeansollot6419the chase is for desperate losers who are unable to attract anyone in their favor. I’m guessing that’s the group you fall into
@@jeansollot6419do you realize how making “getting laid at all costs” into the mission means you have already lost?
@@jeansollot6419 That's beta as fuck. You said "winning her". No my friend. THEY WIN YOU/US.
The fact that nobody talks about Social Secrets Mastery shows why so many guys struggle with confidence and attraction
If you don’t show a woman you are attracted, she won’t pursue either. If you show her you aren’t attracted, she won’t pursue as she fears rejection.
It’s a messed up situation, but it needs to be a delicate balance. You have to show you are attracted without it affecting your emotional position, I.e she needs to know if you are attracted, but that you don’t give a shit if you get with her or not.
1000% correct!
I think also if you have other 'options', and you are able to 'relay' this to her, or others do so, you may get out of the doldrums, as she will feel challenged and act
Well said
You show that you are entertained by her. That you like looking at her, etc.
Agree with you. It's a matter of balance. Not easy that's why men should get enough experience so that they won't fumble or break down and get emotionally attached to a woman they really like.
When you are truly not focused on women they will seemingly appear out of nowhere to solicit you.
They want to prey on you when you are weak. Trust me. When I am serious at work they not disturb but when I give relaxed vibes. They hope to emasculate me and approach me. They will only come to you when you seem stupid just so they can feel better about themselves.
100% Spruce, even though for all of my years I didn't believe a word of it, being autistic awkward and on the sick and having no interest in women, a friend of mine has repeatedly told me "she was in to you dude" because I usually have no clue on what is called "social cues" I'm taller than my friend which he says is one of the traits women want, still I havent done anything about it as most if not all women that "show me signs" are not single, usually covered in facepaint and tats, or have none of those things but have kids wedding ring etc, still when you find people in general exhausting, women are the last thing you need.
Facts.
@@spruce5123 this is cause we truly start manifesting that we do not care and that triggers attention seeking behaviours as attention is their currency
14:00 I am so glad you have SEEN IT FOR YOURSELF. This is exactly what I been saying for oh so long now and I am VERY HAPPY YOU HAVE SEEN IT SO YOU CAN SHARE IT with your audience. I am not the in front of camera type of guy, but I have no problem supporting you and few others and share my experiences hoping others read this and hopefully the creator see it, learn from it and can share it.
Rule nbr 146 don't try to change her mind or prove yourself to a female. She will use that to her advantage to defeat the means of hypergamy
Very well put
Just like the use sex to defeat the focused man to see if he is weak enough to give it up for her looks
This was one of your most interesting videos in a while. I too have been going to way more social gatherings this year and man you nailed it in this video. I too have observed the exact same things so many times and now I can't unsee this shit. The good news is, once you pick up on all these things it's not that hard to navigate going forward.
6:23 this is why i ALWAYS win with women, because i DO NOT CARE for their attention nor validation. That is how women see it when you keep trying to sell yourself, that you are seeking validation and worst, that you are NOT USED TO GETTING WOMEN, especially if the girl is TOP 10 hot. I wasnt doing it on purpose my entire life, it's just how I have always been, NOT GIVE WOMEN ATTENTION NOR VALIDATION and I have realize that that is exactly why they have been the ones who have ALWAYS pursued me and it has ALWAYS BEEN THE HOTTEST GIRLS.
Settle down man, you're just living life on Easy mode, that's all. I've tried not giving girls attention, and nothing has ever happened. I'm guessing that in the past, you've been rejected by a girl, then you started ignoring her, and suddenly she became interested in you yeah? Another thing that's never happened to me, nor anyone else not living life on Easy mode.
Man though, it must be so nice to have hot girls pursuing you just by doing nothing.
You always win?
You must be Parker Lewis.
This has been my method going in 5 years be it friends or by myself; If with friends I laugh & talk with them but when they start talking to women or the waitress I always just stay quiet & reserved & let them talk & then join the convo but make sure to only talk to the guys or non pick girls & don’t respond or talk to the girI, totally ignore them & act like they don’t exist I then check the girls out & every time they end up giving me the look or find their way to talk to me once the others are distracted.
Same with going out by myself, I sit among the crowd but stick to myself until I find myself with a group or a guy wants to chat, i have fun & laugh but every time I go back to be alone im reserved & soon enough a girl will come up.
Literally, giving your extra energy only towards guys & non pick girls & doing nothing, saying nothing & giving zero attention to the women you want while they’re around work’s every single time.
Getting women to make the first move has gotten me the highest success rate. If you’re able to get them to break the rule of guys making the first move, then they’re willing to break more & fall apart for you.
It works. Become comfortable in your own company and they will come to you. Also don't be fat and don't act nervous. Don't look at your phone to distract yourself. Be present in the moment as an observer
Its how you look at them back
BETA Male Alert
I think a lot of guys are trying to be lovable instead of trying to become attractive.
The point: don't "try" at all.
@@gregh2880 yes that's the goal. But if a guy isn't getting results he's gotta try something new.
Opposite.
What’s y’all mean of not trying?
@@Youwkwnoe_ie be careful with extreme advice Bro. In my experience she has to be attracted to me for "not trying" to have any effect.
*Women are definitely more attracted when you’re not constantly seeking validation. The focus on being your own priority really makes sense.*
14:44 for me personally this is your best video ever because you have seen IN FIELD FOR YOURSELF EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN SAYING FOR MONTHS. Many may thing I "think i am the prize" or that that women should pursue me. Nah, it is that i literally DO NOT CARE to see them, talk to them, pursue them, give them attention nor validation. But because of it they have been the ones who approach me and none can ever say they regretted it or they made a mistake in doing so.
It kind of answers why women are attracted to you once you get a GF. The look of desperation leaves your face because that drawer in your mind is closed. It seriously sets you aside from the hungry guys.
13:38 THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I SAY WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE ONES WHO APPROACHED ME. Because I am NEVER given them attention and validation and in my own zone and they can SEE the type of person that I am. It creates mystery, they get CURIOUS and boom they now MUST APPROACH.
You're just living life on Easy mode my guy. For the rest of us who aren't so lucky, we can ignore women, give them no attention or validation, but we'll go our whole lives without one approaching us.
Life on Easy mode = they MUST approach
Life on Hard mode = they'll never approach
He's 1000% correct, I've been doing this my entire life and it never fails.
You absolutely killed it with this one!
As a seasoned Vegas local, and ex VIP Host, I can attest to this, I could pull almost any girl when I was in my own world having a blast or my group was in our own zone and enjoying ourselves, you could slowly notice female groups start getting closer and placing themselves beside my group, but if the hunting mindset took over, or I started searching for it and trying hard, was when things never flowed well, took a few years to realize this pattern and to start focusing on keeping a solid, confident, good energy group around me with fun positive(have fun anywhere) energy that wasn't chasing. Nowadays I don't care so much where we are going but more who is going to be around me, or I prefer to go alone, this is why girls always talk about liking guys who aren't scared to look stupid and have fun, and why they tend to like gay guys who act wild with no inhibitions, its attractive to them when someone doesn't fear or care about their presence and has fun in his own world which then they want to be a part of
Be authentically YOU. Simple
Its not that simple
Yea fast talking oversharing adhd is bad
I agree, not so simple to bé U, when you're not so proud inside
@@fredericbouh4955 I love the man I am. Write down all your good qualities then look into your eyes in the mirror and say I love myself etc. Do it every morning. Your self concept will change. You tube hypnosis sessions around sel esteem, self love also works wonders. All the best
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This girl I have a crush on was super clingy and playful with me last I saw her at church. The week before I was flirting with other girls and almost completely ignoring her. This stuff Casey preaches truly works. I can get more in depth on my situation if anyone here is interested lol.
It works with girls, not with mature women. A women who did her inner work, knows who she is, is connected to herself and therefore is able to create a true connection with others, would run for the hills.
@@susanfraniai distanced myself from my crush because she threatened to block me for writting too much texts and flirting. Its hard to not respond to her messeges but i am learning self control. And i love her still
@@Returntonature145I know it’s hard but control your emotions and work on yourself more
I wanna know more lol
guys just read magnetic aura from borlest and you'll never need to watch these videos again
Ok
this advice is absolutely true and spot on!!!!
Yes, this has been experience as “Chad” myself.. approaching a girl is counterproductive. They at least need to give signals, and even then you can’t validate them or it’s game over.
Your absolute best post in years Casey
Was watching one of the thor movies with a woman I was seeing at the time. I asked her "who's hotter? Thor or Loki?"
I'll never forget her answer. She said they both were but for different reasons. This video is right. Don't try to be someone else, but take these principles into making the best version of yourself.
i met my Girlfriend at the gym i ignored her and acted like she wa another bro 3 year later she still on me
This is Casey's best video. Other than being (the best version of) yourself, you can't *do* anything to generate attraction. Kinda takes the pressure off if you think about it.
just don’t try so hard or care too much
The best advice. Bravo from Athens Greece.
For how long shall I not care? Di I ever get to show that I care? And how do I get a sex if i can not show that I care?
Only a girl with dating experience will give signs, if they are young and shy and you look good you will never get a date waiting for the girl, you will have to pursue hard and maybe get a little sign from her if your lucky. Not a chance in the world the nice shy girls will talk to you first
If they like you, they will come.
Had an interaction with a shy type. It took a knockout Ducenne smile to give me the resolve to a) formerly introduce myself, b) ask for her number in a way recommended by a youtuber, and c), when she asked WHY i wanted her No, tell her i liked her and wanted to get know her better. Sadly, all combined were a bit too heavy. Emotion overload. Still have hope, but warned off her as its workplace attraction deal. She now seems 'angry', but unsure. Dead end.
@@stevepops4450 Yea the workplace is the one place where I don't openly approach women, I may flirt with them and joke around but never actually be direct in interest just because of the closed setting. Otherwise pretty much everywhere else it's on, shoot your shot and move on.
Being yourself is the easy part, the hard part is the transition when you have to show her that you have interest
Why? She chose you by looking at you etc, now you just keep being yourself & stay in each other's presence over a period of time, that's the 'interest.'
@@hidetoedwarduno7681💯
So interest is just being around but not really act as if she is there
@@SlipandBangBoxing BS
@@Rapbando its a question fomo
attraction is not a choice
It’s entirely a choice, that’s why you see women with unattractive men who don’t deserve them
That explains why some women are with men who are totally unattractive when they could do better. But don’t let me confuse you with the facts slowpoke
Then why are some women with men who are not worthy of them?
@@marcusmcgraw3519because attraction is not a choice… lol
Well if you present yourself better, you can look more attractive/approachable. So in a way, it can be a choice. Nuanced though
2:00 this what i been saying over & over again and it is the reason i have NEVER had to approach a woman, it has ALWAYS been them. Even right now there is a girl texting off my phone, no matter how I tell her i talk alter, she comes with something else. I am to pick her up from airport this Friday and it just simply means, SHE IS EXCITED TO SEE ME. And the fact that I am not the one coming at her and for the entire day I been delaying her, heck i literally told her, CLEAR YOUR EVENING/NIGHT. (while I typing this another girl WHATSAPP CALL MY PHONE, it stopped, MEANS SHE STALKING!!)
None of us are chosen which is why we are watching your videos.
Speak for yourself
4:20 isnt this I been saying so many times here.... MASCULINE PRESENCE... THAT is why women APPROACH ME. I aint got muscles, I dont wear designer but there is something about my PRESENCE that gets their attention. I dont need to be loud nor center of attention, I am most times the quietest person around.
Sounds like hope for us Sigma types
I know exactly what you say. I get approached all the time. Some days more then others
Casey start putting links to the full video in your shorts please bro. Love the content! 👍🏽
You do good work Casey; all the best in life's endeavors ✊🏻
So I’m not sure this guy is and I’m not gonna watch the video. I just read the title and clicked to leave this comment.
I think it got recommended to me because I was just having this conversation with a female friend last night.
It is 100% true. If she doesn’t choose you it will never ever work. I realized this about 5 years ago and it changed my life.
I’ve even asked women this and they also agree.
Once I learned this I felt like a huge weight I had been carrying for years was gone. I just started unapologetically being myself knowing that as a guy it’s not up to me to make a woman like me. When they like you they will let you know.
It simplifies everything trust me.
Are you saying don't approach them?
@@JayS.-mm3qr Yes. Full stop yes!!
Just exist as you are be yourself even if it’s unpopular especially if it’s unpopular.
Better yourself it’s tough for good men to be selfish.
Because we are good men.
But look at your vessel. Your life and soul as cup.
When you give and give and give eventually your cup will be empty.
Fill your cup first.
Fill it until it overflows that overflow will care for more people then when you thought you cared.
You still care. But you care enough about yourself that you see the flow of your will be done.
Just as GODS WILL BE DONE.
GOD DOES NOT NEED, GOD DOES NOT WANT.
GOD IS.
Just like you are.
The feminine is chaos.
Chaos is inherently chaotic. It’s disorder.
Second law of thermodynamics. I’m not going to explain that. Do your own research.
The female is looking for stability. You can project stability.
But that is not sustainable.
You must be sustainable as a man with or without the feminine. This is what attracts them.
Be masculine.
Build your world and if they want to enter your world…. They will let you know!!
You don’t have to do anything but be the truest version of you.
IF THAT VERSION IF YOU SUCKS. WELL THEY WILL LET YOU KNOW BY LITERALLY NOT PAYING ANY ATTENTION TO YOU!!
That means you need to be better. Because better option. Not to them. But for you. For your family. To your country. To however you slice it.
When you do this you will know when they want you.
Because that feminine energy will be your undeniable!
Even if you are a man that is in touch and aware of both.
They come for you.
We as men need to do what men are good at. Working as a team and elevating each other and others. You are not alone. We are all in this together.
Just as we have conquered and created this world we will do so again.
Look up unapologetically I'm a Rastaman
I've forgot who sings it
Google it it's brilliant
@@JayS.-mm3qr Yes
@@youtubedrifter5594 but... that's not how game is done, lol
Too Real! This is really how it goes...
Yo this was deep !!!!
Loved the content brother, you're helping so many guys out there, that's huge.
Keep doing the good work ;)
Man you really drove home some shit here. I watch this in school and it’s exactly as you point out. I’m 51 in college and want to holler at some of these dudes I watch fail. We’ve all done it.
This was very insightful and cool to listen to. Do more of these real life case studies.
Keep talking Casey am watching and listening
Best video yet !!!! TRUE WISDOM ❤
I live in vegas come to cosmopolitan im a sushi chef. Here girls choose chasing doesnt work you gotta have game af direct but indirect
Video is true. Make yourself and your program your center. The women choose you.
Still single. Workout partners are the key to getting chicks.
I had a situation where im getting to know someone online ,we had a vibe and can tell she was into me . She then started speaking about men in general saying they trash etc . Now rather than simp and agree with her i gave some pushback by saying women are the same these days . I dodnt agree with her yet stood my ground . Ive now been blocked ,part of me is thinking should i have said i dont wanna hear about other guys because to pass her test i came across as unbothered .
I dont know if she has blocked as a test or because the lack of assertiveness
Best would have been joking with her. Like whatever she complained about just say hey that reminds me of you.
Banger ❤️👑
This video is pure gold.
Good stuff, going Bali next week and all this is so helpful
That’s exactly how things go… I’ve pulled 90% of the women in my life by being focused on being in my own element
a book that changed everything for me was Magnetic Aura from Borlest
Its easy when they want you to begin with.. you cant be who she looks upto, if you immediately put yourself in the position of competing or begging for her attention.
This man spittin cold gems⚠️
The title says it all.
11:25 ALL correct, and unique look doesnt have to be extravagant, though that helps a lot. my look is very simple, plain, minimalist and that works.
The last person that asked to see the inside of my shirt or do a turn around for them got the thousand mile stare.
Please do more club story time content, refreshing and entertaining for someone who’s been watching you for years
It’s Vegas, those women coming up to you were on the clock. They do that to every man.
Best 1 yet dude 👏
She will never chose you if you do not approach her and say something
I’m 2:12 in and I already know where this is going and I’ve experienced this A LOT recently too. We use live in a world where you could go out as a man with friends and pretty much dominate pull up game cause most men weren’t doing it cause they were too scared. Now women are absolutely sick of that shit. They get hit on too much from in person to social media. It’s too much saturation. I even saw a post on IG the other day that got tens of thousands of likes and comments that said something like “If a man randomly follows me and starts liking my pictures I know he’s not my husband because my husband wouldn’t randomly like girls pictures” the post is stupid af because how do you talk to a girl you’re interested in now. The answer is you don’t 😂 they gotta come to you. But then you’ll have them complain later on why don’t men approach anymore.
But to be very honest, knowing yourself is also not a easy task. Sometimes it can takes several years to find this out. For this first of all one should act and talk in a same way with everyone at some extend and stop being double personality and people pleaser.
Again a nice video Mr.Casey!
true, but this just goes back to the fact if a woman finds your perceived smv higher than hers, she will approach you, if its lower she just wont.
lol some of these concepts, I keep looking deep into my own gut and know he’s spitting truth… kind of had a moment like in the matrix when Neo vomits from the difficulty of accepting the truth
I really enjoy watching this guy because he's so funny from a psychological perspective. The first thing anyone should focus on is themselves-ensuring they feel good and confident. Great looks and sexiness are just fleeting; they don't last. What truly matters is finding a partner you can trust and build a life with.
The guy in the video is just selling a fake formula to make money on UA-cam. He probably doesn't have a real sense of direction in his own life, and if he has a partner, she's likely as shallow as he is. It's natural for young people to be attracted to superficial things, but as we age, we should realise that true beauty lies in finding someone you can trust with your life.
So, remember, if you follow this immature guy's advice, you might get a sexy girl, but if she only cares about shallow things, there's always someone with more money, a bigger car, or flashier clothes who can take her away.😉
The video TITLE says it all!! So fuckin true!!
2:39 it will always show in his body language and his tone. what is happening, it is Vegas, THEY ARE PREENING FOR THE ULTIMATE HIGHLEST LEVEL GUY THERE, so all the girls will come around to see how he handles himself. If he does well, which typically means he doesn't falter, dont get too excited it means he is used to a lot of hot girls, so he is high value and not just a guy posing. PLUS, A LOT OF scammers in Vegas, so they may even be feeling him out to see what he has that they could literally TAKE.
U are a genius bro
God Casey you're so breakthrough
Show up the right way and kickback.
As Masculine men, we gat to make the first approach , then it is up to her to make the choice...
Caseeeeyy, try reverse marketing, I swear just tell them not to join.
You're a real G, bro
Best video yet, pretty much the married guy
We were waiting for your video.
Women have to chose you ..to be attracted towards you
1.men always fail who try to generate attraction ..fact of trying will disqualifi him
2.women notice the guy ..they notice that he want to be someone that hes not ... identify who you are be real don't copy
3.show youre brotherhood how you happy with them to get her attracted
4.they want a guy who has 3 things
-unique look ..a guy who centerrd in his own world ..a guy who enjoy himself in moment
once you said we should approach them and now you say we should not.
Very true, he is still discovering
Wearing a wedding ring is a game changer.
Be perfect basically
I mean there are many guys who ignore women because they are shy and look mid, and no woman ever approaches them.
When you build, they will come.
This is the first time I’m disagreeing with you champ. I like to shoot my shot. And I’ll usually go out with my other girls so that hypergamy for her to “choose” is instant
Thanks for your time and videos
If you show her more interest at first place during first meeting and give her flirty vibe . Many times she thought you are beneath her and attraction not woek
12:49 Casey, YOU ARE FRESH MEAT, SHE IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SCAM. You gotta learn how they operate in different environments, that girl is a "tag" which I call them or BAR FLY. Their job is to hang out bars/casinos and look for FRESH MEAT TO SCAM. Because you were dressed "simple" but your aura speaks volumes, but she NEEDED to find out if you go "simple DESIGNER" so she could lure you to SCAM YOU.
So you’re an observer, I know your personality type now. Great insights in this video as always.
is is a good idea to ask her out via recording a small video/ voice note after the initial “how s things?” type of text and her reply?
i feel like it would come across more appealing to her ( we know each other and cool with each other)
Outstanding.
You can chase women, and get them. It just usually doesn’t last long, or if it does you kind of become the bitch in the relationship.
The only issue I have with Casey’s method is it will require you to first of all look good enough, facially, physically, and attire wise, in order for ATTRACTIVE women to sing you out of a crowd and approach you, without you having first initiating contact.
Secondly, it will require you to be out and about, and in an environment with lots of pretty women, for there to be enough women to have the chance of one of them being bold enough to approach you and start conversation. This is not game that you can expect to work With just being around a few women occasionally. You basically have to put yourself in party/fedtival like atmospheres on a semi regular basis, in order for this to work.
Yes of course you need to be the best version of yourself that you can be. That's the most attractive thing.. doesn't matter if you're the Top G always.
Ya, it sucks going out lol. Do it though. Or join some co ed sports leagues
@@somethinderpsterious yes, is the going out part I have trouble with. Between the effort of even finding someplace to go, paying for the venue, making sure your clothing game is on point, traffic, expensive drinks, trying to find someone to go with you, all at California elevated prices, is just a drag. It has to be done though.
4:20 now, since you were at Encore/Wynn.. YUP, them chics were literally scoping out for the HIGHEST VALUE MALE. It is a VERY HIGH STATUS place so anywhere there should already be high status, but they STILL have to scope for who is the highest value of all the high value, LOLOL!! And here high value dont mean money, cause most if not all who are there already got money, it's about who he is as a MAN.
good and useful stuff
I asked a girl to hang out, she said “okay I’ll let you know when I’m free” 3 weeks later I casually hit her up again, she wouldn’t give me a definitive answer so I told her “okay well I asked twice so I’m not gonna keep asking.” She said “why can’t you keep asking?” I said “If you were me, how many times would you ask sum1?” She said “As many times as it takes until they agree.”
I was so confused. I still am.
Persistence and not giving up is an attractive quality. It’s a test of Love. She was testing you maybe
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Sounds like she's using you as free validation.
Drop her.
Avoid females who play hard to get or play games.
Always choose females who show genuine interest
When she simply says no without offering at least vague alternatives, and does so several times
Move away
Maybe she'll say yes at some point.
But by then, the respect for you is pretty tarnished because you will be perceived as pushy and clingy
She may need 5-50 invitations to feel “safe.”
But instead of just getting to know each other, she's just wasting time
Don't sacrifice your self-respect
it's crazy how nobody is talking about the banned ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
Michael jordan has no desire to be Dennis rodman, lol
Dude some chicks in Vegas approached you and another approached your friend……
Bring pre selected alright
Working girls can see a mark a mile away 😂
you need to find the banned ebook magnetic aura even if it's the last thing you do in life
Good shit
#DONTFEEDTHEBIRDS
#STOPSIMPING
#FOCUSONABAG