Emotionally Exhausted from a 4-year relationship | Talks with Tony

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  • @talkswitTK
    @talkswitTK 3 роки тому +257

    Younger women date older men TO SKIP areas of life growth with their own peer group. Older men date younger women because THEY SKIPPED necessary areas of growth for women his peer group.

  • @slothisasin8240
    @slothisasin8240 3 роки тому +154

    A relationship shouldn't make you emotionally drained, I have been there and it is not worth it in the long run.

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 роки тому +184

    “A man could have money and success and still be a grown boy.” TG

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 роки тому +19

      Yep a lot of us don't understand this because we equate "good man" with a high earning man. 🙆🏾

    • @michellebarnum8465
      @michellebarnum8465 3 роки тому +2

      So true

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 3 роки тому +2

      ugg so right.

    • @z.a.1237
      @z.a.1237 3 роки тому

      Of course ! Personality is something different !

  • @sabymindbiz
    @sabymindbiz 3 роки тому +142

    He's insecure & would never respect her PhD & will try to make her feel less than. Girl, run!!!✌

    • @kokobean240
      @kokobean240 3 роки тому

      He sounds like a narcissist to me. IJS

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie 3 роки тому +121

    What some don’t understand is, God truly LOVES us and He does NOT want us in toxic relationships. It hurts Him. Yes, He has FEELINGS! We need to love God enough, to choose Him and what He wants for us because what He wants for us is ultimately nothing but the BEST.

    • @z.a.1237
      @z.a.1237 3 роки тому

      But why GOD doesn't help the people who are extremely in need ,oppressed ,abused ,violated , severely sick ,disabled ,with no money ,with no one who take care of them ,etc...for decades and decades. .if HE has feelings.

    • @nebitnojemojeime
      @nebitnojemojeime 2 роки тому +1

      I don’t believe god controls the world we are currently living in, look around…
      Also, god gave us the gift of choice. Most of our suffering in life is created or made worse by our poor choices.

    • @hannahnymous
      @hannahnymous Рік тому +1

      Thank you sis I needed this ❤ God bless ❤

  • @dreadiaz1703
    @dreadiaz1703 3 роки тому +173

    "There's nothing you can offer me except TOTAL SUBMISSION ",..... Oh naw, that's a whole monster.

    • @noorbokore2802
      @noorbokore2802 3 роки тому +16

      This is so true sis!!! I lived with one and they will run you into the ground and exhaust you! He is a grown boy!!!!! Ladies listen to Tony, he is telling the truth! I have lived it.
      Young ladies pay close attention to these videos on grown boys, he has been dropping jewels. I am older and did not peep game until I had lost a great deal of my time and energy. If you see multiple grown boy tendencies, pray for the power to be set free and leave. I wish I understood men and knew the manipulative games some of them play when I was young...I know better now. Thank you Tony!

    • @tya4662
      @tya4662 3 роки тому +4

      God complex. He’s crazy.

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 3 роки тому +2

      Right....run Forrest run 🏃

    • @martinefort8
      @martinefort8 3 роки тому +4

      Running mode: activated 🏃🏿‍♀️GTG

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 3 роки тому

      So what do you do ugg?

  • @Baddlexxi
    @Baddlexxi 3 роки тому +72

    Wow after being in a failed relationship with a man who was 13 years older; I completely understand this. It’s actually laughable now 😂. Girl run, you can do better. These old men don’t deserve us 😩

  • @sxyteesa0890
    @sxyteesa0890 3 роки тому +93

    He is trying to make you feel less of a person and that is disgusting -_-. There is too many men trying to make women feel less bc they feel less of a man or feel empty inside

  • @AJ-qm1ex
    @AJ-qm1ex 3 роки тому +129

    Her intuition was telling her...now she has confirmation. He is damaging her self-confidence.

    • @clarkclarke
      @clarkclarke 3 роки тому +4

      She is letting him

    • @AJ-qm1ex
      @AJ-qm1ex 3 роки тому +8

      @@clarkclarke I agree. She's ignoring the red flags and allowing naivety to cloud her judgment. They are both responsible for their actions. Hopefully now that she has confirmation, she'll make a wise decision.

  • @Tracey1sWorthy
    @Tracey1sWorthy 3 роки тому +91

    When a man has to ask what you bring to the table get yo track shoes on. 👟 ✈️

    • @tracyroberts1562
      @tracyroberts1562 3 роки тому +8

      I feel like men are smart. If my sparkle doesn't shine for you then keep it pushing!

    • @adaofcharles1217
      @adaofcharles1217 3 роки тому

      You are right on point sis, our men over here uses the word, "hardworking."
      To me that sounds like, I am good at footing some bills and they eye you up and down like some good beef found in the market.
      I bounce, without looking back. No time for nonsense.

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 3 роки тому

      Lol!

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 3 роки тому +98

    NEVER let a man get in your head like that.

  • @amandarecoveryjones8216
    @amandarecoveryjones8216 3 роки тому +56

    And once she leaves, he's going to jump up and find him another young hunny. The next one wont even have half the ambition. He just wants a body. Get your ambitious self on girl, become something.

  • @bossbabe8797
    @bossbabe8797 3 роки тому +46

    Women, WE ARE THE PRIZE. If he doesn’t notice “what you have to offer”, he’s not the one for you. A man can visualize what you can add to his life without you saying a word. That would’ve been the last conversation we ever had.

  • @Ms.Haleyy
    @Ms.Haleyy 3 роки тому +290

    “...Everybody getting addressed: the lost sheep, the found sheep, the wolves, the hyenas...” 🤣🤣🤣

    • @roja_xo5527
      @roja_xo5527 3 роки тому +4

      Right 😂

    • @tmickey4833
      @tmickey4833 3 роки тому +4

      Right, everybody can get it! He had me choked on a piece of ice.

    • @aminastoned5687
      @aminastoned5687 3 роки тому +6

      It was the lost sheep for me! I cackled😂😂😂 Tony DOES NOT PLAY! Okkk🤣🤣

    • @roja_xo5527
      @roja_xo5527 3 роки тому +2

      @@aminastoned5687 the radio at all 😂

    • @3D3LIA
      @3D3LIA 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Kaylagregg2076
    @Kaylagregg2076 3 роки тому +205

    a lot of younger women are trying to date older men cus it’s glamorized on social media. I was 27 dating a 41 year old because of some UA-cam videos I saw said they was more mature , well off , etc. the man ended up lying about being successful, would pick arguments on every date have me crying, would say I wouldn’t accomplish the financial goals I had, wouldn’t find love. I’m pretty confident and I believed it some how. Crazzy we see old men as harmless, easy to manipulate they are not they will turn the tables on you have you thinking you are the problem. Once I heard tony talk about dating older men in a video it all made sense 😅 single older men have mastered the grown boy ways. Never again

    • @amiragreen2577
      @amiragreen2577 3 роки тому +11

      @Allie, you nailed it 💯

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 роки тому +46

      They have more experience at being a low down dusty, that's all. That's the only difference.

    • @amiragreen2577
      @amiragreen2577 3 роки тому +8

      @@user-zx5xw4yw2e 😅🤣🤣😆

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 роки тому +34

      If you don’t have top tier game do not date older man.. they will put you thru the ringer .. they have been in the game longer especially if they have never been married s which is a red flag..

    • @biancam2327
      @biancam2327 3 роки тому +35

      My ex was 13 years older than me..mid 40s. Worst relationship I ever had.master manipulator, cheater, had it together financially though. Don't believe the hype that older men are ready cause that's not always the case.

  • @arandaholley1719
    @arandaholley1719 3 роки тому +56

    Took the words right out my mouth. Alot of women will date older men for money and status . And fail to question why those men are single.

    • @arandaholley1719
      @arandaholley1719 3 роки тому +1

      @@genxx2724 They think being a good father means maturity.

    • @arandaholley1719
      @arandaholley1719 3 роки тому +8

      @@genxx2724 If he was a good father he would not be dating someone thay could be his child.

  • @fendiboots4481
    @fendiboots4481 3 роки тому +68

    "Total submission?" This is some Fifty Shades of Crazy nonsense. RUN!

  • @victoriaschera5149
    @victoriaschera5149 3 роки тому +103

    When he took the candle with him 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @brazzeldazzel8686
    @brazzeldazzel8686 3 роки тому +82

    Tony is naturally hilarious and he don’t even be trying. I love this channel! God bless you Tony. Good message.

  • @chariennekhan9259
    @chariennekhan9259 3 роки тому +86

    Lose the man...finish your doctorate...

  • @fonda7760
    @fonda7760 3 роки тому +14

    Thank you Tony Gaskins for this message. As a 42 yo RN formerly engaged to a 60 yo commercial pilot, who owned a Cessna twin engine, came to an end after he pointed a double-barreled 12 gauge shotgun at me! My crime? I called him a liar!prior to this day, I hadn’t realized he owned a weapon. Ladies, this type of weapon is used when deer hunting.
    There were infrequent disagreements, yet, were settled before sundown. His reaction was clearly a red flag to me to ‘quickly exit stage left’ AND I did just that! Thank God I didn’t use rationalization to remain in the relationship!
    So ladies please, please, please listen to Tony’s message and take heed I never considered this guy being a ‘pervert’ in relation to our 18 year age difference. I considered us emotionally mature adults. Yet, reflecting he was 18 when I was born, put a whole new spin on that relationship, which makes me even now, shudder in disgust!

  • @becomingteila
    @becomingteila 3 роки тому +74

    This popped up right on time and when I just ended a 10 year relationship. I felt a burden lifted and here comes your video. I thank u Tony!

    • @terrybrown7510
      @terrybrown7510 3 роки тому +10

      I am divorcing after 10 years of disrespect and lies, congratulations and may God continue to bless us both, lol!

    • @becomingteila
      @becomingteila 3 роки тому +5

      @@terrybrown7510 Yes ma’am let’s continue to flourish m, be blessed and stay out of a relationship for a while. We got it!

    • @Carolina480
      @Carolina480 Рік тому

      God knows what we we need when what we going through

  • @ashleyv8146
    @ashleyv8146 3 роки тому +40

    Noooo not the “got to go” purse 😂

  • @2LoveJones
    @2LoveJones 3 роки тому +47

    When Mr. Tony grabbed the candle 🕯 I almost fell out!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 3 роки тому +73

    “You don’t have to settle for a man” -TG

    • @elyselancaster3864
      @elyselancaster3864 3 роки тому +11

      Yes ! Settling will make you bitter not better ! Settling is a trick of the enemy to make us doubt God’s word ❤️! Never doubt God & NEVER SETTLE !!!!!

  • @dejahblue96
    @dejahblue96 3 роки тому +100

    I’m done when he “packed up his things” and took the candle 😂💀

    • @cenaslyric1398
      @cenaslyric1398 3 роки тому +8

      his packing up gets me every time!

    • @Fit_Ministry
      @Fit_Ministry 3 роки тому +4

      Baby I could have passed out ! 😂

    • @zirtaeb001
      @zirtaeb001 3 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Salma_143
      @Salma_143 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 me too!!!!!!

    • @kokobean240
      @kokobean240 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣 took the candle

  • @ebonymcmillan4355
    @ebonymcmillan4355 3 роки тому +27

    In the word of Tony Gaskin sis go on about your business. You are not a pet this man has real issues, that you can not fix. Run while you still have some sanity. Watch when you get rid of the mess, how you will be blessed. He does not love you, does not care about you and gets pleaure in putting you down...Run chile..

  • @kristinbrittanysmith535
    @kristinbrittanysmith535 3 роки тому +162

    This is the 1st time in 2021, TG pulled out the white cord-purse....and I died laughing when he picked up the candle.

    • @km7890km
      @km7890km 3 роки тому +10

      "Scuse me." 😭😂

    • @kokoluv21
      @kokoluv21 3 роки тому +9

      He took the candle 🤣🤣🤣

    • @derondamonique
      @derondamonique 3 роки тому +6

      The candle 😂

    • @dr.annetwanthompkins4953
      @dr.annetwanthompkins4953 3 роки тому +8

      💫🤣🤣🤣, I replayed that many times. And - the hard stare and 3 long blinks - I CANNOT 😉.
      Brother Tony delivers 💯‼️

    • @amariseshalina776
      @amariseshalina776 3 роки тому +6

      I laugh so hard when he pulls out the cord for a purse.

  • @helena3631
    @helena3631 3 роки тому +36

    If an older man is asking what you bring to the table run .. he’s trying to put you thru the ringer to see what you will tolerate....I have been around grown men and they not worried about what a a women bring to the table or requesting you pay half... these old man be playing out young girls... if you don’t have top tier game do not date grown men.

  • @Venus.Rose.
    @Venus.Rose. 3 роки тому +84

    “Does his name start with a K?”😂😂👏🏼 yep, was thinking it was that “High Value Man” bs right from the start.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 3 роки тому +7

      Girl I just caught that! Lol it took me a minute! 😄

    • @Venus.Rose.
      @Venus.Rose. 3 роки тому +6

      @@PeaceBeStill- Right! I recently ran across couple of “K’s” videos and immediately recognized that 😂

    • @khocolateable
      @khocolateable 3 роки тому +6

      Mr. K I'm familiar 😂

    • @twilliams3600
      @twilliams3600 3 роки тому +18

      that man is terrible...I can't believe woman actually listen to him

    • @MyCrownstar
      @MyCrownstar 3 роки тому +20

      “K” is horrid, disrespectful to women, calling them chicks and broads and thinking he is high value. Women need to stay off his channel, calling in and getting abused for his clicks and views. All those wanna be men talking crap on their flip phone, eating hot pockets in their mommas basement. SMH

  • @iscelaarias3957
    @iscelaarias3957 3 роки тому +42

    Don’t worry about late videos , we all love it , even when we get up at 5 am next day to go work. At least, we go asleep with hope and knowledge

  • @kristinbrittanysmith535
    @kristinbrittanysmith535 3 роки тому +51

    I was going to bed, but I received a notification, so I'll sleep later.

    • @DivaDivine88
      @DivaDivine88 3 роки тому +5

      Rt, shole was.. who needs sleep when you can get this Word 🤷🏾‍♀️😊👂🏾

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 роки тому

      I stayed up to watch it too.

  • @bdailey8829
    @bdailey8829 3 роки тому +46

    These last round of videos have opened up some wounds that I’m trying to heal from, and they are definitely needed in facing head on. God is really using you as a vessel. I wish more women and men discovered your videos, as they are critical in getting through relationships and life. By far the best content on UA-cam.

  • @ulricka2131
    @ulricka2131 3 роки тому +23

    What can you offer me! WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THIS? Sister, there are real men out there looking for a woman to love. You deserve much better. Heal for the daddy wounds, love yourself and please know, that you matter. Much love❤

  • @sandrawright3988
    @sandrawright3988 3 роки тому +27

    Honey run because you have too much going for yourself to subject yourself to this type of abuse.

  • @marymesk577
    @marymesk577 3 роки тому +37

    I HOPE THIS SISTER TAKES TONY'S ADVICE .

  • @sophiaalcala1580
    @sophiaalcala1580 3 роки тому +90

    I'm so needing this my mother died last Wednesday 😢 and it's killing my spirit😪

    • @ena__we4205
      @ena__we4205 3 роки тому +12

      Condolences.

    • @GoodGrief101
      @GoodGrief101 3 роки тому +13

      My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    • @marilynking527
      @marilynking527 3 роки тому +13

      I’m so sorry my dad passed away in December so I know how you’re feeling my condolences to you during this difficult time.

    • @denisedean8503
      @denisedean8503 3 роки тому +6

      My prayers and condolences to you and your family God Bless you all, I pray that God will give you comfort. 🙏

    • @sheloves3663
      @sheloves3663 3 роки тому +13

      I lost my mother in 2017. I still have my moments where I just have to let it out 😭🙏🏽 But know it does get easier with time ♥️ Write it out, pray it out, cry it out. You got this 🙏🏽

  • @Momof7kids
    @Momof7kids 3 роки тому +40

    I’m laughing soooooo hard at how he says his wife plays especially about the jug of water lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sadelynn2235
    @sadelynn2235 3 роки тому +19

    The look he gave here after reading the email, I fell out of desk chair and Hollered out laughing. The gathering his things GOT Tah GOOO....🤣😂😅🙃😉

  • @zinaa3450
    @zinaa3450 3 роки тому +20

    The action with the headphonepurse takes me out everytime😂🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 роки тому +2

      Yep😂🤣! It’s even funnier because Tony is not laughing. He’s dead serious, while I’m over here hollerin😂🤣

  • @redginesimon
    @redginesimon 3 роки тому +22

    Love you, uncle Tony. Thank you for everything you've done for women around the world that don't have a father or a caring, stable uncle. We're stronger mentally, physically, and emotionally because of you. May God continue to protect, bless, inspire, and guide you.

  • @jsue6994
    @jsue6994 3 роки тому +22

    Follow the trail of broken women. You will see a pattern. He has always been this way, not just with you. Run 🏃‍♂️

  • @clarkclarke
    @clarkclarke 3 роки тому +18

    emotional and mental abuse .... he stepped on her and he stepped on her HARD....
    He has no respect ..no love ..nor does not care about her ....and she would never ever be able to do anything "to please" him ....
    yet she want to make excuses for this bad behaviour?????
    ...move in silence...and be happy

  • @georgieeve2026
    @georgieeve2026 3 роки тому +62

    "Nothing to offer but total submission." Heck I choked on my rice and had to pause the video for about 25mins. Wtf.

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 роки тому +33

    When we get older as woman we don't tke shit

  • @gigibrown_wright
    @gigibrown_wright 3 роки тому +60

    Ladies these men that like women 10 years+ younger... trust they just might be a pervert.

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  3 роки тому +18

      Got a video on this today. Uploading now!

    • @gigibrown_wright
      @gigibrown_wright 3 роки тому +11

      @@TonyGaskins you’re speaking nothing but truth.. found this out the hard way 😐

    • @arleciawhite7510
      @arleciawhite7510 3 роки тому +3

      Honey it's about control

    • @mamat1213
      @mamat1213 3 роки тому +1

      24:38 😱😱😱 omg WHAT?! I'm devastated fr I gotta watch the follow up video😭

  • @vchild
    @vchild 3 роки тому +64

    This man has no intentions of marrying her. And furthermore she shouldn't even want to. She needs to pick up her purse and her candle 😂 and go. But in all seriousness she needs to leave.

    • @10nicity
      @10nicity 3 роки тому +4

      Girl, I've been waiting on that purse animation😅🤣😂😅🤣😂. Sreaming laughing when he picked up that candle too.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 роки тому +3

      @@10nicity I live for the purse animation! It’s my all time favorite😅😂🤣!!!!!

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 3 роки тому +1

      Yes please do!!!

  • @mmxw2294
    @mmxw2294 3 роки тому +27

    How you have nothing to offer when you have done all you can to establish yourself lady gone about your business in the words of Mr. Gaskins

  • @flowest1647
    @flowest1647 3 роки тому +11

    I left my ex in the same manner. Bye Felicia, blocked all contact and my life has truly been blessed ever since.

  • @tam3818
    @tam3818 3 роки тому +51

    I really like and appreciate Talks with Tony..

  • @AjayMilan
    @AjayMilan 3 роки тому +17

    Omg Tony you are so hilarious. 😆 I can't stop watching and I should be asleep. I'm laughing so hard this morning. So happy I found your channel. I needed to hear a few things here.
    She seriously need to leave him. It took me 3.5 years to realize I was in an emotionally abusive relationship and took another year to leave. Men like him really strip you down to shreds until you are no longer attractive to yourself. Still piecing those shreds back together. Praying for you sister.

  • @thekimberlynproject
    @thekimberlynproject 3 місяці тому +1

    His take on the pronunciation of the word humble is hilarious!!! Pure comedy!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @daebak_hana
    @daebak_hana 3 роки тому +32

    Hes gaslighting her

  • @flygirl1942
    @flygirl1942 3 роки тому +21

    Whenever I’m feeling down and need emotional adjustment I just click on today’s video and BAM! Fresh anointing to carry me over! No joke! This here anointing is the three “Ps” ...It’s Perfect, Plausible and Plenty GOOD!!!! Yass Lawd, Thank You!! 🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️

  • @mzdee7021
    @mzdee7021 3 роки тому +56

    Im catching em..this is by Devine Design..whomever the word is for won t miss it!! Thank you for setting an example on many levels..you could never fully understand how great it is to receive a no filtered word in due season!! I say that because we are the receivers of a portion of Gods Grace on you, for your Devine Purpose and you labor to Align with that Purpose. With all that said, thankyou!! You always right on time!! Even it it's something I may not be in Alignment to hear!! Best believe, it'll come back to me and then I hear you in my inner ear😊😊😊

  • @takeauthority30
    @takeauthority30 3 роки тому +27

    It's always a red flag when a person starts with all their degrees. ...gurl men don't care about all that. The ones that do ....got plans for your wallet.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly lol .. my dad always told me that he says women that do that the man is calculating in his head how much money he can get from you... women that led with degrees and money get used he told me because the man don’t want them.. my dad went to college and my mother only had a high school diploma he told me real men don’t date a women because of a degree or money they use them😐

  • @MomNurse37
    @MomNurse37 3 роки тому +26

    I've heard the saying that goes, PHD women who are broken, will fall for a GED man, both literally and figuratively.

  • @Somuchtotalkabout
    @Somuchtotalkabout 3 роки тому +8

    That statement actually gave me chills down my spine....”all you can do for me is complete submission...” absolutely NOT...thank God for your teachings Tony 💯

  • @veelove2226
    @veelove2226 3 роки тому +12

    “You see how fast I got gone” That’s the last conversation you ought to have right there” When a man tells you to run🏃🏾‍♀️ 🏃🏾! Run so fast! Don’t ever look back! I’m telling y’all Tony been on a roll. I’m here for it! Blessing Tony to you and the Queen🙏🏾

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 3 роки тому +12

    GURRRRRL This here Ninja wrote the grown boy book....possibly the captain🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mayasheartdesiire
    @mayasheartdesiire 3 роки тому +17

    He’s a grown boy for sure. He never would of asked her what do you bring to the table and judge like she have absolutely nothing

  • @maryn7721
    @maryn7721 3 роки тому +12

    I don’t understand why anyone corrects the teacher here.. grateful to learn and have this space Tony!

  • @mtheodoris42
    @mtheodoris42 3 роки тому +13

    Our PURSE (white earphones) is back!🤣 I holler EVERYTIME he swing it over is shoulder!😆🤪

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 роки тому +1

      Gurl!! I have been waiting all month for our “purse” to make an appearance😂🤣😅😅😅! It takes me out every single time!!!

    • @mtheodoris42
      @mtheodoris42 3 роки тому +2

      @@mymakersdaughter6041 IKR!👜👛 in holler EVERY TIME!

  • @sheloves3663
    @sheloves3663 3 роки тому +45

    It sounds like he just wants control over her. She needs to run 🏃🏽‍♀️ not walk 🤧 And focus on her goals and focus on finishing her degree.

  • @kamikkaphillips-scott5533
    @kamikkaphillips-scott5533 3 роки тому +7

    When he grabbed that phone charger, I knew what time it was 😂😂. Thanks so much Tony for your continuous giving of insight into unhealthy relationships.

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 3 роки тому +15

    Listen to Tony, how he described what your man is capable of... are the exact things that my ex-husband did to me... RUN 🏃🏾 🏃🏿‍♂️ 🏃🏾‍♀️ RUN

  • @queenvic83
    @queenvic83 3 роки тому +8

    Loooove when Tony does "Illustrations" with his facial expressions- The getting up from his seat 😂😂😂

  • @divinealignedjewelry
    @divinealignedjewelry 3 роки тому +9

    I really hope some of the women who write Tony send in updates eventually. I’d love to hear the outcomes and that they’re doing well. The advice he gives is priceless.

  • @mdoingme
    @mdoingme 3 роки тому +13

    If you say "eclectic" one mo' time 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣 a whole mess lol

  • @mbalienhleearrings1289
    @mbalienhleearrings1289 3 роки тому +25

    He told her he's with her because she has nothing to offer 😐 what!!! That would have been a confirmation for me to go on about my business, what!!!!! Hell no he is/was disrespectful on so many levels trying to make her feel less than. Ooohhhhh hell no!!!! Because he think he's all that, chile please bye!!!!!!

    • @fatiie
      @fatiie 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly. These guys are so psychologically annoying. Nobody is interested in your guy's stupid word scramble and mind games. Why the hell are they with us if we don't bring anything of value to them? How stupid do they sound to be wasting their time with us if we are not valuable. They think they're really making a point when they just sound stupid with their games. If these guys have such problems with women's value, why dont they leave us alone? I don't get it.

  • @biancam2327
    @biancam2327 3 роки тому +35

    The fact she is saying her confidence is suffering and this relationship is preventing her from prospering in other aspects of her life..leave it alone.
    I went though the same thing dating an older man 13 years my senior. He blatantly did things to mess up my mental. Manipulator and a cheater. My confidence was shot after dealing with him and it took me a year to get back to myself. Now I'm focused on the things that matter..the 3B's

  • @cathrinet6298
    @cathrinet6298 3 роки тому +10

    Oh my God Nooooo did he really get the candle🤣😂 I burst out laughing

  • @OkJess0404
    @OkJess0404 3 роки тому +31

    This here Ninja...yes! Say that Tony!!! He IS Captain Grown Boy!!! TOTAL SUBMISSION?! Sisssss!!!! Nope. Please listen to Tony!

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 3 роки тому +14

    Watching these helps me get through life! Thank God for giving Tony the wisdom.

  • @jacquelinewilliams6572
    @jacquelinewilliams6572 3 роки тому +20

    Everybody getting addressed! Wolves sheep, tigers, lions and bears. Tony coming for ya! 😂😂😁😁🤪🤪

  • @SweetNovember000
    @SweetNovember000 3 роки тому +10

    I almost fell from my chair when he got up and left at min 13:16 😂😂he’s so funny. “You are with him for his money... swallow now” 😂😂

  • @MakeupTiffany
    @MakeupTiffany 3 роки тому +9

    How are we discussing what one brings to the table 4 years in!? This man doesn’t respect her. The relationship is over, it’s just no one has left yet.

  • @The-Mediator
    @The-Mediator 3 роки тому +5

    Tony G., thank God for men like you teaching women the game and how to avoid the players of the world. Your wife is truly a blessed woman.

  • @vc7770
    @vc7770 10 місяців тому +1

    I LOVE when he puts on the "purse" and walks out 😂👏🏻😂👏🏻😂

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 3 роки тому +6

    We ain’t missing none of your videos Tony. I watch and rewatch. Keep em coming.

  • @vegigirl7440
    @vegigirl7440 3 роки тому +3

    Dr Tony breathing life into this woman..girl, .take the resuscitation and go about your business!!!

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 3 роки тому +18

    My ex was 7 yrs older than me and looking back on it he was too old for me and I was too young for him. We didn't even like the same type of music because we were brought up in 2 completely different generations 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @IamKarryanne
    @IamKarryanne 3 роки тому +21

    If you didn’t hear anything else ...hear what Tony said here 57:29 ... your better than that girl. Leave him, don’t waste no more time. A friend of mine is STILL wasting time with a guy like this, he knows he has her in the palm of his hand... 5 plus years and she is still telling me manipulative things he says and does. She has her own place in the city but she drives out an hour after work everyday to sleep in his bed 🥴🤔 that’s just a tip of the iceberg 😐

  • @IshanaeS
    @IshanaeS 3 роки тому +23

    “You is with him for his money” *looks at camera* 😭😭😭 what is wrong with this man

    • @lisasmilez
      @lisasmilez 3 роки тому +3

      Right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lneal2800
    @lneal2800 3 роки тому +25

    I'm here and listening! God put it on your heart! BLESS YOU!🌟

  • @prettytrOuble
    @prettytrOuble 3 роки тому +16

    what do I bring to the table ? hmm , everything to the right man !

    • @clarkclarke
      @clarkclarke 3 роки тому +5

      Yet he has no table ...and don't know how to build/make/prepare one

  • @JIJII420
    @JIJII420 3 роки тому +13

    " A jug of water! That is not equivalent payback. You holding stuff from the past " 😂
    Y'all are too cute!

  • @tya4662
    @tya4662 3 роки тому +30

    Your wife is playful because she loves you, that’s how some of us women are.

  • @reinaquisha9418
    @reinaquisha9418 3 роки тому +9

    Happy Friday tribe!!!
    I'm hollering on my way to work at all your "addressing" Tony!!!
    😭😭😭

  • @taz12184
    @taz12184 3 роки тому +11

    I was hanging up the washing and just listening when tony read the part about "total submission". I dropped them socks and ran straight over just to see Tonys face 😂

    • @sachellelewis
      @sachellelewis 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @Zee-jv1nb
      @Zee-jv1nb 3 роки тому +1

      Must be British
      That’s how we speak

    • @taz12184
      @taz12184 3 роки тому +1

      @@genxx2724 awwww thats so sweet. Im actually Irish. So good guess Zee im just across the water from you. Isnt it lovely how we can all chat and smile with each other from all over the world ☺️. O and i was hanging it up on a clothes horse in the house 😉

    • @Zee-jv1nb
      @Zee-jv1nb 3 роки тому

      @@genxx2724 in Europe we hang everything.
      @Taz you’re right...and some of us with common behaviours. My dryer in the conservatory lol

  • @nacoyarussell185
    @nacoyarussell185 3 роки тому +6

    Oh my goodness, I about fell out of my chair when Tony gathered all his stuff. He was GONE!! Listen up ladies, he speaking truth!!

  • @petroniawellsaid5341
    @petroniawellsaid5341 3 роки тому +30

    This guy is getting tired of Miss Eclectic and/or already has someone else. It's basically already over.

  • @inprogress5210
    @inprogress5210 3 роки тому +5

    Love yourself woman. LOVE YOURSELF!

  • @Tend2Rose
    @Tend2Rose 3 роки тому +19

    My ex told me it was his way or no way. We had an argument and this was the terms to us reconciling. His old arse is 52. 5 months on he hasn’t heard from me.

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 3 роки тому +3

      @rosemarie daway YOU GO GURL! YOU TOOK THE HIGHWAY!

    • @Tend2Rose
      @Tend2Rose 3 роки тому +2

      @@ysmithriley sickening! These types of men think they are all that!
      Women need to stop allowing to men to use us like second class citizens

  • @patricebrown777
    @patricebrown777 3 роки тому +2

    When Tony packs up and goes!!! (cracking up!!)
    .. the charger lead handbag 😂😂😂😂😂
    Proper real talk with class natural comedy ❤️

  • @stargoldqueen5894
    @stargoldqueen5894 3 роки тому +14

    😁 love that part when he grabs his stuff so fast.

  • @ClaraCouturexo
    @ClaraCouturexo 3 роки тому +5

    I listen to you more than I listen to anything else! Heavy on the speakers & ready for a good laugh!

  • @Travellifehumans
    @Travellifehumans 3 роки тому +9

    You are worthy of love and respect sister! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕

  • @twiggyli1844
    @twiggyli1844 3 роки тому +8

    When Tony grabbed his stuff and the imaginary purse I fell out 🤣🤣🤣

  • @RoZzieAwake
    @RoZzieAwake 3 роки тому +7

    I AM SCREAMING!!!!!! He put the bag on and bounced. Lmao. That was hilarious Tony. 👌.