Many Women Can't Handle Rejection by a Handsome Man

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  • @thabomsindo8135
    @thabomsindo8135 2 роки тому +189

    They try shaming you, gay rumor is always the first thing.

    • @christopherwolf3134
      @christopherwolf3134 2 роки тому +72

      Yep, imagine a man saying she must be lesbian if she don’t like him. The foolishness

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +48

      That's a big one right there.

    • @TUBESTEAKNIG
      @TUBESTEAKNIG 2 роки тому +10

      Facts lol

    • @mctreasure
      @mctreasure 2 роки тому +6

      @@christopherwolf3134 big L said that, was a tough bar lol

    • @derrickgarcia5236
      @derrickgarcia5236 2 роки тому +11

      It's a shit test. I usually say, " I like women, WHY?! U trying to put in an application!?"
      They usually don't say nothing and look at u.

  • @DanTheMan4477
    @DanTheMan4477 2 роки тому +391

    WHEN YOU'RE A HANDSOME MAN AND YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK TO A WOMAN, THEY START SHAMING TACTICS ON YOU. YOU DON'T LOOK AT THEM AND IF THEY'RE NOT GETTING ATTENTION FROM YOU, THEY START TRYING TO MAKE YOU FEEL BAD!

    • @Forevermirin94
      @Forevermirin94 2 роки тому +115

      Exactly! They will also start to call you "gay" and act like there is something "wrong" with you.

    • @elta6241
      @elta6241 2 роки тому +60

      Attention is the coin of the realm.

    • @Aaringrey
      @Aaringrey 2 роки тому +14

      @@elta6241 wise words homie

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 2 роки тому +13

      And some of us don't care. If we truly felt afraid of a real man (masculinity, looks) we wouldn't look for the handsome man anyway.

    • @maravilloso002
      @maravilloso002 2 роки тому +47

      That's usually the busted pillsbury types. I had that happen to me a few weekends ago, I was ordering takeout and there were two black women (older and homely) who kept bursting out laughing out loud while I was ordering. I was not trying to holler at them at all, and she said something like "he probably has a small dick" or something to that effect to get me to not avert my gaze and look at them. I't so annoying. I usually wear headphones when I go out in public uglies think it's sweet and that can just come up to me and talk.

  • @lilrad2560
    @lilrad2560 2 роки тому +113

    I always lose jobs behind this shit. I stay to myself and I’m quiet. I don’t do the workplace romance so I ignore a lot of women at the workplace and try to focus. Never works, either some clowns has a problem with me because his crush can’t take her eyes off me or the woman in a higher up position just makes my job a living hell. They expect me to be a dog in heat when in reality I just want some damn money.

    • @eugeniusbonaparte
      @eugeniusbonaparte 2 роки тому +23

      Brother Tell Me About It. Im In Restaurant And Most Dudes Are Overweight And Short( Or Shorter Than Me ) I Constantly Have To Check Other Insecure Beta Males At Work. And It Hurts Because I Don't Even Think About Them All I Want Is To Get The Job Done
      But Hey; That's Why I Temp/Freelance So When The Bullsh#t Comes I Just Leave....🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @dnydeltoro
      @dnydeltoro Рік тому +3

      Amen

    • @natedagr8257
      @natedagr8257 Рік тому +8

      This is exactly what is happening to me right now. Apparently the moment people see me on zoom and i was swearing athletic wear the put downs start. I was even called "Thor" because i was apparently built like him. Ive had a 19 year old LDS missionary stalk me, 2x exes and various women ive never even met following me from place to place. Holding a job is very difficult because you ed up intimidating others and they just want you out or start sabotaging your work.

    • @DGodwithaplan2
      @DGodwithaplan2 6 місяців тому +1

      I dealt with this

    • @danielcollins43
      @danielcollins43 2 місяці тому

      FACTS Story Of My Life glad someone else understands this BS

  • @bobbythespaceghost9934
    @bobbythespaceghost9934 2 роки тому +252

    Those insecurities kick in for them when a man says "no". Once a man can control is lust and emotions, a woman would be unable to control a man with her lady parts and mind games. Then you'll see what her TRUE CHARACTER is about behind those initial characteristics.

    • @robertpitts8161
      @robertpitts8161 2 роки тому +16

      👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @barak9966
      @barak9966 Рік тому +10

      Absolutely, not all of them... Some are very down to earth and respectful. Yet a lot of them show you thier true colours when they get rejected. I've encountered women who basically used the to flatter me, attempting to make me change thier minds and when they realized it's not going to happen they started to berate me... Usually it's women who ghosted me and then popped out of no where... Simply told them I'm not interested and told them if they weren't interested or ghosted me in the past I see no reason to give it a second chance since I'm a firm believer that the initial response is the right one... So I was very straightforward, transparent and respectful... And what kind of messages did i get back? "Psycho", "Weirdo", "Take a pill to your embitterment", "your not to my level anyway", "I can't believe I even tought about texting an odd weird person like you" only showed they couldn't handle me telling them no.... Most of them through the year became way overweight, thier looks dwindled while I aged like fine wine... A colleague was shocked when I told her im 37 years old because she thought im actually 25 years old.

    • @JayGrinding
      @JayGrinding Рік тому +1

      Charged Up🔋

    • @thereisnopandemic
      @thereisnopandemic 11 місяців тому +1

      @@barak9966not all women have 10 fingers, some have 7

  • @FoxxAddamz1
    @FoxxAddamz1 2 роки тому +181

    Literally have seen grown women behave like children when they couldn't get the guy they felt "entitled" to. Even spread vicious rumors and lies about him in an attempt to "damage" his reputation... Smh

    • @boss_don_dada7176
      @boss_don_dada7176 2 роки тому +5

      Fax

    • @therryandpaol3430
      @therryandpaol3430 2 роки тому +11

      Funny, How I’m going through that right now 😂🤦🏾💯

    • @user-jq6jj6ye1i
      @user-jq6jj6ye1i Рік тому +2

      ​@@therryandpaol3430 same 😢

    • @sudarshangs4235
      @sudarshangs4235 Рік тому

      I have experienced that😂😂😂😂

    • @lo8020
      @lo8020 9 місяців тому +2

      Its happened to me many times at work. its anoying but that how women are.

  • @theboyboymurph
    @theboyboymurph 2 роки тому +158

    Most females like to be the better looking person in the relationship.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +43

      Truth.

    • @robertpitts8161
      @robertpitts8161 2 роки тому +58

      Facts! Sometimes a female don't like you because she think u gonna get all the attention in the relationship lol.

    • @Frankya92
      @Frankya92 2 роки тому +14

      Have a player friend that says he sees this all the time

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat 2 роки тому +15

      I remember Michael Blackson made joke about himself getting fine women because he will never be the dimepiece in the relationship, lol

    • @x97s
      @x97s 2 роки тому +7

      @@targetegrat 😂

  • @troytroy9958
    @troytroy9958 Рік тому +32

    Us handsome guys got it bad, dudes jealous cause females like you females mad cause they scared of rejection, gotta always keep your eyes open and watch your back. I'm to the point I hate being handsome. It happens in every state I move too, I'm running out of places to live. All I want is peace.

  • @SN-yn6it
    @SN-yn6it Рік тому +64

    Most of my problems come from rejecting the plain jane women especially at work.
    They are the worst, boarder line ugly women with ugly personalities, and you have to tip toe with the rejection.
    If you reject them they will retaliate, use shaming tactics, neg you and worse of all… they will spread lies about you to the dimes that you actually want to date.
    Just approach women that you are attracted to, if you settle for these plain janes, you will suffer..I promise you. Run.

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo 10 місяців тому +4

      Facts… I’ve experienced this firsthand. The ugly ones become extremely vindictive. I had some fat ugly chick telling me that I look like a Ho from day one. It wasn’t a shocker when she started treating me horribly after thinking that will somehow turn me on and get me to chase her. Some of them will treat you like crap because they think that’s the only Way they could Get your attention, because manny insecure guys with fragile egos actually respond to it and try to prove themselves. She ended up crying when I was done with her. Looking completely shocked and hurt that she didn’t get the response she wanted. Insecure women are hell to work with if you’re an attractive man or woman.

    • @ResilientBeing1987
      @ResilientBeing1987 7 місяців тому +2

      The baddies can be just as crazy though because they're ego driven. I have women associates who could be models and they play games and do the same thing as these plain jane women you speak of. Looks have nothing to do with it. It's about the level of confidence they have and whether or not they're ego driven.

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 2 роки тому +89

    Literally had a chick tell me today that I'm just too "blind" to see how good we could be together. They'll really make you feel like you're doing them so wrong. But then you remember how she, and other women, have dumped other guys for any reason. Then you don't feel so bad

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +42

      I've had that happen. They always do something to let me know I was right to reject them. Always.

    • @coolcarlosa66
      @coolcarlosa66 2 роки тому

      I've never understood that. I've turned girls down and everyone be mad at me like I'm supposed to be with these girls cause they chose me lol.
      Meanwhile when they turn down all the guys wanting to be with them, nobody cares lol. It's the weirdest thing to me.
      Next thing I know I'm an asshole or gay. God forbid I'm just not interested.

  • @quintonmaldonado8368
    @quintonmaldonado8368 2 роки тому +122

    A lot of women don't realize that if a man can look past his lust for a few seconds when dealing with her, he can usually see multiple red flags like a Chinese parade off in the distance. Yeah they might LOOK good but that might be it.

    • @quintonmaldonado8368
      @quintonmaldonado8368 2 роки тому +13

      @@VeaireProductions I had to light a female roommate up when she tried to jump in the middle of a conversation me and my friend were having. She was extremely arrogant and I pretty much told her why she got dumped by men that are worth anything. She actually put her hands over ears and said lalala 😂

    • @Roadmannerism-cc
      @Roadmannerism-cc Рік тому

      @@quintonmaldonado8368 truth hurts, hence we go to church for it.

  • @mrsteinbergenson7348
    @mrsteinbergenson7348 2 роки тому +124

    I never used to be confident within myself and because I’m handsome Women used to assume I was Gay because I wasn’t flirting with them. Now I’m older (26) I realised they where just projecting their insecurities onto me. Women can get vicious if you aren’t massaging their egos.

    • @mclean2099
      @mclean2099 8 місяців тому +3

      Same, didn't click for me until I was 27.

  • @versatylepoetry
    @versatylepoetry 2 роки тому +50

    On point as usual.... handsome men trigger a plethora of emotions and thoughts inside a woman before he does anything

  • @Lorenzo83579
    @Lorenzo83579 2 роки тому +67

    If a man gets rejected, he thinks he just wasn't her type.
    If a woman gets rejected, she thinks she's ugly.

  • @westsi1
    @westsi1 2 роки тому +131

    The following quote goes for both men and women:
    "Do not be upset with rejection. Nice things get rejected all the time by those who can't afford them."

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +35

      Good point.

    • @wanderer5200
      @wanderer5200 2 роки тому +4

      Now that is a great quote. Do you know it's source?

    • @kasebakaseba9009
      @kasebakaseba9009 2 роки тому +5

      Or those that don't understand

    • @westsi1
      @westsi1 2 роки тому +7

      @@wanderer5200 Don't know who said it, but I got it from an Indian quote video.

    • @westsi1
      @westsi1 2 роки тому +2

      @@kasebakaseba9009 Facts.

  • @jaythedon318
    @jaythedon318 2 роки тому +22

    Some women have e no problem rejecting a man but get devastated when they get rejected.

    • @samuelgomez3311
      @samuelgomez3311 3 місяці тому +1

      Rejection wounds works like this, so you reject others all the time and others reject you too... And the wound is present all the time hahahaha

  • @stonymontana9773
    @stonymontana9773 Рік тому +18

    😂😂 can’t count how many times I’ve been called gay by a girl who I didn’t like back

  • @NicoAssaf
    @NicoAssaf 2 роки тому +148

    I knew this girl in college and while talking about relationships and stuff she told me that women shouldn't be with guys that are "better" than them because that was gonna be a problem eventually. She wasn't that good looking but plenty of my guy friends would've (and still would) hit that, so it's not like she didn't have any options. That stuck with me and sometimes reminds me not to take rejection too seriously. Some girls will reject you out of fear, insecurity and being intimidated, so you should take that as a compliment.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +59

      I've said several times that most women prefer to be the better looking one in a relationship. There are exceptions of course.

    • @nurhayat81
      @nurhayat81 2 роки тому +25

      That feels narcissistic to me.

    • @NicoAssaf
      @NicoAssaf 2 роки тому +2

      @@RomWills Definitely. Ever since I started watching your videos that conversation's been popping into my mind a lot. You're the man Unc.

    • @NicoAssaf
      @NicoAssaf 2 роки тому +18

      @@nurhayat81 To an extent, yeah, but I think it was more about keeping herself emotionally safe and not have her heart broken, although I admit that it's probably about having more power in the relationship as well.

    • @bigpharma2705
      @bigpharma2705 2 роки тому +1

      @@nurhayat81 a lot of women are narcissistic.

  • @AndreTheGiant85
    @AndreTheGiant85 2 роки тому +69

    Brother Rom you ain't never lied about women and there insecurities I see it everyday in the gym and these are women who are in shape. If women started to get the type of rejections that men got they would be on suicide watch.

  • @vaughnamir.6457
    @vaughnamir.6457 2 роки тому +39

    At this point, the only reason I care about being handsome is purely monetary. Modeling, or just getting further in life because you're more marketable.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +24

      You I'm always telling men to get that money for themselves. Get every penny you can from being handsome.

    • @vaughnamir.6457
      @vaughnamir.6457 2 роки тому +5

      @@RomWills 😂😂 facts

  • @robertpitts8161
    @robertpitts8161 2 роки тому +77

    I have literally had woman try to physically fight me over not paying them no attention lol. I got arrested last year because a female who liked me got mad because I laughed at her after she tried to start an argument with me, and she just swung on me lol.

    • @Frankya92
      @Frankya92 2 роки тому +17

      Damn, that sucks. Guys gotta watch our backs sometimes

    • @mannygonzales1985
      @mannygonzales1985 2 роки тому +25

      Damn, these women are off the chain man smh

    • @MBrown-ux9ev
      @MBrown-ux9ev 2 роки тому +14

      Lmao that's a damn shame bruh

    • @robertpitts8161
      @robertpitts8161 2 роки тому +5

      @@MBrown-ux9ev Real shit! But most of narcissistic as hell!

  • @preo_pushin_p.2323
    @preo_pushin_p.2323 2 роки тому +102

    Being Handsome has its pro and cons. Handsome and 'fit" men, some women automatically say in their heart "what does he want with me? smash & pass? nah I'll take ugly ducky" making what Rom says a truth, insecurities no matter what level of beauty, she'll fall victim to them.

    • @protouch502
      @protouch502 2 роки тому +10

      Dang couldn’t have said it any better this is BIG FAX

    • @preo_pushin_p.2323
      @preo_pushin_p.2323 2 роки тому +23

      @Tik Toks of culture. being handsome times can be a lonely path, but in those moments you find you inner stardom.

    • @jackiechun5817
      @jackiechun5817 Рік тому +1

      YESSIR! THIS RIGHT HERE IS THE TRUTH! I see SO MANY DECENT LOOKING (and some thick asl) 🐦 who act insecure and will ignore, avoid, act Standoffish,be super quiet in my presence yet will interact,flirt,call,text,chill with,suck,fxxk dudes who're cocky 4's and thirsty 5's...while she wants nothing to do with the stocky-buff,handsome, MASCULINE guy.💯💯💯💯💯💯🤣

  • @michaelharris7190
    @michaelharris7190 2 роки тому +61

    True story a coworker of mine white boy blond hair with blue eyes. Muscles and tattoos trains with MMA. Only has been at my job for about 3 years. When he got here my supervisor as well as the female coworkers were all crushing hard on homey. All of a sudden about a year after he got here he started getting written up a lot. Well he would do trifling stuff but my sup started going for him super hard to the point he got suspended.
    One day I asked why this sup was coming for him so hard cuz at one point she was even stalking him on Facebook. He told me that the one sup kept asking him out and even asked if he thought she was old and he pretty much declined her offer and told her yea she looked old lmao. He was totally aloof to the point she was hitting on him and rejected her. Since then his life was hell at work. Till the point he just quit last week.

    • @davaughn2376
      @davaughn2376 2 роки тому +23

      I went through this same exact thing and everyone around me tried to downplay my situation but it’s cool because I’m still shining. It’s hard being handsome fr.

    • @Roadmannerism-cc
      @Roadmannerism-cc Рік тому +8

      @@davaughn2376 people often want what they cannot have. Stay on your purpose Kings.

    • @thenoobgamer8545
      @thenoobgamer8545 Рік тому +3

      Man, the same thing happened to me in university. Because of the rumours I had to drop out

  • @AnNguyen-vn4sy
    @AnNguyen-vn4sy 2 роки тому +74

    The way a handsome man approach with game is not the same as someone less attractive. Handsome men also tend to draw negative emotions from guys around them, especially when other men are insecure with themselves. It get fucking annoying having guys give me the stare or do stupid shit in the gym when I walk by. Nothing shows insecurity like a man acting macho 🤦🏻, instead be friendly and carry on as if it’s just another day. Women can pick up on these subtle things.

    • @jackiechun5817
      @jackiechun5817 2 роки тому +4

      Correct man!👍🏾 I fight the urge to wanna ragdoll and fold dudes up all day bc they do the most and I. Never seen the clown a day in my life 😒

  • @GrownandHealthy
    @GrownandHealthy 2 роки тому +65

    This is why the "look up and away" when they walk past.. They fear rejection more than an actual injury. The handsome man should be charismatic, to sooth her fears of rejection, even if we reject them anyway.
    Handsome men still have to put in work (approach)...being attractive puts their guard on high.. They would rather deal with the certainty of not being rejected, than the 50/50 chance to be with someone they admire.

    • @jamesrick7351
      @jamesrick7351 2 роки тому +2

      when a girl does the look up and away it means she thinks she is above your league

    • @GrownandHealthy
      @GrownandHealthy 2 роки тому +8

      @@jamesrick7351 for You.

  • @morganthem
    @morganthem 2 роки тому +102

    Having accidentally rejected a fairly attractive woman before (and a few on purpose) they do not take it as well as you think they would. They might hold a grudge even.

    • @robertromero8094
      @robertromero8094 2 роки тому +27

      I know a guy who rejected a hot girl she's been stalking him for 15 years. Literally find her at the end of the road, drives past the house. It crippled her lol

    • @x97s
      @x97s 2 роки тому +30

      @@robertromero8094 its weird how hot women have more "options" than men but still act goofy like that

    • @saihemebillings2820
      @saihemebillings2820 2 роки тому +12

      Do true they act as if you beat up they grandmother of something.

    • @denzel9455
      @denzel9455 2 роки тому +10

      @@x97s it's not about the options women want every dude to desire them you can have 100 guys in one room with her and she is gonna be happy BUT if number 101 comes in and is not looking her way and/or greeting her she is gonna be upset about it.
      -
      I see these things on a daily basis they can feel your energy if they feel that you're not one of those guys who is thirsty for her at first she is gonna try you after that she is gonna send you that so called "passive aggressive" energy back like you ever wanted her lol.

    • @coolcarlosa66
      @coolcarlosa66 2 роки тому +8

      I had two girls make false accusations. One I actually liked but she wanted a relationship and I was not in the right place so I didn't pursue. Thought she should be free. Idk what she said but she told friends I had done some shit to her.
      The second was a FWB. Also wanted a relationship, but I was happy with our FWB arrangement. Didn't see her a lot because of the pandemic. Her choice. She got frustrated and said she "felt like I raped her".
      Told her I would sue her if she ever said that again. I have texts, videos and pictures that prove she was not doing anything against her will and she wanted more.
      They hate being rejected.

  • @IcyBandicoot
    @IcyBandicoot 2 роки тому +57

    Handsome men will definitely benefit from more videos like this OG. Excellent insight

  • @DANIEL-tq8zt
    @DANIEL-tq8zt 2 роки тому +62

    This handsome men series is Gold. Both the videos and the comment section are fire

  • @sarahsimpkins1311
    @sarahsimpkins1311 2 роки тому +20

    We are now living in an society where men & woman can't take Rejections!
    If you get Rejected just keep it moving.

  • @enriquegarcia9004
    @enriquegarcia9004 2 роки тому +54

    Man, it’s good to see someone who actually understands women that doesn’t automatically call them hoes. You have my respect sir.

  • @joseph6243
    @joseph6243 2 роки тому +48

    Can confirm all of this as well. I'm not even super model handsome and it's happened to me. Some women if they feel intimidated by you will also reject themselves basically, like they have this expectation for you to reject them so just flirting or interacting makes them feel insecure or overwhlemed.

  • @mannygonzales1985
    @mannygonzales1985 2 роки тому +32

    The game goes deep, and so many factors involved. I have four sexy latinas at the gym I go to, that I know I can get with if I tried. I’m tall, pretty ripped, good jawline etc etc. But women are fickle. They see shooting their shot as getting close to you, or squating right in front of you, and you not saying anything they see as rejection lol. Like you have a damn mouth, so you can use it too. Plus I’m not thirsty, I can take it or leave it, I’m there to build my body anyways, so it’s a win either way for me.

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому +7

    I handle it well. Rejection is God's protection.

  • @Mainomane226
    @Mainomane226 2 роки тому +62

    All facts uncle Rom. I was just out last night and calmly told a chick to take my number down after she was dancing and gyrating for me. She smiled and looked at me, and said NOPE because you're handsome and I can tell you're used to getting your way. I just smh and chuckled about it. This video is right on time.

    • @NicoAssaf
      @NicoAssaf 2 роки тому +38

      Funny that some girls think we have it easy so they make it hard so it's actually never easy. Smh indeed.

    • @dsetgetatme
      @dsetgetatme 2 роки тому +30

      Wow!! That's crazy Maino Maine...She had a legit shot at a guy she finds attractive and still self sabotage herself because of insecurity

    • @torachan23
      @torachan23 2 роки тому +9

      Imagine if men told beautiful women "no" for anything, because we know they're used to getting their way. I bet she went home feeling really powerful after leaving the club

  • @Aaringrey
    @Aaringrey 2 роки тому +52

    Thanks Rom, these videos helped me understand how intimidated women are of handsome men, I sometimes catch that vibe when I talk to them.

    • @Aaringrey
      @Aaringrey 2 роки тому +1

      @@crosses101 thank you for saying that, I was smashing this one chick and all she was saying was “god? Are you playing a trick on me, are you getting me back for all the guys I did wrong” but she was a succubus and best believe I got tf outta there

  • @shawnwilliams2381
    @shawnwilliams2381 2 роки тому +50

    This is very true. Had a girl push me in high school because I didn't want her. Lol

    • @AndreTheGiant85
      @AndreTheGiant85 2 роки тому +13

      Bro I remember I had one who didn't want and she would give me the death stare in the hallway. 😆😆😆

    • @shawnwilliams2381
      @shawnwilliams2381 2 роки тому +6

      @@AndreTheGiant85 smh tsss bro that crazy..I got alot of stories... Women can't take rejection because they've been told all their lives that every man wants them.

  • @David-ej1ps
    @David-ej1ps 2 роки тому +51

    "where is your girlfriend?", "how come i don't ever see you here with a girl?", "you probably out there finishing these girls?"
    people just don't like it when you have something good and aren't wasting it in a manner that they think is best

  • @mjwooten6022
    @mjwooten6022 2 роки тому +18

    once had a woman at work start a gay rumor about me cause i turned her down.

  • @Ronin_Noir
    @Ronin_Noir 2 роки тому +35

    This video gave me flashbacks!! Ive experienced obsession, possession, and women who stalked me and I wasn’t even in a relationship of any kind with them. Ive even been in alleged relationships with women that I didn’t know existed. 🤣 🤣 All because I ignored them and thought some other women were going to get my attention, so they told/tell people we’re talking.
    Then when I turn down their advances; I’m either Gay, suffer from low self esteem, or low testosterone, have an STD, etc. Or they’ll go to their SIMP male friends who’s trying to get in their pants and feed into their egos. Happens all the time, Can’t make this stuff up.

    • @Ronin_Noir
      @Ronin_Noir 2 роки тому +6

      @@JohnPierre-lz6vb One if the stalkers I had to move to another county in a gated community and it took me 2 years to get over that. Always thought someone was following me and constantly looking over my shoulder.

    • @coolcarlosa66
      @coolcarlosa66 2 роки тому

      Yup! But nobody ever says anything when they turn down all the good guys trying to get at them.
      But when we turn them down, we're gay lol. Bitch, I just like other girls more than you. Time and resources are limited baby girl.

  • @raygengamer8440
    @raygengamer8440 2 роки тому +17

    Several months ago a co worker wanted to hook up... I basically said no. And she flat out says to me. "Fine your ugly anyways." I mean ok dear have a good one.

  • @dsetgetatme
    @dsetgetatme 2 роки тому +56

    That's way I have the upmost respect for the few women that make the effort to approach a guy they find attractive... I don't look down on them at all......If she is halfway decent looking.. 90% of men will say YEAH if she asks then out....That boldness will serve them well at the end of the day...

    • @coolcarlosa66
      @coolcarlosa66 2 роки тому +2

      Absolutely! I find that if you introduce yourself and walk away, the ones that like you will approach.
      You just gotta read the signs and take advantage. If you want to.

  • @Malik_Hoff
    @Malik_Hoff 2 роки тому +24

    Thank you for these handsome man videos

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +15

      There is surprisingly big demand for them.

    • @Rob-fp3xq
      @Rob-fp3xq 2 роки тому +10

      @@RomWills yes, people think the game is so easy for us but we actually deal with a lot of challenges

  • @chucknoris7648
    @chucknoris7648 2 роки тому +55

    I’m struggling with this I really like this one woman she thinks I’m out of her league I’m a handsome man. She acts like I’m a player but in reality I’m a introverted romantic type guy.

    • @SAMack-xd2fn
      @SAMack-xd2fn 2 роки тому +6

      Why are your introverted? Just be bold.

    • @The-Next-Chapter
      @The-Next-Chapter 2 роки тому +33

      @@SAMack-xd2fn its not that easy I'm a introvert at heart, but I understand a closed mouth don't get fed..for some introverts it HARD getting out of your head

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 2 роки тому +35

      @@SAMack-xd2fn lol introverts are bold. He is just the shy type. Introvert just means you get your energy from yourself. Extrovert get their energy from being around others

    • @MsJoyce31202
      @MsJoyce31202 2 роки тому +4

      @@donatello9482 👍

    • @x97s
      @x97s 2 роки тому +5

      @@SAMack-xd2fn there are 4 types of introverts some are bold some arent

  • @marlboropiked
    @marlboropiked 2 роки тому +43

    GM Brother Rom… this was good one. One of the things I’ve picked up on with women insecurities. Is their passive aggressiveness… they’ll ask questions like, you probably like big butts don’t you? women who don’t have big butts, they always ask that question lol! Or they’ll sometimes quickly tell you things that they don’t like about their body early on because they don’t want to feel a certain kinda way once they are naked… especially if they’ve given birth before or feel like they aren’t in the best shape… it’s like they’re trying to feel you out to see if you’ll be pleased with their body…They will also bring up past failures with other men as warnings to not repeat the same things that man did… Also sometimes when a woman is insecure, she’ll become extra clingy, especially in public… a lot times the woman that’s with a handsome man will see other women checking her man out & she’ll immediately start marking her territory by constantly showing public displays of affection..

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +15

      You know how women do things.

    • @luke304
      @luke304 2 роки тому +4

      💯💯💯

    • @luke304
      @luke304 2 роки тому +4

      All Factssss

  • @eksquisite
    @eksquisite Рік тому +11

    i used to play in a left 4 dead 2 server where there were a bunch of chicks and i flirted with most of em but that one time a chick really liked me , she threw hints like crazy and openly sex talked in the general chat. One day i ignored her a bit cause she was annoying and flirted with some other chick. Next day she gets me kicked from the server saying i was being abusive to her and calling her names, imagine

  • @seanknight9808
    @seanknight9808 Рік тому +8

    Very good point about the abandonment issues-why do you think you see many beautiful women, even 10's, with some scrawny, nerdy douches or scroungy looking guys. The thing is, she will find out later that even that 'lesser' guy can just as likely hurt her as a handsome guy!

  • @darrenstar4557
    @darrenstar4557 Рік тому +20

    I've experienced women that will do anything for attention. If you don't pay them any mind they'll cause some type of confrontation to demand you acknowledge them.

  • @aroundthewaytrucker2760
    @aroundthewaytrucker2760 2 роки тому +5

    Man! You are good; that was right on! Cleared up a lot of questions.

  • @andrewthomas7097
    @andrewthomas7097 2 роки тому +11

    you have been dropping gems in the handsome men series unc

  • @sawgerrera7025
    @sawgerrera7025 2 роки тому +20

    I completely agree, I cold approached a girl who was with her cousin (girl), the girl I didn’t try to talk to still holds a grudge against me til this day, I ran across that girl years ago and she was bar-tendering at a club, she waited till the bar cleared out before serving me and I was sittings the bar

    • @saihemebillings2820
      @saihemebillings2820 2 роки тому +4

      @@crosses101 lmao so true when you really think about it smh

  • @stevethompson2442
    @stevethompson2442 2 роки тому +1

    1000 on this one Brother Rom. THANK YOU.

  • @SLGreen979
    @SLGreen979 2 роки тому +1

    Great topic ! I’ve learned to let them down easy. Lots of women lack game and the ability to handle rejection.

  • @tedzee71
    @tedzee71 2 роки тому +10

    Man spittin grown man facts

  • @jimhuerta9038
    @jimhuerta9038 2 роки тому +7

    Hey Rom, you are the man, the more I watch your videos, the more I’m impressed by your knowledge . Excellent content.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому

      Thank you for your support.

  • @poisondaddy
    @poisondaddy 2 роки тому +55

    Rejecting can cause them to get obsessed with you. Some of them. That's the type that will hate/love you though. Proabably stab you if they ever get a chance and tie you to a post down a basement so nobody else will get at you. Some of these chicks are little psychos. Serious stalking is involved too.

  • @joealkanovski513
    @joealkanovski513 2 роки тому +3

    This Channel is so underrated

  • @luismiguelrodrigues6151
    @luismiguelrodrigues6151 2 місяці тому

    Great content!

  • @luc74
    @luc74 7 місяців тому +1

    Blessed to know you bro… your knowledge in the handsome game, what i needed, i untouchable… its crazy, i always thought why are these girls all find me so attractive and then when i approach one, the choosen one, she act so nervous and in fact of that, of her insecurity and the thinking, im too good for her, or she never dealt with a guy like that… she went crazy rude and kind of like ghostet me, and there was no reason to act like that. But yeah insecure human can also face up a mask and you dont see that first.

  • @eucanlikdis
    @eucanlikdis 2 роки тому +3

    This man doesn’t miss .

  • @dickfitzwell3093
    @dickfitzwell3093 2 роки тому +1

    Peepin game, great spill on the female perspectives. Never would I thought of that until I would experienced it myself . 💯

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 2 роки тому +6

    That guy going throughout the club asking for dates. ❤

  • @jammerabni9784
    @jammerabni9784 2 роки тому +1

    A wise and mature brother

  • @101elelky
    @101elelky 2 роки тому +6

    That’s why I’m glad I have the perfect mix of ugly/handsome/average. Im 6’4, nice smile, athletic build, hairline is super bad, patchy beard, average 6 incher.

  • @MsJoyce31202
    @MsJoyce31202 2 роки тому +4

    We'll live.

  • @alvinhollingeriii2562
    @alvinhollingeriii2562 2 роки тому +7

    Is what it is.

  • @x97s
    @x97s 2 роки тому +3

    Dealt with this with girls in middle school and high school many times

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 2 роки тому +1

    Facts 💯💯

  • @Mronmypurpose
    @Mronmypurpose 2 роки тому +6

    I kid you not, I ended up having relations with this beautiful 35 years old. At the time I'm 25. She would ask me everytime I saw her, "what I wanted from her". Like I saw nothing attractive about her, because she saw me as more attractive. She stayed in the rotation for 2 years.

  • @kwamd.1461
    @kwamd.1461 2 роки тому +4

    Most women are very insecure. This is real talk Unc💯

  • @andrewmahone3182
    @andrewmahone3182 2 роки тому

    Game for the handsome guys out there fasho!

  • @thahzjj1
    @thahzjj1 10 місяців тому +1

    I overheard a woman call me passive at work. It wasn't a job where I could lolligag so I took it on the chin and kept on working

  • @K-Fetti
    @K-Fetti Рік тому +3

    It’s always funny when they assume you trying to play hard to get…. I don’t do that either I want to or I don’t… I’m making the decision… no convincing…. Even when they are attractive…. No need to smash em all

  • @Tottykidd15
    @Tottykidd15 2 роки тому +32

    Yo Rom this is happening exactly with me,
    I am 6ft 1 handsome and followed your body game advice..
    Women tell me Im attractive all the time but are too scared to get with me..
    Sometimes I even see them shy or lose composure when I ask for simple things like directions..
    Whats interesting is the high number of insecure women out there.. most simply cant handle even being around me without smiling too much or sometimes even insulting, saying stupid things to me to avoid rejection or embarrassment.. its funny to watch but it sucks when I am attracted to the woman

    • @troytroy9958
      @troytroy9958 Рік тому +4

      They do the stupidest things to try to get you to give them some attention, they don't know that's a turn off, when they can just simply say I like you.

    • @tuthures5824
      @tuthures5824 Рік тому +1

      most girl don't know how to "game" since they're used to the guy investing.

  • @fronttowardenemy7972
    @fronttowardenemy7972 2 роки тому +15

    Yes indeed and if it's on the job things can get real ugly fast!

    • @lampardf2333
      @lampardf2333 2 роки тому +5

      Absolutely. Made the mistake of playing with some girls in my workplace and they are just evil with me since I dont want anything with them. If i was ugly they would just not give a fuck about me for bad or for good.

  • @dennisd292
    @dennisd292 11 місяців тому +1

    Im overt in language and in thought, so I’ve rejected a lot of women because they covert in the way they came at me.
    Not all of us had someone there to teach us about women and how they interact with the world.

  • @masonaguirre4064
    @masonaguirre4064 2 роки тому

    Facts

  • @oftenthisawesome2485
    @oftenthisawesome2485 2 роки тому +1

    It’s bullshit how low your subs are like real shit I like steph is cold but this is cold with wisdom and seasoned experience

  • @madlemming1711
    @madlemming1711 2 роки тому

    It's true

  • @cy_young_9104
    @cy_young_9104 Місяць тому

    I had to reject a dime because she thought her looks were enough.

  • @melissataylor1398
    @melissataylor1398 2 роки тому +18

    🤣The rejection from middle school be so for real for us. Nevermind the fact we are 28 and bad af now☺️. Rom you dissect women like frog in science class lol

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +8

      Many women have shared their perspective with me to keep me from being played.

  • @emanueleuribe550
    @emanueleuribe550 2 роки тому +3

    How do i know which is the personality that can deal with a handsome man and which is the one that doesnt?

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +4

      There's no science to that. Personality compatibility is another subject. In general though naturally pretty girls can deal with handsome but that's only the surface.

  • @papayo8178
    @papayo8178 2 роки тому +2

    Rom is Ghanaian? I see the the adinkra symbol on the wall

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +10

      Not directly. My ancestors likely were. I just feel a connection to the symbol.

  • @JayGrinding
    @JayGrinding Рік тому

    💯 Million Percent

  • @averageguy7633
    @averageguy7633 2 роки тому +3

    Rom what does it mean if a girl I like always ask people around me in our class about answers and stuff but never acknowledges me..it’s like she’s scared to even look at me and talk directly at me..ps I’m a very charismatic guy and handsome

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +10

      She just might not like you. Don't worry about it.

    • @lo8020
      @lo8020 Рік тому +3

      She intimidated or doesn't like you.

  • @mr.soundguy968
    @mr.soundguy968 Рік тому +1

    That's why average women often reject handsome men quickly, so he can't do it anymore. It's the only power she has. If she were together with him then he'd have all power. What's funny is that she often still hovers around

  • @JayGrinding
    @JayGrinding Рік тому

    💯

  • @a5dollars
    @a5dollars 2 роки тому +4

    I’m handsome, like very handsome and man I needed this type of content. Cause this dating world is so confusing.

  • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
    @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 Рік тому +1

    I ain’t even reject her that much I just told her no and then she acted like I did something bad to her

  • @weareit9530
    @weareit9530 2 роки тому +2

    Serious question unc Rom, is it harder for very handsome men to get in relationship than to be a player

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +4

      It can be. Players aren’t that picky.

  • @egyptianstain
    @egyptianstain 2 роки тому

    Rom what is the name of the tantra dude you refer too?

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому

      Check out this site, www.grandtrineint.com.

    • @egyptianstain
      @egyptianstain 2 роки тому

      @@RomWills I know bout Yao you had mentioned another dude

  • @libragang874
    @libragang874 Рік тому

    Thats me

  • @TimBarnett-pl9kd
    @TimBarnett-pl9kd 9 місяців тому

    You call this guy, handsome? He's rough& tough confident controlled an powerful beyond handsome!

  • @ftvco7786
    @ftvco7786 2 роки тому

    Rom what’s up with a Ex stalking you and she fine after she broke up with you then you rejected her from her attempt to return and she starts watching you for a few years?

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +7

      She know she made a mistake.

    • @ftvco7786
      @ftvco7786 2 роки тому

      @@RomWills thank you Rom much love

  • @n.m.3760
    @n.m.3760 3 місяці тому

    When you reject her then she calls you gay. 😂

  • @oftenthisawesome2485
    @oftenthisawesome2485 2 роки тому +6

    I’m very handsome and I’m here to tell y’all when I do nothing I get nothing just like any guy it’s trash because peoples imagination about the ease of your sexual interactions couldn’t be farther from the truth I pull teeth just like u to get a girl to talk to me fuck me it’s all my work so stop hatin cuz as a man that doesn’t benefit u n the way u think it will infact they’re more likely to not say a word to u because you’re so handsome

  • @jayslungsbloodclot2733
    @jayslungsbloodclot2733 Рік тому

    3:55 damn

  • @briarrosethorne5189
    @briarrosethorne5189 9 місяців тому

    Yup. 👍… I choose men who not attractive or who have low confidence because I like to be able to have some power over them

  • @Von.NorthEnd
    @Von.NorthEnd 2 роки тому +9

    Do you consider yourself handsome?

    • @bigji06
      @bigji06 2 роки тому +9

      What a stupid question

    • @The-Next-Chapter
      @The-Next-Chapter 2 роки тому +15

      @@bigji06 no its not

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 роки тому +46

      The women I've dealt with over the years consider/considered me handsome. Well handsome and sexy. I don't think about it hard personally and quite frankly another heterosexual man shouldn't either.

    • @Von.NorthEnd
      @Von.NorthEnd 2 роки тому +10

      @@bigji06 it wasn't stupid. When he talks about handsome men he always says "they" instead of "we" so I didn't know what he thought of himself.

    • @Von.NorthEnd
      @Von.NorthEnd 2 роки тому +4

      @@RomWills I only asked cus you always say they instead of we.

  • @redpillnow9127
    @redpillnow9127 2 роки тому +3

    So rejected an attractive man become an ego boost for most ugly woman 🪐🪐🪐

  • @dsetgetatme
    @dsetgetatme 2 роки тому +4

    Had a female co-worker who I liked and went out a few times would frequently made comments about her own weight.... She would say things like "I don't wanna be fat" Im trying to drink more water" or "I'mma order a 12 inch sandwich...can you order a 12 inch sandwich so I don't feel fat" lol.... I wonder if she felt that way with other guys... She was decent looking as well...

  • @barak9966
    @barak9966 Рік тому +1

    Basically attempting to gas light me .. "she" wasn't the one to send me the text, it "was her friend who wanted to inspect me"... Than she proceed to tell me she feels sorry for me because I'm so ugly which leads me to be insecure because I'm afraid a woman who lookes so good won't want me .. this is the b.s she wrote me for telling her no .. yeah right, I'm ugly, that's Why I was offered a modeling job... I simply laughed my ass off when I read her message, such a pity a woman who is studying psychology is doing gasket gaslighting...