She really thought yelling and being cruel to strangers was a good example for her kids. If you watch the whole video she was yelling about private parts too. She's a perve.
That’s conservatives for you, they talk about family values and grooming and then they vote for people who cheat on their pregnant wives with pornstars and brag about grabbing women by their private parts, not to mention the actual grooming they do in red states now by forcing their religion on public schools and banning any book they don’t like.
She continuously harasses trans students on the UC Davis campus and records them/posts them on Facebook without their permission too…Truly disgusting and pathetic and she should be fired from UC Davis.
@@markrodgers8446 No imbecile your beliefs has no place on this earth. If you want to discriminate people, go to Russia or China and see for yourself self how you will be treated. I bet you claim you’re god fearing, loves Jesus etc?! Go to hell !
First of all no she's not. Secondarily nobody's going after children, so stop the LIE. None of these people want anything to do with your snotty kids . Get a fuckin clue. Learn to let people live in peace, or you won't have any. @@markrodgers8446
Seriously? How does she harass students... that's awful. I saw she also posted several pretty childish tweets at UCD, claiming their policies were unfair. Sounds like a very unprofessional employee, at best.
She was so quick to make it about money. Demanding her money back. So getting her whole stay for free makes everything ok then? Looks like she was looking for an excuse.
I can't imagine how angry she would've been had she saw Beetle Juice with a certain Congress woman. Curious, were the drags groping each other and petting between the legs like Ms. Boebert? So many Karen in this world.
Damn. Im Samoan. Born in Hawaii and went to highschool in Davis CA where you can find some of the nicest most accepting people. Im sorry this lady is not what were about in Davis. She is LUCKY these gals showed better character, cooler heads and did not loose their temper. Good job ladies. This woman is an embarrassment to UC Davis and the people in the small town of Davis will find out. I would think someone from Davis would embrace the Aloha spirit. Just embarrassing.
@@LegalTyranny like all the straight sex abusers involved in every *child predator ring* bust ever? Still waiting for the drag queens to make their debut on "to catch a predator" show, but nope, still just straight people.
@@yeetah42025 Classic move by projectors, accuse your enemy of you're doing. I'm not the one promoting chomo's buddy. Your account looks just like a sock puppet account. You have no videos, no subscriptions, etc. There's one or 2 of you people making all these pro-chomo comments with a ton of sock puppet accounts to make it look as if there's really some support for these chomo's here in Hawaii. I bet you wear a yarmulka like the governor. Israel, home to the highest concentration of chomo's on Earth, and it's no wonder if someone reads what is in the talmud.
@@LegalTyrannyEquating letting grown adults living their own lives to “child grooming and SA” does a disservice to actual victims of abuse. Shame on you, stay away from our community
@@skynsidhawaii Mahu’s still existed after Kamehameha removed a lot of kapu from the laws!? 😭 he still respected certain parts of Hawaiian culture just not what he deemed archaic?
That's precisely what it is! Using the words "angst and confusion" are so thinly veiled. She seems to be unable to restrain herself when she sees transfolk and drag queens as if we personally stole her kid. If she doesn't have a relationship with that child anymore, I hope they at the very least have someone else that loves them unconditionally. That woman's among a special class of parent who never comes around until _after_ a tragedy occurs.
Kumu Hina needs to have a talk with this woman. She needs to understand the Hawaiian tradition of Mahu. All of us know someone who is trans or is a man trying to earn his living cross dressing &performing. My mom was in Burlesque in the 1930's and besides having Hawaiian friends who danced on the same bill, she knew many very nice men who performed as women. In the 1940's I met lots of them and enjoyed their talents. These 3 looked great and her children would most likely enjoy seeing what they do.
Every single account promoting "mahu" hawaiian culture is a sock puppet account with zero video, subscriptions, or subscribers. One or 2 people are pushing this pedo-culture nonsense as part of public relations.
She's a "Mom's for Liberty" member, imagine that! I don''t understand. Just explain to your child that people are different in many different ways. We need to be accepting. If there's more questions, do your best to be compassionate. Aloha!
"And here you see little Johnny is now little Suzy, after being se*ually a**aulted by the "drag queen" monster who is not yet on the se* offender roster because he, er she, er shim? hasn't been caught yet, and won't be for another 20 little boys. Just stay away from them all since they are all now being encouraged to behave abnomally and you don't want them se*ually a**aulting you too!"
Ridiculous woman. If Alohilani refunded her bill, they should offer refunds to everyone in the lobby who was offended by her rant. They should not have allowed that in the lobby, exposing children to such intolerance.
Ms. Bourne, you are the problem with our society today… you think your daughter is confused and anxious now? Keep raising her this way, with judgement and hate. you will see the damage you have caused when she’s an adult.
Amazing how people feel entitled to prevent others from dressing the way they want and being who they are. You are free to ignore them. They are not spreading disease, hurting you, or disturbing you. If how someone dresses bothers you, you are the problem. Teach your kids if you disagree and why. That's being a parent.
Maybe she's jealous they already make more money as men, but now they get to be more flamboyant than a woman too. Maybe ratifying the equal rights amendment and having equal pay would help.
And instead of teaching them about why these drag queens are the way they are, they teach them to be as hateful as her because of her own religious belief.
Also, another report says she didn't even have her own kids on the trip with her. Just a lotta bluster for clickbait. She doesn't appear to be worried about bothering the OTHER hotel guests, either.
While she’s entitled to her opinion, it might help her to read Nānā I ke kumu to understand Mahu culture which was widely accepted/tolerated in old Hawaii, as is Lady-boys in Thailand. I’m glad she got her money back but calm is always the best approach or reaction. I’m absolutely sure the drag queens meant no harm but everyone has an opinion these days. What ever happened to walking away if you don’t want to see something?
The drag Q’s are certainly not totally surprised, they dress for shock value and want the attention purposely. Of course, they would prefer positive attention, but this event will bring them a lot of love and sympathy.
I live on the island. MY finger is on the trigger. Many need to step up. This is our island. Local mahu's are Ohana. I live on Waianae Coast. Bring your foolishness to this side. If You Dare! Nanakili Beach All Day!
This Karen needs to mind her own business. Hotels are public spaces and if she cant handle a few guys in drag she has problems. Who the hell gets on a airplane for 5 hours to a tropical paradise and the first thing they do is whip out a phone and cause a scene instead of just walking on by?
Sexually abnormal behavior has a high incidence rate associated with molestation as a child. And it's cyclical. There is a higher percent of abused who grow up to abuse children too. This mother had every reason for concern. These people engage in behavior that isn't healthy for themselves or society. I can't say every thing I want to say without youtube censoring. There's countless publications supporting what I'm saying.
@LegalTyranny oh please that's the dumbest logic.. teachers have been rapists and you people still send your kids to school.. to learn trash... #makeoctober8again
I went to public school all my life here, so you meet and interact with people from all walks of life and demographics. This isn't shocking, the hatred and judgemental is. We're all people and just doing our best to live. And we all live in glass houses. Maybe plexiglass here in Hawaii (glass might be too expensive).😁
oh my god, what is wrong with her? The way she acted toward the performers is unacceptable. She was way over the top in her reaction and the fact that she taped it? Another internet attention freak.
I was there when this was happening. That lady should be ashamed of herself. We are free to express ourselves and be who we want to be WHEREVER and WHEREVER we want to be!
She was supposedly upset about the appropriateness of their presence in front of children, yet she was making a scene and yelling about private parts… THAT is not appropriate to do in front of children, neither is discrimination and bigotry. These māhū conducted themselves with grace and respect, the same cannot be said for her. Shame on Alohilani Resort, they should have IMMEDIATELY called security to escort her out, cancelled her accommodations and banned her from ever returning, NOT refunded this monster for her stay. So shameful! I will never stay at Alohilani EVER, not after how they mishandled the situation. Māhū are a part of Hawaiian culture, if you cannot respect our culture, you shouldn’t be here.
Personally, if I had come across this with my kids when they were growing up in the 90s and beyond I wouldn’t have made a big deal of it unless they were dressed inappropriately and it doesn’t look like they were. Making a scene just brings more attention and makes a big deal about something that shouldn’t be a big deal. 😊If you ignore it and tell the kids the truth if they ask about it, it’s better all the way around. Raising kids to be curious, think critically and form their own opinions is better imho.
It depends on the content. They said they were performers but performing what? Any type of adult content should not be performed around children in an area that is accessible to everyone. The same way a movie is rated from G to NC17 to warn the parents if they should/shouldnt let their children watch it.
Discrimination at its Finest That lady’s behavior is what we call in Hawaii is Pilau she should be ashamed of herself for the way she acted sounds like she js wanted one free stay at the hotel demanding for her money back, she lucky she never end up catching cracks from them 😂
Typical Karen looks. She talks about how others are exposed to something she doesn't approve of yet everyone around her have to be exposed to her public antics.
Embarrassing her own children by first of all wearing those awful shorts, and then making a scene by screaming at complete strangers in a shrill voice. I hope they disown her.
Her poor kids. I hope they are homeschooled or they are going to get teased af for having a nut job for a mom, when they go back to school. Everyone is going to know what they did during their summer vacation lol
I am born and raised in Hawaii. Moved to Colorado Springs 2 years ago. I don’t understand what she’s yelling about. I have seen worst things on the mainland. Mainland people do not teach their children how to respect anyone. Their life style is not one I agree with, but it’s not my job to judge them. As a parent it is her job to make sure her children are not exposed to negativity, theirs and hers.
No matter where you go, you’re going to come across situations like this. Everywhere! The hotel doesn’t have to accommodate you because something makes you feel uncomfortable. Not dangerous, but uncomfortable. If you don’t like it, best you stay home! It’s not appreciated!
Should she ever read this: Ma'am, I know exactly where your story is going. I've seen it so many times. You think disowning your child for "angst and confusion" they learned in school will make them come back to you. Tough love. It's likely your child went to a guidance counselor or a teacher they trusted and told them how they feel, how they're struggling. They comforted your child and you likely insisted they lose their job for telling your kid that there is _indeed_ a way to live their life without hating themselves or conforming to a life they feel foreign to. I read in another comment that you've now disowned the child and it seems you've been on a crusade to blame all of us for putting such things into children's heads. For even existing. That said, let me tell you this: There are a lot of parents that disown their kids. More than we even know. Luckily, there have been people in the LGBTQ community that have either taken them in _(not as a lover or any kind of sexual relationship, but as a surrogate parent)_ and given them the unconditional love you couldn't bring yourself to offer anymore. You can't blame every transperson and drag queen out there for the loss of the child you threw away, yet you allegedly film trans students against their wills at the University you work at and you post videos online to others as ignorant to the situation as you are. That can lead down a dark and dangerous path. But the path more commonly taken is another nightmare entirely. I've seen many parents that come around to loving and supporting their children only after they're no longer here (UA-cam requires I be cryptic with my language, but I think you can understand where I'm going with this). Their guilt usually has them seeking out others that have suffered a similar loss. I've even seen some of them become outspoken advocates for the community you rail against now. They look back at what their past actions and behavior wrought and they dedicate themselves to helping others realize there is indeed a way to love your child regardless of their sexuality or gender identity. This is not a new concept, after all. Society was simply coming around to understanding it a bit better before politicians in this country decided we were the best distraction from other issues. We are upstanding individuals that pay our taxes, contribute back to the communities we live in, and lead perfectly respectable lives. We are not someone to demonize or throw epithets and hateful words upon in public. To the contrary - I'm sure most of the people you've personally blamed would be more than willing to sit and speak with you in an effort to help you understand a bit more and how to rebuild your relationship. Having gone through similar difficulties in the past, we know how you feel. Having a child turn out vastly different than the image you'd always pictured them to be is so difficult to accept and you deserve the same amount of time to come to terms with it as your child spent gathering the courage to tell you. But you have to put work into it, too. There is a way around this hate. We truly hope you can find that path. For both you and your child's sake. A mother doesn't give up on their child and they never withhold love for any reason.
Omg! What is wrong if kids/ppl see drag queens?! That lady needs to relax with today's society u see all types of ppl. I'm glad the drag queens did stand there ground.
@m249machinegun2 Wait a minute she and her family had a right to be in the lobby , after all, they are paid guests of the hotel . The hotel refunded her , which is a sign of not considering guests . Like it or not, a hotel lobby should not entertain controversy. I hope families will still come . The tourist industry is very fragile. Think she could have told them without the screaming and yelling. Drag queens are entertainers . The hotel should have allowed filming early in the morning or late at night . This could have been a voided .
@@RossellaPerry But... she was the controversy. The controversy was her attack on those people, not the people just... being there. You are so tiresome.
@reaceness so a paying guest and her children should be used to 3 drag queens doing a video in their hotel lobby that all ages walk through ? Think she was wrong to scream at people. If a parent wants to shield their child from that way of life in a lobby, that she has a right to be to protect them from being exposed. She stated that one of her children was confused about sexual issues due to sexualizing being thought in school .
Within limits, you can’t go out in public looking like a stripper. I don’t think “anything goes” is good for society. These people were well dressed IMO.
Let them stay in the bars if they insist on doing drag. She was wrong to act like she did. You don't treat people like that. However, I think a lot of people are really tired of having all of this crap, drag, trans, non-binary stuff crammed down our throats. One day for veterans and a month for people who want to celebrate their sexuality. There is something wrong with that picture.
I wonder what this woman would have said if these were all women waiting for clients to come downstairs? What if it had been Dame Edna Everadge? Since she lives in CA, would she be as outraged by how some women celebrities dress at the Academy Awards?
2:48 Sure, let's just hide them in the room and pretend it doesn't exist, and when our kids ask we'll say it's a magical place where all the candy and toys come from!
Stories like these just illustrate further the actual necessity for Hawaiian Studies to move far, far away from Christianity. Understanding the History of the Kingdom and its colonization also means understanding the role the Church played and continues to play in the how we conceive of value and dignity regarding culture. The ideas of morality around something as natural as sex weren't anything like Christian morality. Morality was centered around the family, keeping the children fed and healthy, the village life intact. That isn't an argument for "debauchery" either, but simply a hope to loosen the grip of the effects of colonization on the islands. It may be part of finding other economic opportunities for the people of the islands rather than to suffer yet another tourist basically walking in the house with dirty slippers and telling the homeowner the setup is wrong.
God does not send anyone to Hell. It was created for the Devil and his Demons. But, those who reject God will also go there out of their very own choice.
Don't flaunt it in the public space. The general public is getting frustrated with acts like this and have reached a breaking point. Remember, the vast majority in Hawaii are straight not mahu.
Great! Ya'll can have all of the west coast's, AID's, Shingra, ridden, flesh rotted alternative lifestyle addicts! A remote island like Hawaii would be peerrrFECT!
Ok, as soon as straight people stop flaunting themselves in hotels wearing g-string bikinis with titties hanging out and butt crack exposed to little children.
She just mad her nonbinary child went no contact with her. I wonder why that would happen. More considerate of the guests? I guess not the ones who came to see the drag show. Hmm
Thats how we get our money back from the hotels! Good idea! Next time I'll yell and complain about anything...ty tourist! Alohilani, I want my money back now! Cuz the food in the buffet was ono! Give me back what you owe me NOW!!!
Life is more enjoyable when you just mind your own damn business.
Exactly
She really thought yelling and being cruel to strangers was a good example for her kids. If you watch the whole video she was yelling about private parts too. She's a perve.
That’s conservatives for you, they talk about family values and grooming and then they vote for people who cheat on their pregnant wives with pornstars and brag about grabbing women by their private parts, not to mention the actual grooming they do in red states now by forcing their religion on public schools and banning any book they don’t like.
She continuously harasses trans students on the UC Davis campus and records them/posts them on Facebook without their permission too…Truly disgusting and pathetic and she should be fired from UC Davis.
@@markrodgers8446 No she’s NOT speaking for most of America
@@markrodgers8446 No imbecile your beliefs has no place on this earth. If you want to discriminate people, go to Russia or China and see for yourself self how you will be treated. I bet you claim you’re god fearing, loves Jesus etc?! Go to hell !
First of all no she's not.
Secondarily nobody's going after children, so stop the LIE. None of these people want anything to do with your snotty kids .
Get a fuckin clue.
Learn to let people live in peace, or you won't have any.
@@markrodgers8446
Seriously? How does she harass students... that's awful. I saw she also posted several pretty childish tweets at UCD, claiming their policies were unfair. Sounds like a very unprofessional employee, at best.
@@markrodgers8446 she's harassing and endangering people who have done nothing wrong. She's a dogshit human.
She was so quick to make it about money. Demanding her money back. So getting her whole stay for free makes everything ok then? Looks like she was looking for an excuse.
and she won again for another free lodging in Hawaii
She is not smart enough to pull that off, that was just clear hate.
Yeah she probably knew they'd be there, sounds like an actual anti drag activist , not just a random tourist.🤔
I'd have preferred the hotel refund her money, but show her the road immediately thereafter.
Who the hell she thinks she is?....she was out of line!
I can't imagine how angry she would've been had she saw Beetle Juice with a certain Congress woman.
Curious, were the drags groping each other and petting between the legs like Ms. Boebert? So many Karen in this world.
Damn. Im Samoan. Born in Hawaii and went to highschool in Davis CA where you can find some of the nicest most accepting people. Im sorry this lady is not what were about in Davis. She is LUCKY these gals showed better character, cooler heads and did not loose their temper. Good job ladies. This woman is an embarrassment to UC Davis and the people in the small town of Davis will find out. I would think someone from Davis would embrace the Aloha spirit. Just embarrassing.
Aloha spirit is required here. If you can’t share it, please don’t visit us. Mahalo
I didn't know the aloha spirit was on the sex offender registry?
@@LegalTyranny like all the straight sex abusers involved in every *child predator ring* bust ever? Still waiting for the drag queens to make their debut on "to catch a predator" show, but nope, still just straight people.
@@LegalTyranny Who is on the sex offenders registry?
@@LegalTyranny That is projection right there. Something is definitely wrong with you. Lol
@@yeetah42025 Classic move by projectors, accuse your enemy of you're doing. I'm not the one promoting chomo's buddy. Your account looks just like a sock puppet account. You have no videos, no subscriptions, etc. There's one or 2 of you people making all these pro-chomo comments with a ton of sock puppet accounts to make it look as if there's really some support for these chomo's here in Hawaii. I bet you wear a yarmulka like the governor. Israel, home to the highest concentration of chomo's on Earth, and it's no wonder if someone reads what is in the talmud.
It was the missionaries who erased the mahu from Hawai'i. Respect local culture or stay away
Molesting children and calling them mahu's after they've been damaged is always wrong.
@@LegalTyrannyDigusting, liar, ignorant, stupid, idiot.
@@LegalTyrannyEquating letting grown adults living their own lives to “child grooming and SA” does a disservice to actual victims of abuse.
Shame on you, stay away from our community
It was Ka'ahumanu who put an end to the culture the moment she decided to eat with Kamehameha II.
@@skynsidhawaii Mahu’s still existed after Kamehameha removed a lot of kapu from the laws!? 😭 he still respected certain parts of Hawaiian culture just not what he deemed archaic?
Almost seems this stunt was planned. She's the Moms for Liberty Yolo County chair. Narcissistic bullying tactics.
That's what I said
It was. She knew they were there. She just likes to play victim
I'm sad for her kids. She is teaching them to hate others who are not like them.
She disowned her non binary child that went no contact with her. She dgaf about her kids
That's precisely what it is! Using the words "angst and confusion" are so thinly veiled. She seems to be unable to restrain herself when she sees transfolk and drag queens as if we personally stole her kid. If she doesn't have a relationship with that child anymore, I hope they at the very least have someone else that loves them unconditionally. That woman's among a special class of parent who never comes around until _after_ a tragedy occurs.
She’s teaching her kids what the Lord prohibits🎯
@@tawaitai yeah. No. God never said to hate on people
Kumu Hina needs to have a talk with this woman. She needs to understand the Hawaiian tradition of Mahu. All of us know someone who is trans or is a man trying to earn his living cross dressing &performing. My mom was in Burlesque in the 1930's and besides having Hawaiian
friends who danced on the same bill, she knew many very nice men who performed as women. In the 1940's I met lots of them and enjoyed their talents. These 3 looked great and her children would most likely enjoy seeing what they do.
Every single account promoting "mahu" hawaiian culture is a sock puppet account with zero video, subscriptions, or subscribers. One or 2 people are pushing this pedo-culture nonsense as part of public relations.
Amene!!!
She's a "Mom's for Liberty" member, imagine that! I don''t understand. Just explain to your child that people are different in many different ways. We need to be accepting. If there's more questions, do your best to be compassionate. Aloha!
"And here you see little Johnny is now little Suzy, after being se*ually a**aulted by the "drag queen" monster who is not yet on the se* offender roster because he, er she, er shim? hasn't been caught yet, and won't be for another 20 little boys. Just stay away from them all since they are all now being encouraged to behave abnomally and you don't want them se*ually a**aulting you too!"
Ridiculous woman. If Alohilani refunded her bill, they should offer refunds to everyone in the lobby who was offended by her rant. They should not have allowed that in the lobby, exposing children to such intolerance.
So the woman at 2:48 is telling us heavy make-up is wrong for a hotel lobby?
That’s a whole drag queen right there.
Ms. Bourne, you are the problem with our society today… you think your daughter is confused and anxious now? Keep raising her this way, with judgement and hate. you will see the damage you have caused when she’s an adult.
She is estranged for her child. They are not in communication .
Exactly, she is the unhinged one and should get help.
Amazing how people feel entitled to prevent others from dressing the way they want and being who they are. You are free to ignore them. They are not spreading disease, hurting you, or disturbing you. If how someone dresses bothers you, you are the problem. Teach your kids if you disagree and why. That's being a parent.
She mad they look better than her...
No man was seen accompanying her which tells me she is single and more than likely the father(s) of her kids left her for a drag queen.
I came here to say that too!! Must be horrible in her head!!
Maybe she's jealous they already make more money as men, but now they get to be more flamboyant than a woman too.
Maybe ratifying the equal rights amendment and having equal pay would help.
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The funniest thing about this is she had a tweet saying she used to wear boys clothes in the 70s. She doesn’t see the double standard
Her kids would probably never have known those were guys if their mother didnt bring attention to it.
And instead of teaching them about why these drag queens are the way they are, they teach them to be as hateful as her because of her own religious belief.
Her eldest child is trans/nonbinary and mixed away years ago, and her other children are in high school. Theyre not little kids.
😆😆😆
Also, another report says she didn't even have her own kids on the trip with her. Just a lotta bluster for clickbait. She doesn't appear to be worried about bothering the OTHER hotel guests, either.
@ernestryles Her eldest child is over 18 and moved away? Can't imagine why.
Bourne shoulda been kicked out the hotel.
Drag artists deserve more respect and understanding
I can't believe the hotel refunded their money!
It's just easier...trust me they ain't missing that money lol
maybe mad there’s no mo Sunday brunch by the fish tank 🍣
Karen’s stay out of Hawaii!!!😡
eboi, kamaina over, meke aloha nohomo
kala lube
Hey kama'aina!Stay out of little boys bebe'a'deez.Pervert pedo!
No braddah, you stay out of Hawaii, go move 9th Island
@@moneyrayweather6895 i have a better idea, you move to africa
In the 60s she would have done the same thing to black guests. Same type of people go to a restaurant eat the whole plate and want their money back
@@ChristianCoffeeChanneloh goodness with the Bible nonsense
BS, perversion is not an immutable characteristic.
Oh dang! 😮
While she’s entitled to her opinion, it might help her to read Nānā I ke kumu to understand Mahu culture which was widely accepted/tolerated in old Hawaii, as is Lady-boys in Thailand. I’m glad she got her money back but calm is always the best approach or reaction. I’m absolutely sure the drag queens meant no harm but everyone has an opinion these days. What ever happened to walking away if you don’t want to see something?
You expect tourists to do research when it's the main vector in Hawaii's economy, and at a 10%+ slump?
There's never room for chomo culture.
The drag Q’s are certainly not totally surprised, they dress for shock value and want the attention purposely. Of course, they would prefer positive attention, but this event will bring them a lot of love and sympathy.
I live on the island. MY finger is on the trigger.
Many need to step up. This is our island. Local mahu's
are Ohana.
I live on Waianae
Coast.
Bring your foolishness
to this side. If You Dare!
Nanakili Beach All Day!
@@LegalTyranny- They dress to usurp circle jerks like you
Some Bourne's defenders look like drags themselves.
How’s about protecting children from crazy Karen’s! But I’m sure she’s just fine with kids being exposed to guns in schools.
Guns aren't preying on and perverting children, the alphabet perverts are.
Protective mothers aren't on the sex offender registry, drag queens on the other hand ....
Rather have my sons growing up learning about guns than learning how to put make up on 😂
@@RaiderDieHard There's a bunch of chomo's commenting in here defending the other chomo's.
@@RaiderDieHard "Learning guns"??? How about you learning English? I pity your non-existent sons.
This lady and her family should be banned from Hawaii forever! Bye Felicia!
No bring them back
@@RaiderDieHardFor what?
We don't need or want her kind in Hawaii.
Given her family probably will disown her. Just ban her.
I think she was banned from that hotel
This Karen needs to mind her own business. Hotels are public spaces and if she cant handle a few guys in drag she has problems. Who the hell gets on a airplane for 5 hours to a tropical paradise and the first thing they do is whip out a phone and cause a scene instead of just walking on by?
Calling tourists "Karens" is unwise and unwelcoming
Sexually abnormal behavior has a high incidence rate associated with molestation as a child. And it's cyclical. There is a higher percent of abused who grow up to abuse children too.
This mother had every reason for concern. These people engage in behavior that isn't healthy for themselves or society. I can't say every thing I want to say without youtube censoring. There's countless publications supporting what I'm saying.
@@LegalTyranny Completely reasonable.
Not to mention the utilization of hotels for sex human trafficking.
@LegalTyranny oh please that's the dumbest logic.. teachers have been rapists and you people still send your kids to school.. to learn trash... #makeoctober8again
@peekaboo6622 who's doing human trafficking.? Not drag queens.. keep your children home..
Haoles need figure out Hawaii is a blue state, and Hawaii culture is not like the mainland
just ask the gabbards
Hawaii is not a state.
Florida - the other state known for it’s beaches would surely tolerate Beth’s behavior (unfortunately)
The hotel sent the message by refunding her money. The hotel made it ok to harass someone different from you.
Love you Marina and Aiko! ❤
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If people would just mind their own flocking business, the world would be a better place.
I went to public school all my life here, so you meet and interact with people from all walks of life and demographics. This isn't shocking, the hatred and judgemental is. We're all people and just doing our best to live. And we all live in glass houses. Maybe plexiglass here in Hawaii (glass might be too expensive).😁
oh my god, what is wrong with her? The way she acted toward the performers is unacceptable. She was way over the top in her reaction and the fact that she taped it? Another internet attention freak.
The sky is falling!!! The sky is falling!!!
Looks like she did it for clicks. Why else record it while ranting.
@@anonymous-zn2iv Link her video so I can see how many clicks it has. Oh wait, she never posted any thing to be linked did she?
@@LegalTyranny She doesn't need to post anything. All she needs to do is upload it and it will get clicks just from the title she gives to it.
@@LegalTyranny Why else would she record it? She was the one that was being the Karen. It wasn't to protect herself.
She shouldn’t of gotten her money back! She should be having harassment charges filed against her!
I was there when this was happening. That lady should be ashamed of herself. We are free to express ourselves and be who we want to be WHEREVER and WHEREVER we want to be!
Stay on da mainland!!! You had no right! You should've mind your Damm business
Keep that same energy when the Micronesians hanging around 😂
She was supposedly upset about the appropriateness of their presence in front of children, yet she was making a scene and yelling about private parts… THAT is not appropriate to do in front of children, neither is discrimination and bigotry.
These māhū conducted themselves with grace and respect, the same cannot be said for her.
Shame on Alohilani Resort, they should have IMMEDIATELY called security to escort her out, cancelled her accommodations and banned her from ever returning, NOT refunded this monster for her stay. So shameful! I will never stay at Alohilani EVER, not after how they mishandled the situation.
Māhū are a part of Hawaiian culture, if you cannot respect our culture, you shouldn’t be here.
Going crazy. She is degrading herself and her family. Maybe she should go to another hotel.
Personally, if I had come across this with my kids when they were growing up in the 90s and beyond I wouldn’t have made a big deal of it unless they were dressed inappropriately and it doesn’t look like they were. Making a scene just brings more attention and makes a big deal about something that shouldn’t be a big deal. 😊If you ignore it and tell the kids the truth if they ask about it, it’s better all the way around. Raising kids to be curious, think critically and form their own opinions is better imho.
It depends on the content. They said they were performers but performing what? Any type of adult content should not be performed around children in an area that is accessible to everyone. The same way a movie is rated from G to NC17 to warn the parents if they should/shouldnt let their children watch it.
have you been to the beach 🤦🏻♂️
Come on 🤦🏻♀️🤣
You ok though with her screaming obscenities about genitalia around kids like that..nah she's the creep
Yeah...and you drag queens filming an ad is gonna be pornography?
Discrimination at its Finest That lady’s behavior is what we call in Hawaii is Pilau she should be ashamed of herself for the way she acted sounds like she js wanted one free stay at the hotel demanding for her money back, she lucky she never end up catching cracks from them 😂
She had every right to speak her mind.
@@letticiamariscal8612 but she had no right to harass people.
Vergogna!
I don’t know how old her child, I feel sorry for her kids, because she is controlling everything for her family😢
DRAG is an art form, relax everybody.
Christ, why is it always misogyny?
Because they do their makeup better than she ever could, really.
She could use a touch of drag. Not too much, not over the top, but a little pizzazz.😅😂😎
She looks exactly what I pictured.
Typical Karen looks. She talks about how others are exposed to something she doesn't approve of yet everyone around her have to be exposed to her public antics.
She was dressed like a man too, oh the irony! LOL
Embarrassing her own children by first of all wearing those awful shorts, and then making a scene by screaming at complete strangers in a shrill voice. I hope they disown her.
Her poor kids. I hope they are homeschooled or they are going to get teased af for having a nut job for a mom, when they go back to school. Everyone is going to know what they did during their summer vacation lol
I am born and raised in Hawaii. Moved to Colorado Springs 2 years ago. I don’t understand what she’s yelling about. I have seen worst things on the mainland. Mainland people do not teach their children how to respect anyone. Their life style is not one I agree with, but it’s not my job to judge them. As a parent it is her job to make sure her children are not exposed to negativity, theirs and hers.
No matter where you go, you’re going to come across situations like this. Everywhere! The hotel doesn’t have to accommodate you because something makes you feel uncomfortable. Not dangerous, but uncomfortable. If you don’t like it, best you stay home! It’s not appreciated!
Who does she thinks she is? That’s exactly what she wanted!! FREE HOTEL STAY!!!
This woman is a nuisance
She should have kept her opinion to hetself
It’s called FREE SPEECH !!!!😊
If I were a guest there, I would be offended by her yelling about penis’ being cut off. The performers were just sitting minding there own business
Why they refund her?
Because they knew they were wrong for allowing degenerates to parade in the front lobby.
She wanted free stay.
@@Berrylucy50 you mean she wanted stay free of chomo's.
It sounds like she wanted to get a refund by insulting human rights .
A'ole haole....pilau entitled...
😂 at the translation. The AI got Pilau right at least.
I was expecting nipple tassels…. not professional, classy look people.
Right, that drama queen acted like they were doing a G-string and tassels pole dance in the middle of the lobby.
The Rainbow 🌈 State of course she's getting backlash.the mahu support is strong in the comments.😂
Don't come back here!!
U da mayor or sumin? 🤡😂
You're at a resort hotel, chillax and get a massage-ony 😂
She misbehaved. Shame on her. She shouldnt have been given a refund.
She would have tried to sue the hotel
Outsiders, Hawaii ain’t like where you came from.
Cudos to marina del rey and his friends for keeping they're cool, as far as i'm concerned ya'll are bigger woman than bourne ever will be.
Should she ever read this: Ma'am, I know exactly where your story is going. I've seen it so many times. You think disowning your child for "angst and confusion" they learned in school will make them come back to you. Tough love. It's likely your child went to a guidance counselor or a teacher they trusted and told them how they feel, how they're struggling. They comforted your child and you likely insisted they lose their job for telling your kid that there is _indeed_ a way to live their life without hating themselves or conforming to a life they feel foreign to. I read in another comment that you've now disowned the child and it seems you've been on a crusade to blame all of us for putting such things into children's heads. For even existing. That said, let me tell you this:
There are a lot of parents that disown their kids. More than we even know. Luckily, there have been people in the LGBTQ community that have either taken them in _(not as a lover or any kind of sexual relationship, but as a surrogate parent)_ and given them the unconditional love you couldn't bring yourself to offer anymore. You can't blame every transperson and drag queen out there for the loss of the child you threw away, yet you allegedly film trans students against their wills at the University you work at and you post videos online to others as ignorant to the situation as you are. That can lead down a dark and dangerous path. But the path more commonly taken is another nightmare entirely.
I've seen many parents that come around to loving and supporting their children only after they're no longer here (UA-cam requires I be cryptic with my language, but I think you can understand where I'm going with this). Their guilt usually has them seeking out others that have suffered a similar loss. I've even seen some of them become outspoken advocates for the community you rail against now. They look back at what their past actions and behavior wrought and they dedicate themselves to helping others realize there is indeed a way to love your child regardless of their sexuality or gender identity. This is not a new concept, after all. Society was simply coming around to understanding it a bit better before politicians in this country decided we were the best distraction from other issues. We are upstanding individuals that pay our taxes, contribute back to the communities we live in, and lead perfectly respectable lives. We are not someone to demonize or throw epithets and hateful words upon in public. To the contrary - I'm sure most of the people you've personally blamed would be more than willing to sit and speak with you in an effort to help you understand a bit more and how to rebuild your relationship.
Having gone through similar difficulties in the past, we know how you feel. Having a child turn out vastly different than the image you'd always pictured them to be is so difficult to accept and you deserve the same amount of time to come to terms with it as your child spent gathering the courage to tell you. But you have to put work into it, too. There is a way around this hate.
We truly hope you can find that path. For both you and your child's sake.
A mother doesn't give up on their child and they never withhold love for any reason.
In a public place!
Tourist Karen
Omg! What is wrong if kids/ppl see drag queens?! That lady needs to relax with today's society u see all types of ppl. I'm glad the drag queens did stand there ground.
Mental health is real
Times sure have changed . Family values are different now or are we being told what is and is not excepted ?
Family values shouldn't be to go harass people just because they are different.
@m249machinegun2 Wait a minute she and her family had a right to be in the lobby , after all, they are paid guests of the hotel . The hotel refunded her , which is a sign of not considering guests . Like it or not, a hotel lobby should not entertain controversy. I hope families will still come . The tourist industry is very fragile. Think she could have told them without the screaming and yelling. Drag queens are entertainers . The hotel should have allowed filming early in the morning or late at night . This could have been a voided .
*accepted
@@RossellaPerry But... she was the controversy. The controversy was her attack on those people, not the people just... being there. You are so tiresome.
@reaceness so a paying guest and her children should be used to 3 drag queens doing a video in their hotel lobby that all ages walk through ? Think she was wrong to scream at people. If a parent wants to shield their child from that way of life in a lobby, that she has a right to be to protect them from being exposed. She stated that one of her children was confused about sexual issues due to sexualizing being thought in school .
Besides dat People can dress anyway dey like. Some parents let their kids run around cross dressing. 💪🏾 freedom to express ones self 👍🏾
Within limits, you can’t go out in public looking like a stripper. I don’t think “anything goes” is good for society.
These people were well dressed IMO.
Not Good Shim.
Dont look then. Haoles. 😂
She needs to get a life
Omg🙄another Karen🤣
Dude in dresses do not belong around kids.
How ignorant
Amen kids dont need that crap
yeah no dress up for da kids right 🤦🏻♀️
Kids don't need loudmouth right wing Karens causing a scene and harassing people.
Might as well ban Halloween
You’re dated ways will end up like most bigoted and regressive views, left in the past
HOULE'S needs to mind their business. This is NOT the mainland. Karen/Kevin's are not toleranted in Hawaii nei. Only bring happiness 😊
Haole😂 I don’t know what’s a houle! Relax! Jess press!😂
mind your own if you don't know what a haole is!!!
@@jcougar55 As a Kanaka Maoli myself. I know what the heck I'm saying. Do you speak olelo Hawaii.
@jcougar55 So I am minding my business it's my Kuliana.....
@@nadinelynch9591 ok nadine lynch
What a wonderful role model for her children, yelling and withering at people in public 🙄
Let them stay in the bars if they insist on doing drag. She was wrong to act like she did. You don't treat people like that. However, I think a lot of people are really tired of having all of this crap, drag, trans, non-binary stuff crammed down our throats. One day for veterans and a month for people who want to celebrate their sexuality. There is something wrong with that picture.
I'm sure that nothing that happens at home contributed to her daughter's confusion and angst.
I wonder what this woman would have said if these were all women waiting for clients to come downstairs? What if it had been Dame Edna Everadge? Since she lives in CA, would she be as outraged by how some women celebrities dress at the Academy Awards?
F T White B
2:48 Sure, let's just hide them in the room and pretend it doesn't exist, and when our kids ask we'll say it's a magical place where all the candy and toys come from!
Don’t ever be spending my money at this hotel, ever
Yes, all the screaming harpies should stay home.
She just found a way to get a refund because she couldn’t afford the hotel for sure! 🙄
Omg what a trip.. just go back & no comeback! You makin' everybody sick lady!
Stories like these just illustrate further the actual necessity for Hawaiian Studies to move far, far away from Christianity. Understanding the History of the Kingdom and its colonization also means understanding the role the Church played and continues to play in the how we conceive of value and dignity regarding culture. The ideas of morality around something as natural as sex weren't anything like Christian morality. Morality was centered around the family, keeping the children fed and healthy, the village life intact. That isn't an argument for "debauchery" either, but simply a hope to loosen the grip of the effects of colonization on the islands. It may be part of finding other economic opportunities for the people of the islands rather than to suffer yet another tourist basically walking in the house with dirty slippers and telling the homeowner the setup is wrong.
God does not send anyone to Hell. It was created for the Devil and his Demons. But, those who reject God will also go there out of their very own choice.
@ChristianCoffeeBibleDevotions there is no such thing as hell, or god, or whatever you believe in. Your religion is fake and useless.
Sounds like you would prefer the pedo-promoting jewish talmud.
Don't flaunt it in the public space. The general public is getting frustrated with acts like this and have reached a breaking point. Remember, the vast majority in Hawaii are straight not mahu.
Go live Florida
The only people who have a problem are idiot bigots who get triggered by 'flaunting'.
@@hawaiianaf2308or Alabama 😂
Great!
Ya'll can have all of the west coast's, AID's, Shingra, ridden, flesh rotted alternative lifestyle addicts!
A remote island like Hawaii would be peerrrFECT!
Ok, as soon as straight people stop flaunting themselves in hotels wearing g-string bikinis with titties hanging out and butt crack exposed to little children.
Marina!!!
Tourism $$$ must not be very important to the Gov.
This is a conservative Democrat state. Perhaps the reaction would be different in a conservative red state.
@@zoneout00 Hawaii is PROGRESSIVE, not conservative.
@@peekaboo6622
Yeah...getting progressively worst like the rest of the U.S.!
“Some say Bourne was out of line.” Some? Really? More like most.
Governor with a dictator attitude: shut up and accept it
Sick of these entitled immigrants
The Karen is right!!!
Nope. She's just a dumb bigot, probably like you.
We with you Karen! Hawaii's had enough, we tired of this woke crap, protect the kekiki's, Trump 2024!
You don’t represent Hawai’i. Many do NOT agree with you. Just saying 🤷🏻♀️
Maybe you need to look back to Hawaiis history of Mahu culture before you say “Hawaiis had enough”
Spell keiki right, and you do NOT represent Hawaiʻi whatsoever
@@K.O.808 I no more problems with gays or Mahus, I get problem with the woke and LBGTQ community targeting and forcing it on our kids
nobodies forcing nothing on no one. grow up trumper 🤦🏻
When did America require us to all think the same?
She just mad her nonbinary child went no contact with her. I wonder why that would happen. More considerate of the guests? I guess not the ones who came to see the drag show. Hmm
No come back. We good. 🤣
Thats how we get our money back from the hotels! Good idea! Next time I'll yell and complain about anything...ty tourist! Alohilani, I want my money back now! Cuz the food in the buffet was ono! Give me back what you owe me NOW!!!