lol!!! too funny. Wouldn’t it be great if women in regular bars, clubs or anywhere just came up to you like the dancers in strip clubs do. Maybe if your Brad Pitt they do!
@@ARTS8250-Nyc so when woman are staring at me on the street everytime when i go out but they got no smile on their face ,should i take their stare as compliment?(no kidding ,they staring at me like i would be some celebrity,it makes me uncomfortable and confused cause im missing the smile sign on their face so i could talk to them.)No they are just staring at me like a cow at the new gate ,without smile.
I didnt for most of my life because I was led to believe at a young age - primarily by my bullying older sister - that no girl would ever like me. What Ive come to realize over the last few years is that Ive always had a level of "pretty privilege" but never knew it because I had such low self esteem.
Years ago I worked with this poor waitress with extremely low self-esteem. One day she's arrived at work fighting back tears and being very quiet. I struck up a conversation and her partner seemed quite opinionated on her appearance seemed to be the cause of her low confidence. I was shocked, because she was a very pretty lady. When I told her something along the lines of ignore that shit he's telling you, cos your gorgeous and most guys here would agree. She just went BRIGHT RED and walked away for a bit, then came back to me saying that that was the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to her. Sad to see nice people destroyed by the ones who are supposed to care for them the most.
Yeah I agree with you that’s why I can’t understand why women who think they are fat, ugly, and stuff feel that way when they are the complete opposite. I feel like it’s a control tactic to keep the woman because they know she’s beautiful (persona and looks). I’ve seen women do that to men too if they know that guy is a good and honorable. They lowkey realize that the guy deserves better, even if he doesn’t realize it
I appreciate your reminders for folks to avoid becoming arrogant. Attraction often begins visually/energetically, but personality and character are what sustains it.
But personality and character doesn't matter one iota if you don't have the looks. Which means the few men that do have the looks can do whatever they damn well please, because there are more than enough women who will replace the ones who get fed up...
@hazelhazelton1346 I totally agree, I did this experiment after my first serious break-up in college.... I had always been the nice guy, kind of shy, but fun to talk to. So I flipped the narrative and became a little flirty and a bit of an ass when it came to teasing and dropping girls. It kept them coming around, but I ultimately found it unsatisfying and a bit out of character for me. It's so much more fun to get to know the whole person and not just what's underneath the covers.
Easiest way to know if you're attractive, just be in the presence of a beautiful woman but don't look at her or them right away, pretend you're doimg something else, something important. Then when you feel you're being watched, take a quick glance at them. If you notice them staring and quickly turn away, she wants you!!! Even if she/they dont act on it.
As a young man if I heard a pack of girls giggling behind me, I automatically assumed they were making fun of me and would immediately become irate - but keep it buried inside, maintain a poker face, and try to get out of there and go somewhere private to recover, perhaps cry to release the emotions and feelings of shame. This was a result of low self esteem instilled from a very young age - mainly from my own family - and my deeply ingrained belief that no girl would ever like me, so all interactions with girls were taken in a negative light. It wasn't until my mid-40s when I started watching coaches like this that I realized girls have tried to approach me for decades but I never understood it, and instead either were confused as to why they were talking to me or viewed their actions with deep suspicion and hostility.
I was always the same. I consider myself average looking, but I _know_ I'm not handsome like the guys that make the women go "whoa". (Like Hot Mugshot Guy lol). I was a pudgy kid growing up and I was used to being teased. I lost my weight in my teens, but was still girl-shy and felt awkward talking to them. It took me several years to mostly get over that. To this day, (now in my 40's) when a woman seems interested in me, my mind immediately goes to "why would she be interested in me?" I hate it, but that's how my mind was forged I guess. It kinda sucks not being one of the lucky ones gifted with natural attractiveness to women where they really don't even have to try, they just have to exist. I'm sure they have their own problems, though. lol
the girls could have been teasing each other. one time (some 30 yrs ago) I was inthis bakery to have coffee & sth to eat. the moment i got my stuff & turned around when i heard the salesgals screaming "U r horny" to one or more of themselves. I looked around but didn't ask "who?". my fault, it remains a mystery.
More times than not “ Family “ can be the biggest haters , I was constantly being reminded how skinny I was as a kid through my early teens , I was 6/2 and weighed 140 pounds at age 14 , I took after my fathers side , and since my parents were divorced and I looked like my dad , guess who caught the brunt of the anger at my father since he wasn’t around .
Exactly the same thing happened to me. With therapy and online coaches I started to realize the damage done by my family and close “friends”, this was in my late 40’s.
You're probably just Gen Z, not abnormal for you to be attractive but everyone's too busy on their phones with their parasocial relationships to fake people to care
Ive mastered the art of "invsi-man", i wouldn't change anything about my life (even though its one no one had interest in), i would however have like to have been warned of everything i WONT get in life when before i was 20 so i could have focused on the parts of life that would directly benefit me later. I moved country, i would have done this 10 or more years earlier if i wasnt "oooo your find someone" guesswork advice thrown at me..... and could have been in another country with a better quality of life still not finding someone.
I don't think I have experienced these too much either, and I think I get laid as much or more than the average guy, so I'm going to call BS on this chick. Either that, or there's no correlation between being 'attractive' to women and getting successful with them.
@@grassblade63 IN all the years ive watched these kinda videos i am very glad to see some real response like this... and is interesting, i have a feeling the attraction thing is a sliding scale, who they will do sex with i dont think so, so at some point certain parts will overlap but likely very different for each guy. I dont see ANY of this, i also never get sex (or any interest at all on any level).
Here’s what I see. I constantly get compliments for how nice I dress, how nice I am, how I carry myself. And asked why are you single? But here’s fact. They all are married or in relationships. Not one has been single or available. This is not what single women want. Believe me I’ve heard it for years. So in conclusion men, just be comfortable with yourself and continue being the best you possible
@@ARTS8250-Nyctalk dirty very quickly with them. Majority of women are very promiscuous even if they have a relationship. Beware modern women have their sidewalls beat out...
@@ARTS8250-NycI'm an older man, and I'm having women in their 20's throwing themselves at me. It's flattering, but what the hell are we going to talk about before and after sex? I'm different from other guys. I need a conversation.
Once you are no longer single, that's when they want you. It's like they have proof you can commit, or have proof that you are good enough for some woman to want you
I worked at my job for about 6 months now and had 4 girls around me. I ignored all but 1 and I asked for her number to just chat and said she was not interested but still continues to be around me. There are times it seems like she is angry with me. She had a family member start working there about 3 weeks ago and they kept glancing at me, smiling, and giggling like school girls. Why should I go talk to her if she is apparently not interested? Ball is in her court.
@@Mujinfu Be very careful. Want some good advice? Don't even think of dating someone you work with. She said she wasn't interested. If you pursue this it's called harassment in the workplace and that's instant dismissal.
@@Autonomous1969 I don't plan on it. I leave her be. I go to work and get in my area for that day and she appears. Too much to be a coincidence. Plus the assignment board has her somewhere else but nope by me. Had friends see her take weird paths to see me. Break time she always sits 2 chairs away from me. One time we all went on break and where I sat all the chairs were gone(10+) and there she was sitting there and had her feet resting on one across and offered it to me. Twice when I was in the break room before I left she would look through the window at me before the exit. Not sure how long but long enough for it to be weird. I just asked because maybe she wants to talk and if not she will stop. She did not stop.
I've never had a problem attracting women. My problem is i always attract the crazy ones. Been single for 5 years by choice. The peace and tranquillity is pricless.
At least 95% of men never experience anything even remotely like any of this, and the ones that do, don't need telling. They already know. She only wants to sell her book, gentlemen, she has neither the ability nor the inclination to help us.
@@TheFracturedfuture95% is definitely accurate. Notice she kept reiterating “beautiful” and “gorgeous” women. So if the women doing these things have low desirability then it doesn’t matter.
@@TheFracturedfuture 30% of men have absolutely never heard or encountered such occurrences from attractive women much less women in groups. You don’t fit the profile of what women universally consider to be gorgeous then these will not be your experiences. Maybe 95% is a stretch, but one thing for sure it’s not anywhere near a third of men. That’s not to say that guys can’t get some action from decent females, but that doesn’t mean females are kissing their butt cheeks while they’re at it either because that’s certainly not the case. Hell most men can’t even get females to initiate interaction with them. Let’s not do that dude.
Man or woman..... Beauty is beauty... Inside and out. Giving compliments genuinely is a thing that everyone should do. I really dislike people who bring up negative comments.
Not true, this video is dumb and not accurate, women always looking at me, staring at me and then turning away quickly when I notice. I don't have any deformities or dress bad, so what else could it be. Most women stare me in the eyes or they looking at the print in my pants no matter what type of pants I'm wearing.
This is all very nice until you ask out the barista that was winking at you and it turns out she was just a happy person and now youre labeled a creep. Because remember... if youre handsome you are just decisive but if your kinda ugly you are a creep. Be careful
@@DanIngham the alpha thing is some bs dremt up by ufc fighters wannabes. Im not a bad looking dude, in good shape and have a very manly beard, I work construction and drive big machines, but I still have weakneses and feelings. The real problem is that we are letting main stream media tell us how to be men and women. ridiculous
I’ve been told that I’m pretty good-looking and yet it seems most women these days simply don’t like to look people in the face for fear of sending the wrong signal, even when you just say hi in passing.
i noticed that women make frequent eye contact with me ( more than 3 times), placing herself within my field of vision, strategically moving closer to me, compliments, and making the first approach. ( not all the time)
I got tapped on the shoulder by a beautiful girl a while ago while I was feeling good in the bar…I was like (stay cool 😎) and she smiled adoringly at me and said….youve got toilet roll on your foot! 😂 devastated! I can’t believe you mentioned it here.
I too got tapped on the shoulder by a beautiful girl a while ago while I was feeling good in the bar…I was like (stay cool 😎) she said I´m really good looking etc. Well she was drunk as hell (ie a capable drinker that gives no signs) and she had just broken up with her bf of years and looking for a rebound.
When I used to go out with the lads years ago, it was a running practical joke that random members of the group would tuck about a 5 sheet length of toilet paper in the waistband of one of the others. So he’d be walking around trying to chat birds up and looking like he’d just been for a dump and somehow completely messed it up. Happier times. 😂😂
I’ve never experienced any of this it sounds like it’s from a TV show. I’ve never seen this around men more attractive than me either. Even my friend who’s a GQ model has never seen any of this
Exactly. I'm like where is she getting this stuff from? This is certainly not geared towards above average men. This stuff only applies to celebrities.
You can be a perfect 10 and women aren't going to ever compete with each other in flattering your looks. It just doesn't happen that way in life. It's funny though.
This sounds like she pulled all this info from watching movies lmao. It’s a lot more subtle than she makes it sound. Here’s what I’ve noticed: 1. Twiddling and uncharacteristically shy 2. What I call the “deer in a headlights” look. Eyes wide pupils dilated. Often paired with lip biting. It looks a lot like shock. 3. Wanting to be around you, finding reasons to touch you, and most often reasons to smell you lol 4. Yes gazes when you walk into a room but then a knee jerk reaction of looking away if you notice. This typically happens continually and you’ll find them trying to sneak gazes. Confident ones will hold the gaze and probably smile or laugh. 5. They don’t always take a photo with you, sometimes they will have you take the photo for their friends but use it as an excuse to interact with you. 6. They’ll straight up tell you you’re hot or that their friend thinks you’re hot
Thank you for this. The very fact that this video is required, just sums up just how confused and no idea men are, in terms where they stand with women because women will just never be open with men on whether they like them or not !!! Women still need to just sit on the fence, judge men and expect the man always be the one putting themselves out there for her !!!
Buy cologne that doesn't come in pint jars. Buy a couple of nice watches. Whiten your teeth. Shine your shoes. Wash your hands/clean your nails. Better yet, get a manicure.
If a group of women would approach me like that I would probably just turn bright red and stop functioning. Two doing that at the same time was stressful enough.
The strongest sign i get is when one or a group of teens (wich are more unfiltered than older ladies) stalk me in places and stand almost in my personal space looking and smiling constantly
Question for you, my GF is indonesian and I'm still learning the language and she went to her parents today (I'm in the uk she in Indonesia) and I was on a phone call with her and I caught her glancing at me after her mother or sister said some, then she replied and they all started to laugh really loudly and then she glanced at me again. Can I assume they were talking about me?
(0 for 6) Video subtitled: Signs You're Invisible to Women. I'm not knocking your great informative video Anna, just sad to know the truth and not knowing what I'm doing wrong.
Slow down... you mean if all the women in the room are looking at me and talking to me, they think I'm hot? I'm gonna have to study this insight further.
When you are comfortable and happy with who you are and don't try to behave in any unnatural way. You will find someone who wants you for who you are. It may take a ton of rejection, but it is just the way to find out who isn't compatible until you narrow it downs to the ones that are.
I have zero male friends, mainly because most of them don't want me around their women or wives, and the other is because they always think I can get then women as easily as I can get them. And I HAVE NEVER SNAKED A GIRL FROM A FRIEND OR ENEMY FOR THAY MATTER.
I am an idiot, I have had these things happen to me, but I never picked up on this before, I never had confidence in myself, and always felt self conscious about my lazy eye. Even in high school I would sit by myself at the lunch table and all the girls would come and sit with me, and I still didn’t get it, I just thought they were being nice to me or felt sorry for me. It wasn’t until years later that my buddy said to me “I don’t know why all the girls like you “ and I still didn’t get it, my confidence was just that low at the time 😢
Wow! So if a bunch of women e turns their heads at you as you pass them by or you are constantly complimented at your physical attributes and want to stick around and even fight for you, you can consider yourself handsome and attractive. Who would have thought?
I've experienced this type of positive attention on a few isolated occasions lately, which can be very gratifying, the trouble is, when I take the initiative to ask for someone's contact info and send them a message the next day asking them out, the message almost always goes unanswered. The explanation I've been given is that they have so many options, my message gets lost in a sea of competing messages from other guys they found attractive who followed up, and whatever magic occurred in that moment I met them gets drowned out by the abundance of attractive guys availing themselves to them. May I request a follow-up video instructing us on what to do to move things forward when we're fortunate enough to receive these signals? Realizing I have the capability to be perceived as attractive is a great first step, now what?!
Few things make me feel more awkward than being the subject of a group giggle.... all I can do is shrug. Maintaining the mystery probably would have been a better strategy than some of my prior reactions, haha.
lol nobody experiencing these things needs this video to know. More important is when you find out ten years too late that someone you were into was into you the whole time but you saw no signs.
This happens to me, and it comes from women that I do like and I see regularly. However, it happened to me on an out of town business trip this last week. It explains some things with the girl I really like who is terrified of making the leap with me. I think part of that terror is she thinks she'll lose me because every other guy she has had has dumped on her. It is affirming, I handle it with grace and class because i want long term commitment, not just this week or tonight. That's part of the thing. Women sense that and they are drawn to it.
Sounds like she’s keeping you on the back burner to me. I’d go on a date with someone else and see how she reacts. If she sees you going on dates and exploring your options it will show her you may not wait forever and it will get her to consider whether or not she wants to take the chance at losing you as an option. Many people go through break ups. It’s still not good to lead people on.
Every one of these things is so completely obvious that no one would need to be told in the first place... I mean if youre sooo good looking youre getting these types of reactions, im pretty sure you already know it lol!
The group giggle in of itself is my hobby. I just start telling stories and joking and being silly till they giggle into tears. I love making women laugh.
I would never have guessed that the guy in the center of women's attention who makes them giggle, makes them compete to make him the best complement, is overloaded by their interest and makes them flirt like there's no tomorrow, yes, that guy, believe it or not, is in fact a sexually attractive guy.
Women are often attracted to confidence, no matter what you look like. I see so many people without confidence it is no wonder they dont get looked at. Here is a test, next time you are near someone, look them in the eyes. If they look away, then they are not confident. Dont be afraid of women. They are not scary. They are actually fun.
I'm quite used to having groups of women laughing at me. When they look at me, though, it's with the horrified expressions of someone looking at a gory car crash.
Hi Anna, thanks as always for the info. Video request (and Idk how doable this would be but…): Would you by any chance be able to put together a video that explains how to make the signs discussed in this video take place please? Ik that both me, and others would find it to be rlly helpful?
I had many women over the years tell me they were separated when they were only on a girls night out. Or 2 to 4 months into the relationship tell me they want to tell me their real name because they really liked me and then get angry with me when I dumped them for lying..
They blow up my inbox with unsolicited pics and beg for pics and get mad when you don't show them the attention they want and block you. Pretty much they act like guys. It's sad cuz really you just try to know people..
I get this when I go out...but it's awkward..compliments I just say Thank You and I'm very humbled by it... I don't think I am all that..women buy me a drink? again it's offsetting. Once a lady said, "You are too cute for your own good, you don't know it and that's what makes you more attractive." I'm not conceited, but appreciative and just me.
Idk. I didn't get much attention before that one girl started complimenting me. Then suddenly all the other girls started treating me way better. Felt like a conspiracy.
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Really well I was considered unattractive by black's especially African Americans. because I'm ugly for a dark skin man to them smh.
This usually happens to me at the beginning of the night, but as soon as I run out of dollar bills, the ladies want nothing to do with me.
Weird, same for me man….
this is why you need to spread your dolor carefully hahahah
lol!!! too funny. Wouldn’t it be great if women in regular bars, clubs or anywhere just came up to you like the dancers in strip clubs do. Maybe if your Brad Pitt they do!
You speak the truth 💯
Pic only one and buy her a drink only. You'll soon pic wisely
Women looking at you and giving you compliments is a sign you're attractive? Who knew!
Yeah! Even if women or men did so... we would never have guessed it! : P
@@ARTS8250-Nyc so when woman are staring at me on the street everytime when i go out but they got no smile on their face ,should i take their stare as compliment?(no kidding ,they staring at me like i would be some celebrity,it makes me uncomfortable and confused cause im missing the smile sign on their face so i could talk to them.)No they are just staring at me like a cow at the new gate ,without smile.
I didnt for most of my life because I was led to believe at a young age - primarily by my bullying older sister - that no girl would ever like me. What Ive come to realize over the last few years is that Ive always had a level of "pretty privilege" but never knew it because I had such low self esteem.
@@Random8181 you're not alone.
Omg mom, gross!!!!
Years ago I worked with this poor waitress with extremely low self-esteem. One day she's arrived at work fighting back tears and being very quiet. I struck up a conversation and her partner seemed quite opinionated on her appearance seemed to be the cause of her low confidence. I was shocked, because she was a very pretty lady. When I told her something along the lines of ignore that shit he's telling you, cos your gorgeous and most guys here would agree. She just went BRIGHT RED and walked away for a bit, then came back to me saying that that was the nicest thing that anyone has ever said to her. Sad to see nice people destroyed by the ones who are supposed to care for them the most.
Yeah I agree with you that’s why I can’t understand why women who think they are fat, ugly, and stuff feel that way when they are the complete opposite. I feel like it’s a control tactic to keep the woman because they know she’s beautiful (persona and looks). I’ve seen women do that to men too if they know that guy is a good and honorable. They lowkey realize that the guy deserves better, even if he doesn’t realize it
What a long drag of a shit story
This is a psychological tactic to gas light someone's self perception and value.
@TM-il5oh no it's not actually, you're prolly guilty of this.
@@te9591 🤡🪠🪠🪠🪠🪠
I dont believe it most women cant step away from their phones long enough to even notice anything going on around them so I call BS.
sounds to me like someone isnt getting at least a few of these signs...
@@tonstruck5873Do you shame him for that ? Lol
Poor soy boy is hurt
It is not easy to manage their phones. Let alone, in many cases a secret second one.
That’s prolly just you bro 😂
Step one: be attentive.
Step two: don’t be unattractive.
Elementary my dear Watson
Step 3 :if you wanna get laid a lot lower your standards 🤷🏼♂️…..not low enough,keep going 😉…..nope not yet ,keep going…..
😂😂
Well that settles it. I am most definitely not sexually attractive lol
lol same here bud.
Your humbleness and Sense of humor are attractive. Don't knock yourself so quickly
@@toddwilson2297 To who? Lol I’m everyone’s friend but nobodies lover, story of my life.
@@positivevibes532To Todd Wilson I imagine 🤷🏽♂️
None of these things ever happens to me
Any tiny grain of confidence that I had has just been destroyed 😂
I appreciate your reminders for folks to avoid becoming arrogant. Attraction often begins visually/energetically, but personality and character are what sustains it.
Well put.
Exactly that. Know it but don't show it, arrogance is a turn off, be a good person and if you are attractive they'll come.
But personality and character doesn't matter one iota if you don't have the looks. Which means the few men that do have the looks can do whatever they damn well please, because there are more than enough women who will replace the ones who get fed up...
@hazelhazelton1346 I totally agree, I did this experiment after my first serious break-up in college.... I had always been the nice guy, kind of shy, but fun to talk to. So I flipped the narrative and became a little flirty and a bit of an ass when it came to teasing and dropping girls. It kept them coming around, but I ultimately found it unsatisfying and a bit out of character for me.
It's so much more fun to get to know the whole person and not just what's underneath the covers.
Easiest way to know if you're attractive, just be in the presence of a beautiful woman but don't look at her or them right away, pretend you're doimg something else, something important. Then when you feel you're being watched, take a quick glance at them. If you notice them staring and quickly turn away, she wants you!!! Even if she/they dont act on it.
What about if they stare and point and sometimes laugh, what does that mean?
... err, My friend wants to know 😕
I get this All the time No Lie 🎯❤️💯
@@princeamongmen7064that’s when I ask them who told them about my micropeen.
@@princeamongmen7064women love to fuck with men's egos. There's UA-cam videos on this. It makes them feel superior. Women can be terrible people too
As a young man if I heard a pack of girls giggling behind me, I automatically assumed they were making fun of me and would immediately become irate - but keep it buried inside, maintain a poker face, and try to get out of there and go somewhere private to recover, perhaps cry to release the emotions and feelings of shame. This was a result of low self esteem instilled from a very young age - mainly from my own family - and my deeply ingrained belief that no girl would ever like me, so all interactions with girls were taken in a negative light. It wasn't until my mid-40s when I started watching coaches like this that I realized girls have tried to approach me for decades but I never understood it, and instead either were confused as to why they were talking to me or viewed their actions with deep suspicion and hostility.
Sameeeeeee
I was always the same. I consider myself average looking, but I _know_ I'm not handsome like the guys that make the women go "whoa". (Like Hot Mugshot Guy lol). I was a pudgy kid growing up and I was used to being teased. I lost my weight in my teens, but was still girl-shy and felt awkward talking to them. It took me several years to mostly get over that. To this day, (now in my 40's) when a woman seems interested in me, my mind immediately goes to "why would she be interested in me?" I hate it, but that's how my mind was forged I guess. It kinda sucks not being one of the lucky ones gifted with natural attractiveness to women where they really don't even have to try, they just have to exist. I'm sure they have their own problems, though. lol
the girls could have been teasing each other.
one time (some 30 yrs ago) I was inthis bakery to have coffee & sth to eat.
the moment i got my stuff & turned around when i heard the salesgals
screaming "U r horny" to one or more of themselves. I looked around but
didn't ask "who?". my fault, it remains a mystery.
More times than not “ Family “ can be the biggest haters , I was constantly being reminded how skinny I was as a kid through my early teens , I was 6/2 and weighed 140 pounds at age 14 , I took after my fathers side , and since my parents were divorced and I looked like my dad , guess who caught the brunt of the anger at my father since he wasn’t around .
Exactly the same thing happened to me.
With therapy and online coaches I started to realize the damage done by my family and close “friends”, this was in my late 40’s.
As an ugly man I can vouch for this video, I've never experienced any of these things.
This lets me know I'm not sexually attractive but I already knew that.
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Wow, i've never experienced any of this. Great
You're probably just Gen Z, not abnormal for you to be attractive but everyone's too busy on their phones with their parasocial relationships to fake people to care
Ive mastered the art of "invsi-man", i wouldn't change anything about my life (even though its one no one had interest in), i would however have like to have been warned of everything i WONT get in life when before i was 20 so i could have focused on the parts of life that would directly benefit me later. I moved country, i would have done this 10 or more years earlier if i wasnt "oooo your find someone" guesswork advice thrown at me..... and could have been in another country with a better quality of life still not finding someone.
😂😂😂😂 in a good way
I don't think I have experienced these too much either, and I think I get laid as much or more than the average guy, so I'm going to call BS on this chick. Either that, or there's no correlation between being 'attractive' to women and getting successful with them.
@@grassblade63 IN all the years ive watched these kinda videos i am very glad to see some real response like this... and is interesting, i have a feeling the attraction thing is a sliding scale, who they will do sex with i dont think so, so at some point certain parts will overlap but likely very different for each guy.
I dont see ANY of this, i also never get sex (or any interest at all on any level).
Here’s what I see.
I constantly get compliments for how nice I dress, how nice I am, how I carry myself. And asked why are you single?
But here’s fact. They all are married or in relationships. Not one has been single or available. This is not what single women want. Believe me I’ve heard it for years.
So in conclusion men, just be comfortable with yourself and continue being the best you possible
Yes it is the absolutely same for me. Every woman is asking me how I can still be single but all of them already have a man...
Exactly!! I’ve come to realize I’m apparently a blast to be around/be friends with - but basically not romantically attractive at all lol
@@ARTS8250-Nyctalk dirty very quickly with them. Majority of women are very promiscuous even if they have a relationship. Beware modern women have their sidewalls beat out...
@@ARTS8250-NycI'm an older man, and I'm having women in their 20's throwing themselves at me. It's flattering, but what the hell are we going to talk about before and after sex? I'm different from other guys. I need a conversation.
Once you are no longer single, that's when they want you. It's like they have proof you can commit, or have proof that you are good enough for some woman to want you
Don't worry, guys, we're almost done with the AI sex bots and then we won't have to deal with this nonsense any more.
I call this 'The things I have never seen' channel.🙃
Right? This is preying on men with no social experience. None of this ever happens.
7. They constantly hang around you but haven't got the confidence to talk to you.
This
@@ARTS8250-Nyc I think just like you. If you can't talk to me then why should I talk to you?
I worked at my job for about 6 months now and had 4 girls around me. I ignored all but 1 and I asked for her number to just chat and said she was not interested but still continues to be around me. There are times it seems like she is angry with me. She had a family member start working there about 3 weeks ago and they kept glancing at me, smiling, and giggling like school girls. Why should I go talk to her if she is apparently not interested? Ball is in her court.
@@Mujinfu Be very careful. Want some good advice? Don't even think of dating someone you work with.
She said she wasn't interested. If you pursue this it's called harassment in the workplace and that's instant dismissal.
@@Autonomous1969 I don't plan on it. I leave her be. I go to work and get in my area for that day and she appears. Too much to be a coincidence. Plus the assignment board has her somewhere else but nope by me. Had friends see her take weird paths to see me. Break time she always sits 2 chairs away from me. One time we all went on break and where I sat all the chairs were gone(10+) and there she was sitting there and had her feet resting on one across and offered it to me. Twice when I was in the break room before I left she would look through the window at me before the exit. Not sure how long but long enough for it to be weird. I just asked because maybe she wants to talk and if not she will stop. She did not stop.
The guy who pulls up in a $250,000 car and walks into the room with a suitcase full of cash is the guy who makes cooters melt
Guys that lead with their money are the biggest fools ever!
@@donaldoehl7690 to you and I, yes. To eager vaginas...nope.
Damn. My cars 350k maybe that's mynproblem
Alternatively titled "How to tell you aren't sexuially attractive" hahasha!
Hahahahahahahahahahaha
I’m pretty sure that negative Nancy mentality is why you’re still single
@@MarvelMTs ...or my sense of humour lol
@@MarvelMTs Nope. It's the other way around. ;)
@@MarvelMTsexactly
Cool literally none of these ever happen, thanks for the reminder
Same....
Join the club…Lol
I've never had a problem attracting women. My problem is i always attract the crazy ones. Been single for 5 years by choice. The peace and tranquillity is pricless.
I'm fairly certain if a group of women are giggling in my general direction it's not because they think I'm 'hot'
Same!!! I know they are making fun of me .
At least 95% of men never experience anything even remotely like any of this, and the ones that do, don't need telling. They already know.
She only wants to sell her book, gentlemen, she has neither the ability nor the inclination to help us.
Cant miss
95% is a stretch.
@@TheFracturedfuture95% is definitely accurate. Notice she kept reiterating “beautiful” and “gorgeous” women.
So if the women doing these things have low desirability then it doesn’t matter.
@@dezcuts5319 Even then I wouldn't say 95%.
Maybe 70%
@@TheFracturedfuture 30% of men have absolutely never heard or encountered such occurrences from attractive women much less women in groups. You don’t fit the profile of what women universally consider to be gorgeous then these will not be your experiences. Maybe 95% is a stretch, but one thing for sure it’s not anywhere near a third of men. That’s not to say that guys can’t get some action from decent females, but that doesn’t mean females are kissing their butt cheeks while they’re at it either because that’s certainly not the case. Hell most men can’t even get females to initiate interaction with them. Let’s not do that dude.
Man or woman..... Beauty is beauty... Inside and out. Giving compliments genuinely is a thing that everyone should do. I really dislike people who bring up negative comments.
This. Give compliments to both male and female. Doesnt matter if youre a straight or not. Giving compliments will make most feel better.
Literally zero of these things happen when I walk into a room. Guess now I know huh?
Ironically men who are getting these things definatly not watchig this video, they already know😅
Not true, this video is dumb and not accurate, women always looking at me, staring at me and then turning away quickly when I notice. I don't have any deformities or dress bad, so what else could it be. Most women stare me in the eyes or they looking at the print in my pants no matter what type of pants I'm wearing.
I’m more likely to get hit by an Astroid than any of these happening
This is all very nice until you ask out the barista that was winking at you and it turns out she was just a happy person and now youre labeled a creep. Because remember... if youre handsome you are just decisive but if your kinda ugly you are a creep. Be careful
But if you are alpha you truly don’t give AF if a chick views you as a creep and you keep being you and know your intentions were good and not bad
I'm not very good looking so I just keep to myself. If a girl likes me, she can be the one to break the ice.
@@DanIngham the alpha thing is some bs dremt up by ufc fighters wannabes. Im not a bad looking dude, in good shape and have a very manly beard, I work construction and drive big machines, but I still have weakneses and feelings. The real problem is that we are letting main stream media tell us how to be men and women. ridiculous
I’ve been told that I’m pretty good-looking and yet it seems most women these days simply don’t like to look people in the face for fear of sending the wrong signal, even when you just say hi in passing.
i noticed that women make frequent eye contact with me ( more than 3 times), placing herself within my field of vision, strategically moving closer to me, compliments, and making the first approach. ( not all the time)
I got tapped on the shoulder by a beautiful girl a while ago while I was feeling good in the bar…I was like (stay cool 😎) and she smiled adoringly at me and said….youve got toilet roll on your foot! 😂 devastated! I can’t believe you mentioned it here.
I'd still say she was interested though, if she's initiating conversation.
I too got tapped on the shoulder by a beautiful girl a while ago while I was feeling good in the bar…I was like (stay cool 😎) she said I´m really good looking etc. Well she was drunk as hell (ie a capable drinker that gives no signs) and she had just broken up with her bf of years and looking for a rebound.
sounds like she put it there to have a excuse for starting conversation
When I used to go out with the lads years ago, it was a running practical joke that random members of the group would tuck about a 5 sheet length of toilet paper in the waistband of one of the others. So he’d be walking around trying to chat birds up and looking like he’d just been for a dump and somehow completely messed it up. Happier times. 😂😂
@@Drew.P.Todger "birds" ? undoubtedly you´re from UK 🤪
I've encountered the group giggle before, but always assumed they were mocking me.
It’s official I’m not attractive. I don’t get none of this. Cheers I got a bottle to finish
I’ll bring a glass and join you
I’ve never experienced any of this it sounds like it’s from a TV show. I’ve never seen this around men more attractive than me either. Even my friend who’s a GQ model has never seen any of this
Exaaactly ,😅
Exactly. I'm like where is she getting this stuff from? This is certainly not geared towards above average men. This stuff only applies to celebrities.
You can be a perfect 10 and women aren't going to ever compete with each other in flattering your looks. It just doesn't happen that way in life. It's funny though.
That, my friend, is EXACTLY what women will do if you have the balls to act like you couldn’t care less. They eat out of your hand.
This sounds like she pulled all this info from watching movies lmao. It’s a lot more subtle than she makes it sound. Here’s what I’ve noticed:
1. Twiddling and uncharacteristically shy
2. What I call the “deer in a headlights” look. Eyes wide pupils dilated. Often paired with lip biting. It looks a lot like shock.
3. Wanting to be around you, finding reasons to touch you, and most often reasons to smell you lol
4. Yes gazes when you walk into a room but then a knee jerk reaction of looking away if you notice. This typically happens continually and you’ll find them trying to sneak gazes. Confident ones will hold the gaze and probably smile or laugh.
5. They don’t always take a photo with you, sometimes they will have you take the photo for their friends but use it as an excuse to interact with you.
6. They’ll straight up tell you you’re hot or that their friend thinks you’re hot
None of this has happened to me either.
Like I said, it looks like I took all the ugly in the family.😂😂
Iam ugly, alone over 15 years. No one looks or talks to me . I accept it
Never had any of those happen but I also do not go looking for them to happen too
Thank you for confirming what I suspected for years. Women DO NOT find me attractive.
This happens to me every time I walk into my work department.
Thank you for this.
The very fact that this video is required, just sums up just how confused and no idea men are, in terms where they stand with women because women will just never be open with men on whether they like them or not !!!
Women still need to just sit on the fence, judge men and expect the man always be the one putting themselves out there for her !!!
😢 I must be Quasimodo because not a single one of these have ever happen to me
On second thought, I'm not even like Quasimodo. He at least got Esmeralda
@@williamlebsch4945 Disney lied to you
Buy cologne that doesn't come in pint jars. Buy a couple of nice watches. Whiten your teeth. Shine your shoes. Wash your hands/clean your nails. Better yet, get a manicure.
If a group of women would approach me like that I would probably just turn bright red and stop functioning. Two doing that at the same time was stressful enough.
Happens to me all the time. Unfortunately, the women are either obese or over 60. The rest are looking down at their phones.
The strongest sign i get is when one or a group of teens (wich are more unfiltered than older ladies) stalk me in places and stand almost in my personal space looking and smiling constantly
I'm Chris Hanson with Dateline NBC. Just kidding lol
That's disgusting
@@Tmo2024He didn’t say he did anything with them, retard.
Regardless of age anyone engaging in “ proximity seeking” is a sign of attraction
You're probably a pup yourself.
Wait til you hit 40, that's when you'll notice the cougars (or the cougars start to notice you..)
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I thought girls giggle, women snuggle? The way you talk sometimes Anna like we're still in the 80's, no social media. Life was good you know.
Question for you, my GF is indonesian and I'm still learning the language and she went to her parents today (I'm in the uk she in Indonesia) and I was on a phone call with her and I caught her glancing at me after her mother or sister said some, then she replied and they all started to laugh really loudly and then she glanced at me again.
Can I assume they were talking about me?
(0 for 6) Video subtitled: Signs You're Invisible to Women. I'm not knocking your great informative video Anna, just sad to know the truth and not knowing what I'm doing wrong.
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Slow down... you mean if all the women in the room are looking at me and talking to me, they think I'm hot? I'm gonna have to study this insight further.
None of these things has happened to me.Ever.I must be really ugly…
The perfect world every man dream, but only a small percent can get!!
Thanks for the nonexistent circumstances to look for.
(Looks in a Mirror)
(Mirror Breaks)
Yeah... Thanks for the confidence boost, but I know better... 😅😭
If all these things were happening to me I wouldn't be watching a video to find out if I'm attractive.
I think I'm less attractive than I did before this video
When you are comfortable and happy with who you are and don't try to behave in any unnatural way. You will find someone who wants you for who you are. It may take a ton of rejection, but it is just the way to find out who isn't compatible until you narrow it downs to the ones that are.
I’m guessing another way a guy can tell is if he is hated by other guys.
Jealousy. Hot guys sure of themselves won't care anyway.
Bet
@@ARTS8250-Nyc older women usually won't as they have practicality issues from cheating. It's the young girls who like to test the waters.
I have zero male friends, mainly because most of them don't want me around their women or wives, and the other is because they always think I can get then women as easily as I can get them. And I HAVE NEVER SNAKED A GIRL FROM A FRIEND OR ENEMY FOR THAY MATTER.
All this happened to me until I realised they were looking at somebody behind me.
Very good episode again ! ❤
I am an idiot, I have had these things happen to me, but I never picked up on this before, I never had confidence in myself, and always felt self conscious about my lazy eye. Even in high school I would sit by myself at the lunch table and all the girls would come and sit with me, and I still didn’t get it, I just thought they were being nice to me or felt sorry for me. It wasn’t until years later that my buddy said to me “I don’t know why all the girls like you “ and I still didn’t get it, my confidence was just that low at the time 😢
As a person that lives by Gratitude. I would just say thank you to any compliment.
If you miss any of these 'signs' you are officially a sea cucumber floating in space
Wow! So if a bunch of women e turns their heads at you as you pass them by or you are constantly complimented at your physical attributes and want to stick around and even fight for you, you can consider yourself handsome and attractive. Who would have thought?
None of this has ever happened to me, I guess I have my answer. Lol
I've experienced this type of positive attention on a few isolated occasions lately, which can be very gratifying, the trouble is, when I take the initiative to ask for someone's contact info and send them a message the next day asking them out, the message almost always goes unanswered. The explanation I've been given is that they have so many options, my message gets lost in a sea of competing messages from other guys they found attractive who followed up, and whatever magic occurred in that moment I met them gets drowned out by the abundance of attractive guys availing themselves to them. May I request a follow-up video instructing us on what to do to move things forward when we're fortunate enough to receive these signals? Realizing I have the capability to be perceived as attractive is a great first step, now what?!
Go for women in they're late 20's early 30's. They know they are getting older better chance if a reply.
Few things make me feel more awkward than being the subject of a group giggle.... all I can do is shrug. Maintaining the mystery probably would have been a better strategy than some of my prior reactions, haha.
I LOVE your accent and you possess an EXCELLENT vocabulary!
Great video and 100% right because I know I’m ugly because non of this has happened to me. You just proved what I always believed.
I’m glad I’m ugly and don’t have to worry about this stuff!
None of this has ever happened to any man ever. Unless he is literally a Hollywood celebrity.
lol nobody experiencing these things needs this video to know. More important is when you find out ten years too late that someone you were into was into you the whole time but you saw no signs.
Most of the events I go to don't have people taking pictures at all.
This happens to me, and it comes from women that I do like and I see regularly. However, it happened to me on an out of town business trip this last week. It explains some things with the girl I really like who is terrified of making the leap with me. I think part of that terror is she thinks she'll lose me because every other guy she has had has dumped on her. It is affirming, I handle it with grace and class because i want long term commitment, not just this week or tonight. That's part of the thing. Women sense that and they are drawn to it.
Sounds like she’s keeping you on the back burner to me. I’d go on a date with someone else and see how she reacts. If she sees you going on dates and exploring your options it will show her you may not wait forever and it will get her to consider whether or not she wants to take the chance at losing you as an option. Many people go through break ups. It’s still not good to lead people on.
Every one of these things is so completely obvious that no one would need to be told in the first place... I mean if youre sooo good looking youre getting these types of reactions, im pretty sure you already know it lol!
I struck out, sweet!
Good way to stay single.
better that way.
Just like the Apostle Paul said.
What if the synchronized attention is you walk into a room and everyone looks at you terrified. ? 😬
When you are casually walking and they look you in the eyes and stick their tounge like snakes
This confirms what I've already known my entire life. I will die alone.
The group giggle in of itself is my hobby. I just start telling stories and joking and being silly till they giggle into tears. I love making women laugh.
I would never have guessed that the guy in the center of women's attention who makes them giggle, makes them compete to make him the best complement, is overloaded by their interest and makes them flirt like there's no tomorrow, yes, that guy, believe it or not, is in fact a sexually attractive guy.
Women are often attracted to confidence, no matter what you look like. I see so many people without confidence it is no wonder they dont get looked at. Here is a test, next time you are near someone, look them in the eyes. If they look away, then they are not confident. Dont be afraid of women. They are not scary. They are actually fun.
😂😂 so the fact that I have gotten NONE of these signs ever in life, confirms I am the Forrest troll that I was always scared that I was?
06:21 - This happens to nobody but celebrities, no?
I'm quite used to having groups of women laughing at me. When they look at me, though, it's with the horrified expressions of someone looking at a gory car crash.
Hi Anna, thanks as always for the info. Video request (and Idk how doable this would be but…): Would you by any chance be able to put together a video that explains how to make the signs discussed in this video take place please? Ik that both me, and others would find it to be rlly helpful?
Talk to people, make them laugh, and let the women see you make them laugh.
dont send this person money. what youre looking for is easily found elsewhere for free
So, it's official -- I'm ugly as hell.
All relationships are transactional. The terms can vary.
You forgot to mention when they all go quiet mid conversation or become shy or unneasy when u ask simple questions, like what cider do u serve 😉 😂
Got it...I'm not attractive. Thanks for the clarification.
I finally made it to the rocket science class.
I had many women over the years tell me they were separated when they were only on a girls night out. Or 2 to 4 months into the relationship tell me they want to tell me their real name because they really liked me and then get angry with me when I dumped them for lying..
Never experienced any of these situations.
If women treat you like you're Brad Pitt, it might mean that they find you attractive. 😂 good luck not letting that go to your head!🤣😜😎
Never experienced any of these ever in my life. I wonder how it feels.
They blow up my inbox with unsolicited pics and beg for pics and get mad when you don't show them the attention they want and block you. Pretty much they act like guys. It's sad cuz really you just try to know people..
It also helps if you're Chad. Like moths to the light.
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I believe this is a very great 🔥 video. Definitely leaves an impression and understanding what to make sure to do and not do.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very entertaining! You are very eloquent
I get this when I go out...but it's awkward..compliments I just say Thank You and I'm very humbled by it... I don't think I am all that..women buy me a drink? again it's offsetting. Once a lady said, "You are too cute for your own good, you don't know it and that's what makes you more attractive." I'm not conceited, but appreciative and just me.
Idk. I didn't get much attention before that one girl started complimenting me. Then suddenly all the other girls started treating me way better. Felt like a conspiracy.