I am impressed at your children. They must be very brilliant. My videos are not easy and require a taste in thinking. Best of luck. Love to kids. Say Hi.
@@asadkhan67769 اسد خان صاحب اپ کا بہت بہت شکریہ میری طرف سے بھی اپ کے لئے اور اپ کی فیملی کے لئے ڈھیروں دعائیں 🤲 اپ کی محبتیں میرا حوصلہ بڑھاتی ہیں اور مجھے نئی ویڈیو بنانے کے لئے ہمت اور انرجی دیتی ہیں 💓
my apologies in advance I won't be uploading any more videos until the first week of October Will be going to Northern areas minimarg on a bike ride insha'Allah will post video on return.
Walaikum u salam, my kids are 9 years daughter and 8 years son Alhumdullialh. They both are not yet independent, I have to ask them several times to do a certain work even routine chores like doing homework, changing uniforms, putting back all the stuff at it's right place. Secondly, kindly recommend any games as you mentioned in the video which help boost intellectual and other aspects of their growth. Nevertheless, your work is tremendous ❤
A lot of patience is required in parenting and a lot of planning also Anytime your kids will become independent follow my advice on basic timetable and rules and let me know if it worked 30 years ago when I was raising my kids I gave them the game zoombins, Then it was called "The Logical Journey of Zoombibis Check out minecraft, Portal 2, Civilization VI. google your own search for games that develop ", strategic thinking, planning, problem solving, critical thinking and logical reasoning. play them yourself first to scan appropriateness, then play with the kids, see what works Let me know which one they liked
Ma sha Allah aap ki sari batein hi achi hein magar comments ko reply kerny wali baat un sb sy achi hy. I am mother of one 15 yrs girl and a boy of 11 yrs. The girl is well organized, follows her time table and performs really well in school but in housholds she has least interest. How may i create a balance. And the boy...he makes timetable, cant follow even from the second day...follows partially on first day though. He is in grade 5, performs good in school, loves to help me in households but lacks organization and determination, he gets bored quickly and leave the tasks in middle and tries to switch to other activity. I ahve to sit with him in order to make him complete the task. How i should tackle this. Finally, thank you very much for such wise talks. It really helps and help us thinking in broader perspective. Love from Quetta.
It seems that you are already in the top small percent of the families that I see in my practice as an organized household. The good thing is that you sit with them when they do their scheduled activities. Constant flow of water makes the sharp edges of sones smooth over time. keep doing the goos work, they will fall into routine, slowly but surely. When with them, try the mood to be upbeat and occasional laugh or humor will keep it interesting. the key is to not make it too serious. Kids like to have fun. Thanks for finding value in my talks. Love to kids.💕
Please give your opinion about home schooling, nowadays traditional education of traditional schools are of very low standards with high fees further not compatible with futures demands
Firstly I must admit that I am not qualified to give my expert opinions on the homeschooling although I find it a very interesting thing My advice is based on my 30 years of working with several families and seeing children develop into successful adults and that include my own two children homeschooling has a lot of potential but I have to see some homeschoolers children grow up into successful adults to actually comment on that. everybody who has an opinion on this is only speculating
These are too similar but slightly different diagnoses. Read up on his condition, watch youtube videos, search for them. you didnt mention age. go toyour neares Autism center. get needs evaluation.
A.o.a sir very nice.meri beti 8 year ki higyi h..international school me h..lac of confidence ki waja se waha admition krwYa h.mgr aj hi pata Laga h k zero socialization hui h koi frnds NH na hi class participation h.teCher k Sath b communication NH kr rhi academicLy b pechy h boht jbk 2 year pehlu higher position li thi..ab samjh NH arha k Kiya krna chahye.thnk u
AOA sir .. jazakallah apke video's se bht faida hota he hme bus sir 1 appel he apse ke agar urdo ziyada istemal kare to apka bht shukar guzar hngi qk mai kam parhi liki hon
Aoa,nice job sir,thank you, boht acha smjhya apne.sir Mera bara beta 10 years ka ha 6 mn prta hai apne schl.ka parny k baad konc books dain Jo.pary mtlb story books ya aur plz is bary mn help kar dain ,boht shukria.sir apka.
us ko achi aur big book shop pey regularly le key jaya karein, Wo khud apni pasand ki kitaab select karey ga aap khud bhi koi asaan kitab shuru kar lein,
Nowadays, parents often chase the names of certain schools and go through difficulties just to enroll their children in these so-called 'education brands.
Thank u soo much Bachey focus nahi kartey apni studies per studies mein buhat achey hai lakin lay kar Bethnal ho tha bare beta 9th mein woh hi buhat tang karta hai buhat motivate karti hn chota beta bilkul tang nahi karta woh buhat focused hai doing excellent in his studies in school Bara beta bhi buhat inteligent hai lakin bas har waqt us k sath bethey raho aur samjhtey raho independent nahi hoo raha hai thek hai mein us k sath hn in his studies lakin abhi independent nahi hoo gaa tu kab hoo gaa his age is 14 Plz advice me
والدین کو ہمیشہ یہ بات یاد رکھنی چاہئے کہ جب ان کے بچے نویں جماعت میں جائیں تو انٹر تک ان کی یوں دیکھ بھال کرنی ھے جیسے پہلی جماعت سے لیکر پانچویں جماعت تک کی تھی۔ اس کی جذباتی ضروریات کا بھی خیال رکھنا ھے اس کے ساتھ دوستی کو بھی بڑھانا ھے اور غیر محسوس انداز میں نگرانی اور نگہبانی بھی کرنی ھے اور سب سے بڑھ کر دعا ۔۔ اور والدین کا آپسی تعلق اور گھر کا ماحول جتنا پرامن اور با ادب ھو گا اتنا ھی اچھا اثر بچوں کی نشوونما پر ھو گا انشاءاللہ ۔۔ والدین خود کو ٹیم بنائیں نہ کہ ضدی بچہ ۔۔۔۔
سب سے پہلے تو اپ کو مبارکباد اپ ان والدین میں سے ہیں جو اپنے بچوں پر اپنی توجہ صرف کرتے ہیں یقینا اگے چل کر اچھا رزلٹ ائے گا دوسرا پوائنٹ یہ کہ فورا ایک ٹائم ٹیبل ضرور بنائیں اور اہستہ اہستہ اس پر عمل کرنا شروع کریں
JazakAllah .... time table bhi bana hua hai us ko bara beta fellow kabhi karta hai kabhi nahi mujhe buhat tension hoo rahi hai Olevels buhat hard hai us k leyeh buhat mehnet ki requirement hai bas us wajh se aur upset mein ho jati hn
Sir kaha jata ha k school me kamayab hona zindagi me kamayab hony ki guarantee nhi. Ak bacha agr school me average ha lkn confident ha supportive environments me reh raha ha to us k kamayab hony k chances zeada ha. Kindly explain .
@@mmkidsfunbymusfirahmusab7968 جس طرح اسکول کے صرف کسی ایک مضمون میں کامیابی اسکول میں کامیابی نہیں کہلائی جا سکتی اسی طرح اسکول کی کامیابی زندگی کا ایک مضمون ہے اس زندگی کے باقی مضمون اس سے بھی اہم ہے جس میں رشتے اور تعلق قائم رکھنے کی طاقت چیزوں کو سمجھنے اور فیصلہ کرنے کی طاقت اور پھر سب سے بڑھ کر کردار کی مضبوطی اور طاقت زندگی کے یہ چاروں حصے ہیں جس میں سے اسکول صرف ایک حصہ ہے اگلی چار ویڈیو میں میں ان چاروں حصوں پر باری باری تفصیلا وضاحت کروں گا
میں اپ کو اس سلسلے میں چند مشورے دے سکتا ہوں نمبر ایک کوئی ٹائم ٹیبل ضرور بنائیں اور روز اس پر اصرار کریں چاہے بچے مانے یا نہ مانے اہستہ اہستہ ان کو عادت پڑ جائے گی نمبر دو جتنی دیر اپ چاہتے ہیں کہ بچے بیٹھ کر پڑھائی کریں اتنی ہی دیر اپ بھی ان کے ساتھ بیٹھ کر ان کی یا اپنی کوئی نہ کوئی پڑھائی کریں اور ان کی پڑھائی میں ان کے ساتھ دلچسپی لیتے رہیں اور فائنلی ماحول کو سختی سے غصے سے بور اور م**** مت بنائیں بلکہ اس کو کسی نہ کسی طرح ہلکا پھلکا رکھنے کی کوشش کریں یہ تینوں باتیں اسان نہیں لیکن کسی بھی اچھی چیز کو تیار کرنا اسان نہیں ہوتا انشاء اللہ اہستہ اہستہ افاقہ ہوگا مہینے ڈیڑھ کے بعد مجھے ضرور بتائیے کہ سلسلہ کیسا چل رہا ہے
Salam Dr. Salman Younus! I started listening to your videos with my school going children n now we all are your listeners. Thank you Sir.
I am impressed at your children. They must be very brilliant. My videos are not easy and require a taste in thinking. Best of luck. Love to kids. Say Hi.
جزاک اللّہ اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو سلامت رکھے اور آپ کو صحت والی ذندگی عطاء فرمائے ❤
@@asadkhan67769
اسد خان صاحب اپ کا بہت بہت شکریہ میری طرف سے بھی اپ کے لئے اور اپ کی فیملی کے لئے ڈھیروں دعائیں 🤲
اپ کی محبتیں میرا حوصلہ بڑھاتی ہیں اور مجھے نئی ویڈیو بنانے کے لئے ہمت اور انرجی دیتی ہیں
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@@onedeepdive
آپ جیسے تعلیم یافتہ اور مخلص لوگ مستقبل کے لیے بہترین رہنما ہیں لوگوں کو چاہیے اس چینل کو فالو کریں
Best & fruitful suggestions thanks Dr,Sb.
My humble thanks.
This video is food for thought.I am learning a lot from your tips and trying to implement.Thank you
Thank you for your constant encouragement and reminders
@@onedeepdive you are welcome sir.
my apologies in advance
I won't be uploading any more videos until the first week of October
Will be going to Northern areas minimarg on a bike ride insha'Allah will post video on return.
@@onedeepdive great.have a safe trip sir.enjoy
आप एक जिंदा दिल है बहोत ज्ञान वर्धक है सहि समज मिलि.
धन्यवाद सुरेश, आप एक बुद्धिमान व्यक्ति हैं। मैं भाग्यशाली हूं कि आप मेरे चैनल पर हैं।
Best best best .... Alkhamdullilah
@@SK-2506
شاباش
Walaikum u salam, my kids are 9 years daughter and 8 years son Alhumdullialh. They both are not yet independent, I have to ask them several times to do a certain work even routine chores like doing homework, changing uniforms, putting back all the stuff at it's right place. Secondly, kindly recommend any games as you mentioned in the video which help boost intellectual and other aspects of their growth. Nevertheless, your work is tremendous ❤
A lot of patience is required in parenting and a lot of planning also
Anytime your kids will become independent follow my advice on basic timetable and rules and let me know if it worked
30 years ago when I was raising my kids I gave them the game zoombins, Then it was called "The Logical Journey of Zoombibis
Check out minecraft, Portal 2, Civilization VI. google your own search for games that develop ", strategic thinking, planning, problem solving, critical thinking and logical reasoning. play them yourself first to scan appropriateness, then play with the kids, see what works
Let me know which one they liked
Ma sha Allah aap ki sari batein hi achi hein magar comments ko reply kerny wali baat un sb sy achi hy.
I am mother of one 15 yrs girl and a boy of 11 yrs.
The girl is well organized, follows her time table and performs really well in school but in housholds she has least interest. How may i create a balance. And the boy...he makes timetable, cant follow even from the second day...follows partially on first day though. He is in grade 5, performs good in school, loves to help me in households but lacks organization and determination, he gets bored quickly and leave the tasks in middle and tries to switch to other activity. I ahve to sit with him in order to make him complete the task. How i should tackle this. Finally, thank you very much for such wise talks. It really helps and help us thinking in broader perspective. Love from Quetta.
It seems that you are already in the top small percent of the families that I see in my practice as an organized household.
The good thing is that you sit with them when they do their scheduled activities. Constant flow of water makes the sharp edges of sones smooth over time. keep doing the goos work, they will fall into routine, slowly but surely.
When with them, try the mood to be upbeat and occasional laugh or humor will keep it interesting. the key is to not make it too serious. Kids like to have fun.
Thanks for finding value in my talks.
Love to kids.💕
@@onedeepdive❤❤
Aoa Dr Salman you R my teacher in imdc
Glad to be re-connected. Where are you in life? Job, family?
Best wishes.💕
Excellent... 👍🤲💐
@@abrarahmad4628
Thanks a lot 💕💕🙏
Aoa how are you sir.Looking forward to your new video 😊
So nice of you
Taking a much-needed break
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Please give your opinion about home schooling, nowadays traditional education of traditional schools are of very low standards with high fees further not compatible with futures demands
Firstly I must admit that I am not qualified to give my expert opinions on the homeschooling although I find it a very interesting thing
My advice is based on my 30 years of working with several families and seeing children develop into successful adults and that include my own two children
homeschooling has a lot of potential but I have to see some homeschoolers children grow up into successful adults to actually comment on that.
everybody who has an opinion on this is only speculating
Ak ak bat 100% sach . Tried and tested👍
Great 👍 thanks a lot❤
I have a question. Is it right for all the parents to force/want their children to get the best grades n medals at their ecdamic achievements?
@@smartbusinesspvtltd.9396
Force....No
Encourage...Yes.
Vary informative video for in-depth goals. My child is ADHD or Autistic. Please suggest something for me that by following I could upbring him
These are too similar but slightly different diagnoses.
Read up on his condition, watch youtube videos, search for them. you didnt mention age. go toyour neares Autism center. get needs evaluation.
A.o.a sir very nice.meri beti 8 year ki higyi h..international school me h..lac of confidence ki waja se waha admition krwYa h.mgr aj hi pata Laga h k zero socialization hui h koi frnds NH na hi class participation h.teCher k Sath b communication NH kr rhi academicLy b pechy h boht jbk 2 year pehlu higher position li thi..ab samjh NH arha k Kiya krna chahye.thnk u
Kya kisi doctor ko ya psychologist ko dikhaya,?
@@onedeepdive g nh abi tak nh check krwaya kiya need h check krwny ki..
She tak intrest in books but accordingly her choice mean exams ya study ko focus nh krti
AOA sir .. jazakallah apke video's se bht faida hota he hme bus sir 1 appel he apse ke agar urdo ziyada istemal kare to apka bht shukar guzar hngi qk mai kam parhi liki hon
@@gulstrade8698
Aap Aapka bahut shukriya ke aap dehaan se mere video sunti hai
Inshallah main zyada Urdu mein bola karunga
From Qatar
Thank you for watching and responding earliest 💕🙂
Aoa,nice job sir,thank you, boht acha smjhya apne.sir Mera bara beta 10 years ka ha 6 mn prta hai apne schl.ka parny k baad konc books dain Jo.pary mtlb story books ya aur plz is bary mn help kar dain ,boht shukria.sir apka.
us ko achi aur big book shop pey regularly le key jaya karein, Wo khud apni pasand ki kitaab select karey ga
aap khud bhi koi asaan kitab shuru kar lein,
@@onedeepdive thnx sir
Nowadays, parents often chase the names of certain schools and go through difficulties just to enroll their children in these so-called 'education brands.
You are spot on.
Brand worship has damaged our society beyond repair
Thank u soo much
Bachey focus nahi kartey apni studies per studies mein buhat achey hai lakin lay kar Bethnal ho tha bare beta 9th mein woh hi buhat tang karta hai buhat motivate karti hn chota beta bilkul tang nahi karta woh buhat focused hai doing excellent in his studies in school
Bara beta bhi buhat inteligent hai lakin bas har waqt us k sath bethey raho aur samjhtey raho independent nahi hoo raha hai thek hai mein us k sath hn in his studies lakin abhi independent nahi hoo gaa tu kab hoo gaa his age is 14
Plz advice me
والدین کو ہمیشہ یہ بات یاد رکھنی چاہئے کہ جب ان کے بچے نویں جماعت میں جائیں تو انٹر تک ان کی یوں دیکھ بھال کرنی ھے جیسے پہلی جماعت سے لیکر پانچویں جماعت تک کی تھی۔ اس کی جذباتی ضروریات کا بھی خیال رکھنا ھے اس کے ساتھ دوستی کو بھی بڑھانا ھے اور غیر محسوس انداز میں نگرانی اور نگہبانی بھی کرنی ھے اور سب سے بڑھ کر دعا ۔۔ اور والدین کا آپسی تعلق اور گھر کا ماحول جتنا پرامن اور با ادب ھو گا اتنا ھی اچھا اثر بچوں کی نشوونما پر ھو گا انشاءاللہ ۔۔ والدین خود کو ٹیم بنائیں نہ کہ ضدی بچہ ۔۔۔۔
سب سے پہلے تو اپ کو مبارکباد اپ ان والدین میں سے ہیں جو اپنے بچوں پر اپنی توجہ صرف کرتے ہیں یقینا اگے چل کر اچھا رزلٹ ائے گا
دوسرا پوائنٹ یہ کہ فورا ایک ٹائم ٹیبل ضرور بنائیں اور اہستہ اہستہ اس پر عمل کرنا شروع کریں
JazakAllah .... time table bhi bana hua hai us ko bara beta fellow kabhi karta hai kabhi nahi mujhe buhat tension hoo rahi hai Olevels buhat hard hai us k leyeh buhat mehnet ki requirement hai bas us wajh se aur upset mein ho jati hn
@@rajajaved1986 JazakAllah Allah aap ko buhat khush rahein ameen
@@onedeepdive JazakAllah Allah aap ko buhat khush rakhein ameen
Sir bachiyo k liye filds bataaye
بچے کس عمر کے ہیں؟
Sir kaha jata ha k school me kamayab hona zindagi me kamayab hony ki guarantee nhi. Ak bacha agr school me average ha lkn confident ha supportive environments me reh raha ha to us k kamayab hony k chances zeada ha. Kindly explain .
@@mmkidsfunbymusfirahmusab7968 جس طرح اسکول کے صرف کسی ایک مضمون میں کامیابی اسکول میں کامیابی نہیں کہلائی جا سکتی اسی طرح اسکول کی کامیابی زندگی کا ایک مضمون ہے اس زندگی کے باقی مضمون اس سے بھی اہم ہے جس میں رشتے اور تعلق قائم رکھنے کی طاقت چیزوں کو سمجھنے اور فیصلہ کرنے کی طاقت اور پھر سب سے بڑھ کر کردار کی مضبوطی اور طاقت
زندگی کے یہ چاروں حصے ہیں جس میں سے اسکول صرف ایک حصہ ہے
اگلی چار ویڈیو میں میں ان چاروں حصوں پر باری باری تفصیلا وضاحت کروں گا
Aoa sir.how are you?
@@fari887
Many thanks
Hope you are doing well and enjoying life
@onedeepdive alhumdulilah fine sir. sir video Ka wait ho rha hy.and let us know about your trip too.regards
السلام علیکم
وعلیکم السلام راجہ صاحب
جی بچے دوسرے فضول کاموں میں وقت ضائع کرتے ہیں کہنے کے باوجود پڑھتے نہیں کیا حل ہے ۔
میں اپ کو اس سلسلے میں چند مشورے دے سکتا ہوں
نمبر ایک کوئی ٹائم ٹیبل ضرور بنائیں اور روز اس پر اصرار کریں چاہے بچے مانے یا نہ مانے اہستہ اہستہ ان کو عادت پڑ جائے گی
نمبر دو جتنی دیر اپ چاہتے ہیں کہ بچے بیٹھ کر پڑھائی کریں اتنی ہی دیر اپ بھی ان کے ساتھ بیٹھ کر ان کی یا اپنی کوئی نہ کوئی پڑھائی کریں اور ان کی پڑھائی میں ان کے ساتھ دلچسپی لیتے رہیں
اور فائنلی ماحول کو سختی سے غصے سے بور اور م**** مت بنائیں بلکہ اس کو کسی نہ کسی طرح ہلکا پھلکا رکھنے کی کوشش کریں
یہ تینوں باتیں اسان نہیں لیکن کسی بھی اچھی چیز کو تیار کرنا اسان نہیں ہوتا انشاء اللہ اہستہ اہستہ افاقہ ہوگا مہینے ڈیڑھ کے بعد مجھے ضرور بتائیے کہ سلسلہ کیسا چل رہا ہے