Mera Jism Meri Marzi ft. Dr. Tahira Kazmi | Junaid Akram Podcast
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Intro
2:02 - Women Of Pakistan
6:26 - Cycle of A Woman??
10:30 - Aurat Aik Sexua Object hai?
20:08 - Raising Voice for R*pes
21:17 - Female Doctors Don't Practice
31:45 - Issues in Elite and Poor Family Are the Same
32:49 - Women's World
36:21 - challenges that Women Face
41:48 - Ghar Ka Mamala Hai?/ Iska Kiya Hal Hai?
43:35 - Ab*se In Pakistan Society
45:37 - Noor Mukadam Case
47:46 - Why Do People Don't Get Separated?
49:17 - Shadi Kerwado After Invading
54:46 - Kya Aurto mai Savior Complex Hota Hai?
58:20 - Aurat Aurat ki Dushman
1:00:32 - Why Are Women Free (Farigh)
1:06:27 - Basic Needs of Women
1:11:17 - Empowering Women
1:14:42 - Femenists Agenda
1:22:08 - Mera Jism Meri Marzi
1:26:13 - S**ual Desires
1:28:19 - Control Your Actions
1:32:56 - (The Case Of Dhulaan Aik Raat Ki
1:43:25 - Dr Tahira Kazmi Controversy (About Lock)
1:56:05 - Female Genetal Mutalation
2:01:25 - Bre**t Ironing In Africa
2:03:53 - Femenist Ki Veena Malik
2:06:30 - Baghair Marzi ki Shadi (Financial Independence)
2:21:20 - Br**t prr Tax liya Jata tha...
2:24:00 - Why Should We Hide the Basic Needs
2:30:51 - Poem Of Dr Tahira Kazmi
2:34:54 - Message for Female
2:37:45 - Upcoming Works of Dr Tahira Kazmi
2:43:56 - Disgusting Realities
2:45:15 - Conclusion
2:45:53 - Outro
In this Explosive Podcast, Dr. Tahira Kazmi discusses the challenges and issues faced by women in Pakistan. The cycle of a woman's life, societal perceptions of women as sexual objects, and raising voices against rape and abuse. The conversation also touches on forced marriage and the importance of empowering women.
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I'm a 21-year-old guy from Peshawar, and from what I've seen, I agree with her. this whole male-dominated thing here is just out of control. The way girls are treated, it's just not right. I see how girls around me get discouraged from aiming high or following their passions. there's this unspoken rule that says women shouldn't be out there doing jobs, and get discouraged even from playing sports. It's frustrating to see how much patriarchy holds us back. Violence is getting normalized, and that's scary.
I agree bro. I’m from UP, India. Here it is also a male dominated society, where women face problems in education, jobs, dating and marriage. Almost all aspects of women’s lives are controlled by their husbands or fathers. Even expressing their opinions or having a choice or hobby if their own is frowned upon. That, along with sexual harassment and violence against women. It is a terrible situation for them. Needs to improve.
dont lie ffs, i am from peshawar too
@@basedhuzaifaI am also from Peshawar and he is 100% right. Women in Pakistan, especially KP face incredible discrimination in all walks of life.
@@basedhuzaifahe is right don't cover your shitt
@@Kamrankhan34996 ain't covering anything, if its happening in your homes it doesn't mean its everywhere. Liberandus just need opportunities to spread lies.
I saw intro, I got angry because I am a man, but as I listened I couldn't agree more with her. She's right. This is how the society is this is how my mother got stripped of her education despite she had 3 masters. She couldn't pursue her career. I hope I won't let this happen to my sisters.
Feminism isn't about stripped clothes, or cigarette / drinking women. Its about women rights and she's right about it.
3 masters!!! 😮 how did they convince your mom to give all that up?!
whats the reason for you getting mad at the intro? just asking
@@hirajawad1078 Convince nae situations he ese bana di gayen Ke unko chorna para. Phir domestic violence God my Childhood though was beautiful and I miss it a lot but it was Terrible AF because of domestic Violence
@@westwoodstreet 1-2 cheeze the
1) Not everyone sees woman as a sexual object
2) Not everyone considers a dr BV a trophy.
So start felt a bit offending as it was more of a generalized statement. At the end of the day she's a human too. She is wrong and right at the same time.
Phir (5 saal ke bachi apko kese tempting nazar aagaye) I thought ke it was also tragetted at all the men. Khair it was out of context.
But my way of perceiving things have changed a lot after this video, it helped me understanding women's perspective and the life my mom has lived. Felt sorry for her. Will do what I can to make it better IN SHA ALLAH.
@@feloniousjunk4702 did you ever confront your father about domestic violence ? Now that you've grown up
I couldn't agree with her more. My mom is a successful entrepreneur in Pakistan who built her business from scratch. After my dad's business crashed, she defied societal norms and, despite facing insults from some family members for starting her business to support the family, she persevered. The majority of men in Pakistan can be so negative and egoistic that they struggle to tolerate women's success. We must strive to eliminate this toxic culture and support the empowerment of women in all aspects of life
Ask your Holy book....as to what it says about this matter?
Ok ok all women are free to work but what guarantee that there will be no harassment at work place
An individual man, who will define when and where to stop imposing religious thoughts on another person. Imposing culture should stop and it will ultimately stops harassment. Thats a simple things we as a man can adopt and convey to our children. We always should see ourselves that either we are practicing islam and strive to do better in religious practices.
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai😂😂😂😂 kisne sikhaya ye
Yes women empowerment is a must for society....
I am a 18 year old boy in Lahore and I have looked around, I have observed this masculine society and I totally agree with her. The amount of violence that is just normalized by this society is horrifying, not only towards women but also towards children.
Little boy .. your 18... concentrate on your studies... don't burden yourself with misinformation
You have empathy. You wil be better than most Pakistani men
agreed! 💯
@@shahiduk1This isn’t misinformation, it is social awareness.
You have empathy, good. But this isn't limited to Pakistan, happens around the world. Even in First world countries
I absolutely love this woman. This is how a woman should be. So confident. So outspoken. Total bindass.
Doesn't islam allowed? To marry a baby when she start her MC? Doesn't islam allow marry cousin sister or step mom/dad.......why nobody dares to speak it?
I'll pray that allah give you a wife like her
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai… said allah.. simply following sunnat 😂😂😂
@@prb392total rubbish propaganda...i already explained to u before....
@@legendaryhound5261 bro stop explaing to me explain to your scholars who had grow their beard white by studying islam who advocate marrying child........also you should study first before "explanation" we have references of your holy siht.........
Mam i am a doctor a resident of emergency medicine. Please don't stop advocating women's rights. Sir Junaid please invite her more in your podcasts. I am feeling thankful to both of you. You are doing great job
Junaid bhai don't get dishearted by the low like ratio. Keep making such podcasts. This is one of the best podcasts you produced. This is my second favorite after the one with syed muzammil shah
Ok liberal
YES!
I have grown up in a Pakistani house, I have Pakistani relatives and I can tell you, she is not wrong. Incase you doubt that, go home and ask your mother how many times your dad made her wanna leave him but she could not because of the construct of the society. Women are being abused, sometimes its also mental.
Sorry , your mother had to go through that .
@@muhammadazhar4029based on your comment, i can imagine your wife will also go through it someday.
In India it is better.
Same 😭
I'm a 23 yrs old girl & I don't wanna get married due 2 the amount of abuse I've observed in our society (specially after marriage). My sister & a lot of other girls I know don't wanna get married due 2 the same reason (not that we want 2 roam naked in the streets, it's just that we r scared)!!!! 😶😶
Dude, not all men are monsters.
Yes there are bad men, but feminist portray such that 99 percent of men in the world are bad.
Don't be greedy, look for pious man with good character you'll be good ig
@@mynmeisname4825 how am I being greedy bro? I know there r good men too but in Pakistan (due 2 the culture we follow, poor upbringing, no accountability from law or society, victim blaming) most men r either not treating their women (wife) good (domestic violence, threat of 2nd marriage) or r netral (when their mothers taunt or have unrealistic expectations then husbands instead of amking boundaries, tell their wives 2 indure it, as she is elder & "dill ki buri nahi hain mama" & craking jokes of 2nd marriage). I still believe that there are good men here too & honestly I want 2 have a good caring husband & 2 kids but the thing is I'm scared 2 end up like my mother or other women I've seen in my family. may be it's only common in my society or may be I've seen this since childhood so it's haunting me more.
@@MaryamFarhan-hn9dcIm not calling u greedy, I'm saying that while looking husband for marriage don't be greedy as an advice.
I pray that Allah gives you husband who is best for you
Ameen
@@mynmeisname4825Pray for her to be successful in life and have a good career and happy life. Husband is not necessary.
If u think negative , god forbid negatives catches u
There is alot that I could not even imagine that she has discussed, has written and have confronted all her life with respect to upholding the prestige of a woman. Its a horrible world to be born in as a woman :'( cried my lungs out.. its hard hard to contain what is happening out there with women..
Tahira kazmi is being hated and trolled for just being TRUE.
Bilkul
Agree 👍🏼
This episode should be played on a top
local channel at prime time on repeat!🙌🏽
Feminist
@@ahsansiddique7496 subhuman
Agree 👍🏼💯
Ok 😂
آپ کو کس نے بتایا ہے کہ یہ ہر مرد کی بات ہو رہی ہے؟ اپنے سے سوچ لیا ۔ کامن سینس کی بات ہے ان مردوں کی ہی بات ہو رہی ہے جو ظلم کرتے ہیں۔
But ask your Holy book as to what it says about this matter. Societal values comes from your theological philosophy and in your case they all are theological dictats that must be considered as ideal human behaviour.
لیکن اپنی مقدس کتاب سے پوچھو کہ وہ اس معاملے میں کیا کہتی ہے۔ معاشرتی اقدار آپ کے مذہبی فلسفے سے آتی ہیں اور آپ کے معاملے میں وہ تمام مذہبی احکام ہیں جنہیں مثالی انسانی رویے کے طور پر سمجھا جانا چاہیے۔
Phr in aunty ny aik martaba bhi ye q nhi kaha k yahan me saary mardon ki baat nhi kar rhi
@@dr.tushar5222it says all that is important to maintain harmony in a society....But people interpret it wrongly
@@dr.tushar5222That theological writings in Quran are absolutely correct...it's the wrong interpretation of people...
This podcast is a great example of proving that women rather stay behind with a bear than a man!
Thanks God, be happy with a bear .
Sara time ye smjny mn lg gya k hasna hy ya rona
Pr pir smj aie k facts rolany waly hen aur andaz e bayan hasanay wala
Bht allaw mam❤
Infect i really don't have words to appreciate enough ❤
As A twenty year Old Man I am totally agreed with her . And it’s a dark and sad reality of Islamic republic of Pakistan .
بیس سال کا مرد ہوتا ہے ؟
Than Immediately leave ISLAM and become Human
@@zaksperspectivesame question from him??
@@sairakanwal2 you got the point right?
@@zaksperspective yes man.
Been following Dr. Tahira Kazmi for a long time, she's very intelligent and impressive personality.Only misogynistic and small mindsets disapprove her.
This only happens in places of poverty. Instead of blaming the people look at the government policies. Education is the key to unlock a slavery mindset. The country itself is unislamic.
@@hiraadieel6304 lol education is partially the problem. I can prove you illiteracy and awareness is matter of concern in all social classes.
@@maheenfatima5206This slogan is so wrong
"Mera jism meri marzi" don't they realise that a rapist can also defend himself saying this slogan, this slogan is atrocious if u look at the things it is justifying, this slogan justifies shirk,rape murder and etc
Correct slogan should be "Mera jism Allah ki marzi"
Also u don't have to be feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough.
U can fight for women's rights calling yourself a Muslim, no need to call yourself a feminist because feminism doesn't agree with islam and I will prove it why.
Feminism supports equality of rights between men and women
While islam promotes equity/justice
There is an important difference.
For example:
in islam
1 mans witness = 2 women
(according to feminism it should've been 1:1)
Most deserving of our good treatment amongst the people is our mother thrice then our father
(According to feminism it should've been half mother half father)
These are a few examples so the conclusion is Islam doesn't agree with feminism because men and women don't have equal rights but equity.
Somewhere women are superior, somewhere men are superior in rights.
But in Allah's sight both are equal, and none is superior to other except by taqwa.
But feminism when talking about Equality it's talking about Equality of rights, not equality of status in front of Allah.
No need to be a feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough.
Islam gave more rights to women then feminism ever will, because answer this question.
Is Allah not the most all knowing and most just? If yes then wouldn't he gave all the rights women should have through islam?
Also from outside feminist looks like they are demanding women's rights
But from inside it is a liberal agenda, which aim is to degrade men. It only fights for women's rights and not for mens rights because by definition it supports equality right so it should support both? No that doesn't happens,
After listening to these traumatizing stories of what women go through, I am sickened to the stomach to see how men are still getting triggered on the word “feminism”. Shameless.
🙏🙏🙏
Not all men bht sy admiyo ma aqal ha or bht so ma aqal arahi ab wo en masayel ko samjh rhy or support kr rhy sach ko
@@rafiamustafa5326 sirf developed countries me women ke halat thik hain..200+ countries hain...
Aur majority undeveloped aur developing countries ki hai.
to socho kitne women ke sath galat ho rha hoga?????
@@untamedsoul876 Pakistan is neither underdeveloped and not developed
Hum koi huts 🛖 mein Tou reh nai rahay, cement ke gharon mein hi reh rahay hain,
Na Tou itna common hai jitna logon ne bna dia hai aur na hi itna rare hai.
Feminism is turning into a meme their are some valid points but some points are stupid 😂
Junaid bhai k expressions dekhin he is feeling every single word
Literally feeling proud k ek mard beth ker ye baat keraha hai wo bhi itni ehsas k sath
I hope mard hazrat is se boht kuch seekhaingy
mard hazrat kuchh nhi seekhengey, religion is cancer, ulema aur qaziyo k brbad kr diya, free thinker bno aur philosophy pdho , syed muzammil ko suno, aur life m aage bdho 😊
@@mohammed_manish_joseph Muzammil is my favourite, I regularly listen to his Podcast. He inspired me to start my own Podcast
@@sharmeenismvlogs good acha lgta h ap jaise k log v pak me exist krte h.. apni country k future k liye ache logo ko sunna chahiye.. muzammil best hai, i cant explain how much...ap sbse bdi bat ap mentally apang nhi h..jbki mominaye kuch sunne ko taiyar ni hoti so all the best for ur bright future...muzammil sir or ap jese k logo ka rhna bht jruri h is duniya me 🫶🫴🕊️
This was an incredible podcast. I say the best among the serious ones. I salute you for addressing the taboos but discussing them and bringing it to the front. Some parts of the interview left me teary eyed. I respect her tremendously now. Proud to have strong and brave women like her who doesn’t back down and stays firm taking a stand.
Saw a podcast reel on Instagram and can surely say, 'So many insecure males are going to get pissed off' (I'm a boy myself), and she's right. Females have to go through a lot in our misogynistic society. As Muslims, we should learn to respect and provide a safe environment for women. 🤷🏼♂️🙌🏼
Bro the thing is, there is a way to talk about these issues. The way this lady js talking and many other women talk is straight yp alienating and toxic. Iss se Jo sahi baat bhi hogi woh bhi nahi maneinge log
U r hell right
But 5 fingers are not equal
While all women are not gold digger and bad
Same all men are not bad
Thank u
@@a.bmin-ki3946 obviously all are not bad, but I'm saying it's a major issue.
@@basheerwayne69 you're right, I do agree with you.
@@yummyboii201 there are hell issues I agree
But when Yu generalize
That is where the problems
And society run on both gender
So instead of create hatred
Go for betterment
Thank yu
God bless Pakistani womens.
Be independent girls
Love from India from A hindu girl
Chup urfi Javed 😂😂😂
junaid Bhai hats off to you on absorbing such information without crying, kon log hain hum yaar, hamara bohat sakht hisab hona hai aur humein samajh nahin a rahi hai , kudos to Dr tahira such a brave women
Dr. Tahira is very humble lady. When I was in my FSc Pre Medical, I used to follow her on Facebook. She also gave very valuable advises. I thought that how come a very senior lady would reply a not-so-developed teenager but she did.... I just wanna salute her with both of my hands❤❤❤❤ More power to her...
LONG LIVE GYNAE FEMINISM
This podcast was full of insightful knowledge and featured powerful stories of resilience. Dr. Sahiba's bravery and advocacy on women's issues are truly admirable.
My mother Wants to go to park for walk in evening but she can't do that because men's see her with bad eyes and administration of park say that come in burqa. How can we do jogging in burqa 😢
What the hell this is so annoying, this hit home bcz I love logging and I felt like how would I feel if I couldn't do that?
@@suchitaguria7157 yes your are right
Aurat mard ki kheti hoti hai… said allah.. simply following 😂😂😂
@@vineetdeorari8017 u r a Hindu Indian, bro how can u interfere & make fun of such a complicated topic!!!
@@MaryamFarhan-hn9dc I’m an Indian and we have survived with Muslims 1209 years… we understand you better than westerners.
Dr sahiba bilkul theek farma rahy hain,subko mera mashwara learn self love,learn self respect,respect your boundaries know your rights,learn to say know,heal your past trauma ,work on your codependency issues,my advise to all whether men or women
When I saw title, it seems like that it will too long to watch but when I started, I continue to listen because she is telling all the things which are in my heart except some misconceptions which may have better explanation but I agree 99% with her.
Luv this podcast,She stated all the truth.Most Pakistani men interpret islam in a wrong way and use it to their advantage.
If i had a dollar for everytime a guy has told me that women's religious responsibility is to take care of home, her family and her children and they shouldn't work unless they need to support their husbands, I'll be a millionaire. This statement and everything discussed on this podcast just serves men's life. Women are born to serve these men. When they don't they are forced and shamed to do so.
This has been one of the most bold, empowering and strong podcast for me. Thank you Dr. Tahira, you are a force to reckon with. Thank you, Junaid, for this insightful and thought provoking talk.
For those who think “not all men are the same” please have then sit alone in a room and have them take a truth test, I am pretty sure, all men would give the same answers if they’re from our society. No matter how progressive they can act within their households, they’re the same! Although i do disagree with a few things, Islam has granted women immense respect and women are considered strong too. In the end it all comes down to granting women equal “cerebral opportunity” rather than physical opportunities.
I am a teacher and also a student, I also see such things with our society's female,even with my female students, colleagues and classmates, they are got discouraged to have a vision to contribute in the development of society, only timely marriage is the vision they have from their parents and other society members and because of this they don't be able to built their career and don't be able to contribute their part in the society. Their vision is only to be a housewife.
I still remember when my mother told me about one of my father's friend who did this post coital tear thing to his wife. My mother and father went back to their house with barat after doing dulhan's rukhsati and once my father's friend who was a very very aggressive man went inside to the room with dulhan. Just after 15 mins he came outside and told my father about what happened. My mother went inside and she couldn't believe the amount of bleeding and pain the poor woman who was only a few hours dulhan was enduring. They had to rush the bride to the emergency and she wasn't even present in her own valima. And yes it was an arranged marriage and I have seen the couple several times later during my childhood and the uncle was always extremely horrible to his wife who was a very innocent and decent woman and was always very kind to me and others.
My god 😓
She is so right and on point...surely large number people are going to offend by this talk
Junaid uncle I applaud you for talking so openly about these issues… seriously meri nazar mein apki izzat bohot bhar Gaye….
Congratulations team for having podcast on thess multiple issues. All those who patronize you should share this podcast and all the esteemed guests who have been part of your podcasts in the past must share this to ensure it reaches a wider audience....
Hats off to the doctor who explained the issues in such an easy way. The way she is dealing with the people and their attitudes, it's certainly a big challenge.. still she was smiling throughout and trying her best to educate people. Hope people understand atleast the basics and try to bring in some change in them.
Damnnnn!
I consider myself a philosopher and I find hard to put my thoughts into words but she has done a great job at this and her thoughts will be a reference point for some of my theories.
We should accept the fact that women’s rights doesn’t exist here in pakistan😢
Human rights Nahi exist krte ap Women rights ki baat kr rahe 😂
Imran khan jail main hay, tum khusra right ki batain krty ho
Mam we need a legislature for women rights and intimate partner violence. Please raise your voice for legislature regarding these issues
After watchin this whole program m gettin a painful affect of emotional suffering of many girls n women she talked about.. I'm wondering if I should have watched it bc now i know these v. harsh traumatic things women go thru in thiz world which i never knew.. But one thing this program did is dat i now know how privileged I'm Alhumdulillah n many girls i know are.. I'll thank God whole my life abt it (bc its God's promise to increase a blessing which we're thankful for) that i couldn' imagine such things could exist in this world.. I got chills watchin it n cried for all those girls which I've never seen or heard of. Ya allah plz plz remove such a trauma or pain any girl or women is going thru.
At some level i regret why i know this all even this knowing is v. painful
Having exact..same feeling.. feeling tremendously blessed and wishing you unwatch this podcast
, yeah😕😕
Behtareen Podcast Junaid Bhai, much needed topic💜💯.
May Allah keep you in amaan🤲
Love u doctor.... I learned all of this when I went abroad.... Well long story short my wife is a military nurse n I am stay at home father...even I m accountant hehehe.. I unlearn everything when I left Pakistan..... My wife is from Philippines...😊
I too had to unlearn many negative view points and behaviours... We grow up with such toxicity re women, children and minority groups. The ability to unlearn and re-learn is what enables an individual to grow...
@@faree38green absolutely True ✌️
Dr Tahira Kazmi Zinda Baad endorsed your views
Salute to you, Mr Junaid Akram
Wonderful discussion🎉
All (wheather its male or female )should be accountable for their action and all provlems will be solved
Problems
She's speaking 💯 truth openly, iron lady mashallah, she's trying to spread awareness,hats off 🙏🏻
Good that you gave her time to speak it is important we allow people speaking about rights to speak more. This was a captivating talk , felt like we were finally speaking with someone ready to talk about truth and sachay maslay
this one was very informative for me.honestly open my eyes before jumping to the practical life
Bravo… Hats off and more power to her. Longest podcast I have ever watched. @junaidakram you’re the best! Feeling ashamed of shitty society
What a brave lady.
Bahut kuch seekhne ko mila madam se. Meri soch aaj change hui women's ke liye
I hope this Podcast will be a Kind of lesson to the audiance.BUNDLE OF THANKS to Dr.Tahira Kazmi
What an eye opening conversation! She is so amazing to be talking about so many difficult issues with such humor and grace. We have some ways to go. Salam to this lady and all brave feminist of Pakistan.
Junaid bhai what a valuable discussion. Respect!
The comments here exactly shows what she is saying is valid.
Agreed! Yahan wohi shareef hay jisko Moka nahi mila abhi.
Five fin are not equal
If Yu think all women are sufferers
Then I cannot argue with Yu
Thank u
@@noorsiddiqui6591is ka mtlb ap k father ya bhai ko moqa mily ga to wo bhe ye sab kren gy??? Har koi aik jaisa nai hota
@@noorsiddiqui6591sure, if we are that bad, don't get married, stay single, earn your living and enjoy your freedom!
mai nay 3 din laga kr ruk ruk kr ye video complete ki... amazing video.. sadly i didn't even knew about dr tahira. she's an amazing personality. truly inspiring 👍
Thank you for inviting her and giving her voice on a platform like yours!
Pakistani maulanas and their followers rn is just boiling😂😂😂..
when you don't read Quran but hate, true hatred to the core of heart.
Why everyone will read Quran? Do Muslims read every religion's scriptures? When Muslims judge other people based on their actions without reading their religious books then why can't other people do the same?
Why everyone will read Quran? Do you read every religious books?
@@RealSAAJUGAMER when all the hate is written in your books...then focus goes only to that.....
@@abcd-hj8kc Actions done by peacefuls is written in quran
man i need a part 2 on that
Such a beautiful human being. Thanks for inviting her on the podcast.
Sir Junaid You have done a great job by conducting this podcast.
Omg You and Mam Tahira type Well -educated people needed this society.
Thank you So much for this precious conservation.
Aag laga di … Aag laga di … 😂😂😂
Doctor Rocks
Pakistan Mens Shocked … 😎
Im 18F living in abuse. My dad beats my mom, me and my younger siblings. Even though my mom is financially independent, she is not seeking divorce because...... log kia kahen ge? society kia kahay gi?
This is why im feminist. If the domestic abuse bill had been allowed to pass, perhaps i would have gotten help.
Sorry to hear. Fortunately, the percentage of such cases is very low. I know 2 families where the women have been abusing their husbands. Let's not put everyone in the same category.
@@TheFaz793 its not low lmao look up the stats. just because it didnt happen to you doesnt mean it doesnt happen on a large scale. and i never put everyone in the same category. youre just delulu.
@@TheFaz793 very low k bachay, ye dekho. takes one second to look it up.
(and these are just reported cases)
* **32% of women in Pakistan** have experienced violence.
* **A study found 97% of women interviewed in hospital gynecology wards** had been victims of assault, ranging from verbal abuse to physical beatings and non-consensual sex.
* **A UN study found that 50% of married women in Pakistan** have experienced sexual violence and 90% have been psychologically abused.
* **Another study reported that 65% of women from a rural health center** had experienced domestic violence.
* **The prevalence of physical abuse against women is 56% in rural areas**.
* **In urban settings, the lifetime prevalence of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is 57.6%, 54.5%, and 83.6% respectively**.
* **A survey ranked Pakistan as the 6th most dangerous country for women, with 40% of women experiencing physical or emotional violence in their lifetime**.
sources - ncbi.nlm, geo news, UN, WHO, Al Jazeera
@@TheFaz793 * **32% of women in Pakistan** have experienced violence.
* **A study found 97% of women interviewed in hospital gynecology wards** had been victims of assault, ranging from verbal abuse to physical beatings and non-consensual sex.
* **A UN study found that 50% of married women in Pakistan** have experienced sexual violence and 90% have been psychologically abused.
* **Another study reported that 65% of women from a rural health center** had experienced domestic violence.
* **The prevalence of physical abuse against women is 56% in rural areas**.
* **In urban settings, the lifetime prevalence of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse is 57.6%, 54.5%, and 83.6% respectively**.
* **A survey ranked Pakistan as the 6th most dangerous country for women, with 40% of women experiencing physical or emotional violence in their lifetime**.
sources - ncbi.nlm, geo news, UN, WHO, Al Jazeera
Alright, from now on whenever such a beating situation arises just recite the undermentioned Dua in your heart/mind NOT by tongue for Multiple times till the time the situation defuses n also tell you mom too.
And after Namaz as a Dua too. And also offer 5 times Namaz too.
CAUTION to be noted:
Never read this Dua in your mind all the time. This Dua is only meant for worst scenario cases.
رَبِّي إِنِّي مَغْلُوبٌ فَانْتَصِرْ
Rabbi inni maghloobun fantasir
Bookmark this page n do lemme know the positive results after few days In Sha Allah.
Salam to both of you for bringing up this podcast .
ohh My God.. this was amazing everything she said was 100/100 or maybe more every word she said i could relate to and constant tears in my eyes listening to her amazing have no more words just brilliant Junaid bhai thanks for doing this 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This is first time I saw a new face of Faminisn. Junaid bhai great work !! Dr. Tahira Kamzi, keep up the good work you are doing a great job. May Allah bless you beyond what you expect.
As a teenager, i also see this in society women are totally harassed in Pakistan.
hats off to you bro
to bring such inspiring guest
Facts!!! Love this lady! Thank you for bringing her on the podcast!
Only intellectuals and literates will listen this podcast.. And out of a million subscribers merely 1000 have liked this video
Sahi kaha 👍🏼
70k views and 2k likes.....The ratio tells a lot....
These type of podcast will spread awareness. It's Eye Opening. 👍
Thankyou so much for this podcast❤❤❤two visionaries in one frame
I needed to hear all this to understand my identity. These days I just couldn't define myself as a woman living in such a society despite being so accomplished. Now it all just makes sense, its not me who is the issue, its them.
A lot of hurt egos incoming in the comments 😂
Apki bhi lag rhi
Exactly! Was thinking the same thing
Seriously 😂bhai Ye podcast wali mam basic facts bata rahi hai....yehi pakistani uk usa and Europe jaisi open minded country mai jaana chate hai😂
@@user-lz9vl8mo1y O Bhai ye anty apni khani suna rhi hy Pakistan me esa kuch nhi hota koi rare SE rare case me ho to pure world me hy na sirf Pakistan mePakistan
I guess they skipped that TRIGGER WARNING at the beginning of the video 😂
Love you doctor Sahiba and thank you Junaid sir for this. I even lost hope in podcast culture where people talk about imaginary shits such as Dajjal kub ayega, world war 3, and a lot of others you can guess. However, still there are some people who do a boring but real stuff such as discussing the problem to find out how to proceed in the future and be a community of humans (aik taraf tho ashrafulmakhloqat ka title dosri taraf victim blaming keh mard tho insan hi ni animal hai).
Sir Junaid Akram, you are doing an amazing work❤More power to you sir
I am here to listen her and know more about how different humans act and think in different circumstances.
1:19:13 I truly believe this. Men will be punished because of the women in their family. However, it won’t be because the women didn’t do hijab or didn’t listen to their wali. It will be because men treated women as second class Muslims and abused them even as Allah made all men and women equal and independent.
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There are many negative comments on your podcast on this topic but i appreciate it. Truth is bitter for these people
This slogan is so wrong
"Mera jism meri marzi" don't they realise that a rapist can also defend himself saying this slogan, this slogan is atrocious if u look at the things it is justifying, this slogan justifies shirk,rape murder and etc
Correct slogan should be "Mera jism Allah ki marzi"
Also u don't have to be feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough.
U can fight for women's rights calling yourself a Muslim, no need to call yourself a feminist because feminism doesn't agree with islam and I will prove it why.
Feminism supports equality of rights between men and women
While islam promotes equity/justice
There is an important difference.
For example:
in islam
1 mans witness = 2 women
(according to feminism it should've been 1:1)
Most deserving of our good treatment amongst the people is our mother thrice then our father
(According to feminism it should've been half mother half father)
These are a few examples so the conclusion is Islam doesn't agree with feminism because men and women don't have equal rights but equity.
Somewhere women are superior, somewhere men are superior in rights.
But in Allah's sight both are equal, and none is superior to other except by taqwa.
But feminism when talking about Equality it's talking about Equality of rights, not equality of status in front of Allah.
No need to be a feminist to support women's rights, being Muslim is enough.
Islam gave more rights to women then feminism ever will, because answer this question.
Is Allah not the most all knowing and most just? If yes then wouldn't he gave all the rights women should have through islam?
Also from outside feminist looks like they are demanding women's rights
But from inside it is a liberal agenda, which aim is to degrade men. It only fights for women's rights and not for mens rights because by definition it supports equality right so it should support both? No that doesn't happens,
Amazing podcast .. Mera mind kafi hadd tk clear Hua ..self respect is every thing In every women's life ..
Its always good to hear from an intelligent independently thinking woman, on the dismal situation of women in our society. Much conversation research n analysis is needed to bring awareness on better changes.
Due to very strong patriarchal traditions cemeted with hadiths based religious doctrine, poor education, poverty n expliotative political n social system etc the changes r gradual n may take time. Keep it up its important n vital.
1:38:00 Sorry to hear that people don't do blood and organ donation.
This is true for Indian muslims as well. They were told that it is Haram. But they can take organs in case of medical case from Kafirs.
What a Hypocrisy.
Dr Tahira highlighted some of the very vital things that women face in today's world. Not all men are alike. But sadly majority men expect the woman to not have an opinion as long as it is not creating a conflict with the views of the said man. If she shows an opinion then she's belittled for it, her emotional intelligence is questioned big time, not by anyone else but the man who's supposed to listen to her when she shares/talks about something.
Man can do and see what he wants. Why? Because he feel entitled of doing the exact thing he forbids his woman to do (just talking about the basic rights which can take a long list even). Its sad how our men think they are not answerable for their actions while in reality they are setting a wrong precedence for younger generations to come. Just hoping that the loop of male superiority complex would come to an end so things can become better.
After watching duration time I was going to skip it, then decided to watch first 5 minutes and now finished it in one sitting. Masha Allah impressed by her way of stating facts also wondering why the views are so low. I guess only few people have the courage to hear the truth.
More power to Dr. Tahira Kazmi 🙌🏻
What a podcast Junaid Sir 🙏🏼 More power to the guest👏👏👏What an amazing personality ❤ Much respect ✨
I love how she speaks Punjabi from time to time. There is something sweet, loving and apnayat about it. ❤❤❤
I am urdu speaking.
I really like this podcast. Specially Dr Tahira kazmi she did cover what happening in Pakistan with women 🇵🇰 and it’s reality SO SAD 😞
Yeah. This is a true reality in India and Bangladesh as well.
@@AmeyVikram16 originally I am from Pakistan 🇵🇰 but now days I am In United States 🇺🇸 past 23 years as a men I always respect my wife. Take care of her even when she was delivering my first child 👦 I was with her to support her and that day very painful for me and her.we always should respect women
@@riazali8408 You are absolutely right. Women are not our private property, they are independent individuals. They deserve respect, care and loyalty as much as men do. Very good on you for doing that. I’m from India btw, here in Indian cities situation is still better, but villages have a lot of discrimination.
As i am going to listen more and more to both of you. I am becoming a fan of you and thankful to. God bless both of you for your noble work.
Same my thoughts and answers to my mom whrn she said beta aise hi hota hai bs guzara krn aprta hai hr baat apni nai chlti i said na chalay har baat pr sahi baat ka right tu allah ne fia hai wrna meri qabar main jwab koi dusra deta aa k jb jwab mujay dena hai tu apnay kiay ki khud hi zimaydar hui
Best interview I ever heard before iss interview ko tu cinema ma lagana chaiya
I completely agree. Even educated people are not this educated about women’s health. Her family, husband and children should know what she goes through in order to bring life in this world.
I totally support Women rights ❤
Can't believe we have to explain to Pakistani men why women should be treated like humans. So much for Islamic republic of Pakistan. Can see why Iqbal said mujhe islam west mai zyada nzr ata hai 😭
Great podcast! Thanks for being the voice of so many women and raising awareness! 👍🏼 We need more people like you!
Kamal ka interview iss tarha ki batoon ka sessions hamra school ,collages and universities ma hona chayan taka larka larkiyon ko pata Chala ka what is right and wrong
Andrew tate sons are coming with their pathetic logics
Andrew tate kaha se aagya idhr?
Bhai yeh sirf Andrew Tate fans nahi hain. There are also people who are saying things in the name of tradition.
Logic donon sides ke paas kuch theek hota hai kich ghalat.iss tarah kehne se Jo mananay wali baat hai woh bhi koi nai manega.
Atleast tate is not munafiq .while feminists are
This already ages badly
Kudos to Junaid for sheding light on these subjects...
Junaid bhai I am XYZ, and an well educated solo man from a backward society.. from interior Sindh… my sister is married and she was harassed by a her husbands brother.. and she just revealed this to my mom .. and both families decided to Rafa dads matter .. I work far distance from home .. as I returned home I found my sister was going through a trauma and and both families try best to not reach info to me but finally I found it and I started supporting my sister and punished the culprit bastard.. thank for this informative podcast and my sister and the society will take positive benefit from this podcast .. thank you once again
Junaid bhai Agr society ko change kerna hai toe education revolution lana parhe gah purre pakistan mai bcz whole pakistani people minds are blocks excpt who thinks out of box. Otherwise there is no chance to change this shit society.
Aap khaaney khilwa lein gaari walon mein iftaar btwa dein cheekh ckheeh ke muft umra package bantey, aik bachey ki chand hazaar ki school ki fees maang kar daikh lein log aisey tarap jaatey hein jaisey patanai kya keh dia.
Doctor you are a gem , I
Got all the positive energy from you and Junaid BhAi as well!!!
Excellent podcast and interview. Keep it up!
Much needed topic to be discussed. Very good
Amazing amazing amazing mara pass alfaz Nahin hain iss khatoon ki boldness par Kash hamara mulk ki aurotoon ko samahaj a Jai (salute ha ap logon ko)