It's Better to be Seen as Sexy than Handsome by Women

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 92

  • @soyafuera
    @soyafuera Рік тому +131

    When you're handsome they look. When you're sexy they stare. Won't care that you catch them staring either. You have made me a true disciple of BODY GAME

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 Рік тому +20

      true. they don't care when you look and they get caught. she will see a guy she likes looks at him till he looks her way. she will gold the look for anumber of seconds and look away. she may do it 2-3 more times and is the start of the flirting process. women are the initators 90% of the time.

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 Рік тому +8

      @@banderas2000 , subtle flirting

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 Рік тому +9

      @@tre_4 yup. Very few are blunt like that.

    • @kwamd.1461
      @kwamd.1461 Рік тому +5

      🔥✅💯

    • @chiefbeef5590
      @chiefbeef5590 7 місяців тому +4

      No sometimes when your sexy they look away

  • @pnice3666
    @pnice3666 Рік тому +92

    Women that call me handsome try not to rush, the women that call me sexy want to get to it right away 😅😂

  • @stormnorton2625
    @stormnorton2625 Рік тому +97

    Yep, I’m 6ft5, considered handsome by most women and been asked to be a model several times. Rom is totally right. Women will stare, give comments about my looks and some girls even make the first move (usually the ugly ones) but when it comes down to the actual attraction… we’re all in the same boat. I’ve been rejected, ghosted etcc like everyone else. I used to think it was about looks in the past, And it done nothing… just a bunch of empty phone numbers because My mouthpiece weren’t tight.
    Some women are intimidated and some have even said they don’t want to continue anything with me because of the fear of competition and them being heartbroken…
    Looks aren’t all that and just thought it’s helpful to give my perspective.

    • @abryepenez124
      @abryepenez124 Рік тому +4

      @@genovasquez8361 Bingo! There it is!

  • @cavaliib1889
    @cavaliib1889 Рік тому +50

    Uncle Rom isn’t lying if they think your sexy your already in there

  • @AyeYoZay
    @AyeYoZay Рік тому +72

    I used to work with a guy who was handsome and muscular but his personality was goofy. And even though there was this girl who was best buds with him. That’s all they were, best buds. You can tell that she saw him more as a brother. Whereas me and her never really talked much but one day I came back to the place just to say what’s up to the people and she was all in my face and shit. That job had really put a dampen on my energy too so by the time I had came back I was 100% me again. Always been taught to carry myself a certain way, shoutout to da dmv, but that day she must have smelled my energy when I walked through the door. Peeping that though made it clear to me that just because you have the looks dont mean shit. You gotta have the energy too

  • @LeemireGoldwire
    @LeemireGoldwire Рік тому +46

    I believe in the energy. Creating that energy and vibe with her. Tapping into her emotions will get her everytime

  • @christopherpayne8146
    @christopherpayne8146 Рік тому +17

    100% facts I was already getting women before I started working out. When I started working out out I got more women and better quality.

  • @KraziChidi
    @KraziChidi Рік тому +54

    Just turned 30, I’m 5’8 and 195lbs of lean mass. Once the body came together it was like night and day. I had this lightskin chick slide into MY dm’s and want to FT me, and I’m seeing her this Friday, and for all the height-pill people, she’s taller than me.🤣💀

    • @KraziChidi
      @KraziChidi Рік тому +3

      @@barche21 FaceTime lol.

    • @KraziChidi
      @KraziChidi Рік тому +3

      @@genovasquez8361 that’s right!!💪🏾💪🏾

    • @mikelsales3599
      @mikelsales3599 Рік тому +12

      Body game take time ; I’m on my journey right now tho

    • @Poussyeater-w5e
      @Poussyeater-w5e Місяць тому

      Love to hear it man. Hope y'all had fun. I'm 5'5, but that ain't gon stop me from getting wrapped up in em tall girls' legs lol😂

  • @banderas2000
    @banderas2000 Рік тому +44

    it's about mannerisms fershure. as well as teh BODY. but also depends on the woman. when you enter a room or a new place do you walk with a confident stride? do you stop at the door and look around before entering like a lil child? or do you walk in like you own the place. they see that. when i walk into some place i walk like i own it , i go at a medium pace. i walk with purpose. and i see the eyes on me. they see a man who is sexy. that's just the tip. they like a man who can be heard , speak up when needed, decisive. and stands in confrontation . they get wet over shit like that. know yourself , own yourself, believe in yourself and women will be saying " you so sexy, you got my soakin, she'll be wanting IT again and again. oh yeah, hit the gym lol

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 Рік тому

      @@genovasquez8361 fershure. depends on the girl. but ur right.

  • @abryepenez124
    @abryepenez124 Рік тому +34

    I had a random female say I'm handsome recently just to get my validation. Women that call men handsome say that for their own pleasure just for attention. Just because a woman says a guy is handsome doesn't mean she has high interest for him and women that do that use the term handsome to avoid mentioning they don't find handsome men appealingly attractive.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  Рік тому +11

      Real talk.

    • @joelrobert4053
      @joelrobert4053 Рік тому +15

      That depends on the woman. Some women that called me handsome I was able to hook up with while others it was a no go.

  • @rellconnects4695
    @rellconnects4695 Рік тому +29

    Being told I wasn’t certain women usual types I understand fully now , they type were the rough street types while I displayed laid back calm groomed looks and confident about my performance abilities

  • @donnelladams8362
    @donnelladams8362 Рік тому +17

    Absolutely right that's the whole point of being select

  • @melvinlloyd9915
    @melvinlloyd9915 Рік тому +28

    Unc Rom I learned in my Sexual Psychology class if you can't please a woman in the bedroom it's over...Every since I heard that I try to destroy a woman in the bed b/c I don't want her to talking about me. And I got a B+ in the class..Unc Rom keep spitting that game...Like you say make her holla or go sit down.

  • @MassGainingGuy
    @MassGainingGuy Рік тому +16

    Yeah I get called sexy everyday, it's such a hard life!

  • @AndreTheGiant85
    @AndreTheGiant85 Рік тому +14

    All they have to do is look at Jonathan Majors Rom. Nobody was calling that man sexy until he got swole and went all in on bodygame.

  • @jordanm.official
    @jordanm.official Рік тому +60

    I just started watching the video, but I’m going to give my personal testimony based on what I believe uncle Rom will talk about in this video.
    I have a “model face” based on what many women have told me. When I was younger, I would often get called handsome or cute.
    However once I went from being 135lbs to 170lbs with lean muscle mass, the V shape physique, etc, that’s when women started calling me “sexy” or “fine AF”.
    Body game, with or without the “model face” is game changer.
    Women love my face, but my BODY is what arouses them.

    • @thomasvogelsinger4007
      @thomasvogelsinger4007 Рік тому +7

      Thanks for sharing

    • @okeythegoat2332
      @okeythegoat2332 Рік тому +17

      Body game is underrated plus great personality too💪🏿

    • @jordanm.official
      @jordanm.official Рік тому +17

      @Okeythegoat 23 Yup. Having a cool, humble and down to earth personality when you’re a good looking dude, will have you on god mode.
      Looks (Face & OR Body) + Charisma = will have women hooked on you.
      I couldn’t tell you how many times women mentioned my personality (in a good way) and how they didn’t expect me to be the way that I am.

    • @stormnorton2625
      @stormnorton2625 Рік тому +1

      @@jordanm.official hey man, have girls ever ‘auto rejected’ you because of your looks? They perceive you to be a certain way when you’re not? It’s frustrating but it is what it is.

    • @jordanm.official
      @jordanm.official Рік тому +11

      @@stormnorton2625 Not overtly, but I’m sure covertly and I didn’t notice it.
      I’ve had a lot of experiences in my life where women thought I was going to be a jerk because of my looks but then once they got to know me, they realized I was the exact opposite.
      That’s why that “A-hole” persona is cap. Looks just make it easier for you to get through the door.
      For good looking men, it’s more important to be humble and down to earth. Women are looking to disqualify good looking men from a personality stand point.
      That’s why if you’re good looking AND you have a cool personality, you’re good from there.

  • @maravilloso002
    @maravilloso002 Рік тому +48

    Handsome get typecasted in negative ways. You couple being handsome w/ introversion that just adds more fuel to the confusion. You'd think that being reserved/introverted would turn women on more, b/c you aren't a risk to open your mouth and can be discrete. Woman can assume you suck in bed or whatever, but that goes to show you that many ppl (including women) have no framework to build on w/ these kinds of men. Always appreciate the content unc.

    • @o_ss3284
      @o_ss3284 Рік тому +19

      I've been misunderstood all my life. I used to want people to understand who I am but I don't care anymore. Like Dale Carnegie said, "Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation, for your character is what you are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are."

    • @maravilloso002
      @maravilloso002 Рік тому +16

      @@o_ss3284 just be true to yourself. Every man has a tribe. Sometimes I’m guilty of overthinking things. I too have to realize that most ppl are cliquey, so being handsome sometimes allows you to not have to follow the social untold rules, depending on where you rank.

    • @CalmAndCollected11
      @CalmAndCollected11 Рік тому +7

      @@maravilloso002 Facts!! You broke it down in a way that I always felt. However, didn’t quite know how to articulate how and what I was feeling. The results and indulging in the fruits your labor and of self improvement gets lonely. Preach!!

  • @Ajay.427
    @Ajay.427 Рік тому +23

    I only get called sexy due to my behaviour.

  • @HabibiQalbi786
    @HabibiQalbi786 Рік тому +20

    Handsome man here women acknowledge my looks but never pursue. I am happy with that as I am introverted and looking for a true equal to compliment and complete me. Keep spreading the knowledge Boss.
    Can you make more handsome men videos.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  Рік тому +6

      Check my out Handsome Man playlist.

    • @kameronturner6301
      @kameronturner6301 Рік тому +7

      Check out "the underdog" he is the king of handsome men game

    • @Poussyeater-w5e
      @Poussyeater-w5e Місяць тому

      If you want a woman to complete you, you're creating a cycle of codependency. Stay sharp

  • @marlinshanklin1855
    @marlinshanklin1855 Рік тому +7

    They don't call you the Field Marshall for nothing.

  • @zachsimmons382
    @zachsimmons382 Рік тому +10

    Rom I could be wrong, but I think what you said here at 14:51 is could be relevant to that viral tweet that girl put up about Michael B. Jordan a few days ago. “If a woman is turned on by you sexually, and like I said, that’s more than just your face and more than just your body. Those are good, but is she gonna like how you moving. Are you coming off corny or goofy?” I feel for the dude and kinda hate it for him, because he’s generally considered handsome by a lot of women. He’s got a great physique as well, but many women are still saying something is missing. She said it was an “edge” in the tweet, but I believe that word translates into sex appeal. Or maybe these black women just throwing shade at him because he’s dated outside his race. Idk.

  • @sterlingshelton4849
    @sterlingshelton4849 Рік тому +8

    I'm handsome, I trying to get my weight back up so I can be sexy again. Women would just stare at my face, and say damn. When i first got my weight up after my intestinal surgery. When would just look at me say Damn. I heard the Damn about more than a 100 times just in one month

  • @kingk.2547
    @kingk.2547 Рік тому +14

    I never been called sexy always been called sexy. Even my mom never called me that. She always said I have player potential. I always got that you can get it. Tone and look from women even girls growing up.

    • @TrillBill
      @TrillBill Рік тому +24

      With all due respect brotha, a boy/man should NEVER expect his own Mother to call him "sexy".

    • @kingk.2547
      @kingk.2547 Рік тому +4

      @@TrillBill that wasn’t what I was getting at. Did I ever mention my mother calling me sexy? No I didnt

    • @TrillBill
      @TrillBill Рік тому +1

      @@kingk.2547 I'm just saying

    • @TrillBill
      @TrillBill Рік тому

      @@MIGGYME1 😅

    • @joelrobert4053
      @joelrobert4053 Рік тому +2

      @@MIGGYME1 He meant handsome

  • @da835t
    @da835t Рік тому +11

    All the players know this

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  Рік тому +6

      The non-players always argue about this.

    • @da835t
      @da835t Рік тому +2

      @@RomWills if only they knew

  • @dpayne5399
    @dpayne5399 Рік тому +6

    Very underrated channel 💯 especially watching in the morning good energy

  • @dvampofo
    @dvampofo Рік тому +20

    Thanks for constantly sharing your wisdom and insights Rom.

  • @strengthbrosforlife
    @strengthbrosforlife Рік тому +6

    Mode One / Body Game Nation

  • @mr.soundguy968
    @mr.soundguy968 9 місяців тому +5

    Yes. Handsome = pretty. Women want to be the pretty one.

  • @mikelsales3599
    @mikelsales3599 Рік тому +6

    This is very true , a good example would be ginuwine alotta women would still consider him handsome but not sexy , simply because the body not there no more but I feel like if you a handsome man you can be sexy if your body is on point 💯‼️

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Рік тому +7

    Speaking all facts Unc Rom 💯

  • @absalompiankhitv
    @absalompiankhitv Рік тому +6

    Shouts out to Uncle Rom

  • @absalompiankhitv
    @absalompiankhitv Рік тому +8

    Salute 💯✌🏾

  • @bossplayermfs5972
    @bossplayermfs5972 Рік тому +5

    Affirmative 🎯🎯🎯.

  • @BIGWORLD0074
    @BIGWORLD0074 Рік тому +8

    I'm yet to get that sloppy slurp just for being handsome 😆

  • @mattlaws8499
    @mattlaws8499 9 місяців тому +3

    FACTS

  • @shawnwilliams2381
    @shawnwilliams2381 Рік тому +6

    Agree...

  • @deoncovington9485
    @deoncovington9485 Рік тому +5

    Uncle rom

  • @versatylepoetry
    @versatylepoetry Рік тому +5

    Yep all #facts

  • @jholliday3
    @jholliday3 Рік тому +6

    Yeah lady ask me how much I could lift and wasn't concerned about my bech press.

    • @weareit9530
      @weareit9530 Рік тому +4

      Did you say I can lift you lol

  • @chadfox6030
    @chadfox6030 4 місяці тому +1

    A lot of gen z women don’t want kids so I actually see them with a lot of USP types with body

  • @LeekTheGeneral
    @LeekTheGeneral Рік тому +3

    Rom u ain lyin I moved last year befo I came back to md & dis one girl I met was sayin how I should take da condom off when we fuck cs she wanna “feel me” dis is goin on 2 months & ima be honest I have da face I js need to get my sex appeal up bonus about the relationship she said she wanted to be inna relationship she also said “she’s not that typa girl” when we first met which mean she was tryn play good girl to get the relationship outta me (I looked betta btw she even said dat) so yea sex appeal will make things a lot more smoother than js a handsome face for SEX but for a relationship or even a friendzone but then u gotta question who let footprints thru the drive thru inna winter time while u went to the store for 30 min😂💯

  • @ONLYALEXISOMAR
    @ONLYALEXISOMAR 10 місяців тому +2

    Women value a man’s looks the same way a man values a woman’s finances it’s cool if it’s there but that’s not what they’re looking for

  • @jesussosa1150
    @jesussosa1150 Рік тому +7

    🎺🎺🎺🎺🎺🎺🎺

  • @troyeclectic777
    @troyeclectic777 Рік тому +9

    Dam Uncle Rom. 🫢. Jk man look, a lot of men try to come at me like, niga you don’t get this and that, but if you ain’t did half the shit on my list, smh you’ll get embarrassed. I tell mfs now, the close you get to 40-50s you better be in shape shape. ✅

    • @roystongibbs7189
      @roystongibbs7189 4 місяці тому

      Amen to that. 44 year old with pretty decent build. Going to get back to fasting to hypermode it. Salute

  • @Judah92
    @Judah92 4 місяці тому

    My ex didn’t think I was good looking she always would say I’m sexy especially the lips 😂😂