Video Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome 3:20 Topic Introduction 11:53 Size is a Red Herring 19:19 It's the Shake of the Tree 21:03 What is Average? 24:40 The Solution for Women 30:10 The Solution for Men 34:53 Questions and Comments
My advice to all single and younger men.... no matter what you do, no matter what you have to offer, no matter how good you are at (fill in the blank here) you will NEVER be good enough for her! You will NEVER measure up! If it's not the size of your tool, your technique is deficient. If that's not the problem, it's because you're bald. If you have hair, you don't make enough money. You're well off? You've gained 15 lbs and you don't have enough status. In other words, she will ALWAYS find a reason to blame you and hold you responsible for her misery.
It comes down to one excuse or another like you said. I will say again churches and preachers do not teach all the Bible. They ignore the below which is a big problem. 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 NLT - The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. The ignoring of the above is a root problem for many of us as Christ followers which not only hurts husbands too many times but filters to the children.
Amen. Women don't understand what they are doing by not being with their husbands. My wife once told me "you're a lot nicer to me when we're having sex often" ....YA THINK? 😂
💯 !!! The church is run by beta male simp Pastors that are afraid to confront & hold women accountable. Pastors are afraid to lose tithing due to women being the majority in the congregation.
Churches are a joke anyway. The preachers don’t know the difference between the apostle Paul and the book of James or the gospels etc etc. since the days when Paul walked the earth until this day only .01% of churches have ever seen that Paul is different
I have been married twice. About 1" over high average. The first wife said it was too big, the second too small. I divorced both of them eventually. My question is why the hell would a man even think about getting married? Why should I have to cope with her problems and the way a large majority of women treat men?
If size matters to woman then shape and contour matter to men, most of us aren’t getting anywhere close to our ideal, and 80% of time she simply has to restrict calories and go to the gym 2-3 times a week and walk daily to attain it, so easy it’s hard. Ps, if your SO packs on the pounds its her saying she doesn’t consider or respect you and doesn’t like men and herself in general.
I was never emasculated, just neglected. The main focus was on motherhood, and she was wonderful there, but it left her with nothing remaining for me. Regarding this channel, It's great to hear a woman who doesn't blame men for everything, although we do contribute to marriage issues.
Did you get involved with the children? Why can't men see that they are equally responsible for those children that they made. They are your kids as well as hers. Don't add to her burden by becoming one of them. You are an adult.
@@hedgemist691 it’s funny how that attitude persists until it comes to custody or abortion issues. Then it’s HER kids. I’m sure he didn’t neglect his kids. But it says something about you when you assume that. You really don’t think that once a woman is married has her kids that her husband becomes the last priority? That’s the whole point! The husband should be at least top 5 if not top 3 because if the marriage isn’t on solid footing then everything else falls apart. I’m just shocked more women don’t realize that. They think it’s okay to neglect their husband.
Sadly, few women are consuming this channel. If my wife's response to a suggestion to "check it out" is typical, it will remain this way. My wife truly believes that she never has anything to learn, and has never made a mistake. I guarantee you that I would NEVER get married again.
Same here. My wife has worse qualities and much worse questionable past but thinks she's just perfect. She once "joked" that I'm worth more dead than alive due to my insurance payout if somthing happens to me because I have a high risk job. It's easy to see why so many men self delete themselves nowdays. Mentally I'm at the brink and only stay for my kids
Holy mother of god you are powerful. You are so spot on. And you are so important. Please keep doing what you're doing. Even though most of your message isn't really for me as a man, it is such a catharsis - and probably many of the men in your audience - to see you communicating to your fellow sisters essential and important truths. Men and woman have become so divided lately and we have to find a way to come back together - your work is so essential in that process I've always congratulated myself for being well on the "good" side of the average and tbh I probably built a significant part of my confidence with women on having the 'size issue' well under control. And you just made so much deep sense that you kinda took that foundation away, making me realize that this idea that I built some of my identity upon is really a kind of a sham. Guess I'll have to find some something more real to base my confidence on now - thank you for that.
@@CDRFINANCE True. However, in a world where most women wouldn't even consider someone less tall than themselves, it does end up being a kind of a privilege.
My female cousin told me she had the best orgasms of her life from a dude with a 3 inch dingus. Size doesn't matter. It's all about how the woman likes you.
27:07 Beautifully expressed, Karyn! It's so true. Vulnerability during physical intimacy is such a powerful and wonderful emotion to embrace. I am receptive to my husband and feel truly safe with him. He is the only man I've ever been with, and I desire and admire him with all my heart.
I live in South Australia and there's a church here that promoted a book that taught that the only time a married couple should have intimacy is when they intend to produce children , and women used this teaching as an excuse to refrain from intimacy, our pastor warned our church about this book , I know of couples who had this book and the man left his wife because she agreed with the book and practised it , our pastor said that if we possessed this book , burn it ,or put it in the rubbish bin.
@@barriem5318 This book was written by a woman and is almost as sellable as a drug that gives men ED. If you find the drug that resembles salt that women can sprinkle on their husband's food to give him ED.... That will make you rich beyond MIDAS.
I knew a guy that believed that too many years ago. Called in sick to work but instead of sick, said he was breeding. I kid you not. The guy that took the call thought he said he was bleeding. Secondly, a reading of the Old Testament book, Song of Solomon will put that notion to shame. That is a book that is all about biblical lovemaking.
Size is just another "requirement" like height that some women use to disqualify men. It is what it is. Men simply need to turn it around a bit and realize that any woman using immutable characteristics to judge you simply isn't worth your time anyway. Women can only ruthlessly enforce these standards on men because we dropped our standards completely. Take some pride in yourself guys. You don't need to entertain this nonsense. Karyn can only do so much. It's up to us to give a hard pass to women who aren't able to understand her message.
100% Truth. I’m larger and have had women say “your not putting that in me” or “that’s too deep”. Also had woman that loved it and they still weren’t happy. The truth is if a smaller man could wave a magic wand and be bigger, that wouldn’t solve the relationship problem. If a woman ever tells you you’re too small, leave immediately guys, cause the problem is her not you.
All three points you raise are valid. This topic is frequently raised, and I’m pleased you selected it to “settle” it, once and for all. You’re a gem, Karyn, and we look forward to future presentations. 😃
Wow. I have been in one and on one date. I sometimes think and watch people in a lot of relationships and think "should you really have done that" maybe both parties are dysfunctional and healthy is still a possibility. 3 marriages and many relationships? When I see women do this I cringe when I see who the other partner is...could be a question for yourself. Good luck
You are spot on about wanting a wife who is not checked out. I shared with my wife about one excuse after another even before I found your videos. Your videos have helped a lot for me not to feel guilty .
Thank you! Just imagine if we say while having sex, it seems you have got a lot of pimples and acne on your face. or say you look fat..I am sure she will be so offended and its war for a week. Dare a sane man say that even if the case is true. We care about how they feel since we genuinely want them to be happy. While on the flip side, they dont have any remorse when they shame men of their sizes just to get the ego rush and power handle on things. This message is powerful since once you are aware of the games they play, they dont have that power anymore.
I've been married 25 years. This has not been a happy marriage for me. My wife is about as emasculating and disrespectful as a woman can possibly be. This is a second marriage for both of us. I caught my first wife in two affairs. The first time we managed to stay together. I was able to truly forgive her. But when it happened again 5 years later, I was done. I have never caught my current wife cheating on me (though i suspect she might have years ago).... but I have to confess, overall, I was much happier with my first wife on a day to day basis. Sex with her was frequent, generally hot, very passionate and, most importantly to me, initiated by her probably about a third of the time. She engaged in very few acts or words of open disrespect and emasculation (leaving aside the two affairs, which were definitely emasculating and disrespectful.... but she tried really hard to keep those hidden from me). She would openly praise me in front of others and even when things were falling apart, she openly took the blame with practically everyone we knew, going so far as to tell even her own family it was ALL her fault and I was not to blame. My current wife, on the other hand, puts all the blame for her unhappiness in this marriage on me and only me practically all the time. This has been largely a sexless marriage... and what sex there has been has been lame and passionless. She went so far as to tell me about a sexual activity she enjoyed with another man, and when I tried to engage with her in the same activity, she acted like it was the most disgusting thing she ever endured. And hardly a week ever went by without her finding some new way to openly insult me and make me feel like crap.... and she seems oblivious to how horrible she has treated me over the years. I recently confronted her with incident after incident (literally dozens of times when she behaved in a the most condescending awful ways) and her response was to gaslight me, deflect blame and issue counter complaints about me - everything from "That didn't happen on New Years. That was on your sister's birthday." As if what day the disrespect occurred makes any difference whatsoever. Or, "Was it really Christmas morning? I remember talking to you about it (talking to me in an absolutely horrible and downright insulting way over a gift I gave her) but it was later, not that morning." As if what time of day you insult someone who gave you a gift mitigates such downright HORRIBLE behavior. But perhaps the worst was her claiming not to remember something, and then telling me she was concerned because I was having "false memories". Bullshit! False memories do not stick around for 24 years! Here is a recent example of what I have put up with. When we married, I weighed about 170 at most. She was at maybe 110 or 115, very thin. Over two and a half decades, I have lost a few pounds (i'm at 165 as I type this) and she has put on at least 40 to 45 lbs.... or more. She is unhappy with her weight. I am fine with it. When she has complained about her weight gain, my instinct is to encourage her. I have said to her, "Babe, it has all gone to the right places." Or, "Honestly, you look better now than the day we married." And I mean every word of it! Well, I went back to working out recently, trying to build more muscle again before age makes it impossible. But I was really struggling to maintain my weight. With adjustments to my workouts and diet, I was largely successful, but not at first. At first I was loosing weight and I hated it. I stepped on the scale and was really disappointed to see I had lost a couple more pounds. Well, I made the mistake of saying my weight outloud and she heard it... and what was her response?Did she offer encouragement as I have tried to do for her? Did she try to make me feel wanted and attractive to her? Nope! She immediately exclaimed, "Oh my God, are you serious!" In a disgusted tone. I hate being married to this woman.
@@rougebaba3887 iam so sorry to hear you going through this. As Karyn says its a choice, either to stay and work it out or move out. We have to make a choice. Key thing we need to understand is this is their nature generally. Not sure why God made them like that but thats how it is. Karyn is a rare women, an anomaly
It's not the size of the wand, it's the magic in it! But seriiously, maybe 20 years ago, my wife and I were at her brother's for some drinks. He saw my wife was getting a little giddy. and he made a remark that I might get lucky. My wife vehemently disagrees, but I swear she said to me "You're not big enough." Whereupon I tossed out the remark I made at the start of my comment. She still says she would never have said that, and that we weren't talking about sex anyway. I know what I heard. Anyway, a couple other lines I like are "Sex is a misdemeanor...and the more I miss, de meaner I get." and "Sex is like oxygen...you don't miss it until you're not getting any."
Married and divorced 3 times, all American women. Cold dead fish they were. They never were open, passionate and loving with sex. Then it only became worse 😮😢 NOW.. my Filipina fiancé is the exact opposite in EVERY way. We both came from very frustrating and traumatic relationships. At 58 she is a sexual angel 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💞💞💞♥️
@@georgeargyropoulos5664Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉 So strange, no red flags with my Filipina.. All my wives had several immediately, I chose to ignore because I thought she’d change, only got much worse.
I completely understand a man getting married once as I did. To go through these issues & decide to get married again is mind boggling. I will never take the chance of dealing with that stuff again.
as a widower of almost 5 years now, and hoping to perhaps be in a relationship again, but leary of the current toxic dating climate, I greatly appreciate your honesty, integrity and knowledge base. thank you.
In todays world no bride is a virgin she has tried it many time with him before marriage. If it was to big or small for her she should not have married him. The thing that matters is it goes squirt squirt and she can have kids.
I'm glad you mentioned this. It seems that after 3 bodies or so, a woman's ability to bond with a man is gone. My body count is pretty high, but I've always been able to bond. Women seem to lose that ability after they've lost their virginity. So once the find a guy to get married, they'll say they're in love, but they won't be bonded to the man. Therefore they'll easily discard him.
@@smokingcrab2290Yes! I have always said this. Women are more superficial than men by nature, and sleeping with several guys only makes them more shallow and harder to please. More experiences means more preferences and more preferences means more expectations.
You are special. So thank you for giving our youngsters the knowledge they all need. Wish I could have shared your video to my wife. Believe in your self. You are amazing.
I agree with this 100%. I try to give my partner all of my effort into pleasing them before I worry about me! And from the podcasts I've watched, yes, there are size queens out there, most women feel pain in being plowed, as opposed to being made love to.
Years ago I was in a very abusive marriage and for over 7 years my ex-wife didn't want to have anything to do with intimacy and sex. Then we got divorced and I finally met another lady and after 3 years of dating we got married. Now I'm back in the same situation with intimacy and sex. It happens 2 - 3 times a year. I really know how to pick them, don't I????
"How hard is sex anyway? Sex is not that hard. It's not like darts or anything." Norm MacDonald Believe it or not, having satisfing sex is not that hard. You pay a little bit of attention to what your partner likes and you learn pretty quick what to do. Interestingly enough it is the casual sex that usually ends up being very unsatisfying for women. Outside of the thrill of doing something naughty and the novelty of doing it with someone new, it's usually with the kind of guys that don't know you well enough to know what you like and are probably not interested in satisfied you in the first place. Within marriage sex with a partner who loves you and is willing to learn how to please you is when it is the best for women.
Bravo!! I have the opposite problem than “small of stature” and to your point I can couch for womyn always being able to find something to be unhappy about; “real” or imagined.
saying what the average is doesnt change that size still matters. there are people smaller than average. and also for some women there is a too big and too big still means size matters.
I have been reading through the comments, and notice one big problem here. There are very few women watching these videos. It isn't going to change until women start learning this.
Hi Karyn Introducing your work to our women is easy. 1 ) Women understand women more easily than they understand men. 2 ) Do not try to show your wife a specific episode. 3 ) Instead suggest that your wife watches the videos from when Karyn started the channel. 4 ) Also suggest that you and your wife watch the videos together. 5 ) Spend only one hour a day to watch the videos. 6 ) Do not discuss the video with your wife either.
1) Wrong. Women don't understand themselves. The only thing they understand about each other is how crazy they are while denying it. Women know what men want, they just refuse to give it. 2-6) These don't make sense
We are reminded how much patience our Lord has with us, because it takes awhile to absorb wisdom. I have sent over two videos that were so spot on to my wife. Through this process prayer is a minimum that I can do along with exercising patience….. Thank you Karyn for your acquired wisdom through experience…..
I never hear anyone talk about girls and their tightness or if it's beat up; I was fine with it before I married her, now that's it's not that tight, I'm not fine with it and its starting to become an issue
There is a well-known medical procedure where a doctor can put a couple of stitches in to make things tighter. It’s been done after giving birth for about 100 years.
Of course size matters. To the point about the real issue being something else, and size being a 'red hearing'. In some sense, that may very well be true. Those wives would be bringing up a different complaint instead if the man had an adequate penis size, but that does not mean that he has an adequate penis size. Both things can be true at the same time. She would complain about something, anything, that she could find to complain about, and in those cases, the size is legitimately something to complain about - so that is what she picked. To the point about technique, this again is an AND not OR question. Anyone with basic spatial awareness can understand that a small cylinder placed into a larger cylindrical opening will have minimal contact at all the bigger the opening or smaller the cylinder. Technique is also important for good sex, but that just means that size AND technique matter. To the point about the average penis size being 5.5 inches. Yes, and the average height is 5'9. Even still 70% of women prefer men over 6' tall, and the percentage of women who answer that they would be willing to date men who are 5'9 and below is less than 20% of women. Being average as a man is the same as being at the bottom.
Lol this 6ft tall statistic is an absolute fallacy perpetuated by the chronically online, or those whose entire dating experience consists of extremely shallow women on dating apps and social media. I myself am 5’8 and do very well with women, and can name plenty of other men who are under 6ft who have literally had their pick of the litter for their entire lives. Obviously idk their penis size but we’ve all been in the same social circles for years and even had some of the same women… none of us received complaints
@@AccountabilityHub Before dating apps, before social media, before the internet, and even before electricity, women found taller men more attractive. If you believe it to be a fallacy, then provide any empirical evidence to the contrary because there is an abundance of studies, going back way before dating apps were even a conceptual idea one could reasonably fathom, all of which demonstrate height preference in mate selection. The key word here is PREFER. However, in practice, mate pairing in assortative. Meaning pretty people pick pretty people, and although ugly people would prefer pretty people, they end up with ugly people as their only option. I did not say being under 6' prevents men from dating some women. It only prevents a man from being perceived as the ideal man. The entire point of my comment is that although something that is suboptimal may be tolerated, settled for, or overlooked in favor of some other trait that has more preferential weight in importance, that is not the same as saying 'it does not matter'.
Traction Device (6 hours a day, 5 days a week) Vacuum Pump (30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes at night, 6 days a week) Start slow and build your tolerance up until you're at that routine. Then every year, cut a day out. 1st year = building tolerance 2nd year = 7 days 3rd year = 6 days 4th year = 5 days 5th year = 4 days 6th year = 3 days 7th year = 2 days 8th year = 1 day 9th year = final results (at the very least you will be an inch and a half longer and an inch thicker, and now you enjoy those permanent results for the rest of your life)
@@KNWBDY.important I don't need to I'm already 3 inches above the average size. Learn to eat 🐱 then. Stop trying to fix the unfixable. You don't modify the hammer to hit the nail better, you learn how to use the hammer correctly.
@@phillysupra you can do one, both or all. Maximize in all aspects and departments. If you don't want/have to then that's fine too. I just gave a routine for people who might wanna use it is all.
In the past people used get engaged for a couple of years without having sex than get married, unlike nowadays, they prefer to have sex before marriage to see how things go. God bless Mrs Karen.
For guys that feel insecure. Let me tell you this: If a woman feels size is very important, that tells you quite a lot about the woman. Steer clear of a woman like that if you’re serious and not looking for a casual thing.
I can’t speak for other men, but the only insecurity I have regarding size is being judged for something I have no control over. I could lose weight, eat better, take care of my skin, trim my beard, and do a dozen other things to improve my appearance. Can’t be taller, can’t grow my hair back, can’t be younger, and I can’t make the unit any bigger. I’m not ashamed of myself, and I don’t have anything to boast, but if I’m with a woman who wants more, I’m happy to go to the grown-up toy store and find something that suits her.
Great comment. I was going to say, if she has fantasies about something really large then let’s explore that together with toys. I had a GF years ago who was very open to communicating what she wanted (a real rarity) and we had a blast with toys together. If the wife had this fantasy, don’t put down your husband, explore together. You will likely find he wants to please you and will enjoy some erotic play.
Bank account size and D size matter to womwn. Imagine if men said we have weight limits....women over 130lbs and under C cup (natural only) are less worthy of a man.
I'm 65 and I loved sex. My wife hates it. It's been 14 years or is it 15. I'm somewhat handsome and well endowed. I wish I had a passionate, sexual relationship but sex discussions, touch and everything else is off the table.
Ugggh that sucks! I can tell I’m on my way because my wife has a freaking schedule. Hate to say it I’m there for our beautiful 3 kids. I do love her but she got kids from me and sex is dry. I can’t tell you how women at my job appreciate my looks and my fragrances. I get at work what I desire to have at home. Yet, I know for every compliment I get a work there’s a poor soul involved with them that’s most likely going through what I’m going through.
Please know that when women get older and go through the change of life/menopause, it’s true that sex can become painful. The blood flow is just not what it used to be, just like for men, and the cushion has disappeared. The skin stays thin and can tear without that blood flow pumping things up. Taking boron capsules can help during menopause with lubrication and desire/drive. Even after an orgasm in menopause, there can be very little lubrication. It’s crazy and frustrating! So it can be women and their women ways, making excuses to avoid intimacy, but they could be telling the truth if their hormones are whacked out.
True this happens to women and it is scary to experience this change. Men have issues too as they get older. I think each partner can be compassionate and supportive and do what they can to improve the intimacy. Emotional Love and support really will make your wife want to please you.
I have never measured myself. The thought always seemed kind of silly to me. I've never compared myself to other men in locker rooms. Never going to check out another guys junk! I'd guess that I'm average size. I've only ever been with one woman (my now x-wife). She always told me I was to large for her. I'd guess that woman's insides are built as differently as their outsides and while some woman may be able to take more others can't. I'll never feel insecure about my size though. I am what I am. Everybody is different.
I believe this statement based on "average is good enough" in a marriage. BUT, I think in the realm of having sex for the sake of fun, women typically look for a man above average in size.
In the Chinese medicine there is an understanding of matching size being important - the man and woman need to match. All the nerves need stimulation and without jamming. This isn't too difficult, and when it doesn't work out it isn't the end of the world, but, it is relevant enough that it was studied until it became a science in Old China. Bigger, smaller, no, no - matching. And I will also say, either it doesn't matter OR you can feel better about average. Not both. Men are logical. It makes no sense to say "it doesn't matter" and then keep talking about it
my wife of 14 years was with a guy befor me for 4 years. he was alot bigger and im pretty big . you could tell. 3 months later we went together perfectly
After being married for a while, the relationship starts to become boring. She starts To realize and remember when she was more promiscuous with Chad. Even if Chad wasn’t any better than you and her mind being able to be with him allowed her to be free and psychologically only had to worry about herself.
Does size matter is the wrong question. If she's had many partners, which is common these days, the question should be what is her size preference range. Many say average is fine, but they think average is 6" or more and when they get a true average size, they think it's small, especially, if it's at the low end of average. In such a case, they may think they can be satisfied long term with smaller, but sometimes find that is not the case. The comparison here of small with good skills versus large with poor skills is a false comparison that is often made. Large with good skills vs small with good skills is the correct comparison. However, if she truly does love her man, then there are ample avenues for a rewarding s3x life.
It certainly does! However, if it's not there a good man/most men will work around the issue if the gal is otherwise worth it. A sweetheart. On the other hand, most women would never do the shoe on the other foot calculation and just walk away. Or, at the right time use the cudgel.
Dear men, fwiw, I apologize for my fellow women. Most are just awful. No wonder I can't find any female friends. Since I don't believe in women having male friends, I'm glad I have a good dog!
I thought this might help me understand… and it did… but also broke my heart even more. Have stopped enjoying the limited sex we do have few times a year if I’m lucky. I’m super attracted to my wife she just does it for me and threw all sizes it doesn’t matter thick thin she queen. But the pressure of making it count when it’s really happens the judgment you know is coming, criticism, the look on her face, the feeling of she’s rather be anywhere but there in you mind. The routine of for-play to give the orgasm befor you ever even get undressed at times. Maybe even multiple times to just build its up. The mind can only except so much pain. The ability to even force the mind to shut off feelings during the process just to preform so you don’t feel the pain. The longing for happiness and comfort in your partner, to just be heart broken everytime is the slowest torture to endure.
Marla Hooch was the slugger you were talking about. The reason John Loveitz was startled by her b/c that was his long lost twin sister😂😂😂. 3 important quotes to take away from A League of Their Own: “There’s no crying in baseball”. “Sip don’t slurp”. “Legs crossed, a lady reveals nothing”.
Somehow get her to listen to Karen’s videos. If she refuses then let her go. I had a wife for 30+ years who verbally and emotionally abused me. I found the answers why in Karen’s words.
The truth we have not mentioned is that not every man can be good in bed. It is not just about learning sex techniques or skills. There are several medical, psychological and mental health situations that cause men to be poor in bed and most of these problems are not curable, so we need to address the reality that a large percentage of men can not be good in bed and find solutions to cater for men and couples in these situations.
Some ladies have a dryness problem and it could hurt them. If you put KY on your member it will slide in and out easier and she will enjoy it a lot more.
@@carlmanis879 I HAVE to use lube. My recently dumped ex-girlfriend WOULDN'T let me employ tried and true techniques to get her off during foreplay so I could enjoy our intimacy with vigor. Accused me of making her feel like a robot. She REFUSES to enjoy. The last straw was trying to get to watch a few selected "Happy Wife School" videos. I was just about to put a ring on her finger too. Glad I found Karyn before I made a HUGE mistake. I'm 64 and was JUST about to settle. I am more than confident in my bedroom skills. Dating is hard at this age. Guess I'll embrace the single life one more time. Will NOT settle for a sexless relationship
Size does matter period, but u can do other things to make up for it. Its just like anything else is relationships ur lacking in something and cant fix then you better have something else amazing so ur flaws are acceptable. And everyone has flaws
I’m average I would say but it’s your mindset. God or whoever you look up to have it to you so you gotta deal with what you got. It also can’t seem small or big to your woman if she is also a virgin and Innocent. You gotta find a girl like that if you are always comparing yourself. I have taught my son this same thing. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says this is your life you dictate the thoughts in your head.
I don’t think size matters IF you REALLY loves the man. my own understanding is this: one single man can’t have 100% of what most women are looking for in a husband. My advice to men: take extremely good care of yourself & develop yourself in all areas so that if you’re dumped for any reason, it will not hurt you a bit.
Video Timestamps:
0:00 Welcome
3:20 Topic Introduction
11:53 Size is a Red Herring
19:19 It's the Shake of the Tree
21:03 What is Average?
24:40 The Solution for Women
30:10 The Solution for Men
34:53 Questions and Comments
Yes size matters
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My wife is from Asia in their culture sex is only for three years or until there’s children (Japanese)
My advice to all single and younger men.... no matter what you do, no matter what you have to offer, no matter how good you are at (fill in the blank here) you will NEVER be good enough for her! You will NEVER measure up! If it's not the size of your tool, your technique is deficient. If that's not the problem, it's because you're bald. If you have hair, you don't make enough money. You're well off? You've gained 15 lbs and you don't have enough status. In other words, she will ALWAYS find a reason to blame you and hold you responsible for her misery.
I blame media for the female discontent.
It pushes and pushes the YOU SHOULD HAVE MORE mentality.
Basically, you will never when. So I don't even try and love my archery. Bows and arrows don't talk, Thank God! 😊
They hyper fixate on the 10% that ain’t perfect.
Find a Filipina!! 🇵🇭
GO!!
@@barrysmith8920 just don’t bring her back to the west, she will for go from average to highly desirable and all the drama that can come with that.
Size does matter. When your wife gets fat…you can’t get it up. Is she was a smaller size well…
So easy to lose weight as well, it’s called calorie control.
A huge cause of ED.
@@ellenroehl6022 I see what did there and was huge...
ROFL, yep.
Size absolutely does matter...The size of your bank account... for when she finds the next guy. 🤣
Amen
Wrong 🤡
It comes down to one excuse or another like you said. I will say again churches and preachers do not teach all the Bible. They ignore the below which is a big problem.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 NLT - The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife. Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
The ignoring of the above is a root problem for many of us as Christ followers which not only hurts husbands too many times but filters to the children.
Amen. Women don't understand what they are doing by not being with their husbands. My wife once told me "you're a lot nicer to me when we're having sex often" ....YA THINK? 😂
💯 !!! The church is run by beta male simp Pastors that are afraid to confront & hold women accountable. Pastors are afraid to lose tithing due to women being the majority in the congregation.
Along with giving it away to persons who are not your husband or wife.
Extremely rare that ministers teach from this portion of scripture. Very sad
Churches are a joke anyway. The preachers don’t know the difference between the apostle Paul and the book of James or the gospels etc etc. since the days when Paul walked the earth until this day only .01% of churches have ever seen that Paul is different
even the Eiffel tower looks small if you put it inside the Grand Canyon
LOL
Lmao!😂🤣😂
Lol! awesome.
Someone doesn’t understand the anatomy of the vagina.
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I have been married twice. About 1" over high average. The first wife said it was too big, the second too small. I divorced both of them eventually. My question is why the hell would a man even think about getting married? Why should I have to cope with her problems and the way a large majority of women treat men?
The truth is man.. marriage is like a lottery.. you have be to extremely lucky in finding the right match.
It only matters as a way to hurt you. Don't ever, ever, EVER let a woman know you're EVER insecure. Game over.
If size matters to woman then shape and contour matter to men, most of us aren’t getting anywhere close to our ideal, and 80% of time she simply has to restrict calories and go to the gym 2-3 times a week and walk daily to attain it, so easy it’s hard.
Ps, if your SO packs on the pounds its her saying she doesn’t consider or respect you and doesn’t like men and herself in general.
I was never emasculated, just neglected. The main focus was on motherhood, and she was wonderful there, but it left her with nothing remaining for me. Regarding this channel, It's great to hear a woman who doesn't blame men for everything, although we do contribute to marriage issues.
Same here brother although we are still together but things are rocky.
Did you get involved with the children? Why can't men see that they are equally responsible for those children that they made. They are your kids as well as hers. Don't add to her burden by becoming one of them. You are an adult.
@@hedgemist691 it’s funny how that attitude persists until it comes to custody or abortion issues. Then it’s HER kids. I’m sure he didn’t neglect his kids. But it says something about you when you assume that. You really don’t think that once a woman is married has her kids that her husband becomes the last priority? That’s the whole point! The husband should be at least top 5 if not top 3 because if the marriage isn’t on solid footing then everything else falls apart. I’m just shocked more women don’t realize that. They think it’s okay to neglect their husband.
Hello Karen ! I am so happy your channel continues to grow! Bless you!
Size doesn't matter.
HER: I thought you said you had a huge organ.
HIM: Yeah, but I didn't know I'd be playing in a cathedral.
Did you get that from a Prince song?
There’s a theme here, and it always goes back to her miserable shelf and emasculation of her husband/boyfriend. As usual Karyn is just awesome!!!
When you realise it’s all from a place of deep self loathing you can let it go and move on from the mess.
They all do it that's why. She's just being honest.
Sadly, few women are consuming this channel. If my wife's response to a suggestion to "check it out" is typical, it will remain this way. My wife truly believes that she never has anything to learn, and has never made a mistake. I guarantee you that I would NEVER get married again.
Same here. My wife has worse qualities and much worse questionable past but thinks she's just perfect. She once "joked" that I'm worth more dead than alive due to my insurance payout if somthing happens to me because I have a high risk job. It's easy to see why so many men self delete themselves nowdays. Mentally I'm at the brink and only stay for my kids
Holy mother of god you are powerful. You are so spot on. And you are so important. Please keep doing what you're doing. Even though most of your message isn't really for me as a man, it is such a catharsis - and probably many of the men in your audience - to see you communicating to your fellow sisters essential and important truths. Men and woman have become so divided lately and we have to find a way to come back together - your work is so essential in that process
I've always congratulated myself for being well on the "good" side of the average and tbh I probably built a significant part of my confidence with women on having the 'size issue' well under control. And you just made so much deep sense that you kinda took that foundation away, making me realize that this idea that I built some of my identity upon is really a kind of a sham. Guess I'll have to find some something more real to base my confidence on now - thank you for that.
Thats like me congratulating myself for being 6’4” tall 😂
@@CDRFINANCE True. However, in a world where most women wouldn't even consider someone less tall than themselves, it does end up being a kind of a privilege.
My female cousin told me she had the best orgasms of her life from a dude with a 3 inch dingus. Size doesn't matter. It's all about how the woman likes you.
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Beautifully expressed, Karyn! It's so true. Vulnerability during physical intimacy is such a powerful and wonderful emotion to embrace. I am receptive to my husband and feel truly safe with him. He is the only man I've ever been with, and I desire and admire him with all my heart.
I live in South Australia and there's a church here that promoted a book that taught that the only time a married couple should have intimacy is when they intend to produce children , and women used this teaching as an excuse to refrain from intimacy, our pastor warned our church about this book , I know of couples who had this book and the man left his wife because she agreed with the book and practised it , our pastor said that if we possessed this book , burn it ,or put it in the rubbish bin.
@patfallon3027 what you are describing is not true biblical Christianity. Healthy sexuality within a Christian marriage is a gift from God.
He shouldve just told his wife hes trying to reproduce everyday, thus she is obligated to do it and enjoy it. Malicious compliance...
@@barriem5318 This book was written by a woman and is almost as sellable as a drug that gives men ED. If you find the drug that resembles salt that women can sprinkle on their husband's food to give him ED.... That will make you rich beyond MIDAS.
I knew a guy that believed that too many years ago. Called in sick to work but instead of sick, said he was breeding. I kid you not. The guy that took the call thought he said he was bleeding.
Secondly, a reading of the Old Testament book, Song of Solomon will put that notion to shame. That is a book that is all about biblical lovemaking.
Size is just another "requirement" like height that some women use to disqualify men. It is what it is. Men simply need to turn it around a bit and realize that any woman using immutable characteristics to judge you simply isn't worth your time anyway. Women can only ruthlessly enforce these standards on men because we dropped our standards completely. Take some pride in yourself guys. You don't need to entertain this nonsense. Karyn can only do so much. It's up to us to give a hard pass to women who aren't able to understand her message.
100% Truth. I’m larger and have had women say “your not putting that in me” or “that’s too deep”. Also had woman that loved it and they still weren’t happy. The truth is if a smaller man could wave a magic wand and be bigger, that wouldn’t solve the relationship problem. If a woman ever tells you you’re too small, leave immediately guys, cause the problem is her not you.
Of course you humble brag. I don't think that comment helped.
@@cmhardin37 A woman who complains about too small or big, is not worth your time.
All three points you raise are valid. This topic is frequently raised, and I’m pleased you selected it to “settle” it, once and for all.
You’re a gem, Karyn, and we look forward to future presentations. 😃
I agree, it is RAISED often.
Thank you for the work you do…
Unfortunately you have more than proved my theory of supreme gaslighting most wives seem to be willing to do..
I have a tremedous amount of respect for your honesty. You inspire me,
Looking back at three marriages and a few long-term dating relationships, I see that the default position for women is dishonesty.
Wow. I have been in one and on one date. I sometimes think and watch people in a lot of relationships and think "should you really have done that" maybe both parties are dysfunctional and healthy is still a possibility. 3 marriages and many relationships? When I see women do this I cringe when I see who the other partner is...could be a question for yourself. Good luck
You are spot on about wanting a wife who is not checked out. I shared with my wife about one excuse after another even before I found your videos. Your videos have helped a lot for me not to feel guilty .
Thank you! Just imagine if we say while having sex, it seems you have got a lot of pimples and acne on your face. or say you look fat..I am sure she will be so offended and its war for a week. Dare a sane man say that even if the case is true. We care about how they feel since we genuinely want them to be happy.
While on the flip side, they dont have any remorse when they shame men of their sizes just to get the ego rush and power handle on things. This message is powerful since once you are aware of the games they play, they dont have that power anymore.
I've been married 25 years. This has not been a happy marriage for me. My wife is about as emasculating and disrespectful as a woman can possibly be. This is a second marriage for both of us. I caught my first wife in two affairs. The first time we managed to stay together. I was able to truly forgive her. But when it happened again 5 years later, I was done.
I have never caught my current wife cheating on me (though i suspect she might have years ago).... but I have to confess, overall, I was much happier with my first wife on a day to day basis. Sex with her was frequent, generally hot, very passionate and, most importantly to me, initiated by her probably about a third of the time. She engaged in very few acts or words of open disrespect and emasculation (leaving aside the two affairs, which were definitely emasculating and disrespectful.... but she tried really hard to keep those hidden from me). She would openly praise me in front of others and even when things were falling apart, she openly took the blame with practically everyone we knew, going so far as to tell even her own family it was ALL her fault and I was not to blame.
My current wife, on the other hand, puts all the blame for her unhappiness in this marriage on me and only me practically all the time. This has been largely a sexless marriage... and what sex there has been has been lame and passionless. She went so far as to tell me about a sexual activity she enjoyed with another man, and when I tried to engage with her in the same activity, she acted like it was the most disgusting thing she ever endured.
And hardly a week ever went by without her finding some new way to openly insult me and make me feel like crap.... and she seems oblivious to how horrible she has treated me over the years. I recently confronted her with incident after incident (literally dozens of times when she behaved in a the most condescending awful ways) and her response was to gaslight me, deflect blame and issue counter complaints about me - everything from "That didn't happen on New Years. That was on your sister's birthday." As if what day the disrespect occurred makes any difference whatsoever. Or, "Was it really Christmas morning? I remember talking to you about it (talking to me in an absolutely horrible and downright insulting way over a gift I gave her) but it was later, not that morning." As if what time of day you insult someone who gave you a gift mitigates such downright HORRIBLE behavior.
But perhaps the worst was her claiming not to remember something, and then telling me she was concerned because I was having "false memories". Bullshit! False memories do not stick around for 24 years!
Here is a recent example of what I have put up with. When we married, I weighed about 170 at most. She was at maybe 110 or 115, very thin. Over two and a half decades, I have lost a few pounds (i'm at 165 as I type this) and she has put on at least 40 to 45 lbs.... or more. She is unhappy with her weight. I am fine with it. When she has complained about her weight gain, my instinct is to encourage her. I have said to her, "Babe, it has all gone to the right places." Or, "Honestly, you look better now than the day we married." And I mean every word of it!
Well, I went back to working out recently, trying to build more muscle again before age makes it impossible. But I was really struggling to maintain my weight. With adjustments to my workouts and diet, I was largely successful, but not at first. At first I was loosing weight and I hated it. I stepped on the scale and was really disappointed to see I had lost a couple more pounds. Well, I made the mistake of saying my weight outloud and she heard it... and what was her response?Did she offer encouragement as I have tried to do for her? Did she try to make me feel wanted and attractive to her? Nope! She immediately exclaimed, "Oh my God, are you serious!" In a disgusted tone.
I hate being married to this woman.
They are directly attacking your manhood. Attacking a man's size is like attacking a woman's ability to bear children.
@@rougebaba3887 iam so sorry to hear you going through this. As Karyn says its a choice, either to stay and work it out or move out. We have to make a choice. Key thing we need to understand is this is their nature generally. Not sure why God made them like that but thats how it is. Karyn is a rare women, an anomaly
It's not the size of the wand, it's the magic in it! But seriiously, maybe 20 years ago, my wife and I were at her brother's for some drinks. He saw my wife was getting a little giddy. and he made a remark that I might get lucky. My wife vehemently disagrees, but I swear she said to me "You're not big enough." Whereupon I tossed out the remark I made at the start of my comment. She still says she would never have said that, and that we weren't talking about sex anyway. I know what I heard. Anyway, a couple other lines I like are "Sex is a misdemeanor...and the more I miss, de meaner I get." and "Sex is like oxygen...you don't miss it until you're not getting any."
Good quotes. Here's another one "my wife treats me like a god, she denies my existence until she needs something"
Married and divorced 3 times, all American women.
Cold dead fish they were.
They never were open, passionate and loving with sex. Then it only became worse 😮😢
NOW.. my Filipina fiancé is the exact opposite in EVERY way. We both came from very frustrating and traumatic relationships.
At 58 she is a sexual angel 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💞💞💞♥️
Nice! Just got divorced myself and found my amazing Filipina. Congratulations to us.
@@georgeargyropoulos5664Congratulations!
🎉🎉🎉
So strange, no red flags with my Filipina..
All my wives had several immediately, I chose to ignore because I thought she’d change, only got much worse.
She's his fiancée.
He's her fiancé.
The second e indicates the feminine.
@@traditionalfood367 Thank you
Nice to meet you my passport brother
Starts 4:07
It's big enough to fill a stroller, was always my response. 😂😂
Gonna keep and pas that one along!!!
😂😂😂😂
I completely understand a man getting married once as I did. To go through these issues & decide to get married again is mind boggling. I will never take the chance of dealing with that stuff again.
Wow, 100+k subs. I remember not even 6 months ago you were hovering around 5k. Go you. What a channel you have grown now!!
WoW! I would have NEVER jumped to that interpretation. I heard "I've had an affair and now you're not big enough."🤣🤣🤣
as a widower of almost 5 years now, and hoping to perhaps be in a relationship again, but leary of the current toxic dating climate, I greatly appreciate your honesty, integrity and knowledge base. thank you.
Same boat, 14 months for me.
In todays world no bride is a virgin she has tried it many time with him before marriage. If it was to big or small for her she should not have married him. The thing that matters is it goes squirt squirt and she can have kids.
I'm glad you mentioned this. It seems that after 3 bodies or so, a woman's ability to bond with a man is gone. My body count is pretty high, but I've always been able to bond. Women seem to lose that ability after they've lost their virginity. So once the find a guy to get married, they'll say they're in love, but they won't be bonded to the man. Therefore they'll easily discard him.
@@smokingcrab2290Yes! I have always said this. Women are more superficial than men by nature, and sleeping with several guys only makes them more shallow and harder to please. More experiences means more preferences and more preferences means more expectations.
You are special. So thank you for giving our youngsters the knowledge they all need. Wish I could have shared your video to my wife. Believe in your self. You are amazing.
"my wife's not pretty enough and I was ok with it at first but... IT'S REALLY STARTING TO BOTHER ME!"😂😂😂😂
She’s not gonna get prettier with age either. 😂
I agree with this 100%. I try to give my partner all of my effort into pleasing them before I worry about me! And from the podcasts I've watched, yes, there are size queens out there, most women feel pain in being plowed, as opposed to being made love to.
Years ago I was in a very abusive marriage and for over 7 years my ex-wife didn't want to have anything to do with intimacy and sex. Then we got divorced and I finally met another lady and after 3 years of dating we got married. Now I'm back in the same situation with intimacy and sex. It happens 2 - 3 times a year. I really know how to pick them, don't I????
There is hope brother. Find yourself a nice loving and sensual Filipina.
Go to Southeast Asia…divorce this one
Dude if I get divorced I'm NEVER getting married ever again
If you're a good man, they lure you in with frequent s3x, especially, if she has children from a previous failed relationship.
Fillippines, Thailand, Malaysia, Ukraine.
Congrats on over 100k subscribers.
"How hard is sex anyway? Sex is not that hard. It's not like darts or anything." Norm MacDonald
Believe it or not, having satisfing sex is not that hard. You pay a little bit of attention to what your partner likes and you learn pretty quick what to do.
Interestingly enough it is the casual sex that usually ends up being very unsatisfying for women. Outside of the thrill of doing something naughty and the novelty of doing it with someone new, it's usually with the kind of guys that don't know you well enough to know what you like and are probably not interested in satisfied you in the first place. Within marriage sex with a partner who loves you and is willing to learn how to please you is when it is the best for women.
great explanation.
But women make sex hard because they make everything hard.
At first this video was encouraging but now it's making me realize even more, for right or wrong, how important it is to women.
Some women not all women
Bravo!! I have the opposite problem than “small of stature” and to your point I can couch for womyn always being able to find something to be unhappy about; “real” or imagined.
saying what the average is doesnt change that size still matters. there are people smaller than average. and also for some women there is a too big and too big still means size matters.
@@Yay-hovah yes I agree your statement is completely off topic though to what I just said.
@@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo Yeah. My comment was supposed to be in response to another comment that was posted. I don’t know how it would up here.
It's not the size of the weapon. It's the fury of the attack. It's not the size of the boat. It's the motion of the ocean.
And a lot of it depends on what, and how things happen before the fury of attack. There has to be a really good warmup to.
Women are never satisfied.
i had the motion but the ocean was too cold!
You do great work !
Thanks!
Good topic, well said.
I have been reading through the comments, and notice one big problem here. There are very few women watching these videos. It isn't going to change until women start learning this.
Hi Karyn
Introducing your work to our women is easy.
1 ) Women understand women more easily than they understand men.
2 ) Do not try to show your wife a specific episode.
3 ) Instead suggest that your wife watches the videos from when Karyn started the channel.
4 ) Also suggest that you and your wife watch the videos together.
5 ) Spend only one hour a day to watch the videos.
6 ) Do not discuss the video with your wife either.
1) Wrong. Women don't understand themselves. The only thing they understand about each other is how crazy they are while denying it. Women know what men want, they just refuse to give it.
2-6) These don't make sense
I was always told that it wasn't the size of the pencil, it was how you signed your name.
"I knew it was going to be a little shorter today." Oh, Karyn. You're a crackup! 😂
It does not matter what kind of tools you have, it matters how good you do your job with them.
Love the channel very interesting to listen to 🙏
We are reminded how much patience our Lord has with us, because it takes awhile to absorb wisdom. I have sent over two videos that were so spot on to my wife. Through this process prayer is a minimum that I can do along with exercising patience….. Thank you Karyn for your acquired wisdom through experience…..
I never hear anyone talk about girls and their tightness or if it's beat up; I was fine with it before I married her, now that's it's not that tight, I'm not fine with it and its starting to become an issue
There is a well-known medical procedure where a doctor can put a couple of stitches in to make things tighter. It’s been done after giving birth for about 100 years.
@@davidgold5961 good for them
Nobody talks about The Big Vagina.
We're supposed to constantly reinforce women while they tear us down
Keigal muscles
Great show as always Karyn 👍😊
Of course size matters.
To the point about the real issue being something else, and size being a 'red hearing'. In some sense, that may very well be true. Those wives would be bringing up a different complaint instead if the man had an adequate penis size, but that does not mean that he has an adequate penis size. Both things can be true at the same time. She would complain about something, anything, that she could find to complain about, and in those cases, the size is legitimately something to complain about - so that is what she picked.
To the point about technique, this again is an AND not OR question. Anyone with basic spatial awareness can understand that a small cylinder placed into a larger cylindrical opening will have minimal contact at all the bigger the opening or smaller the cylinder. Technique is also important for good sex, but that just means that size AND technique matter.
To the point about the average penis size being 5.5 inches. Yes, and the average height is 5'9. Even still 70% of women prefer men over 6' tall, and the percentage of women who answer that they would be willing to date men who are 5'9 and below is less than 20% of women. Being average as a man is the same as being at the bottom.
Lol this 6ft tall statistic is an absolute fallacy perpetuated by the chronically online, or those whose entire dating experience consists of extremely shallow women on dating apps and social media. I myself am 5’8 and do very well with women, and can name plenty of other men who are under 6ft who have literally had their pick of the litter for their entire lives. Obviously idk their penis size but we’ve all been in the same social circles for years and even had some of the same women… none of us received complaints
@@AccountabilityHub Before dating apps, before social media, before the internet, and even before electricity, women found taller men more attractive. If you believe it to be a fallacy, then provide any empirical evidence to the contrary because there is an abundance of studies, going back way before dating apps were even a conceptual idea one could reasonably fathom, all of which demonstrate height preference in mate selection.
The key word here is PREFER. However, in practice, mate pairing in assortative. Meaning pretty people pick pretty people, and although ugly people would prefer pretty people, they end up with ugly people as their only option.
I did not say being under 6' prevents men from dating some women. It only prevents a man from being perceived as the ideal man.
The entire point of my comment is that although something that is suboptimal may be tolerated, settled for, or overlooked in favor of some other trait that has more preferential weight in importance, that is not the same as saying 'it does not matter'.
Traction Device (6 hours a day, 5 days a week)
Vacuum Pump (30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes at night, 6 days a week)
Start slow and build your tolerance up until you're at that routine.
Then every year, cut a day out.
1st year = building tolerance
2nd year = 7 days
3rd year = 6 days
4th year = 5 days
5th year = 4 days
6th year = 3 days
7th year = 2 days
8th year = 1 day
9th year = final results (at the very least you will be an inch and a half longer and an inch thicker, and now you enjoy those permanent results for the rest of your life)
Or simply just learn to use what you're born with better.
@@phillysupra do both.
@@KNWBDY.important I don't need to I'm already 3 inches above the average size. Learn to eat 🐱 then. Stop trying to fix the unfixable. You don't modify the hammer to hit the nail better, you learn how to use the hammer correctly.
@@phillysupra you can do one, both or all. Maximize in all aspects and departments. If you don't want/have to then that's fine too. I just gave a routine for people who might wanna use it is all.
In the past people used get engaged for a couple of years without having sex than get married, unlike nowadays, they prefer to have sex before marriage to see how things go. God bless Mrs Karen.
If a woman complains about size.
Tell her time to use her back door.
I guess if she still complains about size then there is an issue somewhere.
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For guys that feel insecure. Let me tell you this: If a woman feels size is very important, that tells you quite a lot about the woman. Steer clear of a woman like that if you’re serious and not looking for a casual thing.
I can’t speak for other men, but the only insecurity I have regarding size is being judged for something I have no control over. I could lose weight, eat better, take care of my skin, trim my beard, and do a dozen other things to improve my appearance. Can’t be taller, can’t grow my hair back, can’t be younger, and I can’t make the unit any bigger. I’m not ashamed of myself, and I don’t have anything to boast, but if I’m with a woman who wants more, I’m happy to go to the grown-up toy store and find something that suits her.
Great comment. I was going to say, if she has fantasies about something really large then let’s explore that together with toys. I had a GF years ago who was very open to communicating what she wanted (a real rarity) and we had a blast with toys together. If the wife had this fantasy, don’t put down your husband, explore together. You will likely find he wants to please you and will enjoy some erotic play.
Or let her go find someone who can meat her needs.
Size matter as much as the age difference.
Of course I meant sarcastically.
So you had a $50 but got two $25 change😂😂😂😂
24 year age difference .. together 25 years .. still twice a week
Size matters for roomy women.
Vaginas are like ears, they keep growing as women get older. 😂
If your woman rejects Karyn’s message, this channel is not for you, you have bigger problems. Seek help!
Bank account size and D size matter to womwn. Imagine if men said we have weight limits....women over 130lbs and under C cup (natural only) are less worthy of a man.
I'm 65 and I loved sex.
My wife hates it.
It's been 14 years or is it 15.
I'm somewhat handsome and well endowed.
I wish I had a passionate, sexual relationship but sex discussions, touch and everything else is off the table.
Ugggh that sucks! I can tell I’m on my way because my wife has a freaking schedule. Hate to say it I’m there for our beautiful 3 kids. I do love her but she got kids from me and sex is dry. I can’t tell you how women at my job appreciate my looks and my fragrances. I get at work what I desire to have at home. Yet, I know for every compliment I get a work there’s a poor soul involved with them that’s most likely going through what I’m going through.
Her mother said it was a good size
And her sister wanted to marry me.
Please know that when women get older and go through the change of life/menopause, it’s true that sex can become painful. The blood flow is just not what it used to be, just like for men, and the cushion has disappeared. The skin stays thin and can tear without that blood flow pumping things up. Taking boron capsules can help during menopause with lubrication and desire/drive. Even after an orgasm in menopause, there can be very little lubrication. It’s crazy and frustrating! So it can be women and their women ways, making excuses to avoid intimacy, but they could be telling the truth if their hormones are whacked out.
How old are the women you’re seeing?
@@Yay-hovah I don’t understand your question. Are you asking Karen that and not me?
@@Hebrewess8 I was asking you, but I didn’t realize you were a female. I’m well over 40 years old but I have no experience with women over 35.
True this happens to women and it is scary to experience this change. Men have issues too as they get older. I think each partner can be compassionate and supportive and do what they can to improve the intimacy. Emotional Love and support really will make your wife want to please you.
Anatomy of a Ken doll would probably be preferrable.
I have never measured myself. The thought always seemed kind of silly to me. I've never compared myself to other men in locker rooms. Never going to check out another guys junk! I'd guess that I'm average size. I've only ever been with one woman (my now x-wife). She always told me I was to large for her. I'd guess that woman's insides are built as differently as their outsides and while some woman may be able to take more others can't. I'll never feel insecure about my size though. I am what I am. Everybody is different.
FACTS!👍
I believe this statement based on "average is good enough" in a marriage. BUT, I think in the realm of having sex for the sake of fun, women typically look for a man above average in size.
In the Chinese medicine there is an understanding of matching size being important - the man and woman need to match. All the nerves need stimulation and without jamming. This isn't too difficult, and when it doesn't work out it isn't the end of the world, but, it is relevant enough that it was studied until it became a science in Old China.
Bigger, smaller, no, no - matching.
And I will also say, either it doesn't matter OR you can feel better about average. Not both. Men are logical. It makes no sense to say "it doesn't matter" and then keep talking about it
SO I'M REALLY NOT SMELLY AND REPULSIVE?
Try eating a better diet
my wife of 14 years was with a guy befor me for 4 years. he was alot bigger and im pretty big . you could tell. 3 months later we went together perfectly
Not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.
After being married for a while, the relationship starts to become boring. She starts To realize and remember when she was more promiscuous with Chad. Even if Chad wasn’t any better than you and her mind being able to be with him allowed her to be free and psychologically only had to worry about herself.
27:01 this part is so true and so good!
Does size matter is the wrong question. If she's had many partners, which is common these days, the question should be what is her size preference range. Many say average is fine, but they think average is 6" or more and when they get a true average size, they think it's small, especially, if it's at the low end of average. In such a case, they may think they can be satisfied long term with smaller, but sometimes find that is not the case. The comparison here of small with good skills versus large with poor skills is a false comparison that is often made. Large with good skills vs small with good skills is the correct comparison. However, if she truly does love her man, then there are ample avenues for a rewarding s3x life.
Tightness matters.
It certainly does! However, if it's not there a good man/most men will work around the issue if the gal is otherwise worth it. A sweetheart.
On the other hand, most women would never do the shoe on the other foot calculation and just walk away. Or, at the right time use the cudgel.
Dear men, fwiw, I apologize for my fellow women. Most are just awful. No wonder I can't find any female friends. Since I don't believe in women having male friends, I'm glad I have a good dog!
I thought this might help me understand… and it did… but also broke my heart even more. Have stopped enjoying the limited sex we do have few times a year if I’m lucky. I’m super attracted to my wife she just does it for me and threw all sizes it doesn’t matter thick thin she queen. But the pressure of making it count when it’s really happens the judgment you know is coming, criticism, the look on her face, the feeling of she’s rather be anywhere but there in you mind. The routine of for-play to give the orgasm befor you ever even get undressed at times. Maybe even multiple times to just build its up. The mind can only except so much pain. The ability to even force the mind to shut off feelings during the process just to preform so you don’t feel the pain. The longing for happiness and comfort in your partner, to just be heart broken everytime is the slowest torture to endure.
Like custom fit clothing, you want it just right.😂
Marla Hooch was the slugger you were talking about. The reason John Loveitz was startled by her b/c that was his long lost twin sister😂😂😂. 3 important quotes to take away from A League of Their Own:
“There’s no crying in baseball”.
“Sip don’t slurp”.
“Legs crossed, a lady reveals nothing”.
How do I get my girlfriend to stop abusing me verbally for no reason. She tests my strength but it’s getting worse.
That’s an easy! Replace her.
Somehow get her to listen to Karen’s videos. If she refuses then let her go. I had a wife for 30+ years who verbally and emotionally abused me. I found the answers why in Karen’s words.
Lay the smack down
Drop her…
You’re lucky, it’s not too late to break up with her. Give her the boot, because I promise she will never change, never ever.
The truth we have not mentioned is that not every man can be good in bed. It is not just about learning sex techniques or skills. There are several medical, psychological and mental health situations that cause men to be poor in bed and most of these problems are not curable, so we need to address the reality that a large percentage of men can not be good in bed and find solutions to cater for men and couples in these situations.
Let’s not be silly. Size does matter if it’s tiny or gigantic. IMO average is best, and that’s how I like all the parts of my man.
No i would rather have a plump larger size sagittarius redhead woman who likes to be adventurous and married over fifty years it would be nice 😊
Fabulous job.
Her excuse used to be it was just too big. I always found that ironic.
Some ladies have a dryness problem and it could hurt them. If you put KY on your member it will slide in and out easier and she will enjoy it a lot more.
@@carlmanis879 I'm sure a woman knows better than a man what the problem is and whether or not she has a problem with wetness.
@@carlmanis879 I HAVE to use lube. My recently dumped ex-girlfriend WOULDN'T let me employ tried and true techniques to get her off during foreplay so I could enjoy our intimacy with vigor. Accused me of making her feel like a robot. She REFUSES to enjoy. The last straw was trying to get to watch a few selected "Happy Wife School" videos. I was just about to put a ring on her finger too. Glad I found Karyn before I made a HUGE mistake. I'm 64 and was JUST about to settle. I am more than confident in my bedroom skills. Dating is hard at this age. Guess I'll embrace the single life one more time. Will NOT settle for a sexless relationship
If it’s longer than the vagina it can hurt.
Even if it's true that the penis is too long, you can adjust your position or use less thrusting force so it doesn't go too deep
Size does matter period, but u can do other things to make up for it. Its just like anything else is relationships ur lacking in something and cant fix then you better have something else amazing so ur flaws are acceptable. And everyone has flaws
Her size also matters! 😂
Please add more episodes to Spotify
Watch 5 Easy Pieces. Then ask how the Jack Nicholson character would have handled such a complaint.
I’m average I would say but it’s your mindset.
God or whoever you look up to have it to you so you gotta deal with what you got.
It also can’t seem small or big to your woman if she is also a virgin and Innocent.
You gotta find a girl like that if you are always comparing yourself.
I have taught my son this same thing. It doesn’t matter what anyone else says this is your life you dictate the thoughts in your head.
I don’t think size matters IF you REALLY loves the man. my own understanding is this: one single man can’t have 100% of what most women are looking for in a husband. My advice to men: take extremely good care of yourself & develop yourself in all areas so that if you’re dumped for any reason, it will not hurt you a bit.
Yes size matters
A whole lotta pandering to beta males in this video 😂
11:01 "A woman's beauty is stolen from her, then sold back to her in a bottle"
Size shaming has become normalized toward men- the same men who get cancelled for even looking at a woman