HOW TO BE AN ELEGANT WOMAN | LESSONS ON ELEGANCE MY MOTHER TAUGHT ME

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 2 лют 2025

КОМЕНТАРІ • 81

  • @dimphoselepe4542
    @dimphoselepe4542 Рік тому +181

    Lol your topics are always about " woman" but I find myself listening and growing here as a man. Thank you so much

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji Рік тому +60

    This is literally so crazy! Ever since I got back to church, the Holy Spirit has been constantly giving me tips on how to be more elegant & lady-like, most of which you mentioned in this video!🤞🏾 Also, I love the constant mention of kindness! I feel like kindness is a very important virtue which is so underrated.
    I also think it's very important for one to ensure that their kindness, or whatever good they do, stems from the right place. That is, from a good heart with nothing but pure motives & good intentions.🙃❤

    • @lefasharon
      @lefasharon Рік тому +4

      I love, love this 🥺 motives are very important. Doing good works for others should not stem from a place of “I am expecting something in return” . Sometimes we are called to extend grace to others (the same way God extends grace to us) , and that’s it. The goal is to be more like Jesus 🌸 God is our reward.

  • @sibongileveronica1787
    @sibongileveronica1787 Рік тому +11

    Dress how you want to be addressed🙌 💚.Just noticed that recently.And the fact that you can decide who to form close relation with based on how they dress.

  • @shaniaaliyah
    @shaniaaliyah Рік тому +8

    God really led me to your channel because everything you are saying i have learnt and i felt led that God has really been transitioning me into womanhood your a blessing x

  • @mispearl
    @mispearl Рік тому +3

    I love how your version of elegance is mostly based on character🙃💙.

  • @anelendlovu2071
    @anelendlovu2071 Рік тому +6

    Love this ,it's really important to dress in proper manner. One of the things I learned from my Mom and sister ,even the nails you put on as a women must be proper and elegant.

  • @S.phiwokuhle
    @S.phiwokuhle Рік тому +18

    The thing about womanly elegance is that if you had no one to teach you and you’re learning all by yourself it feels like you’re doing too much. Like dressing a certain way, saying no to doing certain things all in the name of elegance seems so silly but it’s so important to keep doing it regardless of how you feel but knowing that when other people see you they see elegance and that’s a reward in itself.

    • @MiraTalksFootball
      @MiraTalksFootball Рік тому +2

      I totally relate to this... Sometimes you wake up feeling it's too much to do and not necessary. Your reminder here 'you have to keep doing it'❤

  • @cathymagwenzi9378
    @cathymagwenzi9378 Рік тому +2

    Love everything here just encouraged my 16 year old daughter to subscribe to this amazing channel . Good to have a young person sold out for God ...more grace for you !

  • @lefasharon
    @lefasharon Рік тому +32

    “Boundaries are as equally important as kindness.” Girl that’s a whole word 😭 as a recovering people-pleaser, and someone who is kind and a generous giver, establishing boundaries has been so difficult. It almost feels like I’m letting people down but I’m learning that sometimes it is okay. 🌸 I cannot be everything to everyone and not be anything to myself.

    • @florencentombinyathi7980
      @florencentombinyathi7980 Рік тому +2

      Girl! Makes the two of us 😭

    • @Lucy-zc4tr
      @Lucy-zc4tr Рік тому +3

      Makes the 3 of us, I've recently learned that empathy without boundaries is self-destructive. We need to teach ourselves how far we can go to help others and also where extending our grace/help stops. 😊

    • @tsepisomokone2396
      @tsepisomokone2396 Рік тому +2

      Soo soo me.

    • @MiraTalksFootball
      @MiraTalksFootball Рік тому +1

      Mehn! This is not even a lie 😢

  • @charlenegandy9315
    @charlenegandy9315 Рік тому +2

    You are so right, I learned that same thing from my mother rest her sole. She was a lady and a woman of God, she was the first Lady of are church. So everything your saying is so true and I thank God for my mother teaching me and my sisters about being a lady. 😌🙏♥️⚘️💗🌷💞🌹 thank you for the video you have a blessed day.

  • @OMOLEMOGOITSEONANKOSI-jl6yr

    Wow most the tips you have mention literally exactly what my mom also installed or rather taught ever since I was young. Most especially about how you wear. And going to the nearest store with sleep or sleepers 'shoes'. You have basically said to all.

  • @chileshemusonda5144
    @chileshemusonda5144 Рік тому +5

    I thank God for your life I’m really learning a lot from you 🥺😩much love from 🇿🇲

  • @robyn_southafrica
    @robyn_southafrica Рік тому +12

    Your videos, Maya Graves and Angel Jackson of Habits of a Homemaker are my literal faves. Slowly but surely coming back to where I should be, aka in Jesus' orbit, and the tips and advice y'all ladies give are always on point 👌🏾 So thank you Khensani for being the woman you are and sharing even the most basic piece of advice.😘 God bless ❤️🙏🏾

  • @piwengema4534
    @piwengema4534 Рік тому +5

    OMG,your mother taught you a lot,thanks for such an inspiring lecture 👏

  • @boipelol1213
    @boipelol1213 Рік тому +3

    I love all the lessons. Thank you for sharing ❤.
    I find that if you eat sweets to refresh your breath you will actually make it worse. Sugar causes bad breath.

  • @Nolwaziie
    @Nolwaziie Рік тому +4

    Girl I love you..and am inspired by you to become a better person .❤❤

  • @trynesshara9379
    @trynesshara9379 Рік тому +3

    I have started missing Mondays with you khensie🥰. I'm learning to manage myself in a better way. Thank you 🤗

  • @ThembelihleX
    @ThembelihleX Рік тому +3

    I have grown so much from watching your videos❤Thank you for these videos God bless you Khensani❤❤

  • @BriixRosee
    @BriixRosee Рік тому

    I love your channel, as I am elevating in christ they are really benefiting me!

  • @AyzlPsalms
    @AyzlPsalms Рік тому +1

    ❤just grateful the Lord brought me here. Thank you for this wonderful video and have yourself a good day.

  • @sinovee
    @sinovee Рік тому

    This is one channelthat litetally adds value to my life. God bless you❤❤❤

  • @Gugsstar
    @Gugsstar Рік тому +1

    Thank you for these tips, I found it very helpful. It’s very important that we carry ourselves with elegance as women, because we are the future. Our generation of girls keeps wearing more and more revealing clothes and that is saddening because we see it from people of influence like celebrities.
    May the Lord bless you for empowering young women like me❤🙏🏽

  • @shepherd9945
    @shepherd9945 Рік тому

    Future Miss SA. I love how you carry yourself,God bless you.

  • @nolwazidube893
    @nolwazidube893 Рік тому

    Please do post on dressing modestly… I’m patiently waiting 😊

  • @SamanthaMotseki-wd4zu
    @SamanthaMotseki-wd4zu Рік тому +3

    Girl , I am definitely meeting you on the crystal sea..singing song of Moses and the Lamb one day.

  • @oliviashekinah
    @oliviashekinah Рік тому

    You really wise,you my inspiration ❤ sending Love from Zambia

  • @pearlhlubi3908
    @pearlhlubi3908 Рік тому

    The keeping water and mint advice love it

  • @alinaabed6082
    @alinaabed6082 Рік тому

    This is so good , girrl you just got yourself a new subie❤🇳🇦

  • @mphomaseko9226
    @mphomaseko9226 Рік тому

    Thanks for the awesome tips

  • @valenciajudge5337
    @valenciajudge5337 Рік тому +2

    I loved this❤
    Definitely waiting for the modesty video

  • @pulengsindimnguni1881
    @pulengsindimnguni1881 Рік тому +4

    I found you today on your emotional intelligence video. I'm sticking around, girl.

    • @Mrs.Khensani_Sitoe
      @Mrs.Khensani_Sitoe  Рік тому +1

      Welcome to the Khensi Sqaud! Happy to have you stick around ☺️❤️

    • @dimphoselepe4542
      @dimphoselepe4542 Рік тому

      I found it last week neh I wake up with it every morning

  • @mirandajustine9422
    @mirandajustine9422 Рік тому +10

    Younger vision of mpoomy ledwaba

  • @Nicky_M
    @Nicky_M Рік тому

    Tips,will help me and thank you

  • @PalesaV
    @PalesaV 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Tumelomalatji1
    @Tumelomalatji1 Рік тому +2

    Notification gang!💃

  • @phebbynakana
    @phebbynakana Рік тому

    ❤ WOW i love this thank you so much 🙏 im learning a lot from you❤

  • @gladoby1109
    @gladoby1109 Рік тому

    hi im14 and i want to be a model, fashion designer, musician, hairdresser and a make up artist so i mostly practice all these things on my body but i feel like girls my age think im in a competition with them and it makes me feel like i owe them explanations for who i want to be so i want to ask if its right for me to continue my training on my body

  • @smangelenocha2070
    @smangelenocha2070 Рік тому

    I really enjoyed watching this video ❤️

  • @gracelundu6818
    @gracelundu6818 Рік тому

    U are such an inspiration sweetheart ♥️🥰

  • @PheloDase
    @PheloDase Рік тому

    This is so beautiful! Thank you Khensi❤️. Which Bible app do you use?

  • @madidimalohazel
    @madidimalohazel Рік тому +1

    Gosh i love you woman of God❤

  • @kamogelostarr
    @kamogelostarr Рік тому

    My fav gal❤❤❤❤

  • @nompilozondo9836
    @nompilozondo9836 Рік тому +3

    Love this girl and please we want the modesty video asap ❤😂

  • @AvuzwaKeei
    @AvuzwaKeei Рік тому

    My mother taught me the importance of being an independent woman, study and get a job don’t depend on anyone.

  • @__thandoo
    @__thandoo Рік тому

    Love yah!❤

  • @anicebaratan-tw2tx
    @anicebaratan-tw2tx Рік тому

    Loved it!.

  • @debbiepeter3096
    @debbiepeter3096 Рік тому +1

    My fave❤❤😊

  • @nthabimoloi2866
    @nthabimoloi2866 Рік тому +1

    You look very beautiful Khensani

  • @sindisiwemasuku7758
    @sindisiwemasuku7758 Рік тому

    Amen ❤

  • @lizietanya2397
    @lizietanya2397 Рік тому

    Good one

  • @preciousk9212
    @preciousk9212 Рік тому

    Thank you so much

  • @mirandajustine9422
    @mirandajustine9422 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤inspired

  • @tshephangdesley7683
    @tshephangdesley7683 Рік тому

    I love you girl❤️

  • @aaliyahcooper22
    @aaliyahcooper22 Рік тому

    ✍✍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @natashamwewa9538
    @natashamwewa9538 Рік тому

    Always have a sweet 😂😂😂😂. Thankyou

  • @maureenbennett809
    @maureenbennett809 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤😁

  • @charmykekana
    @charmykekana Рік тому

    Found myself a New bestie..to follow

  • @tiegomotswedi6526
    @tiegomotswedi6526 Рік тому

    6:53

  • @izahchauke8409
    @izahchauke8409 Рік тому

    💐🌺❣️💖💓

  • @amandankomo1869
    @amandankomo1869 Рік тому

    Baby girl I love you❤

  • @zimemathembinkosi6483
    @zimemathembinkosi6483 11 місяців тому

    Please accept my gratitude ambasador of God Kingdom.

  • @RaphaelSitholeM
    @RaphaelSitholeM Рік тому

    As a man I'm blessed 😆

  • @serve932
    @serve932 Рік тому

    Dress how you want to be adressed