Not sure why ya so mad at him, cause he did the right thing by returning her back home. My husband always said whenever you have a problem, don’t ever go outside or step pot of your marriage and tell your problems too cause when other people know your problems they will said and judge you cause they all “think” they know your problems.
Mloog txoj no kuv tu siab quaj thaum nkawv tsis pub tus tub tham foos nrog nws niam tim ub Ua Ua tus mi tub tu siab ntsiag to cia li muaj mob ea kho tsis tau cia li tiag nrog kev tu siab hlub hlub tus mi tub ntawv tshaj plaws os
I am devastated and so sad for this child. All the adults in here are significantly immature and extremely selfish. I can’t believe the level of guilt that you all put this child through. Grow up! Don’t have children if you can’t mentally, emotionally regulate yourself first. It is not your son’s fault that your wife left you!!! You should be humbled that your son grew up to be a kind, loving, genuine, and thoughtful human being. How dare you strip the light away from him!
Very said story, I have a felling hurt a lot for this boy he has a dream he need love he grows up with out you both parent if he stay with you he has no love from mother if he stay with his mother he still need your love too, that is why they said children’s need to have both parent to be there I felt so much pain for this kid because he need love from both of his parent god bless him for next generation to have a good life thank you for sharing.
Zaj neej neeg no txaus tu siab heev os cas koj yuav siab dub ua luaj thiab os tus me txiv tsev aw...tim koj xwb koj tus me nyuam thiaj tsis nrog koj nyob lawm
In the new world, we should do what's best for our kids and not let our emotional relationship between the adults get in the way of our children's happiness. The right way is to share custody and have equal input to the child's life. Which, most adults failed to realize. The dad did nothing wrong. He did his diligence, and it's very unfortunate that the son passed away. At the end of the day, a child will always miss their mother more than their father. Poor kid. He didn't have a choice.
My heart aches for the boy. Vim peb Hmong lub siab yeej me2 tsis zoo li American people. May you RIP me tub. Nco ntsoov mus thov ntaub ntawv kom zoo2 es mas li los ua neeg dua mog.😭😭😭
Yog yuav tau I. Niag txiv es tseem niaj hnub mus nrog niag niam loj li koj ces xum riv mus nplog zoo dua thiab os. Yog koj yuav tau ib tug poj niam es niaj hnub rov mus rom niag qyb txiv ntahe koj haj yam tsis tuav os. Txij no mus yog koj yuav dua ib tug koj tseem ua koj thaj qub ces lawv yeej yuav tsis. nrog koj nyob ib yam. Koj tus poj niam los cas siab yuav me ua luaj thiab. Tis tau tuaj lawm xa me ntsis nyiaj mus rau nws niam xwb yeej tsis ua li xas. Lwm hnub nws loj nws ho mus tos nws niam los tsis uali cas nws twb muaj nws txiv lawm na. Yeej tim koj tsis yog tseem ib tug txij neej thiab ua dab tsis los tsis yseem ceeb
I don't get why everyone is mad at this guy. It was the Laos wife that left him. She got too petty and jealous about spending family time with the family. White people share custody and do events together all the time. And she went and got 2 boyfriends. Also, it was the Laos wife who made the son come to America, begging the dad to take him because she got remarried. Sad he died, but the dad didn't give him cancer.
💯 agreed. If the Lao girl have an open mind then she wouldn’t be where she at. She knew from day one he had kids. He just being co-parent to his children. Rip to the son.
I don’t think how he and his ex doing is good a co parents. Why I say that being good co parents you two don’t have to take vacation and spending time like they both still sleep in a same bed like that. He and his ex should have more respect the new wife and her new husband.
This guy is so annoying, he doesn't even see what he's doing wrong. I'm sorry but me and my husband don't take vacation with his ex. If we want to take the kids, we do it on our own time. Sorry but this guys doesn't deserve a good wife because clearly he's selfish. So sad how the kid had to suffered.
I agreed! You can co-parents and do things with the kids but you do not need to involve your exes in all your family vacations & functions. You both can throw a birthday party for the kids and both parents be there but doing what he did gone all day to his ex’s house definitely disrespected his 2nd wife! He should at least tag her along if he’s going to the ex’s place or just go pick up the kids to stay at his place.
You guys don't live with them how you know, maybe she was just using him to come to american, that's why she keep getting mad and leave. I would not keep her too if she kept running away.
Well done!!! Its call co-parenting people dont understand. Theres nothing wrong with what you and your ex is doing. Some hmong people are small hearted and always muab qhov npem los xav. Mother had a good plan setup for the son, she pushed him to come so that he can one day turn to bring her. But sadly things didnt turned out her way....
Tumor or cancer pib Los ntawm txoj kev tag kev cia siab. Kev hlub kev nco ua rau muaj mob thiab tuag taus. Kev cia siab kev sov siab ua rau tib neegnyob tsis muaj mob tsis laus nawb.
😊ob niag poj niam no siab me dhau lawm os. Nyob nyuag li no xwb es khib dab tsis. Yus tsis Yog tus yug lawv lawv yeej yuav tsis hlub mas. Tiam sis tsuav lawv tsis txub yus ua phem xwb ces tau lawm. Kuv li kuv kuj Yog ib tug niam tshiab hluas nkauj nyob miskas no yuav yawg nrauj Kuv kuj tsis ua li ob tug poj niam no ua thiab as. Lawv menyuam lawv hlub li cas los kav liam nws yeej tseem nrog nws tus qub poj niam tham txog cov menyuam tseem tso dag nrog thiab tiam sis kuv tsis khib as. Poj niam siab me ntshe yeej siab me
This is your journey. You handled your issues well, and you did what is best for you and your families. It every man for themselves. Life is not fair, and you did what you had to.
OMG!! Both of these women be petty af!!! Of course you still have to associate with your ex wife due to the kids. I understand why the 2nd wife was jealous bc associating with ex spouse for the children is not a norm in Thailand and Laos. The 3rd wife, your fault for asking to have the child come to the US. Yes, you had a big heart for that but you didn't have a big heart enough to accept that fact that the child will go back to loving her biological mother! And, the 2nd mom need to stop calling the child to instigate things too! Toxic toxic toxic!!! I feel so bad for the child coming into this world having to go through everything because of petty adults!!
Pab hlub koj tu me tub kawg li os tu txiv tsev aw.. tsis pom qab yuav hais zaj twg li thov kom nej cov txiv neej coj lub siab kom tu thiab es tej me nyuam thiaj tsis tu siab os .
Txog tav nov mam hnov tias muaj ib tus txiv neej muaj hlwb thiab ua tau txiv neej yawg lub hlwb Thiab nws tsis mloog nws tus kwv ntsuab nrab hais nws. My goodness. Feem coob lawv mloog lawv cov kwv hais es lawv cov poj niam mos ab thiaj muab lawv ua kob huam tas.
hlub tu me tub dhau lawm os cas nej e tsi hais tu niam lo tu txiv teeb meem tas nro yog neb xwb cas thaum kawg e neb tu me tub ho yog tu raug xwb o😢😢😢😢😢
Tus me txiv tsev aw cas koj yuav tsis txhawj ua ib leej txiv zoo li ho koj ua ua koj tus tub thiaj li nciam koj lawm thov kom koj yuav tsum noog nws niam mo thiab es koj tus tub thiaj yuav zoo siab nawj
Props to the guy for physically sending her all the way back. It’s very sad that the son died and that he had to keep his sadness to himself to keep the peace in the home. He has the right to miss his biological mom. The step-mom is a little dramatic/selfish.
One thing he could had done better is stop all communication between his Hmong Lao wife and the child so eventually, the child would forget his mom. But he let them talk all the time so of course the son will miss her. She's the one who told her son that everyone's receiving money from the US except her because who else would know this except the Hmong Lao.
Go but you don't have to be together just be with your kids it find❤ but everything you go take your new wife with you don't go alone if say no then that on her you have to talk with her first b4 you do with your kids
Hmong Lao are too smart now, not like a decade ago when this story occurred . No way now can you trick a Hmong Lao to go back to Laos like this guy did. The US government will send a man back but will never sent a woman back unless she committed a serious crime.
Niag txiv siab phem ...txhus ces yog tim koj nkaus xwb ..tim koj vom loj thiaj li tsim txoj kev tu siab rau sawv daws ...koj Mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws li
Tus neeg uas tau tuaj txog teb chaws no yog tus neeg muaj hmoo. Tabsis muaj tej tug neeg tau tuaj tebchaws no tsi ris tus ua tos nws tuaj riaj ntsim. Zoo li tej tug tuaj yuav peb tej tub. Tuaj txog tuaj ua tus phimnyuvias hla hiav txwv tuaj muab yus tsev neeg dlo. Zoo li ib hauv tshuaj tuaj lom yus tsev neeg mas tu siab kawg. Kuv zoo siab ua koj yog tus neeg ntse koj thiaj li muab koj tus pojniam hmong nplog xa rov qab. Txob tusiab rau qhov koj ua. Koj tus pojniam ntawv nws tau qhov nws ntshaw xwb
Not sure why ya so mad at him, cause he did the right thing by returning her back home. My husband always said whenever you have a problem, don’t ever go outside or step pot of your marriage and tell your problems too cause when other people know your problems they will said and judge you cause they all “think” they know your problems.
Mloog txoj no kuv tu siab quaj thaum nkawv tsis pub tus tub tham foos nrog nws niam tim ub Ua Ua tus mi tub tu siab ntsiag to cia li muaj mob ea kho tsis tau cia li tiag nrog kev tu siab hlub hlub tus mi tub ntawv tshaj plaws os
People that can’t make up their minds or have a small heart should just stay single. No need to involve innocent lives in your dramas.
The kid should have stayed with his mother in Laos
@@MTlee-zr4ohhis mother forced him to come and send her American $$.
I am devastated and so sad for this child. All the adults in here are significantly immature and extremely selfish. I can’t believe the level of guilt that you all put this child through. Grow up! Don’t have children if you can’t mentally, emotionally regulate yourself first. It is not your son’s fault that your wife left you!!! You should be humbled that your son grew up to be a kind, loving, genuine, and thoughtful human being. How dare you strip the light away from him!
Neb ua yog lawm. Yog obleeg yug obleeg yuav tu sib pab tu tej menyuam obleeg thiaj tau kev hlub thiaj tsis khaum
This is why a good man only marries one wife and loves his biological kids all his whole life…😩!
Very said story, I have a felling hurt a lot for this boy he has a dream he need love he grows up with out you both parent if he stay with you he has no love from mother if he stay with his mother he still need your love too, that is why they said children’s need to have both parent to be there I felt so much pain for this kid because he need love from both of his parent god bless him for next generation to have a good life thank you for sharing.
Zaj neej neeg no txaus tu siab heev os cas koj yuav siab dub ua luaj thiab os tus me txiv tsev aw...tim koj xwb koj tus me nyuam thiaj tsis nrog koj nyob lawm
In the new world, we should do what's best for our kids and not let our emotional relationship between the adults get in the way of our children's happiness. The right way is to share custody and have equal input to the child's life. Which, most adults failed to realize. The dad did nothing wrong. He did his diligence, and it's very unfortunate that the son passed away. At the end of the day, a child will always miss their mother more than their father. Poor kid. He didn't have a choice.
Love this kind of story!! Very satisfying!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Lawv CAs ua neeg nyob yuav tu siab ua luaj li no txoj no ma ua Kuv lub kua muag los lo kawg😢
Omg, my tears for you!! So sad, that everything around you affects the outcome, I hope you find some peace.
My heart aches for the boy. Vim peb Hmong lub siab yeej me2 tsis zoo li American people. May you RIP me tub. Nco ntsoov mus thov ntaub ntawv kom zoo2 es mas li los ua neeg dua mog.😭😭😭
Yog yuav tau I. Niag txiv es tseem niaj hnub mus nrog niag niam loj li koj ces xum riv mus nplog zoo dua thiab os. Yog koj yuav tau ib tug poj niam es niaj hnub rov mus rom niag qyb txiv ntahe koj haj yam tsis tuav os. Txij no mus yog koj yuav dua ib tug koj tseem ua koj thaj qub ces lawv yeej yuav tsis. nrog koj nyob ib yam. Koj tus poj niam los cas siab yuav me ua luaj thiab. Tis tau tuaj lawm xa me ntsis nyiaj mus rau nws niam xwb yeej tsis ua li xas. Lwm hnub nws loj nws ho mus tos nws niam los tsis uali cas nws twb muaj nws txiv lawm na. Yeej tim koj tsis yog tseem ib tug txij neej thiab ua dab tsis los tsis yseem ceeb
I don't get why everyone is mad at this guy. It was the Laos wife that left him. She got too petty and jealous about spending family time with the family. White people share custody and do events together all the time. And she went and got 2 boyfriends. Also, it was the Laos wife who made the son come to America, begging the dad to take him because she got remarried. Sad he died, but the dad didn't give him cancer.
💯 agreed. If the Lao girl have an open mind then she wouldn’t be where she at. She knew from day one he had kids. He just being co-parent to his children. Rip to the son.
I agree! It's actually a very good co-parenting relationship.
I agreed! If I married a guy with kids, I have to have a open mind and heart. Otherwise he would end up child support for 5 kids.
I don’t think how he and his ex doing is good a co parents. Why I say that being good co parents you two don’t have to take vacation and spending time like they both still sleep in a same bed like that. He and his ex should have more respect the new wife and her new husband.
The dad is still part of the problem.
This guy is so annoying, he doesn't even see what he's doing wrong. I'm sorry but me and my husband don't take vacation with his ex. If we want to take the kids, we do it on our own time. Sorry but this guys doesn't deserve a good wife because clearly he's selfish. So sad how the kid had to suffered.
I agreed! You can co-parents and do things with the kids but you do not need to involve your exes in all your family vacations & functions.
You both can throw a birthday party for the kids and both parents be there but doing what he did gone all day to his ex’s house definitely disrespected his 2nd wife! He should at least tag her along if he’s going to the ex’s place or just go pick up the kids to stay at his place.
You guys don't live with them how you know, maybe she was just using him to come to american, that's why she keep getting mad and leave. I would not keep her too if she kept running away.
Koj tus poj niam hmoob nplog mam raum tshaj li os tos mag xav rov qab na
😂😂😂😂❤❤ab niam ntsuab teev awlub neej no cas muah ntau yam ua luaj neeg lub neej o yom txaus hlub heev li o
Omg, this story makes me teary. No child should be away from their mom. Hlub tub me tub kawg li os
The kid should stay with his mother in Laos
Kuv xav ma tus txiv neej no dag lawm os
Yog kawg tim nws xwb os
Hai tau tu siab hee li os😢😢😢
To all the step parents, it is ok for all children to love their real parents.
😢 tu siab kawg li rau tus me tub
Well done!!! Its call co-parenting people dont understand. Theres nothing wrong with what you and your ex is doing. Some hmong people are small hearted and always muab qhov npem los xav.
Mother had a good plan setup for the son, she pushed him to come so that he can one day turn to bring her. But sadly things didnt turned out her way....
Nah, co-parenting ain’t going there every moment he’s called and take your new woman to watch ex spouse run happiness together
Agreed!
Txhua yam tim txiv dev xwb. Txhob liam rau tej pojniam li naw
True
Hom txiv neej tswj tsis tau yus tus yob ces muab ua haujsam thiaj li nyob taus2.
This is why parents should always give in to the best interest of the child. The children should not be punished and allow love from both parents.
Xas mus ces zoo lawm
Tumor or cancer pib Los ntawm txoj kev tag kev cia siab. Kev hlub kev nco ua rau muaj mob thiab tuag taus. Kev cia siab kev sov siab ua rau tib neegnyob tsis muaj mob tsis laus nawb.
Hlub thiab nrog nej Tu siab heev li os.😭😭😭😭😭 Tu nu a
😊ob niag poj niam no siab me dhau lawm os. Nyob nyuag li no xwb es khib dab tsis. Yus tsis Yog tus yug lawv lawv yeej yuav tsis hlub mas. Tiam sis tsuav lawv tsis txub yus ua phem xwb ces tau lawm. Kuv li kuv kuj Yog ib tug niam tshiab hluas nkauj nyob miskas no yuav yawg nrauj Kuv kuj tsis ua li ob tug poj niam no ua thiab as. Lawv menyuam lawv hlub li cas los kav liam nws yeej tseem nrog nws tus qub poj niam tham txog cov menyuam tseem tso dag nrog thiab tiam sis kuv tsis khib as. Poj niam siab me ntshe yeej siab me
Yog kawg
cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os
This is your journey. You handled your issues well, and you did what is best for you and your families. It every man for themselves. Life is not fair, and you did what you had to.
He just want his mother 😢 so sad
Txiv neej ruam siab kub ce zoo li kj ntag
Kev nyuaj siab ua rau neeg tuag tiag tiag
Cas hmoob miskas es yuav ua ntau tsav ntau yam tshaj plaws Li os yam tsis tau tsis Tau hnov los hmoob miskas ua txij ua txhua Li os .
Tus me nyuam no tej zaum Yog nws nyuaj siab heev es thiaj muaj tus mob no
Yog kawg he cause him dead
Wow 😭😭😭😭
This is the best emotional sad story
OMG!! Both of these women be petty af!!! Of course you still have to associate with your ex wife due to the kids. I understand why the 2nd wife was jealous bc associating with ex spouse for the children is not a norm in Thailand and Laos. The 3rd wife, your fault for asking to have the child come to the US. Yes, you had a big heart for that but you didn't have a big heart enough to accept that fact that the child will go back to loving her biological mother! And, the 2nd mom need to stop calling the child to instigate things too! Toxic toxic toxic!!! I feel so bad for the child coming into this world having to go through everything because of petty adults!!
Niam ntsuab teev cas kuv hnob koj zaj neej neeg no tas mas ua rau hlub2 tus me tub ntawd kawg li os.
😭❤️
Cov niam nkauj mos ab hmoov tag lawm thiaj xum tuaj yuav luag tej qub txiv xwb nawb lawv aw...
Koj Hai tau tu siab ua luaj o mi Viv n 😂😂😂😂
Pab hlub koj tu me tub kawg li os tu txiv tsev aw.. tsis pom qab yuav hais zaj twg li thov kom nej cov txiv neej coj lub siab kom tu thiab es tej me nyuam thiaj tsis tu siab os .
Pab hmoob meskas thiab nkauj hmoob nplog tu siab kawg li thiab 😢
Yog phem sub xw li
Txiv neej hmoob laus ma thiaj txawj cuab tse os
Txiv neej hmoob txoj kev ruam twm xeeb xav txog kev liam xwb thiaj tsim teeb meem teb chaws vam meej txog ntua nplog teb
This guy is clueless, he should stay single if he can’t get over his exes.
😢😢😢😢
youre my idol!
Nrog mi tub tu siab heev 😭
Koj ua yog kawg li lawm tab si pab hlub koj tus me tub xwb
Tu siab kawg li os
tu2 kv siab li os
Very sad…I feel bad for the child having to go through so much…
Txog tav nov mam hnov tias muaj ib tus txiv neej muaj hlwb thiab ua tau txiv neej yawg lub hlwb
Thiab nws tsis mloog nws tus kwv ntsuab nrab hais nws. My goodness. Feem coob lawv mloog lawv cov kwv hais es lawv cov poj niam mos ab thiaj muab lawv ua kob huam tas.
hlub tu me tub dhau lawm os cas nej e tsi hais tu niam lo tu txiv teeb meem tas nro yog neb xwb cas thaum kawg e neb tu me tub ho yog tu raug xwb o😢😢😢😢😢
Tu siab heev, teev tsis tau lub kua muag li os
tus txiv tsev no phem tiag2
Ua cas yuav hais tau zaj dab neeg tu siab ua lauj li os
Tus me txiv tsev aw cas koj yuav tsis txhawj ua ib leej txiv zoo li ho koj ua ua koj tus tub thiaj li nciam koj lawm thov kom koj yuav tsum noog nws niam mo thiab es koj tus tub thiaj yuav zoo siab nawj
Props to the guy for physically sending her all the way back. It’s very sad that the son died and that he had to keep his sadness to himself to keep the peace in the home. He has the right to miss his biological mom. The step-mom is a little dramatic/selfish.
Nev! Nej pheej ntshaw cov pojniam tsis npaj nauj tsis totaub txog txoj kev parenting nyob tebchaws no. Thov tsum thiab lau yawm txiv es!
Nes koj tus niam mos ab paub tab lawm os yom koj ua taus txiv neej hmoob meskas lub peev xwm tshaj plaws thov qhuas koj nawb brother
One thing he could had done better is stop all communication between his Hmong Lao wife and the child so eventually, the child would forget his mom. But he let them talk all the time so of course the son will miss her. She's the one who told her son that everyone's receiving money from the US except her because who else would know this except the Hmong Lao.
Txaus hlub luaj😢
A father not being involve enough los wrong, too involve los wrong lol.
Tus mi txiv tsev kj tus mi tub mob li kv tus th os kv yug tau ib tug th xwb mob li ko es kv kho tsis tau es tuag th os tu siab kawg
This is why bad blood line is bad
Koj ua tau li siab nyiam lawm.. yog nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm xa nws rov zoo kawg nkaus. Neeg khib nyiab yuav ua2 koj rov tau khaws khib nyiab thiaj tseg xwb..
We need more people like you❤
Go but you don't have to be together just be with your kids it find❤ but everything you go take your new wife with you don't go alone if say no then that on her you have to talk with her first b4 you do with your kids
Zaj dabneeg no thaum kawg cas tu me tub no yuav ntxim hlub ualuaj li os. 😢
Forgive yourself. Don’t blame yourself for the rest of your life.
😢😢😢😢😢tu siab thiab hlub tu me nyuam ko kawg
Xav2 yuav meb cab tim nplog ces zoo li ko ntag😊
Koj thawj tus qub poj niam rhuav koj lub neej los koj tsis paub li...koj thawj tus qub poj niam rhuav tau koj lub neej lawm tiag..
Niam mos deserves to be sent back for not trusting her husband. Child support is no joke
Not your fault brother. Keep your head up
😢
good job thaub yuav pojniam hmoob nplog ces yeej tsis txog twg tus zoo ces zoo tus phem ces yeej tham hluas nraug ntxov xa ntxov zoo 👍👍👍👍👍
😢😢😢😢😢😢tu siab heev li os
Xa rov qab xwb mas
Hmong Lao are too smart now, not like a decade ago when this story occurred . No way now can you trick a Hmong Lao to go back to Laos like this guy did. The US government will send a man back but will never sent a woman back unless she committed a serious crime.
Hlub tus me nyuam dhau lawm os 😭😭kuv mloog es kuv nim quaj 2 li os
Niag txiv siab phem ...txhus ces yog tim koj nkaus xwb ..tim koj vom loj thiaj li tsim txoj kev tu siab rau sawv daws ...koj Mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws li
Omg ua li cas kv yuav hlub tus me tub ua luaj li os ❤
She should sue for child support. In Laos, that money is gold
Zoo kawg koj xa tau ib tug neeg rov taw tuam ntuj rov qab . Tabsi nrog koj hlub koj tus menyuam xwb.
เมื่อเลิกแล้ว จบแล้ว สมควรจบถือว่าไม่เคยรู้จักกัน เด็กอยู่ลาวก็ให้อยู่ลาวไป ทำแบบนี้ความรักที่ผิด
Tu siab kawg li os tus mi txiv tsev aw
Hlub2 tu me tub li os 😢
Tus neeg uas tau tuaj txog teb chaws no yog tus neeg muaj hmoo. Tabsis muaj tej tug neeg tau tuaj tebchaws no tsi ris tus ua tos nws tuaj riaj ntsim. Zoo li tej tug tuaj yuav peb tej tub. Tuaj txog tuaj ua tus phimnyuvias hla hiav txwv tuaj muab yus tsev neeg dlo. Zoo li ib hauv tshuaj tuaj lom yus tsev neeg mas tu siab kawg. Kuv zoo siab ua koj yog tus neeg ntse koj thiaj li muab koj tus pojniam hmong nplog xa rov qab. Txob tusiab rau qhov koj ua. Koj tus pojniam ntawv nws tau qhov nws ntshaw xwb
Siab me npaum ko txhob mus yuav tus txiv uas twb muaj dua me nyuam thiab poj niam los lawm ma
Poj Niam tsi tsawg zoo ces cias lis muab nws xas ros qab lis koj ua xwb os thaub! You do good job for Loas wife.
Feel so sad for the son. 😭
You get what you do! If the kid wanna go, let him go! No need to be sad.
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