this is why i love youtube vs regular tv: going to the comment section and seeing what other people think. it's like watching it with a group of friends beside you.
I CRIED. Her mother in law was so sweet, precious and respectful. She said " *if* she wants to wear it". She never imposed anything, it was all so respectful and caring. She brought a treasure and with her beautiful way of letting the bride choose, just stole my heart. She was there patient and quiet, I just want to cry.
I sell bridal and I’ve had a bride come in at 9 am for her wedding at 4 pm that day. There was an accident with her initial dress but she still walked out with a designer dress and my incredible alterations team got her pinned and altered before the wedding. Laurie is so right when she said, just because it’s last minute doesn’t mean you don’t deserve your bridal moment.
My cousin only had a few hours to find a dress the day of her wedding because their house burned down. When they were initially going through stuff they thought it was fine, but when we went to go out it on her the day of we realized part of the dress had melted and she couldn't wear it. She managed to walk out of a store with a much better dress
So do I! A very sweet lady that reminds me of my Mother in law (or my 2nd Mama) I absolutely loved her and she treated me like her own! This lady will be blessed to have her, just like I was with mine!
She must have been so delighted at how happy the bride looked when she put it on. She wasn't wearing it as a favour, she really loved it. The groom was probably also really touched.
Everyone acts like people will regret the dress for the rest of their lives... Like, it's no big deal if it's the wrong dress. If it's the wrong guy, then you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
I see what you're saying but I don't completely agree. She chose her man after months, if not years, of dating. She had an opportunity to choose a person she thinks is the absolute best for her. She should have the same chance to choose a dress that she thinks is best for her, for her big day. Nobody gets into a marriage thinking they are going to separate (meaning regret is abstract, a speculation). A wedding dress brings with it a huge sentimental value, so I think it is a big deal.
@Umang Aggarwal marriage can be done without a wedding, which is what the bride was initially interested in doing anyway. Plus vows can be renewed and a ceremony can be thrown for that (there are even couples that renew their vows every anniversary) so if she didn't like her wedding dress or didn't get to wear a dress, she can just wear a preferable one in the renew ceremony. Way too much importance is put on that wedding down, it's symbolic but at the end of the day it's still a dress.
I agree to that line of thought as well. What I'm trying to say is let's not polarize this. Let's not say it's not that important versus it's the most important thing. I do assume for most women a wedding is one of the biggest life events (you can always renew vows, yes but it's not the same as that one event that marks the beginning of new life (this is true for most Indians at least). My comment is not about this particular bride but brides in general. I have seen how a persons opinion on how the dress isn't that important can be disheartening. I think it's a subjective element but let's not say it's not important.
@@umangagga Mmm. I think in such a rush situation one would probably be more open minded and accept a way wider range of dresses without regretting it because it comes with "I really wanted to marry him before we left, so the dress was 'perfect'", but I do agree that it should be something that at least still feels a bit you and not completely someone else.
@@juhduarte4573 and things still could've changed between the time she registered and the time she originally planned to shop for dresses. As was said already, in the military, you don't know when you're going to be deployed until just days beforehand. Sometimes even hours.
The mother in law’s gesture was so thoughtful and sweet. Those intentions that might appear small are actually big. It shows that she cares , that she loves her daughter in law. Also the mommy was awesome, convincing her daughter to get a dress, that’s maybe a rushed wedding but it’s still her wedding.
That grandmother in law is what I always strive to be. She brought the veil, in case the girl wanted to wear it. She demanded nothing! Those moms lose everything. Those daughter in laws are the gateway to your sons and grandchildren. You should always treat them kindly and with respect. My daughter in laws are precious to me.
The veil is what made me cry. The continuity, that the mother in law is welcoming her into the family by offering her own veil, and then her own mother says, okay, now she looks like a bride.
eskimokiss that’s a military relationship for ya. Still haven’t had my honeymoon and know many in the same boat. It’s the sacrifice when you love someone.
I was in a similar situation. I was engaged for a year to my high-school sweetheart. I was 17 and had plans to marry him in October before he was sent out on deployment after I had turned 18. Well it was a week before I turned 18 and we found out his deployment got moved up to a day after I turned 18. So I had a week to scramble and get a marriage license ready and find a dress, which I did for $10 at a thrift shop. We got married at the court house on my 18th birthday, and will be married for 10 years this August. Some days I still wish I had the big wedding I planned (and already paid for) but I remember that I'm still married to my best friend all these years later.
6:25 I love her mother in law. Just for the way she said "I brought it *if* she wanted to wear it" she didn't care about her own feelings, she wanted to offer to her Daughter in law something she cherished but she did not PUSH it on her. I looooove that, I see women (especially moms, mils, and sisters) get HELLA catty and mean with the bride. But this lady is just trying to be there for her DIL and I love that. 😍
I’ve seen so many episodes and clips of mother’s or grandmother’s or in law’s pushing and being so mean to the bride because it’s not “their vision” yet this lady was like “hey no pressure I brought it but I respect it’s your wedding”
My dad was in the Navy, and he was getting shipped out and wouldn't be back by the wedding day that they had planned, they had a very quick wedding, but my mum didn't care about the wedding dress, as long as she was marrying my dad, so she wore a lovely dress that could be worn again. Mum and her aunt and cousin were going to make (they all made tailored suits etc for a living) the wedding dress for the original date, but didn't have time to make it, before my dad left.
She is a beautiful bride, I love how she took her mother’s wish into consideration on such a short notice. Not to mention she wears her mother in law veiled out of respect for her. You can tell she is a wonderful person. Y’all people need to stop being rude, she looks younger than her mother, she is probably just exhausted, tired and worried, imagine doing everything that she does in such a short amount of time. Congratulations to the beautiful couple, and safe journey home to the husband and thank you for your service.
@indira delfino. What a thoughtful, classy response from you! We should all just wish them well, pray for their joyful reunion, and thank him for his service! His job is NOT an easy one.
The way she smiles and looks at him and she wears a dress for her mother and her mother in laws veil such a pure heart I'm praying for his safe return they deserve a life together
True she is kind to want to make her mom happy. I Pray she will have a happy life ahead of her. But it's sad they have to be separated for 9 months. That is too much.
"We tried in every fitted dress in her size.. And it didn't fit" So it wasn't her size 😑 as soon as they went a size up it fit. Like.... You didn't think to try going up a size when you saw they weren't fitting? *facepalm*
They may have tried dresses from different makes. Those could vary from the maker with the size. Its kinda same with prom dresses (may be the wrong occasion).
These are sample dresses, they generally only have a couple sizes available per dress. So they tried a couple things her mom picked first, then they had togo with something else entirely.
they should have gotten married at the courthouse without a dress. then when he comes home she gets a dress and an actual weddings but renewing their vows with more family and friends edit: i realize she was worried he wouldn’t come home, but I understand but just my opinion
I don't know if it's staged or real but the fact that bride hurried to marry her fiance before he deported to Afghanistan is something proving their incredible love.. hope they will be together happily forever..
Did it really take them 4 hours to realize the bride is a bigger size than she first said? That should have been obvious after dress#2 wouldn’t zip up.
It didn't take that long to realise it, it's because her budget was 2,000 dollars and she needed a fitted, bring-out dress - that in itself is a wide filtering. Then they needed something her size. The staff were under an intense amount of pressure which is why they probably got a little stressed. After that, they needed to find something that both her and her mother liked. If you look at it, then there's only 3 or 4 dresses left that she could actually have worn with all those different categorizations.
Thank you for pointing that out, I was thinking the same thing. I've noticed on this show that the brides lie about their size because they hate being a bigger size, and it must be super awkward for the consultants to be like, "Sorry hun, you just don't fit the size that you think you do."
One of the first things the bridal shop said to me was ‘these dresses run small, so don’t worry about the number let’s just get one that fits you’. I’m usually a size 10/12 and my dress was marked as a 14.
I believe it completes the picture indeed but above all, while she is getting the veil etc, the mother/father, whoever disagrees, has the time to realise that it is not their wedding but her's and they need to make the bride feel beautifull and accept, "love" her choice. I believe is a very smart way on behalf of the store, to help the bride get what she need; both the dress she prefers and the aproval/acceptance of her family and friends ;)
Whether she did or not isn't the point. Mum was gracious and looking for a way to be solid with her daughter's choice. I honour mums who do this...supporting her daughter making her own choice and her own style.
I think because the mom wants what she wants she can't see that her daughter could be a bride in any other gown. Once the veil is on its like a complete picture. The vision is clear.
What’s with all the moms trying to pick the daughters dresses for them? It’s their wedding day! You were once married, you picked the dress of your dreams now it’s your daughters turn!!
I suspect they had their own ceremony hijacked by their own mothers and relations- and yet years later, they perpetuate the cycle. Thankfully, quite a few mothers break the cycle.
@@christinetollman6422 Oh helllllllllllll no. Not a chance. Nope. Gray’s at the top of my list and he already put a ring on it so sorry but you can have the off brand Gray. Lyon. He, you can have.
Well if they did the media tent every “designer” has a size chart depending on that like I’m a 10 in some and 16 on others if the consultants where professionals they would have known this already and saved her some time
Love this show, stg love it, they hate the dress and then they put the veil on, a literal piece of fabric and they’re like, ITS PERFECT, I LOVE IT, THATS THE ONE ✋🏼🥲😭🤣
Also looks like they recorded the interviews way before the fitting since the bride says "the moment I turned around and saw myself in the veil" while she didn't turn around whatsoever 😂
The mother in law is just darling. I love the sentimental value of her beautiful veil being passed on down. Makes it a family heirloom that could be cherished forever. What a lovely gesture. She looked stunning
i hope the bride does pass it down i have learned that asian families don't have that sentimental attachment to things and my aunt has been hurt many times by her DIL saying i dont want your old crap when it was something she'd been saving for decades to hand down to her DIL or even grand children we're hoping one of the 4 of them will have some of that sentimentality and will want the things, otherwise she might as well sell them to a stranger. so it was super sweet of them to use the veil!
oh and just to be clear i didn't base my opinion on just my cousin's wife we have 2 other asians in the family different races and they are all lacking that sentimentality. some will have it but its just not the norm.
In most of the scenarios the daughter is very very considerate of her mother’s opinions ,her choices and her happiness. But when it comes to the mother, she’ll brush off the daughter’s feelings like some dust. And they call this generation shitty 🙄
My family had a bridal store in a town that allowed people to just walk in and get married, no planning, now appointments no waiting. So we actually rented wedding gowns and bridesmaids dresses and kept bouquets and boutonnieres pre-made in all kinds of colors so we could get a wedding party out the door in about a half hour.
I know that was all last minute but that was the most romantic beautiful wedding on this show. The mom was so sweet how she loved the wedding dress because that’s what made the daughter happy. I love mothers like that! ❤️
So I looked him up, cuz I wanted to see if he made it back safely. He did..... but he’s resigned before he could get fired from 3 different law enforcement agencies for violence against others. Even had his certification suspended for ten years after the second time. And her Facebook doesn’t have him on it at all so I think they divorced 😬😬😬 Guess you never really know about people. (Update: there’s been debate in the comments whether they are married or not, I’m not sure if legally they still are, but they are not together anymore. I finally found his Facebook, and he has it listed as single, and she deleted him as a friend as well.)
I think Lori was sporting this before the Karen movement became more known. Plus I have seen Karen's in all shapes and sizes, it's more how they talk that you know if they are a Karen or not.
"We got 5 more hours together and are going to marry. let's go dress shopping in the meantime." Only in America. This weird hightened idea of THE dress and its meaning.
The mom wanted to see her in a dress. He might not come back and her daughter might not have a proper wedding... the girl wanted give a wedding her mom wanted to see with someone she loves.
She just wanted that het daughter got the most beautiful dress. She did it for het daughter to make her happy. Asian moms can't really express them selfs, but always wants the best for her childeren.
I’m glad she wanted to at least have a dress at the court house. Tomorrow isn’t promised so at least she can have her bride moment before he’s shipped off
Eva, I agree with you. If the dresses were all samples in only one size, the fitter would not have been able to locate the dress "one size" up that she did locate. She should have done it sooner!
When the women have boobs size up amd then size down if it's to big. Not hard. So annoying they want to create fake drama for camera instead of just give her a few good ones to start with
With all this mess in Afghanistan happening now in August 2021, I wonder if her husband made it back home to her. It’s a good thing they got married before his deployment.
Welcome to another episode of: Mom: This is not your dress. Owner: puts on a veil Mom:oh!! It looks beautiful!! Edit:1k likes!! Thank you guys..you all made my day😄😄
I don't think they actually change their mind about those dresses. It's more like it's the moment a mother realises that her role as advisor have finished and she should just support daughters decision pretending she loves the dress
What an emotional story. Such a caring daughter, honorable husband and family- including the in-laws. And the bride looked romantically gorgeous. Best wishes to all of them! On another note, the voiceover man has such an appealing voice and way of speaking.
"But if she doesn't walk up the steps to that courtroom in a dress that she absolutely LOVES, she will REGRET IT today, tomorrow, and for the REST OF HER LIFE" This is how the wedding industry traps you before they rip the tens of thousands off of your hips like Cinderella's first gown
I can understand why she wanted a dress, but they could always have had another wedding when he got back🤷🏾♀️ Edit: I 100 percent get that his job is very difficult, and there is unfortunately a high chance that these soldiers don't come back, but I was trying to look on the bright side, and yes, I do get that a second marriage isn't for everyone😁
Partially because of the need for drama since it's reality tv, but I think it was mostly down to the fact that she didn't have too many choices, to begin with. She wanted a figure-hugging but also an embellished dress by the 5pm. They probably pulled dresses in her regular dress and not bridal size as well, hoping that one of them would miraculously fit. Also, certain styles can be more forgiving size-wise. For instance, a dress with a corset back is more adjustable than one with a zipper or buttons. After all, sizing can be a miss sometimes. Kinda how your pants size can change from store to store.
Agreed, Abdullah. Why don’t we put actual measurements on women’s clothes, e.g., Bust 40 max, Waist 36” max, Hips 41” max. I’m feeling disgusted with manufacturing making clothes “vanity sized” where a size 10 is labeled as size 6. I have actually taken in a tape measure-hold it across the hips, double that and see if it can fit me before trying it on. I still need to actually try on a garment to see how it fits other areas like the bodice, upper back curve, etc. Sandra Betzina actually redid sizes using letters (A, B, C,…) and allowing a larger waist/hip ratio. Praying 🙏 for fit better with alterations. Maybe AI, Vogue! I’m so tired of this fitting dilemma. Shouldn’t be so hard. Maybe 3D printing or having customized patterns or machines take measurements then can adjust for pant length and flatter butt, etc. At almost 70 years of age I am experimenting with my own patterns so I can do it myself using fabulous designer fabrics!!! Affordable Luxury Togs (clothing).
why didn't they just get married at the court house in the clothes they already wore. and then planned for a dream wedding ceremony once he got back from deployment... I'm confusion Edit: A lot of you read my comment wrong. I know why they got married legally at the court house. Be stupid not too. But it just sucks that she had to rush to find her dream wedding dress because of her mother. And I didn’t understand why hours before the wedding that decision was made to actually get a standard wedding dress! Whenever it wasn’t her wishes.
Aw. My heart melted when she said she overheard her mom say she wanted to see her in a wedding gown and she wanted to get that for her. 😢 thats sweet that she would stress herself to deliver that to her.
"I heard my mom said she wanted to see me in a wedding dress" me: "damn this is so scripted" *sees mom is asian* I understand buddy I understand :'))), It's even a miracle she allowed her to be wed in a courthouse
My mom is Caribbean. I completely understood as well. She has a THING about where it is appropriate to get married, AND on what you should wear. At my wedding I didnt tell her I had a white satin and black lace dress made until it was too late. Good God almighty.....lol that was a moment
For those of you saying that they cpuld have the wedding when he comes back, nearly half of of all of all military deaths in Afghanistan come from ieds. If you don’t know what that is, the man basically finds bombs and has to disable them. There’s a huge chance that he will die, it’s not like surgery chances where everyone just ignores probability and nothing ever happens; the chance of death on deployment is very real. And for those of you saying she’s just marrying him for spousal benefits, i think that’s bs. If you really love someone, you’d marry them even you know that they’ll die tomorrow. They probably waited last moment because usually soldiers are notified days before, sometimes even on the spot when they are deployed.
Aww..... another dependa looking for benefits.....smh..and YES I CAN say that as A VETERAN!!! I've served with so MANY, that jump into these shoddy marriages and end up paying when they come home from deployment.....
@@maymay5812 i HATE it when they say that their soldiers are "heros" and that they do sooo much for their beloved motherland LIKE WHAT COULD SOMEONE IDK 6000KM AWAY DO TO HARM AMERICA
I really dont blame this girl. They maybe thought they had more time but just found out he was headed out. And to get a dress for her mama to be so happy, I think is sweet. Best of luck to this couple and thanks to the hubby for his service. 🇺🇲
Msfinable un nope it’s a way of him making more money, you get 2000+ extra pay just for being married. It’s a military inside joke that military people marry fast for that paycheck
I walked in a store the day before my wedding, got my dress , wore it like a queen the next day! It always amazes me how big of a deal it is to pick a dress in the US!
You have to be able to wear the sample size though. My sister did the same thing as you but she was very tiny and tall, so she didn’t need any alterations. It’s a little harder if you aren’t built right for the dresses on the rack
Not always - this is on TV because of the drama... I honestly could not tell you what my dress looked like - I liked it at the time but I'm SURE I'd never choose it again... I walked in, tried on three dresses, picked one that was MUCH lower than my parents were willing to spend, and I've never regretted it.
@@jtidema My parents weren't paying for anything at all (which is fine, I have 5 siblings and they aren't obligated to in the first place) si I just got a simple white dress that I could wear after the wedding for like $300. It was great, never regretted it. I wear it every year on out anniversary.
That'd be me. 😂 I'm short (5'1) but as I'm a farmer I have quite broad shoulders and also massive ribs, then there's the "baby squish" that's been stuck to my gut for the last 10 years. 😂 I'm normally a 16-18 in the UK so about 12-14 in America. I guess bridal dresses are usually made small she said? So I'd end up with a 16-18 😂
My sister is getting married in August, and her fiancé said, "I don't care how we get married, it could be in a court house or something extravagant, I just want to marry you" Edit: Not to sound cheesy, but thanks for all the likes and comments, and they are seriously meant for each other, he was supposed to be in Japan when they met, and my sis hasn't have the best experience with relationships, so she said no to going on a date with him at first, but he was consistent and it has worked out really well! 😁
I love how unfussy she is, and she did good, she looked fabulous. Timeless. I could not be partnered with someone with such a high risk job, my anxiety and heart wouldn’t be able to take it! I won’t even date firefighters! 😂 they’re both very brave. We’re lucky to have men like him in the service, thank you Sir, God Bless.
Then marry an Albanian lmaooo. It's cultural that the bride comes wayyyy later, like an hour or two, from the actual wedding time. You will have an extra hour or two to find a dress
Oh c'mon mom , she already agreed wear a dress , let her choose the style . I mean even in rush your daughter agrees and goes wedding dress shopping but the mom like "no I don't like the dress " when there's like less than hour left (( selfish
@@nil-8026 The daughter said she wanted mermaid. Mother says, no. I want to see her in a ball gown. That's not watching out for her. That's her opinion.
In case you haven't noticed, the mom is Asian. Keeping traditions is extremely important to a lot of Asian families, especially if they are living in a more "Western" country. But yeah I agree that she was being unrealistic about the situation. They could have compromised by getting a simple white dress that could easily pass as a wedding dress.
This is the equivalent to doing your homework while the teacher collects it
I laughed while reading this. So me in hs
🤣😉😀
Haha...epic comment😅😂😂😂
More like doing a final exam where the questions are handed out 1 hour before collecting them.
I felt that
this is why i love youtube vs regular tv: going to the comment section and seeing what other people think. it's like watching it with a group of friends beside you.
I like that thought
I was wishing for a comment section while watching an old show on HULU just last night! The shade.
That's actually a nice point!
Ikr!
Ohh it's the same for me! I love that
And they were horrified to hear brides who needs dress days before the wedding. Now it's hours. There's a first for everything. 😆
Soon itll be 30min
@Raya Rayan 30 seconds..........
Although I'm a guy and probably know the answer to this, can you even step into an unknown wedding gown and have it sit right within 5 minutes?
Anders Carlsson you can, but it’s pretty hard to do. I stepped into my mom’s and it fit perfectly
Azeren Orikawa please don’t ever have kids
I CRIED. Her mother in law was so sweet, precious and respectful. She said " *if* she wants to wear it". She never imposed anything, it was all so respectful and caring. She brought a treasure and with her beautiful way of letting the bride choose, just stole my heart. She was there patient and quiet, I just want to cry.
So cry a little more becoz they are divorced now
@@roshnipatel3253 🤣🤣🤣 that made me laugh... Hey, how do you know???
@@lauracastillo8733 just googled her nd the groom's name there was a divorce article from some official website
@@roshnipatel3253 Omg u ruined it! I feel sorry for the mother in law the most.😂😂😂
Well, it was still a beautiful moment 🥲
I sell bridal and I’ve had a bride come in at 9 am for her wedding at 4 pm that day. There was an accident with her initial dress but she still walked out with a designer dress and my incredible alterations team got her pinned and altered before the wedding. Laurie is so right when she said, just because it’s last minute doesn’t mean you don’t deserve your bridal moment.
My cousin only had a few hours to find a dress the day of her wedding because their house burned down. When they were initially going through stuff they thought it was fine, but when we went to go out it on her the day of we realized part of the dress had melted and she couldn't wear it. She managed to walk out of a store with a much better dress
You're amazing.
you’re a hero I hope you know that
I love people like you.
God bless you and your team!
5:53 Her mom does a really good disapproving-asian-mom head shake.
I am a quarter Indian and Spanish and then half Irish and I think shes got my grandma beat.
5:54
Lololol
@Who knows who are you to tell people if they are Asian or not? It's their culture regardless of percentages
Who knows as a full asian we don’t claim her
I LOVE her mother in law. She brought it just incase she wanted to wear it. So sweet.
Yeah, and I love how she didn’t push it. She just had it as an opinion
Very sweet 💕
So do I! A very sweet lady that reminds me of my Mother in law (or my 2nd Mama) I absolutely loved her and she treated me like her own! This lady will be blessed to have her, just like I was with mine!
Yeah I really loved her
She must have been so delighted at how happy the bride looked when she put it on. She wasn't wearing it as a favour, she really loved it. The groom was probably also really touched.
Everyone acts like people will regret the dress for the rest of their lives... Like, it's no big deal if it's the wrong dress. If it's the wrong guy, then you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
I see what you're saying but I don't completely agree. She chose her man after months, if not years, of dating. She had an opportunity to choose a person she thinks is the absolute best for her. She should have the same chance to choose a dress that she thinks is best for her, for her big day. Nobody gets into a marriage thinking they are going to separate (meaning regret is abstract, a speculation). A wedding dress brings with it a huge sentimental value, so I think it is a big deal.
@Umang Aggarwal marriage can be done without a wedding, which is what the bride was initially interested in doing anyway. Plus vows can be renewed and a ceremony can be thrown for that (there are even couples that renew their vows every anniversary) so if she didn't like her wedding dress or didn't get to wear a dress, she can just wear a preferable one in the renew ceremony. Way too much importance is put on that wedding down, it's symbolic but at the end of the day it's still a dress.
I agree to that line of thought as well. What I'm trying to say is let's not polarize this. Let's not say it's not that important versus it's the most important thing. I do assume for most women a wedding is one of the biggest life events (you can always renew vows, yes but it's not the same as that one event that marks the beginning of new life (this is true for most Indians at least). My comment is not about this particular bride but brides in general. I have seen how a persons opinion on how the dress isn't that important can be disheartening. I think it's a subjective element but let's not say it's not important.
Agree.. it is just a dress .. not a life saving surgery
@@umangagga Mmm. I think in such a rush situation one would probably be more open minded and accept a way wider range of dresses without regretting it because it comes with "I really wanted to marry him before we left, so the dress was 'perfect'", but I do agree that it should be something that at least still feels a bit you and not completely someone else.
She has to be married by 5 that day, but has time to conduct all of these confessional clips and interviews!
she can do it when returning the dress
Returning?!?! She bought it, right?!?
You know those can be filmed earlier or even after right lol?
@@CONGLOMERATE32 Earlier would make it even more fake
Lol yes
Do people realise that they don’t give the soldiers much time before telling them that or being deployed... like a few days she didn’t have a choice
Bryony Hendry my brother is in the army. He training was 72 hours away and in that time it was canceled and then Uncanceled in that time.
Actually you have to register weeks before to participate in the show, so the store knew about the wedding day.
Juh Duarte yeah and if she has so little time why is she filming a tv show tf
Bryony Hendry they do that so the soldiers don’t have time to run away
@@juhduarte4573 and things still could've changed between the time she registered and the time she originally planned to shop for dresses. As was said already, in the military, you don't know when you're going to be deployed until just days beforehand. Sometimes even hours.
Am I the only one who doesn’t care if shows like this are scripted or not. It’s still entertaining af 😂
Me. I'm just bored so I clicked this while eating pistachios 🤣
What accent does Lori have?
Nishtha P Southern?
Wooo ive never had a thought tht this show could be scripted coz its just so natural
@@sardsagai7114 Reality TV is always scripted in some way. Maybe not the reactions on this show though, but in other ways yes.
The mother in law’s gesture was so thoughtful and sweet. Those intentions that might appear small are actually big. It shows that she cares , that she loves her daughter in law.
Also the mommy was awesome, convincing her daughter to get a dress, that’s maybe a rushed wedding but it’s still her wedding.
That grandmother in law is what I always strive to be. She brought the veil, in case the girl wanted to wear it. She demanded nothing! Those moms lose everything. Those daughter in laws are the gateway to your sons and grandchildren. You should always treat them kindly and with respect. My daughter in laws are precious to me.
The veil is what made me cry. The continuity, that the mother in law is welcoming her into the family by offering her own veil, and then her own mother says, okay, now she looks like a bride.
I feel bad for the bride... no honey moon and she won't be seeing her now husband for 9 months :(
eskimokiss that’s a military relationship for ya. Still haven’t had my honeymoon and know many in the same boat. It’s the sacrifice when you love someone.
But the homecmoing honey moon will be stinking amazing!!
💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️💁🏻♀️ their choice for doing it so last minute
She could have waited 9 months though, enough time for choosing a dress
It’s not ideal, but she fell in love with a service member...That’s life.
Omg, her mother looks like her younger sister.
leila djemai not true at all
I think it's the makeup.
I was looking for this comment only😂😂
Probably her daughter
Agreeeeee
Anyone who doesn’t live in the US can see how extremely American this is
People in America see how American it is too 💁🏻♀️
The bride is horrible too. Has this nice guy by the...
Yes. The dress seems like a huge event. I got mine online at a discount, not very eventful.
@nightwishnemo damn... You don't know them
@nightwishnemo who hurt you? Grow up
I was in a similar situation. I was engaged for a year to my high-school sweetheart. I was 17 and had plans to marry him in October before he was sent out on deployment after I had turned 18. Well it was a week before I turned 18 and we found out his deployment got moved up to a day after I turned 18. So I had a week to scramble and get a marriage license ready and find a dress, which I did for $10 at a thrift shop. We got married at the court house on my 18th birthday, and will be married for 10 years this August. Some days I still wish I had the big wedding I planned (and already paid for) but I remember that I'm still married to my best friend all these years later.
Maybe on your 25-year anniversary you can renew your vows and have a big blow out wedding and reception.
It’s never too late to have a wedding even after your married
I’d look into getting your vows renewed. It’s a really sweet way to have the big wedding you probably wanted.
I say you and your husband should renew your vows and make it that dream wedding ❤
Do it anyway on a monumental year
I cringe everytime a mother shoots down the bride's choice.
Mom please 😂
100% my mothee
@@spagetd1526 sameeeee lol was like that for my grad dress and my prom dress too
Moira Anderson this is practically every Asian and Indian mom.
@@Thepc425 We've seen that a few times on this show too. Makes me cringe.
The mother in law is so sweet. She emphasized that "if she (bride) wants to wear it". Adorable!
In my heart, that’s her way of saying she totally approves.
Life will be good for them.
I hope he got home safe & well.
I thought of it as her 'something old and borrowed' It was so sweet!
Mhm!
That was my favorite part. That veil was the glue to make it happen! And it was so gorgeous!!
6:25 I love her mother in law. Just for the way she said "I brought it *if* she wanted to wear it" she didn't care about her own feelings, she wanted to offer to her Daughter in law something she cherished but she did not PUSH it on her. I looooove that, I see women (especially moms, mils, and sisters) get HELLA catty and mean with the bride. But this lady is just trying to be there for her DIL and I love that. 😍
What she said and bringing the veil is really sweet. Not a lot of mother-in-laws are that so she is lucky!
Same omg🥺
I’ve seen so many episodes and clips of mother’s or grandmother’s or in law’s pushing and being so mean to the bride because it’s not “their vision” yet this lady was like “hey no pressure I brought it but I respect it’s your wedding”
The mother-in-law ("this old lady") should be "this *older* lady." 😊
Omg I noticed that too! So lovely
I found it sweet that she credited her mom to have good taste in clothes, even though it's not her taste
Getting married in 5 hours!
Everyone- Lets shoot an episode.
My dad was in the Navy, and he was getting shipped out and wouldn't be back by the wedding day that they had planned, they had a very quick wedding, but my mum didn't care about the wedding dress, as long as she was marrying my dad, so she wore a lovely dress that could be worn again. Mum and her aunt and cousin were going to make (they all made tailored suits etc for a living) the wedding dress for the original date, but didn't have time to make it, before my dad left.
Ikr lmao
@@jennysmith38 that escalated quick
FR
Lmao I thought why no one isn't talking about that 🤣 thank you 😂
This is like me when I finally pull out the homework that was in my bag and it is due tomorrow
Lillian is Lazy more like when you forgot you had homework and find it in your bag before the next class so you rush it
Sheart 88 yeah lol
Lol i do mine during class
Try ten minutes lol
This would be me doing my homework while the teacher is collecting it.
All: The dress is horrible.
1 minute later same dress with a veil.
Everybody (mother included) the dress is PERRRRRFECT (tears included)
🤦🏽♀️
*Every other show
@@phoenixdavida8987 ya right
ikr😂 for me, the veil are not even that great. she shud try longer veil, it might suit the dress better
I had to like to get rid of that number 😬
But with her mom the veil added the view she wanted it to be and plus it’s her wedding and not her moms wedding
Omg her mother in law is so kind
“If she want to try “ stole my heart
She is a beautiful bride, I love how she took her mother’s wish into consideration on such a short notice. Not to mention she wears her mother in law veiled out of respect for her. You can tell she is a wonderful person. Y’all people need to stop being rude, she looks younger than her mother, she is probably just exhausted, tired and worried, imagine doing everything that she does in such a short amount of time. Congratulations to the beautiful couple, and safe journey home to the husband and thank you for your service.
Thank you for this comment !! It's just so easy to judge ... So difficult to empathize !
@indira delfino. What a thoughtful, classy response from you! We should all just wish them well, pray for their joyful reunion, and thank him for his service! His job is NOT an easy one.
I agree with you
She's probably afraid he's not coming back. Listen to her in the beginning. 😢
Well said 👍
This reminds me of the movie Shrek when Fiona said to lord Farquaad "Let's get married before sunset "
Wow...
Lol
Hahahah
bruh😭
Always love a shrek reference 🥰
The way she smiles and looks at him and she wears a dress for her mother and her mother in laws veil such a pure heart I'm praying for his safe return they deserve a life together
What? She is not a quality woman.
Mara T. How do you know
True she is kind to want to make her mom happy. I Pray she will have a happy life ahead of her. But it's sad they have to be separated for 9 months. That is too much.
@@marat.8866 bro what are u even talking about? Tf
@@marat.8866 Nah, *you're* the one that doesn't seem like a quality woman. Imagine bringing others down for no reason at all.
I don't understand why it took them hours to say "if the fitted gowns aren't fitting you at the size you say you are, then lets go up a size".
No she said bridal gowns run small compared to regular dresses so if you're normally a 6, that's not your bridal size.
"We tried in every fitted dress in her size.. And it didn't fit"
So it wasn't her size 😑 as soon as they went a size up it fit. Like.... You didn't think to try going up a size when you saw they weren't fitting? *facepalm*
THANK YOU!
Dress sizes are different everywhere....
They may have tried dresses from different makes. Those could vary from the maker with the size. Its kinda same with prom dresses (may be the wrong occasion).
These are sample dresses, they generally only have a couple sizes available per dress. So they tried a couple things her mom picked first, then they had togo with something else entirely.
I totally agree!
they should have gotten married at the courthouse without a dress. then when he comes home she gets a dress and an actual weddings but renewing their vows with more family and friends
edit: i realize she was worried he wouldn’t come home, but I understand but just my opinion
Although a good idea but is not the same. That moment when you say I do for the first time ever is unique. But hey that's just my POV.
If he comes back. His position has the most amount of deaths
They can have a wedding party and she can wear the same dress. You can wear nice dress to courthouse too.
@@bussingbees what?
@@lenitadsouza8302 The groom was deployed to Afghanistan the day after the wedding.
Let her spend some time with her fiancé instead of dress shopping!! That is probably the reason she was rushing.
Thought so too. I suspect she didn't care all that much about the dress or the wedding details, just wanted to marry her man before he had to leave
Right
I'd do it too... She had her reasons I'm sure... ❤❤❤❤❤
No it’s just bad acting
Anon If that was all true than why wait until literally the last second to Marry? Sounds very suspect.
I don't know if it's staged or real but the fact that bride hurried to marry her fiance before he deported to Afghanistan is something proving their incredible love.. hope they will be together happily forever..
I am pretty sure they divorced
@@rebeccaandzacharysepicchan4493source?
They will getting married in 5hrs but then they still have time for interview2x chuchu? 😅
Jayvie Cole it’s exactly what I thought
i'm guessing she did the interview afterwards, she wasn't leaving the country like him so she had enough time for that
Presuming, Second camera shoots his interview while first camera setup is doing her dress choices. She does her interview later.
I thought the same😂 i believe she walked in some other day requesting a dress by next week . Deft to add drama by TLC!
Exactly...I was thinking d same😀
Honestly that veil did not go with that dress but to each their own.
But it was a kind thing to do for the mother in law.
I think it match, puffy dress with a puffy veil will make her look like puffer fish. Glad she went with her own choice.
Ya it really bothered me because the veil was poofy and the dress was tight
Doesn’t really matter at that point since the wedding is literally in 5 minutes.
Saved by GRACE the veil looked hideous but the mother in law was so sweet I would’ve just worn it anyway
Did it really take them 4 hours to realize the bride is a bigger size than she first said? That should have been obvious after dress#2 wouldn’t zip up.
It didn't take that long to realise it, it's because her budget was 2,000 dollars and she needed a fitted, bring-out dress - that in itself is a wide filtering. Then they needed something her size. The staff were under an intense amount of pressure which is why they probably got a little stressed. After that, they needed to find something that both her and her mother liked. If you look at it, then there's only 3 or 4 dresses left that she could actually have worn with all those different categorizations.
Thank you for pointing that out, I was thinking the same thing. I've noticed on this show that the brides lie about their size because they hate being a bigger size, and it must be super awkward for the consultants to be like, "Sorry hun, you just don't fit the size that you think you do."
One of the first things the bridal shop said to me was ‘these dresses run small, so don’t worry about the number let’s just get one that fits you’. I’m usually a size 10/12 and my dress was marked as a 14.
She needs to admit she wears a bigger size.
@@heatherpaar1980 Stuffed sausage dress.
That’s honestly so amazing. Their wedding was so pretty, outside with all the fall colours. And her dress was gorgeous. I’m happy for them
OMG again with the: Put on a veil and suddenly the dress mum hated is stunning.......sigh
I dont think mum still liked dress. Think time was running out and she was being polite lol
I believe it completes the picture indeed but above all, while she is getting the veil etc, the mother/father, whoever disagrees, has the time to realise that it is not their wedding but her's and they need to make the bride feel beautifull and accept, "love" her choice. I believe is a very smart way on behalf of the store, to help the bride get what she need; both the dress she prefers and the aproval/acceptance of her family and friends ;)
Whether she did or not isn't the point. Mum was gracious and looking for a way to be solid with her daughter's choice. I honour mums who do this...supporting her daughter making her own choice and her own style.
Sometimes I think say yes tells the mom to say no at first, just to create drama
I think because the mom wants what she wants she can't see that her daughter could be a bride in any other gown. Once the veil is on its like a complete picture. The vision is clear.
"I saw myself in the dress with the veil, it makes it look very real" GURL UR GETTING MARRIED IN 5 HOURS IT IS VERY REAL
LOLROTF at your realistic view of the situation. You've got it right.
This made me laugh so much 😂
LOL according to the timer they had like half an hour at that point, even crazier
Why is this show not called “Say Yes to the Veil” like you could add a veil to a garbage bag and they would be like
“oMg ThAt iS BeAuTiFuL OmG”😍😍
Had me sister suffocating over here LMAOOOOO.
because a veil does make every bride stunning, its just the finishing touch to every bridal gown
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Hahaha
I read it with a voice like the real relatives hahaha
BYEE THIS IS SO FUNNY
What’s with all the moms trying to pick the daughters dresses for them? It’s their wedding day! You were once married, you picked the dress of your dreams now it’s your daughters turn!!
i know right like your time has passed let ur daughter where what she wants to wear
I suspect they had their own ceremony hijacked by their own mothers and relations- and yet years later, they perpetuate the cycle. Thankfully, quite a few mothers break the cycle.
I will fight you because I’m grays wife
@@christinetollman6422 Oh helllllllllllll no. Not a chance. Nope. Gray’s at the top of my list and he already put a ring on it so sorry but you can have the off brand Gray. Lyon. He, you can have.
makes good tv
Consultant: I cant get the dress on you. We've tried all the dresses in your size and none of them fit.
Me:...
Then maybe that isnt actually her size.
Me: let’s try a dress her *actual* size and not the size she THINKS she is.
Exactly, like isn’t it obvious?
The consultant said that wedding dresses tend to be small, especially the fitted ones, so they would likely always need to go one size bigger.
Exactly
Well if they did the media tent every “designer” has a size chart depending on that like I’m a 10 in some and 16 on others if the consultants where professionals they would have known this already and saved her some time
When your Mom looks younger than you because she's a full blooded Asian queen.
They look like sisters
Right she looks older than her age
I was looking for this comment! Lol 😂
Yes but also the daughter wears a lot of makeup
Fern Fernis Fernie the mom definitely looks older than older than her
Lori has haircut of a karen but she isn't an karen.
This is the best comment i ever seen
@@sekararum749 Thanks
😂😂😂😂😂
She grew out the karen cut and now has a very stylish bob
She’s the Ultra rare legendary hybrid princess good Karen
Love this show, stg love it, they hate the dress and then they put the veil on, a literal piece of fabric and they’re like, ITS PERFECT, I LOVE IT, THATS THE ONE ✋🏼🥲😭🤣
NO LITERALLY OMG
And with the bridesmaids they put a belt and then BOOM
Marrying in 5 hours ? yet by magic the camera crews there and to interview them get each family member opinion all the shots 🎥angles etc.🙄😏
They are there for that sole reason... Maybe? I mean... That's what they need ... So? Why not?
Also looks like they recorded the interviews way before the fitting since the bride says "the moment I turned around and saw myself in the veil" while she didn't turn around whatsoever 😂
Right? Like I've heard stories about how people on this show are there for hours. I mean, I bet that COULD pull it off, but still
They did it after the wedding
Shame... People are madly in love n getting married and All you could think of was the crew... U need a life... Seriously
They really need to rename this “Say Thanks to the Veil” or something fr
Exactly, there seems to always be someone who is unsure about the dress until that magic veil goes on.
all hail the veil lmao
Say yay to the veil or something
Britan got talent
@@scxrlatte That's it. That's the title
The mother in law is just darling. I love the sentimental value of her beautiful veil being passed on down. Makes it a family heirloom that could be cherished forever. What a lovely gesture. She looked stunning
Even the courthouse was so classy. Her wedding turned out awesome.
i hope the bride does pass it down i have learned that asian families don't have that sentimental attachment to things and my aunt has been hurt many times by her DIL saying i dont want your old crap when it was something she'd been saving for decades to hand down to her DIL or even grand children we're hoping one of the 4 of them will have some of that sentimentality and will want the things, otherwise she might as well sell them to a stranger. so it was super sweet of them to use the veil!
oh and just to be clear i didn't base my opinion on just my cousin's wife we have 2 other asians in the family different races and they are all lacking that sentimentality. some will have it but its just not the norm.
In most of the scenarios the daughter is very very considerate of her mother’s opinions ,her choices and her happiness. But when it comes to the mother, she’ll brush off the daughter’s feelings like some dust. And they call this generation shitty 🙄
Bride's mother is younger than her daughter!
No lies
I think it's just the dark eye make up & her eyebrows. I think thicker ones would frame her face nicely. She's still pretty!
@@thanamesny7807 obviously she's pretty!
@@tatabyebye7782 I know! 😊
Asian moms
Next time a man's gonna propose to a woman he should put a veil over her head and then ask if she'd marry him. Apparently they can't say no to that 😂
Lol🤣
😂
😂😂🤣👰🤵lolll,
Um army????
Someone actually did that on this show lol
My family had a bridal store in a town that allowed people to just walk in and get married, no planning, now appointments no waiting. So we actually rented wedding gowns and bridesmaids dresses and kept bouquets and boutonnieres pre-made in all kinds of colors so we could get a wedding party out the door in about a half hour.
You have one smart family.
I don't know weather that's crazy or brilliant lol probably both!
I love this!!!
@@Chuck0856 indeed
in what state is that? Nevada?
I know that was all last minute but that was the most romantic beautiful wedding on this show. The mom was so sweet how she loved the wedding dress because that’s what made the daughter happy. I love mothers like that! ❤️
So I looked him up, cuz I wanted to see if he made it back safely. He did..... but he’s resigned before he could get fired from 3 different law enforcement agencies for violence against others. Even had his certification suspended for ten years after the second time. And her Facebook doesn’t have him on it at all so I think they divorced 😬😬😬 Guess you never really know about people.
(Update: there’s been debate in the comments whether they are married or not, I’m not sure if legally they still are, but they are not together anymore. I finally found his Facebook, and he has it listed as single, and she deleted him as a friend as well.)
Ohhhh that's so sad, 😔.... But it was good of you @miriah Smith to look up as I also love to know what happened next
🙀🙀🙀🙀
Wow. Thanks, Miss Sherlock Homes. 🤣
Yeah it kinda seemed like yeah they loved each other but also, Military benefits...
I was wondering...thanks for doing the detective work.
This is the most karen like haircut doing the most unkaren like thing ever
What’s a Karen haircut?
Lori is an angel, even if it is just for the camera, I love her
@@louannhuber2651 basically anything Kate from Kate plus 8 would have
A Karen haircut. Gees!
I think Lori was sporting this before the Karen movement became more known. Plus I have seen Karen's in all shapes and sizes, it's more how they talk that you know if they are a Karen or not.
I really liked the mother in law, she said: I brought it (the veil) *IF* she wants to wear it.
ΠΑΝΑΓΙΩΤΗΣ ΜΠΟΖΟΣ she really seemed super sweet.
The consultant is very emphatic and understanding
Girl: let's go out
Army guys: I know a spot..*takes her to courthouse to get married*
Lol
Lots of financial and social incentives to get married from what I hear.
Lmao
*dependa*
Bruhhh I know at least a dozen battle buddies that fit this stereo type to a T🤣🤣
"We got 5 more hours together and are going to marry. let's go dress shopping in the meantime."
Only in America. This weird hightened idea of THE dress and its meaning.
Ma yfLOwEr he's leaving the next day
Don't worry. It's all for tv.
It was her mom that wanted it. It helps to pay attention to the episode while it's playing.
I don’t think it’s just an American thing, actually the whole tradition started with Queen Victoria.
The mom wanted to see her in a dress. He might not come back and her daughter might not have a proper wedding... the girl wanted give a wedding her mom wanted to see with someone she loves.
The mother should let her child choose what she want, it’s the brides day
Emespher she’s chinese i think
so some mothers is like that
she just want her daughter to be fabulous
and also she already respected the wishes of her mom wanting her to wear one in the first place
Mothers aren’t always that easy to get through
@@ettienne5532 nah, she's Korean. Doesn't change the fact she's an Asian mom though
She just wanted that het daughter got the most beautiful dress. She did it for het daughter to make her happy. Asian moms can't really express them selfs, but always wants the best for her childeren.
I love the idea of putting a timer on a wedding. Cuts through a lot of overspending, dread and family tensions
I’m glad she wanted to at least have a dress at the court house. Tomorrow isn’t promised so at least she can have her bride moment before he’s shipped off
alexangel Thank you. Well said!
Oh the first 7 dresses didn't zip up let's try getting a bigger size NO DUH y'all wasting her time ! Should have done that in the beginning
All of the dresses that are in this show are samples so its really a guessing game whether it will fit or not.
Eva, I agree with you. If the dresses were all samples in only one size, the fitter would not have been able to locate the dress "one size" up that she did locate. She should have done it sooner!
Oh wow dresses didn't fit so you decided to SIZE UP?!!! How genius!!!! 😱 coulda never thought of that!
Because of the few hours til the wedding they had to grab the dresses from the rack, that usually come in one size only.
When the women have boobs size up amd then size down if it's to big. Not hard. So annoying they want to create fake drama for camera instead of just give her a few good ones to start with
@@fredrikahaggblom5877 they still had dresses sized up... But skipped it for drama
Hahahahaha!
Also don't understand why they didn't show a single corset back dress. Those are much more forgiving, size wise
With all this mess in Afghanistan happening now in August 2021, I wonder if her husband made it back home to her. It’s a good thing they got married before his deployment.
I was thinking that too!
Same, this did not age well
Yes!!! We need an update
G-d bless them. What a gorgeous couple!
A place the US never should have been
Lori: When is the wedding ?
Bride: at 5 o'clock
Lori: *Pikachu face*
😂😂🤣🤣🤣
*surprised pikachu face
Welcome to another episode of:
Mom: This is not your dress.
Owner: puts on a veil
Mom:oh!! It looks beautiful!!
Edit:1k likes!! Thank you guys..you all made my day😄😄
I don't think they actually change their mind about those dresses. It's more like it's the moment a mother realises that her role as advisor have finished and she should just support daughters decision pretending she loves the dress
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Lol i love this comment 🤣👌
To be fair, I didn't have that bridal moment till I put on the veil.
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Why didn’t they just go up a size earlier lmao they would have saved so much time.
I hope to God this soldier made it home 🙏🏾
Me too!!! 🙏
Same
He did and they got divorced in 2016
@@noumihassan3919 omg nooo... How do u know? Their social media?
@@kj9308 i googled their names and the court order of the divorce came up :(
The music that played when she introduced her fiancé was the beginning of a murder case investigation 💀💀
😂😂😂
Right?! I kept thinking to myself “bro, blink twice if you’re being held hostage!”
🤣🤣
hahaahaha yeah
=))
This show solves life problems...
“When ever you and your mother are disagreeing....
Just put a veil on”- 2020
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This looks like it’s from 2007 and you can’t convince me otherwise
maybe its the makeup 😂
Animal Society tbh it probably is
Nope January 28 2020 sucks
Just saw an article that this episode is from 2014, also currently she does not have the husband's last name
Her eyeshadow 😂
What an emotional story. Such a caring daughter, honorable husband and family- including the in-laws. And the bride looked romantically gorgeous. Best wishes to all of them! On another note, the voiceover man has such an appealing voice and way of speaking.
"But if she doesn't walk up the steps to that courtroom in a dress that she absolutely LOVES, she will REGRET IT today, tomorrow, and for the REST OF HER LIFE"
This is how the wedding industry traps you before they rip the tens of thousands off of your hips like Cinderella's first gown
They should do a re-wedding when he returns.
Yeah they should that's the only reason they did one hours before they might not come back
Exactly what I was thinking like do a re new vows kinda thing
If he returns
More like if
Yeah! Because I feel bad that it was rushed and probably not her picture perfect wedding...
Before the veil everyone’s like “no it’s gross, I don’t like it” and after it’s “perfect, she looks like a real bride”
Except the veil made it look worse 🤣🤣
all staged , and yes the veil looks ugly
shyjovi
Ikr
For reallllllll
The veil is an heirloom don’t be asses
Ok so nobody is gonna talk about the fact that she is just soo pretty
I can understand why she wanted a dress, but they could always have had another wedding when he got back🤷🏾♀️
Edit: I 100 percent get that his job is very difficult, and there is unfortunately a high chance that these soldiers don't come back, but I was trying to look on the bright side, and yes, I do get that a second marriage isn't for everyone😁
Sometimes you never know what'll happen in 9 months
Well she mentioned that her mother wanted to see her in a wedding dress 💁
Most soldiers do it for the extra pay (-speaking as a soldier myself!)
the thing is that he may never come back ...
@@Dolled_up_monk A baby?
"Bridal tends to run small so we're going one size up"
Um, why didn't they do that from the start
Maybe she was just trying to make her feel better?
Then there isn't much entertainment in that, they want drama.
Because they are trying to save the ego of the bride.
Partially because of the need for drama since it's reality tv, but I think it was mostly down to the fact that she didn't have too many choices, to begin with. She wanted a figure-hugging but also an embellished dress by the 5pm. They probably pulled dresses in her regular dress and not bridal size as well, hoping that one of them would miraculously fit. Also, certain styles can be more forgiving size-wise. For instance, a dress with a corset back is more adjustable than one with a zipper or buttons. After all, sizing can be a miss sometimes. Kinda how your pants size can change from store to store.
Agreed, Abdullah. Why don’t we put actual measurements on women’s clothes, e.g., Bust 40 max, Waist 36” max, Hips 41” max. I’m feeling disgusted with manufacturing making clothes “vanity sized” where a size 10 is labeled as size 6. I have actually taken in a tape measure-hold it across the hips, double that and see if it can fit me before trying it on. I still need to actually try on a garment to see how it fits other areas like the bodice, upper back curve, etc. Sandra Betzina actually redid sizes using letters (A, B, C,…) and allowing a larger waist/hip ratio.
Praying 🙏 for fit better with alterations. Maybe AI, Vogue! I’m so tired of this fitting dilemma. Shouldn’t be so hard. Maybe 3D printing or having customized patterns or machines take measurements then can adjust for pant length and flatter butt, etc. At almost 70 years of age I am experimenting with my own patterns so I can do it myself using fabulous designer fabrics!!! Affordable Luxury Togs (clothing).
why didn't they just get married at the court house in the clothes they already wore. and then planned for a dream wedding ceremony once he got back from deployment... I'm confusion
Edit: A lot of you read my comment wrong. I know why they got married legally at the court house. Be stupid not too. But it just sucks that she had to rush to find her dream wedding dress because of her mother. And I didn’t understand why hours before the wedding that decision was made to actually get a standard wedding dress! Whenever it wasn’t her wishes.
@@incloudnine5433 he may never come back
He's going to Afghanistan for God's sake there's a chance that he might won't return
@@serenesnowstorm886 if you love him why wouldn't you?
@@serenesnowstorm886 that way you can have the widowhood pension lol
Because her mom wanted her to
Aw. My heart melted when she said she overheard her mom say she wanted to see her in a wedding gown and she wanted to get that for her. 😢 thats sweet that she would stress herself to deliver that to her.
When her mother said no I was literally like cmon on woman the wedding is in 2 hrs, are u gonna eat the dress if the wedding doesn't happen??
😂
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no joke, I fell over laughing at this comment!!
Just like your typical Asian mom 😂
"I heard my mom said she wanted to see me in a wedding dress"
me: "damn this is so scripted"
*sees mom is asian*
I understand buddy I understand :'))), It's even a miracle she allowed her to be wed in a courthouse
Asian mum agreed the moment she found out it would be broadcast on national TV
My mom is Caribbean. I completely understood as well. She has a THING about where it is appropriate to get married, AND on what you should wear. At my wedding I didnt tell her I had a white satin and black lace dress made until it was too late. Good God almighty.....lol that was a moment
@@DelGloTa haha such a classic but effective way to bypass such parents
For those of you saying that they cpuld have the wedding when he comes back, nearly half of of all of all military deaths in Afghanistan come from ieds. If you don’t know what that is, the man basically finds bombs and has to disable them. There’s a huge chance that he will die, it’s not like surgery chances where everyone just ignores probability and nothing ever happens; the chance of death on deployment is very real. And for those of you saying she’s just marrying him for spousal benefits, i think that’s bs. If you really love someone, you’d marry them even you know that they’ll die tomorrow. They probably waited last moment because usually soldiers are notified days before, sometimes even on the spot when they are deployed.
And they want those benefits that’s why they rushed it
Aww..... another dependa looking for benefits.....smh..and YES I CAN say that as A VETERAN!!! I've served with so MANY, that jump into these shoddy marriages and end up paying when they come home from deployment.....
Americans don't need to be in other people's countries stealing there land and freedom oil and resources. I don't blame en
Maii yea they don’t
@@maymay5812 i HATE it when they say that their soldiers are "heros" and that they do sooo much for their beloved motherland LIKE WHAT COULD SOMEONE IDK 6000KM AWAY DO TO HARM AMERICA
I really dont blame this girl. They maybe thought they had more time but just found out he was headed out. And to get a dress for her mama to be so happy, I think is sweet. Best of luck to this couple and thanks to the hubby for his service. 🇺🇲
I love the fact that lori cared about the brides happiness more than the time remaining
Props to her for getting married to a guy right before he ships out. I could never I’d be heartbroken
That might be his way of making sure she would be at least financially safe if anything was to happen to him. I think that's romantic
Abby Baylis it literally happens all the time. Most of the time due to benefits. We see it all the time
Msfinable un nope it’s a way of him making more money, you get 2000+ extra pay just for being married. It’s a military inside joke that military people marry fast for that paycheck
@@adriennevelasco4098 also the wife gets informed if he dies a lot quicker than if she was just a girlfriend
She want that sweet sweet Tricare
I walked in a store the day before my wedding, got my dress , wore it like a queen the next day! It always amazes me how big of a deal it is to pick a dress in the US!
You have to be able to wear the sample size though. My sister did the same thing as you but she was very tiny and tall, so she didn’t need any alterations. It’s a little harder if you aren’t built right for the dresses on the rack
In my country we just mainly rent them they have a lace up back so they almost fit every one
Not always - this is on TV because of the drama... I honestly could not tell you what my dress looked like - I liked it at the time but I'm SURE I'd never choose it again... I walked in, tried on three dresses, picked one that was MUCH lower than my parents were willing to spend, and I've never regretted it.
@@jtidema My parents weren't paying for anything at all (which is fine, I have 5 siblings and they aren't obligated to in the first place) si I just got a simple white dress that I could wear after the wedding for like $300. It was great, never regretted it. I wear it every year on out anniversary.
That'd be me. 😂 I'm short (5'1) but as I'm a farmer I have quite broad shoulders and also massive ribs, then there's the "baby squish" that's been stuck to my gut for the last 10 years. 😂 I'm normally a 16-18 in the UK so about 12-14 in America. I guess bridal dresses are usually made small she said? So I'd end up with a 16-18 😂
Oh my god the mother in law giving/sharing her veil is just so touching and amazing!!
My sister is getting married in August, and her fiancé said, "I don't care how we get married, it could be in a court house or something extravagant, I just want to marry you"
Edit: Not to sound cheesy, but thanks for all the likes and comments, and they are seriously meant for each other, he was supposed to be in Japan when they met, and my sis hasn't have the best experience with relationships, so she said no to going on a date with him at first, but he was consistent and it has worked out really well! 😁
Miss Estee aww that’s so cuteeee
Thats me and my future wife
Awww.. how cute
Only good vibes her way. MashaAllah.
My husband said “i could marry you in a cow field and have cows attend our wedding for all i care”
I love how unfussy she is, and she did good, she looked fabulous. Timeless. I could not be partnered with someone with such a high risk job, my anxiety and heart wouldn’t be able to take it! I won’t even date firefighters! 😂 they’re both very brave. We’re lucky to have men like him in the service, thank you Sir, God Bless.
I'll have STRONG anxiety if I haven't even picked a dress in 5 hours for a special event lol
That’s me every time lol
Then marry an Albanian lmaooo. It's cultural that the bride comes wayyyy later, like an hour or two, from the actual wedding time. You will have an extra hour or two to find a dress
I get anxiety if im late 😂
The dress she came into the store in is gorgeous and mum's dress choice is absolutely stunning
The mother of the bride looks like her sister... Her YOUNGER sister
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she’s asian LOL
Yeah she looks young. She had the daughter when she was fifteen. I looked up there facebook.
@@hoolaboola2689 WTF?
No, she definitely looks older than her daughter, but she did have her daughter very young.
I hope he came back from his deployment and they have beautiful, happy and healthy life together
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How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe
Oh c'mon mom , she already agreed wear a dress , let her choose the style . I mean even in rush your daughter agrees and goes wedding dress shopping but the mom like "no I don't like the dress " when there's like less than hour left (( selfish
maybe she just doesn’t want her daughter to regret her wedding day when she looks back on it if she chooses the wrong dress
nil - but the daughter didn’t even want a dress to begin with she’s only wearing a dress for her mum
@@nil-8026 The daughter said she wanted mermaid. Mother says, no. I want to see her in a ball gown. That's not watching out for her. That's her opinion.
Mom's have dreams for their daughters too. Plus, she's paying. But in the end, it all works out for everybody. Yeah!!!
In case you haven't noticed, the mom is Asian. Keeping traditions is extremely important to a lot of Asian families, especially if they are living in a more "Western" country. But yeah I agree that she was being unrealistic about the situation. They could have compromised by getting a simple white dress that could easily pass as a wedding dress.
The grandma was so loverly, she made it super clear that the veil was only if the bride wanted it even tho it meant so much to her 😍
Mother-in-law.
"She has good taste in clothes. It's just not my taste." Very well said
Getting married in 5 hours, yet there was still time to assemble the camera crew,....riiiiiiiiiight.......!
Ikr
There are crews at Kleinfeld's. This episode was the action they were waiting for.
megalopolis2015 but that ain’t Kleinfelds
"reality tv"
Tauriel Daughter of Mirkwood they always have cameras
I think this is how you give bridal shop staff a heart attack lol
Okay but the reason why they married so spontanously is so cute and sad at the same time :(
There is nothing 'cute" about being deployed. Thank him from the bottom of your heart for his service.
@@theposhmaniac5169 deployment is fine
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Well he left the army and his Facebook says Single soooo