I’ve watched your videos for a long time but don’t usually comment, however after watching this I feel like you could do with a bit of support right now. Please don’t feel irrelevant, you’ve done a brilliant job raising Ellie and I’m sure she wouldn’t like to see you like this sweetheart . I can only imagine how you must be feeling but please remind yourself everyday that how you are feeling now is only temporary and you will feel happy again very soon. Maybe plan a trip to see Ellie at weekends and suggest a face time call everyday so you still have that closeness to look forward to . Take care and keep positive my friend, sending lots of love and best wishes to you ❤️xx
I'm a single mum to 2 daughters, they have recently left home, one moved to London, the other Manchester, I love that for them and want the world for them, but my god it's hard and very lonely, so I feel you, being a mum is the most wonderful job but nothing prepares you for the empty nest, you've got this and the facr you supported Elle shows what a fab mum you are X ❤
Ellie always need her mum, place feel safe, support & biggest chear leader. Mum's & Dads feel same children grow and spread there wings & out into the world. Empty nest Sydrome. It is like a Bereavement. Some even have counselling to help through the adjustment to new stage of life x
You are certainly not irrelevant! You are the reason your daughter has coped so well in this situation you should be proud of yourself as well as her. Is there no one near to call round with a bottle of wine/ cuppa for a gossip and a chat? You will get through this , don’t be hard on yourself x
Aww leeza I don't ho who was 😢 crying the most. Give Ellie time at the moment it's a novelty you can't run away from your demon as it will always be there. At least she has a fab mum to pick up the pieces. You have brought her up on your own she is the lady she has turned into because of you. Give yourself a slap on the back. As daddies dearest wasn't there you were all the way now she is 16 he seems to want to know her. You got your boys to keep you going. Make sure you eat as the meds with the fibro. And you are going to be 🤒 ill. As I know stressed can make the pain worse fibro is a horrible disease. I 🙏 for you as you are a fab person and things can only get better. As they says 😂 take care my friend and favourite u tuber. 😍 Lots and lots of love Melanie xxx
Aww, bless you. This is a big change for both of you and it will take time to adjust. I would imagine Ellie misses you like mad and is feeling much the same as you. She still needs you and you are not irrelevant. Give yourself some time, be kind to yourself and try and keep yourself busy. Take care and keep us posted.
Selfish yes and it’s okay and a reaction to your new life. And adjustment can be quite difficult especially with all that has been happening with Ellie since last summer. As a parent to a child/ Jung adult who has had a rough year it can be difficult to adjust and it’s not going to happen over night. You have spent all your time helping Ellie because that’s what a parent do 🥰 and now that Ellie has started a new chapter in her life you also have started a new chapter in your life and it’s going to take time for you to adjust and fill out your time with something else no more fighting with teachers. Lots of stress has been removed from Ellie’s and your shoulder. Therefore I’m glad to see you vlogging again because it’s important to put words in to your feelings 🥰 to speak out loud especially when you’re doddle not working for you right now. 💞🥰🐻🐻🥰💞
You have a right to wallow, this is not what you had planned for your life, however this is an amazing opportunity for Ellie and you in the long term. It’s hard work now but you will have amazing times with your daughter again. Thinking of you!
Hugs. Yes we care how you feel tomorrow. Look after you…. There is no greater love than you show in what you are doing ever single day….it is amazing, and that pain you feel is a kind of badge for the immense love and dedication you have to Ellie….and when you do get together it will be all the richer and a very special time…so many special times ahead….hang in there, 🤗. One day at a time and you will work it out..don’t put pressure on yourself.
It’s a bit like empty nest she growing up And it hurts sweetheart but you made her a beautiful young lady hugs to all Carole xxxoh and little legs is at hosp and he has a lovely little sister Lucy Lou 20 mths he is 3 and a half how’s her tics now x
Let go apron strings ❤️🐻❤️🐻 maybe dog walk neighbours dog 🐶? Volunteer animal kennels ? Keep busy active ! Write book 📚 were all here for you 💋October vlog go show Xmas stuff Poundland wilco ask make up see boots ?
You are what you call a very special mom. You are not irrelevant at all. You are missing her so much that part of you wanted her to scream out at you to come and get her. She is doing well and you will too. I'm sorry you are feeling so down and the place is lonely. It will get easier. Xxx take care leasa
Understand Elle miss you also don't beat yourself up ❤️treat yourself to pamper session ❤️still keep going Elle ❤️do a bit house dishes 💋try eat little go out cafe don't won't eat friend ❤️ show Elle your there for her mum ❤️ dogs 🐶 miss her ❤️takes time adjust ❤️don't stop ☕️💋 worry 🌹 we're all here for you 🐻❤️🐻❤️stop look in the mirror small steps ❤️Elle adventure life part growing up university ❤️got empty nest syndronme ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your not alone lots of people go through this ..keep your self busy get some music playing do some decorating change the house up lol do something that you like doing go on a shopping spree it will get easier I'm sure ..love your paintings keep up the good work 👍
It is such a big adjustment you’re going through. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself time to be sad and start little by little to find your new way and you will find your way. When my youngest left home I felt similar to what your feeling now. Do some self care care. Treat yourself to a new hairstyle and buy a new outfit. It won’t really solve anything but you’ll feel a bit better. Sending you love and all the support from one mom to another!
Bless you i know how you feel i am lost too but try a job a day see if she will skype you twice a week. Empty nest is hard takecare im here for chats on messenger if you need friend.
Take some time for yourself, you've done a great job with Ellie in one way or another! Am sure in time,it will become 'normal, and at least you know that she's settling where she is, getting the support she needs! Please take care of yourself I.e eating etc, as I know Ellie is away, she'll still need you Take care
Do you could do some volunteer work with animals, do an art course, find somewhere to show your artwork or become a foster parent/ do supported lodgings.
You wouldn’t be normal if you weren’t missing her like hell right now, so he kind to yourself, why don’t you book a holiday or getaway for you and Ellie for the school holidays, next year maybe, something to look forward to together. I’m sure Ellie is missing you too x
Please don't be too hard on yourself and your definitely not selfish ,and we don't mind you being a tit ! Your going to be feeling a bit redundant but this is now time for you to relax and enjoy doing the things you do , so give your head a wobble and were here if you want to shout, cry, swear or just need to vent a little . Take care my lovley xx
I’ve watched your videos for a long time but don’t usually comment, however after watching this I feel like you could do with a bit of support right now. Please don’t feel irrelevant, you’ve done a brilliant job raising Ellie and I’m sure she wouldn’t like to see you like this sweetheart . I can only imagine how you must be feeling but please remind yourself everyday that how you are feeling now is only temporary and you will feel happy again very soon. Maybe plan a trip to see Ellie at weekends and suggest a face time call everyday so you still have that closeness to look forward to .
Take care and keep positive my friend, sending lots of love and best wishes to you ❤️xx
I'm a single mum to 2 daughters, they have recently left home, one moved to London, the other Manchester, I love that for them and want the world for them, but my god it's hard and very lonely, so I feel you, being a mum is the most wonderful job but nothing prepares you for the empty nest, you've got this and the facr you supported Elle shows what a fab mum you are X ❤
Ellie always need her mum, place feel safe, support & biggest chear leader.
Mum's & Dads feel same children grow and spread there wings & out into the world. Empty nest Sydrome. It is like a Bereavement. Some even have counselling to help through the adjustment to new stage of life x
You are certainly not irrelevant! You are the reason your daughter has coped so well in this situation you should be proud of yourself as well as her. Is there no one near to call round with a bottle of wine/ cuppa for a gossip and a chat? You will get through this , don’t be hard on yourself x
Aww leeza I don't ho who was 😢 crying the most. Give Ellie time at the moment it's a novelty you can't run away from your demon as it will always be there. At least she has a fab mum to pick up the pieces. You have brought her up on your own she is the lady she has turned into because of you. Give yourself a slap on the back. As daddies dearest wasn't there you were all the way now she is 16 he seems to want to know her. You got your boys to keep you going. Make sure you eat as the meds with the fibro. And you are going to be 🤒 ill. As I know stressed can make the pain worse fibro is a horrible disease. I 🙏 for you as you are a fab person and things can only get better. As they says 😂 take care my friend and favourite u tuber. 😍 Lots and lots of love Melanie xxx
Aww, bless you. This is a big change for both of you and it will take time to adjust. I would imagine Ellie misses you like mad and is feeling much the same as you. She still needs you and you are not irrelevant. Give yourself some time, be kind to yourself and try and keep yourself busy. Take care and keep us posted.
Ah bless you sending positive thoughts xx
Selfish yes and it’s okay and a reaction to your new life. And adjustment can be quite difficult especially with all that has been happening with Ellie since last summer.
As a parent to a child/ Jung adult who has had a rough year it can be difficult to adjust and it’s not going to happen over night.
You have spent all your time helping Ellie because that’s what a parent do 🥰 and now that Ellie has started a new chapter in her life you also have started a new chapter in your life and it’s going to take time for you to adjust and fill out your time with something else no more fighting with teachers. Lots of stress has been removed from Ellie’s and your shoulder.
Therefore I’m glad to see you vlogging again because it’s important to put words in to your feelings 🥰 to speak out loud especially when you’re doddle not working for you right now.
💞🥰🐻🐻🥰💞
I do understand i still miss my kids and they are 28 and 30 they still my babys
You have a right to wallow, this is not what you had planned for your life, however this is an amazing opportunity for Ellie and you in the long term. It’s hard work now but you will have amazing times with your daughter again. Thinking of you!
Hugs. Yes we care how you feel tomorrow. Look after you…. There is no greater love than you show in what you are doing ever single day….it is amazing, and that pain you feel is a kind of badge for the immense love and dedication you have to Ellie….and when you do get together it will be all the richer and a very special time…so many special times ahead….hang in there, 🤗. One day at a time and you will work it out..don’t put pressure on yourself.
Get a lodger ? ❤️
It’s a bit like empty nest she growing up And it hurts sweetheart but you made her a beautiful young lady hugs to all Carole xxxoh and little legs is at hosp and he has a lovely little sister Lucy Lou 20 mths he is 3 and a half how’s her tics now x
Let go apron strings ❤️🐻❤️🐻 maybe dog walk neighbours dog 🐶? Volunteer animal kennels ? Keep busy active ! Write book 📚 were all here for you 💋October vlog go show Xmas stuff Poundland wilco ask make up see boots ?
You are what you call a very special mom. You are not irrelevant at all. You are missing her so much that part of you wanted her to scream out at you to come and get her. She is doing well and you will too. I'm sorry you are feeling so down and the place is lonely. It will get easier. Xxx take care leasa
❤ stay strong. Michelle and I will come n visit in the new yr. We will keep you busy. Big hugs xxxx
Thinking of you, take care, you WILL adjust it just takes time x
Take care of yourself everything Will turn out fine
Understand Elle miss you also don't beat yourself up ❤️treat yourself to pamper session ❤️still keep going Elle ❤️do a bit house dishes 💋try eat little go out cafe don't won't eat friend ❤️ show Elle your there for her mum ❤️ dogs 🐶 miss her ❤️takes time adjust ❤️don't stop ☕️💋 worry 🌹 we're all here for you 🐻❤️🐻❤️stop look in the mirror small steps ❤️Elle adventure life part growing up university ❤️got empty nest syndronme ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think meet up with friends and try a dating app maybe. Sounds like ur sift with depression x
Your not alone lots of people go through this ..keep your self busy get some music playing do some decorating change the house up lol do something that you like doing go on a shopping spree it will get easier I'm sure ..love your paintings keep up the good work 👍
It is such a big adjustment you’re going through. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself time to be sad and start little by little to find your new way and you will find your way. When my youngest left home I felt similar to what your feeling now. Do some self care care. Treat yourself to a new hairstyle and buy a new outfit. It won’t really solve anything but you’ll feel a bit better. Sending you love and all the support from one mom to another!
Bless you i know how you feel i am lost too but try a job a day see if she will skype you twice a week. Empty nest is hard takecare im here for chats on messenger if you need friend.
I really hope you feel better, she should give you a call everyday. It is hard, I had a hard time when my son went to college.
Take some time for yourself, you've done a great job with Ellie in one way or another!
Am sure in time,it will become 'normal, and at least you know that she's settling where she is, getting the support she needs!
Please take care of yourself I.e eating etc, as I know Ellie is away, she'll still need you
Take care
Do you could do some volunteer work with animals, do an art course, find somewhere to show your artwork or become a foster parent/ do supported lodgings.
You wouldn’t be normal if you weren’t missing her like hell right now, so he kind to yourself, why don’t you book a holiday or getaway for you and Ellie for the school holidays, next year maybe, something to look forward to together. I’m sure Ellie is missing you too x
Please don't be too hard on yourself and your definitely not selfish ,and we don't mind you being a tit ! Your going to be feeling a bit redundant but this is now time for you to relax and enjoy doing the things you do , so give your head a wobble and were here if you want to shout, cry, swear or just need to vent a little . Take care my lovley xx