Hi my friend ☺ 😊. I'm still praying 🙏. We love you an our kitty family. Blessings to you . I got a second job. Being a single parent as well. With two special needs children. It's hard but i have you an everyone here to smile about.Thank you everyone for being loving here on this channel!
Yesterday I had an appointment with my doctor. I got up earlier than I like to and got on the road. Come to find out Route 84 was blocked by a terrible accident. Trailer trucks were backed up as far as the Mass, line. I decided to go a rural way to bypass the mess, but everyone else decided to do the same thing. Traffic got backed up on the country road. Finally I got there. The receptionist said "you don't have an appointment today" I said, "yes I do. I received a reminder from your office on the phone. Nevertheless, they insisted I did not have an appointment. So I went out to my car. On the way to my car my hearing aide dropped off my ear and I looked everywhere for it. Finally I walked back into the doctor's office to see if my hearing aide was around there. The receptionist said "oh good, I'm glad you came back because you do have an appointment after all. " She said that "one of the girls had given my appointment to someone else so that was the mix-up." So I got to see the doctor. It was a useless trip because all he said was to drink more water. Bullcrap, (pardon me) After I got back home and took off my clothes I found the hearing aide. It had slid down the inside of my shirt. So it all ended well. Take care of yourself!
Yes...we don't drink enough water most of the time and it does cause health issues when we do not. I am just surprised that a doctor would tell someone that instead of loading them up with pills.
Mr. Tom, the medical system now is so inept, so nonhumanized.. I am sorry to say it is like that countrywide. Glad you treated yourself to a meal. Well deserved!🙏🏼😊
Unbelievable Mr. Tom. I am sorry. This is what our healthcare has become. The problems are, a shortage of qualified doctors, census exploding, Insurance companies are derelict, poor procedural organization, poorly trained ancillary staff, lack of care for seniors , shortage of RN’s versus using medical technicians. I could go on and on as that is how broken our healthcare system is. I will avoid commenting on other areas contributing to this decline. Kudos to you Tom for remaining civil during your unfortunate experience. My prayers are with you, and you will be a victor in Jesus name…..God Bless…😇🙏
It is hard to take being inconvenienced and forgotten when you are feeling vulnerable and anxious about health matters. That must've been awful, and I am sorry you had that experience.
I am surprised they couldn't send the lab work order to a local hospital so you wouldn't have to drive so far so many times. That is what our facility does so our older patients don't have to travel so far. Good luck and I pray for your safe travels.
WOW, you are a better man that I am because I would of been upset and yes, I am one of your followers that asked about the Cancer scare, realized that you would give updates when you want too. Hugging you man,,
I hope everything goes better on Thursday when you go back. After working with the public for 60 years before I retired, I always try to be polite and calm when dealing with others. Sometimes it is more difficult than others. I'm glad you treated yourself to the Cajun chicken livers. You deserved a treat. Love to Gracie and the Kittie Krew.
I'm sorry to hear that you had a difficult day at the medical center. I've had similar experiences on occasion, as well. Unfortunately, we become a number not a human patient when dealing with specialists. Many doctors lack empathy and that is a shame on their part. I hope it goes better for you on Thursday. Have a peaceful evening, Mr. Tom and Kitties, too.
Mr. Tom, you keep taking care of yourself and we will keep praying for you!! Glad they got things sorted out and your procedures scheduled, even if it was inconvenient.
Oh Mr Tom you are such a fine example of how people should react during any situation. In my lifetime I have found that one gets so much more out of others if we stay composed. It’s tough sometimes but in the end it’s the humble patient ones that will change this new world. Much love to you always ♥️♥️♥️
So sorry you had all that unnecessary stress Tom. You have enough just waiting for that biopsy to be over. Those birds were singing extra loud and pretty to make you unstress. MGBYAML ❤
Well hun I'm sorry you had a frustrating day but at least you had something nice come out of it, you got a treat for yourself and I'm glad you did. I hope when you go back it goes better🙏🏻 thank you for the update
I am green with envy over your blueberry bushes. I have squirrels, and I'm sure you do also. But do they really let you have any of them? My squirrels fight me tooth and nail for the star fruit and the loquats. Now I have mulberries on the tree, and they're into that as well! I have a peach tree (Florida peach tree) with six peaches on it, and I also have some squirrel repellent. Guess who's going to use it tomorrow? Black cats are my favorite. I have one also, and her name is Lily. She's my heart. What a drive you had. I hate traffic, and getting on an interstate leaves me with PTSD. My hands sweat, and I get very shaky. I'll do about 65 but that's tops. People drive like maniacs, and I'd just as soon stay home. I hope the biopsy comes out OK. That must be a bit stressful too. I am one that avoids doctors at every opportunity, but this last time I had pneumonia and thought it was a really bad cold. I let it go too long. Your birds were giving you a lot of competition in making the video. You should have just handed them the mike. Beautiful songbirds!
Mr. Tom, what a frustrating day you had! You are indeed a gentleman in how you handled the situation. Glad you got yourself a treat on the way home. Your blueberries look amazing! Wishing you a smooth visit back to the hospital on Thursday.❤
Oh for the love of Pete!:( Remaining patient was the best way to handle it. When I have to do something like that, I go armed with my bag of toys to keep me occupied because never know if it will be fast or an hours long ordeal. The other thing I learned the hard way long ago was to have a printed copy ready. The orders, email or whatever. Every breath they take in your direction, demand it in writing. Appointment card, orders whatever you need. If they don't hand you an actual piece of paper and you can't print it out, take a picture with your phone. Sheesh. That is exactly why I'm so extremely slow to get anything done. My first line of defense is I just freeze in place until I can't put it off any longer. Had to deal with my Internet company, waited until the last day yesterday to get it done. Was on the phone for over two hours with the different departments before it was settled. Yep, always takes me a day or so to recover so I'm not one to jump back in the next day with the same problem or a different problem without a break. Continued prayers and wishing you smooth sailing for your preop!
Those Blueberries are a Blessing. I freeze a couple of gallons and use them when the snow flies in the midwest. George Washme (my Jeep) died saving my life a couple of years ago with an ice issue. I don't miss the traffic or opening my mouth as the only question that is dumb is the one not asked. Over the past couple of years the medical world has reminded me of the cartoon 'The Jetsons' only with a medical twist. God Bless you Mr Tom!
Ugh!😩 I’ve been through something similar. So sorry! Murphy’s Law! People need to hire their own advocates to navigate the healthcare system. Ugh, again!
The medical industry does not care about your time. It is their time. My husband had cancer three times. I have waited many a day on doctors. They wonder why people have no faith in the doctors office.
Oh my goodness, Mr. Tom!! You handled that so much calmer than I probably would have. I don't tend to "blow up", but I do have my limits. Prayers for the best outcome for your health!
Sounds like the kind of things that happen these days. The right hand doesn't know what the left one is doing. You gotta be cool. Mr. Tom is always cool.
Thank you for the update. So sorry the day was truly unproductive but I admire your attitude and gracious handling of the situation. You remain in my morning vigil prayers as sparrows comes as morning angels. Warm hug and deep concern for you always. Hopefully Gracie is helping to prepare dinner. Breakfast sounds delicious
Oh Tom, I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. It is frustrating for sure, Glad it was finally straightened out. People don't realize that when you are in bad health that things like you went through can wear a person out not only physically but mentally too and it may take several days to recoup. Hopefully next time, things will go smoothly. I had fried chicken livers and mashed potatoes for supper tonight. I was craving some. Take care and rest up. Looking forward to your next video. Take care, my friend.
Hello from Oklahoma, Mr Tom. I live in the capitol city of Oklahoma and have found interstate travel is no faster than backroads and honestly, the speeds of 70 mph make me nervous so there’s that. And morning med appointments can be frustrating, especially when everyone has 9:00 scheduled time. What an aggravating experience you had. Back in my working days I’d have told them I was deducting my lost wages from any bill they sent. Here’s praying things will go better second time around.❤❤
Hi Mr. Tom. Sorry your day was not as you had hoped/ planned. Edit. Yes. I've gone through all of that a few times myself. It is frustrating when there's a 2 hour drive plus to do the pre op. And yes, the Drs office tends to be slow to get the orders sent in. I think the Drs forget it needs to be done before the pre-op stuff can be scheduled. I'm glad you got a tasty sandwich to finish out that day. Thanks for letting us know how things went. Hugs. I know you need hugs right now. See you next time. Say hi to the kitty Krew please!
Oh Mr Tom I hope your day on Thursday is better. I, too, avoid as much traffic as I can. And after spending 5 hrs in the ER with my hubby. I understand some of your frustration . God bless and take care
Both Hubby and I watched your video. Sorry you went through all of that. Yesterday, my Hubby had to have surgery done and it was 6 hours after we got to the hospital (in another town) that he had it. He was ready to leave and not have it because of all the frustrating waiting, but, he persevered and it is done. Hope you have a good day today and that when you go back Thursday, all is well. Maria and Mike in SC
Good morning, Mr. Tom. You have a real bumper crop of blueberries! Beautiful! They don’t grow here. South Texas. Every time I see or hear of blueberries, it immediately reminds me of the children’s book, Blueberries for Sal. 🫐 💙🐻 That was INDEED a frustrating, exhausting day. Big hugs, Mr. Tom.
Mr. Tom I am tired just Setting here listening to you! I'm sorry you had to go.thru all that! God Bless U!!! Love your Videos!!! And prayers every thing will go smoother for U!!!
Oh yes. I need to pray for patience. I feel your sons concern. I had to walk away for a minute. Then your calming nature took over. Its like when the Tasmanian devil comes out of that crate on bugs bunny. Mr Tom you have a gift. The calming soothing facts of life. I am still praying for you, your family, your friends, your you tube family, and the kitty crew. I hope you get some good rest. Ill be waiting with everyone else. Take care.
What a nightmare! I can see you are still aggravated. I don't blame you. One time I had to drink a lot of water to get a test done and I asked nicely why I hadn't been seen yet. The receptionist said some explanation and I went and sat back down and then they had me waiting so long I finally got up and said "I can't hold it much longer." Then they called me next and the xray technician was yelling at me and nasty. That should never be accepted in a medical facility. I decided from now on I will go to the hospital for the tests instead of their center. If it was a mammogram- ok I can wait but my bladder was going to break! At least you got something good to eat, Tom. I hope it goes better for you next time. ❤
Hello Dobie :) I am so sorry to hear about your experience - doubly sorry because of how you were treated with the urologist. I'm a retired provider (family practice) and I can tell you it was either the doc or his medical assistant who dropped the ball. That never should have happened. I practiced in a very rural area and I knew my patients came from many miles away; most were elderly, making the trip harder. I made a point of getting everything done while they were right there in the exam room - no loose ends. I understand what you are saying about not losing your cool, but I would encourage you to call before you go next time, making sure all the t's are crossed and the i's dotted ... and if you wait anywhere more than 15 minutes - check in again and again. I would also encourage you to speak with a 'customer service' person (I don't know what they call it by you) and you can express your concerns. This is a service that you are paying for. You should be considered #1. Hoping all goes well for you.
In theory your opinion has a lot of merit. But the truth is our medical system is the pits! It is getting worse all the time. I don't know why. Maybe they are trying to do too much and that's the reason for all these snafoos. I just hope they are more efficient in the operating room.
@@grandmajane2593 I agree - and that is why I left/retired. Working 12-14 hrs a day and the job is never done - and they expect more. I've been in the medical arena since the 70s and it has changed dramatically. I would agree that it is getting worse - and it will get far worse in the very near future. That said, I was thinking the same thing --- I hope all goes well with the biopsy!! Squeeky wheel still gets the most grease - yes, you can be noisy with respect :)
My late husband used to have lots of doctor appointments and other procedures done so we went through many frustrating times like you did and we found that losing our cool was not beneficial for us or for the staff. Some of it was out of the receptions control and it did not help them at all if we were to take out our frustrations on them. I think you have the right mindset on that. Take care and know that I am praying for you and your next appointment. Keep us updated.
Aww, bless your heart Mr. Tom, I feel for ya. Yep, I done had those kinda go rounds before too with hospital, the long drives, etc., etc. And, yep, it don't do a bit a good to blow a fuse, your right about that Mr. Tom. But I surely am sorry ya had to go through all that. I will keep on prayin for ya, and hopefully, your next trip to the city will go a whole lot easier for ya. Sendin you, the Kitty Krew, Gracie, Heathcliff, and Fluffy, love, and an extra big hug.❤🤗
I'm so sorry you had a uneventful day.God bless Mr.Tom hope your evening is good.And your blueberries look wonderful.Glad the kitty crew are doing well keep us updated on your health.
Oh my goodness, Mr. Tom! They could have at least offered you a sucker or something for their delay, you know they keep some around for kids. I had my preop done and when surgery called to schedule a time they said they hadn't gotten the preop info. So I ran over to the preop place and they were really attentive and helpful. There's such a shortage of kindness these days, we have to spread our own kindness around every chance we get. Will be thinking of you on the 8th! Hope all goes well! Hugs!
Hi Mr. Tom: I can relate to your day. Seems Dr.'s are overwhelmed these days. The trip to Montgomery sounds similar to Atlanta as far as traffic. I'm sorry you had a wasted day. I've had a few myself. Our gas in N.Y. state went up again. It's now $3.59 from $ 3.54 a couple of days ago. Thank you for keeping us up to date. I've had a few things going on but I'm back. You did the right thing by staying calm. You look very nice. Rested & healthy. God bless
Chicken livers, kitty cats, and home makes everything better!! Blessed are the meek. Love and hugs to you and the kitty crew-From southern Virginia 🥰🥰🥰
I love all the blue berries, Mr Tom, I need to learn how to pack my patience, so to speak. And these days more than ever, it's always hurry up and then wait, wait ,wait when dealing with the doctor. We wish you the best and say hi to the kitty crew as well.
I'm with you 100% Mr. Tom. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Everybody feels better at the end of the day and we hope we've been a blessing to somebody along the way. God bless you with safe travels and clear sailing the rest of the way. I have some scary health concerns that were discovered incidentaly. I'll see the pulmonologist May 6. Prayers appreciated. xo
My mom always said patience’s is a virtue and you definitely have patience. Sorry your day didn’t go as planned. Looks like you are going to have lots of blueberries to enjoy this year. Blessings Mr. Tom
Hey Mr Tom wow what a day you put in the traffic the crazy parking the running around from building to building that sure will test you and you did very well not sure I could of done that well lets hope everything goes good Stay Safe Take Care !!!
The good thing about your trip that day was it definitely reminded you how nice it is to be retired so you can miss the daily work traffic on a daily basis.
You are a great storyteller Mr. Tom. Hopefully your procedure will go well. The advice is spot on. It's best to be kind. I love chicken liver but can't get a hold of any unless I make it. 😀
As you have found out, we do not have a health care system anymore. What we have is a none caring, not enough healthcare workers. There is so much incompetence that i feel many will die. Where I live, every system is going down. Traffic sucks, grocery stores, and schools. People are just rude. You did well to keep your cool. This country needs some new leaders and of course, God.
What a day you had, Mr. Tom! Glad things all worked out. In our rural county, waiting a long time is very common with a medical visit especially since Covid gutted the medical system here. We now plan on waiting at least an hour to be seen. Keeping you in my thoughts and hoping for the best for you. Hello to the Kitty Crew!
Oh dear, what an ordeal you went through, Mr. Tom! Sorry you had to endure that. Good for you for staying polite! You and the kitty crew and Gracie stay safe!
I wish they wouldn't have gave you the run around. It is hard on folks to just do stuff driving in traffic and waiting in those doctor offices. I am sorry for your troubles. Praying all will be well with your biopsy.
🙏🏾 ing for you Mr. Tom. Thank you for sharing your day. You had more patience than I would have. But you are right, getting upset with people makes the situation worse. 🥰
I'm also 68 years old. And I'm so fortunate that I got off that bus and stood on those yellow footprints for Marine Boot Camp in 1975. I don't know how I'd afford health care if not for VA Hospital. And Minneapolis VA Hosp. is one of the best. I see you are victim of our Health Care system that's very overcrowded and under-staffed? Hopefully your next trip is more successful.
My ex. used to go to the West Haven Veterans Hospital (CT) for his medical care. He received the most wonderful care and treatment. He could call his doctor on the phone with a problem. They were very busy too, but not too busy to care for each veteran. When my ex. died I called his doctor to inform him and thank him for the care he provided.
I've come to the conclusion that if I have to go to a city for a doctor's appointment that being late is not a big deal. They are always running late and have emergencies...and they understand traffic jams. Maybe it's best to call pre op and make sure the orders have been placed before leaving the house. These places are so big that there is a lack of communication. All the offices are overwhelmed by all the appointments. Leason learned.
So sorry you had such a frustrating day, Mr. Tom. I can certainly feel for you. And yes, keeping your head and being pleasant works much better than throwing a hissy fit. It seems like our medical system is designed to keep us frustrated. I've gone from having a primary care doctor that wanted to "milk" Medicare on a monthly basis to having one who's hands are tied so far as doing much of anything for me. I have mild but frequent upper back pain - He refers me to an orthopedic surgeon who wants to do major surgery instead of trying non-invasive methods. All seem so eager to schedule test after test, lab after lab, when all I need is attention to whatever is causing me pain or discomfort, and more often than not, I find my real answers on my own. I trust my herbalist far more than any doctor nowadays.
I listened to your story again and I think that is just digusting how they treated you. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You are absoluting right we have to contain our anger or as my mother used to say "we cut off our nose to spite out face".
Mr. Tom that was indeed quite a frustrating day. As I've mentioned with my husbands journey with prostrate cancer, we have also been there done that with the medical facilities. I hope your surgery will be a success and you can put this chapter behind you. Anna In Ohio
I thank God Alice didn't blow a tire, hose, or belt in the traffic mess. Extra early on Monday I prayed as follows: Dear Lord Jesus, walk with Tom this day. Wrap your arms around him, hold him tight, and protect him in any and all ways. Thank you Lord! Amen (The nicest people always get tested...maybe God wants to use them as an example of how people should treat each other.)
Mr. Tom I'm so sorry this happened to you. I commend you for taking this experience in the manner you did you are definitely a better man than I am a woman but I'm still working on it. God bless you and I will be thinking and praying for you.
Our pets help us get through rough days.
Much love to you and Kitty Krew ❤
Absolutely
Hi my friend ☺ 😊. I'm still praying 🙏. We love you an our kitty family. Blessings to you . I got a second job. Being a single parent as well. With two special needs children. It's hard but i have you an everyone here to smile about.Thank you everyone for being loving here on this channel!
Bless you. I care for 29 year old son who has Dravet syndrome
May God Bless You my friend.
@@doloreswilson6698 hi nice to meet you! 😊. I'm so proud of you an all your hard work an dedication! Keep on loving you are a blessing!
@@DeepSouthBama56 I'm so pleased to be here!
Yesterday I had an appointment with my doctor. I got up earlier than I like to and got on the road. Come to find out Route 84 was blocked by a terrible accident. Trailer trucks were backed up as far as the Mass, line. I decided to go a rural way to bypass the mess, but everyone else decided to do the same thing. Traffic got backed up on the country road. Finally I got there. The receptionist said "you don't have an appointment today" I said, "yes I do. I received a reminder from your office on the phone. Nevertheless, they insisted I did not have an appointment. So I went out to my car. On the way to my car my hearing aide dropped off my ear and I looked everywhere for it. Finally I walked back into the doctor's office to see if my hearing aide was around there. The receptionist said "oh good, I'm glad you came back because you do have an appointment after all. " She said that "one of the girls had given my appointment to someone else so that was the mix-up."
So I got to see the doctor. It was a useless trip because all he said was to drink more water. Bullcrap, (pardon me)
After I got back home and took off my clothes I found the hearing aide. It had slid down the inside of my shirt. So it all ended well. Take care of yourself!
lol....the things that happen.
Yes...we don't drink enough water most of the time and it does cause health issues when we do not. I am just surprised that a doctor would tell someone that instead of loading them up with pills.
Wow this world is driving me nuts doctor's don't like to give out pills anymore it's a nightmare
It being in your shirt the whole time is funny.
@@truthtriumphant4015 - Oh I'm already loaded with pills! lol
Mr. Tom, the medical system now is so inept, so nonhumanized..
I am sorry to say it is like that countrywide.
Glad you treated yourself to a meal.
Well deserved!🙏🏼😊
Unbelievable Mr. Tom. I am sorry. This is what our healthcare has become. The problems are, a shortage of qualified doctors, census exploding, Insurance companies are derelict, poor procedural organization, poorly trained ancillary staff, lack of care for seniors , shortage of RN’s versus using medical technicians. I could go on and on as that is how broken our healthcare system is. I will avoid commenting on other areas contributing to this decline. Kudos to you Tom for remaining civil during your unfortunate experience. My prayers are with you, and you will be a victor in Jesus name…..God Bless…😇🙏
It is a pathetic mess !! And you are supposed to trust this ???
oh boy, those blueberries are looking Aaaamazing!!!
I feel your pain in traffic...there's days it's taken me an hour and 40 minutes to get to work, and an hour and a half to get home. It gets old.
It is hard to take being inconvenienced and forgotten when you are feeling vulnerable and anxious about health matters. That must've been awful, and I am sorry you had that experience.
Well said... exactly this
I am surprised they couldn't send the lab work order to a local hospital so you wouldn't have to drive so far so many times. That is what our facility does so our older patients don't have to travel so far. Good luck and I pray for your safe travels.
We have clinics all over and can get two tests done in an hour on average.
My prayers Mr Tom 🙏
me too.
I'm glad you got some good chicken out of that. Like snuffy Smith used to say in the futunnies, that's why they call us patients.
WOW, you are a better man that I am because I would of been upset and yes, I am one of your followers that asked about the Cancer scare, realized that you would give updates when you want too. Hugging you man,,
Mr Tom it makes me sad to hear your experience. That should not happen!!!! 🙏🏻 Blessings to you and kitty crew.
Mr. Tom sorry your day was a challenge. However glad you showed who you are as a man. Proud of you...
Yes to blue berries.nice for you to have. Praying for your medical healing.
I hope everything goes better on Thursday when you go back. After working with the public for 60 years before I retired, I always try to be polite and calm when dealing with others. Sometimes it is more difficult than others. I'm glad you treated yourself to the Cajun chicken livers. You deserved a treat. Love to Gracie and the Kittie Krew.
Oh Mr. Tom. Sorry for your unproductive day. It can seem like all the stuff one has to do about an illness, is worse than the illness. Take Care
I'm sorry to hear that you had a difficult day at the medical center. I've had similar experiences on occasion, as well. Unfortunately, we become a number not a human patient when dealing with specialists. Many doctors lack empathy and that is a shame on their part. I hope it goes better for you on Thursday. Have a peaceful evening, Mr. Tom and Kitties, too.
Mr. Tom, you keep taking care of yourself and we will keep praying for you!! Glad they got things sorted out and your procedures scheduled, even if it was inconvenient.
Hi Mr. Tom! I don’t like driving in the city! Give me a side road any day!!!
Hang in there!!💕🐈⬛💕
At $5.00 a pint for blueberries you are very blessed with your crop.
Oh Mr Tom you are such a fine example of how people should react during any situation. In my lifetime I have found that one gets so much more out of others if we stay composed. It’s tough sometimes but in the end it’s the humble patient ones that will change this new world. Much love to you always ♥️♥️♥️
So sorry you had all that unnecessary stress Tom. You have enough just waiting for that biopsy to be over. Those birds were singing extra loud and pretty to make you unstress. MGBYAML ❤
Well hun I'm sorry you had a frustrating day but at least you had something nice come out of it, you got a treat for yourself and I'm glad you did. I hope when you go back it goes better🙏🏻 thank you for the update
I am green with envy over your blueberry bushes. I have squirrels, and I'm sure you do also. But do they really let you have any of them? My squirrels fight me tooth and nail for the star fruit and the loquats. Now I have mulberries on the tree, and they're into that as well! I have a peach tree (Florida peach tree) with six peaches on it, and I also have some squirrel repellent. Guess who's going to use it tomorrow? Black cats are my favorite. I have one also, and her name is Lily. She's my heart.
What a drive you had. I hate traffic, and getting on an interstate leaves me with PTSD. My hands sweat, and I get very shaky. I'll do about 65 but that's tops. People drive like maniacs, and I'd just as soon stay home. I hope the biopsy comes out OK. That must be a bit stressful too. I am one that avoids doctors at every opportunity, but this last time I had pneumonia and thought it was a really bad cold. I let it go too long.
Your birds were giving you a lot of competition in making the video. You should have just handed them the mike. Beautiful songbirds!
Mr. Tom, what a frustrating day you had! You are indeed a gentleman in how you handled the situation. Glad you got yourself a treat on the way home. Your blueberries look amazing! Wishing you a smooth visit back to the hospital on Thursday.❤
Good example and teaching example of "Catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar."
That's a classic saying my dad used to say all the time. But very true indeed
Thumbs Up 👍 for Mr. Tom!!❤ That’s what the medical care does to Everyone. It’s terrible.
Oh for the love of Pete!:( Remaining patient was the best way to handle it. When I have to do something like that, I go armed with my bag of toys to keep me occupied because never know if it will be fast or an hours long ordeal. The other thing I learned the hard way long ago was to have a printed copy ready. The orders, email or whatever. Every breath they take in your direction, demand it in writing. Appointment card, orders whatever you need. If they don't hand you an actual piece of paper and you can't print it out, take a picture with your phone. Sheesh. That is exactly why I'm so extremely slow to get anything done. My first line of defense is I just freeze in place until I can't put it off any longer. Had to deal with my Internet company, waited until the last day yesterday to get it done. Was on the phone for over two hours with the different departments before it was settled. Yep, always takes me a day or so to recover so I'm not one to jump back in the next day with the same problem or a different problem without a break. Continued prayers and wishing you smooth sailing for your preop!
ugh,so frustrating!! I certainly hope everything goes more smoothly. may blessings shower down upon you.
Those Blueberries are a Blessing. I freeze a couple of gallons and use them when the snow flies in the midwest. George Washme (my Jeep) died saving my life a couple of years ago with an ice issue. I don't miss the traffic or opening my mouth as the only question that is dumb is the one not asked. Over the past couple of years the medical world has reminded me of the cartoon 'The Jetsons' only with a medical twist. God Bless you Mr Tom!
Ugh!😩 I’ve been through something similar. So sorry! Murphy’s Law! People need to hire their own advocates to navigate the healthcare system. Ugh, again!
The medical industry does not care about your time. It is their time. My husband had cancer three times. I have waited many a day on doctors. They wonder why people have no faith in the doctors office.
Oh my goodness, Mr. Tom!! You handled that so much calmer than I probably would have. I don't tend to "blow up", but I do have my limits. Prayers for the best outcome for your health!
Sounds like the kind of things that happen these days. The right hand doesn't know what the left one is doing. You gotta be cool. Mr. Tom is always cool.
Days like that are mentally exhausting!!! Hope Thursday goes much better!
Im so sorry Mr Tom, I know things just go catty wampus sometimes and I am glad that you didn't lose your cool.✝️❤️ God Bless you Mr Tom 🙏
Loved that the kitties were feeling the same disruption to the day as you were! Good you are back together now.
So sorry about your experience, it's sad what our health care system has evolved into.
Thank you for the update. So sorry the day was truly unproductive but I admire your attitude and gracious handling of the situation. You remain in my morning vigil prayers as sparrows comes as morning angels. Warm hug and deep concern for you always. Hopefully Gracie is helping to prepare dinner. Breakfast sounds delicious
What an ordeal! Sometimes things are quite irritating and very tiresome. Sure hope everything works out well. 🙏
Oh Tom, I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. It is frustrating for sure, Glad it was finally straightened out. People don't realize that when you are in bad health that things like you went through can wear a person out not only physically but mentally too and it may take several days to recoup. Hopefully next time, things will go smoothly. I had fried chicken livers and mashed potatoes for supper tonight. I was craving some. Take care and rest up. Looking forward to your next video. Take care, my friend.
We've had days like that when the doctors office didn't send the authorization to get the tests needed. I feel your frustration.
Hello from Oklahoma, Mr Tom. I live in the capitol city of Oklahoma and have found interstate travel is no faster than backroads and honestly, the speeds of 70 mph make me nervous so there’s that. And morning med appointments can be frustrating, especially when everyone has 9:00 scheduled time. What an aggravating experience you had. Back in my working days I’d have told them I was deducting my lost wages from any bill they sent. Here’s praying things will go better second time around.❤❤
Hi Mr. Tom. Sorry your day was not as you had hoped/ planned.
Edit. Yes. I've gone through all of that a few times myself. It is frustrating when there's a 2 hour drive plus to do the pre op. And yes, the Drs office tends to be slow to get the orders sent in. I think the Drs forget it needs to be done before the pre-op stuff can be scheduled.
I'm glad you got a tasty sandwich to finish out that day.
Thanks for letting us know how things went. Hugs. I know you need hugs right now.
See you next time. Say hi to the kitty Krew please!
Great that you stayed on an even keel yesterday mr tom. Sending good energy your way for tomorrow.
Oh Mr Tom I hope your day on Thursday is better. I, too, avoid as much traffic as I can. And after spending 5 hrs in the ER with my hubby. I understand some of your frustration . God bless and take care
Hi Mr Tom, we are praying for you! May the good Lord heal your body and ease any pain you may have. Thank you for sharing with all of us today.
Both Hubby and I watched your video. Sorry you went through all of that. Yesterday, my Hubby had to have surgery done and it was 6 hours after we got to the hospital (in another town) that he had it. He was ready to leave and not have it because of all the frustrating waiting, but, he persevered and it is done. Hope you have a good day today and that when you go back Thursday, all is well. Maria and Mike in SC
Good morning, Mr. Tom. You have a real bumper crop of blueberries! Beautiful! They don’t grow here. South Texas. Every time I see or hear of blueberries, it immediately reminds me of the children’s book, Blueberries for Sal. 🫐 💙🐻
That was INDEED a frustrating, exhausting day. Big hugs, Mr. Tom.
Be blessed Mr Tom and kitty crew, hugs
Mr. Tom I am tired just Setting here listening to you! I'm sorry you had to go.thru all that! God Bless U!!! Love your Videos!!! And prayers every thing will go smoother for U!!!
Sure love ya Mr. TOM. PRAYERS AND BLESSINGS SIR!
Oh yes. I need to pray for patience. I feel your sons concern. I had to walk away for a minute. Then your calming nature took over. Its like when the Tasmanian devil comes out of that crate on bugs bunny. Mr Tom you have a gift. The calming soothing facts of life. I am still praying for you, your family, your friends, your you tube family, and the kitty crew. I hope you get some good rest. Ill be waiting with everyone else. Take care.
If you pray for patience god will test your patience.
What a nightmare! I can see you are still aggravated. I don't blame you. One time I had to drink a lot of water to get a test done and I asked nicely why I hadn't been seen yet. The receptionist said some explanation and I went and sat back down and then they had me waiting so long I finally got up and said "I can't hold it much longer." Then they called me next and the xray technician was yelling at me and nasty. That should never be accepted in a medical facility. I decided from now on I will go to the hospital for the tests instead of their center. If it was a mammogram- ok I can wait but my bladder was going to break! At least you got something good to eat, Tom. I hope it goes better for you next time. ❤
Keeping you in my prayers Mr. Tom. 🙏🏻💞🙏🏻
Hello Dobie :) I am so sorry to hear about your experience - doubly sorry because of how you were treated with the urologist. I'm a retired provider (family practice) and I can tell you it was either the doc or his medical assistant who dropped the ball. That never should have happened. I practiced in a very rural area and I knew my patients came from many miles away; most were elderly, making the trip harder. I made a point of getting everything done while they were right there in the exam room - no loose ends. I understand what you are saying about not losing your cool, but I would encourage you to call before you go next time, making sure all the t's are crossed and the i's dotted ... and if you wait anywhere more than 15 minutes - check in again and again. I would also encourage you to speak with a 'customer service' person (I don't know what they call it by you) and you can express your concerns. This is a service that you are paying for. You should be considered #1. Hoping all goes well for you.
In theory your opinion has a lot of merit. But the truth is our medical system is the pits! It is getting worse all the time. I don't know why. Maybe they are trying to do too much and that's the reason for all these snafoos. I just hope they are more efficient in the operating room.
@@grandmajane2593 I agree - and that is why I left/retired. Working 12-14 hrs a day and the job is never done - and they expect more. I've been in the medical arena since the 70s and it has changed dramatically. I would agree that it is getting worse - and it will get far worse in the very near future. That said, I was thinking the same thing --- I hope all goes well with the biopsy!!
Squeeky wheel still gets the most grease - yes, you can be noisy with respect :)
My late husband used to have lots of doctor appointments and other procedures done so we went through many frustrating times like you did and we found that losing our cool was not beneficial for us or for the staff. Some of it was out of the receptions control and it did not help them at all if we were to take out our frustrations on them. I think you have the right mindset on that. Take care and know that I am praying for you and your next appointment. Keep us updated.
God Bless you and the kitty crew , I love you all and I wish you all the best! 🙏🏻❤️
dealing with today’s health care system will try patience.
As a retired nurses Ive seen a decline in quality of care
your calm and pleasant demeanor made you a winner
you can choose every thing that happens but you can choose your attitude
Aww, bless your heart Mr. Tom, I feel for ya. Yep, I done had those kinda go rounds before too with hospital, the long drives, etc., etc. And, yep, it don't do a bit a good to blow a fuse, your right about that Mr. Tom. But I surely am sorry ya had to go through all that. I will keep on prayin for ya, and hopefully, your next trip to the city will go a whole lot easier for ya. Sendin you, the Kitty Krew, Gracie, Heathcliff, and Fluffy, love, and an extra big hug.❤🤗
I'm so sorry you had a uneventful day.God bless Mr.Tom hope your evening is good.And your blueberries look wonderful.Glad the kitty crew are doing well keep us updated on your health.
How aggravating! You’re exactly right. It’s better to stay calm. I’ve tried to do my husband that for 37 years. 😂
Thanks for sharing Mr. Tom 🙏
Oh my goodness, Mr. Tom! They could have at least offered you a sucker or something for their delay, you know they keep some around for kids. I had my preop done and when surgery called to schedule a time they said they hadn't gotten the preop info. So I ran over to the preop place and they were really attentive and helpful. There's such a shortage of kindness these days, we have to spread our own kindness around every chance we get. Will be thinking of you on the 8th! Hope all goes well! Hugs!
Hi Mr. Tom: I can relate to your day. Seems Dr.'s are overwhelmed these days. The trip to Montgomery sounds similar to Atlanta as far as traffic. I'm sorry you had a wasted day. I've had a few myself. Our gas in N.Y. state went up again. It's now $3.59 from $ 3.54 a couple of days ago. Thank you for keeping us up to date. I've had a few things going on but I'm back. You did the right thing by staying calm. You look very nice. Rested & healthy. God bless
Petrol in Oz is $3.36 a litre…🐨😡
Yes, the Dr visits can be something else at times.
Chicken livers, kitty cats, and home makes everything better!! Blessed are the meek. Love and hugs to you and the kitty crew-From southern Virginia 🥰🥰🥰
Blessings and Prayers to You Mr. Tom💙🙏✌️
I love all the blue berries, Mr Tom, I need to learn how to pack my patience, so to speak. And these days more than ever, it's always hurry up and then wait, wait ,wait when dealing with the doctor. We wish you the best and say hi to the kitty crew as well.
I'm with you 100% Mr. Tom. You catch more flies with honey than vinegar. Everybody feels better at the end of the day and we hope we've been a blessing to somebody along the way. God bless you with safe travels and clear sailing the rest of the way. I have some scary health concerns that were discovered incidentaly. I'll see the pulmonologist May 6. Prayers appreciated. xo
May God Bless You Virginia. Your in my prayers.
What a day! Bless you and I am praying for you.❤
Sending love and best wishes and prayers for quick healing. May angels surround you always.
Mr. Tom be blessed sorry you had a long day at the hospital.
My mom always said patience’s is a virtue and you definitely have patience. Sorry your day didn’t go as planned.
Looks like you are going to have lots of blueberries to enjoy this year. Blessings Mr. Tom
Prayers for you Mr Tom
Sorry you had a bad day Mr Tom you did not need all that.
Hey Mr Tom wow what a day you put in the traffic the crazy parking the running around from building to building that sure will test you and you did very well not sure I could of done that well lets hope everything goes good Stay Safe Take Care !!!
So sorry for your experience yesterday Mr Tom , nice to visit again thanks for sharing YAH bless brother !
Thanks for coming
The good thing about your trip that day was it definitely reminded you how nice it is to be retired so you can miss the daily work traffic on a daily basis.
You are a great storyteller Mr. Tom. Hopefully your procedure will go well. The advice is spot on. It's best to be kind. I love chicken liver but can't get a hold of any unless I make it. 😀
My husband was always like that. He’d say show them your best. Blessings on Thursday Mr Tom. 😊
As you have found out, we do not have a health care system anymore. What we have is a none caring, not enough healthcare workers. There is so much incompetence that i feel many will die. Where I live, every system is going down. Traffic sucks, grocery stores, and schools. People are just rude. You did well to keep your cool. This country needs some new leaders and of course, God.
God bless you, Mr. Tom.
So sorry Mr. Tom for all the waiting.
I would have been happy to keep you company during your waiting.
Hope next visit is a breeze!
Oh my goodness Mr Tom, what a day!
Hi Mr. Tom Hope your day Thursday will be better God Bless
What a day you had, Mr. Tom! Glad things all worked out. In our rural county, waiting a long time is very common with a medical visit especially since Covid gutted the medical system here. We now plan on waiting at least an hour to be seen. Keeping you in my thoughts and hoping for the best for you. Hello to the Kitty Crew!
Oh dear, what an ordeal you went through, Mr. Tom! Sorry you had to endure that. Good for you for staying polite!
You and the kitty crew and Gracie stay safe!
I wish they wouldn't have gave you the run around. It is hard on folks to just do stuff driving in traffic and waiting in those doctor offices. I am sorry for your troubles. Praying all will be well with your biopsy.
So glad that you’re ok MrTom, please stay safe and God bless y’all! 😻😻😻🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤩🤩🤩💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️
🙏🏾 ing for you Mr. Tom. Thank you for sharing your day. You had more patience than I would have. But you are right, getting upset with people makes the situation worse. 🥰
glad you made it. seems dr. appointments go this way. sorry you had to go through that. glad when it's all over. take it easy, be blessed.
I hear more stories of a waiting time, frustration, confusion etc. Bless your heart, I'm not as patient as you.🎉
I'm also 68 years old. And I'm so fortunate that I got off that bus and stood on those yellow footprints for Marine Boot Camp in 1975. I don't know how I'd afford health care if not for VA Hospital. And Minneapolis VA Hosp. is one of the best. I see you are victim of our Health Care system that's very overcrowded and under-staffed? Hopefully your next trip is more successful.
My ex. used to go to the West Haven Veterans Hospital (CT) for his medical care. He received the most wonderful care and treatment. He could call his doctor on the phone with a problem. They were very busy too, but not too busy to care for each veteran. When my ex. died I called his doctor to inform him and thank him for the care he provided.
@@grandmajane2593 I'm guessing your ex was very lucky man to love woman like you?
@@arthurhartsock1407 - I couldn't seem to shake him loose, I tried but he was always there.
I really enjoyed listening to the birds in the background! Thank you for the update and hello to the Kitty Krew!
I've come to the conclusion that if I have to go to a city for a doctor's appointment that being late is not a big deal. They are always running late and have emergencies...and they understand traffic jams. Maybe it's best to call pre op and make sure the orders have been placed before leaving the house. These places are so big that there is a lack of communication. All the offices are overwhelmed by all the appointments. Leason learned.
So sorry you had such a frustrating day, Mr. Tom. I can certainly feel for you. And yes, keeping your head and being pleasant works much better than throwing a hissy fit. It seems like our medical system is designed to keep us frustrated. I've gone from having a primary care doctor that wanted to "milk" Medicare on a monthly basis to having one who's hands are tied so far as doing much of anything for me. I have mild but frequent upper back pain - He refers me to an orthopedic surgeon who wants to do major surgery instead of trying non-invasive methods. All seem so eager to schedule test after test, lab after lab, when all I need is attention to whatever is causing me pain or discomfort, and more often than not, I find my real answers on my own. I trust my herbalist far more than any doctor nowadays.
I don't want to alarm you, but i have to say I have occasional upper back pains and I also have a heart condition.
I listened to your story again and I think that is just digusting how they treated you. I'm sorry you had to go through that. You are absoluting right we have to contain our anger or as my mother used to say "we cut off our nose to spite out face".
I like your way of telling us about your days kinda takes back to my younger days
Mr. Tom that was indeed quite a frustrating day. As I've mentioned with my husbands journey with prostrate cancer, we have also been there done that with the medical facilities. I hope your surgery will be a success and you can put this chapter behind you. Anna In Ohio
I thank God Alice didn't blow a tire, hose, or belt in the traffic mess. Extra early on Monday I prayed as follows: Dear Lord Jesus, walk with Tom this day. Wrap your arms around him, hold him tight, and protect him in any and all ways. Thank you Lord! Amen (The nicest people always get tested...maybe God wants to use them as an example of how people should treat each other.)
Mr. Tom I'm so sorry this happened to you. I commend you for taking this experience in the manner you did you are definitely a better man than I am a woman but I'm still working on it. God bless you and I will be thinking and praying for you.