Giving Up BPD Age Regression
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- Age regression can give us a feeling of comfort and stability, and that's not an easy thing to walk away from.
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This is a very useful thought experiment and I'm probably going to think on this for a while. I have quiet BPD. I'm am an intentional age regressor with extensive experience, feel free to ask any questions. It feels like I'm trying to regress to an age where I can kind of take care of myself but still get to be loud and expressive.
I have this kneejerk reaction that keeps me from consciously putting myself at the center of the universe, but at the same time, I know that I probably manifest this in ways that I don't notice. I sometimes wonder if I can find a way to put myself at the center of my own universe without putting myself at the center of everyone else's. This is what I ultimately think self-parenting should be.
Instead of being the self-parent that tells you to man up, what if you can be the self-parent that shows yourself sympathy? Why not talk to yourself in a way that is almost embarrassingly sympathetic in private? You're already using words like "boo boo" in a negative context - what if you used them in a positive context, just for you in the comfort of your own home? What if that could help you feel validated for your intense feelings without making them someone else's problem? What if that ultimately produces a version of you that exhibits more empathy towards others?
Admittedly, I'm trying to do this exact thing right now. Thanks for posting such a helpful, thought provoking video! You seem like a good person.
This is an amazing video mate, it's helped me alot, thank you so much.
I'm the exact opposite. I could cut my entire finger off and not even tell anyone--unless I could gain something from doing so. Interacting with the CB community was actually what brought awareness and made me stop doing it.
I used to mention injuries/illness a long time ago, but it was based on a sense of entitlement, and I was quickly disgusted by people wanting to take care of me since I don't like being fussed over.
Clearly stems from childhood, as my mother took every opportunity to pamper me when I was sick--for her own gain though, so I can't stand it.
Interesting how similar causes can manifest in different outcomes.
Anyway, keep up the good work! 👍😁
My age regression depends mostly on going to sleep anytime something is too hard, which is always lol
Would love more vids from you about this topic
Quote of the video " i don't this support structure im becoming my own support structure
There are people that actually care though. We just shouldn’t expect it cause we adults.
Monte Python: It's but a flesh wound.😮
I'm sorry that you cut your hand. That hurts. I do care.